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"Your Profile Is The Window To Your Soul PART 1"

That's right I said it - MAY SOUND CLECHE' but neverthless it's true. Your profile is the window, and how you write your online dating member profile will determine how much of the curtains or blinds are pulled. You can decide to stay distant and cold, but WHAT'S THE POINT of being a member of a dating site at that point? On the other hand, if you are too direct, and you decide to share your ideals, principles, lessons, cultural impressions, political views, sense of humor, intellect, sarcasm, and and overall view of the entire universe. You will likely make everyone believe you are TOO GOOD FOR ANYONE. There has to be balance, period.

There is no bigger challenge on a dating member site, than staring at your keyboard, while trying to think about HOW TO DESCRIBE YOURSELF to the entire world. You are literally trying to explain why you are worthy of an eyebrow to raise, a smile to form, and emails to be written to you. At the same time, you are attempting to explain what TYPE OF PERSON YOU DESIRE. I'm going to offer some tips on this for you.

Imagine yourself, MEETING SOMEONE for the first time. Make the setting in your mind, somewhere comfortable for you. Now think about what you would say, to HELP THAT NEW PERSON, understand what kind of person you are right now in your life. This is the only way to write your online dating member profile.

Make sure it doesn't sound like a checklist, resume, or business merger proposal. It needs to COME FROM YOUR HEART first and your mind second. Keep the tone "matter-of-fact" but don't get boring and snooty.

You don't want to lose most of your potential dates, while they are reading your profile. It's much like the old DEPARTMENT STORE WINDOW advertisements. If they don't grab attention and make people want to open the door and walk-in. Then, it means they have LOOKED AWAY and plan to walk on down the street, to look in another window.

This will take some work. You will need some editing, it's not going to be easy. However, just remember HUMOR IS THE KEY to standing out. It's an opportunity for you to flirt, sound relaxed, and tell the world where you are coming from.

TO BE CONTINUED - More on this article, later today

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Dating Violence

IN YOUR EXPERIENCE, HOW LONG WOULD YOU ESTIMATE IT SHOULD TAKE FOR A WOMAN TO DECIDE WHETHER OR NOT SHE LIKES A GUY ENOUGH TO SLEEP WITH HIM?

To be perfectly honest, a woman has probably decided whether to sleep with you or not from the very first moment that she met you. Guys need to remember that a lot of the things that make them attractive, and which present them as a sexual option for women, are all communicated on a non-verbal level. All of those things which a guy does when he approaches a woman and tries to seduce her just serve to lead her because she can't do it herself. Women need you to be the one who leads things because that takes the responsibility off them. It is much easier and more comfortable for women to have sex if guys take charge and lead the way than if they try to do it themselves.

I've actually had the experience of having sex in broad daylight with a girl who was a virgin just an hour after we started our date. All that it took was for me to make her comfortable, flirt with her, and lead things in a sexual direction. That last step is the one which so many guys never take, but it is a lot less work than what they think.

HOW DO YOU PROGRESS FROM FLIRTING TO ACTUAL SEX? A LOT OF GUYS ARE A BIT NERVOUS OR AFRAID OF TAKING THAT STEP. IT CAN SEEM VERY OVERWHELMING TO THEM. EVEN THOUGH THEY WANT TO DO IT QUICKER, THEY ARE JUST TOO AFRAID TO TRY. WHAT WOULD YOU TELL THEM? SHOULD THEY JUST GO FOR IT AND DON'T MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT IF THE GIRL SAYS NO? IS THERE A METHOD OR SPECIFIC TECHNIQUE WHICH THEY SHOULD USE?

I think that the most important thing which guys should learn is how to touch women the right way. Learning how to touch women in a smooth way is going to make everything so much easier. The best resource which I can recommend is the Vin DiCarlo "Escalation Ladder" which is available online. This will teach you how to approach, touch, and seduce women as part of a smooth progression without any unnecessary steps. It will give you something that you can practise and apply in the real world.

The other thing that guys don't seem to realize is that women want sex and need sex from a man. So if you can't give her sex, then you are only good for a few other things in her life, like carrying out chores. Do you really want to be that guy in high school who does the homework for all the girls who he likes? You don't want to be that guy. You want to be the guy who she wants to have sex with. But that can never happen unless you get your head right and at least try to take the lead.

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