Gamblers New Book The Natural Art Of Seduction To Hit Bookstores

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Richard La Ruina's (Gambler) new book, The Natural Art of Seduction is causing a storm. It is the first book that teaches men how to become a natural with women. A natural is someone who is in complete control of their love life, he has choice with women and can use this skill to achieve any goal in this area from being a playboy to finding a committed relationship and making it work.

Most people believe that you either have it or you don't. Richard La Ruina definitely didn't have it. He was a shy, introverted man with hardly any friends, who hadn't kissed a girl until he was 20 years old. The turning point was one day, when he realized that ability with women was a skill that could be learned just like any other. He studied night and day, talked to thousands of women, and later, trained hundreds of men.

Over the course of two years, he went from being as bad as could possibly be, to being Europe's greatest seducer.

The Natural Art of Seduction does two things. Of course, it tells Richard's journey in his own words, all the mistakes, the embarrassing moments, the lessons learned, but it also gives you the concrete step by step techniques to become a master seducer yourself. The tried and tested methods, and the techniques for each stage of a seduction.

Learn The Natural Art of Seduction from the only person who is qualified to teach it. If you are in England, you can buy The Natural Art of Seduction from

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Thinking Of How To Attract Men

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Gotcha! Did my title catch your attention? Well, many women investigate on how to attract men. Yes, investigate is the word. They read magazines, books and even ask their guy friends about the topic. Men are far different from women and it also follows to their preferences and taste. Don't worry, to get men and to attract men, you don't have to believe to 'it takes one to know one.' Read on and learn to get men notice you.


In order to get men, say what you really want to say and don't pretend. If you're into taekwondo and you want your man to try it as well, ask him about it. If you are planning for a vacation in Phuket, tell it to him so he can make arrangements for it. To attract men, women must not hide anything from them but see to it that they present their real self. Men will just get upset when they learn about what you've been hiding from them, so get men through honesty.


To attract men, watch out for what you are saying. Be careful to the messages you convey to them. If you want to refuse an offer from a man, say it in a manner that he will not think you don't want him. Be sensitive to their feelings and get men through this. Another point is when you like to do a favor for your man. Instead of saying 'Do you want a cup of coffee?' it would be better to ask, 'Would you like to have a cup of coffee?' or 'Can I get you a cup of coffee?' Why? The first question somehow implies that your man puts burden on you and he may hesitate to answer yes even when he wants to. To attract men, don't make them feel that you're doing a lot for them. Get men who are willing to do favors for you too.


To attract men, you don't have to give those hugs and kisses all at the same time. Some men find these actions annoying. You may not know it but men need space in ways you don't know. Get men by being sweet but not through getting overly sweet.


Get men by being polite. It doesn't follow that when a man is already your boyfriend, you exclude him from giving respect. To attract men, practice courtesy. Knock first on their doors before you walk in their room, chew food swiftly when you dine with them, laugh cautiously when you are outside, respect elders, say 'thank you' often and speak clearly.

May these tips help you in attracting the man of your dreams. Just remember to only attract a man if you are ready to commit in a relationship. If not, give yourself some time to grow and mature. Anyway, there is one man out there who would find you as the most attractive person. When he comes, you don't have to make the moves because he would surely do.

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Top 5 Honeymoon Destinations

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All honeymooners have their individual thoughts about what will be their ideal spot. Over the past couple of years, especially with the increase in the rising value of the Australian dollar, the overseas destinations have also become more and more famous at the time of planning for a honeymoon plans. Let's take at a look of five popular traditional honeymoon destinations:

* Fiji: It is the best places that are full of amazing facilities like five star resorts and honeymooners that are left with no less option when it comes in incorporating with romance and thrill.
* Greece: It is also a great place for all those honeymooners as it is full and thrilling and rocking activities that one can easily do. Mediterranean makes such destination one of the most popular destinations.
* New Zealand: As a one stop tourist place, it has everything from tropical rainforests to snowfields and also fabulous Fjord land scenery.
* The USA: It is a West Coast of America that includes Californian beaches and the dual cities of San Francisco and Los Angeles make such part of the USA by alluring so many honeymooners.
* Southeast Asia: In spite of increasing problem over so many years such as Bali, Southeast Asia still that offers great value for money and wonderfully romantic places for any of the person.

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Men Cry 6 Times A Year

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Here I thought that the new age sensitive guy cries at the drop of a hat (don't laugh, I'm serious), it seems that the average man cries 6 times a year.

And no, they don't cry because of touching commercials or Izzie's stage 4 cancer; they cry because their dogs die, they cry at funerals, and yes, they even cry at weddings.

And while men cry about 6 times a year, women cry, on average, between 30 and 64 times a year. And we're not talking quiet sobbing, we're talking wailing for 6 whole minutes.

When men cry, they cry for about 2 minutes and then get on with it.

Psychologist and Associate Professor JOSEPH CIARROCHI said, "In social display rules, it's much more acceptable for women to experience feelings of vulnerability. I don't think that men"'"experience these feelings, but it's socially less acceptable for a man to express them."

And yeah, I was right about the sensitive new age guy; he cries upwards of 17 times a year. So looks like men really are the new women in some circles.

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Chick Flicks Destroy Romance

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Entertainment news: Chick flicks destroy romance

And here I thought that is what drew me closer to my significant other, I come to discover that chick flicks actually choke the crap out of romance"? you may ask. Why indeed.

The relationship experts over at Scotland's Heriot-Watt University discovered that romantic comedies lead to unrealistic expectations on the part of women. No way! Next they're going to tell us that soap operas lead to unhappiness in bored housewives.

In essence, the problem is that most women tend not to communicate their desires to their significant others, expecting them to "just know" their needs and wants. Personally, I don't think that romantic comedies are to blame here. It's something else - something called woman-speak.

But I digress. Most couples apparently believe that sex between two people should be perfect and that if you are truly, I mean truly meant for the other person, then you do not have to communicate your wants to them. They just know. I would be cracking up right now if this weren't so freakin' sad.

Of course, romantic comedies tend to exploit the honeymoon phase of most relationships and people mistakenly think that the honeymoon should last forever. For those of you dumb enough to believe that, love at first sight is near impossible and the honeymoon phase wears away after the first time you hear your partner fart.

Welcome to the real world, chick flicks.

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What Should I Say

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Love is very much like cooking. You can follow a recipe all you want, but the end result differs from person to person and appears comes out as a different result (for better or worse). And the reason this is, is because love is not defined by a set of rules that can be followed to achieve an end result. It is not a mathematical formula of yes or no, it is an ever-flowing art. It is a flexibility that comes with being in love. It is irrational and spontaneous and constantly changing. Go in with an open mind and adapt to the situation. So to answer the question, "What should you say?" Anything you want. It is not the words you say, it is how you say it, and how you deliver it that captures him. The difference between 'hi' and '"hi"' is inextricably different and elicits very contrasting responses.

Many guys hold the belief that girls are boring. But you're not! It's just that the way many women present themselves causes men to think that. We can always kind of tell if you are on your guard, giving us false compliments etcetera. Just as you hate it if we monotonously say, "nice necklace", if you throw boring conversation at us, we can't help but reciprocate leading to a very boring date. Have some fun in the conversation. Talk to him freely and openly. I mean what do you have to lose besides his affection which you would lose anyways if you just sat there like a statue? When he compliments you, which is something he will definitely attempt to do (keyword 'attempt' - if he doesn't he will probably smack himself later at night for being shy), throw him a jaded response and see how he reacts. Don't simply just say 'thank you' and twiddle your thumbs. Keep things lively.

Of course, you should always consider his feelings. Men are very egotistical creatures and do not take well to any stimuli that might affect his self-perception. To breach that void, first allow rapport to occur. Before more personal jokes can be made, a level of comfort must first be established. Do not fall into the trap of feeling that you have to portray a sense of class. Do that through your actions. Allow your words to be filled with warmth and genuineness. Don't simply follow a recipe and churn out a mindless product - put your soul and feelings into it and the result you receive will be so much more magical.

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Online Dating Is Not A Contest

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Online dating is not a competition between competing males for the attention of a female. Grow up. Change your mind set from “winning” to “searching”. This isn’t high school. You are all grown up and have been for quite some time, now. Your attitude is the most important asset you have. You should like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t YOUR idea of the perfect guy…the one the all women want.

What is that women want, you ask? That’s the age old question. Being of the female persuasion myself, I can tell you a few things women want and don’t want.

Women want a communicator. The “strong silent type” really isn’t appealing at all. They think you probably don’t have an original thought in your head and you probably haven’t heard a word they said, either or that you just don’t care what they said or didn’t even hear what they said. They want you to be interesting enough to want to know more about you and they want you to think that they are interesting enough to ask intelligent questions about what is important to them, too.

Women want a man to be confident…NOT an arrogant jerk. There’s a big difference. You need to like yourself and not be self depreciating but you don’t need to come across like you believe that you are a gift to them from God and have just fallen from the sky. They don’t want you to think that THEY just fell from heaven and are some kind of perfect being, either. They can’t live up to that expectation.

Women do NOT want to be a prize to be won. They don’t want to be a trophy. They want to be the ONE woman that you want to be with.

Here are 12 tips on dating safety to help you get started:

- Go dutch by paying half of the bill. It's always respectful for the man to offer to pay the bill. Unfortunately, some men ruin the gesture by expecting something in return. Therefore it may not be a bad idea for you to go dutch. Pay half the bill so that you won't feel under any obligation to "return" the favor.
- Don’t let him know where you live. If you want to see him again, arrange a second date and then take it from there.
- Arrange to meet him. When meeting for the first time, never allow your date to pick you up from your home. In fact, your date shouldn't even know your home address yet!
- Meet in public places. For a first meeting, always meet in a public place where other people are in close proximity. You may also want to consider going out with a group of people, or a double date.
- Remember that alcohol affects your judgment. The biggest threat to a person's judgment, when on a date, is alcohol. Not only does it affect your judgment, but alcohol also lessens your inhibitions. If you are drinking, keep your drink in sight at all times and don’t get so drunk that you don’t know what you are doing. Better yet, try to avoid alcohol on your first date.
- Avoid secluded areas. Remember - stay in a public place for your first date and avoid secluded areas such as parks.
- Always let someone else know where you're going. Be sure someone knows where you are going and who you'll be with. You might even consider arranging a time to call and check in. Or you could arrange to meet up with friends later that night.
- Listen to your gut. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. And if you haven’t met him before, and you know at the beginning of the date that something doesn’t feel right, then leave immediately.
- Give him your cell phone number. It's safer to give out a cell phone number instead of your home phone number (click here for why).
- Always remain alert. Even if you’re having a blast and the chemistry is great, it’s a good idea to remain alert the whole evening. Make sure you have a cell phone on you.
- Don't assume that a man is safe. It's important never to let your guard down when on a first date. Never assume a man is safe just because he claims to be religious or a gentleman.
- Use your own mode of transportation. Provide your own transportation to your public meeting place and make sure you have more than enough gas.

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Book Review Men Women And Relationships

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Men, Women and Relationships By John Gray

It's kind of weird when you think about it; couples get married to commit to another person for (what we're assuming will be) life, and yet, once they tie the knot, it seems that the relationship hits the crapper.

Why? Because, too often, men and women think they no longer have to try when they get married. In fact, the opposite is true. John Gray puts it best when he writes, "There will always be obstacles to overcome in sustaining a loving relationship. Too often, men assume that once they are married, the work of having a relationship is over. Realistically, that is when it begins."

So if you're in the midst of troubled waters with your significant other, rather than drown yourself (or them), reach for a life preserver in the form of", WOMEN AND "If you're the guy who's withdrawing from his relationship because he's stressed, or you're the woman who is constantly correcting and making demands of your boyfriend because you think that this will motivate him to change, you need to read this book. And I mean yesterday.

I'm sure you already know that John Gray is the famous author of" ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM "so when he states that men and women process information differently, it's time for you to stop what you're doing and read on.

Even if you're in a good relationship, John Gray can help you make sure you keep it that way by figuring out what's going on in your significant other's head.


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Richard La Ruina Seduction Masters Interview

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A few weeks ago I read this comment on the Dating Coaches of 2006 post:

"Personally, I'd like to choose someone who is virtually unknown, but I saw him turn guys who you wouldn't believe had a chance, into smooth talkers with a better chance of obtaining natural game in 11 hrs. I'm a little biased, because I'm one his students. GAMBLER, this is for you."

I knew I had to get in touch with this new up and comer, RICHARD LA RUINA. After a few emails back and forth we decided to do this interview, which I think you will find extremely revealing and inspirational as I did.

Richard can be reached through his website at:



There was a night in 2001, I was 21 years old, had never kissed a girl. I was trading the stock market and doing pretty well and I said to myself "I'd give up all this for a girlfriend". I said it out loud, and I really meant it. Having a girl then was worth more than all my material possessions and I'd probably have taken an offer to take 5 years off my life or sell my soul to the devil!

I met a girl within a few days and had a 2 1/2 year relationship with her!

This boosted my confidence and at least made me semi-comfortable dealing with women.

After we broke up, I was single again and didn't sleep with another girl for 2 1/2 years. The same desperation came back. I didn't realize I could learn how to get this sorted out, so I was focusing on improving myself - making myself more attractive by working out all my issues and problems. I lightly dipped into Speed Seduction but thought it was utter rubbish and didn't have the balls to even try it out.

By complete chance I happened to be in Starbucks Leicester Square, London at the same time as an RSD bootcamp. I spied on things a bit and then asked Tyler Durden what was going on. He broke it down and told me to read The Game. I read it when it came out in England which was September 2005. In November, I slept with my second girl. The only game I used was to match her physical escalation. She initiated everything, even the extraction to the hotel. I felt like I wouldn't have been able to do it if I hadn't read the book.


Before I came to London in March, I was working on things on my own in Cambridge. My "mentors" were actually these super-hero PUAs that can get ANY woman they want, ANY time. They actually don't seem to exist, but they existed in my mind and this was the goal I was working towards. The fact that I set my sights so high allowed me to get good very quickly. If I'd hung with local lair guys from the beginning, my targets would have been a lot lower and I might never have been as good as I am now.

My inspirations all came from the products, I didn't meet a real PUA until I trained with Brent in April '06. I thought David D was a great role-model of an attractive man with attractive qualities. Tyler, Swinngcat, and PU101 produced products which were a big help.

I mainly got lines and mental attitude from these products rather than a complete system for pickup. When I tried them out, I got mixed results because I'd be generally lame but throw out the occasional very funny or interesting line.

Milton Erickson was my strongest non-PU role-model. His books served as a grounding to me since he was dealing with REAL problems, and was focused on what is truly important in life. Not only that but he was a genius and could do things that no other human being has been able to do since.


If we go back only as far as 12 months ago, I'd slept with 2 women. I had no idea if I'd ever find a girlfriend, have sex again or even kiss a girl. The whole process of getting a number or more was bewildering and seemed like a huge challenge. It was the uncertainty that was the main problem. The fact that I knew that I couldn't just go to a club and grab a girl, and even if I went 10 times I might not get anywhere.

Now, I have multiple girls and options any time I like. I know that I can f-close 7 times a week if I like, or that I can meet a girl of quality (looks and character) around once every 3 weeks. I am dating an Italian girl who is doing a PhD curing cancer, looks like Monica Belluci and is pretty much perfect. I'm also dating a Brazilian girl who is super fun and sexy. Both know about what I do and each other, one even helps out on bootcamps as a HB helper! I have other options from strippers to models. I treat the girls well, don't use tricks and never had a girl hate me!


The thing that took the longest to click and was the biggest sticking point was sexual escalation. I used to sit in sets for ages without going for a kiss or escalating at all. I barely kino'd. Sometimes I'd be in a set for over an hour without any moves being made.

One night in a set where the girl wasn't giving me kino or IOIs, I just decided to go for it and pushed for the k-close and got it. After that I became more bold and the kino started to click and become natural.


I love to do a direct approach and very fast close so this is my favorite special move:

I spot my target from 5 meters or so, I'm not smiling, I'm looking cool, I point at her and tilt my head. She reacts in some way. I walk purposefully toward her. I give her a direct opener or compliment - "you're a cutie pie" was a favorite for a while, say "come here" and pull her in, start dancing with her or just touch her hair. Maybe ask her name. Maybe not. K-close. When I imagine super hero PUA, there is no way he is indirect! That's why this is my favorite move.


I think the moment I got it was my first f-close. I ran good game, opened, escalated quickly, moved her around the venue, and then lead her to my house. It was pretty smooth. I even threw in some Speed Seduction stuff. I realized then that I had choice with women for the first time in my life. It doesn't slowly build up over time. I think there are key moments which open the floodgates. This was mine for f-closes.

When I got my first 9 was a huge moment too. It was always in the back of my mind that I didn't have one yet. Remember, I live in London, I've SEEN less than ten 9s in the past 12 months! That was when I felt like a real top level guy.


Plenty, but here are 3 things that spring to mind:

1. Get over your inhibitions and approach as many sets as you can. A guy that does 100 in a day will close more and learn more than someone that does 3. If you are uncomfortable having attention focused on you, go and do acting. If you are uncomfortable being close to a woman, go to salsa classes. Do some crazy missions, find out your motivation and put yourself in the position where you have to act. Give your friend $100 and get him to give you $10 back for each set you open.

2. When you are starting, it is easy to study loads of theory. You need to balance learning, applying and refining. I learnt more in 2 weeks of gaming than 6 months of theory. It makes sense, try spending 6 months learning how to drive by reading a book and see if you are better than the dude who spent 8 hours in a car.

3. If you are not an attractive man in general, fix that. Work on fashion, body language, voice, extrovert qualities, social skills, building an interesting life, etc. If you focus solely on pickup, it can actually make you worse!


Standing out in a positive way from other guys. You need to project fun, sexuality, and confidence.

Look like you are having fun and don't care too much about what happens. Be comfortable in the interaction, be externally focused and out of your head. If you don't show outcome dependency, excellent. It's being almost casual about it. When you feel pressure, she will too. When you are uncomfortable, she will not be able to relax. When women say they want confidence, this is what they are talking about.


I can talk all day about this area. Inner game is basically your state, your mood, your beliefs about yourself and women. You build inner game most effectively through results and progress. To build inner game before you start, you can try what I did. I wrote down a list of all the things about myself that I was unsatisfied with. For the ones I could do something about I made a plan of action and executed on it, and for the ones I couldn't I learnt to accept them. Humans need certainty, sense of direction, this gives that. We need a sense of progress and you can get that by recording the progress you make in a journal. It also helps to stop comparing ourselves to others. Judge by your own life and the progress you are making. There will always be someone who is better in some regard, focusing on them is a recipe for discontent.

These are some things I used. I also studied self-hypnosis, NLP, read all the old Bandler books, everything on, by, or about Milton Erickson, I used subliminal music whilst I slept, etc. I used loads of tools and they all impacted in some way. Now I'm very solid, difficult to stress out, and generally in control of my emotions.


Yeah! From 3 weeks ago!

I went to a posh club in London (24), was a good night, 3 k-closes with HBs. I got a 15 second k-close from using my "special move" as detailed above. I was in a great state - on fire - everything was working for me I COULDN'T get blown out if I wanted to, this happens sometimes. I didn't extract any girls, nothing I was too bothered about. I was walking home, it was raining so I put my leather jacket under my top and it looked like I was pregnant.

I was walking with a friend. We were chatting when he gasped and pointed out a girl hiding from the rain under a shelter. She was a 9 in my book and the hottest girl I'd seen in 2006 with maybe 1 other girl on the same level as her. 6" tall with heels, blonde, thin, beautiful face, perfect skin, great smile, greeny blue eyes. Stunning.

I told him to go in, he went in and choked, shook his head and came back. He couldn't do it.

I went and stood 2 meters away, mirrored her facial expression, she looked at my belly as if to say "huh?" and I rubbed it and mouthed "my baby". She smiled. I looked at the floor next to her as if to say "there isn't space next to you" and she took step back to let me in. I went and stood next to her right in her face. I asked what her name is. I was in seduction mode already. I went in to kiss her after 15 seconds but she turned her face so I kissed her on her cheek and neck. I do this if they turn their face. I asked where she was going and she told me so I said "I'll walk you" and took her hand and lead her down the road.

I said "let's go for another drink" she agreed and I lead her to my house. She objected when she realized we weren't going to a bar and said "Russian girls are not so easy!" I said "I know, I love Russian girls, and you are special" in a sincere way (I did mean it too). She then started walking again and I got her to my room. I had no outcome dependency at this point, I had a take-it-or-leave-it attitude which she must have picked up on.

I got her in my room, she sat down, I put music on, she didn't want wine. I said come here, she said "why" and didn't stand up so I pulled her up, started kissing her, tripped her up onto the bed. Escalated with no LMR at all and had the best f-close ever. She was stunning, I wouldn't change her thing. Plus it was all natural. No fake tan, died hair, tons of make-up, fake boobs. She was a diamond. Anyway, it took 15 minutes to get to my house, 5 minutes to get her into bed, and she was a NINE so it was amazing for me.

The PU skill? Nothing verbal, nothing I can describe too well. It was the state I was in + the confidence in the approach + the sexual vibe + the indifference and coolness about taking her home. I really didn't feel desperate or outcome dependent.

She went to Russia for the holidays so need to call her again now because she'll be back. But one thing is for sure, in London, it will be MONTHS before I even see anything as good.


Finding quality girls! I don't practice enough due to lack of quality HBs. My personal pickup goals are to be more dominant, escalate quicker, push the boundaries in this way. I've cracked upscale venues, celeb parties etc. Hmmm, not too much left. Just general improvement now I guess and a consistent level of quality.


I'm torn between wanting to be the world's best PUA and running a successful business. I think I need to come to America for both so I'll be there soon. I am happy with my love life with a few good quality girls. I like to be in a loving relationship. ONSs don't do too much for me. Neither does writing field reports or getting status from guys. I'm competitive but not a show-off, so I've posted on forums less than 5 times in my life!


In London, we have the major US companies who have set up local operations, and no real home-grown talent. I don't think the quality of training is up to US standards from the established companies since the local guys just aren't the name-brand PUAs.

I put together a team who even the other organizations will admit consists of England's best PUAs. We all have different styles and are not too tied to a specific approach. We teach direct, indirect, day, night, phone, day-2, dance-floor, natural game, and routines. It sounds like a lot but it is pretty simple. The system we teach can be learned and memorized and applied within 15 minutes. It is pickup boiled down into its essential elements from open to close. We then put the other stuff on top of this model so it is flexible enough to adapt to any student or any teacher. Because of this, some students leave and are routine guys, some leave and have natural game, and most have a mix but are working towards being all-natural. We had 3 f-closes in a row on bootcamp nights in December, and many more from dates following n-closes on the nights. At least 75% of students get closes on average which is better than any other published number I've seen.

Our bootcamps have 2:1 ratio in the club, have HBs that the guys can practice on before going into the field, feature wing-girls, sex skills training, fashion advice, and special guests in lots of areas. I wanted to get away from the "guy with a whiteboard" type of event and we hold our events in private rooms in bars and clubs and the guys are never sat listening without doing an exercise for more than 20 minutes. We have a big budget and spend the money on quality additions. We do day game AND night game.


I'm writing an ebook which is 90% done. I went through all the material prior to going into the field. I've read every ebook and watched every DVD and listened to every piece of audio. Some is good, some is bad. A common problem is that none of these products gives you everything you need - the entire process from open to close with all the content you need along the way. Mystery's book is the best in this regard at the moment, but it is still somewhat limited in its approach. The 7 hours, the negs, the mixed sets in clubs, no direct game, no dance-floor game, no day-game, no inner game, a very rigid system of steps. Basically I wanted to give a complete system for picking up women in any environment. I think I've achieved that. People love it so far and I look forward to seeing the response. I've basically created the book that I needed when I was an AFC.

Other products will have a similar goal, and so will stand out in the same way.


Hmmm, well it is natural but still structured. I know what "phase" I'm in and what I can do and what I need to do next. But I freestyle it within that. Because I generally look for quality girls that I can be in relationships with, I find canned material objectionable. I want the girl to be attracted to me, what I have to say, and what I truly think of her. I don't want to catch a girl by acting a role. I would hate to have a girlfriend who I used a routine stack on. I think that canned material is a crutch until you develop the skills to freestyle and "be yourself"!

I have an unbreakable routine stack, it would close pretty much anything, but I don't use it. The second reason I don't use this stuff is that it doesn't test me, I like to exercise my mental muscles, sharpen them and become better socially through this. You learn more from freestylying 1000 sets than doing the same routine stack 1000 times.

I don't understand why guys want to be PUAs. A natural with PUA knowledge can out-game 99.9% of PUAs. AFC's should strive to be naturals.


Well You have disadvantages and benefits:

You are a rare commodity and more attractive.

They know you aren't staying long.

The girls are generally not as easy.

Language can be a barrier.

Some countries just hate foreigners.

Aside from this, it is pretty much the same everywhere. The hottest girls in the world are in Latvia. And the most harsh environment ever is the Latvian club scene! They will blow guys out on the open in the most harsh way possible over and over. I still scored every night but I really did pick my shots carefully and the HBs were scared to be seen with me in front of anyone because of the negative social proof of being with a foreigner. Somewhere like Sweden, it's different, pretty easy, but weird things like expecting you to light their cigarettes (same in a lot of these countries actually, Russia too), and if you refuse it isn't cool at all. They are not shit-testing, it's a part of the culture.

Being around so many HBs on the European tour, my game went through the roof! That's why I need plenty of holidays to places with hot girls - to keep my game sharp. Anyone who wants to take our English girls, please let me know!


Lots of things spring to mind. Right now, I think "A structured way to become a natural" would be pretty good theme. Natural game learned unnaturally! Haha. The advice is universal in my opinion.

Richard La Ruina can be reached through his website at:


Thanks Richard, it looks like we'll be hearing from you again soon!

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3 Online Dating Mistakes To Avoid

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While you search the internet for that special lady...the one of your dreams...your soul-mate...the other half of yourself, you can do a lot of things right. Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong....things that will guarantee failure and a broken heart. Out in the “real” world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all ingredients for success. However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter.

There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive...maybe even, scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.

Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another...and that includes you, as well. If you expect the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.

Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements. The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.


1. Try to be someone you are not - It's important to be yourself as you don't want other people to settle for anything different. Trying to act like someone you are not will only backfire in the future.
2. Talk about past relationships - Maybe that’s how you lost the last one. Nobody wants to hear you drone on about your ex and what he or she did or didn't do. Concentrate on your date and see if you can get to the second date.
3. Talk about yourself all night - There is nothing worse then a person that loves to talk about himself or herself all the time. Be the one asking the questions!
4. Ask too many personal questions - This is your first date and your date may not want to reveal too much about himself/herself just yet. If you like each other and want to continue with the relationship then there will be plenty of time to ask more intimate questions.
5. Get drunk - You don’t want to spend half the night in the toilet vomiting and your date won’t think much of you. You can also put yourself at risk of unwanted advances and will not be in the right frame of mind or body to do anything about it.
6. Be late - First impressions count and if you are late then this will make your date think of you as lazy, having lack of initiative, or not putting an importance on the evening.
7. Propose marriage or kids - Unless you don’t want to see them again.
8. Forget to thank them for the date - It is good manners and etiquette to thank your date for the evening. If you don't want to go on a date again, this is where you will get your chance to end it. If you do, then this is your chance to ask your date out on another date.
9. Eat with your mouth open - This will not only create a negative impression of you to your date, but also to other people around you.
10. Pursue sex; especially after your partner has said no.

First Date Ideas:

1. Picnic by a river. Prepare a basket of goodies, a chilled bottle of wine, and enjoy the day relaxing in each other's company.
2. Indoor ice skating - or roller blade in the park. You can lean against each other for balance and warmth.
3. The beach. Take a picnic, a bottle of wine and a rug and spend the day catching the sun together. Or you could take a dip together. All that splashing is bound to be great fun.
4. The movies. Let your date choose the film. It will show a good gesture if you don't have the same taste in films. Select a unique theater (i.e. leather seating) to enhance the experience and arrive early to provide plenty of time to get to know each other.
5. Eat in. Show off your culinary skills and ask them round for dinner. Don’t over do the candles and music or you may frighten them away.
6. Kite flying. It's a lot more fun than you may think!
7. Theme park. Big or small, everybody loves theme parks. Triple loop roller coasters, dodgems, etc. is the ideal date for the big kid in us.
8. A sporting activity that you both like. If you are both big basketball fans, then take a trip to see a professional basketball game together.

Remember...don’t be too aggressive, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.

Downloadable books:

Slade Shaw - The 3 Destructive But Common Dating Mistakes Men Make
Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets

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4 Best Ways To Approach A Beautiful Women

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If you really want to know that how you can approach women without panic or any hesitation then there are some of the tricks that you can use to make it easier on yourself.

1. BREATHE NORMALLY: When a person gets nervous his breathing suddenly gets changed. Such kind of sets off chain affects our body and then, that when the nerves gets really hit. By allowing yourself to the normal breathe, then you have to eliminate the chain of events and make it feel a lots more comfortable at the time of approaching a woman.

2. WALK LIKE THE ALPHA MALE. Walk too fast and then you will feel no nervousness at all. If you let your shoulders bend and your eyes hit the floor, then you will look like the kind of guy that lets life run over to him.

3. LOOK AROUND. Do not just stare at the woman whom you want to approach. It will not look a normal and will also like cheap. Give her the impression that you can or may not be approaching her.

4. BE AN OPENER NOT A LINE. Most of the guys defend that the use of pick up is good want to do conversation with a woman. On the other hands, there is a big difference between an opening or a conversation with a woman and dropping some general line on her.

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Peter Latourette - How To Meet Beautiful Women
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Keeping The Big Picture In Perspective

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As of late, I've just undertaken a few addtional guys undermy wing for 1 on 1 training. If you are one of those guys, I deplore you to heed this advice. Tyler Durden from the book just joined up with Tony Robbins,a giant self-help advocate; I want to share something with the rest of you thatI feel is of utmost importance in your game development, and oddly enough, it'snot so much a trick or a tactic, but rather a fundamental principle that you probably have already use in other parts of your life. If you've arleady heard me rant on this I do apologize, but just take it as reinforcement because quite frankly, it IS that important.

Pick up is really cool when you first get into it. You have all these tips, tricks and tactics and the novelty overhwelms you in a good way. Let's really keep things in perspective. While you are striving to become a better pick up artist, in the process, ultimately, you are TRYING TO BECOME A BETTER MAN. Think of it this way, pick up is nothing more than an interview, the 4-5 hours where you interact w/ the girl before you do your thang is the equivalent to an interview in the job world. Just because you've aced the interview doensn't mean you can do your job. We've all done interviews before, we've all lied, exaggerated and bullshitted our way to success, but when it came down to it, we still performed at the job at hand. So the question is, can you really provide that value to the girl or are you just a good bull shit artist?

I'm not sure if any of you are Tony Robbins' fans, if you are, awesome, if you aren't, I highly recommend you to check his stuff out (no,I don't work for him). What he preaches are success principles that would apply to any sort of endeavor. He's helped people ranging anywhere from professionaltennis players to billionaires achieve more success in their field. So if you'reinterested in becoming better at anything, google him.

The real big seller for me in the ABC's model is that it incorporates the "F" phase, as in fun/fake. It really emphasizes the fact that having a healthy lifestyle and TRULY being a cool high value guy is important.While solid game will grant you decent one night stands, if you want a girl to stick around, you can't just be some loser with a cool outfit and a few routines. Why have to go out of your way to DEMONSTRATE HIGHER VALUE, when you can just be high value. When I met Neil Strauss at the airing of the show, he told me something that truly stuck with me.

"A rich man never has to say he's rich"

For all you starting/intermediate PUAs, I want to make it very clear to your that building your passive value in conjunction with your active value is extremely important. I had a wing back in Michigan who I used to bitch to all the time to fix his acne and to create himself a decent avatar, he just looked like a mess. Seriously, for the well being of the human race, while I wanted his game to get better, I couldn't help but feel bad for the eventual girl that would inseminate. Every single night, it was an uphill battle for him, I mean, there's no other way around it, he was piss ugly, and even worse, he did NOTHING to alleviate the problem. Point is this, everybody has problems, it's whether or not you choose to deal with them properly

So where's the first place I can start in building mypassive value? Easiest place:

The Gym:

Start there, if you succeed at that, then by all means, there is a giant laundry list out there of other things you can work on.

Three PUAs that really stand out here in this example:

-David Wygant


-Man Cannon

All three of these guys are in hella good shape, and as a result of that, they don't need to game as hard, Matador, while he does have extremely solid verbal game, he doesn't really need to say much, half his sets,he'll walk up to a girl and just start making out with her, because he has thepassive value to get away with it.

Personally, I can care less about how I get there, just get me to point A to point B in the most efficient way possible.

So let's start there, if you want rockstar results, start by looking rockstar. Get to the gym, fix your diet. I actually sat down with Matador when I first moved to Los Angeles and he actually gave me a template of his workout which I've adapted to my build, It's actually available on the ABC'sforums here if you're interested: HEIGHT: 227px" src="" width=604>

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Man Punishment For Cheating

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When some wives catch their husbands cheating, they do crazy things like cut of their penis or shoot them. But one Virginia wife had a better idea.

WILLIAM TAYLOR of Centreville, Virginia got caught cheating on his wife when she found evidence of it on his cell phone. Her punishment was a creative one. She wrote up a sign that said "I CHEATED. THIS IS MY PUNISHMENT" and made him wear it at the corner of Leesburg Pike and International Drive - during the morning rush.

It's also possible that this might be a stunt for some new, stupid reality show, but if this is for real, then it is definitely one of the more creative ways to punish cheaters.

WILLIAM TAYLOR was out before 9 a.m. wearing the sign, and his wife texted him just after 11 a.m. telling him that he had spent enough time out there. So he took off the sign and headed home.

One has to wonder if that was really punishment enough - let's just hope that he learned his lesson. Next time she might just shove that sign up his a*s.

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Woman Lies About Cancer Gets Implants

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Imagine a woman at your work told you she had breast cancer but didn't have the money needed to get chemotherapy. You would feel bad, right? You might even help her raise money.

Well, 24-year-old TRISTA JOY LATHERN told her colleagues that she had breast cancer and they held a benefit in which they raised $10,000 to help her with her medical bills.

Turns out she was lying about the cancer and used the $10,000 to get breast implants because she wanted to "save her marriage." Last time I checked, all that implants really do is help girls get better tips at the exotic club.

Anyway, she was arrested for lying about her condition; her husband WILLIAM has since filed for an annulment, and now she sits in a jail cell, all alone. With her new breasts.

I'm sure her cell mates will like them.

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Kissing Tips Top 10 Types Of Kisses

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French Kiss

Eskimo Kiss

Butterfly Kiss

Flavored Kiss

Switch Kiss

Frog Kiss

Opposite Kiss

Ice Kiss

Candy Kiss

Sucking Kiss

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Social Psychology On The Role Play Game Called Life

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So how could you win this game? What happens if someone starts interfering and making the decisions for you? Is it still your game, and are you really playing it?


Prejudice, stigma, discrimination, pressure and many more social forces are barriers that lots of people face in the game called Life. Gender role is a maze that girls in particular are often trapped in. Though gender roles vary significantly around the world, they are often demanding and oppressive. Whether they involve the pressure to become a housewife, to have many children, or to starve just to get into a 0-sized dress, they can deprive women of a major human right: to enjoy being who you truly are.

Women all around the world need equal rights, freedom of choice and universal access to services, especially the ones related to sexual and reproductive health. But in order for all of those components to really work, women also need to overcome the self-stigma and the barriers they set themselves. Finding your true identity and being able to express feelings and opinions is at the very basis of making a difference..."That's how Maya's article Girls, Love Yourselves and Win the Role-Play Game Called Life on what I Being a Girl is all about starts. Go to Conversations for a Better World and read the rest of it!

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Men Are Becoming Boys

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Men are refusing to grow up, or so George Will's "column suggests. "THE BASEMENT BOYS" demonstrates how today's men aren't stepping up the way they used to and prefer to live in their parents; basements, hence the article's title.

George Will theorizes that today's men are growing up to be boys, living in a perpetual world where the leadership of our culture is being handed off to women.

To list off some incredibly interesting stats from the article:


A Penn State University historian named Gary Cross believes that the boy-men culture of today is more of a lifestyle choice and less of a life stage, which is what's leading to this whole feminization of men.

Gary Cross believes that this all started when women began to enter the workforce because it made men feel marginalized. Boo-f*ckin'-hoo.

Suck it up and get it together boys, or the women are taking over.

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