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I consider myself a pretty clean-cut, well-dressed, successful sort of guy, but there's always something that needs changing. Why is that? Why do women need to change men? Is there really that much wrong with us?
No, I think that the problem lies with women. I think that they always need to be working on some sort of project, and a boyfriend just happens to be the perfect project when one comes into their life.
WOMEN NEED TO CHANGE MEN
I know how to take care of myself: I cook, I clean, I work, I play, and I even know how to dance. But for some reason, most of the women I date want to change the way I do things.
The problem with this situation is that it makes me feel like I'm not good enough. It's as though they've received a rough draft and are slowly changing it into the final one.
The fact that women need to change men at all is frustrating in and of itself, but I happen to think that I'm a pretty good guy, so it's even more bothersome for someone like me.
LOVE ME JUST THE WAY I AM
Well, I am the final draft. This is who I am and how I am, and when a woman meets me, this is what she needs to realize. The moment she start asking me to do things differently, problems will arise.
After all, how would they feel if we constantly told them how to dress, speak, clean, cook, and eat? It's not fun being told that my entire being is wrong.
If women need to change men and men resist this change, guess where the relationship will end up? In the crapper, that's where.
MEN CAN MAKE THEIR OWN ADJUSTMENTS
If I want to change something about myself because I notice that a woman is irritated by it, I will make that decision on my own. The minute she starts telling me what to do, I stop being her man and start being her child. Do you want to date a woman who treats you like a child?
When I'm in love with a woman, I am more than willing to make compromises, but when every aspect of our being needs to meet her halfway, you have to admit that there's something very wrong with that.
I don't mind doing certain things her way, especially if they're things that I don't deem very relevant in my life, but there are other things, such as making the bed, that we don't need to do her way.
KEEP THE RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY
So here's the solution to resolving these issues that women think require change. Perhaps these will calm their need to change men.
1- We can have meetings with our women to discuss what has bothered the other over the week/month, and what we appreciated about each other. I know it sounds cheesy, but my parents taught me that communication is the only way to keep a relationship strong.
2- We choose our battles and try to keep the changes that need to be made down to the ones that are detrimental to the relationship's survival. So if you don't rinse your dish when you put it in the sink, she can't tell you that that's going to spell your doom in the future.
3- We make an effort to accept the other and the little intricacies that make each one unique. If these traits become incredibly irritating in the future, then you either put up or get out.
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You are on your way to learning how to dramatically increase your chances for going out on a successful first date. I guarantee that your ability to converse on the date will improve by leaps and bounds, so much so that your first date will lead you to a second date and a third and so on.
Actually, upon completing this eBook, you will know how to survive (and even enjoy) every crucial first date. You are now in possession of a winning tool: a broad selection of usable, practical pre-chosen conversation starters that will enable you to get through the first date with self-confidence and peace of mind and without tension or panic.
Besides the valuable conversation starters themselves, I will teach you the most effective ways of using them.
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Please don't skip over anything. The method has been carefully designed to assure your success.
I advise you to print out this eBook because I personally think it's easier to read that way. You can also write notes on the pages as you go along.
You should read through it once quickly to get the big picture before you really get into it. Then, get comfortable and read it again – this time, take your time and start to absorb the material and begin learning it. You may be tempted to read only the conversation starters and ignore all the other material, but I advise against it. Although it's understandable that you want to get right to the heart of things, I
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This is workbook of Unleash The Power Within" the flagship seminar offered by motivational speaker Anthony Robbins. It has been responsible for changing people’s lives to a great degree, as many people launch businesses, get rid of debt and generally improve their lives.
The seminar – also known as UPW – is hosted by Anthony Robbins, who has over 30 years worth of experience in the self help arena. He guides attendees through a range of exercises and methods which can be applied in many different situations in their lives.
The seminar’s purpose is to help people design their own life rather than it being based on hope or chance. It also claims to help people forget old patterns and limited beliefs, and rather focus on strenghtening the spiritual, emotional and physical skills in order to create great results in life."
Anthony Robbins is the nation's foremost authority on the psychology of peak performance and personal, professional and organizational turnaround - an identity he has established through his consistent ability to help individuals and organizations create measurable results. He has been called one of the greatest influencers of this generation. He is the author of three national best-selling books, and his educational audio system, Personal Power, is the #1 personal and professional development training system of all time - with 25 million tapes sold worldwide. Top achievers from 43 nations of the world attend Anthony Robbins' Mastery University each year to massively expand the quality of their lives. Mr. Robbins has advised and counseled President Clinton, members of two royal families, members of Parliament, professional athletes, and Fortune 500 CEO's. He is also on the Advisory Board of the United Nations Health and Science Council.
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Anthony Robbins (born February 29, 1960) is self-help writer and professional speaker who has been active for over 30 years. He became well known through his infomercials and bestselling self-help books, Unlimited Power: The New Science Of Personal Achievement and Awaken The Giant Within. The first edition of Unlimited Power was published by Fawcett Columbine (Ballantine Books) in 1987.[2] Robbins writes about subjects such as health and energy, overcoming fears, persuasive communication, and enhancing relationships. He also became well known in America and internationally through infomercials promoting personal development audio programs and motivational seminars. His audio programs, seminars and self-help products featured Neuro-linguistic programming and Ericksonian hypnosis which he studied at the start of his career. [3][4] Robbins seminars also used firewalking as a metaphor for overcoming fears and limiting beliefs. Later, Robbins combined his skills and techniques with other methods claimed to affect personal change.
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Suggested ebooks:Almost everything you read about online dating safety is directed at women but men need to be concerned as well. Perverts, sexual predators and weirdoes come in both sexes, all sizes, and all ages…as do, liars and cheaters. So men need to stay on guard, too.
Online dating is the best possible way to meet fantastic people who share your interests and passions. Every year, tens of thousands of people get married as a result of meeting on an online dating service. Millions of people are doing it and, in general, online dating is regarded as a safe medium for meeting potential dates.
Your online dating safety begins with educating yourself on how to improve your experience and be safe doing it. Below you will find 10 tips to being safe during your online dating experience.
It is common knowledge not to readily give out personal information to strangers. The reason for not doing so is as large as the number of strangers who want that information. If you come across a person who is giving out personal information and asking others to do the same, don’t do it. You don’t know what they want to use it for….and you had better believe they want to use it for something. That “something” will not be for your benefit. Men, also, need to guard their real names, addresses, phone numbers, and place of employment. Do not give that information to anyone online until you are confident that they are who they say they are.
Men, be wary of women who seem too financially needy. If they ask for money, in any of a dozen ways women can ask for money, cut the relationship off immediately. They are not looking for love or even friendship….they are looking for financial help.
If a woman gives you a contact number but you cannot ever reach her at that number, beware. If you always have to page them or text them and have them call you back, this could be a sign that what they are telling you is not the complete truth.
A need to get married and insecurity are other signs men should be very wary of. If the woman is pushing too hard for a commitment you aren’t ready to make, it might be a good time to head for the nearest exit.
Ten Essential Online Dating Safety Tips:
- Use a Cell Phone or Anonymous Phone Service to Chat. When it's time to move your communication to the next level (talking on the phone), never give out your home phone number. Either provide a cell phone number, use Skype to communicate, or use an anonymous phone service. It's just an added protection barrier until you get to know the person better.
- Don't Provide Personal Information Too Soon. Your home phone number and full name provide easy ways to track who you are and where you live. Armed with just your home phone number, a person can easily gain access to your income information, home address, and even learn the value of your home. Armed with your first and last name, a person can do searches to determine quite a bit of information on you - where you work, what you do, and even what your home phone number is. So in the initial stages of communication, guard your personal information. As far as phone communication, see the next tip.
- Use a Free Email Account. If you decide to move your communication from the anonymous email feature provided by the majority of online dating services then provide an email address that isn't your regular one. Sign up for a free Yahoo!, Hotmail, or Gmail account that you use just for online dating. Don't put your full name in the From field - only your first name or something else. This protects you from a person being able to search your normal email address to find out more information about you.
- Beware of Married People. It's unfortunate, but a lot of married people do use online dating services. They'll even go as far as to meet people. A few years ago, MSNBC reported that a study found that up to 30% of people using online dating services are married! To help you in determining whether a person is married or not, read the Online Dating Magazine article, "Staying Clear of Married Men".
- Meet in a Public Place for Your First Meeting. When it's time to schedule that first exciting face-to-face meeting, arrange to meet in a public place and provide your own transportation. Your initial meeting will tell you a lot about the other person, including whether or not he/she lied in their profile. Your gut instincts will kick in. Never accept an offer to be picked up at your house. Make sure that a friend knows where you are at and who you are with.
- Ask for a Recent Photo. There's nothing wrong in asking someone if their photos are recent. If they don't have a photo, request a recent one. It's important for you to get a good look at the person you may eventually meet. Plus your instincts from your communications and their photos may provide you with valuable insight into the person. Plus, if they tell you the photo is recent and you meet and see a major difference, then you'll know the person lied and can cut the date short. If a person lies about their photo or profile then that is a red flag to no longer pursue the relationship.
- Look for Questionable Characteristics in Your Communication. As you chat via email and on the phone you may be able to start to pick out characteristics of the other person. Are they controlling? Do they seem to anger easily? Do they avoid some of your questions? These can be questionable characteristics that tell you it's time to move on.
- Stick With Paid Online Dating Services. Free online dating services provide a greater opportunity for potentially dangerous individuals. They don't ever have to provide a credit card or other information that identifies them. There is some truth to the saying, "you get what you pay for".
- Don't Get a False Sense of Security. Some online dating services claim to offer "background checks" and when signing up for such a service you may find it easier to let your guard down. Don't. Laws differ from state-to-state when it comes to background checks and there are even several states where checks can't be effectively performed. Because of the inconsistency, criminals/wrong doers can and do get into services that do "background checks". Never let your guard down.
- Trust Your Gut Instinct. Your instinct is a powerful medium for knowing when something doesn't feel right. It is also a great way to measure when to move forward with someone and when to turn and run. As you read profiles, responses to emails, have phone conversations, and meet in person your instincts help tell you if something is "right" or if something is out of alignment. The "out of alignment" message is your cue to be careful, back off, or proceed with extreme caution. Trust your gut instinct, it's the most powerful psychological tool you have at your disposal.
By following these tips, you'll help protect yourself from being an easy prey to someone who may have ulterior motives. With an average of 100+ marriages a day from online dating, you can see that the experience can be both safe and rewarding. Keep it safe!
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