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Secrets Of Lasting Relationships The Girlfriends Part

At the beginning of relationships, people are in love. There's no doubt about it. However, keeping the love in relationships alive is easier said than done. As a girlfriend, it takes true love, trust, respect, and determination to make it last long in order to make your boyfriend love you and feel loved at the same time. Making your partner happy is the other half of the main thing to do when it comes to relationships, so here are some pointers that I could share to make your love for him and his love for you grow stronger than ever.

You have to know the signs of true love. Most people will show their love on their partner in the way they feel it and the way they can express it. If you notice that your boyfriend gives you gifts almost every other day at the early stage of your relationship as a couple, you can assume that he wants to be treated the same way that he treats you. Lasting relationships are all about give and take. What you give is what you earn.

Pick out the appropriate words for the appropriate moments. A boyfriend needs constant reassurance and encouragement from her girlfriend that they are and will still be loved. If the words "I love you" tends to get overused, or you are not the type of girl to say it often, try telling him that in your own way that you are deeply in love with him. Men will reciprocate the way you treat him, so it is a win-win situation where both of you will feel being loved at the same time.

Remember that actions speak louder than words. As a woman, you should know that you tend to show your love through actions. Taking care of your boyfriend and doing everything you can to make him happy are sure-win means to make your love for him known and felt. It is true that a lot of men are not showy with their love based on actions, so you have to make the first move if the situation calls it. Do not wait like Princess Aurora or Rapunzel; you are not in a fairy tale, waiting for Prince Charming to come and kiss you. This is reality.

Self-assurance is a key to make relationships last long. Your boyfriend will never love you if you do not respect yourself. Remember that men love someone who respects herself at all. Being confident in who you are heightens the emotions of your boyfriend and make him proud of you as his girlfriend. This is very important in building strong relationships. Once self-respect crumbles to pieces, the relationship gives way and collapses. Confidence comes with wisdom and maturity on all things that govern handling relationships. So, you have to work hard on strengthening the very foundations of your relationship. Remember that all relationships are built up with love, trust, respect and openness. Do not let them to deteriorate over time.

How To Have An Interesting Conversation By David Wygant

Here's a video in which I go into depth about making your conversations dynamic with women.

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Having an interesting conversation with another person involves a couple of things. Let's say, for instance, you're in H M, like we were just in H M hanging out.

We walked into H M, and we attracted people. How did we attract people in H M? We walked over, we grabbed the funny 6lb straw hat - which by the way, I think I'm going to buy, because they are really cool - and then what did we do?

Immediately I looked at you, Pete, and I said, "put the hat on, go over and ask this woman what she thinks of you in this hat." So you went over there and you talked to her.

What happens is that women will start seeing this - we're smiling, we're being goofy, we're trying stuff on - and then what did I do next? I started talking to the guy next to me. I said, "man, what do you think about this hat on me?" What we are doing is putting on a show.

So then the guy responded, "yeah, that hat looks good on you, let me see," and we talked for a minute. Then all of a sudden these two women started walking towards us and they were looking and whispering to each other before they even got here - did you notice that?

What were they whispering? "Wow, I want to meet these guys, let's slow down a little bit," and they slowed their walk down. So then I started talking to them, they decided which hat they liked best on me, they flirted, and if you noticed, the one girl shook her little ass as she walked out - did you see that?

She was basically being this horny little naughty girl, saying, "come and get me." She shook it, but she knew she was shaking it, you could see she was shaking it. All because of these types of simple little conversations and just having fun.

Now the security guard came over, because we were drinking water during all that, and he knew we were fun. He was watching the other people watch us. It's contagious! He was watching other people talk to us, and he saw everybody smiling, and thought, those guys are nice.

So he came over and said, "so listen, man, you can't drink that in here. My boss is going to kill me." So I put it in my pocket, and he said, "oh come on, man, I'm going to lose my job - my wife, my five kids..." So I said, "five kids? I thought you had six kids!"

So then he just said, "alright, man, just hide it, or put your thumb over it." That was how - it was just from being fun. I was already in a fun mood because we were in there for five minutes.

It's a stage. Whenever you walk in to a room - I don't care if it's a coffee shop, a toy store, or a restaurant - it's a game. It's your stage. This is why that all transitioned in that way.

Now, you have to realize that if you do this all day long, what you're NOT looking to do is to get 50 phone numbers all day, and then be a telemarketer on Sunday night calling each of them up - "hey, Debbie, this is David. David, the tall guy? 6'2"? No, no, no, I had the brown hair..."

No! You want to connect with people. You want to do this everywhere - and you'll see tomorrow, we'll do this everywhere we go - everywhere. Even though the exchange rate is 1.6, we're still going to go everywhere!

And what we're going to do is have a party. Everywhere we go. And by creating this party, you will eventually (over the course of the day) connect with somebody and get into a deeper conversation. It just happens naturally.

So don't try to 'escalate' every person you talk to. Be playful, and be okay with 30-second and 60-second conversations. And then when you find the one that you really like, then you'll walk directly over to her, because you're feeling so confident - people have been loving and digging you all day - and you're feeling so confident, it's incredible. You just walk into a room and you just ooze sex appeal in every way.

If you ooze sex appeal, what will happen is that women will start to notice you. And then the woman that you really want is going to start talking to you, and the conversation will just flow. You know when you get into a great conversation with somebody, it just flows, right?

But in order to get that to happen every day, you have to go out and talk to a lot of people, and warm up. That's how you get it. You're looking for that one, unbelievable connection every day. That connection is better than any drug, any alcohol, anything you can ever do.

That's how you get it done. Go download my Date To Win ebook, it'll get you started on the right track.

Secrets Of Lasting Relationships The Girlfriends Part

How To Have An Interesting Conversation By David Wygant

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