It's like someone just threw a wrench into the gears. Suddenly the subject changes, and you hear a record scratch in the background.
Now all of a sudden you start censoring yourself and talking the way you think you "should" around a woman.
I remember when I would walk up to a group of girls and feel my mind freezing up on me like a puddle in winter. My mind would just go completely blank.
Now, there's a secret here that I'm going to reveal to you in this article that will help you talk to women with much more calm confidence - once you understand a hidden desire that women have.
I want to tell you something about my childhood first
Don't worry, we're not getting in touch with our "inner child" or anything like that.
You see, I when I was a kid, I liked to hang around girls
Sure, I had a lot of guy friends, but I also spent a LOT of time hanging around groups of girls whenever I could.
Yeah, I got teased about it a lot, but I had a feeling these girls were going to be the next big thing in a few years, and I wanted to start researching this trend right away.
The cool thing about having spent so much time around them was that I learned just how girls think and communicate. I started to understand what it was that women wanted in their conversations.
This one thing - this hidden ingredient - was something that guys were missing in almost every conversation they had with a woman.
What is this missing part?
Well, there was an old joke that we used to have when I was doing project management for big corporations. They would call us in to do a big project plan. And then we joked that it would look like this:
Step 1) Begin project to install new system
Step 2)
A miracle happens
Step 3) Project success!
Well, obviously step 2 is where most people just smile, close their eyes, and go into their 'happy place.' (It's this kind of wishful thinking that has led us to problems in our economy as well as the environment.)
Well, this "miracle happens" thinking has led me to realize just how many guys are making a really BIG error in their logic with women
You see most guys have this concept of how conversation works with women:
Step 1) Start conversation
Step 2) ? A miracle happens ?
Step 3) Get a date.
Step 2 is that 'mystery step' where 'a miracle happens' and she just instantly finds you interesting enough to want to go on a date with you.
This is a little like thinking that someone is going to want to buy a car without experiencing sitting in it, or test driving it out on the open road. Not many people "mail order" their cars.
The secret desire that women have that will help you fill in the blank between "Walk up to woman" and "get her phone number" is actually VERY simple.
And it's not a miracle, either.
It is
EMOTION.
Sometimes known as: DRAMA.
But not the BAD kind of drama. It's the GOOD kind.
You see "drama" that a woman wants just means emotional ENERGY.
Ever had a dish of spaghetti where someone just dumped a plain bottle of tomato sauce on it? My grandma used to make it this way, and it was really boring.
Now, throw in a little garlic, onions, basil, and a bit of red pepper and now you've got yourself a spicy meat-a-ball!
It's the same thing with conversations. Emotional energy is what gives spice to a conversation for a woman.
The good news is that there is a reliable set of strategies that I want to show you that build that kind of energy women are looking for in conversation.
And I want to teach them to you for F-R-E-E.
Not only that, but I want to teach you some of my conversation techniques (inner and outer game) that will work for you in just about ANY situation - talking with friends, co-workers, family,
women - whoever.
In the first video, you're going to learn:
- The one hidden element of powerful conversation that you cannot create - you can only *discover*
- The REAL reason a woman puts you into the "friends only" category
- Why you never want to "flip" - or BE flipped
- What the dating "program" is - and how to stop running this
program before it crashes your system
Go watch the video here:
http://www.alphaconfidence.com/conversation-persuasion/video-1.php
Oh, and I hope you'll forgive me for the last 60 seconds of this video. I had to cut loose and have some fun. Some videos can be really boring, so I thought I'd throw in a little something different for you rockers out there
And be sure to watch your email over the next few days. I've got about 90 minutes of great videos to share with you that are going to change your conversation game for good
Your friend,
Carlos Xuma
Suggested free e-books to read:
Wings Of Success - How To Date The Hottest Women Online And OfflineScot Mckay - How To Meet Women On Twitter
Don Diebel - How To Talk To Single Women When On A Date
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