Are You A Crazed Self Talker

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Are you a self-talker? Are you one of those people who, when you go out and meet people, can always find a way to turn any conversation around and make it about yourself?

Do you like to talk at people and dominate 75%-80% of the conversation? Or when you meet a group of people and the conversation is about something in which you are not interested, do you always seem to find a way to change the topic of conversation to something that does interest you (and something that will allow you to talk at people)?

Have you ever met a self-talker, or are you yourself a self-talker?

Self-talkers are the worst listeners in the world. All they like to do is constantly talk about themselves, their accomplishments, their achievements, their travels, their works, and whatever else about themselves it might be. They will manipulate every single conversation so it goes in their direction. They are some of the most irritating people in the world. When I run into self talkers I always look the other direction.

It's funny how many guys (and women) will email me and say, "I joined this group or I was at this party the other day, and I just didn't have anything at all to contribute to the conversation. Do you ever feel that way?"

If you don't have anything to contribute to a conversation, it is because you're not about listening and are a self-talker. It is because all you can ever do is talk about yourself, and you're not listening to the conversation going on around you. Instead of adding to the conversation, all you are thinking about as you're standing there is how you can change the conversation so it goes in your direction.

Self-talkers are the most boring people I've ever met. People who just talk at you for two hours straight are boring.

I don't want to hear everything about you and your life. I just want to be able to participate in a conversation with a normal individual.

If you are a self-talker, then it's time you really started listening to other people. Give the rest of the world a break and start listening and participating in a real conversation.

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Dating Services Match Making Services For Singles

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Since there are many dating services available in market, it is quiet difficult to choose any one of them. It is advisable to checkout everything of these services and makes the wise decision as per your need and requirement. First of all, it is mandatory to understand that what exactly you are looking for. People use the services for many reasons, like fun, entertainment, enjoyment, serious relationship, live, mental peace, emotional relief etc. There is no discrimination on the basis of age, gender, nationality etc. However, many websites only invite and approve membership of people who are 18 years old or more due to legal problems.

Dating services are provided by millions of websites around the world. Almost 10 billions people are member of these websites and they are enjoying their lives with such services. It completely depends on your personality and thinking whether you want to go with paid or free service. It is a well known fact that money helps you to get the best services. But, it is strongly recommended to go with free services if you are new for dating world. First, you should learn the rule and regulation of this world.

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Single Dating Tips Tips To Get Your Partner

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Dating is a dream of many single people especially for those who are ready to mingle. Before jumping into the arena of dating, it is important to get some single dating tips. These tips or advices would help you a lot wither you are male or female.

Generally, people don't like their single status. But don't forget that ladies always get attracted towards the single people instead who are already engaged. Don't feel bad about your status and use it as biggest opportunity. No one would like to spend time to date with an individual who is committed already.

Another important single dating tip is to join maximum single group. These groups always attract the attention of single males and females. By joining such groups, you will create good opportunity for yourself.

There are many other single dating tips as well like don't forget to take advice or suggestion from your cousins or friends who are already in relationships. It is important to spend some time with them and share their good and bad experience. Their experience will work for you great because you can easily tackle those situations.

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Dating After Divorce Get Back Spark Into Your Life

Dating After Divorce Get Back Spark Into Your Life Image
We have seen many debates in past on the topic of dating after divorce. After divorce, a person goes through with various psychological and emotional changes. As a result, it is a very important decision whether you want to date again or not just after divorce. According to many people, divorcees can not hold dating situation easily especially when they recently got the divorce. Actually, a person goes through various bad situations before divorce. Hence, it is quiet difficult to make a new start again. Are you planning to checkout your fortune again with new partner?

If yes, then there are some tips for people who are dating after divorce.

Confidence - Please make sure that you are confident enough about yourself and your life. In case, you have a minor doubt, then cancel the date immediately. Be confident and go on date like you are in your 20s.

Timing - Time is an important factor. Many people take at least rest few months before attempting any new date. On the other hand, few people attempt the date on the next day of divorce.

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Do Men Like Thick Pubic Hair

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For years women have been doing landing strips and even just waxing it all off in the name of "hygiene", but there is at least one man out there who disagrees and prefers to see a huge bush full of hair when a woman takes off her clothes for sexy time.

While most women prefer to at least trim the area and keep it neat so that the hair doesn't get knotted and out of control, some men actually prefer the bush because it keeps in all that pheromone goodness that some men enjoy. The aromatic scent is just hypnotic for some guys, it seems.

According to JOHN DEVORE: "In my experience, the more hair, the more pheromones. The more aromatic hormones dancing in my nostrils, the more booty-drunk I get." Wow. I mean, just, wow. I never thought of it that way.

He claims that a bare vagina not only looks prepubescent, it also takes away from the beauty of a vagina and makes it look more like an object.

Of course, not all women get rid of everything; some keep landing strips, others Doritos, and still others keep a thin reminder that, yes, there is a bush that is being kept under wraps.

But for the most part, rare is the vagina that is all funky and flower-power like. Nowadays, women don't even do it for guys anymore, it's simply ingrained into our culture.

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Poems About Love A Way To Express Your Feelings

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Generally, people search for poems about love for their beloved. Actually, it is a nice way to share your feelings and emotions with your partners. Love poems have emerged as a fantastic path through which you can get your life-partner easily. Are you in a relationship? Being in a relationship is not a easy task, either you are boy or girl. You have to face lot of problems and issues. The most common problem is dispute between lovers.

Is your partner angry on you? Did you make a small mistake? If yes, then don't worry. Poems about love can help you a lot. There are many websites who provide you great and massive collection of love poems. Just access those websites and get the best love poem from there. These poems do not only help you to convince your partner but also help both of you to make closer. Yes, it is absolutely true. The technique of love poem is not new.

This technique is very old. Poems about love are available for everyone either you are teenager or 40 years old. These poems are meant to make your partner happy and satisfy.

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Love At First Sight Romantic Attraction For A Stranger

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Generally, people are not aware about the love at first sight. Some people claim it as a wrong feeling and some claim it most amazing feeling. Feeling something extraordinary or special about someone after seeing him/her first time can be the first step towards the love at first sight. Many people like to wait for few days and checkout their feelings. In case, they are feeling in the same way for next 2-4 weeks then they can go-ahead and propose him/her.

According to experts, love at first sight is more related about the physical appearance because it is not possible to fall in love with someone without knowing him/her. But few people claim that love at first is a starting of true love. According to them, everyone has some image in his/her mind about their partner and whenever they see someone quiet close to that image they naturally get attracted.

There can be a long discussion happened on love at first sight. However, it is important to keep your heart in control. Don't forget that hot food can burn your tongue. If you find someone interesting then approach him/her gradually.

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Boyfriend Cheats Then Returns

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Dating QA - Boyfriend cheats, then returns


My boyfriend broke up with me via text on a Saturday night and then called me to get back together on the Monday. Well, I found out that he slept with someone on Saturday night.

He says he didn't cheat on me because he dumped me beforehand. Am I insane here, or is this guy full of crap?

I love him, but I think this is unforgivable, even if he didn't cheat on me, technically.


Oh man, if this were my boyfriend, not only would I not take him back, if he had any stuff at my place, it would all be at the Salvation Army. What a loser. What is he, 14?

What man has that kind of attitude? Every time he wants to have sex with someone else, he'll just dump you for the weekend?

If you know what's good for you, you will dump his ass right now and eliminate anything about him from your life right now.


I've been having casual sex with this girl for about 3 months now. She only calls me late at night and never lets me sleep over.

I want more than just to sleep with her. I really like her. How can I tell her that I want more without risking the sexual relationship?


Sam, if you tell her you want more, 1 of two things will happen. Either she will love the idea and want to start seeing you on a more social level or she will be repulsed by the idea and tell you to screw off because now you can't just be sex partners anymore.

What you can do is start showing up at her place with maybe a movie or some snacks and drinks when she calls you over and see how she reacts. If she cuts you off right away, then you she's not having it.

But if she sits down, starts snacking and discusses the movie you brought, she might be interested in getting to know you better.

Next you can invite her out to dinner. It's possible that you may end up not feeling more for her in a social setting considering you only know her sexually. So prepare yourself for that.


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Five Ways To Become P Whipped Without Even Knowing What Hit You

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There's always a lot of emphasis placed on not giving one's power away when relating to women. Yet, the exact meaning of this concept continually eludes a lot of guys out there.

It's easy to see why this would be the case.

On one hand, the vast majority of us don't want to be controlling I/Js (Idiot/Jerks). But on the other hand, we see countless instances on television of guys in sitcoms who think they're "large and in charge", but who in reality are nothing more than, well...p-whipped.

It's pretty much your biggest nightmare when it comes to relationship management, isn't it?

As a man, you know you're supposed to provide leadership and a sense of security to a woman in a relationship. But there just aren't a lot of shining examples out there with regard to how to be effective at it.

It used to be that men knew how to quarterback a relationship. Men were men, and the women loved us for it.

But somewhere in the latter half of the twentieth century, something went awry.

Perhaps this all started way back in the Stone Age of television, when "The Honeymooners" graced the black and white screen. In case you're curious, I'm way too young to remember that also, but therein lies part of the problem.

You see, a major subplot of the show involved Jackie Gleason's booming, demanding, larger-than-life persona and how he related to his wife. Though seeming to have a "my way or the highway" attitude, whenever the chips were down he would crack under pressure and become an indecisive, self-loathing ball of confusion. It was then his wife would step in, take care of business and save the day.

The genius of Jackie Gleason was, of course...ironic comedy.

Why was the show so funny? You guessed it. Men didn't REALLY act like that. So when you saw it happening on television, it made you laugh.

Years later, The Flintstones were basically modeled after the Honeymooners. In between Ricky and Lucy had come along. And the die was cast.

Fast forward to today, and nearly EVERY television comedy involves a guy who is full of sound and fury, but in the end...p-whipped.

And because such scenarios have been a fixture on television for so long, most of us no longer remember when they weren't.

The danger is that we as guys begin to see that kind of relationship as NORMAL, rather than the comedic aberration it's meant to be.

The cold hard truth is this: Though women will test your ability to lead and provide security to a relationship, they really don't want to "own" you. Not in real life.

In fact, show me a woman who "wears the pants" in a relationship, and I'll show you a bitter, resentful woman.

Think about it. Running through the file cards of your mind, can you think of any woman you know who has her boyfriend in her back pocket but also respects him and adores him in the way most men desire?

Short of Cuba Gooding, Jr. and his wife in Jerry Maguire, you'll be hard pressed. Besides, the intent in Jerry Maguire is again ironic comedy.

So no doubt, it's time to get in touch with exactly how we as guys tend to fall into a dangerous state of having been "pwned" by the chick we're with.

Granted, I don't think any of us decide from the outset that we're going to become p-whipped. For most guys who end up in that zone, it all happens so gradually that one day you wake up and it dawns on you that you're already there.

Crazy, huh?

Here's a little 20/20 foresight for you. What follows are five ways you can get p-whipped without ever even realizing what hit you:


She's feeling sick or is too tired, so you cater to her (again) because you feel sorry for her. And since you are sick of the place looking like hell, you also do all the dishes...and pick up all the trash...and clean the bathroom...again.

I'm not saying that the opposite should be the case and that she should do all the heavy lifting. I'm simply demonstrating how the balance shifts from a reasonable place to "all you all the time".


OK, well she has burned your dinner and/or put too much salt in the spaghetti sauce one time too many. So you cook dinner from now on.

And she threw a red t-shirt in with your white socks again, ruining every pair you have. So you do the laundry from now on.

And whenever she does the grocery shopping, she has this way of buying $100 worth of stuff...and nothing to eat. Or drink, either.

If she demonstrates incompetence-or even perceived incompetence-enough, you'll pretty much take over everything...right?


Face it, we as guys can't stand theatrical demos and hurt feelings. The last thing the typical guy wants to handle is having made a woman cry.

So instead of dealing with the fallout from potential conflict, we avoid it altogether.


If you are not used to having high-quality options when it comes to women, you may very feel you've hit the friggin' jackpot when a true hottie walks into your life.

If your mindset is such that you feel you're going to have to be "Mr. Perfect" in order to pull off keeping her around, you're toast.


You may see yourself becoming a bit resentful and dissatisfied with how things are already going in the relationship. But in your mind it sounds like too much work to end this relationship and have to find another woman.

After all, how bad can it possibly get? Some people have nobody in their lives, so at least you have someone.

Once she knows you'll stick around no matter what happens, you've made yourself vulnerable to being taken for granted.

"Do you see a pattern here?" The irony of how most guys get p-whipped is that they initially see their decisions and subsequent actions as being rooted in strength. It's easy to enter into any of the situations above feeling like you're taking the proverbial "bull by the horns" and making something happen YOUR way and by YOUR rulebook.

For example, if you perceive she isn't getting things done or messing stuff up, you feel as if you're taking control by getting the job done. And by avoiding conflict, you may believe you've taken an active role keeping peace and stability.

And by focusing on utter perfection in hopes of earning the continued affection of a great woman, you might think you're giving 100%...which is a man's job.

And by "never giving up" on a relationship you could trick yourself into believing you are exhibiting the masculine trait of perseverance vis-`a-vis being a "quitter".

But because you are actually afraid of the unknown, you are really just "settling".

In each of these cases, actually, the subtle and insidious reality is that you quickly fall prey to tolerating passivity from the woman you are with, which-in a twist of ultimate irony-puts her in complete, utter control.



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Steps To Accept Your Cheater Boyfriend

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Cheating is one of the cardinal sins in a romantic relationship. No one wants to be cheated and be replaced by someone else. If you are a victim of men cheating, then you know how hard it is to get your life back on track. You may have experienced emotional trauma from the incident and you are hesitant in getting into another relationship. Heartache, pain, and depression are products of men cheating.

There are times when you get to chance to have a say when your cheater boyfriend realizes his mistake. He'll find out that the girl he replaced you with is not half the woman you are. He'll crawl back into your arms hoping to be forgiven and accepted. What are you to do? If you believe that he is truly sorry then accept him back. Sometimes, a cheater boyfriend just had a lapse in judgment and don't really have an intention to be one of the many men cheating on women. Bringing him back involves a great deal of trust so make sure you are making the right decision.


The first step to accepting your cheater boyfriend is to find out why he cheated. Men cheating can result from two things. For one, the men cheating are actually at fault. They are the ones who really went after other women even though they are experiencing healthy relationships with their girlfriends. Lust and desire play a part and your cheater boyfriend fell into temptation. In another scenario, the relationship might have been already falling apart and that's when your man cheated. He must have felt unhappy or unsatisfied that he went out and search for another woman.

You need to assess the real cause of cheating and make the necessary adjustments. If it was really his fault, then confront him about it. Discuss with him your concerns and ask him what he plans to do with his cheating tendencies. On the other hand, if it was actually your fault, reflect on how you were during the relationship. If you treated him badly, then make the required changes to accept him back.


Since men cheating are sensitive subjects, you can decide to enroll yourselves into couple counseling. A relationship counselor will provide a third person's point of view and he will give unbiased remarks regarding your situation. He or she can also help decide what the real cause of the failed relationship is and what you can to move forward. You and your cheater boyfriend will have a chance to express your thoughts and feelings in a controlled place where you can be monitored.


The final step to accept your cheater boyfriend is to forgive him. Forgiving him will benefit not only him, but you as well. All the negative emotions that come with cheating will be lifted and you'll be able to save your relationship. When you forgive, that doesn't necessarily mean that you will have to put your guard down. People will always have the tendency to cheat so make sure you make the adjustments to keep your man from cheating. There will always be men cheating but don't let your ex cheater boyfriend be one of them again.

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Know How To Flirt With Online Flirting Tips

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Generally, people hate the word flirt including men and women. We can't deny the fact that most of the people love to be in a situation when their partner or other person start flirting with them. Time has changed now; even girls also enjoy the process of flirting. Here are some flirting tips to boost your confidence and experience.

Physical connection - Physical connection is very important in this process. People only notice you when you do something unique or unusual. If you love this process but don't know much about physical connection then develop a habit to touch other people. You can start with shaking hands, instead of saying "Hi" you can use "hello". You can touch people with their name etc.

Sense of humor - Everybody is busy in life and we can't deny the fact that people work really hard in office. Every men or women expect someone who can make them laugh with good humor. Laughing is not necessary, but comfort ability is most important. Talk with people in such a way where they feel comfortable while discussing every matter.

Confidence - Confidence is the only key which can help you to touch the sky. If you are not confident enough then nothing can help you. People are free to do anything, but remember to follow everything with 100% confidence. Flirting tips can boost the confidence of individual without any problem.

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Perfect Honeymoon Tips How To Enjoy It

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After wedding the most important thing to plan is Honeymoon. It's very important to plan each and everything properly because only you and your partner would be alone there. Before leaving the place gets the thorough knowledge of the place where you are planning to go and discuss your partner if s/he wants to see other places, it should be mutual decision. Few points which you need to make sure before leaving for the Honeymoon:

Hotel Details

Going and Return Tickets

Cash and Plastic Money

Phone numbers of Relatives who lives in the same place

Medicine in case of emergency

Clothes according to the weather

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Nagging Is Illegal In France

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It seems that the French, namely NICOLAS SARKOZY, are planning to put forth a bill that would make "psychological violence" between married or cohabitating couples a crime.

But what is psychological violence anyway? According to legislation, it would appear that everything from nagging and false accusations of infidelity to verbal abuse count as such.

But is it really fair for the government to get involved in matters that are so personal and so subjective from one couple to the next? One couple's verbal abuse is another couple's foreplay, after all.

Not to mention that there's usually three versions to every story: his version, her version and the truth. So who do you believe in matters of "psychological violence"?

While I agree that there are some instances where psychological violence is just as harmful as physical violence, it is not something that you can store neatly under a black and white bill.

Personally, I think that although they're trying to do a noble service in this situation, all it will end up doing is bring the freaks out.

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My Girlfriend Smothers Me

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I love my girlfriend, I really do. But ever since she moved in 6 months ago, I feel like I can't breathe. She wants to be with me all the time and frowns if I want to hang out with my friends.

She even gets offended if I say I want some alone time. How can I get her to understand that I need my personal space without starting a "you just don't understand me" argument? I'm starting to resent her for taking up all my time.



This is a common problem for young people with very little experience in love relationships. A woman feels like she's showing love by wanting to be with her man as much as possible. But a man rarely thinks the same way.

The man counts the entire amount of time that he's with a woman and then wants to fulfill other needs - space, variety, and being around other people.

Over the longer term, your girlfriend has to raise her own awareness about her insecurities and other emotional needs. There are many books written on this topic of human needs which would be helpful for both of you to study and know. You'll both soon discover that true happiness in relationships and life requires a balance.

But over the short term, you'll have to play the game a little more to her liking. What I'd suggest is making sure that whenever you make a request for time with your friends or to be by yourself, that you also state what you'll do on the positive side in exchange.

One way to think of this is through a point system. For example, you will lose one point for every time you state to her that you'd like to be with your friends or by yourself.

On the other hand, you gain one point for every thoughtful act (example: a planned date night or surprise gift of flowers) on your part. This means that it's a one-of-one exchange.

You can't, however, make one grand gesture (example: buying her an expensive gift) and expect it to count for more than one point. One thoughtful gesture is worth one point regardless of the amount of money spent.

You also get penalized for verbalizing a desire to be with friends or to have space. It's "the thought that counts" in a negative way. So in the meantime, it might be wise for you to refrain from expressing your desire to be with other friends or to have more space unless you truly want or plan to do so.

Another method for you to consider using is what is called a "bad news sandwich." You make this verbal sandwich by telling or showing her that you love her (the bread), state your wishes (the meat), and then repeat that you love her (the bread).

The core issue that you'll need to work on together is the mutually building of each other's self-esteem. If you both possess true self-esteem then these types of minor issues can be resolved easily.

But in her present state of low self-esteem, she's probably going to take a lot of what you say in the wrong way.

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Breastfeeding For Men

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No, it's not about men who enjoy suckling on the lactating breast of a woman. Oh no, that would be too normal to report.

Rather, this is about men who want to breastfeed babies and are looking to science to help them start the lactation process.

So that Focker guy from" the "was right; men can lactate. It is entirely possible. Aparently, in 1858, a man whose wife was put to death was so stricken with grief that he put his baby to his own breast and before he knew it, he was breastfeeding his child.

I wonder if a man's milk has the same kind of vitamins and minerals? But to be honest, what man really wants to breastfeed? Better yet, what man would actually admit it to his beer-guzzling friends? "Uh yeah, sure, I'd love to have my baby boy suckling away at my nipples while I watch the game. It's bonding time, you know."

And what about the poor baby, choking on all that unnecessary nipple hair? Ugh.

Watch the video below, at about 4:08 a guy starts breastfeeding, but if you look at the baby, it's not moving at all. It's asleep. You know why? Because there's no milk there, buddy. But you get an "A" for effort.

Suggested free e-books to read:

John Hughes - Stress Dying For No Cause
Dr Dennis Neder - Getting Women
Dr Joy Browne - Dating For Dummies

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Renegade Rapport

Joseph Matthews - Renegade Rapport.mp3 Cover Renegade Rapport: Should You Get It?

On February 1, the seduction community changes forever. On that date, the exclusive product that everyone's been waiting for, Renegade Rapport, is released.

But is it worth the hype? Yours truly was lucky enough to be one of the chosen few to receive an advance copy of the book. Much like Neil Strauss' Annihilation Method," this is one of those products that you have to join Renegade Rapport Reviewan "exclusive list" to be a part of. The lead-up to the releasehas been quite clever, and I have to admit I was more than just a little curious.

But after the disappointment I had over The Annihilation Method, I was very skeptical. Usually, the bigger the hype, the bigger the letdown.

Still, I was willing to give Renegade Rapport a chance. And boy, I am REALLY glad I did!

This actually is one of those rare products, like the Venusian Arts Handbook, that is so good that it can completely change your game, in a short period of time. It actually lives up to the hype, because it delivers on information you can actually use to get hot babes without feeling like a complete fool (read: the ridiculous and foolish "Inner Game Tapping").

So what makes Renegade Rapport work?

Well, as Joseph himself says,

"part of the reason I started down the path of Renegade Rapport was BECAUSE I was so lazy! I hate to have to memorize pages and pages of routines, patterns, lines, etc. just to meet girls."

And that’s what I find is the beauty of Renegade Rapport. You don’t really need to memorize ANYTHING. It’s a completely conceptual system. Once you understand a few fundamental concepts, you’re ready to go.

Of course, if you really want to go even deeper into it, you can. The system is in place.

Now, many of you might have heard of "NLP", or Neurolinguistic Programming. It's the "hypnosis"-like method of attraction popularized by guys like Ross Jeffries.

Understand: Renegade Rapport isn’t straight NLP. You’re not "tricking" women into liking you (thank God!), but rather making them aware of your inner and outer attractiveness.

There are some fundamentals based around NLP concepts, but this system is about learning to emotionally CONNECT with other human beings, and then LEAD them to where you want to go emotionally.

What I really like is, it is an extremely FOCUSED system. You won’t get bogged down with stuff like “anchoring,” or “synesthesia,” nor will you have to have a PhD in psychology to pull it off. It's clear, interesting, and most importantly, EFFECTIVE!

As Joseph himself says, "I designed this system to be EASY to understand and use. And these concepts are fundamental to the successful use of the Self Mastery Method."

Some guys have said that Matthews' system is similar to the (excellent) "Charisma Arts" program of Juggler, aka Wayne Elise.

But I'd say there is one MAJOR difference her. One that Juggler himself didn't work into this program.

In my system, Rapport is NOT a “phase.”

It’s not a step you take on your way to something else. If you read through the free Self-Mastery ebook, you’ll understand that I feel every step that happens in dating and seduction is BASED on rapport. It's not just important--it's essential.

In that sense, knowing how to create and sustain rapport - with ANYONE - is fundamental to success. You just have to do it.

And Renegade Rapport, I've found, is the way there.

That is the big difference I feel this course has to offer from the many, many other ones out there.

To me, Rapport is the foundation upon which everything else is built. To most others, it’s a step in a process.

When you see Renegade Rapport for yourself, and how powerful the techniques are, you’ll understand what I mean.

The REAL benefit of Renegade Rapport is that you are actually able to take the rapport you create, and lead it towards sex and seduction! And it all progresses in a very slick, natural way. No memorization! No gimmicks! No routines!

Here’s some of what you’ll learn in the Renegade Rapport course...

How to instantly create deep rapport with a woman within minutes when you first meet her (and in some cases, BEFORE you even meet her!).

How to quickly and easily initiate rapport with anyone you want.

How to establish rapport fast.

How to know if you really have rapport or not.

What to talk about with women exactly to build rapport.

How to "transition" into rapport, step by step.

How to keep rapport going throughout the encounter.

How to create rapport in a way that's effortless and hard to detect.

How to create rapport without asking a lot of boring "interview" type questions.

How to create rapport - even if you're painfully shy.

Why it's just as easy to gain rapport with super-hot women as it is with average women?

How your environment affects rapport building - and how to avoid it's pitfalls.

How to keep rapport with a woman you've been with for a long time, and even strengthen it if need be.

How you can actually use rapport to know what kind of a girl you are interacting with (this will help you spot "crazy bitches" from a mile away!).

How to use rapport to avoid the biggest frustration guys have when it comes to picking up women - Flaking!

How to gain rapport without coming off as needy or phony

How to use rapport to change a girl's emotional state from a cold fish to one of intense lust and attraction.

Why you can't have attraction without rapport.

How to move the interaction towards seduction once in rapport.

How to create rapport when you encounter a group, especially if one or more of them "challenge" you.

The exact mindset you should have when talking to a girl you're interested in.

How to build strong rapport with a woman you feel is WAY out of your league.

How to build rapport without coming across as being a jerk.

How to "rebuild" rapport with women whom you had a failure in building rapport with before.

How to keep a woman interested in you while dating so that she doesn't feel the need for male attention elsewhere.

How, and at what point, to shift the vibe to a sexual one when building rapport.

The stages of rapport a woman will go through, and the indicators for each.

How to initiate and build rapport anywhere - even in a loud and noisy bar or club.

The exact things women like to talk about when building rapport.

Getting past the initial "coldness" when dealing with women.

How to make someone feel like they've known you for a long time within a few minutes.

How to tell if you have rapport.

How to gain rapport without falling into the "Let's Just Be Friends" category.

And much more..."

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Carlos Xuma Seduction Masters Interview

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Well, I actually started researching this back in the 90s, way back before there was ANYTHING online about dating and attraction with women. I remember the first book I got that hinted that there might be more to getting a girlfriend than giving flowers to her and calling her for dates. It was called "Love Tactics." It's a bit elementary now, but it was revelatory for me back then. I still have my copy, and it's battered and highlighted from years of speculation and developing my ideas about the concepts.

It started with what I consider to be the most important concept of all in interpersonal dynamics: Push-Pull.

This once principle covers more about the psychology of attraction than almost anything else.

From there I created my first e-book (The Dating Black Book) to explain the complete "Dating Dynamic" so that you can understand women and how things work in the attraction cycle. Short term and long term.

After that I created a whole curriculum for guys who want to learn how to have a full Alpha Lifestyle, from approaching women, to reaching your personal goals, to making the relationship YOU want to have. I really think it's all about choice.

I've been a guest on David D's Interviews with Dating Gurus program, as well as a guest and keynote speaker with many of the conferences.

I've also done radio and television to help get this information out to as many of my Alpha Brothers out there as I can. Next month, I'll be in LA as part of the Mystery Method Superconference.


I have no scarcity in my life with women. I find that women are constantly trying to be a part of my life, and that is very gratifying.

My personal philosophy is to date many women, and then look for the best prospect from the bunch to give my time to. I don't waste my time or jeopardize my confidence and self-esteem by chasing after women. I let the best candidate raise her hand and make it clear that she's the one for the role.

I maintain a level of self-respect that ensures that I am a prize in HER eyes, first and foremost. Then I can feel much more confident giving her my attention and focus.

It's a bit of a philosophical stance, but it's CRITICAL to guys out there who are on this path to realize that if you feel that you need to "prove yourself" to the women you want, you're sacrificing an essential part of your self-respect.

Women want to BUY, not BE SOLD.

Right now, I'm in a relationship with a beautiful Filipino woman - who wants to be a WOMAN for me. Not my competition to be the Man. (Watch out for those women, guys!)


REAL Game is what I teach.

What is "REAL Game"?

The philosophy is that you will attract any woman you want more effectively if you come from a place of being REAL with her. Not to be confused with that lame advice of "just be yourself."

And, it's also a double-acronym

Here's how it goes


Relaxation is at the heart of all successful game AND good self- confidence. And you can't be resourceful to use all those techniques you learned without being relaxed. An anxious state is your enemy when it comes to dating and pickup.


Effective, meaning that you use only techniques that are as congruent as possible to YOU. Energized meaning that you have to jack up your energy level a few notches. Most guys are not projecting their inner power and personality outward. They keep it hidden from view, and that kills attraction.


The Alpha Man is my model for the modern dominant man that knows and is confident in his masculine traits. You can read about this in most of my programs. Authentic means that you need to be genuine. I'm not saying "just be you," because that's worthless advice. You need to be the BEST you possible.


The only way to become truly successful with women (or A woman) over the long term is to make these attraction skills a part of your LIFE. You don't just approach women at a bar or club - you approach them everywhere you go. Otherwise, they won't last.

That's a brief overview of my philosophy.


Well, I'm good friends with most of these guys in the "community," but I really don't limit my scope to just that area. I really feel that this is about overcoming a major social problem with the emasculation of men.

Now, I'm not some kind of conspiracy nut or something. In fact, I really believe that most of the things people think of as conspiracies are just the slippery slope of our natural tendencies toward laziness.

But in the last 30 years, there has been a distinct FEMINIST slant to everything, and guys need to maintain their strength against this to remain attractive to women.

I differ from most of the other "gurus" in that I show guys the COMPLETE picture. It's not JUST about pickup and attracting women.

In fact, if that's all you focus on, your self-esteem will actually suffer - along with your lifestyle.

You must make pickup and attraction skills part of an overall Alpha Lifestyle. What I mean by this is that you have to be working on your own life - and be happy WITHOUT women before you will be able to truly attract the women you want. Or you will not keep them.

Being attractive isn't just skin deep for guys - it has to go right to the BONE.


Well, I am a very private person by nature, but I always share information that helps guys understand the Game better and improve.

There has been a big focus these days on "hidden video" and things like that, which really don't help your skills with women. In fact, too much focus on watching OTHER people do this stuff is going to get you all messed up because you become what I call "hyper-analytical." That's basically where you just can't let go of the need to compare yourself to unreasonable examples.

I'll relate a story of my friend in Seattle. When I went up to the lair up there to present and do a mini-bootcamp, we went to a really fun bar up there. (The name escapes me at the moment.)

While we were there, one of the guys comes over to me and says, "Man, I just wrecked this set I approached. It was bad."

I asked him what had happened. He said he went over, opened up the girl he found really attractive, and used some canned material. After about a minute, he lost her attention and he felt that old "back turn"

syndrome, where the woman just uses her body language to reject you.

Well, after I found out how he was using a bunch of fake, canned material, I asked him what he would do if he was being REAL with this woman. I suggested he go back and just say to her, "Hey, you know what, I f ed up. I came over here before trying to impress you and being a little much. I just thought you had a really nice energy about you and I wanted to get to know you better. Care to try again?"

And that worked like a champ. Her body language changed, his changed, and they got on much better. It was night and day.


Well, I was inspired by an old book from the 1960s that talked about all these complicated social games we all play with each other. I started noticing how people are playing games ALL the time.

Then I thought, wouldn't it be great if someone could explain all these games so we don't have to get caught up in all the nonsense?

This program is the first program I've created for guys to use to really build their social skills from the ground up.

ALL attraction skills have their roots in what I call Power Social Skills. The skills you use to approach women comfortably, to build rapport, to get attraction - these are all developed from basic social skills.

Have you ever been in a social situation where you just knew someone was messing with you, but you didn't know what to do about it?

Have you ever had that feeling that someone was playing games with you, but you couldn't figure out how they were doing it, or what psychology they were manipulating?

Have you ever wondered how to get past the games, and get to a REAL connection with another person? That influential kind of connection that really gets a person to trust you and LIKE you?

I created this program to open up the complex mechanics of what happens in social situations, and give guys a skeleton key to unlock all the puzzles and games.

I go into EXTENSIVE explanation of the personality types you'll meet, and what their motivation is. (Even your own!) I go into detail about how to read a social situation of any kind, understand what's going on, and be able to not get gamed.

You ever had this happen: You're hanging out with your friends and someone makes a sly comment about you, and they all chuckle. You go along with it because you don't want to look like you're "uptight" or "un-cool." But somewhere deep inside, you know you were just put-down


Well, it took me years to figure these out on my own, and that was only because I was lucky enough to find some people that I could study and understand to get these secrets.

I was never the guy that was slick with people, or who could think of the right thing to say at the right time. And I HATED that. I always felt like an idiot when people messed with me, and all I could do was go along because I didn't want to be rejected by my peers and friends.

I decided it was time to update this for our current social situation and explain all the games, all the manipulations, and then give solid advice on how you can get past them so you can get to the authentic CONNECTION that we all crave.

This program will put you into the elite status of men who know how to HANDLE PEOPLE. And that's a powerful skill to have, and it never gets old.


Suggested free e-books to read:

In10se - Audio Interview
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