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She Losing Interest

JULIE SPIRA IS A BEST-SELLING AUTHOR, CYBER-DATING EXPERT, AND RADIO SHOW HOST. SHE IS THE AUTHOR OF" PERILS OF CYBER-DATING: CONFESSIONS OF A HOPEFUL ROMANTIC LOOKING FOR LOVE "AND HOSTS THE WEEKLY RADIO SHOW, ASK THE CYBER-DATING EXPERT. VISIT HER AT CYBERDATINGEXPERT.COM WHERE SINGLES AND COUPLES CAN SHARE THEIR ONLINE DATING STORIES.

QUESTION #1: SHE'S LOSING INTEREST

I met a woman online and we have been dating steadily for 3 months. The thing is, she gets so caught up with work and her social life that she never seems to have time for me.

I feel like I'm the one who's doing all the calling, setting up all the dates, and making all the moves. At first, she cleared her schedule for me - I was the number one thing in her life. But now it seems that she is more interested in everything but me.

I feel like I'm losing her but she insists that this is just part of life and that she's still very into me. How can I make her make me a priority again?

"JULIE SPIRAS ANSWER:

Nothing feels worse than when you find your relationship slipping away. The first 3 months of any relationship is the "perfect stage." This is where couples are infatuated with their new love interest.

Being the man and calling to set up dates is something many women expect the man to do. After 3 months, things settle into a groove. If you are slipping down on the totem pole, it's time to have a talk with her.

Sit her down and ask her what she thinks of the relationship status. Let her know that you would like to spend more time with her. If she is happy with the present schedule, and you are not, perhaps it's time to start dating other women.

QUESTION #2: DATING MUCH YOUNGER MEN

I am dating a much younger man - he's 23 and I'm 42. He treats me

like gold and I love spending time with him. So what's the problem? Well, wherever we go, young girls are always hitting on him and treating me like I'm his mother.

At first, I didn't think much of it, but now it's really starting to take a toll on my ego. Should I stay with this guy who claims to love me or should I try to find someone my own age and settle?

I really adore this younger gentleman and he doesn't even seem to notice these younger girls. But I'm afraid that if we stay together, he will start to notice them in a few years. What do you think? Can relationships between younger men and older women really work?

"JULIE SPIRAS ANSWER:

With" Mania, Cougar "with Courteney Cox, and official Cougar Conferences, you are not alone in dating a much younger man. As a matter of fact, it's now in vogue.

Dating younger men is not a new concept. Look at the long-standing relationship with Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins which recently ended after 23 years. I'd call that a good run. There's DEMI and ASHTON, JULIET MILLS and MAXWELL CAULFIELD.

If he truly loves you and you don't notice him staring at women closer in age to himself, you might have a terrific relationship on your hands.

Where the problem may arise is if he is interested in having children. If his goal is to become a father, or if he is uncertain about this issue, you could get hurt. Find out if your life goals are the same, and if so, enjoy the relationship.

Sociology How To Be Just Friends

How To Be "Just Friends"
How To Be "Just Friends" : Why is it so hard to remain "just friends" with the opposite sex? Studies show the relationship ends more times than not once sex is introduced. Keep the friendship. Keep it platonic. Why is it so hard to remain "just friends" with the opposite sex? Studies show the relationship ends more times than not once sex is introduced. Keep the friendship. Keep it platonic.

Step 1: Friends With Benefits

If you remember the real advantages of opposite-sex friendship, you probably won't throw them away for a one-nighter. Guys, you can express your feelings with her in a way you can't with the boys. Girls, you get a protective, big-brother type pal. And you both get the inside scoop on how the other sex operates.

Step 2: Dirty Tricks

If you do find yourself eyeing up your buddy, put up some barriers. Ladies, next time you go out with your guy friend, slack off in the hygiene department. Try wearing grandma underwear. Skip the shower. Don't shave those legs. It'll help you keep your pants on.

Step 3: Wear Yourself Out

Gentlemen, expending sexual energy before you meet up with your female friend will usually suppress any inappropriate feelings that may pop up. And gals, don't be ashamed. This will work for you, too.

Step 4: Converse With Caution

Don't let the chatter drift toward sexual innuendo. No one wants to hear another "that's what SHE said" joke. Instead...talk about your ex. Or irritable bowel syndrome. Or the reptilian humanoid conspiracy theory. Don't talk about how tight your bra feels today. If you need a back rub, keep it to yourself. Oh, and take it easy on the booze. Friends don't let friends drink...and dive into bed.

Finally, if you find yourself waking up with your best bud, take some space, then talk. Remember, you're friends for a reason and if you really do care for each other, it won't be hard to figure out if it's love, lust, or just the liquor.

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Dating Book Review Why Cant You Read My Mind

Why Can't You Read My Mind? By Jeffrey Bernstein

Too many women I know expect their men to be psychic and figure out what they really mean by what they say, and now author JEFFREY BERNSTEIN, with contributor SUSAN MAGEE, address this very issue in" CANT YOU READ MY MIND?

If you find yourself having the same silly fights with your boyfriend or husband over and over again and feel like you're getting nowhere, then this book is definitely going to help you with the very toxic behaviors and thought patterns that are leading to the same arguments" CANT YOU READ MY MIND? will help you point out the toxic behaviors on your end that are sinking your relationship and will serve to teach you how to address the issues that matter and resolve them without having to yell or break anything.

Of course, reading the book won't instantly change your toxic behavior - it will take you some time to make the changes and make them stick, but at least now you'll be equipped with the knowledge of what's causing these issues and the steps you need to take to have a happier relationship.

Reading this book is easy because Jeffrey Bernstein's style is upbeat and fun, and he uses plain English to drive his points home.

And perhaps you don't think that you have anything to do with the problems in your relationship, but after you read" CANT YOU READ MY MIND? , you may change your thought process on that.

RATING: 4.5 OUT OF 5

She Losing Interest

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