The Apocalypse Opener

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Balls out direct game opener from Ciaran, RSD staff

Chat up lines don't work. That's the main problem with them.

I mean, we all know this. If there was a simple line you could just spiel out and get a girl, the community wouldn't be as big as it is.

The fact is, getting a girl isn't really about what you say. It's about what you DEMONSTRATE and what you PROJECT.


What if there WAS a chat up line that did work? What if there was a chat up line that led to an instant makeout? What then?


What I am about to share with you is some potent fucking shit.

Do you understand?


When I showed this to Jeffy, he took one look at it, then nodded, and said "That's some potent fucking shit."

My point is this.

If you cannot handle doing Shock and Awe, you are not ready for this shit yet.

This is NOT a magic pill.

If you are a broken fucking value taking Gollum-like chode who wants to 'get one over' on women and life, who wants to seek petty vengeance for the myriad grudges that you nurse on a daily basis to justify the uselessness of your pathetic existence... this will not work.

How do I know this?

Because I've been that chode.

Get your inner game sorted.

I recommend the work of Eckhart Tolle.

So with no further ado, gents, here we go. I hope you're sitting comfortably.


About 18 months ago I was in the smoking area of a pub on Edinburgh's Royal Mile. It's very picturesque. There's a castle and everything. Anyway, this time I'm out with just ONE girl. She's a good friend of mine, and for matters of convenience and privacy, we shall call her Susan.

So me and Susan are chatting away, and the subject wanders on to chat-up lines. I asked her what the worst chat-up line she ever heard was and she gave me some chodely horror-story of unimaginable lameness.

Then I asked her

"So... what's the best chat up line you've ever heard?"

Susan considered this for a while, and then said this:

"Ok, this one guy had a great one a while back. It worked on me."

"What do you mean, it worked on you?"

"It worked. I banged him."

"Nice. You're very ladylike."

Susan smiled politely.

"So what was it?" I asked.


"Well," she said, "it goes like this...

What she then told me made me literally choke on my beer. It was genius. I will never know who this man is, but whoever he is he deserves a prize. A big, shiny Nobel prize.

Here it is, lads:

You rock up to a chick and, in a confident, level voice you say

"Hey, how's it going."

She will say


You then say

"Cool. What are you doing later?"

She will say

"I'm not sure."

You then say

"Do you want to come home with me?"

Then you hold.



HOLD IT MY SON..........................

HOLD THE FUCKING LINE..................

Boom. Makeout.

And that's the Apocalypse opener. You don't 'build rapport.' You don't 'elicit values.' You don't 'kino escalate.' You don't even ask her fucking NAME. You ask if she wants to sleep with you in the THIRD SENTENCE, hold the line, and reap the whirlwind.


Nope. It is and remains the most amazingly powerful chat up line I've ever seen in my life. I realise that you're all just shaking your heads with a million problems that you can see with doing this, so let's go through this step-by-step.


Well, let me tell you a story.

After hearing this, I resolved to give it a go. I went out to a bar that night, and walked about the place.

Now, at this point I wasn't by any means a Jedi, but I wasn't shit. I could consistently open, I could flirt, I could get the occasional makeout. What I'm saying is that I'd gotten to a point where I could approach without that much anxiety.

Dude, I was shitting my pants. Mother of God, man. Looking at all these beautiful women, just the thought of going up to one of them and coming OUT with this shit was terrifying. I sank pint after pint of booze. I walked around some more. I drank more booze. I lurked in the corner for a while. I was still shitting my pants without a SINGLE approach when the bouncers started herding people out the door.

Fuck. I'd missed my chance.

No. No, no, no. No way. Not me. Not now. I was going to do this. If I crashed out, if I messed up, whatever - I'd take the pain. I was going to say this. Honestly, it felt like my VERY FIRST APPROACH all over again. I was really, really scared.

I walked out of the bar into the milling crowd. Fuck it. I'm going to do this. Someone. Anyone.

And there she was. Delicate, like a fairy almost. Red hair, really rich and deep red, and a quirky dress that melted my heart.


Fuckitty fuck fuck. We're going in.

Ok, Ciaran. Concentrate on getting the first line out. That's not so bad.

"Hey" I blurt.

"Hey." She's even prettier close up. DO IT, CIARAN. DO IT!

"How's it going?"

"Not bad."

"What are you up to later?"

"Not sure."


"Do you want to come home with me?

She looks at me. She's gauging. I've never felt attention this intense. It's like a laserbeam scorching me for any signs of incongruence. Luckily enough, she's hot, so there aren't any. The urge to say something, to break the tension is PALPABLE. I CLAMP my jaw tight shut to silence myself.

She sways backward, stunned. Then she jumps me. Physically lunges forward and puts her tongue in my mouth.


Incidentally, there was a guy there - a very strong natural - who had been hitting on her all evening, and had got her to agree to come back to his (I found this all out later). Didn't matter. Blew him the fuck away with this ONE SENTENCE.

This girl wasn't a slut. She wasn't a freak. She was a cool, normal chick.

She was hot too. Really hot.



So why does this work? Is it magic?

Well actually, there's no magic here. It's all really simple, and rests on EXACTLY the reason I gave at the start of the article for why chat-up lines don't work.

It's not about what you say.

It's about what you DEMONSTRATE and what you PROJECT.

Let's go back to that sunny afternoon on Edinburgh. I'm in the smoking area, talking to Susan.

So anyway, I finish choking on my beer.

"What? He said what?"

"Do you want to come home with me."

And what did you do?

"Well, I didn't jump him straight away, but I was just really impressed that he had the balls to come out with something like that."

"Yeah. Wow, that certainly is an impressive introduction."

"Damn straight. After that all he needed to do was just maybe buy me a drink or something and I was his."



So let's look at this, straight from the horses' mouth. So to speak.

She was REALLY IMPRESSED that he had the BALLS to COME OUT with something like that.


The power of this opener is massive. It lies in the fact that it is HONEST. It is genuine to the turbo-max.

All of my 'game' is based around this principal. Be genuine, but be genuine times 1000. Don't just 'be yourself', fucking BE yourself. Be yourself to the motherfucking HILT.

Do you understand?


If you do this, a girl will be really impressed that you DEMONSTRATE the courage to say this. And believe me, you cannot fake it. This shit takes balls.


I'm not going to lie to you. It is SCARY doing the Apocalypse Opener.

But that's good. That's WHY it works.

Because it is genuinely scary, it is INCREDIBLY impressive. But you need the balls to come out with it.


At the same time, your delivery itself - and here's the crazy thing - is actually NOT THAT IMPORTANT.

I know. Nuts.

The truth is, the first time I said this I was SCARED. Really, really scared.

It still worked.

It's so powerful. You don't need to be amazing, and you don't need the inner game of the Fonz to attempt this. I didn't have much inner game at all when I started reeling it out.

All you need to do is NOT CRUMBLE.

That is all. Just come out with it, then don't crumble.


The key to making it work is not how you say it, but what you do in the 30 seconds after it's left your mouth.

Before I talk specifics, let's state the single CARDINAL SIN of the Apocalypse, which is the ONLY THING that can blow you out.


That's it. Don't be weird. You have to deliver the opener deadpan. Like you are talking about the WEATHER. You are not making a BIG THING of it. You're just ASKING.

You are not MOCKING. You are not JOKING. You are not TOO SERIOUS.

It is NOT PLAYFUL however - it is REAL.


If she says no - you only need ONE COMEBACK.

It is this:


Then you strike up a 'normal' conversation about the colour of the wallpaper, or the music that's playing, or the fact that you did your laundry earlier today.



You will know because you will see two things in that girl's eyes.

Shock, motherfucker. SHOCK and AWE.

If she looks shocked, you've got her. If she looks stunned, she's yours. If she takes it in her stride, she's the coolest cucumber in the world, and you should probably marry her. extremely fast.


It never backfires as long as you don't panic.

That's right - there is only ONE THING you must NOT DO while using the Apocalypse Opener...

And that is to lose your shit like a fucking pussy.

I know. Crazy. As long as you aren't weird, or creepy, it never backfires.


You are not trying to PERSUADE HER TO SLEEP WITH YOU.

This is so UTTERLY CRUCIAL I am going to write it in red letters.

You are not trying to PERSUADE HER TO SLEEP WITH YOU.

You are just putting the OPTION in front of her. If she says no, you say 'ok' and talk about your nephew's new pet dog. Or whatever.

If you do this in a creepy or sleazy way, you will be shot down like a blind, 96-year old German who doesn't know the war's ended, doing a strafing run on a US Destroyer-Class Battleship in a Messerschmitt Me 262.

That is to say, extremely quickly.

So DO NOT ATTEMPT to ENTICE her into sleeping with you.

This is important NOT JUST in the vibe of the line itself (where, again, it is absolutely crucial). It is important in what comes after.


She'll only jump you, in my experience, about 30-50% of the time.

Equally, this is a MASSIVE percentage for ONE LINE.

However, the other 50-70% of the time, she will not jump you. Not for at least 6 or 7 minutes.

This is FINE. Just chill out. She will be testing you for signs of neediness but remember - all you need to do is talk about the WEATHER.

You do not need to do anything else to ATTRACT her. That phase is OVER. She will be stunned by what you said. Now all you need to do, and I cannot OVERSTRESS this, is ACT NORMAL.

This is, incidentally, the only place where it is ENTIRELY APPROPRIATE for you to buy her a drink, for three reasons:

1: It shows you are normal

2: It acts a kind of 'token wooing' to sate her girly ego

3: It shows you are normal


Just ACT NORMAL for the love of God. Talk about anything. She will be SUPER-INTO-YOU. She just wants to know you're not a serial killer before she takes you home.


Then you're a pussy.

I've opened girls on the street with it. Successfully. They don't normally jump you, but they do find it fun, cool and engagingly forward. And sometimes they jump you.

It works brilliantly in a bar or club, but you don't need to save it to the end of the evening unless you're looking for a good night out. After a while (I'm not kidding, this really happens) it gets kind of frustrating when you want a night out with your friends and you keep getting dragged off by chicks.

No, really.

Anyway, you can do this anywhere. You can open with it at the start of the night. You can open with it at the end of the night.

Incidentally, I have never had a bad reaction from a woman when doing this. Ever. Even if you accidentally slip into sleaze, she'll just walk off, but this rarely happens.

This one hooks like a motherfucker.

The other thing is this- if she walks off in shock, do not follow her. Let her go. She'll be back in about 15 seconds. Maximum 60.


You never stare. You look. Empty your mind, young grasshopper. Read the Power Of Now. You lock eyes with her. That is all - but then again I would argue that you lock eyes with her all the time. In fact, I would argue that you lock eyes with everyone you interact with in your entire life.

Just look at her. Calm. Level. Like your question is completely normal and in context. She will break.



In fact, it is awesome when she says no... because it gives you an opportunity to demonstrate a reality stronger than cobalt steel.

Here's what you do.

If she says no, you say "ok" in the same tone of voice as if you had offered her a prawn cocktail crisp and she had said "no thank you." Then you ask her what she thought of Pirates of the Caribbean 3 or something.

Or you talk about the burger you had for breakfast or what the weather was like last tuesday or what-fucking-ever.

In 10 minutes (tops) she'll be on your face.



You CANNOT do this if a girl is within earshot of her friends. If it's a club, you can do it with only a few feet of distance between her and her mates because of the loud noise.

The important thing is that she feels that it is a private exchange for EXACTLY the reason you think. If you do this in front of her mate she will look at you like you're scum and blow you out.

Amazingly, this never, ever happens, ever, if she is on her own.


Gotta love em.


No. Remember - this is COOL. You deliver this in the same tone as if you're asking about the weather. Not a throwaway line, mind...

Just a genuine, totally normal, direct question.

Boom, mofos.


Of course you can. Stop asking stupid questions.

You can start a relationship off a purely sexual one night stand no problem.

As Tim once said - there's a time and a place for emotional connection.

After sex.



It loses power and effectiveness rapidly the longer you wait to say it.

The power and impact of this derives from the fact that you are balls out opening with the option of sex.

You can say it later, of course - and she might not freak out. You may get a makeout, and it will increase attraction as long as you can hold your shit and cope with fallout - but if you do it later she also might just bolt.

If you're looking for an instant hook up, do this fast.


Your two cents are worthless.

Dude, I'm not here to debate abstract concepts of female attraction and how they relate to looks.

I'm telling you that this works regardless of what you look like, because that is what I have seen, over and over again, with my own eyes.

Quasimodo could pull this off if he had big enough balls.

I don't care if you believe me. This works. I know because I've done it, I've seen others do it.

At no point have looks ever been even an incidental factor in the success of this line.

I have consistently pulled model hot chicks with this while looking like a tramp.

Anyone who thinks looks matter... even in the slightest... when it comes to being good with girls, is a fucking pussy ass chode. If you think differently, you are a chode, and your opinion is irrelevant.

Now sit in the corner, and think about what you've done.


Hahahahaha! Oh! AHAHAHA! OOOOOOH!









They will dude. Your beliefs are irrelevant. They will.

Oh yes.

They will.


Rock up to two chicks and say exactly the same thing, with this interesting twist:

"Hey, how's it going."

They will say


You then say

"Cool. What are you doing later?"

They will say

"I'm not sure."

You then say

"What are the chances of you two coming back to mine for a threesome?"

Then you hold.



HOLD IT MY SON..........................

HOLD THE FUCKING LINE..................


That 'Boom' incidentally, is the heart of the S+A system.

It's where you see it in a girl's eyes. Shock, and awe.

It is the most rewarding thing you'll ever see after years in the wasteland being ignored by women. Most men go their whole lives and never see it. It's amazing. After you've seen it a few times it changes you, changes your whole outlook on life. It's like something connects, deep inside you. Some long-lost circuit. After I'd done this a couple of times my whole voice changed, became more resonant. It was awesome.

So that, my friends, is the Apocalypse Opener. The only chat-up line I ever found that actually works. I've spoken about it at length, because I want to hammer home one point.

It works. It's not THAT hard to do. You DO NOT NEED to be amazing at this to pull this off. If you can blurt it out and hold your nerve, you can do this.

Now get out there, and nail this shit to the ground.

'Jealous girlfriend' my hairy white ass.

Peace out

(Credit - Ciaran RSD)

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Do You Google Your Dates

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In this day and age of advanced technology, everybody and their aunt can be found on Google if you search hard enough. But what have we become when we begin to Google the guy from the 5th floor who asked us out, or that sexy girl who works at the bar down the street?

I admit that I have Googled everyone from myself to employers and even lawyers I plan on hiring, all in a bid to protect myself. But have we lost our minds with this obsession of Googling people? Is there no end to this?

It's bad enough that we're all on Facebook spilling our guts to people we spoke to once in grade 4; now we're busy trying to find the dirt on any and everyone we plan on dating.

There are some people out there who look great on paper but are complete losers in person and vice versa, so how fair is it to judge a date based on what you may have found out on Google?

So is it a good idea to Google someone before you get to know them? Isn't finding things out about someone face-to-face the best way to go? Probably not if they're psychotic. Hmm

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Impressing Guy The Most Practical Tips To Know

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Every lady or girl wants to impress her dream boy. However, it is not an easy job. We have seen many women make mistake when it comes to impress a guy. Today, we will talk about the same mistakes.

IMPORTANCE Yes, it is mandatory to give importance herself but make some boundaries as well. There is a very narrow like between importance and arrogance or showoff. Generally, guys do not like girls who believe on showoff.

HUMOR If you add a little bit sense in it, it will become sense of humor. You should use this technique to impress your partner.

LAUGH - Boys like to those girls who know how to laugh properly. In other words we can say that smile is far better than loud laugh.

EYES Please make sure that you have good eye contact with your partner. You should not checkout other guys while dating with your dream man. No one wants to sit or spend time with any girl who is interested in other guys.

EMOTIONAL Every boy or man knows about the emotional nature of women. However, it does not mean that you should use this technique to impress your boy.

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Divorced Dating Are You Ready To Move On

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Divorced dating can be a most difficult experience for anyone who recently got divorced. An individual goes through with many problems and emotions after a divorce. Sometimes, these feelings come along with long lasting effect and ruin the life of person. In order to fight with such problems, you have to be cool and calm. First of all you have to decide what you learnt from the past mistake or relationship and what mistake you are not going to commit again.

There are many online dating websites which provide a separate place and nice environment for such people. If you don't want to feel special then join the common group of people and start sending the ice-breakers. Once you logon to such dating sites, you will find that you are not alone in this world. And even you are not the last one who got the divorced. These kinds of problems come in everyone's life but you can not stop living your life.

Divorced dating is not a new tradition. It is quiet old but got the massive popularity recently. Now days, people have become quiet bold and they want to live their lives without any sorrow. But it is advisable not to share your past life with your new partner.

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Attraction By Natural Instinct

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Before you listen to today's podcast, I am about to share with all the men something to which you need to really pay attention.

Yesterday on the flight home from New York City, I was sitting next to a guy who was wearing a pair of True Religion jeans. Every time he bent over or reached down for something, the whole plane had the privilege of seeing half of his hairy ass. I am not just talking "plumber butt crack," this was plumber butt crack on steroids.

This is not something anyone needs to see... ever. Every time he moved, every person on that plane -- women, men and children -- were forced to see his ass.

SO, guys, if you can feel the wind chafing your ass when you are wearing jeans, then it means they are way too low and you need to cover up!

Now, on to another revealing topic...

This might be the most powerful podcast you will ever hear. I was recently on the phone with a guy who was thinking about taking a Bootcamp, and he asked me why he has trouble approaching women. He had already attended someone else's bootcamp at which they had instructed him to approach women using some kind of pickup line.

I told him that pickup lines will never work. Life is all about observations based on instincts. He asked me about what kind of instincts I was talking, and I told him I was talking about the kind of instincts we have as a child.

Remember when you were a kid (maybe three, four or five years old) and you'd see something you like so you'd look at it and touch it? Remember also how when you did that your mother would scold you and say, "Don't do that?"

Do you realize that the social conditioning we got from about the age of four to about the age of eleven was all about the things we should not do (and all about the things we can't do)? Don't look at strangers. Don't talk to strangers. Don't smile at that person.

Our social conditioning is the reason why so many of us out there now suffer from problems meeting the opposite sex. Our social conditioning taught us not to talk to people instead of relying on our natural instincts.

This podcast will truly blow you away. It is by far the most important podcast I've ever done. Enough writing now. It's time to open your ears and start listening!

Also, if you want to learn how to recapture your natural instincts and de-program yourself from all of you bad social conditioning, then you need to check out my Men's "What's Your Excuse?" program.

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Ever Hear The Phrase The Game Is Played In Comfort

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Ever hear the phrase, "The game is played in comfort?"

This is a staple of PUA lore, but it's unclear to most reforming AFCs. Since middle-game is poorly covered in Mystery's seminal work, new students are often left confused.

Mystery touches on it, when he talks about "bait-hook-reel-release", but it was Mehow who really broke down how this phase works. The idea is simple: you are slowly getting a woman to display greater amounts of compliance with your requests.

But what is compliance? Compliance, in practical terms, is the woman doing what you want her to be doing. When you open a girl, and she talks back to you, she's complying. When she accepts your kino she's complying. When you tell her to give you her palm for a reading, and she does, she's complying. If you squeeze her hand while you're holding it, and she squeezes back, etc, etc. There are infinite variations.

For a further understanding of compliance and tips on how to generate compliance, Becoming a Master Communicator by David Wygant is a great guide. Check it out.

The first key to generating compliance is simple: You reward good behavior and you punish bad behavior. This is one of the most important rules of pickup. When she does something good (paying attention to you, kissing you back, returning a phone call) you reward her by reciprocating. Similarly, when she does something bad, you punish her.

It is important to scale your reward or punishment to the same intensity of her good or bad behavior. That is to say, if she's looking around the bar when you want her to be talking to you, you disengage slightly and pay less attention to her, too.

That's the starting point, but there's more to it than that. You want her to be working for your approval. She demonstrates that desire for your approval by complying with your requests, but to keep her working for it, more is required. That's where the "release" in bait-hook-reel-release comes from. You bait the girl by getting her attention in some way, you hook her by getting her to comply, you reel her in by rewarding her with positive emotions, and then you release her.

You give her a playful little push away. Nothing hard - you don't want to punish her. You just make it clear that she has to continue to work for your approval. This maintains your value and keeps the attraction level high: you don't want to be the guy who starts flattering the woman constantly the moment she gives him the time of day. This comes off as needy and weak, it destroys attraction, and your target will quickly start manipulating you.

She deserves to be rewarded is she isolates with you, tells you something substantial about herself, initiates or reciprocates kino, qualifies herself, displays a strong interest in you, makes plans to spend more time with you, or jumps through your hoops.

You reward her with kino, and sort of interactive routine (magic, future projections, palm reading, etc), and compliments. But be aware that compliments only work if she has worked for you. Otherwise, you're giving her too much value and she knows she has the upper hand.

Good basic releases are breaking eye contact, focusing on her friend for a moment, going to the bathroom, rejecting her kino or teasing her for it, getting a drink or going to the bathroom. Little phrases like, "No way!" and "I can't even talk to you now!" work. "I can't believe you just said that," or, "That's it, we can't hang out any more!" are also good releases.

How do you bait her and reel her in? Well, that's up to you - it's about the connection you develop with her, the ways you have of displaying value, and the things that are interesting about you. What are your DHVs? What attraction switches are you good at hitting? Every pickup artist has their own set of DHVs - use yours!

Communication is the key when it comes to compliance. Let David Wygant show you how to Become the Master Communicator.

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Relationships How To Approach Girls And Make Them Crazy For You

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Getting a girl to like you takes a specific approach and most guys mess this up totally. If you care to get the hottest girls you have to approach from a cocky yetpoised position.

To learn how to approach girls and get them chasing after you, your going to have to put away that Mr. nice guy in you. Chicks don't get hot for guys that are too sweet to them. They don't get hot for guys that act like their friend either. These are the men that get the phone call when the real man they like blows them off and the guy friend gets to dry up the tears. Do not put yourself in that position to begin with.

Guys this is how its done. You must approach confidently like you EXPECT things to go well. Think James Bond here he always gets the girl because he expects to and he brings them into his reality versus dwelling in theirs. Be bold but not rude be confident and open a conversation so you can move this situation forward.

Always make fun of her in a sarcastic way. Bust on her a little bit. This will set you apart from most of the other dudes because they don't do this. They are too afraid to offend her so ruffle her feathers in a playful way (like 007 does) and do not back down if she gets uncomfortable. Just smirk and say "I'm only playing...relax you will live I'm only gonna do this to you the rest of the night!"

The most vital thing when learning how to approach girls is to be certain you let her know your not her puppy dog and that you are comfortable in your own skin with or without her and that you have high social value too. Don't be afraid to act disinterested at periods just to let her know that your not all ga ga over her but yet pay close attention to her at other times like she is the only one in the room. This is called Push Pull and it makes women crazy.

Establish control also. Once rapport is built test her and grab her by the hand and do a location change or just move to a different part of the room. If she goes with you without a challenge then its a pretty good sign that you are doing things right. Get her used to following your lead with small tests like this.

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I Want To Get Weighed

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"I want to get weighed," replied Amber.

They ambled over to the weight guesser. He guessed 120 pounds. She got on the scale; it read 117 and she won a prize.

Next, the couple went on the Ferris Wheel. When the ride was over, Jesse again asked Amber what she would like to do. "I want to get weighed," she said.

Back to the weight guesser they went. Since they had been there before, he guessed her correct weight, and Jesse lost his dollar.

The couple walked around the carnival and again he asked where to next. "I want to get weighed," Amber responded.

By this time, Jesse figured that she was really weird and took her home early, dropping her off with a handshake.

Her roommate, Laura, asked her about the blind date, "How did it go?"

Amber responded, "Oh, Waura. It was wousy."

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How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back

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"by David DeAngelo."

So, let's start with the definition of the word WUSSY

This word is a combination of the words "Wimp" and another word that starts with P, has a next letter of U, then two of the letter S and finally a letter Y.

In other words, a Wussy (or Wuss), is a guy who tends to behave in a wimpish, submissive, needy, way.

The opposite of a Wussy is Maximus during his first arena fight scene in the movie Gladiator.

The problem with being a Wussy is that women are NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAKNESS and thus, they are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.




A woman might MARRY a Wussy because he's either the best she can get, has a lot of money, has courted her for so many years that she finally gives in, or whatever

But, she'll never feel ATTRACTION for him.

Women don't CHOOSE who they feel ATTRACTION for, and they don't choose the emotions that they feel either.

It just HAPPENS. Bam!

One problem that a lot of guys have to face is TURNING INTO a Wussy over time

When you start off on the right foot, then gradually turn into a Wuss over time with a woman, that emotion called ATTRACTION starts to go away inside of her.

A woman will tell her friends "I don't know what it isbut for some reason lately he's just annoying to be around." etc.

It BOTHERS and ANGERS women when a man that's interested in them acts like a WUSSY. In many women it actually triggers these emotions just like dominant behavior triggers ATTRACTION.

Of course, the worse things get, and the more annoyed a woman becomes, the more like a total WUSSBAG most guys act.

It's one of those "vicious cycles" that usually ends with the woman leaving and the guy sitting there wondering what he did wrong and him thinking that maybe, if he had just been able to tell her just how much he loved her, that she would not have left him for that other abusive jerk.

By the way, if you want to learn how to DE- WUSSIFY yourself for good, and become a man that is universally attractive to women, then you must go and read this before you read any further:

OK, so let's talk about your specific questions:


I interpret her behavior as NATURAL and VERY, VERY PREDICTABLE.

If you do it again in the future, the same thing will probably happen.

Is she still interested?

Yes, she is.

But not in anything more than being your FRIEND.

You have, with your actions and communication, KILLED the ATTRACTION that she felt for you.

This is something you're going to have to deal with and take responsibility for.

You turned into a Wuss, and now you're paying the price.

You have to come to terms with your Inner Wuss before improvement can begin.


Well, this is a sticky question.

There is a CHANCE, yes.

But here's the problem. Probably 90% of the time when I tell a guy exactly what to do in order to get a girl back, he screws it up doesn't do it exactly the way I say, etc.

And, of course, he makes things worse in the process.


Focusing on getting her back will not only lessen the chances, but it will keep you from moving on in your life.

The best thing for you to do is MOVE ON in your life.

Ironically, the way to give yourself the best chances of getting her back is to NOT TRY instead, go date other women, and be scarce in her life.

In other words, you're never going to make her feel any ATTRACTION for you again by staying in touch, being her friend, and being "nice" and by trying to "win her over" again.

It would be nice if things worked that way, but they don't.

Now, why do guys chase women, and keep doing the WRONG things even after a woman has left?

In our dealings with women, we guys tend to think things like "That's not fair" and "I did all the right things" and to feel self-righteous because we're the good guy but miss the point and not get the RESULTS we want.

Remember though

Attraction isn't FAIR, it isn't "right", it doesn't care how "nice" you are. Attraction can be cruel and painful sometimes.

You know, the irony of your situation is that this girl was probably just as bummed-out as you were about this whole thing happening.

Women HATE it when guys turn into Wussies.

I know, I know she did things that made you turn into more and more of a Wuss. It's her fault too right?


Women do this stuff to TEST you.

They're not actually TRYING to turn you into a Wuss. But if you DO turn into a Wuss, she realizes that she can't trust you to be a man and she has to go.

Now, she's not doing this to hurt you, she's only doing it because she wasn't getting the feelings that she wanted with you and now she's getting them with Jerk-Boy.


As I mentioned, your best bet in this situation is to MOVE ON. Get on with it.

Most importantly, start dating OTHER WOMEN IMMEDIATELY.

Not in a few days, and not next week. NOW.

And, stop calling your ex. Stop responding to her quickly. Stop being her WUSS-FRIEND.

It's obvious that the LAST thing you want is to wind up "just being friends" with her so STOP DOING IT.

Next time she calls, tell her you have a date over at the house, or you're leaving to meet a woman. Of course, make sure IT'S TRUE, like I said.

Stop being so AVAILABLE.

Get busy enjoying your life.

Get busy dating other women.

If you find yourself thinking about her and wanting to hear her voice, BITCH-SLAP yourself. If you're feeling weak, have a friend do it.

And when you do wind up talking to her, say the following:

"Hey, calling for more therapy? No-can-do I have to run to the gym to get in shape for my hot date on Friday"

You feel me, dog?

And remember

In this world, "I was a nice guy and did nice things for her" doesn't cut it. Attraction has a totally different set of rules and exceptions. And if you want to get and keep an attractive woman, then you'd better learn them.

It's a skill, and you're not going to get it by being "nice" and doing everything your mom taught you

If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, she'll do almost anything to stay with him. If she DOESN'T feel it, then the chances are slim that she'll stay around.

These rules are even MORE TRUE when you're dealing with an ATTRACTIVE woman who gets a lot of attention from guys.

The irony of this situation is that I think it's a lot easier to make a woman feel ATTRACTION than it is to be a Wuss who chases after her, buys her things, and annoys the hell out of her.

I spent a lot of years of my life being a Wuss.

I made all the classic mistakes.

I should probably be awarded an honorary degree in the subject really.

But, over the last several years I've not only learned how to cure myself and evict my Inner Wuss I've also learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION with my body language and communication alone.

I only wish someone would have shown me this stuff fifteen years ago

If you're reading this right now and it's time that you evicted your inner Wussy, and learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you without chasing them, buying them things, and giving all of your power away, then listen up


This stuff isn't going to fix itself.

And you know by now that more of the same is only going to get you more of the same.

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Frustrated With Pickup

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If you're anything like me, you've tried so many pickup and seduction methods that it all feels like hard work. It also feels like you're putting in a ton of effort while getting a lot less progress and results than you expected. It's really quite frustrating at times.

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Commitment Phobic Man

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Dating Q">I recently met a guy I think might be the one for me. The problem is, he told me that the longest relationship he ever had lasted all of 3 weeks. He's 31, so it's not like he's a spring chicken. The thing is, he's all over me when we meet up with mutual friends, but I'm afraid he just wants to play around. Should I invest my time in this or should I move on?


Personally, I don't think you should waste your time on this guy unless you are ready to be in it for a good time and nothing more. He told you off the bat that he doesn't do long-term, so expecting that you will be the lady who changes that is na"ive.

He made himself clear, so take him at face value and either tell him you're not interested, or enjoy the casual sex that he obviously wants from you. But don't think for a second that playing hard to get and then sleeping with him is going to change his mind. It won't. He made that clear.


I am recently single and have perusing online dating sites for a while now. I finally met someone I click with and she suggested we meet. The thing is, she's suggesting that we go for a hike together, but I think that a 2-hour commitment is not a good idea, especially if we don't click in person.

How can I tell her that I'd like to meet for a 30-minute coffee instead without insulting her?


Steven, the idea of going on a hike for a first date is creepy by any means. I mean, if a guy asked a girl to do that, I'm sure that all kinds of alarm bells would sound in her head.

What you can and should do is tell her the truth - that you would prefer to meet up for a quick coffee instead and save the hike for the next date. You don't have to tell her why, exactly, but if she asks, be honest about it. Don't start off a potential relationship on a lie.

There's nothing wrong with telling her that there's a possibility you may not click. Hell, she might be the one who ends up not clicking with you.


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How I Slept With My Salsa Teacher

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by Magic, Attraction Methods.

"Let me tell you about the time I slept with my salsa teacher Natalie"

This was long before I became good with women, and even with my lack of success, I still got lucky. Real lucky!

CAUTION: Even though I slept with this woman, almost everything I did in this story was horrible. So let me be upfront and tell you not to use what I did in this story as solid techniques or tactics, but I will point out what I did right, and how you can use that right now to propel your dating life.

You probably already know that I spent years getting my life in order so that I could start attracting the women I saw around me. This wasn't always the case. Before I started honing my skills, I missing loads of fun, enjoyable (and great venues to meet women) activities in my life. Well, dancing was one of them. When I started to be proactive, I decided to take lessons.

Like many dance teachers, this woman was a beautiful. She was tall, skinny and blonde. Not only was she a dance teacher, but she just changed her profession from being a (of all things) an air-hostess! This siren had recently separated with her husband and it was at her home in wine country that she gave dance lessons in. (Her future ex-husbands estate of course!)

During our dance sessions, it would be just the two of us in this elegant, old-style home.

Every time we would dance, I would feel very uncomfortable. I had not slept with a woman in a long time and now I felt the sexuality of this beautiful woman in my arms on regular basis. I would look into her eyes, hold her close to me and touch all over her perfect body as part of our dance routine.

(If you think you are someone who is uncomfortable touching women, join a dance class. Go for group lessons instead of private sessions. This way you will get to touch a lot of women, look into their eyes and breathe close to them. Before you know it, you will feel very comfortable and relaxed when touching women. It really worked for me.)

These ongoing lessons made me immensely attracted to her. I wanted her so badly but didn't know how to make her mine.

I could tell she knew I had feelings for her. She would tease me from time to time, as women do, talking about her breasts and body hidden by dancing overtones. We would sit on her neatly decorated king-sized bed to watch dance videos. Every time she would sit almost TOO close to me for it to be not on purpose. You know how that would feel right?

Something just snapped and I could not take it anymore, so I decided to do something about it. I mustered the little courage I had, and asked her to join me for lunch. To my surprise she agreed without hesitation!

I do not know how I got that burst of courage but I held her hand and said sheepishly, "Natalie, please do not take this the wrong way but I think you are very beautiful and I want to be with you."

She blushed and her eyes opened wide. She said it was almost like the movie "Unfaithful" where the main woman is cheating on her husband with a younger man.

She said she could not be with me because it did not feel right. I tried to convince her a little but soon backed off. I did mention that I hoped this did not come between our friendship.

We finished lunch and parted ways. I thought I had ruined any chance I had with her, and did I make a mistake by taking the leap?

A couple of days later, I got a call around 6pm in the evening. It was my dance instructor crying because she just had another fight with her husband. She asked me if I had plans that night

I drove over and she asked me if I meant what I said at the restaurant. I replied saying that I meant every word of it. She lent over and started kissing me on that very bed we had watched dance videos on. Before I knew it, we were having sex.

Almost everything I did during these interactions was wrong but there was one thing I did do right: I took a chance by letting her know how I felt over lunch.

I get hundreds of emails from guys who are focused on learning dating skills. This is good. Coaching drastically increases your odds with women. However, until you can get an opportunity for live coaching don't just sit on your ass complaining.


You will feel amazing about making an effort. You will become aware of your mistakes, and you will not feel depressed and lonely like you would by sitting in your house all by yourself.

If you want to change something then take a chance. Send me an email, or give me a call and let's talk about taking a workshop.

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There are lot of beautiful, single and lonely women out around on Valentines Day.

Tomorrow is your day to take a chance like I did. Who knows? You might be sleeping with women even before you come to me for workshop to take your skills even further!

Now get off your ass, get out there and send me an email when you sleep with a woman because you took that chance!

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Are You A Human Golden Retriever By David Wygant

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The following is a talk I gave to a client at a weekend bootcamp. This is a great example of my direct one-on-one coaching during bootcamps.

Whenever you try too hard in life to get people to like you, you push everybody away.

When you do this, you're too over the top and you're generally not listening to people. You're actually overwhelming them.

It's like a Golden Retriever: have you ever gone over to someone's house and they have a Golden Retriever, and you've never met this dog before, but the dog will just not leave you alone? It just keeps running over to you, bringing you its ball, and all of its toys and everything?

In a dog, this is a great quality. In a human - well, you don't want to be a human Golden Retriever.

Both men and women do it. When people try too hard, it's just too much. You get in somebody's face, and they automatically want to back down. I watch when a guy will go out there and be a human Golden Retriever - and I watch the way women react. At first, they will find him attractive, because he has great energy, but then after two minutes, she'll just try to shoo him away.

She hasn't gotten to know the guy in those two minutes, because generally the human Golden Retriever is just spitting out hyperactive words the whole time instead of connecting.

By tuning yourself down a little bit, and by listening and being intriguing, you're no longer going to be a human Golden Retriever - you'll be a person. And that's all that it is about. It's about connecting with people in a genuine way.

After this weekend, some of you guys will keep in touch with some of the guys here a little bit longer than you might keep in touch with some of the other guys - that's just life. That's chemistry.

So stop trying so hard. You're such a deep and genuine soul. You're a good person all around. You don't need to try so hard to prove yourself to other people. So stop overtrying

Todays video dives even deeper into life and how to present yourself to a total stranger with confidence.

You do not want to be the human golden retriever.

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