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How To Deal With Nagging Spouse

Nagging is irritating habit of a person to go on and on about a particular issue without giving themselves or others any rest. If you have a nagging wife or husband then you know exactly what I am talking about without any explanation. It is normal to feel that marriage problems arising out of nagging are minor but you are grossly mistaken. The Indian Penal Code was modified a couple of years back to include a clause that an married individual can seek divorce from a spouse who nags insistently and many people have got divorced under this law!

This habit is so irritating that even law recognises it has a legitimate reason for separation but unfortunately the people who nag have no clue as what they are doing. So if your spouse is one of those then here are a few tips to help you deal with them.

Tips To Deal With Nagging Spouse:

Some people nag about everything and others nag only about somethings. If your spouse is in the second category then you are lucky. Analyse what it is that makes your spouse nag.

Some women have a problem with husband's smoking. They are unable to stop him but the sight of the cigarette provokes them to become nagging wives. The best thing you can do is quit smoking and if you can't then you have to smoke where your wife can't see you.

Some husbands have a problematic tendency to nag about their wife's family and crib about their small failings. This is a dangerous habit. Quit it immediately or your marriage will end.

There are people who like to crib about everything be it financial problems, issues at work and even household work. Oh god, I have to clean the car. I hate my team at office. I can't cope with all this pressure of cooking and cleaning after work. The list is never ending.

For such people nagging is a habit. They will nag about anything and everything so you have to communicate with them. Let them know what they are doing is disturbing your mental peace. A matured discussion might just show them some light of reason.

If it does not work with reasoning then there is a more active way of dealing with the situation. Pay them back in their own coins. Nag them just like they nag you and it will drive them crazy in days. When they get mad at you, don't lose your cool. Tell them quietly that you have been taking this form of mental torture for much longer.

If your nagging wife or husband still does not understand then as a last resort to save your marriage you can try leaving the room whenever they start to nag. This is not the best option to solve your problem but what alternative do you have.

Try these marriage tips to see if you can sure your spouse of nagging because it a very serious problem.

Written by: Anwesha

Becoming A Natural By Sinn

There seems to be a lot of debate raging about becoming a natural, I.E a man who gets women without having any formalized education into their pursuit.

The first step to becoming a natural (or as I would like to suggest natural as you can't change the fact that you had to learn this stuff) is to define what a natural is in respect to meeting and attracting woman.

So what is a natural?

IMO a natural is someone who has always gotten women. They may or may not be off a cold approach, but a natural has always had women in his life. A natural never had a problem getting a girlfriend or keeping her. A natural may or may not be great at cold approach. Most naturals I've met don't actually do cold approach. They approach the girls who are giving them eye contact or " approach invitations" if you're a nerd. Most naturals have very good beliefs about women's sex drive. They may be misogynistic, but they believe that women like sex. They don't place too much importance on women and when they get flaked on you never notice because they don't talk about it. When asked for advice they generally tell you to chill out or be cool.

Now that we know what a natural is, we have to define natural game.

IMO natural game is about a couple of things:

1. First understanding the way sex and relationships start. Well getting rid of the Internet and a celebrity that fucks his fans. Sex and relationships usually begin with a man meeting and then pursuing a woman until she relents. Relationships also usually start before sex does. Most people meet through work, or friends, or by happening to be in the same place at the same time with a common interest (think college class). It's still very rare that a woman meets a man at a club and they start dating. Generally people who do this are regarded as club friends. Clubs are seen as the domain of the hook up not the relationship.

So what are the elements we can agree upon about how sex and relationships start?

1. Guy meets girl (Or guy if you're into that sorta thing Cough*Masters*Cough)

2. Girl and guy become attracted to each other

3. Guy generally wants to get to sex as fast as possible

4. Couples have sex based on how long it takes the girl to get comfortable with having sex.

5. Based on how long it has been and what kind of frame has already been established couple begins a relationship, continues the relationship, or ends contact.

So you have to first be aware of what steps need to be taken in order to get a woman into you're bed and life

1. MEETING HER. There is a lot of work that goes into meeting women. This doesn't mean scouraging the clubs necessarily, it could also mean taking a class, going to a Starbucks, meeting friends of friends, using the Internet whatever.

2. GETTING HER ATTRACTED TO YOU

3. LETTING HER GET COMFORTABLE ENOUGH TO HAVE SEX

4. MANAGING THE RELATIONSHIP, SO THAT NEITHER OF YOU FEELS BAD ABOUT IT.

So now that we understand what we have to do, we can break it into tactics/techniques to accomplish these goals.

But naturals don't have techniques they just have goals and intents. They see a girl they want, they meet her, and they try to have sex with her. Either they fail (most of the time) or they succeed.

In my mind, that makes the key to becoming natural around women, is learning what to do (The process of getting sex) then unconsciously using the skills you've developed through repetition of techniques.

That's why routines are great, not because you should talk about things that are ungeniune forever, but because they teach you how to convey personality. But where most routine guys go wrong, is that they then don't develop a personality of their own. They stay conveying Mystery's personality or mine or Future's and they never seem to be able to get over the hump.

The routines are just vessels to convey that you are an alpha male character that she wants to be with. If you don't ever develop the actual traits, while you will be able to get attraction and some results, you will forever be looking through a glass ceiling.

So it is of utmost importance that we identify who we are. And who we want to be.

What kind of guy are you?

Goth?

Punk?

Jock?

Artistic?

A corporate mover and shaker?

What kind of guy do you want to be outside of your life with women? What do you want your tombstone to read?

Look deeply at these questions, answer them and then add universally attractive layers to your personality.

Learn to be fun and funny, learn to lead groups of people to believe in you, learn to make people feel good about themselves, learn to be strong, learn to be decisive, learn to help people help themselves, learn to teach people, learn how to make people feel safe and protected, learn to show people new sides of the world and themselves, learn to make people think, learn to see the good in everything and everyone, learn to show women what's awesome about your world etc.

I hope this isn't sounding like a rant, but I really want everyone to understand that ultimately becoming a natural isn't about changing who you are, it's about coming to accept who you are and getting others to accept who you are. People always talk about passion and how important it is. What is passion? It's someone embracing a quest or a journey that they believe in and embracing their dedication to it.

To become a natural you need a passion so that getting women isn't something you have a chance to learn about.

How To Deal With Nagging Spouse

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Written by: Anwesha

Becoming A Natural By Sinn

IMO natural game is about a couple of things:

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