Online Dating Sites

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Being in love is easy; you can actually learn to love someone gradually. The problem starts when there seems to be no one available for you to fall in love with, and even if there is..... are you willing to love someone whose faith and beliefs are completely different from yours?

That is why Christian online dating sites emerged. There are now hundreds of different sites that specialize in Christian dating; originating from one country to another and it's for you to take advantage which site and country you prefer to become a member.

Just to end your doubt about where you can see these sites, we have listed the most popular Christian dating websites, so try your luck and get involved with someone whose viewpoint are the same as yours.

CHRISTIANSONLINE.COM.AU- Australia's most popular and largest Christian online dating that have started back in 2001, you can absolutely have someone to share your values and interest with whether you him/her to be from Melbourne, Sydney or Brisbane.

CHRISTIANDATING.CO.ZA- If you are from South Africa and you want to meet someone from your own place, then you are eying the best site. Members are always ready to chat so, share your common interests and find God's chosen person just for you.

DATINGDISCIPLES.COM- in 2004, Michael Price founded this website to help "hungry" for love Christian brothers and sisters find love easier.

CHRISTIAN CAFE- said to be the leader for single Christians, whether you are in search for romance, friends or serious relationship Christian cafe is certainly a safe place for you to find who you are looking for.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Abbas Abedi - 5 Steps To Online Dating Success
Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets


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By Dark Knight

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Part of the issue is that there are at least three meanings for the terms "natural" or "natural game" floating around out there.

Meaning 1. Somebody who is good at picking up chicks without any training.

A natural is that one in 100,000 guy who is good at picking up chicks without PUA training. They are being themselves because who they are just happens to be what women want.

Meaning 2: Bringing out some (undefined) real you to the surface even if you aren't good at picking up women. This somehow makes you a natural even if you aren't one. Sounds like BS

Meaning 3: Vibing, being intuitive, going without preparation, being in the flow, having no method, etc. Ok, we can see where this will get AFCs

People are out there trying to teach 'Natural game' to guys who are not the one in 100,000 aren't being honest about their marketing.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Julius Fast - Body Language
Michael Hall - Back Tracking


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Online Dating Site Want

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There are some things you want to avoid when creating your profile for a black online dating website. It's all about safety when you're dating online and you never want to part with too much personal information too soon. Think of online dating as a mixer at a local church or community organization. You would never share a ton of information about yourself from the get-go, so it's the same deal when meeting people online. You never know what a person's intentions are and you want to keep yourself safe.

NO LAST NAMES


Never put your name in your profile at a black online dating site. This especially goes for your last name. If your name is Stacy, you could put Stacy781, but never throw your last name into the mix. Most professional online dating consultants also suggest staying away from your first name as well. Think of something quirky you'll remember and will stand out in the crowd. You can also throw in a few numbers. With the vast amount of black online daters, a favorite fictitious character's name may be taken, so make it your own by tacking on a few numbers.

NO LOCATIONS


When creating your profile for a black online dating site, don't post any information about what area you live or where you work. You can name local places you enjoy visiting, but make sure they are public places such as a restaurant or bar. Refrain from naming local joints you frequent because you never know who may check out your online profile and then miraculously show up at this place of business hoping to "run into" you. You want to stay safe when dating online and plastering your favorite hangouts all over your profile isn't headed in the right direction.

DON'T AIR YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY


Don't put all of your business out there. Any personal issues should stay personal. After all, who knows what you'll end up with from this online dating experience and there's no reason for total strangers to know your deep seeded issues. If you put this information on your profile, you run the risk of scaring potential dates off. You don't want to say too much, so stick to the basics. Your profile name, along with a few interests and what you're on the site pursuing. There's nothing wrong with saying you're looking for a long term relationship, but you don't want to tell the sob story of heartbreaks you've encountered and why you continue to be a hopeless romantic.

NO FUNNY BUSINESS


Avoid trying to be funny or using sarcasm as a way of coming off as cool. It won't work around these parts. Most people looking for a date through an online dating site want someone genuine. They're tired of the bar scene and folks looking for a quick hookup. You want your profile on a black online dating site to come off as genuine. After all, you signed up to get a date, right? Be sincere in what your interests are and what you're looking for and you're likely to attract someone who will appreciate you for you and you may make a real connection.



Suggested free e-books to read:

Abbas Abedi - 5 Steps To Online Dating Success
Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets


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2011 Pua New Years Resolutions

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Every year I make a list of goals I want to accomplish by the end of the year. I had a great 2010 so I thought I'd make a list targeting some PUA related goals. This list is going up on my wall where I can it every day. This isn't some list I'm going to forget about in 2 months. I'm going to drill this list into my head until every single one is achieved. I'm not going to settle for an ordinary lifestyle and you shouldn't either. So here's what I'm aiming to do in 2011.

* Pack on some muscle - I'm not overweight but I'm lacking in the muscle department. I've already started the P90X program and planning to hit the gym more often.
* Improve my day game - I've missed some great opportunities to meet women outside of the bars/clubs. Approaching a woman without a drink in my hand is intimidating but it's something I desperately need to improve.
* Stop using canned openers - Canned openers are great for beginners but I've been doing this for more than a year now. It's time to take off the training wheels.

So here's to the best year of our lives. Happy new year everyone. Now go get some!

Let me know what your 2011 PUA goals are in the comment section.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Cucan Pemo - You Can Save Your Relationship And Marriage
Tyler Durden - Puppy Dog Routines
Laurie Weiss - 24 Tips For Having A Great Relationship


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Are There Free Senior Dating Sites The Truth

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There are many free dating sites for seniors. While most dating sites allow users to sign up for free and then ask they pay a fee to connect with someone, there are a select few that allow you to sign up and mingle for free. Most of these sites are geared towards those under 40, but they do exist for seniors as well. Within the general dating sites, you may find

seniors looking for friends or dates, but it is not the norm as most are intimidated by the younger crowd. If you are looking to make friends with other seniors, it is best to find a senior dating site catering to people in your age group.

Free senior dating sites, remember that some are more like social networking sites than dating specific sites. This means seniors are looking for friends in their area who share a similar interest and want to hang out and see if there are any sparks. Many seniors are not comfortable getting to know someone online since it can be a new medium of communication for some. There's nothing wrong with meeting people online and becoming friends in real life, but it's crucial seniors protect themselves and stay safe when making new friends.

The best free senior dating sites offer anonymity that protect you and your privacy while you're getting to know someone. This means there's no sharing of your first or last name and you keep things light and strictly within the confines of the dating site. The best free senior dating sites will have several applications that allow users to interact with each other before taking things off the site. Remember to keep your own safety in mind when getting to know someone online. It is important to watch for inconsistencies in their story and ensure you're safe if you decide to meet this person in real life. Never assume that because someone has signed up for a senior dating site, they are who you think they are. A phone call is a good way of getting to know someone before meeting them in real life. You should also notify a family member or friend of your plans.

Many of the free senior dating sites allow you to delete your profile whenever you'd like. This means if you run into trouble at a site or wish to take your profile down for whatever reason, it can be done immediately, on your own. This is great for seniors who want to get their feet wet, but feel violated if the profile stays up while they are not looking to make new friends or get a date. This privacy makes seniors more comfortable trying free senior dating sites because there's no serious commitment if the site isn't a good fit.

Some free senior dating sites offer forums and chat rooms. This means you can get to know a person in a group setting. For seniors who aren't accustomed to online interaction, this is like a mixer, where everyone chats in one area about a topic. It is a good way to see if there is anyone out there who catches your attention with their wit or humor. Often connections made on forums or in chat rooms are wise to purse through direct or instant messaging. You know the two of you already have much to talk about and it will be easy for the conversation to flow once you take the conversation off the forum or chat room.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Shawn Nelson - The Dating Resource Report
Slade Shaw - The 3 Destructive But Common Dating Mistakes Men Make


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How To Make Blind Date Unforgettable

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Blind date is becoming quiet popular day by day and it is a no longer a taboo for society. However, it is important to keep few points in mind before leaving your home for blind date.

PLACE - Either you are boy or girl makes sure that you spend the complete blind date at public place. The reason behind the public place is security. You don't know the nature and personality of other person.

DURATION - Blind date should be short and simple. As far as duration is concerned, make sure that you should not spend more than 1-2 hours. It is a safe bet because if you like your partner then you can extend the time and in case you don't like him/her then you can leave the place easily.

CLOTHES - Yes, it is true that you should look good and attractive on your date. But don't forget the comfort. Many people make this mistake when they prefer look more than the comfort.

ACTIVITIES - As it is your first date with unknown person, it is important be confident, cool and calm. You are not required to do any special activity to impress him/her. Your way of talking, smile, nature, personality etc. are more than enough to impress.

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Anthony Berger - How To Drink For Free
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Positive Psychology Beautiful Ukulele Music

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I love beautiful ukulele music - or beautiful things of any sort, for that matter.

When I took Martin Seligman's character strengths assessment, my top strength (both times - I took both the current and the new "beta" version) was:

APPRECIATION OF BEAUTY AND EXCELLENCE You notice and appreciate beauty, excellence, and/or skilled performance in all domains of life, from nature to art to mathematics to science to everyday experience.

One of the top recommendations of positive psychology practitioners regarding the character strengths survey is to take your results and focus on your top strengths. This is the best way for any of us to charge our batteries and make us feel we're living fulfilled lives. So I look to TED for inspiration on a regular basis.

Here's the beautiful ukulele music, in all its TED glory. Enjoy!



Suggested free e-books to read:

Peter Latourette - How To Meet Beautiful Women
Havelock Ellis - Studies In The Psychology Of Sex
Tranceboy - The Psychology Of Social Engineering


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Settling Down

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I thought I would make some history in my first official DCB post: I will write about relationships. Who ever thought they would see a post about *that* around here?

I used to love playing the game. I loved the anticipation of adventure each night out brought. I enjoyed the personal challenge of risking my ego on each approach. I found satisfaction in gaining the interest of attractive women who had been strangers to me just minutes before. And then there are those moments of triumph when everything fell into place and neither one of you wanted the night to end. Man, me and my wings thought this was the life and those guys in the dating world were chumps for buying dinners and presents for their girlfriends who would then spend "girls nights out" in Adams Morgan grinding (and sometimes plenty more) with player dudes on the dance floor.

But funny how time changes things. After what seemed an endless blur of nights out, I started to grow increasingly frustrated with the costs of the game. Mindless conversations with drunk girls who can't focus on anything for more than 30 seconds. Smoky bars that seem like certain lung cancer incubators. Feeling like I wanted to sleep on the floor of my office due to too many nights out past 2:00 AM per week. And the bane of every player's existence: the flakes. There were times when I got a phone number from a girl who seemed so interested when she gave it to me that I wanted to notch my belt in advance, only to have her never return my phone call.

Right in the midst of my growing frustration, it happened: I met a girl I really liked. No, not my current girl, but the girl who made everything that happened with my current girlfriend possible. She was fun, shared many of my interests, and treated me very well. Though I kept on going out to bars and clubs for part of the time we dated (she and I had "an understanding" about our lives apart from each other), pretty soon, the drunk girls in bars seemed far less tolerable. Why should I be out in these smoky bars until 2:00 or 3:00 AM talking to girls who I didn't have any feeling for or any real possibility of forming a connection with? Why wouldn't I rather being spending my time with a sweet girl who would treat me well and assure me a good time?

After a year it didn't work out with that particular girl, but I had changed. I wanted a serious girlfriend now. I wanted someone who could make me happy on every level. When I met my current girl and everything between us was perfect in every way, the game didn't stand a chance. I had found a super smart girl who has her act together, never plays games, and treats me like a king (and she is damn cute too). I stopped going out to bars, committed myself to perfect exclusivity, and never regretted the decision. The symbolic end of my personal player era came one night at club with my girlfriend. We were ordering drinks and I saw two guys approaching two girls just as I and my wings might have in the past. I pointed it out to her and perhaps I seemed wistful, because she asked "Do you miss it?" I thought for a moment and said truthfully, "No, this is better."

I have heard some say that guys settle down with the first girl they date once they become ready for marriage. I am not so sure that is true, at least not always. I think some guys grow up assuming they will marry the first great girl they meet and never play the game. Other guys have to go through this 'playing the field' process until they grow fed up with it. In my case, it was a combination of becoming ready emotionally after playing the field and, through luck and good karma, meeting someone who was ideal for me. If I had not met someone as great as my girlfriend, who knows, I might still be out there searching for that special one.

If you girls out there are searching for Mr. Right, don't give up on a guy who has a player past, even a recent one. Check first to see how he feels about the game and give him a chance to see you as a better alternative. Giving that type of guy a chance might be the best move you ever made.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Geoffrey Miller - The Mating Mind
Bobby Bodenhamer - Goal Setting
Dr Dennis Neder - Getting Women


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Another Miracle

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A woman takes her 16-year-old daughter to the doctor. The doctor says, "Okay, Mrs. Jones, what's the problem?"

The mother says, "It's my daughter Darla. She keeps getting these cravings, she's putting on weight, and is sick most mornings."

The doctor gives Darla a good examination, then turns to the mother and says, "Well, I don't know how to tell you this, but your Darla is pregnant- about 4 months, would be my guess."

The mother says, "Pregnant?! She can't be, she has never ever been left alone with a man! Have you, Darla?"

Darla says, "No mother! I've never even kissed a man!"

The doctor walked over to the window and just stares out of it. About five minutes pass and finally the mother says, "Is there something wrong out there doctor?"

The doctor replies, "No, not really, it's just that the last time anything like this happened, a star appeared in the east and three wise men came over the hill. I'll be damned if I'm going to miss it this time!"

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Honore De Balzac - Another Study Of Woman
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Love Top Beautiful Love Sayings

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LOVE SAYINGS

Love without return is like a question without an answer

When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out.

- Elizabeth Bowen

Love is not a matter of counting the years

But making the years count.

- Michelle St. Amand

A heart that loves is always young.

- A Greek Proverb

Just because someone doesn't love you

in the way you want them to,

doesn't mean that they don't love you

with all they've got.

- Anonymous

In dreams and in love there are no impossibilities.

- Janos Arany

You can give without loving,

But you cannot love without giving.

- Amy Carmichael

True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart.

- Honore de Balzac

All love that has not friendship for its base,

is like a mansion built upon the sand.

- Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Come live in my heart, and pay no rent.

- Samuel Lover

The most precious possession that ever comes

To a man in this world

Is a woman's heart.

- Josiah G. Holland

You love simply because you cannot help it.

- Kim Anderson

True love always makes a man better, no matter what woman inspires it.

- Alexandre Dumas Pere

Arguments out of a pretty mouth are unanswerable.

- Joseph Addison

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech

when words become superfluous.

- Ingrid Bergman

Love, and do what you like.

- Agostino

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Wayne Ross - Secrets To Attracting Beautiful Women
Peter Latourette - How To Meet Beautiful Women


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Are You The Weekend Bar Stalker Lurker

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ARE YOU THE LURKER? Are you that guy who goes out to a bar on Friday and Saturday nights, takes a position somewhere in the bar (maybe standing at the bar or standing at the corner of the bar), and you basically lurk all evening long?

You stand there and spend your entire night just lurking. You don't really talk to anybody. You never look like you are having much fun.

Maybe a woman will come into the area where you're standing every so often. You will start a conversation with her that lasts for about fifteen seconds. You smile while you're having that conversation, but yet she leaves. Every time this happens you wonder, "Why is she leaving?"

SHE LEAVES BECAUSE YOU ARE THE LURKER! You are the guy who is lurking around, not looking confident, and not looking like you are having fun.

"Does that describe you? Are you that person? Are you that lurker? "

If you are, then you need to really start working on yourself. HERE'S WHY and here's exactly how you come off to women when you are a lurker.

When you go out to a bar and lurk, the longer you do it the more it repels people. Women notice guys who are standing there doing absolutely nothing but looking around and lurking.

The lurker is usually the guy who is always looking around. He never really looks at his friends. He may technically be talking to his friends, but his eyes are always wandering and looking elsewhere. His head looks a little like Linda Blair in The Exorcist -- it's always spinning around wondering where the women are.

It's almost as if he is thinking, "Where is the girl? Where is the girl? Where am I going to find her?" The problem is that when you are the lurker, there is no way in the world you are going to have the guts to go and talk to her -- even if you do find her.

You have to start figuring out who you are when you go out at night. One of the best exercises you can do is to go out to the bar and identify yourself through observing other people.

"Are you the lurker? Are you 'entrance man?' Whom in the bar are you like? "

When you find that person you are like, take some time and watch 'yourself.' See how you act. See how you come off to people. See how people respond to you.

If you are not successful in a bar, then you probably are a lurker. So go ahead and watch 'yourself' as the lurker -- watch a fellow lurker so you understand why you are not having much success.

Connecting with women is very simple. Make an observation, react, talk about the observation further. Speak with clarity, conviction and confidence. It is no different in a bar than anywhere else.

I don't write about bars that often, but in reality they are a blast. They are a blast when you understand the dynamics of human communication. If you are a lurker, though, you don't get it yet.

"So look in the mirror." If you are a lurker, admit it and go seek medical help. Okay, you probably don't need medical help -- but you do need to seek my help! GET MORE OF MY ADVICE AT MY BLOG, OR MY WEBSITE. DON'T WAIT AROUND WISHING. DO IT!

Suggested free e-books to read:

William Robinson - Woman Her Sex And Love Life
Joseph Matthews - Break Out Of The Friends Zone

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Importance Of Offline Dating In Daily Life

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Offline dating contains nothing extraordinary, it is a normal dating follow by young boys and girls. This method of dating is more popular in young generation as compare to online dating. Online dating allows you to see your partner but it is not 100% safe and trustworthy way. On the other hand, offline dating allows you to see partner and feel the presence of him/her. In this way, you can know him/her more nicely and get to know his/her likes and dislikes.

In offline dating, you can see your partner live in front of you. It gives an opportunity to spend some quality time with him/her. Even individual can easily determine what is going on in his/her mind about you. It is a time and money consuming process but trustworthy. Offline dating is more physical and emotional. And online dating contains only emotional elements.

Offline dating can be happened anywhere like theatre, coffee shop, restaurant, market etc. But online can be operate from internet caf'e only. In current scenario where we get to see number of internet frauds, people have become more strict as far as internet dating is concerned.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Elena Petrova - The Golden Rules Of Online Dating
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Dating Rules Must Follow Before Its Too Late

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Today, we are going to share some important dating rules than can help you a lot in day-to-day life.

You are making biggest mistake if you pretend to be someone that you are not. Now days, people like to enjoy their lives life movie star or celebrity. Hence, they copy everything of those stars including, clothes, way to talking, way of walking, etc. It is not a good idea at all if you are on date.

Goal is very important whenever you leave the home for a date. Make up your mind initially why you are going on a date. Are you going just to have fun or you are looking for a serious relationship? This type of question will help you to behave in correct direction.

Respect is all about give and take. If you respect your partner then you will find that he/she is giving you a proper respect including your decision.

It is also mandatory to listen more and speak less. It is a best technique to know more about the partner. Don't try to dominate someone just because you love it.

These are some dating rules that should be followed by everyone.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Love Systems - Daytime Dating Bonus Master Yor Dating Life In One Year
Carlos Xuma - Dating Questions And Answers

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Valentines Day 2 Chocolate Body Frosting

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Today's tip will sweeten up your night literally.

After you've had your romantic dinner, have dessert in the bedroom with a jar of gourmet chocolate body frosting, complete with "quickie recipes" and a paint brush. This devilishly delicious treat brings new meaning to the words "desserts on me"!

There's another reason you may want to give chocolate body frosting a try though. Surprisingly, chocolate is an aphrodisiac. Chocolate, with it's rich and sweet flavor and smooth creaminess, contains Phenylethylamine and Seratonin, both of which simulate the feelings of love, passion, and lust. The stimulant phenylethylamine in particular is considered by some researchers to be a "love chemical" because of the euphoria it brings about.

Here's to a sweet and sexy Valentine's night!



Suggested free e-books to read:

Joe Navarro - What Every Body Is Saying
Brian Caniglia - Getting The Most From Online Dating
Dr Robert Lind - It Is Your Choice Decision Making And Goal Setting

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Men Will Sleep With Anyone

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A shocking study proves that men are much more likely to sleep with a woman they don't know, even if she's ugly. (FYI, I'm being facetious.)

Butterfaces across the world can rest easy knowing that there is a man out there who has absolutely no standards and is incredibly willing and able to have sex with them, even while sober.

British researchers analyzed questionnaire responses from 860 American, German and Italian students (427 men, 433 women), in which they revealed what they what do if a member of the opposite sex - some ugly, some not-so ugly, and some hot - offered to go out, go to their place and have sex with them.

Much more men than women were willing to have sex with all 3 categories of women, while the women expressed sole interest in the hot men. Although German men seemed to be the pickiest of the male bunch; Italian men seemed to be the most willing to sleep with any type of woman.

The findings of this study aren't exactly amazing, considering we have always known this to be fact. The only thing that I find slightly surprising is that the guys in the study were sober. Completely and utterly sober.

But then, we don't know the last time each of these guys had sex, and an overload of semen should've been a factor in all this.



Suggested free e-books to read:

Tyler Durden - Responses To Leave Us Alone
Love Systems - Daytime Dating Never Sleep Alone

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Dweck Book A Must For All Teachers And Leaders

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It is hard to avoid reading about CAROL DWECK'S work on the power of mindsets in learning. Business leaders and sports coaches use her ideas and so ought schools. It will be the most influential book on motivation. A book that with ideas to change the lives of students and their teachers.

I am writing this blog before I have fully absorbed the message of the book as I want to loan it to a young teacher. As a result of reading the book I have decided to start something I have been meaning to do for years. I now have the right mindset. Watch this space.

MY ADVICE - BUY THE BOOK PRONTO. My copy cost NZ 29. Not bad for a mind changing book. 'MINDSET THE NEW PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS' Published by Ballantine Books NY ISBN 978-0-345-47232-8

CAROL DWECK IS A STANFORD UNIVERSITY PSYCHOLOGIST AND IN HER BOOK MINDSET SHE SHARES THE IDEAS ABOUT LEARNING SHE HAS BEEN WORKING ON FOR DECADES. In her book SHE SHOWS THE POWER OF PEOPLE'S BELIEFS THAT STRONGLY EFFECT WHAT WE WANT AND WHETHER WE SUCCEED. BELIEFS ( 'MINDSETS') WE ARE UNAWARE OF BUT WHICH HAVE A PROFOUND EFFECTS ON OUR LIVES. AN UNDERSTANDING OF THESE BELIEFS HAVE THE POWER TO UNLEASH YOUR POTENTIAL AND THAT OF YOUR STUDENTS.

Dweck has written this book in a popular style which makes it available to anyone who picks it up.

SCHOOLS WORLDWIDE HAVE PROBLEMS WITH STUDENTS WHO FAIL TO LEARN AND THIS BOOK PROVIDES SOME REAL ANSWERS.

DWECK OUTLINES THE TWO MINDSETS.ONE SHE CALLS 'FIXED' WHERE STUDENTS BELIEVE THAT THEIR TALENT IS 'FIXED' FROM BIRTH ( natural talents) AND THE 'GROWTH MINDSET' WHICH SEES LEARNING AS A RESULT OF EFFORT AND PRACTICE. Dweck does not suggest that those with a 'growth' mindset can be anything but they do believe that a person's potential is unknown and that to develop it requires 'passion, toil and training'.

THE REAL PROBLEM IS THAT MANY PEOPLE FEEL THAT THOSE WHO SUCCEED IN ANY FIELD DO SO BECAUSE OF NATURAL TALENT. THIS IS THE 'FIXED MINDSET'. The problem is that SUCH PEOPLE DO NOT BELIEVE IN EFFORT and even see the need for it as weakness. And those who believe they cant do something SEE NO POINT IN TRYING.

MY BET IS THAT SUCH PEOPLE MAKE UP OUR SO CALLED 'ACHIEVEMENT TAIL'. HELPING STRUGGLING CHILDREN CHANGE THEIR LIMITING MINDSETS MAY BE MORE PROFITABLE THAN OBSESSIVELY FOCUSING ON LITERACY AND NUMERACY STANDARDS.

DWECK WRITES THAT THE 'FIXED' MINDSETS CAN BE CHANGED AND REPLACED WITH THE MORE POSITIVE 'GROWTH' MINDSET. Her book is full of practical ways to do just this.

'When you enter a mindset', she writes, 'you enter a new world'.

DWECK BELIEVES ALL STUDENTS ARE BORN WITH AN INTENSE DRIVE TO LEARN AND WORRIES ABOUT WHAT PUTS AN END TO THIS EXUBERANT LEARNING AND WHY SOME CHILDREN DEVELOP A LIMITING 'FIXED' MINDSET.

IT BEGINS, SHE SAYS, WHEN STUDENTS BEGIN TO EVALUATE THEMSELVES AND, AS A RESULT, SOME BECOME AFRAID OF CHALLENGES - and this is further developed by parent who want their children to succeed. SUCH CHILDREN END UP BY WANTING TO MAKE SURE THEY SUCCEED AND DON'T LIKE TAKING RISKS; don't like to expose their deficiencies. And they don't like asking for help.

'GROWTH' MINDSET CHILDREN, IN CONTRAST, SEE SUCCESS IN LEARNING AS STRETCHING THEMSELVES, about becoming smarter, and ARE HAPPY TO ASK FOR HELP.

'FIXED' MINDSET PEOPLE DO WELL WHEN THINGS ARE WITHIN THEIR GRASP. If 'fixed' mindset people think they cant do anything they don't try, avoid situations, find endless excuses, blame others, and don't ask for help. They don't want to to risk their identity. Perfectionist girls seem specially at risk in this respect.

IT MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE WHICH MINDSET DEVELOPS.

AND THE POSITIVE 'GROWTH' MINDSET CAN BE TAUGHT.

Dweck lists accomplished people who were considered to have little future potential including Charles Darwin and Elvis Presley. PEOPLE WITH A 'GROWTH' MINDSET KNOW IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT FOR POTENTIAL TO FLOWER. She also describes people who many think had a natural talent ( 'fixed') but whose success was determined by a 'growth' mindset including - Mohammed Ali and Michael Jordan.

DWECK SUGGESTS TEACHERS DO A SIMPLE SURVEY OF THEIR STUDENTS TO SEE WHAT MINDSET THEY HOLD AND THEN TO INTRODUCE IDEAS TO CHANGE THOSE WITH THE LIMITING 'FIXED' MINDSETS. DO THEY BELIEVE THEIR INTELLIGENCE WAS A FIXED TRAIT OR OR SOMETHING THEY COULD DEVELOP?

SHE ALSO DESCRIBES A NUMBER OF RESEARCH SITUATIONS WHERE SHE DEMONSTRATES SUCH CHANGES. Students with the 'growth' mindsets allows people to love what they are doing and motivates them to try harder, practice and ask for help. Mistakes, or failures, are seen as learning opportunities not the end of the world. A 'growth' mindsets allows abilities to be cultivated.

TALENT, OR DRIVE, WITH THE RIGHT MINDSET, CAN HELP ANY LEARNER PRODUCE AMAZING THINGS. It is all about continually improving on ones personal best.

TALENTED OR FAILING 'FIXED ' MINDSET STUDENTS FAIL WHEN PLACED IN NEW LEARNING SITUATIONS - 'GROWTH' STUDENTS ENJOY THE CHALLENGE. Even prodigies with gifts feed the gift with constant endless curiosity, practice effort and challenge seeking. ALL CHILDREN, DWECK WRITES, HAVE INTERESTS THAT CAN BLOSSOM INTO ABILITIES AND THIS INCLUDES THOSE CURRENTLY SEEN AS 'LOW ABILITY' OR FAILING. No one know about negative ability labels like Maori and Pacifica group or woman when it comes to maths and science.

ALL STUDENTS NEED TEACHERS WHO PREACH AND PRACTICE THE 'GROWTH' MINDSET. Such teachers focus on the idea that all children can develop their skills. 'Growth' orientated teachers and parents PRAISE EFFORT RATHER THAN ABILITY OR TALENT. Praising talent teaches students the 'fixed' mindset. ABILITY GROUPING AND PRAISING ABILITY CAN HAVE NEGATIVE EFFECTS ON LEARNING.

WE NEED TO GIVE ALL STUDENTS THE GIFT OF THE 'GROWTH' MINDSET AND IN THE PROCESS PUT STUDENTS IN CHARGE OF THEIR OWN LEARNING.

MANY STUDENTS WILL ENJOY THE STORIES IN THE BOOK ABOUT THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE NATURAL AND EFFORT ORIENTATED SPORTS PEOPLE. Their stories will help students appreciate the positive growth mindset and how sports people learn to cope with setbacks. Teachers will enjoy the differences between the 'fixed' and growth orientated coaches.

SCHOOL LEADERS WILL ENJOY THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE HEROIC TALENTED LEADERS ( 'FIXED') AND THE 'GROWTH' ORIENTATED LEADERS and how they handle failure and staff development.

THE MOST IMPORTANT CHAPTERS FOCUS ON TEACHERS AND PARENTS AND WHERE DO MINDSETS COME FROM?

THESE CHAPTERS FOCUS ON THE MESSAGES WE GIVE CHILDREN - AND THAT EVERY WORD AND ACTION SENDS A MESSAGE. Students are extremely sensitive to such messages. WHAT WE PRAISE, OR GIVE FEEDBACK ABOUT, IS VITAL AND IT NEEDS TO BE FOCUSED ON EFFORT AND FUTURE STRATEGIES TO CONSIDER.

CONSIDER ALSO HOW CHILDREN DEVELOP THEIR ATTITUDES TOWARDS MATHS, OR ART, OR SPORT. Do they see it as a 'fixed' gift or something they can all do to some degree with effort and practice as they ought to? CONSIDER HOW YOU WOULD SET ABOUT TO CHANGE STUDENTS' ATTITUDE TOWARDS MATHS, OR ART, OR ANYTHING THAY HAVE CLOSED THEIR MIND TO.

'DONT JUDGE. TEACH.IT'S A LEARNING PROCESS', DWECK WRITES.

ALL THE STORIES DWECK SHARES ARE ABOUT HOW PARENTS AND TEACHERS WANT THE BEST FOR THEIR CHILDREN IN THE RIGHT WAY - BY FOSTERING THEIR INTERESTS, GROWTH AND LEARNING.

IF TEACHERS MAKE EXPLICIT THE IMPORTANCE OF A 'GROWTH ' MINDSET AND ENCOURAGE IT IN THEIR STUDENTS ALL STUDENTS WILL SUCCEED. THE TEACHER'S STANCE IS ALL IMPORTANT. 'Growth' mindset teacher tell the truth and set about to help their students close the gap. Dweck's research shows it can be done even with students who at first don't seem to care.

MOST INTERESTING FOR TEACHERS ARE THE MINDSET LECTURES SHE GIVES HER GRADUATE STUDENTS AND THE BRAIN, OR MINDSET WORKSHOPS SHE GIVES YOUNGER STUDENTS WHERE STUDENTS LEARN ABOUT POSITIVE MINDSETS AND HOW TO USE THEM.

IN JUST EIGHT ONE HOUR SESSIONS CHILDREN'S' MINDS, SHE SHOWS, CAN BE CHANGED.

AND SHE MAKES THE POINT THAT CHANGE IS NOT EASY. It is hard to give up a 'fixed' mindset. Concrete plans are required not just good intentions. 'Will power', Dweck writes, 'is not just a thing you have or don't have. Will power needs help.'

IT IS ALL ABOUT SEEING THINGS IN NEW WAY.

EVERY DAY PRESENTS YOU WITH CHANCE TO GROW AND TO HELP THE PEOPLE YOU CARE ABOUT GROW. Learners who take on board a 'growth' mindset become more alive, courageous and open.

BUY THE BOOK TO REALLY GET DWECK'S POWERFUL MESSAGE. The ideas in the book will resonate with the many creative teachers who really value developing in their students a positive learning identity. Students who are able to 'seek, use and create their own knowledge'. Students who will become 'confident life long learners'.

GET IT NOW AND SHARE HER IDEAS.



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Approach A Man How To Be Happy Again

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You may get food plate easily but you have to use your hand to eat the food. You are just wasting your time and food plate as well if you expect someone to eat you. It is a simple example for all the girls who are looking for a perfect partner. It is not an easy task for girls to approach a man. Generally, girls do not feel comfortable while approaching a man. Today, we have brought some important tips to help you become more approachable to men.

DRESS Yes, you should look different and good but it doesn't mean that you have to look out of this world. Many women make the same mistake and men do not notice them. Generally, men don't feel comfortable to approach a most beautiful girl or highly dress woman.

PLACE Generally, men love to approach a girl in party. So, you are not allowed to miss even a single party if you searching a better partner. Please keep in mind that you should not feel bad if someone doesn't approach you.

ENJOY Think positive and enjoy yourself. Share positive attitude and vibes with other but don't let them know about your intentions.

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Grungey10 Seduction Masters Interview

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I go by the alias of Grungey10. I'm 21, born and raised in the Philippines until I was 17, migrated to California a couple of years back, and recently just moved to Arizona, arguably the hottest state in America.

I remember having the biggest crush on this undiscovered beauty back when I was 12. She was playing soccer in the park. I was watching her for a couple of minutes then the perfect opportunity came. The ball flew over to my direction. I got the ball but there was no way I was kicking it back, she had to get it from me. See, I was a very mischievous kid. I would always play pranks on everyone and girls didn't scare me that much as needles did, so yeah. I succeeded in becoming her friend and everyone in my School hated me for it (in a good way of course). Later on I found out that her younger sister had a crush on me too, I ended up losing both of them due to my indecisiveness. I couldn't choose between them and it killed my chances. Oh what a heart break that was back then. I remember this incident very well because it was the first and last time (in my high school life) where I liked a girl and she actually liked me back.

1. Describe the moment, when you suddenly realized, "I need to work out this part of my life."

I could never forget that moment.

I had nothing when I first moved to the United Stated.

It all started three and a half years ago when I had to make a very important decision that would eventually change the rest of my life.

Should I migrate to the United States with my whole family and start a new life? Or should I stay with the one I love, my friends, my band, and the country I grew up in?

Fortunately, I was raised well by my parents. There's one thing that my mom would emphasize over and over again, as I grew up, and it's the saying that "blood is thicker than water on any given day". I took that saying to heart. I ended up moving to Los Angeles with no friends, no job, and unable to sign up for a community college (I was still waiting for my papers).

If I wasn't at home playing the guitar or surfing the internet I would be at the gym. That's what my life revolved around for awhile. I was bored, depressed, and celibate for a couple of months. Then I met this girl over the internet. Well, she kind of asked me out. Here's how it went.

We chatted for a week, she felt like we had a connection so she asked me out to coffee. I was actually surprised because it was the first time I'd been out on a date for years back then.

It turned out to be a double date. We were going to be with her roommate and this one other guy. We finally meet. She was cuter than the online picture, so I can't complain about that. She offered to buy me coffee with her Starbucks card but I refused (What the hell was I thinking?!).

We ended up staying there for 2 hours. In those 2 hours, I didn't say more than 30 words.

So what happened?

The whole time, the other guy took control of the situation. He would tell stories about his life, make jokes, and do fun things. He was doing a good job. He wasn't trying to make me look bad, as a matter of fact he tried to get me to open up several times, I just couldn't. I didn't have the skills.

Then it suddenly hit me. I lost most of my social skill due to the fact that my life revolved around 1 girl for 3 years. I was lost. The only reason why I was able to attract her is because I was communicating with her over the internet. I had time to think about the perfect things to say. I wasn't shy to be myself at all because I couldn't see who I was communicating with. That was the problem. I couldn't be me.

I knew I was a cool and interesting guy. I just didn't know how to convey my good qualities.

After the date she hurried home. I didn't hear from her ever since.

That's when I realized that something had to change. I looked for resources online until I stumbled on David D. That's what started my quest for self improvement. I knew something had to change. I knew I needed to improve myself. I wasn't going to stop until I was satisfied with my results.

2. HAVE YOU HAD ANY MENTORS WITHIN THE COMMUNITY/LIFE THAT HAVE HELPED YOU IMPROVE YOUR GAME, AND WHAT DID THEY TEACH YOU?

Unfortunately, I didn't get the chance to have any mentors to guide me through my journey. I couldn't afford it back then. It would have been cool though. It definitely would have accelerated my learning curve. I learned through books, DVD's, experiences, failures, and modeling friends that were successful with women.

It took me awhile to implement the things I learned. If there was one thing I hated the most It had to be failure. I just couldn't stand it. That hatred motivated me to work really hard on improving myself. I knew there wasn't a quick fix. There was no magic pill that would make me successful with women overnight. I had to work on myself on a daily basis. I needed to turn my life around.

That's when I started to put the theories into practice. It wasn't easy though. It was probably the most challenging thing I've ever done in my entire life.

I had to practice everything I learned. Soon I turned myself into a social butterfly. I would talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere. After getting learning how to be social with everyone I started to specialize in the girls that were attractive to me.

So the quest began.

Every time


I saw a girl on the street APPROACH

I saw a girl in the gym APPROACH


I saw a girl in the mall APPROACH

I saw a girl going in her car APPROACH


I saw a girl in the library APPROACH

I saw a girl on the beach APPROACH


I saw a girl with her boyfriend APPROACH

I saw a girl behind the counter APPROACH


I became unstoppable during the day. It was pretty scary. It became something I'd look forward every time I went out of the house. It became a habit. There were a lot of bumps along the road. A lot of sticking points but giving up wasn't an option. I hated failure so much that every time I screwed up, it was back to the drawing board. It was back to learning how to handle the new obstacle and this continued until I got consistent results with women of great quality.

I didn't let it rule my life though. I wasn't there to drop everything in my life and become someone else. I was there to improve myself and develop the skills to convey my personality in an attractive way. I started pursuing the things I was passionate about. I started living a more interesting life. I started to become a renaissance man.

I studied everything and anything that piqued my curiosity. After all, if I wanted to get good at this might as well learn everything inside and out. I didn't want to be that guy that depended on "The Script" the whole time. I wanted to be that guy that's naturally just irresistible and interesting to women.

I went out several times during the week. I tried meeting women in all places during the day time. I went to malls, beaches, college campuses, parks, bookstores, streets, coffee shops, libraries, you name it I've done it. I talked to everyone regardless of their age, gender, or occupation. After all, I believe that success in picking up women can be attributed to the manner of communication used in the conversation. That's all it is.

I repeat.

In my experience, success in picking up girls, building relationships, and getting what you want out of life depends on your communication skills. This includes the verbal and non verbal aspects of communication.

3. CAN YOU DESCRIBE THE FIRST TIME YOU USED A COUNTER-INTUITIVE ROUTINE THAT YIELDED IT'S PROMISED RESULTS, AND HOW YOU FELT?

First of all, I'd like to give you guys a brief background on how I came across a powerful counter intuitive routine that yielded great results for me. Well, actually it isn't a routine. It's more of a mindset.

I remember having this one friend who was just simply phenomenal with women. He was a natural. He always had women starting conversations with him and they all ended up chasing him afterwards. He's this fairly good looking, tall, curly haired, guy that kind of resembled Brandon Boyd (the singer of Incubus).

I learned a lot from this guy.

There were things that I witnessed first hand that blew my entire reality away. It got even crazier when I started incorporating the things I learned from him in my game. Before I get to that, I'd like to mention a couple of things I noticed about this guy.

HE HAD A TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT ATTITUDE WHEN IT CAME TO MEETING WOMEN

This is the most important thing I learned from him. It's so counter intuitive. I learned that the more you demonstrate that you're willing to walk away from a woman, the more she'd want you to stay with her.

This was probably one of the biggest things this guy had going for him. It was his belief. It was the way he viewed life. He never felt like he had to impress anyone. He never placed girls on a pedestal. Don't get me wrong, every time we'd see a hot girl he'd be like "Damn, she's fucking hot" but that wouldn't be apparent when she started talking to him. As a matter of fact he taught me four things when it came to meeting women in exchange for guitar lessons.

First Lesson: Always act disinterested in her. Never ever show that you're head over heels for her at the beginning. Once you let her know she has you. It's over.

Second Lesson: Never be afraid to spark tension in any relationship. Always call a woman on her shit early on and don't be afraid to lose her.

Quick story, there's this one time where I saw this theory in action. It was after this group date we had. She was with her friends and I was with him. We were supposed to head out to the mall after dinner. He wanted her to ride with us instead of her friends. Here's what happened:

My friend: Come ride with us

Hbfriend's Date: Uhm, hold on let me ask my friends real quick

My friend: Cool, hurry up. (he then turns to me and says) "Watch this, I'm going to give her the ultimatum"

Hbfriend's Date: Well, I don't think I can ride with you guys. My friend's aren't comfortable with that because I just met you. I'm sorry.

My friend: First of all Hbfriend's Date, I'm the one you're going to a date with not your friends. We're trying to get to know each other. Second you're 19 not 8, I'm sure you can make your own decisions without your friends by your side. If you're friend's will end up making a decision for you all the time then I don't think this is going to work out between us.

Hbfriend's Date: No, no, I didn't mean it to come across that way. I really want to ride with you it's just that they're concern about my safety. I'll let them know that it's alright ok? I'll talk to them.

(She comes after 5 minutes and rides with us)

Third Lesson: Always let her know indirectly or directly that you have other options. It's going to be her loss if she didn't get to date you.

Fourth Lesson: Always act confident in everything that you do. If you're going to go for the kiss just do it. Even if you're uncomfortable just do it. If you're nervous then you should learn how to hide it. Never show any signs of indecisiveness.

I experienced a lot of positive results ever since I started to be indifferent towards the outcome. Every time a girl would mention something she didn't like about me I'd say "You can take it or leave it, it's up to you, either way I'll be happy". I took that mindset to heart and my whole world change since then.

There were dozens of other things I picked up from this guy. I'll share them with you another time.

4. COULD YOU DESCRIBE WHAT YOU'RE LIFE WAS LIKE BEFORE YOU WERE AWARE OF THIS, AND/OR WHAT OPTIONS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN NOW?

My transition to being attractive to women


I'd usually end up getting with a girl after a few months of knowing her. It would always start out with me befriending her, then I would take her out, then she ended up liking me. I could only talk to a girl if she was introduced to me. Picking up a girl that I didn't know was completely foreign to me. I doubted it was possible.

Even though I've had some success back then, it still sucked for me big time. I always had to settle for something less. I never really got the kind of girl that I wanted.

But now, I have no problems with talking to anyone, anywhere, anytime. Finding a girl was hard for me because I'm really picky. I have this whole checklist of qualities that I look for in a girl. The shallow ones are: She had to be older than me, taller than me, and blonde. After a few years in the game it finally paid off. I met my match. The best part about it is that I never used a single routine to get her. I was able to drop the training wheels and still get similar results. Ever since then, I've been teaching guys how to duplicate my results through my step by step, easy to use, system of picking up women during the daytime.

5. What was your hardest/biggest sticking point?

This is easy. My biggest sticking point was my limiting belief that it was impossible for me to date someone that was older than me, taller than me, and blonde (occasionally brunettes). It took some time before I actually got over it.

Everything was different back where I was from. Everyone there placed blonde people on a pedestal. It's crazy but it's true. I remember instances, when I was growing up, where I'd see a blonde girl walk through the mall and all the heads would instantly turn towards her direction. People would be walking out of her way and a lot would be mesmerized just by her mere presence. It was ridiculous but that's the society I lived in.

When I first moved here it was one of my biggest sticking points. I've identified it as a problem but it wouldn't go away. That's when I decided to challenge myself. I wanted to prove myself wrong. I wanted to prove everyone wrong. Since then I decided to only date girls that are older than me, taller than me, or blonde. It was a self fulfilling prophecy. I realized that it was a stupid limiting belief. It was just all in my head. The reason why I wouldn't be successful in the past was because I expected failure. It was all negative thinking which wasn't productive at all.

Ever since then I've converted a lot of guys from skeptics to believers. Believers that it can be done. Believers that it is possible to get a girl through personality and communication. Being a minority isn't a problem at all. Being Asian will only work against you if you believe that it does.

6. DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE ROUTINE/STEP IN YOUR MODEL, CAN YOU DESCRIBE IT, AND WHAT IT ACCOMPLISHES?

It's actually a phase not a routine. It's what I call emotional connection. Emotional connection is what I call The Heart of Day Game.

A lot of guys out there focus too much on attracting girls and making them laugh. But there's more to attracting a girl then just making her laugh.

How often do you think a girl laughs in a day?

- Someone tells a joke, she laughs

- Her friend makes a funny sound, she laughs

- Something embarrassing happens, she laughs

- Someone tells a story, she laughs

- She spends time with her family, she laughs

A girl laughs several times in a day. It's something common. If you can make a girl laugh then you definitely got an advantage, and a couple more minutes to talk to her but it shouldn't stop there. You should be able to build an emotional connection with her too.

I have a theory on the power of emotional connection. Let's step into a girl's shoes for awhile.

Growing up, she probably watched her share of Disney or romantic movies where there's this prince charming that's different from everybody else. She's been dreaming of this guy ever since she was a kid. This guy who would just sweep her of her feet, connects with her on a deep level, and gives her the experience of a lifetime.

High school comes and this prince charming never arrives. Well, a couple of chumps might come along the way but never the one she's been dreaming about. Then she probably tells herself: "You know what, I'll just settle for what's available. After all you can only find guys like those in movies". After that realization, she'll go for the guys that everyone else desires. She'll probably settle for guys that can satisfy her logically, physically, but never emotionally. Years pass by and she's forgotten about her dreams.

Then you come along.

How often does a stranger walk up to a girl in a confident manner, and instantly make her comfortable? Makes her laugh a little bit and then connects with her logically, emotionally, and physically. They end up opening there souls to one another on the very first day that they meet. He taps into a certain side of her that's been unavailable to most guys all these years. He relates to her on all levels and thus an emotional connection is born. He ends up creating an emotional connection that is so strong that she ends up remembering him all her life.

This is very powerful.

This can't be faked.

It's an acquired skill that I help my students develop


7. Have you had the experience yet, where you feel that you've reached a certain degree of mastery? Can you explain the time, and how you got the realization?

My biggest realization is that you can break all the rules and still get the girl. You don't have to have the best opener in order for the girl to talk to you. Sometimes "Hey, What's going on?" or "I like you shirt, you have awesome style" would work wonders for you.

It's not a crime to ask boring rapport questions like "So, where you from?" or "What do you do for a living?" if you know where you're leading the conversation.

A lot of people get sucked in into thinking that there's a certain way that things should be done and anything else other than that is just plain wrong. It took me years to realize that anything will work if you do it right. A girl's attraction towards you is caused by the way you carry yourself and the things you communicate by your body language, voice tonality, facial expressions, mannerisms, and emotional projection. I know it's been said a lot but the words you say aren't nearly as important as to how you say it. I believe that being comfortable with expressing oneself and beliefs combined with the right frame of thinking and execution will produce amazing results when done right.

Being able to just act cool and natural and still generate attraction consistently with women is a level that I'm glad I've reached.

8. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO NEWBIES STARTING OUT, IN ORDER TO GREATLY ACCELERATE THEIR LEARNING CURVE?

There's a process that you will go through in learning everything you need to know in order to be successful with women. This is an ongoing and repetitive process. This will go on until you get to the point where you're satisfied with your skill level.

Discover: You have to gather as much information as you can on the subject matter. It is very important to have access to the right information. There's a lot of stuff out there that will actually work against you. You have to be smart with your choices. Remember that information is not power but potential power.

Plan: You have to come up with a SOLID GAME PLAN. A plan that will get you to where you ultimately want to go. It's going to be broken down to years, months, weeks, and days.

Act: Gathering information and creating a plan alone won't get you anywhere. You need to be able to carry out the plan and religiously stick to it until you see results. This is the stage where a lot of people just give up. They give up because there's no one out there helping them out. There's no one out there to point them to the right direction. There's no one out there critiquing them on their strong and weak points.

9. WHAT'S YOUR BELIEF ON INNER GAME, AND HOW DID YOU IMPROVE IT?

Working on both inner and outer game, at the same time, helped me in my overall progress. It's important to have a balance between the two. Working your inner game first will eventually get you the results you want but it's going to take time. Working on your outer game first would build your confidence and increase your inner game but you'll still need to work out some inner game issues in the end. Working on both simultaneously creates magic.

10. DO YOU HAVE A PERSONAL FAVORITE FIELD REPORT (YOUR OWN) THAT YOU COULD RELAY?

There was this one incident in my workplace. She was this tall, attractive girl who worked in the cosmetic section (later on I found out she was a stripper). In the past I would always try to just talk to her and push it as far as I could. This time everything was different.

It was break time. She was sitting down in the eating area. I was getting a drink from the vending machine. Here's how it went:

Grungey10: (gets drink)

Hbstrippercoworker: Why are you drinking diet coke? (in a sarcastic tone)

Grungey10: Ohhhh baby... Ohh baby... I have to keep this sexy little body so I can impress you, remember? Or else you won't find me hot anymore (smirks and ignores her for a bit)

Hbstrippercoworker: Omg, you're so cocky... rolls her eyes, giggles, and continues reading her magazine.

Grungey10: (I Pull a chair in front of her, Put my feet up on a chair, eat her chips then I say) what you reading?

Hbstrippercoworker: (looks at me, pushes the magazine towards me and says) Well I think you should read it. You probably need it. *It was an article titled "How to please a woman every time"*

Grungey10: Oh that's cute. You're moving a little fast for me though. I don't put out that easy, I'm a high maintenance slut. You'd have to wine me and dine me before I put out. Nice try, you're too cute for me though. If you were a few inches taller, I'd consider it. Oh well, that's life... so sad... Sucks, but yeah

Hbstrippercoworker: Omg you're such a jerk... lol... so how old are you?

Grungey10: the question is, how old are you?

Hbstrippercoworker: Uhm just turned 18

Grungey10: ooohhhh barely legal. Well, you're too young for me. I like older girls.

Hbstrippercoworker: No really, how old are you?

Grungey10: old enough (I stand up and start walking away)

Hbstrippercoworker: (starts chasing me down the hallway) no really. How old are you? Come on don't tease me.

Grungey10: Whoa... Slow down there kiddo, first you flirt with me and now you're chasing me down the hallway. You've been watching way too much romantic movies haven't you?

Hbstrippercoworker: You're funny, I like you. You can avoid the age thing all you want but we definitely have to hang out one of these days.

Grungey10: We'll see

(Later on during that day she walks up to me while I was in the middle of a sales transaction. She grabs my hand non chalantly, writes her number down, and walks away)

Grungey10: (Then I look at my customer and say) Girls nowadays, aiy ya yay...

(fast forward to 10 pm when the store closes. I get into my car and just before I could back up she shows up. Goes near my window, smiles, then flicks me off)

Grungey10: (I get out of my car she turns around, I get in her face) Hey, if you wanted to kiss me you didn't have to flick me off you know? You could have just said so and I would have gladly denied you of your request.

Hbstrippercoworker: You're too much for me too handle... come here (she kisses me)

I'll stop this field report here. If we ever meet you can ask me what happened afterwards =p

11. What is your current sticking point (if any)?

I'm working on building a huge social circle out here in Arizona. It's definitely been fun lately specially when all the hard work finally pays off and meeting people is as easy as crossing the street. My current sticking point has to do with toning down game for the college environment. I have to remind myself from time to time to tone it down. The main skills you should focus on, when gaming in college, are vibing, wide and deep rapport skills, story telling, frame control, and that's sums it up. Anything else is overkill in my experience.

12. WHAT ARE YOU GOALS NOW WITHIN THE COMMUNITY, AND IN LIFE?

I enjoy teaching guys how to communicate better with women. Like everything else in life; it's a skill. It's not something you're born with but something you develop later on. The guys that are phenomenal with women weren't always like that. They had to learn it early on. They had to fail before they succeeded. They probably had good role models to look up to.

It's not hard at all to learn how to meet women during the day.

I've broken the process down to a simple, effective, and easy to use step by step system that goes from meeting a girl all the way to getting a number, kiss, instant date, and bringing her home the very same day.

If you want to be successful in meeting women during the day then

1. You must have drive, motivation, patience, and persistence.

2. You at least have to be passionate about getting good at this.

3. You must be willing to fail in order to succeed.

4. You will practice everything you learn in the seminar and integrate it into your life.

All of these will help you out in the long run.

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