John Alanis has created a variety of different dating and seduction products that can help you get women to approach you. Is he for real? You are going to have to read some of his articles and make that decision for yourself..
John Alanis knows women. In some circles," he writes on his completely insane website, "I'm known as the The King of Let 'em Come to You." Well guess what, John? Now we're comin' to you. Buckle up!
How do I even begin to explain the wonder that is John Alanis? Perhaps it's best to start with his life story, which he lays out in great detail on his site, using yellow highlighted passages AND bolded lettering to make sure that you get the picture. Young John Alanis was, as these stories often begin, a geek as a youth, terribly overlooked by the beautiful ones. Like so many before him, he could not understand why the popular girls dated the asshole jocks instead of the "nice" guys. As is standard in these tales, John Alanis then went through a physical transformation after high school and was able to score the very same hot girls who passed him by as a youth. But as soon as he was nice to them, they bolted! Because women love jerks, that's why.
Anyway, the story goes on for about 900 more paragraphs, with anecdotes about a girlfriend named Sin who "loved to Sin!" and a trip to see "I'm Gonna Git You Sucka" thrown in for good measure, until we get to the point: all of the heartache and rejection that John Alanis has suffered has made him an expert on relationships, and he wants to help you score the lady of your dreams.
Alanis claims his system is built around the concept of "biological attractiveness." His site reads like a Dog Whisperer for women, which is fitting, as he tends to portray women as easily manipulated, trainable creatures that will fall at your feet as soon as you unlock the secrets of making a woman feel "it," which Alanis describes as "the one, almost indescribable feeling, that beautiful, desirable women spend their lives looking for in a man, yet rarely experience." The whole thing reeks of a scam, with the site broken down into separate pieces that don't really link up, and hyperbolic statements on Alanis' behalf like "WARNING: When you use these secrets, you have to be careful not to attract too many women at once, or your life can quickly become a "living hell!" I made that mistake once, and I'll never do it again… you must be careful to use these secrets in moderation, and not abuse them." Riiiiight.
The internet is filled with John Alanises (Alani?), and websites like this aren't too special, I suppose. But there's an element of Alanis' site that raises him above the other would-be dating professionals of the world: he's also kind of a jackass who believes that the "liberal media" is to blame for our society of "girly men." Oh, and his website is filled with scantily clad women and passages about gaining "total power" and "control" over your relationships. You know, a really healthy perspective on things. Here's a little glimpse: Imagine how exciting your life will be when you put these attraction secrets to work for you. Doesn't this woman look excited, you guys? She can't fucking wait for a dude using this system to sweep her off her feet. You do NOT have to be a 'jerk' or change 'who you are' to attract women. No. You just have to be extremely manipulative and view them as objects that you can mold to your own personal liking. Women are supposed to approach YOU first, not the other way around! I mean really, you guys! And when women DO approach you first, this is typically the outfit they will be wearing. You NEVER want to waste time with a crazy woman or one who's just plain mean. And I mean, look at this woman! She's wearing sleeves! What an uptight crazy bitch, am I right? Honestly, you guys, this website is so insane that I can't even really put it into words, so I'll just let John Alanis speak for himself:
How to win the undying devotion of every woman in your life, whether they are just friends, lovers or adventure partners. They'll think you're a "rare man" and literally fight to introduce their hot friends to you. (Believe it or not, woman take a tremendous amount of pride in "hooking their friends up" with a great guy… discover how to be "that man").
Do you like "younger women," you know, hot little 19 –23 year olds with firm bodies, "girls who just want to have fun?" You'll discover how to get them to flock to you no matter your looks, age or income. They may not want to be seen in public with you, but who cares… let them know you can "deliver the goods" and they'll sneak into your house just to be with you.
Or, maybe you like older women, "milfs?" Oh my, these women can be fun, and most don't have the "young ideas" other women have… all they want to do is "blow their circuits" (and yours) while they still have a few years left… you'll discover how to be the man they call when they're bored. WARNING: you'd better be in good shape and have great "stamina" when you play with these women… they'll wear you out from start to finish.
Does a woman you lust after have a "boyfriend?" No problem, here's how to make her completely forget about him, and come running to you. OR, even better, let her keep the boyfriend (so he can pay for the fancy dinners, the big house, and the leased luxury car) and come to you so you can make her deepest fantasies come true. Why be the boyfriend when you can be the "fantasy man" who fulfills all the needs the boyfriend can't?
How to get her to do anything (and I mean anything) sexually for you, in a way that brings her incredible pleasure. Most women are open to ANYTHING, if you know how to approach her. This one little secret will allow you to live out all your male fantasies no matter how "intense"… and she'll come up with new ones you never even knew existed!"
For every man who always wondered why some guys have all the luck, Johm Overdurf, considered by many to be the world greatest pickup artist, finally reveals his secrets for finding and forming relationships with some of the world most beautiful women. The Beyond Words Languaging Change Thrugh The Quantum Field" is assiduously detailed, highly entertaining expose of a fascinating secret society - the international community of pickup artists who have refined their talents for getting women into bed to the nth degree "Beyond Words Languaging Change Thrugh The Quantum Field" is about getting out there and getting it done. The "Beyond Words Languaging Change Thrugh The Quantum Field" is a simple, easy-to-follow guide to the basics of approaching and attracting women. Guys who do not get laid, do not smile."
Some have never had luck with women, some have come out of a long relationship, some just would like to be a bit more in control of their love life. But the result is the same - the ability to attract and seduce women. All wannabee Puas should do some acting training, it will make them better. This is where most people journey begins. Some have never had luck with women, some have come out of a long relationship, some just would like to be a bit more in control of their love life. But the result is the same - the ability to attract and seduce women. Fantatic work, which allows you to cold read for real.
What Every Body Is Saying" - is the definitive work on the art of the pickup. There is a right way to go about it and a wrong way however. It will be a more comfortable, experienced, knowledgeable and interesting self so by then it is fine. The "What Every Body Is Saying" is a simple, easy-to-follow guide to the basics of approaching and attracting women. The "What Every Body Is Saying" is assiduously detailed, highly entertaining expose of a fascinating secret society - the international community of pickup artists who have refined their talents for getting women into bed to the nth degree"
Think of it like going to Pua University, come for a few months, learn the stuff (go out sarging and being weird and lying) then go back to the real world. The Challenge is simply what works best and fastest. Nlp is not necessary for pick up but it is good for your own confidence and language patterns etc, and can be used. Now it is easy to meet anyone you want; and, smile. There is no one magic formula that is perfect for everybody, find the one that is right for you.
The Men's Guide to the Women's Bathroom strives to answer life's most imponderable question: What Do Women Really Do in the Bathroom?
When the witty and urbane Claire St. John leaves New York City and returns to Austin, Texas, she realizes that all of the good advice she has ever received has been from strangers in the women's bathroom. If only she'd listened before she'd married the wrong man and wound up on the losing end of a divorce.
Swearing off men, Claire decides to take a big chance—she will quit her life as a lawyer and write the ultimate self-help book—a book detailing exactly what goes on in that most sacred feminine temple: the women's bathroom.
But will the new how-to guru ever learn to take her own advice? While she's discovering the truth behind the bathroom door, re-assimilating to Texas culture by eating nuclear" jalapeno carrots, speeding down highways through the famed Texas hill country, and even joining an ill-fated booze cruise, Claire St. John is fighting her feelings for Jake Armstrong, a dashing organic food entrepreneur who threatens to throw off the balance of her new life. Will she be able to handle the pressure or will she watch her love life get flushed away?
In The Men's Guide to the Women's Bathroom, Jo Barrett attempts to answer the age old question that has plagued men for years, "What exactly goes on in the women's bathroom?" The answer is simple. Everything. Bad date? The bathroom is where women go to make a sneak call to their friends informing them of the catastrophe. Bad day? The bathroom is where women sneak in a mid-day cry before heading back to the office. For any and all emotions, the women's bathroom is the place where we can find sanctuary, a place for peace when the world seems filled with chaos. Jo Barrett has captured the essence of the women's bathroom and placed it in the context of a fun, lighthearted chick lit novel that was a joy to read and entertaining to boot.
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Actually is was quite surprised by this book, it really was not what I was expecting. Part one, is a very interesting series of vignettes of the authors life. They were illuminating to say the least. Jennifer Smith is not shy about coming forward with her past experiences. Some were hair raising to say the least. I think the real story she was trying to share is that you have to try and determine what your goal is with dating. Is it a long term relationship or merely a way to spend some pleasant, or occasionally less than pleasant time in the company of the opposite sex.
Some people date with the view to finding a life mate, others date as a sport. What do you do?
One aspect that I did find interesting is Jennifer Smith’s view of the online dating world. I am not sure that I am in total agreement with her. I think the Internet is an inherently dangerous place. Yes I met my wife online, but it was under some strange circumstances, her and her friends had been co-opted to assist on a project, knowing neither my wife nor her friends I made the comment “Who are these bozos”. Now in my mind, my opening line is not one that I recommend as the best start to a long term relationship, but somehow it worked for us. Jan did not make false claims about being 21 and a model, and I did not claim to be an airline pilot, astronaut, or millionaire!
Our friendship, dating, and marriage, grew out of mutual respect. However many Internet relationships are not nearly as ‘poster child’ as ours. We could write a book just on the disappointments that people we know have encountered online. Suffice it to say that models, fighter pilots, and astronauts abound!
For the most part though, I think Jennifer Smith hits it on the head of the nail. Dating can quickly lead to other, more serious endeavors. One should always tread carefully. Those more serious relationships can have unexpected consequences, it can change your credit rating, it can also change your employability.
One aspect of Why I Love Men is that it is exactly what you are not expecting. This is not a book about dating, it is a book about lifestyle choices.
We all make decisions that have consequences. Jennifer Smith has lived through those consequences.
Although Why I love Men is slated as a ’self help’ book on the subject of dating, I found it to be something very different. It is a book that maybe us males should read. There is more to a relationship than a flashy car and a squirt of Axe. Jennifer Smith points out a very salient fact, there is more than one kind of love. She uses the terms Eros, Philos, and Agape to describe love. All are valid, all are based on some longstanding principals. Eros, love in the erotic form, Philos, is more about companionship, and Agape, the unconditional love that mothers have for their children, and married couples should have for each other.
