I live in L.A. and I see hot girls all the time in traffic. I have a nice car (BMW) and I have a nice job and style. I read the 'code so I know what to do but I am always in LA traffic seeing these hot ass girls lol! What do you suggest for "traffic game?"
" - Seth, Long Beach, CA"
I had to laugh at this email, because I know exactly what Seth is talking about.
(living right next to New York City makes driving by a hot woman an EVERY DAY thing)
The U.S. has such a car culture. I mean, one of the MOST COMMON places where we interact with a TON of people, is in traffic. In Europe and other places it's quite different:
People mostly walk, and there are lots of public spaces for people to congregate and meet each other.
And I believe it's one of the reasons European women are more sexual in nature While American women find European men so sexually attractive.
(Plus, the accent doesn't hurt)
However, in America, we spend a good chunk of our lives in our cars, looking at the floating heads of strangers, fogged by two layers of window. It's really a strange thing, evolutionarily.
Our brains did not evolve for eons for this kind situation. And yet here we are.
One of the great things about being human is that we can create new things, and then adapt to them. Our brains are adaptation machines!
And there are definitely ways to adapt to the inherent obstacles of meeting women in traffic, or any situation for that matter.
How often have you been sitting at a light, and you look over and see a HOT older woman in a minvanI mean a real MILF, and you just wanted to say something, but you didn't know how?
I know rolling down the window and yelling, "HEY! WHO LIES MORE? MEN OR WOMEN?" doesn't sound like it would work
Or maybe you're on the highway, and you look over to the next lane to see a cute, young hottie with a great set of perky breasts and long blond hair bunched in a pony-tail
So what do you DO? Now, I WILL give you tips and advice you can use starting today
But this brings up a deeper issue I want to go over, first:
You see, I'm a big proponent of SAVING TIME.
I don't like to spend a lot of time preparing what I say, and talking to a woman that may not be available or interested. So I like to do things efficiently. I like to go direct, and I like to begin escalating quickly.
I actually WANT the woman to have the opportunity to reject me.
That way, if she does, I can move one without wasting another second of my time, which is very valuable these days.
My attitude is the same in traffic, and in fact it's EASIER to "open" a lot of women in traffic, with ZERO risk. The great thing is, if she complies with you, by actually talking to you or giving you her number (as I'll tell you how to do in a second), there's an almost certain chance of a successful outcome. (ie. getting her over to your place THAT NIGHT.. or well within one-to-two dates)
There are two ways to go about meeting women while in traffic. Keep in mind I'm not talking about women walking on the street, as you drive by.
I'm talking car-to-car here. The first way is exchanging numbers. You can do this by giving her your number, or by her giving you hers. There are a variety of methods for this:
You can lean out of your window and simply say:
"Hey! You're a cutie. I got a boring drive ahead of me. How bout I give you a call!"
Or you could do something situational, like if you're stuck in a traffic jam, roll your window down, get her attention - be sure to smile - and say:
"Looks like we'll be here for a while. I think you're cute. Let's talk!"
Another thing you can do is write your number on a piece of paper in big clear numbers, and add something like "EMERGENCY - call this number now," or "SOS," or something funny that will make her curious.
Get her attention and put it up on the window. You'll probably want to write out your message ahead of time and keep it in the car at all times since you never know when you'll see a cute woman in traffic.
The other thing you can do is go for a quick instadate on the spot. Instead of going for a number exchange, you can just say -
"Hey! I think you're gorgeous. How 'bout some coffee - pull into the starbucks up the road!"
I want to make something clear:
Your percentage of actual closes in traffic is going to be quite small.
But that's OK.
It's a VERY tough situation, logistically.
The good news is that it's really easy and you can do it ALL THE TIME. I don't know about you, but driving isn't very exciting. This is an easy, simple, risk-free way to make your trip a whole lot more fun. It's not like you have anything better to do - you're just sitting there. It takes almost no effort, and you'll never see these women again!
So there's no risk, no cost, just the potential for a great outcome. And like I said, if the woman complies, you can bet that's a solid number. And if she actually stops somewhere to meet you, you can bet she's horny and has nothing better to do!
The key to all this is to be silly and spontaneous, and just GO FOR IT.
If that sounds hard for you, because you don't consider yourself a fun, silly, spontaneous guy, I beg to differ. Every man has the ability to be a pickup artist and make the most of his opportunities. All you need to do, is get out there, and give just ONE of the many examples I told you a try.
Just once Just today
Make it happen, FOR YOURSELF!
Read more from Vin, in his Attraction Code eBook.
Suggested free e-books to read:Tyler Durden - Setting Traps Elaborations On Swingcats Stuff
Brian Caniglia - Getting The Most From Online Dating
David Deangelo - How To Get A Woman Phone Number And Email Address
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