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Leadership, as a whole, is about creating a compelling vision and driving people to achieve it. Businesses that don't have this capability or skill, may not survive in today's unstable economy. For this reason more and more businesses should now be focusing on developing their leaders. In my view, leadership is key for everyone, in terms of how they lead their own lives, through to world decision makers who lead radical and global change.

You might think that like the essence of entrepreneurial flair real leadership skills are born and not made but the truth is that leadership can be taught and can be coached, in you. What we will look at below are three aspects of great leadership and some of the NLP tools that you can use to enhance your leadership skills

LEADING YOURSELF

To enable you to lead others first you must lead yourself, so that you are able to get out of life what you want and so that you can be a model of excellence for others. The first step in leading yourself is to learn to live at cause rather than at effects. This means taking total responsibility for the results you get rather than blaming others for what happens in your life.

One aspect of learning to live at cause is to choose to be in a resourceful state of mind where required. Being able to manage your state is core to NLP and there are many techniques for allowing you to access resourceful states from the past so that you can access them in the present. A useful tool to help you access these states is anchoring, based on the work of Pavlov, it is hugely beneficial to leaders to be able to draw on positive experiences to help them handle difficult situations.

Learning to live at cause and being able to select resourceful states when you need them will help you achieve some fantastic results. NLP also offers many other techniques which allow you to align yourself consciously and unconsciously and then learn how you enhance your communication to make your message of leadership resonate with others.

LEADING OTHERS

When leaders are at their best, they challenge, inspire, coach, support and enable others to act, they model the best way, and encourage great performance.

To lead others you certainly don't need to be perfect yourself, take a look around how many leaders today have exemplary attributes and behaviours, not very many. But to be a great leader there are some essential features which can help you.

Vision - know where you want to lead people to? If you don't have a good sense and understanding of this in your own mind then how can you expect others to follow you?

Coach don't just manage - in bringing others with you it is important to develop and encourage them in the way that a coach would. Create a space where it is possible to make mistakes without causing significant damage, thereby allowing people to take manageable risks and through that they will learn and grow.

Working Relationships - All the above points are easy if you have built good relationships with your team. But good relationships aren't necessarily about 'liking' people, they are about two-way communication. If NLP is about anything, it's about helping people communicate more effectively.

Modelling the Way - Leaders who say one thing and do another have very little credibility and rarely generate a willing followership. Some people will take the time to evaluate how consistent your behaviours are with what you've identified as your core business values. So pay particular attention to how well your actions reflect with what you say you believe is important, your actions must be congruent with the values.

Unless you show people how you value their efforts motivation will fade. There are many ways to recognise individual contributions and one of the most simple is to say thank you and provide feedback. What people want from their managers is to understand how well they are doing, which means providing constructive feedback as well as acknowledging what they do well.

LEADING ORGANISATIONS

Leading larger groups of people requires you to be able to 'lead yourself and your team'. To succeed in today's business environment, leaders also need to ensure that they demonstrate flexiblity and the flair to adapt to change positively and quickly when reacting to market demands. In addition, leaders need to understand how to communicate effectively with shareholders and have the ability to build new partnerships to grow and maintain their business for the future.

To be an effective leader, you don't need to necessarily hold the spectrum of competencies required to run your whole business, but we do believe that if you are skilled in the foundations of NLP, lead your own life according to a set of principles and have the ability to motivate a team, you are probably capable of being able to select and inspire a group of senior people who have the diversity of skills to complement your own.

By driving a team who collectively have the skills to succeed in today's economy, who share your vision and demonstrate the company values, you will have set yourself up for success and will be an inspirational leader of the future.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Kevin Hogan - The Psychology Of Persuasion
In10se - Symbolic Morphology
Joseph Matthews - Charm School


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'How To Be...' by JugglerJuggler is a veteran of the pickup scene. Long before the release of the above book, Juggler’s collected wisdom was available in a book called simply ‘The Juggler Method’ or ‘Conversational Jujitsu’. This was a good one-stop-shop for Juggler’s take on seduction practice. It was incidentally put together by a third party (a fan), if I ever knew who I have forgotten. Anyway I mention this because the original book is also for sale from www.charismaarts.com under the title ‘Juggler’s Compiled Archives’, to avoid any confusion, the book reviewed below is Juggler’s 2005 release ‘How To be A Pickup Artist’ – just like it says on the cover of the book.

‘How To Be A Pickup Artist’ costs $39.97 as a downloadable eBook as does the original book, or they can be purchased together with a discount. I haven’t reviewed ‘Juggler’s Archives’ on this site.

The style. Juggler is an affable and charming writer and his book is often entertaining. You may know that Juggler penned a chapter in the Neil Strauss book ‘The Game’ and received much praise for his literary efforts. This book is obviously a far different prospect but its style is still very conversational.

What it covers. This is a book on perspectives, in chapters on ‘Your Initial Vibe’ ‘Genuine Interest Versus Desperate Interest” ‘Have A Strong Presence’ ‘Give Away Your Love’ and others of that same ilk, Juggler presents the perspectives that give him success with women. It is full of examples of his ideas in practice, but it is not a book of tactics or technique.

Juggler’s is the most conversational of the main pickup approaches. His style has a great deal to do with having fun. And this is, in a way, much of what you are learning from this book. That pickup is nothing to be scared of, despite the natural anxiety that accompanies actually doing it.

One of the book strengths is also one of its biggest flaws. The personal voice which permeates the structure of this book gives it an enjoyable feel . It is nice to read a book that demonstrates the fun of pickup. Most books are much drier in style, but this book’s conversational style (with the reader and in the examples) can’t help but presents itself that you should be like Juggler.

The book ends with extensive examples of the type of thing that Juggler has talked about throughout. You get a scripted dialogue of several pickups that show Juggler method in action. All in all good, and a decent learning tool.

For the most part there is something for everyone in any book, CD set or program out there. An appalling thing, maybe, for a critic of seduction method to say. But with the information that is available from the various schools, it is important for a balanced review. Questions all of us ask when we set out to learn seduction are “How true are the ideas?” “How much do the methods reflect the ideas?” “How practical and applicable are the methods?” personally (and importantly) “How much did I learn?” and many more. Bluntly, no student of seduction goes through seduction manuals like we were trading baseball cards – “Got, got, got…” until we find a piece of game we can use or an angle not previously considered.

Summary. Some work on seduction is brand new and innovative, some work is a new perspective on a standard concept – we could continue to categorise like this for a while. However, one important category is the standard material on an everyday concept. The core, how to be a pickup artist stuff. This type of material is not unhelpful, it can illuminate the novice (and sometimes the experienced), it just isn’t very useful.

For the novice you might go through the ‘How To Be A Pickup Artist’ eBook needing every one of its baseball cards, and be enlightened. Overall, though, there’s not a lot here for the seduction student.

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Juggler - How To Be A Pickup Artist Cover To clarify right away, this is not a post on how to be a pickup artist. It is instead a review of Juggler’s (Wayne Elise) book titled ‘How To Be A Pickup Artist’.

'How To Be...' by JugglerJuggler is a veteran of the pickup scene. Long before the release of the above book, Juggler’s collected wisdom was available in a book called simply ‘The Juggler Method’ or ‘Conversational Jujitsu’. This was a good one-stop-shop for Juggler’s take on seduction practice. It was incidentally put together by a third party (a fan), if I ever knew who I have forgotten. Anyway I mention this because the original book is also for sale from www.charismaarts.com under the title ‘Juggler’s Compiled Archives’, to avoid any confusion, the book reviewed below is Juggler’s 2005 release ‘How To be A Pickup Artist’ – just like it says on the cover of the book.

‘How To Be A Pickup Artist’ costs $39.97 as a downloadable eBook as does the original book, or they can be purchased together with a discount. I haven’t reviewed ‘Juggler’s Archives’ on this site.

The style. Juggler is an affable and charming writer and his book is often entertaining. You may know that Juggler penned a chapter in the Neil Strauss book ‘The Game’ and received much praise for his literary efforts. This book is obviously a far different prospect but its style is still very conversational.

What it covers. This is a book on perspectives, in chapters on ‘Your Initial Vibe’ ‘Genuine Interest Versus Desperate Interest” ‘Have A Strong Presence’ ‘Give Away Your Love’ and others of that same ilk, Juggler presents the perspectives that give him success with women. It is full of examples of his ideas in practice, but it is not a book of tactics or technique.

Juggler’s is the most conversational of the main pickup approaches. His style has a great deal to do with having fun. And this is, in a way, much of what you are learning from this book. That pickup is nothing to be scared of, despite the natural anxiety that accompanies actually doing it.

One of the book strengths is also one of its biggest flaws. The personal voice which permeates the structure of this book gives it an enjoyable feel . It is nice to read a book that demonstrates the fun of pickup. Most books are much drier in style, but this book’s conversational style (with the reader and in the examples) can’t help but presents itself that you should be like Juggler.

The book ends with extensive examples of the type of thing that Juggler has talked about throughout. You get a scripted dialogue of several pickups that show Juggler method in action. All in all good, and a decent learning tool.

For the most part there is something for everyone in any book, CD set or program out there. An appalling thing, maybe, for a critic of seduction method to say. But with the information that is available from the various schools, it is important for a balanced review. Questions all of us ask when we set out to learn seduction are “How true are the ideas?” “How much do the methods reflect the ideas?” “How practical and applicable are the methods?” personally (and importantly) “How much did I learn?” and many more. Bluntly, no student of seduction goes through seduction manuals like we were trading baseball cards – “Got, got, got…” until we find a piece of game we can use or an angle not previously considered.

Summary. Some work on seduction is brand new and innovative, some work is a new perspective on a standard concept – we could continue to categorise like this for a while. However, one important category is the standard material on an everyday concept. The core, how to be a pickup artist stuff. This type of material is not unhelpful, it can illuminate the novice (and sometimes the experienced), it just isn’t very useful.

For the novice you might go through the ‘How To Be A Pickup Artist’ eBook needing every one of its baseball cards, and be enlightened. Overall, though, there’s not a lot here for the seduction student.

Buy Juggler - How To Be A Pickup Artist ($6.08)

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