Dating Tips Online Tips To Increase Your Chances

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Here are some important dating tips that can help people in day-to-day life.

Eliminate your worries and don't expect anything - Dating is all about enjoyment and entertainment. It is strongly recommended that you should not take any type of tension or stress. Success of dating is important but it is not the end of the world. Be positive and enjoy your dating like anything.

TIME Time plays important role especially when you are on date with your partner. You can spend n number of hours with your partner if you are in relationship for last few months or years. However, you should spend only 2-3 hours if it is your first date.

CONTROL THE ENTIRE SITUATION Few people compare the world control with dominate. No, it is not correct. Dominate and control both is two different words and contains different meaning altogether. Please keep in mind that no body likes to be dominated.

TEASE Yes, you can tease your partner with small things but don't bother him/her more. Try to attract his/her attention with the help of small pranks. They will definitely help you in long run.

Suggested free e-books to read:

C Kellogg - Dating Tips For Men Special Report
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How To Make Women Think About You

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If you've seen the classic cult movie "Swingers", then you probably remember the part where the guys are discussing how long a guy should wait to call a woman after he's gotten her phone number.

The scene really hits home for a lot of guys because it gets down to a real-world situation that we all confront and ponder.

I get a lot of emails from guys asking me what to do in this very situation.

The more I've thought about it, the more I realize that this particular question (and the answer to it) are part of a bigger, more important CONCEPT about how to deal with women.

Let me explain.

When a guy asks me "How long should I wait to call her?" this immediately tells me a few things:

1) The guy doesn't feel like he's in control of the situation. If he felt like he was in control, then it he wouldn't ask, because it wouldn't matter.

2) The guy doesn't really "get" how male/female attraction works. If he did get it, then he'd be thinking in those terms rather than trying to figure out the exact best amount of time to wait before calling.

To put it differently, the "when do I call her back?" problem is part of a bigger concept, and once you understand that bigger concept better, then you'll have an automatic feel for when to call a woman back.

Most guys don't "get" one simple point:

If you want a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you, then you must behave differently than if you want her to feel that "just friends" feeling.

In the world of ATTRACTION, things are completely different.

For instance, our moms taught all of us guys to "be nice" to women. This usually includes being sweet and complimentary when first meeting them, answering all of their questions directly, and giving them what they want when they want it.

But if you want a woman to feel that INSTANT GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION right from the beginning, then you're going to have to put aside this kind of thinking, and start learning some NEW ideas.

For instance:

1) A challenge is generally attractive to women.

2) Teasing and being evasive is generally attractive to women.

3) Making fun of a woman's appearance in a flirty way, as counter-intuitive as it might sound, can lead to ATTRACTION.

I'm trying to communicate the idea that when you're dealing with ATTRACTION, you have to put aside old "normal" ways of thinking and behaving.

I would like to mention one more point before getting into the specifics here

These days, people are becoming very sensitive to having "techniques" used on them.

If a salesman uses a sales technique on us, we immediately get defensive and resistant.

If a panhandler asks for money in a way that smells of "tricks or "techniques" we pass them by without pity.

If a business treats us like a "thing" or a number instead of an individual person, we avoid them or buy elsewhere.

We humans don't like having manipulation techniques used on us, and when we detect that someone or something is using one to get the better of us, we resist.

So let's get back to the "how long to wait before calling her back" issue.

If you think about it, every situation is slightly different. One time you might meet a woman in the morning at coffee, and another time you might meet a woman at a club at 1 in the morning.

If you wait too long to call her back, I think you run the risk of seeming like you're just using a technique on her and you come across as a player who's trying to do your thing on her.

When deciding how long to wait before you call or email, I think it's important to ask yourself this question:


Here are a couple of ideas I have used with great success:

1) Email instead of calling first. I personally email the next day. I'll start with a charming email to get the conversation started and then tell her that I'm going to call in a day or two. This has the effect of making contact with her relatively quickly, but still creating anticipation because you haven't actually talked.

2) Call the next day, and make a joke about the situation. I might call and say, "Yeah, I was watching Swingers and they said to wait three days to call, but I was kind of in more of a one day mood"

If you didn't get her email address and you MUST use the phone, just do your best to avoid being AVERAGE.

I personally believe that our attention spans as humans are getting shorter and shorter. We have more and more information coming in from television, newspapers and other sources - and we're getting cultural A.D.D. I think that if you wait too long, you're risking either being seen as using a technique, or risking being forgotten altogether.

But if you make the opposite mistake and call too soon (for instance a few hours later), you run the risk of being seen as a needy Wuss who has no life.

In past newsletters, I have written about why it's important to leave immediately after getting a woman's email and/or number.

How long you should wait to call her back is a natural extension of this.

As a matter of fact, if you get a woman's email/number and then you keep coming over to talk to her, it can almost be seen as waiting 5 minutes to call her.

There's no anticipation, and it says all the wrong things.

A couple of other quick pointers for when you're making that first call:

1) Be busy. If you're going to ask her to join you for tea or something similar, make sure you mention two times that you're busy for every one time that you're available.

2) Don't linger on the phone. Make that first call short and to the point. If you stay on the phone for more than a few minutes, you're running the risk of getting into a normal "What do you do?", "Where do you live?", "Where did you go to school?" conversation. Avoid this.

To summarize, when in doubt wait a day or so to contact her again.

But more importantly, think about the situation in terms of anticipation and ATTRACTION, so when you do make contact it creates the correct context.


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Dont Compare Yourself To Others By David Wygant

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So someone asked me a really good question, and he said, "man, I've been involved in the pick-up world, I've been doing all of this stuff trying to pick up women, and I've been at it a full year now, and there are some guys who are just better than me!"

What is funny about that is that, for one, life is a marathon - not a sprint. You can't compare yourself to other people and their accomplishments. Everybody learns at a different pace. Everyone learns things in different ways.

Not only that, but there are so many different ways to understand how to meet women - there are so many different methods. My method is more based on natural conversational styles and real inner confidence, which happens to take a little bit longer to learn and to manifest.

There are other guys out there that teach "handy-dandy pick-up lines" that you can use in an instant - and that works for some guys. But you have to realize that everybody's learning curve is different. Everybody has to learn at their own speed.

What a lot of guys fail to do is to embrace their small wins. They are always looking for the complete victory - it's almost like it's baseball preseason and you're already thinking about being in the World Series - you don't even want to play the full season, you're just trying to get to the Series.

But you've got to get up to the plate everyday and take your swings, and you also have to be okay with fucking up! It's really okay just to fuck up.

So you've walked over to a woman, you've approached her, and what you said didn't resonate with her. It doesn't mean that what you said to her was wrong; it means that you just didn't resonate with her. There just wasn't any chemistry.

You can't manipulate every single situation to work in your favor. You have to be okay with screwing up. You have to say to yourself everyday, "okay I'm going to go out, and talk to ten women today, and some of them are just not going to like me" - but what are you trying to do? What are you trying to accomplish?

What you are trying to do is to find one or two women to have an amazing conversation with. If you really think about it, you can't have chemistry with every person that you talk to. You just can't. You really need to grasp your mind around that and understand that it's okay to go out there and screw up.

If you go out there and screw up, it means that you are trying. If you are trying, then you are going to get it right, because if you practice, then you will start getting it right all the time.

You will start understanding situations better - you'll start trusting your gut instinct. Most guys don't trust their gut instinct when they first start out - they compare themselves to other people who are "better" than them - they just want to be that "better" person.

They never really think about what that "better" person went through - personally, I know what I went through, and it was YEARS of torture trying to figure this stuff out! In my 20s, I had days that were amazing, and I had days where I couldn't even spit out the word "hello" to a woman. And I couldn't figure out how I could be so good one day and so bad the next.

I used to take things personally. I would go and talk to a woman, and she just wouldn't be interested, and I would think it was something that I did. But then I realized it wasn't me, there just wasn't any chemistry between us - she wasn't vibing me, I wasn't vibing her.

You've got to realize that whatever pace you are going at is the pace that's right for you. As long as you are out there, every single day, trying - going out there, opening women up, flirting with women, talking with dudes (because you want to talk to guys too, so your conversation skills improve), listening - then you are doing well.

If you're doing the three key elements: observing (opening somebody up with an observation you made about them), having a conversation (and a conversation means listening and not just talking at that person), and leaving that person with the feeling that you had a positive interaction together, then you are going to be doing things that are right.

But you have to give yourself that permission to go out there and screw up. Most guys don't want to give themselves that permission. They think that if they don't get this one girl, it's all over - or they compare themselves to somebody else and they feel insecure. They say, "god, I've been doing this for a year!"

Think about this: how long does it take to become a good major league pitcher? Years, right? How long does it take to become Barry Bonds? Years and some good steroids, right?

How long does it take to put on a good campaign for President of the United States? Years! You are branding yourselves right now, and what you first have to realize is who you are, what you're all about, what you stand for, and what type of people you attract.

It's not about trying to win, and it's not about being better than other people. You want to be the best that YOU can possibly be.


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Texting A Girl Who Speaks A Different Language

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from our forum at

Hey Malvin, thanks for the kind words dude! And also for sharing some of your thoughts. Let's see how we can address your two concerns, 1). Being Compelling to pick up women and 2). Not being able to take alcohol. We'll consider your second issue first.

Not drinking: Ok, I have some asian friends who definitely get the asian flush, and I know that it really inhibits them. That's fine the whole point of social drinking is not drinking for the sake of drinking, but moreso, to lower your inhibitions when you're out and to make it easier to attract women. It puts you in a different social and emotional state. But if you don't enjoy it, then hey, it will affect your state negatively, and that is exactly the opposite of why people (should) drink in the first place. So don't worry about it just have fun in your own way and be comfortable with who you are. There are going to be some girls you're not going to connect with because a.) they'll enjoy being drunk with other people who are drunk or b.) they'll think it's weird that you don't. Whatever too much work and probably too much drama. Just be who you are and have fun as you do and you'll find girls who secretly admit to you that they wish they drank less, or that they don't drink much either, and you guys can have a secret "non-drinkers" handshake or something and you will get women.

See? It's just about making it enjoyable for you and some girls, no matter what the circumstances.

As for the "being compelling" when trying to get women and the texting, probably two separate issues. But for both, I'd suggest that you not be worried about what comes of them, and just start being playful. It takes a bit of time to develop a playful attitude but once you do it really comes across in all your convos. Here's a recent text convo I had with a girl around 3:45 AM:

Me: Buenas nochas senorita catch u after the wknd!

Her: Haha I'm about to start teaching you Russian

Me: Please do what's lesson 1?

Her: Umm (russian expression)

Me: I think u just made my head explode what's that mean?

Her: Go find a translater =P

Me: Not cool (name) u realize my cognitive prowress right now = poor! Just enough brains to figure out my taxi tip!

Her: Ugggh I hate figuring out tip ESP when your paying with a credit card PS its (name)

Me: Haha ok well if you get the spelling on my name right it's a million points and at this hour, remembering it is 1K

Her: Lmaaooo I sucj at spelling and im an immigrant I'll teach you Russian & about shoes and you teach me spelling! Deal!

Anyway, it went on like this for awhile. Point being it is fairly nonsensical and just playful. Bad grammer and spelling. It doesn't matter because texting, to me, is for a.) flirting and b.) logistics. Work on pushing it a little bit in your texts in order to pick up women.

Now, finally, being compelling to get women and doing it with your approaches. Broadly, you just need to have interesting things to talk about, and want to share them with people. Pickups can be about a lot of things - if you're going for rapport, then definitely just talk about stuff that interests you and try to relate it back to her. The attraction-based stuff is something else entirely, we'll discuss that another time!

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Philip Redhead - How To Read Body Language
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Online Dating Made Simple

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Online dating is an interesting conglomeration of supply and demand. The demand in this case is love and unfortunately there is an overabundance of supply - simply put there's too many girls selling the same qualities. "I enjoy long walks on the beach, movies, traveling and music." I mean seriously, who doesn't? Online dating, contrary to what you might believe, is not painless and is not easy. It can be cutthroat and so you must advertise yourself in a way that will allow yourself to stand out from your peers.

One of the most important preparatory steps you should take is to do your research. Many people omit this crucial step, but think about the implications. There are many online dating websites, each cultured to a certain niche of people. You want to be attracting people of a similar demographic to yourself and so if you go about putting immense effort into a certain website, but it turns out they are of a totally different age group, you just wasted a good amount of time that you could have spent doing something much more productive.

When you fashion your profile, realize that when he contacts you, eventually he will meet you in person. So do not pretend to be somebody you're not! Because eventually if things do get serious, he will realize it's not true. If you don't enjoy watching basketball, don't write "I love sports" simply because most guys do. You want to show them a real version of you. Put your best qualities forward. Are you always fun and cheerful? Instead of writing, "I'm a fun person to be around", you could write, "You will love me in your life." Not only does it convey confidence, it's almost challenging potential daters to date you. Couple this with a cute profile picture of you and a friend, they will be thinking, "Wow, what a cute and fun girl."

However, there are the pitfalls of being lured in by a predator. Online dating allows a precise vulnerability - anonymity. This anonymity can anyone to create a false persona in an image of their choosing. If you find yourself seemingly divulging extremely personal information, be on your guard. People are often not who they say they are. Is he trying to meet you in shady locations? Is he very guarded in the amount of information he gives to you? Consider crossing him off your list. The world is vast beyond belief. It is of epic proportions and as such, the amount of good men out there is equally large. Don't get discouraged by not getting results in the short run because probability's money says you will find him sooner or later. It is always better to be safe than sorry. Of course it is always very difficult to rein yourself in when you think you've met the perfect guy, but that's the thing. Nobody's perfect.

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Joseph Matthews - Meeting Dating And Seducing Women
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Field Report Fake Number

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It happens to every PUA, right? You meet some girl at a bar, have a conversation and number close thinking you'll talk to her again in a couple of days. Then you try calling or texting and you find out you've been duped. Even though several female friends have admitted giving guys fake numbers to spare their feelings, I never thought it would happen to me. Of all the numbers closes I've made, I've never had a fake number. Well, it finally happened to me and I've been trying to figure out what led to her giving me a fake number. I understand why I woman would give a guy a fake number, to save them from rejection, but I'd rather have a woman be honest with me. You be the judge. Check out my field report and tell me what you think.

On my first night out of 2011 I went to a local karaoke bar. I wasn't expecting any approachable sets to be there but I went anyways to meet some friends. My assumption was dead on because the bar was filled with middle aged people. After a couple of drinks an old friend shows up with his girlfriend and two of her cousins, one of which was a solid HB8. She was about 5'3", slender, with shoulder length hair and a nice smile. The four of them went across the bar to a table. Later in the night a friend tells me the HB8 wants to meet me and that I should go over and introduce myself.

I had a warm approach on my hands, as opposed to a cold approach. A warm approach is when you meet someone from within your social circle. In this case, the HB8 was related to a friend's girlfriend. I approach the set to wish my friend a happy birthday then opened the HB8. I opened her by asking what she was going to sing. She mentions her disappointment for the bar's lack of Doors songs which led to a drawn out discussion on music. After that we talked about trips she's taken, her background and other meaningless subjects.

Even though the conversation was mediocre, she kept giving me indicators of interest (IOIs). She would reengage me in conversation when I'd chat with my friend. She asked me to sit down and she asked me several of the common getting-to-know-you questions. At one point of the music thread, she asked for my address to send me a compilation CD of her favorite Doors songs. I told her to write it down on her cell phone and she responded by saying she didn't own a cell phone. That should have set off a warning sign but I continued the boring conversation anyways.

After awhile of meaningless chit-chat, I ended the conversation and returned to my friends across the bar. At the end of the night, on her way out she came over to say goodbye and I number closed. A few days later I texted her and never received a response. I called but it just rang without going to a voicemail.


There are two things that I think contributed to the fake number. First, I didn't set a time constraint. I lingered for far too long after the conversation lost any of its interest. Second, I reverted back to my old ways of boring conversation topics. One of my sticking points is forgetting everything I've learned whenever I meet an attractive woman. This was definitely one of those moments.

What do you think? Could I have done anything different?

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Petunia Wants You To Get Cheekd

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While living in New York City, I think I was fixed up with all of Manhattan and most of Brooklyn (the Jewish part). I would call my mum from the bathroom stalls of restaurants and bars. "Get out," she would tell me over the phone and I would glance at the teeny, barred-up windows that led to the dark alleyways.

One night, on a date at a new and trendy restaurant in the village, I found myself making eye contact across the room with a very handsome man, dining with another man. I'm telling you, we didn't stop looking at each other. He was just my type. Sandy blonde hair and that "I don't care but I really do" style, while my date was...well...very nice and clean. I spent an hour strategizing my move. Finally I excused myself to the lady's room. On my way back, I casually walked by the man's table. I dropped my business card on the floor, picked it up, and placed it on their table. "I think you dropped something," I said looking right at him. "Ah merci," he replied sincerely, thinking that he had really dropped something (of course he was Euro). Heart racing, I returned to my table. He never looked at me again.

I'm a Social Worker by profession. Perhaps he thought I was offering him therapy? Or maybe he had a girlfriend, or a boyfriend, or he just didn't find me cute and the eye f@#&ing was all in my head. Either way, if I would have had my Cheek'd cards on me this whole process would have been a lot easier!

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Confidence In Dating 6 Tips To Boost It

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In order to date successfully with the man or a woman, one needs to raise his or her confidence level. Some things are really very easy to change but other takes some more time. Simply by following these below tips you can give your confidence a boost may be you are single man or a woman:

1. Just start doing the things that you wish you do always with the courage such as a hobby, sport or any other. Try not to look back.

2. Start to change your daily routines that let you feel down. If you connect with all those people who disparage a lot then you can lose your confidence easily.

3. Make sure that you are comfortable with any of the changes that you are making.

4. Your confidence will increase as you will feel better about yourself rather than what others feel it.

5. Always try to learn as you like and love yourself. Do not even try to allow yourself in negativity like in the family comments as that may be able to influence you easily.

6. Try to become very friendly and look over to a best opportunity.

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Artist Sells Life After Being Dumped

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Have you ever had your heart broken so bad that you wanted to just drop everything and start all over? Well that's exactly what Japser Joffe did.

Jasper Joffe, a British artist, decided that he would sell everything he owns except the clothes on his back. Fittingly called "The sale of a lifetime", from July 29 to August 2, 2009, Jasper Joffe is auctioning off his worldly possessions. But where will they sleep?!?

And Jasper Joffe is doing all this because he got dumped by his girlfriend and is essentially hoping that his girlfriend will feel like crap for dumping him and come back into his life.

What Jasper Joffe doesn't realize is that when most women dump their boyfriends, it's because they have had it and are virtually disgusted at the mere mention of their name. So if anything, this gesture will be looked upon as pathetic, not romantic.

And just in case you're wondering, Jasper Joffe is going to make some serious coin; he plans to sell everything in 33 lots priced at over $5,000 each. So that should keep him warm for a couple of months.


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Good Halloween Time To Make It Happen

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How was your Halloween? Hopefully you got down and dirty with a beautiful lady (or ladies). If not, let's get rolling on those skills!

If you had a so-so night, then you might need to bring things back into perspective and learn the essentials again.

Here are a few reviews to check out that will help get you motivated, and out of your funk:


Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo has been around for quite awhile. A new version of his eBook was released last year with some very good updates. It's about cocky and funny, attraction isn't a choice and not being a wussy. If you've never heard of those sayings, read my review immediately.

"Check out my review of Double Your Dating"


The definitive guide for routine-based game. Do you have a hard time remembering what to say, or often get nervous when talking to women? Magic Bullets and the Routines Manual by Love Systems offer step-by-step routines, body language secrets, and things to get attraction pumped up!

"Check out my review of Magic Bullets, and the Routines Manual."


Paul Janka is New York City's casanova. He has gotten the numbers of thousands of women and knows what it takes to get them into your bed. His methods are direct, unapologetic and deliver results.

"Check out my review of Attraction Formula"

Read those reviews, and post your thoughts in the comments below.

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Ron Louis - How To Succeed With Women
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Seduction Community

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I am pretty sure that seminars and bootcamps will wind down, Significantly for most pick up industry big and medium names. I dont think it will affect lower ranged priced items, if anything, it might increase the demand for them as people no longer buy seminars and boot camps.

Pickup is a luxury industry, some will argue that men need to meet women, to that i will say. If a man trully wants to get laid, he will go and get a hooker, instant gratification. Ability to meet women is a long term skill, aka not sex drive imediate satisfaction. Following me? good, and thats why pick up seminar can be postponed. I been watching economic colapse very closely, and it is 100% certain that it will and has already affected pick up and dating coaches. In the next few month, we will find unwinding of the financial faliures that happened in september and now. If i were big pick up guys, i would start shoring up cash. On the other hand, they have very little overhead, so i guess they will be alright.

I've been thinking of releasing new products, but i am short on time and any significant development will take a lot of attention. I just did seminar recently on natural skill of meeting and dating, and that's 5 hours of Audio + Notes and but thats the easy part. To hire someone to edit it, to make it, and the biggest part is to build website that will resonate with people who want to improve their natural ability at meeting women, thats the main difficulty. I will probably take up this project next summer.

New York Dating Coach in NYC



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Book Review If Only He Knew

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If Only He Knew, What No Woman Can Resist

By Gary" Only He "will help you develop better relationships with all the women in your life. So now your mom might actually stop nagging and criticizing you.

But be warned; you can't use these tips in the book for a week and then go back to your old ways; it'll just make the women in your life resent you even more. There's nothing worse than the promise of change that lasts all of 7 days. If you're going to follow the tips in the book, make sure they're lifestyle changes, not fads.


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Woman Changes Able Man Diapers

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JANET SHULTE, a woman residing in Melbourne, Florida was hired by a "disabled" man to take care of him by feeding him and changing his diapers for 3 months. Unfortunately, because he missed a payment, she came to realize that he was not disabled at all, he just enjoyed being treated like an infant.

Infantilism involves a phycho-sexual attraction to diapers, and sometimes includes fantasies of a return to infancy, and that's exactly what this man craved. But JANET SCHULTE was not happy to discover that she was bottle feeding and changing an otherwise capable man. But then, he was paying her $600 a week.

But when he missed a payment, JANET SHULTE tried to contact the "adult brother" of the disabled man and slowly came to the realization that they were one and the same.

And while JANET SHULTE is hella pissed and wants this man arrested, police can't do anything about it because, technically, he did not commit any crime.

I don't get it; he was paying her well and she was taking care of him. So why is she so angry? Does she feel like she was taken advantage of?

There are women who would love nothing more than to have a grown man act like a helpless child so they can take care of them. JANET SHULTE, however, was already married.

Also, why the hell do people investigate a situation after the fact and not before? She got this job off Craigslist for God's sakes.

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Dating Tips For Men The Art Of Courting

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Today, we are discussing some important dating tips for men.

Ask her for a date - This is the most difficult job for anyone. Being a boy, you should call her and ask her about the day. If she says that it is not a good day for her, then do not even think about date. In case, she replies nicely about the day, then do not miss the opportunity.

Make the arrangement quickly - Whenever a boy asks girl for a date, girls expect a lot. So, book everything in advance so that you can let her know about your planning skills. You can book the restaurant, musician, cake, gift, cab etc. in advance.

Investment - There are many people who spend thousand of dollars to make their women happy but it does not work. Making wise investment is necessary; either you talk about the time or money.

Dress - Do not try to look like Hollywood stars. You can not be like them at all. So, try to be yourself and dress sensibly according to the place.

Gift - Gift plays very important role. Whenever you meet with your partner on date, do not forget to present her a nice gift. It will make your date really beautiful and nice.

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How To Recover From A Bad Breakup

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by David Deangelo.


I am at the end of long long divorce settlement - (18 months) I started dating about six months after our split -- meeting most on the internet- Found I was naturally using some cocky and funny but accelerated when I started getting your newsletter.

Meeting them and lining them up has been no problem-but once we are intimate -they want exclusivity-I can't know what I want yet (except sex)-but don't want some of the good ones to get away-I keep hearing "you want your cake and eat it too!"

Also--had one I was dating recently-wanted to know about anybody and everyone else I was seeing --said the openness was good for a relationship.

I disagreed?



I'm glad you wrote in because I think that this is a topic that is near and dear to a lot of single men. And, even though I have not been married myself, I know what it's like to be in a relationship for a couple of years and then all of a sudden be single again and I know what it's like to start over again.

You have brought up some great points here, so let's see if I can add some insight.

First, I think that it's pretty natural for a guy who has just ended a long term relationship to feel rather "naked" when it comes to women and dating. Often times, there are problems and drama when two people break up, and sometimes you even have jealousy and other issues to deal with. So, one of the most important things to do when you're "getting back into the swing of things" is to remember that things will improve with time. It might take you a few weeks or months after you start dating again to feel like "you're back".

You might even feel a little needy and lonely, which I also think is natural after breaking up with someone to whom you were very close.


Now, it doesn't sound to me like this is your problem but, I think that something like this might be part of one of your problems.


Whatever I'll just keep talking and you'll figure out what I'm saying. You probably had been in your relationship for at least a few YEARS. When you're in a relationship for this long, I think that guys naturally start behaving differently than they would if they were just dating a woman. It's natural and expected that you're going to see your spouse every day, sleep with her every night (I said sleep with, not have sex with I know, I know) and generally be "around" all the time. Well, when you start DATING a woman, one of the KEY factors that she looks at to decide whether or not you're going to be "relationship" material is HOW MUCH TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER.

I'm going to bet that these women you're meeting who want to be "exclusive" with you, are responding that way because you're spending A LOT of time with them. If you're only interested in dating and not in forming a relationship, then try this:


And only call her once or twice a week as well.

This should solve your "I want to be exclusive" problem. Women tend to get into "relationship mode" when you start ACTING like you're already in one. And a big part of that is how often you see her. If you only see her once a week or so, a woman will sense, on a deep level, that you're not ready to "settle down" with her, and that you're busy doing other things and PROBABLY dating other women. Next, you mentioned that you were dating a woman and she wanted to know about every other woman you were seeing, and that "the openness would be good for the relationship".


I wasn't there when she said it, so I can't be sure, but my guess is that what she meant was "The openness would be good for ME because I want to know", and NOT that it would be good for the "relationship". This is subtle, but see if you can follow me. You said that you disagreed (with a question mark, which to me means that you'd like to know whether or not I agree with you disagreeing). I'd like to know HOW you disagreed, personally. A lot of guys come across as weak when they disagree because they just sound either argumentative or insecure - or even worse, like they're trying to hide something.

If a woman said to me, "Tell me about all the other women you're seeing. I think it would be good for the relationship" I'd probably say:

"Whose relationship are you talking about?"

and then I'd laugh.

Or I might say, "I don't kiss and tell" then smile at her.

In any case, I would NOT communicate in a way that says "I'm uncomfortable" or "I'm going to give you what you want so you like me".

You have to remember that a woman is going to test your limits at ALL TIMES. And it never ends.

If you kiss up to a woman and give her what she's asking in the moment, she probably won't respect you in the LONG TERM because she knows that she can get whatever she wants from you.

So, if you answer a question like this by either:




then she's going to feel like she "has something on you" and that she can get her way with you in the future. Or she might just up and leave because she feels like you're seeing other women AND trying to hide it.

I know, isn't it all so complex?

My personal perspective on this topic is that a man and woman should typically wait at LEAST a few months before getting into any kind of "relationship". And if I'm dating a woman and she asks me if I'd like to get into a relationship, and if I'm seeing other women, I'll answer something like this:

"First of all, I don't think it's a good idea for a man and woman to have a RELATIONSHIP relationship until after they've known each other for AT LEAST 3-6 months. One of the reasons why a lot of relationships end so BADLY is because the two people didn't take the time to get to know each other first. Also, I think it's a bad idea to talk about other people that you're seeing during that time because almost nothing good can come of it" - and I leave it at that.

As you can probably tell, I really believe this. Again, it's crucial that you don't answer a question like this in a way that is defensive or argumentative. If you do, you'll risk being rejected for being sneaky or dishonest. To sum up, it sounds to me like you're probably used to being in a close relationship, and you're ACTING like you're in a relationship with these women that you're just dating. When you do this, a woman will start to feel those "relationship" emotions and start asking questions and behaving like she's your girlfriend. If you lean back a little, if you don't see a woman more than once or twice a week, and if you stop behaving in a way that says "we're in a relationship now", then the women will get it. They'll pick up on your body language and communication and stop acting like girlfriends or wives.

There's no better or faster way to get your act together and start getting dates with the kinds of women you'd like to date. Often, the end of a relationship is a "second chance" to date women who are more compatible with you or who are more physically attractive.

I've found that men who have been in relationships for several years, often find AMAZING insights when they review my materials because they can RELATE to everything so well. It's a lot easier to see where you've made mistakes in the past, and it's a lot easier to see what you need to do with other women in order to be successful.


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