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Kinky Things Men Want

If you've had sex in every position imaginable and in every location possible, and yet would still like to keep the flame burning by ensuring that your guy never knows what's coming next when it comes to sex with you, it's time you took a turn for the kinky.

Kinky sex consists of a host of things. As well, one man's kinky is another's run of the mill. So if you're with the kind of girl who's game for anything, it's time for you to bring it. Of course, I'm working under the guise that you're in a monogamous relationship and aren't really interested in third (fourth or fifth) parties.

Here now, are various kinky things men want in bed and would love to have you to do to them.

KINKY THINGS MEN WANT IN BED #1

G-SPOT STIMULATION

No, not yours, his. The male g-spot is easy to locate and once you find it, you can bring your man to heights of pleasure he has never known before. Using a light massage with your lubricated fingers, rub the outside of his anus and slowly ease your way in, ensuring that your palm is facing upwards.

Once your finger(s) is all the way in, make a "come hither" motion. At this point you will be stimulating his prostate. Bingo! Use your other hand to stroke his penis and your mouth to suck on it. The amalgamation of all these sensations will give him an earth-shattering orgasm he won't soon forget.

KINKY THINGS MEN WANT IN BED #2

ANAL SEX

Yes, most women still aren't inclined to give their man the key to the back door, and if you're not ready, then don't do it. An uncomfortable woman makes for a very messy and potentially painful anal sex session.

But if you are game, get your lube out and tell your guy that tonight is the night for some back play. He can start out by massaging your anus with his fingers so that you can get used to the sensation and then slowly make his way inside with his rock hard penis (and you know it'll be rock hard after all that play).

KINKY THINGS MEN WANT IN BED #3

S first, you take over and tie him to the bed, then slowly run a feather all over his body and seduce him at your whim. Give him oral sex and bring him to the brink, then stop and suck his nipples for a while. Or ride him until he's about to explode, then get off of him and bring your face close to his penis, allowing your tongue to barely touch it. I have to warn you though, there's a good chance he'll explode so it's up to you to decide what you want to do with his ejaculate.

Next, you can let him have his way with you. You will submit to his every whim and he can go from placing his fingers inside you until you squirt to rubbing his penis on your face and making you kiss and lick it.

Before you know it, the two of you will figure out which you enjoy being more (sub or dom) and these roles will turn your ordinary sex into something pleasurably painful.

Rick Hanson Ph D Your Wise Brain Blog 5000 Synapses In The Width Of A Hair

Rick's most recent book is "Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom" (with Rick Mendius, M.D.; Foreword by Dan Siegel, M.D. and Preface by Jack Kornfield, Ph.D.).

5000 SYNAPSES IN THE WIDTH OF A HAIR

How much change in the brain makes a difference in the mind?

That's the issue raised by a very interesting comment regarding my previous blog, "The Brain in a Bucket."

So I've taken the liberty of posting the comment here (hoping that's OK in blog etiquette; still learning as I go), and then responding. Here it is:

"I was pondering your statement that long term meditators show a thickening in certain areas of the brain. As I understand it, the volume of the skull is fixed in adults. This would seem to require that if one part thickens, another part must be reduced. I am curious as to whether anyone has considered what the implications of a loss of volume in these other areas might be. I enjoyed your article, and look forward to more on the topic of neurology and meditation."

While the size of the skull is indeed fixed in adulthood, we can both lose gray matter volume due to the normal effects of aging and gain it through mental training of one kind or another. For instance, one study showed that the hippocampus (really hippocampi, since there is one on each side of the brain, but convention is usually to refer to neural regions in the singular), of London taxi drivers is thicker after their training, which makes sense since the hippocampus is deeply involved with spatial memory.

But the size of these changes in volume is very small, so they do not "bump up against" the skull. For example, the increased thickness in the brains of meditators - seen in one of the cooler studies in this field - amounted - to about 1/200th of an inch. This may not seem like much but is a BIG change in the density of synaptic networks when you can fit about 5000 synapses in the width of a human hair.

The point is that small changes in daily activities - meditating instead of sleeping in, driving a cab instead of working in an office - can make changes in the brain that seem small but actually create big changes in the mind. And that fact opens the door to amazing opportunities.

RICK HANSON, PH.D., is a neuropsychologist, author, and teacher. A summa cum laude graduate of UCLA, he founded the Wellspring Institute for Neuroscience and Contemplative Wisdom, and teaches at universities and meditation centers in Europe, Australia, and North America. His work has been featured on the BBC and in Consumer Reports Health, U.S. News and World Report, and other major magazines.

Rick's most recent book is "Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom" (with Rick Mendius, M.D.; Foreword by Dan Siegel, M.D. and Preface by Jack Kornfield, Ph.D.), which has been praised by numerous scholars, therapists, and teachers, including Tara Brach, Ph.D., Roger Walsh, Ph.D., Sharon Salzberg, and Fred Luskin, Ph.D. Considered an expert on self-directed neuroplasticity, he edits the Wise Brain Bulletin, and his articles have appeared in Tricycle Magazine, Insight Journal, and Inquiring Mind; his Your Wise Brain blog is on Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and other major websites. He has a chapter - 7 Facts about the Brain That Incline the Mind to Joy - in "Measuring the Immeasurable", as well as several audio programs with Sounds True. His first book was "Mother Nurture: A Mother's Guide to Health in Body, Mind, and Intimate Relationships" (Penguin, 2002).

Rick is currently a trustee of Saybrook University. He also served on the board of Spirit Rock Meditation Center for nine years, and was President of the Board of FamilyWorks, a community agency. He began meditating in 1974, trained in several traditions, and leads a weekly meditation gathering in San Rafael, CA. He enjoys rock-climbing and taking a break from emails. He and his wife have two children. For more information, please see his full biography at www.RickHanson.net.

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Kinky Things Men Want

G-SPOT STIMULATION

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