As you move about the room, positive perception of you will grow. It is the how to guide that most men should read. Fantatic work, which allows you to cold read for real. My Secret Garden Women Fantasies" - is the definitive work on the art of the pickup. Nlp is not necessary for pick up but it is good for your own confidence and language patterns etc, and can be used."
There is a right way to go about it and a wrong way however. It is the how to guide that most men should read. There is a right way to go about it and a wrong way however. There is a right way to go about it and a wrong way however. Fantatic work, which allows you to cold read for real.
For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Franco, considered by many to be the world greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world most beautiful women. For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Franco, considered by many to be the world greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world most beautiful women. This is where most people journey begins. Manual Of Seduction" - good material when you are starting out and might run out of things to say. The "Manual Of Seduction" is assiduously detailed, highly entertaining expose of a fascinating secret society - the international community of pickup artists who have refined their talents for getting women into bed to the nth degree"
It is very important to note that he is NOT encouraging guys to be jerks. He has simply identified the (positive) qualities that jerks have, which are attractive to women. If you are a real nice" guy, you must have lots of female friends that keep ending up with jerks, so it is very natural to ask WHY?
He contends that women want guys to be a set of opposites, something like:
1. unpredictable, yet goal-oriented
2. spontaneous, yet plans dates
3. adventurous, yet in control
4. aggressive, yet mellow and cool
5. mysterious, yet their best friend
Are guys like this possible?? Yes, take the example of a (successful) rock musician. He is undpredictable, spontaneous, etc. when on stage, but has his life planned to the exact tour dates in the long run. Which girl hasn't had a crush on a rock-star :) So the key is to be spontaneous and unpredictable in the short term, but goal-oriented and in control in the long run. I believe this is very true, in the long run, women want to be secure with their men, but they want to have FUN in the moment. For me, this paradigm of short time "jerk" long term "nice guy" was new, accurate and very helpful to understanding women.
The second key point made in this book is that nice guys try too hard to please. They are too accepting. Jerks are generally more demanding. And here is the key observation: think about it, what helps you grow more, a someone who pushes you and stretches your abilities, or someone who accepts anything you do? We all remember those teachers who demanded much from us at school. This is why nice guys become boring, they don't cause women to grow. If "nice" guys would just say a harsh word when their lady is late for a date, she wouldn't need to fall for really abusive guys. Also if a woman can get away with treating you badly -- how can she trust you to protect her from being treated badly by others?
The third important advice for nice guys is to focus more on themselves. Jerks are generally passionate about something. They play in a band or have some sport or other hobby. Here he tries to do some Tony Robbins stuff and it's a bit rip-offish, but the basic point is well taken. First put a smile on your own face, then you can make others smile.
All-in-all, this is very insightful for nice guys in their early twenties. Reviewers who complain about this book making guys being jerks have completely misunderstood the concept. This book is not disrespectful towards women. It is not about getting laid. This book is written for nice guys to be more assertive, spontaneous and wild. Unfortunately, most of the real information could be written on a pamphlet. It contains lots of useless rambling. He couldn't make much money on selling a pamphlet now could he? :) Anyway, the information has been helpful to me."
Estus Romeo outlines a learnable process that guarantees to make all men more attractive, more confident and opens the door to all the pleasure they can handle. Estus Romeo tried and tested in the real world, and will work for you. Estus Romeo developed his unique methods over years of observing social dynamics and interacting with women in to learn how to overcome the guard that many women put up to deflect come-ons from average frustrated chumps. The Challenge is simply what works best and fastest. It will be a more comfortable, experienced, knowledgeable and interesting self so by then it is fine. It is hard work to learn it all but you will see results long before you are a master.
For almost 20 years Jerry and Esther Hicks have been presenting workshops, producing tapes and writing books to help people create the life they desire. And desire is no small word in this agenda. According to the teachings of Abraham"--a collective name for the spiritual entities that are channeled through Esther--desire is a good and natural force within us. In fact, we are all here to fulfill our desires, according to Abraham. Yet the reason so much of us feel frustrated, is that we have difficulty knowing how to ask and receive whatever we want to be, do or have.
Although Jerry and Esther are listed as the authors, Ask and It Is Given is actually a collection of channeled messages from Abraham. Fans of Abraham and the Hicks may not find new information, but will probably be delighted to have an inspiring, updated book that speaks to the familiar conversation of attracting the life we want. Newcomers may also be intrigued by this excellent, in-depth discussion on how to change one’s life by matching the vibrational energy of one’s desires--taking the power of positive thinking to a whole new level.
Because this material is channeled, it often reads like The Power of Now or A Course in Miracles--not a fast food book to be devoured in one sitting. Rather, this is a book to be read in passages, with a soothing gestation period in between. It includes much advice on working with energy and emotions as well as specific chapters on increasing prosperity, reclaiming health, working with meditation, and clearing clutter for clarity. For those who are onboard with the "Laws of Attraction" and the "Art of Receiving" that Abraham speaks of, this could be one of those deliciously mysterious books that you can open to any page and it seems to offer the exact advice or insight you need right now.
The Hicks along with Abraham put it all together in this book. Most books (on any given topic, not just abundance) give you ideas and inspiration, but are not easy to figure out how to implement. In other words, many how-to books don't truly show you how-to.
This one does. It gives you IMMEDIATELY USABLE and USEFUL INSTRUCTIONS. The last part of the book lists 22 processes that you can use to attract what you want, explaining EXACTLY when to use them, and how. There's something for any situation you may find yourself in.
I would trade ALL of the other manifestation books in my library for just this one. It's that good, that easy, and that useful! "
Now it is easy to meet anyone you want; and, smile. It is hard work to learn it all but you will see results long before you are a master. It is teach average guys how to approach, attract and begin intimate relationships with beautiful women. the Nice Factor The Art Of Saying No" - good material when you are starting out and might run out of things to say. Guys who do not get laid, do not smile."
