One of the most important preparatory steps you should take is to do your research. Many people omit this crucial step, but think about the implications. There are many online dating websites, each cultured to a certain niche of people. You want to be attracting people of a similar demographic to yourself and so if you go about putting immense effort into a certain website, but it turns out they are of a totally different age group, you just wasted a good amount of time that you could have spent doing something much more productive.
When you fashion your profile, realize that when he contacts you, eventually he will meet you in person. So do not pretend to be somebody you're not! Because eventually if things do get serious, he will realize it's not true. If you don't enjoy watching basketball, don't write "I love sports" simply because most guys do. You want to show them a real version of you. Put your best qualities forward. Are you always fun and cheerful? Instead of writing, "I'm a fun person to be around", you could write, "You will love me in your life." Not only does it convey confidence, it's almost challenging potential daters to date you. Couple this with a cute profile picture of you and a friend, they will be thinking, "Wow, what a cute and fun girl."
However, there are the pitfalls of being lured in by a predator. Online dating allows a precise vulnerability - anonymity. This anonymity can anyone to create a false persona in an image of their choosing. If you find yourself seemingly divulging extremely personal information, be on your guard. People are often not who they say they are. Is he trying to meet you in shady locations? Is he very guarded in the amount of information he gives to you? Consider crossing him off your list. The world is vast beyond belief. It is of epic proportions and as such, the amount of good men out there is equally large. Don't get discouraged by not getting results in the short run because probability's money says you will find him sooner or later. It is always better to be safe than sorry. Of course it is always very difficult to rein yourself in when you think you've met the perfect guy, but that's the thing. Nobody's perfect.
Suggested free e-books to read:Joseph Matthews - Meeting Dating And Seducing Women
Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets
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