I'd like to break down a common notion that's tossed throughout the community often. That is that you say COCKY AND FUNNY LINES and you get a certain response - attraction. Some men that are new to the concept of cocky and funny tend to use it ALL the time, never allowing the conversation to mature, gain rapport and are always staying on the superficial level of COCKY AND FUNNY. DON'T LET THIS BE YOU.
A pure cocky and funny attitude is UNHEALTHY, and should not be used. David Deangelo has never supported this type of behavior. Guys that are insecure who have finally found this 'holy grail' tend to keep using it because they like the reactions the women are sending back. You need to sprinkle this formula in with your normal vibing, and rapport, just like you would a spice for a meal. Too much spice ruins the meal, too little and you can't taste a thing.
I've noticed for myself as I've used the concept of cocky and funny, that I OVERDID it to begin with. I totally went hell-bent on COCKY AND FUNNY LINES, like, "Oh you love me" or the typical David Deangelo line "I'm glad you like it". Yawn.
Let's be proactive in using COCKY AND FUNNY the RIGHT way.
My friend Stephen Nash broke it down when I had one-on-one coaching with him while visiting New York City. He basically told me,
"The brilliance of cocky and funny is that it's flirting - pure and simple. Teasing is flirting. Cocky and funny is simply flirting. You flirt to gain attraction and interest, and to tell her that you know what's going on, that you have social value, and you play this game. Once that's accomplished, don't get bogged down and only flirt, you need to build a connection, and show her your value in other areas of your life."
So onto my favorite cocky and funny lines.
Remember they have to be "Cocky and FUNNY". Some guys just don't get the humor of it
EXAMPLE #1: (Just last Friday night)
Waitress comes over
Waitress: "There you go" *hands me my to-go box*
Me: *I look at the box with a curious face* "Where's the ahh number?"
Waitress: "Oh you give that to me"
Me: *Putting my hand on my head, and looking down almost looking embarrassed* "You know you come to a place like this expecting *sigh* a certain level of professionalism and you get this" (With a smile at the end)
Waitress: *snatches the box and comes back with her number written*
Her: Do you have a pen?
Me: Yeah, and I'll let you use it to write your number down for me.
You: Tonight is your lucky night
Her: Oh really? Why is that?
You: Because you finally got to go out with me
You: But no touching I do all the touching!
Me: It's tough to be such a sex symbol.
Me: "Listen, I'm sorry for being out of touch, I've been very, very busy. But I'm available now (suddenly changing tone of voice, like a salesman) but only for a limited time only, at a low, low price of $14.99 an hour!"
WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE LINES? GOT ANY EXAMPLES OF COCKY AND FUNNY (FLIRTING)?
If you'd like to learn proper techniques for crafting your own cocky and funny lines and how it will help your game with women, take quick peek at some of the video clips over at David Deangelo's Cocky Comedy site.
Suggested free e-books to read:Dr Robert Lind - It Is Your Choice Decision Making And Goal Setting
Ole Flirty Bastard - Cocky And Funny Guide
Muzzu - Total Guide To Be Cocky And Funny
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