Meeting Women Online Getting Them To Call You

Meeting Women Online Getting Them To Call You Image



Let me start by telling you, you 'da man! I really got to hand it to you, your stuff has given me confidence I've never had before, and I'm just trying to absorb as much of it into my head as possible. I really want to thank you for being able to share this stuff with guys like me and not keeping it to yourself.

There's just one thing wrong with your material: its way TOO CHEAP! Seriously Dave, I think WE'RE ripping YOU off! Thanks to you, I started to apply the Cocky and Funny in chatting rooms and in the real world, and it is a hell of a lot better than the Mr. Nice guy act. However, I use emails and chat to practice my Cocky and Funny and it is improving. For example, I have one trick I use and it works on a girl whether she's younger, older, or the same age as me.

I asked one girl her age, and she turned out to be as old as me, 21. I then replied by telling her "ahh forget it, your too young for me" I assume that this girl wasn't used to a rejection like this and she was intent on knowing how old I was. I told her that I was also 21, and she reacted like most girls do at this part, by laughing and turning into a stuck up and asking me how she could possibly be too young for me. I then respond saying something like "I guess your right, its not your age, you just wouldn't be able to handle me," then she reacts like most girls do at this point, continuing to be even more stuck up and laugh sarcastically, while I tell her that Ill give her a chance because she wants it so much, and she has 2 minutes to convince me she can handle me. Now

this is a great conversation starter, and while she argues the fact that she can handle me, I occasionally send her teasing comments like, "honey, your wasting my time" or "Why are u not entertaining me" or "ZZZZZZZzzzzzzzzz". I kind of understood how being Cocky works, and if the girl really meant the insults she said to me at first, she still wouldn't be talking to me, right? After

doing this to one particular girl, who turned out to be hot as hell from a pic she sent me, she completely forgot about being stuck up and told me "ok, Im sorry, lets start over" this is when I realized I had her in my grasp and I continued being Cocky but turned it down a notch, was this the right thing to do? Around the end I asked her for her email and she replied by telling me she canceled it yesterday, a terrible excuse. I persisted and said "yeah sure, just type it down, it'll be ok." she stuck to her story and I gave up

and gave her my email which she "supposedly" wrote down. Now I know I probably shouldn't of backed down on her email, but I thought the conversation was going so great she would actually want me to have her email. Is there something I did wrong for

her to refuse giving it to me, and what other ways could I make a girl give me her phone # and/or email? Also, you stress how you should never answer a girls question directly, to leave her unsure. This happens to be my weakness and I would appreciate a few tips on this too.

Thanks for everything Dave, your reply would really mean a lot. W.C.


Great story and great job.

One thing you have to remember about chat rooms and online IM sessions is that they're great PRACTICE.

Now, I've met some UNBELIEVABLE women on the internet so don't get me wrong here.

But don't worry too much about any particular girl or any particular situation.

She could have had a boyfriend, or even a husband and was just online because she was bored or any of 100 other scenarios.

When something like this happens, just move on.

The point is that you're using the Internet for a GREAT "practice environment", and you're training your mind to be Cocky Funny in the moment which begins to translate into the REAL world as you do it.

To answer your question about how to get a girl to give you her email address and/or number, just do more of what you're already doing

Keep throwing down the challenges

Write back and say, "Yeah, you're probably not that adventurous".

She'll say, "Yes I am!"

Then say, "Well, if you were then you would have asked me for my number and called me already. But you're not. So you didn't."

Keep this up until she asks for YOUR number.

Then, as soon as you hit the "send" button, IM her again quickly to say, "I don't hear my phone ringing! Hurry up!"

You'll love the results you get from this kind of thing.

But be careful. And get LOTS of CURRENT pictures. Take it from someone who knows lol don't just take her word for it.


Hey Dave man!

I'm taking your advice and not being an ass kisser, so I won't say how much your book rules (even though it does). I'm seeing 2 girls and potentially 3, but I have some questions. First off, any advice when dealing with a really shy woman? It's tough to do some of the things like the kiss test when they're timid (but oh so cute). Second, the potential one I'm kind of interested in, but definitely not long-term, and I think she knows that, but I'd like to get to know her and have a little funany words of wisdom? Third, this may be covered in the book and I haven't gotten to that chapter yet, but any style advice when it comes to clothing? I'm clueless there. Thanks in advance dude!


I'll answer them in reverse.

Yes, style advice is in the book. Turn to pages 33 and 34.

To contestant number 2, just keep on doing what you're doing. Women usually know what's going on, and she'll start making relationship noises if she really wants one. Until then, keep doing what's working.

And about the oh-so-cute shy girls: I know, I know but you must remember that if you're the one that brings the shy girl out of her shell, she's probably going to want to marry you and if she's not very experienced with guys, you might mess with her head too much. Do the right thing.


Hi David,

I was just wondering if you think it's a good idea to call a woman before a date to confirm or should I just show up at her doorstep and hope shes there? A while ago I had a date with a woman and I didn't call before I left to pick her up then when I got to her house she wasn't there. Do you call before the date to confirm?

Z. From Florida.


You know, it's been so many years since I've gone out to a woman's house and picked her up for a first date, I can't even remember.

I recommend that you DO NOT do something expensive and typical like going and picking a woman up, taking her to dinner, etc. for a first date.

Instead, either:

1) Have her come to your place, and leave for a cup of tea from there.

2) Meet her at a coffee shop that's CLOSE to your place, and if she flakes out, you can still enjoy yourself and you're not far from home.

Another rule of thumb I have is to not make a date too far in advance.

I've found that often times, you can call a woman up and say, "Let's go get a cup of coffee RIGHT NOW".

It's rare that I would ever make plans more than a day in advance this also helps prevent flaking.


Hi David,

You DVD program has made me get up from the sofa and do something about my love life. No real success yet but I can now see beyond my fears and actually approach women.

As you recommended I started using the Internet as A 'women simulator', it's great and I think I'm doing fine with the cocky and funny stuff. For example, I call my self "too witty for you" and in my description I write "don't please don't well OK - are you cute?" and it works Sadly, I can't give example from the chats since they are in Hebrew but you know it's even funnier in


My question is simple: you said to move quickly from the chat to the phone. Well, do you have a "3 minute phone technique" adopted for the chats? (the problem is that I can't say something like "I going back to my friends" like I do in a bar).


U.W. from Israel.



Maybe you can work with me soon on the "Ultimate Comprehensive Guide To Cocky Funny Online Chat In Hebrew".

I answered this question above, but loved your email so I had to include it.

When you're online, you have to REALLY go the extra mile and EXXXXXAGGGGERATE everything.

You can't just say "You seem cool, let's talk sometime".

You have to say "You're a pain. I'll bet you can't keep this up live on a telephone. You're probably too much of a scaredy-cat to even TRY it"

Work it. Try things. You'll find that these kinds of challenges work VERY well online.

And if you really want to learn how to write a great online profile, flirt with women online, and get women to give you their numbers more often then you need to check my Meeting Women Online program.

Till next time,


Suggested free e-books to read:

Alphahot1 - Seduction Trends Getting To Sexual Yes
Alphahot1 - Banging Women From First Meeting To Getting Them Into Bed

Keywords: neil strauss pick up  tips for dating older men  geoffrey miller  david deangelo email  body language in bed  body language attraction  guide to pick up women  smooth pick up lines  nlp practitioner course  learn self hypnosis  online dating date  david givens  

How To Rock Your Girls World In The Bedroom

How To Rock Your Girls World In The Bedroom Image
My friends at 2 Girls Teach Sex wanted me to give you a sneak peak of their NEW 2 GIRLS TEACH SEX 2.0 PROGRAM

2GTS 2.0 contains nearly 5 HOURS of the HOTTEST, most advanced pleasure techniques ever put on film! You'll get all of the BEST techniques from the original 2 Girls Teach Sex series... "plus literally DOZENS more!"

Prepare to take some notes, because you'll learn SEVERAL different ways to give a girl ULTRA-INTENSE orgasms that NO other men know...

Get your hands on these secrets INSTANTLY!

* The program has been set up to be viewed right on your computer INSTANTLY with easy online access! You can begin watching the high-definition videos within minutes - there are no DVDs to wait for, and no shipping costs..

CHECK OUT THE SPECIAL BONUS: * You also get the special bonus Oral Sex Magic program... where you'll discover ways to give your girl MIND- BLOWING oral orgasms and get her to do the same for you!

IN THIS BONUS PROGRAM YOU'LL LEARN: * The "TRIPLE FLICK" - a 3-step tongue flicking pattern that makes your girl climax again and again she won't stop having orgasms until YOU decide she's had enough!

* The 4 different kinds of oral orgasms you can give her, and how to give them one after another in an escalating session of orgasmic pleasure!

* 7 oral sex secrets unknown to 99% of all men that TRIPLE the intensity for her (She'll choose your tongue over any toy when you use these)

* And much, much more!

Only 300 people will be allowed online access accounts. GET YOURS BEFORE THEY'RE ALL GONE!

Once all 300 fill up, that's it. The program will be closed to new members.

The 300 guys who get in will be well on their way to having MORE SEX and BETTER SEX than 99% of the men in the world!

2GTS 2.0 is the only program on the planet that not only shows you how to blow a girl's mind in bed... but HOW TO GET MORE GIRLS INTO YOUR BED!

And once you have a girl... HOW TO GET HER DRAGGING *YOU* INTO BED!

It's 100% guaranteed to:

1. Get You More Girls

2. Get You More "Sex!"


==> The first 100 guys to get on board get a spot at their 2 Girls Teach Sex LIVE Training Webinar!

==> To celebrate the release of 2 Girls Teach Sex 2.0 the first 100 guys to get 2GTS 2.0 are gonna get to tune in to a LIVE 2GTS Training Session! Monique, Gracie, and Lexi will demonstrate the sex techniques YOU want to see!

==> In this one-of-a-kind LIVE webinar, the girls will be

answering ALL of your forbidden questions about sex

- no topic is too taboo!

==> And if you want to see them demonstrate a technique,

just type your question or idea into the chat box


* * * * * * * * * * * *

This is your chance to SIGN-UP. DO IT NOW!

You won't regret it =)



P.S. The 2 Girls Teach Sex 2.0 video program is ready

for you NOW! You can be watching it in literally 5 minutes from the privacy of your computer - JUST GO HERE to check it out and claim your spot!

Suggested free e-books to read:

Maniac High - How To Lays Girls Guide
Stylelife Academy - How To Work The Personals
Christian Godefroy - How To Control Your Brain At Will

Keywords: teenage pick up lines  advice on internet dating  online dating success  anti pick up lines  online dating for free  online dating singles  mun pick up lines  neil strauss girlfriend katie  military dating advice  relationship reading  aussie men dating  

Are You A Like At First Site Kinda Guy

Are You A Like At First Site Kinda Guy Image
"Do you find yourself falling for people really quickly?" You've gone on one (or maybe two) dates with someone, and you're already planning the next six months of a relationship that hasn't even really started yet.

You find yourself really starting to forecast what's going to happen in this not-yet-a-relationship situation. You think about how you are going to take them home for Christmas and what a blast the party you're going to go to with them on Halloween is going to be. You think about how great it will be to have someone to go sailing with on your birthday this year.

Do you find yourself always falling too quickly for people before you even get to know them? Do you find yourself saying things to someone you've just met about what the two of you should do together two or three weeks from now? You are out on your first date with someone and all you do is talk about the future with them.

Do you know why you're doing that future planning on a first or second date? It's because you are needy, you hate being single and you don't have an abundance mentality.

What happens is the minute you get somebody to say yes to a date with you, all you think about is being rescued form this horrible experience you've been having called being alone or being single. So what you do is to immediately start forecasting, because it makes you feel better that you might have a relationship that is going to work after it's been so hard for you to meet someone.

Because it's been so hard for you to meet someone, now that you have you don't want to blow it. So you try really hard not to blow it, and end up putting a lot of pressure on it which makes you come across as being very needy.

When you're out on a first date with somebody and you're talking about all the things you want to do with them in the future, you look desperate and needy. That will turn them off. It scares them.

All someone wants to do on a first date is learn more about you. They want to learn what is special about you. They want to learn about what makes you tick.

They don't want to think about what might happen three weeks from now. On a first date, they are not in the planning stage of a relationship. The truth is that you're not even close to the planning stage of a relationship yet.

You can consider yourself in the planning stage of a relationship when you're sleeping with them, when you you're both committed to each other and when you're enjoying each other's company on a regular basis. That is when you know there is a relationship.

If you bring this stuff up from the beginning -- and especially on a first date -- you're going to look desperate and needy. That is what makes these things not work out. So many people self-destruct potentially good relationships before they even have a chance to happen.

So the next time you're with somebody on a first and second date, stop your desperate energy. Stop being so needy, and just enjoy them for the moment. You'll get the end result that you've always desired if you stop thinking about the end result and stop looking for confirmation.

Don't look for confirmation. If you talk on a first date about what you want to be doing with them three weeks from now, you might as well look them in the eyes and say, "I'm so needy and desperate. Do you like me? Do you like me? Do you like me?" That is what you're communicating to them when you do that. That is why they're not calling you again, and why you're having a lot of "one and done" dates with people.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Pilinski - 3 Perfecting Your Dominant Male Attitude
C Kellogg - Investing In You The Power Of Positive Thinking

Keywords: woman dating advice  reading body language test  the best dating advice  reading body language books  dirt pick up lines  how to be alpha male  g spot  verbal communication in india  body language alpha male  james bond body language  images of nonverbal communication  james friesen  

Online Free Dating Find Your Soul Mate

Online Free Dating Find Your Soul Mate Image
Online free dating is getting huge attention in all over the world. Millions of users are using this service to find the perfect partner. Today, we are discussing some benefits of such kind of services.

AFFORDABLE - Yes, these online dating services are quiet cheap. To enjoy the advantages, you just need to signup there. With the help of computer and internet, individual can find the perfect partner without spending any money. Few companies also charge some money to provide this service. However, it is not too much.

GOOD INFORMATION - In normal dating, it is not possible to know everything about your partner. However, you get to know various things about your partner with the help of profile. Online websites ask everyone to fill some details and these details explore your personality more.

ANY TIME - Online dating is used by millions of people around the world. Hence, users can logon to site and can chat with anyone any time. There is not restriction of time or day. Even, you can search your partner in the mid-night.

These are some benefits of online free dating. So, enjoy your life with online dating services without any problem.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets
David Deangelo - Double Your Dating Affirmations

Keywords: james bond body language  david deangelo book  online dating prices  adam lyons pua  relationship breakup  tyler durden pics  online dating for christians  dating for married  what is the g spot  julius fast body language pdf  good funny pick up lines  afc adam lyons  

Women Are More Flirter Than Mens Yes Or No

Women Are More Flirter Than Mens Yes Or No Image
When a female bat her eyelids at you, take a long breathe and hold herself back then simply she is not been interested in you. A deep study by an Austrian anthropologist has found that a woman cannot help a leading man on that is reported by a new scientist magazine. Professor Karl Grammar has found that women are accidentally used as courtship methods. It includes smiling and flipping their hairs and fiddling with their clothes just to take a control when they meet the strangers.

Women also keep away from sending clear refusal signals like crossing their arms to those men they found unattractive until they had judged them. Grammar, the director of the Ludwig Boltzmann Institute of Urban Ethnology in Vienna is based his findings by studying 45 pairs of male and female strangers. His team discovered that the female are often tried to attract their male partner's attention by talking happily and giving sexual signals to them. And if they found the men unpleasant, they did not directly express any form of clear negative response. After sometime their actions imitate their feelings. Such kind of initial unconscious flirting gave time to females to evaluate the men.

The females responded negatively only at that time when men talked too much or continuously. Nevertheless, it was mostly the females who controlled the meetings and their physical action gets a direct effect on the males. Some of the simple gestures such as nodding their heads show the males talkative nature. In this way, the females can easily calculate the male talkative behavior. So guys, from the next time when you fid the gal giving you a lasting look or a appealing smile, just stop yourself and think twice as she is not at all interested in you.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Hall - Dealing With The Downside Of Nlp
Nancy Friday - Women On Top How Real Life Has Changed Women Fantasies
Leil Lowndes - How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You

Keywords: beautiful woman  chris jackson basket  boby language  friends online dating  david deangelo catalog  neil stauss  esther hicks  hey baby pick up lines  large women dating  guy body language decoder  david deangelo s  relationship and dating advice  

Steps To Get Over Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend

Steps To Get Over Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Image
If you've just separated with your boyfriend/girlfriend, you're heartbroken. More like shattered. You seem to have given up hope. You don't see a way to get your ex back. You can't find a way to get over her either. If this is what your situation currently looks like, read what I'm about to write. These tips will help you go through the situation and come out with flying colors.

However, I'll let you know something before I start. I can totally relate to the current situation you're in: mixed bag of feelings, a ride of emotions. But, whatever it currently seems like, you will have to strictly follow what I'm suggesting to see any positive changes.

Staying busy is the obvious starting point. One tends to avoid the world and not do anything when he's fresh from a breakup. One likes to be without company, lonely and thinking about the lovely past. This harms you rather than helping. Stay busy: go out with your friends, make new friends, shop for stuff you like, overhaul your entire look. You need to do things that will keep your attention diverted from the fact that you've recently passed a tough breakup phase.

You should not try to rekindle your relationship. Let the decision stand once you've decided what you're going to do. Why I'm saying this is because even if you try, nothing positive will come out of it and you'll be kicking yourself for putting in all this hard work for nothing. It'll hurt your self-esteem too. You don't want that to happen. Many people make this mistake and the whole process becomes a vicious circle that has no end.

Remove all the things that remind you of your ex. This includes her photos, belongings, contact numbers, gifts, everything. Her family members should be avoided too, if you know them. Just disappear off her life. At the same time, don't let your rage/anger get the better of you. During the period of your relationship, you must have shared some unique, special moments. There is no need to resent your decision.

Lastly, you need to start dating once again! Perhaps you're not ready for long term commitment just yet however, you can start flirting with girls and enjoying yourself without any expectations or long term commitments. Just be clear with your partner. If you're thinking of a rebound relationship, its a big no-no. You definitely don't want to hurt the feelings of someone on the other side.

To overcome your present situation, the thing you absolutely need is control over yourself. You may control yourself for a week or two and then make a silly mistake which you regret in future. You start from scratch and just keep making the mistakes over and over again. Due to this, you gain absolutely nothing and lose everything.

If you want further information on how to get over a breakup, go here: how to get over an ex!

Suggested free e-books to read:

Christian Godefroy - How To Control Your Brain At Will
Steve Scott - More Than Friends How To Turn Your Female Friend Into Your Girlfriend
Kenneth Johnston - 9 Steps To Save Your Marriage For The Husband

Keywords: free online dating rich men  dirty pick up lines for guys  call of duty pick up lines  women and dating  learning to read body language  creepy pick up lines  nlp eye  what is verbal communication skills  

Michelle Obama Dating Tips

Michelle Obama Dating Tips Image
Who knew that First Lady MICHELLE OBAMA was an expert at dating? Gracing the cover of December's "magazine.

She admits that cute's good, but that cute should not be the basis of why you like a man. "Who are you as a person? Don't look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul." Amen to that.

MICHELLE OBAMA then goes on to say that, "When you're dating a man, you should always feel good. You shouldn't be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't make you completely happy and make you feel whole."

Of course, MICHELLE OBAMA talked about more than just dating, but that is really the only part that is interested in for obvious reasons.

MICHELLE OBAMA is a smart cookie, no doubt, and I'm pretty sure she said all those things because she's going to give a copy to both her daughters to read.

Suggested free e-books to read:

David Deangelo - Double Your Dating Affirmations
Geoffrey Miller - The Mating Mind

Keywords: online love dating  science of body language  the pick up artist  i want a girlfriend  std online dating  allan pease  dating single women  love body language  secrets of body language  non verbal communication photos  public speaking fears  military dating advice  pick up artists techniques  

Doom And Gloom By David Wygant

Doom And Gloom By David Wygant Image
The stock market is down 300 points...

Unemployment reaches 10% in California...

Foreclosures are at an all-time high...

The housing market is down 35%...

Let me ask you something: how do you feel about all of the headlines these days? Are you using this as your newest excuse for not going out to meet people? Or not to purchase things that you really desire that will improve your life?

Do you know what I've discovered? This is something that I really believe: the economy is not really as bad as we say it is - the economy is only as bad as we think it is because most of you are buying into the hype.

It's that poverty mentality. It's all of you saying to yourselves, "Well, I may still have a job but the economy is bad right now, and I'm not going to do the things I want to do. I'm going to wait for the economy to get better. I'm going to wait for President Obama to tell me that the economy is better."

In reality, you have to start taking charge of your own economy. You are your own government.

Do you still have a job? Are you safe at your job? Does your job still pay you what it did last year? Are you managing your bills like you always have? Are you paying things on time? Are you buying things you can afford?

The economy keeps getting worse because the people who find themselves in a good financial situation (which is 90% of us!) stop spending money and push the economy into a further funk.

And this becomes your new excuse. It's unbelievable. As humans, we are always looking for excuses not to progress. We come from a fear-based society.

So let me ask all of you a question today. How is the economic downturn REALLY affecting you? And be honest - are you really just using it as an excuse?

Life is all about mindset. What you believe is what you are going to attract. And if you have a poverty mindset, you're going to be the next one fired during these poor economic times. If you truly believe that the world is coming to an end, it will.

I don't believe that the world is coming to an end. My business is fine. I love my clients. Money comes in, people buy products and come to bootcamps, and I give it my all.

But it really amazes me how many people have that poverty consciousness - they're watching every last dime thinking that it will actually be their last dime.

You attract exactly what you are. You have to understand that life is about abundance. If you live an abundant lifestyle, you'll have an abundant lifestyle. I'm not talking about going out there and spending more money than you make - I think that's ridiculous.

But the "doom and gloom" people - which a lot of you are - tend to really think that life is going to come to an end.

Do you remember Y2K? How many of you thought that the world was going to come to an end when the clock struck midnight, bringing in the year 2000? How many of you actually believed that everything would go haywire? That you wouldn't be able to get your money out of the bank? That things wouldn't work anymore?

I knew a person during that time that actually quit his job, moved to the mountains of Arizona and traded all of his money for gold because he was afraid of leaving his money in the bank. This is the same thing all over again. People buy into the "doom and gloom" because they live in a world full of fear and excuses.

What would you rather live in: a world of abundance and positive energy or a world based on fear?

For those of you who have never checked out my No Excuses and Self Love audio programs, I think it's time you do. And by the way, if you don't like it, you can return it within 90 days. I truly believe that you're going to love it - because I practice abundance all of the time!

Suggested free e-books to read:

Cucan Pemo - What Does Your Man Really Want
Adam Gilad - Interview With David Wygant

Keywords: one line pick up lines  online dating calgary  neil strauss stylelife  tyler durdan  pickup artist pdf  david deangelo pdf  body language feet  friends for dating  online dating calgary  visionary leadership  improving body language  nick casanova  how to get with girls  

Getting That One Special Girl Part 1

Getting That One Special Girl Part 1 Image
Guys, this article is Part I in a little mini-series I call "GETTING THAT ONE SPECIAL GIRL".

This is where I discuss the dreaded illness of "one-itis" and what the heck to do about it once you've got it.

I want to tell you a brief story now - indulge me for a moment before I outline my steps for handling this scenario.

First, a question...

Ever been hung up on ONE girl, to the point where you possibly lost sleep, focus, perhaps made ridiculous phone calls to her, stalked her (or cyber-stalked hera new, scary phenomenon), begged her, shed tears for herand otherwise lost a huge amount of time effort and energy to the cause of getting her?

(long sentence, I knowbare with me here)

Well, I have been in this position before. This was years ago, way before I ever realized I needed help with women, dating and relationships. Aeons before I learned how to get a girlfriend, and fell in love (which is my situation todayso, I've come full circle - in case you were wondering).

I was walking home one night, and met a woman near my apartment - she was walking her dog. She asked me for directions which then flowed into a longer, "getting to know you" type of conversation.

So, we began chatting and we eventually swapped numbers. A week later we went out on a date, strolled back to her place, got a bit intimate and said good night.

We washed/rinsed/repeated that a few times, and all was good and fun. Walking home after our 3rd date, I thought to myself: "Wow, I really like this girl I can't wait to see her again"

Big point to make here is this: All my eggs were in one basketHER basket. I had no other options, and hadn't had a cute girl in my life in quite a while. I think it had been nearly a year possibly since I had even kissed a girl.

I had to leave town on a business trip for 3 weeks, and when I returned, I called her right away as I was really excited to see her.

She was glad to hear from me, and we did set-up a date for the end of the week...but, something didn't feel right to me. My gut clenched over the thought - "something has changed".

We were set up for a date, and I was all ready to go when the phone rang. It was her cancelling. A sinking feeling set-in.

"Yep, something's up."

She had said she'd call back to arrange another time, but as the days started to pass with no call from her, I grew concerned.

S-T-R-E-S-S had begun to set-in at this point and my sleep was suffering.

I decide to call her.

Seems like a good decision, right?

Here are the stories I was telling myself:

* "Aah, maybe she's busy at work and hasn't had a chance to call me" (NEVER happenswhen someone wants to call someone, they make time for it)
* "Maybe something horrible happened" (Maybe it did, but even then, if she was really interested, she would call)
* "My answering machine is broken" (But, I was getting messages from other people)
* "Maybe, just maybe, I was supposed to call HER" (She had been clear, and this was a blatant rationalization, as I was looking for anything that would help me FEEL BETTER NOW!)

So, I called her.

(Cringing yet? Don't worrythis gets worse.)

She nervously played it off as "being so busy", "things got away from me", "oh, this case is so overwhelming (she worked for the DA)"squarely in my chest, my heart was sinking even further now. But, I persisted:

"Let's get together this weekend", said I

"Uh, OKum, well, can we talk later in the week so I'll know if I'm free?", she blustered

"Sure, I'll call you on Wednesday" (it was Sunday), I replied

"OK StephenI'll talk to you then", she said and then quickly got off the phone

As soon as I hung up, a feeling of relief swept over me - I had done it! We had a date coming-up and all was well!

It was good to hear her voice, I recall thinking. Again, I had so few women in my life, that just hearing her voice made me smile.

And then, 10 minutes later, it changed. Suddenly, a feeling of suspicion began to grow inside of me. Part of me knew that something wasn't quite right here. My feeling of trust had been broken by her, as she had flaked once by now. Was she doing that again?

Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.each night worse than the previous. I would awaken with a gasp, and then stress would set-in. The stress of desperately needing to control a situation that is immensely uncontrollable.

Work each day would be difficult - I had no ability to focus - NONE. I would take breaks, I would try to eat, I would drink lots of coffee.

An annoying habit began to kick-inI began to "confide in my friends about the situation" - because, I needed advice.

Within a day, everyone was hearing about it - and everyone gave me a different opinion.

"Dude, you have to tell her how you FEEL" (guy)

"Just lay back, she'll call you - I know it" (guy)

"Haha, man Stephen, don't ask me - I'm just as clueless as you are" (guy)

"Call her, and just leave her a groovy message man, and DON'T ask her out" (guy)

"How wonderful! You're in love with someone! I just know it will work out - what is her name?" (girl)

Each person's tip would inspire me, give me hope and confidence for just as long as they would talk. I could be carried away by their emotion and optimism, but as soon as they were gone, I would sink back into even greater confusion and anxiety than before.

So, as you can probably imagine, Wednesday came and I was relieved. At around 8pm that night, I worked up the nerve to call her. I was REALLY nervous. I had decided that I would just go with the plan of firming up plans for the weekend. To do anything else would be out of the ordinary here, and perhaps I was "overreacting".

I call - no answer - into voice-mail - I hang up


I should have left a voice mail! Damn, now if I call again, will she know that I double-rang her?

More stress sets in.

I call again - again, no answer - into voice-mail - nervous, shaky, stammering message - I hang up

Double Shit.

I try to distract myself by watching some TV, but I can only think about the LAME message I just left on her voice mail.

An hour or so passes, the phone rings.

My heart jumps - "maybe it's her!"

Nope - a call for my roommate. Some guy named Darryl, who calls everyday to talk about some "website project".

Get a life Darryl.

I go back to the TV and begin obsessing again. I pull apart my message in my mind, trying desperately to figure out how she will receive it once she does hear it.

It's now time for bed, and I try to sleep. I can't do it. When my alarm rings in the morning, I've had maybe a few hours of rest.

My eyes and body start to show a bit of fatigue at work.

"Stephen, are you OK? You seem a bit tired" (they say)

"Yeah, maybe a bit"

Being that this was before I had a cellphone, I am now checking my home voicemail VERY often. I recall that before my trip away, I had checked my voicemail from work and had received messages from her.

"Maybe that's how it works?" I think

"Maybe, God will only send me a voicemail from her when I'm not obsessing about it"

Every hour (or more) I phone home to check voicemailno messages. NONE whatsoever. I crave the sound of "Debbie, the voicemail lady" to say the following:

"You have ONE new voice message - to hear your message press ONE"

All I want is ONE Debbie. I could hear Debbie's voice in my head before I'd call. Debbie was either an Angel with a message, or the Grim Reaper with none.

The weekend passed, less sleep, more stress, less eating, more obsessing.

Monday, Tuesdayand now, Wednesday again.

Strangely, I started to feel better early in the week - as if, something was lightening up in mebut, once I decided to call again on Wednesday - it returned.

All I needed was to stare at the phone with a small ounce of desire, and the itch was back on me like the hives.

I called her again.and again, into voice mail. I left a quick message:

"Hey, it's Stephen. Hadn't heard from you so wanted to check-in and say Hi. I hope nothing is wrong, and that alls well. Give me a ring so we can hang out soon. Bye"


"alls well"


I felt a bit relieved by now. I had done what I could do, and now I could let this go.

I decided to go for a walk at this point to "clear my head" - something very satisfying about taking an action, and knowing that you've done what you can.

I return and notice the message light blinking. My heart leaps into my throat as I press the red "PLAY" button.

"Hey Stephen, it's Ariella. Sorry I haven't been in touch. Give me a call when you get this, so we can talk. Bye"

NICE! It's ON!

Or, so I think

I call her now. And she answers. After the usual pleasantriesshe drops the bomb:

"So, you should know that me and my ex have started hanging out againit's not too serious yet, but that's probably why I haven't been so responsive to your calls."

My face fills with blush. I'm flustered. My mouth and throat tighten. I grow dizzy.

Me: "Oh, OK, yeah, I was wondering why I hadn't heard from you"

Her: "Yeah, sorry about that, I should have told youbut, you know"

Me: "Oh sureyeahwell, OK"

Her: "So, I should go - but I'll talk to you soon, OK?"

Me: "Great, OK - Bye"

Her: "Bye"

I sit down.

What just happened? My heart was brain was cycling like never before. Where my brain heard opportunity and an opening, my heart felt closure and an "overness" like never before. They began to fight it out - the war for Stephen Supremacy was on.

My brain won.

"I'll talk to you soon" it repeated to me

She never said they were "back together" it said.

She never said "don't call me" it said.

And again, she said "I'll talk to you soon" - dude, it's ON!

I went to sleep, barely with my mind racing a mile/minute convincing me that it was ONand then, it was OVERONOVERON.OVER


So, I began stalking her.

Now, when I say "stalking" I don't mean that I'd crouch in the bushes by her house - no. But, I would stroll past her apartment building 2-3 times per day when it was totally inconvenient for me to do so. I would go WAY out of my way to hopefully "run into her" spontaneously by frequenting her neighborhood. I would call her sporadically hoping that she would answeronly to have her voicemail pick-up and never leave a message.

One night, the worst of the worst happened.

During one of my innocent "strolls", I saw her and him going into the apartment. They didn't see me, but I saw them. Care to guess what he looked like?

A total stud

He had me by three inches in height, looked way cooler than me, probably worked out 4 times a DAY, and she was staring at him adoringly

I walked away. I walked home. And then, it happened

I began to cry.

I am dead serious.

You see, when you have a fantasy relationship with someone, and then you see them in REALITY with someone ELSEit's a heart-breaker. It's devastating. It's a crushing blow.

Now, not only did I get to stress out about her, but now I had images of her with HIM to boot.

This was not getting better.

Give my mind a free moment, and it would conjure images of her with him in bed, at swanky restaurants, shopping in SoHo, holding his name it friend. I was my own worst enemy.

I stopped sleeping. My work suffered. People began to be "concerned" for me.

One day at work, I decided to go for broke.

You see, when we're obsessed with that "one special girl", we usually have one of three options:

1) The Stalking Method (tried it, and failed at it)

2) The Call and Leave/Dont Leave Voice Messages Method (tried it, and failed at it)

3) The BEG AND PLEAD Method (my final optionand, oh yeah, I was about to USE it)

Late one night, I called 411 and found the general number for her office. I phoned it, and was able to deduce her direct dial work number.

I decided that tomorrow - I was going for broke, and I was going to end this once and for all - she was either going to see me, or it's OVER.

(of course, she had been giving me signals left and right that it was over for some time nowsignals that I was not receiving - so, for her it was over already)

I called her after lunch. Surprisingly, I ate a lot. Something in me had relaxed knowing that I was about to take ownership over this situation once and for all.

At 3pm, I headed downstairs to the basement to use a private land line. I was going for broke.

I called, she answered, and for the next 20 minutes I pulled out every trick, stop, gimmick, and sappy plead that I could muster. I even told her I loved her. I was the romantic, I was the "alpha male", I was a poet, I was funny, I was everything I had ever wanted to beand then, alas, it was finally over.

She told me she was back with "him" and that she really "liked" me, but that she had to focus on her relationship now.

"You're a great guy Stephen, but I'm looking to get married and I think he's the one for me. Can we be friends though?"


We said our good-bye's, and just like that - the "situation" was over.

10 weeks of hell, sweat, tears, stress and sleepless nights were overthat night, I feel right to sleep and woke up a new man the next day.

I gotta tell you, just rehashing that story fills me with both pain and pride.

Pain because I can still feel some of those memories in my body

Pride because I've come a LONG way since then - and that phenomenon doesn't happen to me anymore.

I want to tell you now how to both HANDLE this situation and how to work your social life so that this won't HAPPEN to you again.

Tune in next week for the rest of this article...(sorry, running out of space!).

Stephen Nash has put his tactics on building an attractive lifestyle and persona into How To Get A Girlfriend, now in it's 3rd edition. It contains expanded information on approaching, natural conversation skills, building social circles, and a lifestyle that attracts women to you.

Click here to download it and be studying within minutes.

Suggested free e-books to read:

David Deangelo - Leil Interview Special Report
David Deangelo - Patty Interview Special Report
C Kellogg - Dating Tips For Men Special Report

Keywords: dump women  woman husband  bacon attraction  things would  clean laid  seporsky guide  look women  vitalio seduction volume  fanny hill  what do guys look for in a girl  russia woman  of online dating  little girls talking  

Blind Date Tips Guidelines To Keep In Mind

Blind Date Tips Guidelines To Keep In Mind Image
Blind date is always a topic of discussion. Most of the people raise questions about its success ratio. But there are many couples living their life happily after this incident. Many successful relationships and marriages are beautiful results of blind date. Success and failure of this event completely depends on your attitude, how you react and take things under particular circumstances. Positive attitude and good behavior can give you the guarantee of success.

It is an event where you get chance to meet new people; if you do not like someone for relationship at least friendship is not a tough deal. Everybody sees dream about the life partner or soul mate, but never expect too much. You can not expect your partner would be David Becham or Angliena Jolie. Too many expectations are very bad. Date is an event which make excited to everyone either boy or girl.

Blind date is very good as long as you are in our limits. It is advisable to be confident and enjoy the time. But do not allow someone to take extra advantages of you. Always spend sometime together before starting any serious relationship.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Ken Lingu - Ultimate Guide To Erotic Massage
Ken Ward - Mind Change Techniques To Keep The Change

Keywords: easter pick up lines  pickup artist  david deangelo reviews  medieval pick up lines  reading body language men  guy pick up lines  best sex poses  safe online dating  find online dating  nonverbal communication cues  lucie taquin  neil strauss las vegas  neil strauss lisa  

72 Percents Of Office Daters Go Public

72 Percents Of Office Daters Go Public Cover
There was a time when office romances were frowned upon for obvious reasons: gossip, messy breakups, sexual harassment suits. But nowadays, it seems that 72% of office daters go public with their relationship, compared with 46% only 5 years ago.

According to the 2009 survey by, 40% of employees say they've dated a colleague at some point in their career; 30% say they married the person they dated.

Considering that most people spend well over 9 hours a day at work, it's only fitting that they meet and fall in love with someone at their workplace.

The survey consisted of 8,000 people so it's pretty obvious that dating at work is a mainstay, despite office policy.

But there are rules when it comes to workplace dating:

AVOID A SUPERVISOR-SUPERVISEE RELATIONSHIP. This can lead to a host of issues including lawsuits in which the supervisee can claim that they felt compelled to say yes to their boss when asked out. If you can't help yourself, make sure to sign a contract first.

THINK ABOUT LOSING YOUR JOB. Breakups are tough, no doubt, but imagine breaking up and then leaving your job on top of that. Before plunging head first into a relationship, make sure that it's worth losing your job over.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Elena Petrova - Scam Prevention Tips For Online Dating
John Alanis - Secrets Of Natural Attraction Product
Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates

Keywords: alphahot1 want gift  michael hall structure  wife equals happy  fuentes sexual transcript  sensual massage  book review manual  igor conversational  woman sodomizes drunken  count patronio  question afcs  attract single women  

Kissing Tips Types Of Kiss

Kissing Tips Types Of Kiss Image
















Suggested free e-books to read:

Brian Tracy - Principles Of Success
Lovedrop - Kissing And Touching
Tyler Durden - Dissecting Shit Tests

Keywords: magazine dating advice  is online dating safe  cat body language  alex benzer  lil wayne pick up lines  insult pick up lines  derren brown  online dating uk free  how to get any girl  pick up society  alpha male definition  david deangelo cocky comedy and other conversation skills  

Dating After Divorce Get Your Love Life On Track

Dating After Divorce Get Your Love Life On Track Cover
Dating after divorce is very sensitive topic and you can debate on this topic for many hours. However, you need to understand the situation of person before reaching on any conclusion. Life after divorce is not easy to live. A person has to face many problems in personal life. Many people just hit the dating website after the divorce to have fun but few people search for serious relationship. Before leaving your home just after divorce can be a good or bad decision. It completely depends on the situation of person.

However, you should consider various points before dating with someone just after divorce.

- You should not talk about your personal or past life with your new partner.

- In case you are in relationship with someone before divorce, then get the divorce first.

- Be confident and never loose hope. Do not take tension just because of personal problems

- Time plays very important role here. You should at least spend 1-2 weeks date alone before entering in any relationship.

- Dating while going through divorce can be dangerous. So, wait for sometime and get divorce first.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Love Systems - Daytime Dating Bonus Master Yor Dating Life In One Year
Elena Petrova - Dating Advice For The Newly Single

Keywords: vitalio breakdown  online dating  finding online  david give physical  david shade archive  sexual rapport  book bedroom  google your  giacomo casanova  keep dump back  e dating  ultimate game chapter  

Powered by Blogger.

Men have been trying to figure women out forever. There have been countless books written on the subject over the years, and many of them seemed to work. This is hude catalog, download them, buy them, test them and post the results in comments...

Copyright © / Pick-up Library

Template by : Urang-kurai / powered by :blogger