China Billionaire Men Try Online Dating

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Although they say that online dating site GOLDEN BACHELOR was created for super rich Chinese men who are seeking love online - but not just any old love - love from well-to-do women who also come from aristocratic backgrounds.

But personally, I think that's bullcrap. I think that China is a full on sausage factory and they're realizing that finding any women, let alone an artistocrat, is incredibly difficult, if not impossible. So, they had to think up a gimmick.

XU TIANLI, the founder of dating site GOLDEN BACHELOR, says that members must pay $44,000 to become members of the site, and must possess the following:

* Personal or family wealth of at least $292,000
* A blueblood background
* Great personality
* Good looks

Xu Tianli also claims that he has over 5 million members on the site already and they utilize "love hunters" to actively seek beautiful women to introduce to these men.

Most recently, on December 20, 2009, Golden Bachelor held a matchmaking party in which 21 single women tried to impress 22 eligible bachelors by putting on wedding gowns, cooking food and sang and danced. Wow, that doesn't sound demeaning.

When all was said and done, 80% of those who attended found a date. I wonder how many of them had a second date?

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How To Get A Perfect Mate With Online Dating Secrets

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Dating is no longer a mystery because dating secrets have been revealed. Now, every single can date with his/her soul mate. Here are top dating secrets:

LISTEN MORE AND ASK LESS Keep in mind that everybody loves to share knowledge with other person. If you are on date then never ask bunch of questions from your date. Always listen to him/her properly if he/she wants to convey something. Don't forget the first rule listen more and ask less.

GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR This is the best weapon to win a heart of anyone either boy or girl. Everybody loves to laugh and your date is not exception. While enjoying on date, make sure that your partner is also enjoying it without any problem. Try to make him/her laugh.

EFFORT Nobody is perfect in this world and any perfect one can make a mistake. So, never feel discourage or bad if you do anything wrong. Show your true efforts to make things right at any cost. People love to see that other person is trying 100% to make their wonderful.

Dating secrets are not a mathematical equation or formula. But yes they can help you a lot in day to day life.

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Romantic Date Ideas Discover The Senses

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It will be really enjoyable to have a romantic sunset with your love partner. Sitting together in the dark and watching a full moon that is coming up over the horizon. They all are great date ideas but if it is done in a well manner. The date can also be very romantic and as simple if you park your car somewhere and view the rising of the moon. Or may be a cool location where you can lay down the blanket and have wine by watching beautifully to each other.

To enjoy the full moon rising moment, pull up one of the moonrise calendars in the links sections and just look at the schedule. On the other side, you can find a good place where you can easily view the full moonrise moment. All those who want to eagerly try this date but are finding a good moonrise time then they can consider watching the moon set as an option. It is not as impressive or surprising, but can prove to be an ideal romantic date.

You can arrive that place within an hour before moonset. You can take some of the food stuffs like chocolates, hot cocoa, strawberries, cheese etc in order to make the date more romantic.

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How To Sleep With A Girl On The First Date

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Most guys think it would be easier to sleep with a girl by taking her directly from the club to their house the same night than it would to get a number, meet for a date and then do it. However, if you know what you are doing, you will be able to sleep with girls on a first date very consistently, and even if it only took you a few minutes to get the number. Here's what you do:


When you call, tell them that she can come with you for a drink at a nice place you know. Make the meeting place within a few minutes of your house. Make the meeting time sometime after dinner in the evening. The reason you meet in the night should be clear if you have ever had a coffee shop date where the sexual tension and excitement has all fizzled out over an hour or two of boring conversation. This also leads on to the next rule.


When you meet her, hug her, kiss her on the cheek, and take her hand, put your arm around her, or walk arm-in-arm. I'll make something clear, if she has met you for a date, attraction is assumed. She'll be comfortable as long as you are. Lead her to the venue if you didn't meet there already.


Once in the bar, sit within touching distance of her. Don't leave a big space between you. Your conversation should be aimed at getting connections. Mix in some playful teasing and also some sexual looks. This should mix things up and ensure the sexual tension remains.


Now hopefully you live in a city where the bars close at 11pm. If not, you can say, "let's go somewhere else". Throw in a reason if you like - too noisy, crowded, smoky, whatever. Lead her outside and walk down the road with her towards your house. As you walk, keep the conversation going about whatever you were talking about. She will be distracted until you reach the house.


When she realizes you have taken her to your house, she will object in 90% of cases. Like "where are we?", "why are we at your house?" Here you can either say you wanted to show her something (a pet, some pictures), say you remembered you had some nice wine so she can come in for a bit but that you can't stay up late because you have to wake up early. Remember that this is only a logical objection, if she is still walking with you, she does actually want to stay with you.


When in the house, let her sit down (I only have a bedroom and she can only sit on the bed!). Get her a drink and sit a little bit away from her. Put some music on if you have it. Give her some space and time to get comfortable. Tone down the sexuality (unless she is obviously raring to go). Give it some time, then pay her a compliment and move in and start kissing. Be slow and smooth, slowly work up. If she objects again, just move back a step and keep things going.

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Best Movie Lines To Use On Women

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Some of the best lines come from movies, where each word is carefully thought out and delivered to a tee by some of the sexiest characters around (okay, maybe Austin Powers is a bit of a stretch). If you want to keep her coming back for more, use some of the best movies lines. Just remember; it's all about delivery.





WHEN IT WORKS: While in deep conversation, in a romantic, low-lit (read: magical) setting. You have to be as slick as Don Juan to pull this off, but if you have the confidence, go for it. It has the potential to turn that special lady into putty in your hands.

WHY IT WORKS: What girl doesn't love the idea of someone trying to figure her out? Telling her that you want to solve the mystery that she is will send chills down her spine and further pique her interest in you.



Gone With the Wind (1939)

Stars: Thomas Mitchell, Barbara O'Neil, Vivien Leigh

WHEN IT WORKS: If she's playing games or being moody or indecisive. Refrain from using it in public!

WHY IT WORKS: It's the law of attraction; the moment she feels like you are losing interest or care less than she does, she is bound to be even more attracted to you. The moment you take charge, she'll hand over control.



Jerry Maguire (1996)

Stars: Tom Cruise, Cuba Gooding Jr., Ren'ee Zellweger

WHEN IT WORKS: If you're trying to get more serious during a relationship talk, although there's a good chance she might burst out laughing. Try not to be cheesy like TOM CRUISE though. You have to tell her what you mean and why.

WHY IT WORKS: Every girl wants to know she's the missing piece to your puzzle. Making sure she knows how big an impact she has on your life will only benefit the relationship.



Austin Powers (1997)

Stars: Mike Myers, Elizabeth Hurley, Michael York

WHEN IT WORKS: In a very relaxed, playful setting or while out at a party. Delivery is key - you have to be funny and charming at the same time.

WHY IT WORKS: Women are used to being told how beautiful they are and how much guys want them. Breaking the mould by talking about yourself and showing her how confident you are with an line is guaranteed to get her attention.

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Popular Online Dating Activities For Men

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Heads up, gents. Online dating can open up new doors of opportunities with a little help from real world dating tips that work. Spice up your matchmaking with some of these ideas.

Kindness Counts

Point out nice things or the lemonade in life – nice things the other person has mentioned, nice acts the person has done, good things on the news latterly, etc. Be upbeat, and forget those lemons in life. Even in email a person can shout, by using all capital letters. So show manners and kindness. Keep swearing, unkind remarks, prejudice, etc. out of your communications. And “do unto others….”

Looks Count

Comment on how attractive she is. Yes, women do want to know they are pretty, even if they’re online and you can’t see them and have no idea. So in your communications, ask questions that would help you know, but in an unobtrusive way like – how do you wear your hair? And then say how attractive that must look.

Today’s online dating tip: If you’re interested, send an email, not a wink.

Once upon a time lived a lovely young heroine looking for love. She looked left, and right, but didn’t find it. So she opened up her laptop and registered on an online dating site and there it was, staring her right in the face: LOVE! So many online options, she thought woefully, and yet so little time to meet each gentleman in her busy life of prancing about looking for love.

So add some helpful real-world tips that do work (a lot of the time anyway) into your online dating equations. And come up on the positive side of romance – and enjoy more lemonade!

Two potential online suitors tried to contact our heroine. Each boasted a lovely profile replete with a handsome visage, bulging biceps, stable source of income, and witty disposition. Our busy heroine was delighted at the possibility of being courted by one of these bachelors, and yet she had not the time to spare to contact both in return.

Our heroine was flummoxed. Which lucky man would win a date, and which would be sent home without a rose? (Wait….wrong scenario.) Just as she began to fear she was at an impasse, a lightbulb appeared directly above her head and she saw the solution clearly! After turning off the lightbulb to conserve energy, she realized that while one of her potential suitors had sent her a thoughtful email conveying his interest and demonstrating he had read through her profile, the other bachelor had simply sent her a wink. This wink, while considerate, took no effort and gave no indication whether he had even read through her carefully constructed online profile.

Our heroine had made her choice! She responded to the suitor who had taken the time to write her an email. They enjoyed a brief email correspondence, began a courtship, and lived happily ever after.

*Story has been slightly embellished to illustrate a point; any likeness between fictional protagonist and fictional suitors is purely coincidental. For example, protagonist has not yet found true love and therefore has ample time to write online dating advice columns. For example.

**While an email will improve your chances of receiving a response, a novel will scare someone away. Do not write a fourteen paragraph treatise in your first email contact! Short and sweet will do just fine.

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Positive Psychology

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Self-confidence is having an optimistic estimate that you are going to achieve a goal of life. Ralph Waldo Emerson said: "Confidence is the first secret of success." Some say that if you have self-confidence, then you will have unlimited opportunities in life. So how does one enhance self confidence? Although there are no quick fixes, there are some simple tips you can take with you in your daily life.

* FOCUS ON YOUR STRENGTHS. Write down ten of your strengths on paper, regardless of which part of your life these concern (you are careful, your eyes are pretty, etc., the more the better). When you engage in new activities, think of these advantages you possess, and remind yourself of your powers. This will help you improve your self-confidence while engaging in unrelated activities. This is called "spreading the effect of self-confidence." This technique works well in raising self-confidence when performing new tasks.
* BE AROUND CONFIDENT PEOPLE. Simply being around other confident people can help. It is said "Who keeps company with the wolf will learn to howl".
* THE SELF-PSYCHOLOGICAL HINT. Once you make some progress on your own, tell yourself: "I can do it!", "I'm doing well", and so on. This conditioning can work over time, and will continuously improve your confidence.
* SET A CONFIDENT EXTERNAL IMAGE. Keeping clean, tidy and appropriately dressed is good to strengthen one's confidence, Secondly, behave like a self confident person! In the beginning, you may feel strange and certainly incongruent, but you will become more accustomed to it over a period of time. Also, keep fit, forming a good shape body is also very helpful.
* DO NOT BE OVER-MODEST. Modesty is necessary, but not in excess. One can begin to believe our own overly modest statements about our skills.
* SMILE! Smiling increases your sense of happiness, thus subtly enhancing self-confidence.
* AVOID YOUR WEAKNESSES. In your studies, life and work seize the opportunity to demonstrate your strengths and expertise, while trying to improve in your weak points.
* READ BIOGRAPHIES OF FAMOUS PEOPLE. A lot of famous people's qualifications, their external environment and living conditions were not good but they triumphed against this adversity. Reading these can help you see how anything is possible.
* PREPARE. Before engaging in an activity, if you are fully prepared, then you will have more self-confidence in this activity. Also, preparation is conducive to the successful completion of the activity, which will enhance your overall self-confidence.
* SET A GOAL: Set yourself a proper goal, when achieved - make a higher one. Goals cannot be too high, otherwise they are impossible to achieve; if too simple, they will not help your confidence.
* ADVENTURE. When you do daring things you have not done before, your confidence gets a great boost - even if it unrelated to the parts of your life you are struggling in.
* TRY TO LOWER PRESSURE. Too much stress makes you depressed and doubt yourself, thereby destroying self-confidence. Find ways to rule out excessive pressure is of great help to maintaining self-confidence.
* DO THINGS YOU LIKE TO DO. It is easy to succeed in some things, because the more you like to do something the more you put into them. This creates a sense of achievement, which is very conducive to increased general self-confidence.
* KEEP HEALTHY. Pay attention to nutrition, ensure physical exercise -a good physical and mental condition will produce your own happiness, and produce self-confidence.

Self-confidence is the key of success. If you want to become a great person, you can use these steps to help increase your self-confidence. Believing you can do it is the first step to achieving anything. Building up self confidence is not a particularly simple thing, and you need to take it one day at a time. But learning to trust yourself and know your strengths and limitations can afford you a new world of opportunities.



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Superkids The Hurried Generation

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David Elkind's book

Now in its third edition David Elkinds book is worth a read.

Two basic metaphors have underpinned learning but now we have third. The first (and oldest) is the idea of the blank slate, or tabular rosa. This is the basis of our current industrialized mass education system, best seen in our secondary schools. This metaphor results in students gaining education from knowledgeable teachers in an assembly line factory schools, divided into forty minute periods, run by bells, books, tests and timetables. It is a 'sit and git' model - or 'jug and mug'!

Much of the current school curriculum developments, imposed on schools, continues this metaphor with its obsession on educational measurement and the need to demonstrate the 'added value' the students have gained from their teachers.

The second metaphor is that of a growing plant. This is seen best in junior schools. This metaphor is based on providing a stimulating and supportive environment to encourage the learner to grow and to develop their gifts and talents appropriately.

The latest metaphor, and one with unhealthy consequences, is that of the 'super kid'. This has resulted in what Elkind calls the 'hurried child'. Arising out of an ideology of individualism and competition, this metaphor puts pressure on parents to hurry their children through childhood to give them an advantage in the future. It is an outcome of the 'dog eat dog', 'me decades', or the 'yuppie me first' culture!.

This hurrying is understandable in an age of increasing speed and insecurity and there is a growing industry ready to provide whatever any parents requires to give their child an academic advantage, non the least the computer industry! Parents often feel guilty if they aren't providing all they can.

Unfortunately most of what is being provided goes against what we know as age appropriate learning. What young children want is not to grow up quickly but common sense parents with clear values who, care, love, understand and give their chidren their time.

Children, Elkind writes, need to learn self confidence, to be able to cooperate with others, require 'normal' competition, and most of all, time to do whatever they want to do the best they can. They need to value their spontaneity and be able to make age appropriate choices and not be forced to grow up to soon. They need to value their own creativity and expression and not be rushed into pseudo pre - school readiness activities. They need time to mess around, to explore their natural environment using their senses, to play imaginative games with others, to learn to think for themselves, and in the process, learn to appreciate their unique gifts and talents.

Rushing children, Elkind writes, leads to anxious and stressful children. Children can easy begin to blame themselves for their failure by not getting the 'right' answers. Trying to reach impossible expectations seems to realize its worst effect in the teenage years resulting in 'learned helplessness'. This is a term that expresses the feelings students have when they cannot meet what others indicate are necessary expectations. For such students school becomes 'like a bad job', resulting in depression and burnout. Free floating anxiety, aggression, withdrawal and uncertainty, and worse, are the prices to be paid for rushing.

In school rushing children leads to standardization, testing, uniformity and an unhealthy obsession with doing things right rather than experimenting. Social skills and creative arts suffer as schooling is increasingly focused on literacy and numeracy.

The key is to live well in the present and not be so concerned about rushing into the future. Parents should enjoy simple experiences with their children and schools, rather than rushing to cover everything, should stop and do fewer thing well.

Instead of rushing, Elkind says, children need to be nurtured in a relaxed environment which gives young people opportunities to make age appropriate choices and, through trial and error and sensitive adult help, grow in discernment. Freedom, responsibity and reasoning cannot be rushed and all grow from healthy relaxed trusting relationships.

Elkind writes. 'The art of living is the most difficult task children have to learn. It is the children's right to be children, and to enjoy the pleasures and to suffer the pains of childhood that is infringed by hurrying. In the end, a childhood is the most basic right of children'

Where are people actually rushing too?

Are there aslo hurried teachers - trying to achieve impossible imposed expectations with equally stressful effects?

Quality if life is what it is all about.

Worth thinking about?

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March 14 Is Steak And Bj Day

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In an effort to make up for all the chocolate and flowers that men have to buy women on Valentine's Day, men now get their own day in which women have to give them the gifts that they want. It's on March 14, and it's called Steak and BJ day.

Every 14th of February you get the chance to display your fondness for a significant other by showering her with gifts, flowers, dinner, shows and any other baubles that women find romantic. Every Valentines day you rack your brains for that one special, unique gift that will show your wife or girlfriend that you really do care for them more than any other.

Now ladies, I'll let you in on a little secret; guys really don't enjoy this that much. Sure seeing that smile on your face when we get it right is priceless, but that smile is the result of weeks of blood, sweat and consideration. Another secret; guys feel left out. That's right, there's no special holiday for the ladies to show their appreciation for the men in their life. Men as a whole are either too proud or too embarrassed to admit it. Which is why a new holiday has been created.

March 14th is now officially "Steak and Blowjob Day". Simple, effective and self explanatory, this holiday has been created so you ladies finally have a day to show your man how much you care for him. No cards, no flowers, no special nights on the town; the name of the holiday explains it all, just a steak and a BJ. Thats it. Finally, this twin pair of Valentine's Day and Steak and Blowjob Day will usher in a new age of love as men everywhere try THAT much harder in February to ensure a memorable March 14th!

The word is already beginning to spread, but as with any new idea, it needs a little push to start the ball rolling. So spread the word, and help bring love and peace to this crazy world. And, of course, steak and BJ's.

Because the name of the holiday is self-explanatory, women don't have to worry about what to get their men. It's simple: a kickass steak and some memorable oral sex. Swallowing is optional.

Steak and BJ day was popularized by radio show host Tom Birdsey in 2002, and has since become a phenomenon among men who really want that steak and BJ. Can you blame 'em?

I think that men definitely deserve a holiday in which to call their own. I mean, let's face it; Valentine 's Day really is all about the women and men get stressed about what to buy them and whether or not their women will like it.

So why shouldn't men get to enjoy a day that is all about them? Don't men deserve to have a day where they get to devour a big, juicy steak and then get devoured by the very woman that made it for them?

If you ask me, I think that this holiday deserves way more recognition and that women definitely need to start stepping up their game with male appreciation.

The only thing I would recommend is perhaps changing the name, as it may not become a mainstream name that big publications will market.

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She Losing Interest

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I met a woman online and we have been dating steadily for 3 months. The thing is, she gets so caught up with work and her social life that she never seems to have time for me.

I feel like I'm the one who's doing all the calling, setting up all the dates, and making all the moves. At first, she cleared her schedule for me - I was the number one thing in her life. But now it seems that she is more interested in everything but me.

I feel like I'm losing her but she insists that this is just part of life and that she's still very into me. How can I make her make me a priority again?


Nothing feels worse than when you find your relationship slipping away. The first 3 months of any relationship is the "perfect stage." This is where couples are infatuated with their new love interest.

Being the man and calling to set up dates is something many women expect the man to do. After 3 months, things settle into a groove. If you are slipping down on the totem pole, it's time to have a talk with her.

Sit her down and ask her what she thinks of the relationship status. Let her know that you would like to spend more time with her. If she is happy with the present schedule, and you are not, perhaps it's time to start dating other women.


I am dating a much younger man - he's 23 and I'm 42. He treats me

like gold and I love spending time with him. So what's the problem? Well, wherever we go, young girls are always hitting on him and treating me like I'm his mother.

At first, I didn't think much of it, but now it's really starting to take a toll on my ego. Should I stay with this guy who claims to love me or should I try to find someone my own age and settle?

I really adore this younger gentleman and he doesn't even seem to notice these younger girls. But I'm afraid that if we stay together, he will start to notice them in a few years. What do you think? Can relationships between younger men and older women really work?


" Mania, Cougar "with Courteney Cox, and official Cougar Conferences, you are not alone in dating a much younger man. As a matter of fact, it's now in vogue.

Dating younger men is not a new concept. Look at the long-standing relationship with Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins which recently ended after 23 years. I'd call that a good run. There's DEMI and ASHTON, JULIET MILLS and MAXWELL CAULFIELD.

If he truly loves you and you don't notice him staring at women closer in age to himself, you might have a terrific relationship on your hands.

Where the problem may arise is if he is interested in having children. If his goal is to become a father, or if he is uncertain about this issue, you could get hurt. Find out if your life goals are the same, and if so, enjoy the relationship.

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Sociology How To Be Just Friends

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How To Be "Just Friends"

How To Be "Just Friends" : Why is it so hard to remain "just friends" with the opposite sex? Studies show the relationship ends more times than not once sex is introduced. Keep the friendship. Keep it platonic. Why is it so hard to remain "just friends" with the opposite sex? Studies show the relationship ends more times than not once sex is introduced. Keep the friendship. Keep it platonic.

Step 1: Friends With Benefits

If you remember the real advantages of opposite-sex friendship, you probably won't throw them away for a one-nighter. Guys, you can express your feelings with her in a way you can't with the boys. Girls, you get a protective, big-brother type pal. And you both get the inside scoop on how the other sex operates.

Step 2: Dirty Tricks

If you do find yourself eyeing up your buddy, put up some barriers. Ladies, next time you go out with your guy friend, slack off in the hygiene department. Try wearing grandma underwear. Skip the shower. Don't shave those legs. It'll help you keep your pants on.

Step 3: Wear Yourself Out

Gentlemen, expending sexual energy before you meet up with your female friend will usually suppress any inappropriate feelings that may pop up. And gals, don't be ashamed. This will work for you, too.

Step 4: Converse With Caution

Don't let the chatter drift toward sexual innuendo. No one wants to hear another "that's what SHE said" joke. about your ex. Or irritable bowel syndrome. Or the reptilian humanoid conspiracy theory. Don't talk about how tight your bra feels today. If you need a back rub, keep it to yourself. Oh, and take it easy on the booze. Friends don't let friends drink...and dive into bed.

Finally, if you find yourself waking up with your best bud, take some space, then talk. Remember, you're friends for a reason and if you really do care for each other, it won't be hard to figure out if it's love, lust, or just the liquor.

Thanks for watching our video How To Be "Just Friends" For more how to videos, expert advice, instructional tips, tricks, guides and tutorials on this subject, visit the topic Getting A Date.

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Dating Book Review Why Cant You Read My Mind

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Why Can't You Read My Mind? By Jeffrey Bernstein

Too many women I know expect their men to be psychic and figure out what they really mean by what they say, and now author JEFFREY BERNSTEIN, with contributor SUSAN MAGEE, address this very issue in" CANT YOU READ MY MIND?

If you find yourself having the same silly fights with your boyfriend or husband over and over again and feel like you're getting nowhere, then this book is definitely going to help you with the very toxic behaviors and thought patterns that are leading to the same arguments" CANT YOU READ MY MIND? will help you point out the toxic behaviors on your end that are sinking your relationship and will serve to teach you how to address the issues that matter and resolve them without having to yell or break anything.

Of course, reading the book won't instantly change your toxic behavior - it will take you some time to make the changes and make them stick, but at least now you'll be equipped with the knowledge of what's causing these issues and the steps you need to take to have a happier relationship.

Reading this book is easy because Jeffrey Bernstein's style is upbeat and fun, and he uses plain English to drive his points home.

And perhaps you don't think that you have anything to do with the problems in your relationship, but after you read" CANT YOU READ MY MIND? , you may change your thought process on that.


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Antonio Sabato Reality Show

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If anyone remembers ANTONIO SABATO JR., it sure ain't for his acting skills. ANTONIO SABATO JR. starred as Jagger on the hit "General "and then modeled underwear for CALVIN KLEIN before doing a couple of crappy movies.

Well because the world [read: women] has not tired of looking at him, ANTONIO SABATO JR. is starring in a dating competition called in which 13 women compete for his affection, and it airs on Sunday nights on VH1

It's obvious that ANTONIO SABATO JR. is trying desperately to hang onto his looks - the teeth whitening, Botox and over-tweezing give him away. And the chicks... well, they've had a couple of procedures done as well.

The show takes place in Hawaii, and his mother and ex-wife also make appearances and sabotage his efforts at finding "true love".

Many things make the show laughable but the award winners are:

ANTONIO SABATO JR. cuts one woman for wearing open-toe sandals

He dumps another because his mother makes him

One bachelorette is obsessed with the notion that the other women want to steal her clothes

And one woman is like that chick in Seinfeld who cried about everything. Everything.

It's obvious that Antonio is just trying to hang on to the limelight for those last 15 minutes, but it makes me kind of sick that the F-list celebs are taking the limelight away from the nobodies who strive to be on reality shows.

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Flirting Tips How To Flirt In The Right Way

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Flirting is no longer a taboo in the society, even girls and boys both enjoy it. Flirting is an interesting activity if done wisely. Flirting is fun, it indicates that someone is interested in you or you are interested in someone. Flirting means giving the complete attention to him/her by touching, smiling, playing, talking, making different facial expression.

While involving in flirting activity, always keep in mind that flirting should express your feelings - in a respectful, decent, polite manner. There are few body language and body behaviour which help you to know, whether other person is interested in you or not:


o eye contact

o Dilated pupils

o Arched eyebrows

o eye movement and blinking

o toying with hair

o Smiling

o Kissing lips

o Touching the lips or teeth with tongue

o Thrusting chest or breasts outward

o copying posture

o Winking

o Crossing legs


o Smiling

o Laughing

o Whispering

o Personal questions like relationship status

Other Behavior

o touching

o hands in hands

o nervous

o avoidance of eye contact

o Standing on one leg or shifting weight back and forth

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How You Can Get A Chinese Girlfriend

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Why do you want a Chinese girlfriend? Have you considered the true answer to this query? I believe for many men it's really easy to answer as they have either been staying in China for years or else they have considerable experience with Chinese culture and Chinese ladies. On the other hand, if this is a dream for you and you haven't had any experience with China you might need to consider a bit on why you want a Chinese girlfriend.

For whatever reason, there are a large number of Western men who have a thing for Chinese women. It might be the slim bodies, the attitudes or the attention of Chinese ladies that causes them to be so sexy, but the point is they ARE sexy. Getting to China is simple enough and you might be surprised to learn that getting a Chinese girlfriend is simple enough too.

There are the obvious ways of connecting with ladies such as bars, but I wouldn't counsel going this route unless you're ready for distrust, requests for money and heart ache. There are better methods and you'll find that there are many awesome websites online to help you meet Chinese women. These websites have tens of thousands of girls all looking for the exact thing you are, friendship, love and maybe even marriage.

Any of the Chinese personals sites can help you meet literally 1000's of sexy Chinese girls who are anxious to make themselves your girlfriend. It won't matter whether you're in China or somewhere else in the world, these dating websites will make certain it's simple for you to locate a Chinese girlfriend. You'll find that a lot of the ladies sign up for love, but many are also there simply looking for some fun.

After connecting with some the girls, getting past the inevitable language problems and getting to know a few of them you're very likely to spend a bit of your time emailing and chatting online. If you can get a webcam this is superior as the ladies will definitely need to see what you look like. It shouldn't be too long until you get a fairly serious communication going with 1 (or more) of the ladies.

At this juncture you'll likely want to head over to China, if you're not already there, and meet up with the ladies in person. While the personals scene in China is fantastic for Europeans, there are thousands of guys who have gone the route of connecting with their Chinese girlfriends through Chinese dating websites. It definitely beats meeting the woblokes in a bar or club.

If you do end up going to China and meeting a lady in a club there are definitely some things to be aware of. It appears that many blokes lose all common sense when meeting Chinese women in bars, so attempt to maintain your wits and don't add to the fodder for tales about love gone bad on the net. Always remember that the entire reason women work in pubs is to make cash. They may fantasize of a knight in shining armor to take them away, but this is simply that, a fantasy, and earning cash comes first.

If you do correctly and take your time then there's no reason you can't find a Chinese girlfriend and love through the Chinese dating websites. Many sites on the web attempt to tell you about finding a Chinese girlfriend as if it is a set process, but it's really no different than beginning a relationship anywhere else. Just take it easy, be yourself and trust your gut.

It's not possible to completely tell you how to find a Chinese girlfriend in a post like this, just as it wouldn't be possible to completely tell you about finding a girlfriend anywhere in the world. The first step is to begin connecting with the women and the most simple way to do this is through the Chinese dating websites. After that it's up to you where you need any potential relationships to go. All I can say is that Chinese women are great and locating a Chinese girlfriend is simpler than you might assume.

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Good Girls Ho And Freaks

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The one that started it all. PlayerSupreme's classic post that has now been subsumed as part of the relationship matrix.

PlayerSupreme is one of the best proponents of dominant game. Where the man is the Man. We do miss him on masf. But you can catch his excellent podcasts here

I am going to borrow a few words from Da kidd from the pimps network and add

some of my own Sh*t to it to help talk about observation. I do hope those in

the know will add their own shyt at the end of this post so we can pool our

collective knowledge into one big assed info fest.


In this game, observation is the key. Without the ability to properly observe a

situation, the analysis of any given situation will be far from accurate.

It also helps to know what you are looking for in the women that you select.

According to Arthur Gordon there are 3 types of women out there:

1. the good girl. This is the type of B*tch whom a N*gga wants to marry or

settle down with. She is the nice one who does everything for her man. She

comes from her heart. Everything that she does is based around how in love with

you that she is.

2. The Freak. Ahhh the freak is the one who breaks N*gga's hearts, have them up

at night wondering where she is at and who she is fucking. Freaks usually

become strippers or those bitches you see who dress like all she wants is

attention. Freaks come at you on the sexual tip. If you look like your packin

and can put it down then they will be all up on ya. These are usually the ones

you see chasin after brotha's cause of our reputation for fawking and having

big dycks.

Which is exactly what they want, and they will get it from anyone. Most freaks

love sex and will always have a waiting list of N*gga's to call. You've seen

them with their garish outfits and overdone make up on. Usually they are the

freakiest dancers in the clubs. These are the bitches who just need a little

push to put them on the stage and from their onto a track selling that cat.

3. Ho's. These are the professional bitches who already ho. These bitches will

only do it for money or material gain of some sort. The mild form of a ho is a

gold digger. The serious form is your common street walking ho. According to

Gordon, many high school cheerleaders are ho's in training. They sell their

bodies to the atheletes for the currency of popularity. I'm sure you've seen

fine women with old assed men. Look at Anna Nicole Smith. She is a ho. Many

ho's become groupies for Sports or Entertainment stars. These are the ones who

marry those guys and then divorce them later for millions.

Knowing what type your dealing with will determine what type of game you spit

at her. Good girls you do the old fashioned Sh*t. Freaks since they only want

fun and sex, you show her how much fun it is hangin out with you. Freaks you

use your career or where your going in life and how much money and toys you


To try the approach of a ho on a good girl will get you nowhere. I'm sure many

people have seen or heard of idiots trying to impress a good girl with how much

money he makes and getting shot down.

Ok now back to further observation skills:

The amount of observation necessary varies per situation. If you are out of

town (or out of your environment), you shouldn't spend near as much time

observing as you would where you live.

The reason for this is simple. When your azz is on vacation, you can afford to

make a few mistakes like cold approaches (i.e. very little if any eye contact,

), because you aren't going to be there long enough for the consequences to

affect you. But, since the majority of us aren't going anywhere anytime soon,

so lets focus on long term observation.

The first thing you want to do when observing is to set up your 'base of

'. This is where you sit yourself down somewhere, be it school, the

club, the mall, whatever, and remain stationary. What I like to do as you've

seen me post is stand on the edge of the dance floor so that I can be seen and

can see who is looking at me.

You gotta fight the temptation to eye ball your surroundings. This makes you

look hungry like the rest of the nyggas up in thurr. Trust me, if a biytch

likes what she sees, she will put herself in your perimeter. Just make sure

that you are sitting or standing somewhere highly visible.

If you have to be the 1st one in the club to get a good seat. What you want to

keep an eye out for is what Da Kidd over at the pimps network (and whom I took

the outline for this post from
) calls 'the perimeter breach'. This is basically

when a girl is all in your

area. She will probably glance at you occasionally and jock you on the subtle

tip. She is wondering why if all of these other guys are up her ass, why aren't


How you react to this depends on environmental factors. "If you are out of

town, throw your fingers up and beckon that B*tch to you. If you are on your

home turf, try to chill. Remember, chances are that the B*tch lives there too,

and you will probably see her again. This is where patience kicks in.
"-Da Kidd

Da Kidd also said remain a mystery to them. He further went on to say that you

shouldn't try to run down every girl that you see. Remember the saying "chase a

ho and get a chumps cop, Stalk a ho ( do your homework on her ass) and get a

pimps cop. Cop stands for having her on your team.

This shyt will take some time to get used to, but will pay off in the long run.

" aren't going anywhere, and neither are they. Drive their

curiosity to a fever pitch. When they finally do speak to you or you decide

that they are jocking you so tough that it's time to make that move, the amount

of static she gives you (depending on your approach, of course) will be much of


One key thing to remember is this... women jock men on the sneak. Not the way

the we jock them. If you know this, you can use this against them. If you can

see them, then they can see my standing on the edge of the dance floor

or sometimes in the middle of it. I make people move around me sometimes. At

the edge or in the middle of the floor.

If a byitch is on your Sh*t, she will position herself where she can get a good

view of you. If you are sitting near the dance floor, and hoes start dancing

like right in front of you, chances are they are jocking you. Especially if the

dance floor isn't packed and they didn't have to dance right there. The less

crowded an environment is, the more 'clean-cut' observations are. If the joint

is jumpin', then you will have to rely

more on eye contact, proximity, and other subtle factors.

Here is an example: Lets say that you went to a mall or a lounge at school, and

a B*tch is sitting quite a ways from you and tries to throw some trash away in

the can that is in your proximity. No big deal right? WRONG. How about if there

was a trash can a lot closer to her than yours was. She didn't have to come way

over here just to throw away a lollipop stick, then return to her seat. Most

people don't think twice about things like that, but they should. That is an

excellent example of subtle jocking. If your obsevation skills are not up to

par, you would miss that incident and quite a few more which could have been

very revealing. Observations skills are hard to teach over the internet.

I always tell my buddies that I'm "on" 24/7. If I'm awake then I am alert and

paying attention. I always notice when women are jocking me. This is why I've

been successful in the night clubs at meeting women. You must pay attention at

all times.

About 4 years ago I went to this thing called Burningman

I was working for channel 6 in Sacramento with my buddy doing a story on this

week long freak fest up in the Nevada desert. I was at one of the huge rave

tents and had fallen asleep to the driving beats of techno/trance.

Suddenly I awoke to feel someone starring at me. I looked around and saw a ho

that I new from my own town trying to figure out if it was me or not.

Here is an exercise that I want you to try: sit yourself down in the mall or at

school or a book store and just practice. Watch which hoes decide to sit near

you even when there are chairs all over the damn place. How many times a

particular broad walks back and forth in front of you for no damn apparent

reason at all.

Do this for a little while, then try your luck at the club. In the club,

however, hoes are a little more aware that they are being watched, and will be

a little harder to read. But, if you know what subtleties to look for, it won't

be too hard. Soon you won't be getting dissed anymore because you will know

exactly which broad(s) actually want to holla at you. As you know about my

direct approach style based on my eye contact post, I don't holla unless the ho

is choosing.

There are other styles out there such as indirect and other seduction mixes.

With indirect you holla at every ho even if there is no eye contact. This style

you gotta have your game intact and going strong. There are pro's and cons of

each style out there.

But for this one get to practicing.

(credit PlayerSupreme MASF)

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Winning Your Ex Husband Back

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After having a difficult divorce or even annulment with your ex husband, you should give yourself some time before you consider getting ex back. If all the good and fun memories of you both are greater than the bad moments, it is an obvious sign that you get him back and relive your lives as a married couple once again before everything gets too late.

First things first. You have to stop acting desperate and start appearing smart. Calling him almost every hour, crying relentlessly and begging on your knees for your ex husband to come back is a waste of time and could only make get your ex back worse and more difficult. You have to let him think about thinks and give him space and time to reflect on the situation. Most of the separations are caused by uncontrolled anger and pride, and only after a couple of days, he will be able to see things rationally.

Stop making any communication with him for a while. It will only make him feel that he is really a lost on you and heighten his pride even more. During your silence and nonchalance, do not get surprised if you will get a call or a text message from your ex husband and he will ask you out. however, even if it is a good sign that he is willing to make all ends meet, do not count on that as a way to get your ex back. Give him a week or more to set things right and pursue you as if your ex husband is courting you again.

While he doing his part on getting you back as well, work on by yourself to find the problem and fix it. There is no way that you two got separated without a reason. Look for that flaw and patch it up. This will help get your ex back even more.

After giving him and yourself weeks to fix things up without communication at all and you have successfully done everything, it's time to get reconciled with your ex husband. Call hi up and ask him to meet you, as there is a very little chance that he will turn it down. However, if he refuses, just give him another week to think and miss you. Before the big day when you will meet and get your ex back, make sure that you look attractive and strong.

On the day when you will get your ex back, the most important thing to have is honesty. It is not the time to play hard-to-get on your ex husband. Play your cards right and explain everything about your side. Tell him what has been wrong and how to fix things. Tell him that you miss him and you are working hard to get him back. Show him that you are serious about it.

Also, you have to remember some DON'T's when it comes to the day when you get your ex back. DON'T cry, DON'T beg and DON'T harass him or give him ultimatums. You will just humiliate your self make things harder for your to get your ex husband back. However, you have to be humble. This will make things a breeze for you and work out your relationship once again.

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