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Love Dating Tips Time To Get Freaky

Love and dating, these two topics are gaining lot of popularity day-by-day. In current world, every individual wants to fall in love and wants to enjoy the dating process as well. In order to cash this biggest opportunity, many online websites are providing online dating as well. Today, we are sharing some love dating tips for people.

LOOKS AND BEHAVIOR - Yes, it matters how you look. However, this thing matters only for few hours or days. Once you start dating or loving your partner, it is your behavior that counts.

SURPRISE - In order to add some spices in your relationship, please do not forget to give surprises to your partner, for example, you can make a sudden plan for a adventurous trip or present him/her a new dress etc.

RESPECT - When you are in love with someone, then you have to behave properly and respect the decisions of your partner. Same thing should be followed by your partner as well. Respect the decision and thinking of your partner.

CALL - Do not call your partner in every hour. If you do the same, then it is not a caring nature. It seems more like you do not trust him/her.

By following these love dating tips, you can enjoy your relationship more.

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Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets
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Free Dating Site

The first thing online singles are going to see when looking up possible matches is your profile picture. This is why you A) have to have one and B) it has to be the best photo you can take. The free dating site, OkCupid, did an analysis of over 7,000 of their members' pictures to figure out which ones were the most effective in generating matches. The truth they discovered may help you make a killer first impression with a picture that is bound to have singles across the web knocking at your online dating doorstep. Check out the following tips for men and women based on their results:

#1: EYE CONTACT. This has always been thought to be extremely important in exuding confidence and showing your interest in someone. But as it turns out, making eye contact with the camera works in your favor as well. Here's the lowdown on eye contact for the different sexes:

* LADIES: Studies show that women who look directly at the camera while smiling or using a flirty expression tend to get more online attention than others who use such expressions without eye contact (this can give off the vibe of a bad attitude).
* GUYS: The best pose for guys' pictures is zero smile, zero eye contact. The runner up is smiling without eye contact.

#2: FACE. There's no doubt about it, people like to see faces...so show yours off. The majority of online dating services (OkCupid included) will tell you that it is best to choose a profile picture that is a clear and up close shot. However, results of OkCupid's study show that whether or not you show your face doesn't have an impact on the amount of quality singles you reel in.

#3: CAMERA ANGLE. This may come as a surprise, but the classically cheesy "My-Space" shot that is achieved by holding a camera above your head or in front of a mirror and looking ever-so coy has actually proven quite effective in luring in singles. For both men and women, these pictures are more successful than they are average. If you're a woman, this is the best pose you can make.

#4: SHOWING SKIN. You may be the more conservative type but according to OkCupid's studies, a revealing pic can greatly help your efforts in getting off the market. You don't have to undress like a Playboy model-there are ways to be sexy without showing too much. If you're comfortable with this idea then go for it!

* LADIES: A picture where you are displaying a little bit of cleavage draws 12.9 new contacts per month, 49% more than average. Numbers show that older women tend to get fewer messages than younger ones. But if you're older and choose a photo that is more on the revealing side, you might be giving the 20-somethings a run for their money.
* GUYS: If you're a guy with a nice body, it is suggested that you take off your shirt rather than leave it on. If you decide to stay clothed, however, stick to your usual style and keep it on the casual side. Guys who get dressed up for a profile pic don't fare as well as those who dress as they normally would.

#5: SMILING. Everyone likes a great smile. It shows that you are friendly, happy and fun-loving. But even if you're the type who doesn't go anywhere without a smile plastered on your face, when it comes to your online dating pic, smiling might not always be the best way to go.

* LADIES: Overall, research suggests that smiling is better than not for women. But if you choose to go with a picture showcasing your best flirty face, this will also be well-received by online admirers.
* GUYS: For the men, if you have a profile picture of yourself looking away from the camera without a smile...you are golden because the ladies love this. Another great idea? Try smiling and not looking directly at the camera.

#6: CONTEXT. Many think that when you post a picture on your dating profile it should be of you alone in a serious position. Well if you don't want to go this route, the exciting news is that you can highlight how well-traveled, active and social you are in your pic and research shows that it won't reflect negatively in your quest for a cyber-relationship.

* LADIES: The most popular contexts are as follows...1) The "MySpace" self-picture 2) A picture taken in bed 3) An action shot that shows your outdoorsy/athletic side
* GUYS: It will be your best bet to go for one of these...1) A photo with an animal 2) A pic showing off your rippling muscles 3) A picture that shows you engaging in an interesting activity

Suggested free e-books to read:

Robert Henderson - Secrets Of Dating Asian Women
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Online Dating Tips Increase Your Success Rate

Online dating tips can work wonderfully for all people who are in love or want to fall in love. As a result, we have brought some amazing tips for you today.

MIND - People love from heart but intelligent lovers use their mind when it comes to online date. While using online services, you have to be very careful about each and every step you or your partner takes.

ONLINE DATING SITE - We urge people to choose reliable and trustworthy dating site. You can find various nice websites by spending few minutes over the internet. Please do not use the services of those sites that claim to offer free partners or services.

SAFETY - Please keep in mind that you can not see physically a person you are dating with online. Therefore, it is important for you to ensure the safety first. Being unknown to each other, it is your right and duty to save your personal and confidential details. Do not leak them or disclose them in front of those people who are not visible physically.

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Maybe You Can Go Back Home Dion Dimucci

"A Wanderer, the Singer Dion Returns to the Bronx"

by

David Gonzalez

December 9th, 2011

The New York Times

DRESSED in black with shades to match, Dion DiMucci stood on East 187th Street and pointed to Grandma Maria's apartment building. In the 1940s, that corner fire escape was the best perch in Belmont for the street fairs where big guys sang big songs.

"I had like a loge seat up there," said Dion, the singer-songwriter best known by his first name. "You don't know what it was like to hear those guys. They would sing opera. It was wild!"

He tossed out that last word with a touch of Bronx Italian attitude, betraying the vocal swagger that made him famous in the 1950s as the leader of the Belmonts, later as solo act and eventually enshrined him in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. That attitude made Dion, in Bruce Springsteen's opinion, the link between Sinatra and rock 'n' roll.

Now, after two failed attempts to bring his life to the screen, Dion is collaborating with Charles Messina, a playwright and director, on "The Wanderer - the Life and Music of Dion." It will weave his songs through a plot centered on the singer's life from 1957 through the late 1960s, a time that brought him his greatest success and biggest tragedies - sort of a deeper version of "Jersey Boys," the jukebox musical about Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons.

A few weeks ago he took Mr. Messina to Belmont, the Italian enclave that was the center of his young world and a place where he still easily walks the streets. The visit was not a nostalgia trip - Dion keeps recording new songs - but a way to help Mr. Messina get a feel for Dion's world.

"This kid Charles - he's 40 and I call him a kid - he's ready to pop!" Dion said. "I like his style. I like the way he wrote. He caught a vision! I mean, I can write a three-minute song. But a play? That's amazing. You know, I always saw my story as a young 'Sopranos' with great music and a Rocky Graziano 'Somebody Up There Likes Me' ending. It's a story of redemption. A rock and roll redemption story!"

Dion grew up not too far from Belmont's main drag, on the second floor of a two-story house on Prospect Avenue. His father, Pasquale, was a puppeteer, though he liked to talk more than work. His mother, Frances, worked in a hat factory. The two argued a lot.

"When they argued, I just went to my room and practiced guitar," Dion recalled. "So the more they argued, the better guitar player I became."

Mr. Messina, who has had plays about Freddie Mercury and Mario Lanza produced Off Broadway and elsewhere, knew he had the makings of a compelling story after a mutual friend introduced him to Dion a few years ago. The two shared an Italian-American upbringing and a feel for the city's streets. And he was fascinated by how Dion - who can pepper a conversation with casual references to Lou Reed, Jackie Wilson, St. Jerome and St. Augustine - survived a turbulent era.

"The conflict was irresistible to me as a dramatist," he said. "But what's interesting about Dion is that he lived. In my other plays, you don't have that ending where the guy overcame. Dion overcame."

Mr. Messina and a preliminary cast have held several readings of the script for potential investors, as they try to raise the financing to mount a workshop next year. The show would have more than 20 songs, including Dion's hits and other songs from the era, as well as new originals. Both Mr. Messina and Dion said the response had been encouraging.

"It took 'Jersey Boys' 10 years to get to Broadway," Mr. Messina said. "I think we can get there faster. If you took the music out of 'Jersey Boys,' would it still work? Our story can, because Dion's life was dramatic."

Indeed, tragedy was never too far from Dion's life, even during his dizzying success. He had become addicted to heroin around the time he hit it big with the Belmonts as they recorded hits like "I Wonder Why" and "Teenager in Love," and later on his own, with "The Wanderer" and "Donna the Prima Donna." And while he was on the road with Buddy Holly for a winter dance tour in 1959, he balked at spending 36 - the same amount his parents paid in monthly rent - for a seat on a chartered plane. The plane's crash claimed the lives of Holly, Ritchie Valens and the Big Bopper.

The play does not shy away from showing those searing moments. Dion says it has captured something that other efforts to dramatize his life have missed. He recalled watching a reading and being stunned during the scene where the young singer learns of the losses on what came to be called "The Day the Music Died."

"When the kid who was playing me started screaming when the plane crashed, I almost fell to my knees," he said. "Sometimes you need somebody to scream for you. You realize there's a 19-year-old kid who still feels very deeply about things."

And the neighborhood cares deeply about him. During their visit to Belmont, Dion ducked into Artuso Pastry, where Joe, the second-generation owner, had a box of cookies and cannoli waiting for him.

"This is for all you do," Mr. Artuso said. "Good to be on your team, buddy boy."

Dion threw his head back with a smile. "Joey, you're a saint in the making!" he said.

He and Mr. Messina went down the street to Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church, Dion's childhood parish. He climbed up the steps, stopped in the vestibule and smiled.

"The cap stays on," he said with a smile, as he pointed to his Kangol cap. "Not even cardinals know."

Even when he first felt the thrill of a hit record, he would still stop at the church and talk with Msgr. Joseph Pernicone, who pushed him when he was a teenager to think about the meaning of love or happiness.

"He once asked me, 'Dion what would make you happy?' " Dion said as he settled into a pew at the back of the church. " 'Well, there's this girl Susan I'd love to get close to. And while you're at it, throw in a hit record and a Thunderbird.'

" 'No, Dion. The virtuous man is the happy man,' " the monsignor replied.

"I had no idea what he meant," Dion said. "But he told me, it's the predisposition to do the right thing at the right time in the right way for the right reason."

He sat and looked around the sanctuary, which was bathed in a soft, golden light.

"I wouldn't be sitting here right now if not for him," he said. "I got lost in my life. But I eventually came back to what he taught me."

Mr. Messina craned his neck, taking in the details. "This will be good for set design," he said. "Look at this place."

A few blocks away on Arthur Avenue, they entered Pasquale's Rigoletto, where Dion was embraced like a favorite - and hip - uncle. A frown crossed his face only when a customer casually walked into the dining room and started singing. Dion got up, said a word to the ma^itre d' - and the singing stopped.

"I just want to eat," he said.

More than a half-century after his first hit, he thinks back to what his life was like as a child, when his grandfather Tony would wake him every morning to the rhythmic clack of a wooden spoon in a tin cup beating egg yolks, sugar and wine into a frothy yellow concoction known as zabaglione.

"That's brain food," Dion said. "That's one of the reasons my brain is so highly developed. By the time I got to school I was like, 'Trig? Bring it. Algebra? Bring it.' I haven't come down from that stuff."

So while he has learned from the past, he doesn't live in it. At 72, he has written new songs for the play. He's even coming out with a new album, "Tank Full of Blues," next month.

"I never felt more relevant," he said. "I feel more relevant now than I did in my 20s. It's probably the zabaglione."

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The Six Don Juan Commandments Of Body Language

Guy Point Of View Week Return To My Heart

Welcome to the first full story of "Guy's Point of View Week" here at Sequential Crush! "Return to My Heart!" originally appeared in Falling in Love #51 (June 1962). The reprint version (below) was published in Young Love #70 (September/October 1968).

"Return to My Heart!" is a story of a forbidden love -- between teacher and student. While not an entirely unusual storyline in romance comics, this one is different because it is told from the perspective of the male teacher and not the female student.

Mr. Forrest, a handsome English teacher is smitten with senior student, Celia Ames. He deals with his interest in her by trying to avoid her at all costs outside of the classroom...

...and inside the classroom, by reprimanding her. When ultimately confronted by Celia about his apparent dislike for her, he keeps his feelings for her inside; brushing his harshness off as a method of classroom control.

Mr. Forrest is not only the English teacher, but the drama coach as well. During practice one afternoon, Mr. Forrest does the unthinkable. He steps in for leading man -- Johnny, and shows him how the scene ought to be played. The rest of the class erupts in applause after the passionate kiss between Mr. Forrest and Celia. In return for their enthusiasm, the embarrassed Mr. Forrest gruffly demands that everyone memorizes their lines perfectly by the following Monday.

Following their very public kiss, the rest of the term flies by for Mr. Forrest. The end of the school year brings a graduation dance and Mr. Forrest is asked to be a chaperone. His evening of being an observer seems to going well until he catches a glimpse of Celia dancing with Johnny. His eyes lock with Celia's. She makes her way over to Mr. Forrest and asks him to dance with her since she will be leaving for college soon and won't see him again. Mr. Forrest hides his feelings for her and tells her to keep dancing with Johnny. With imagery so akin to the ladies of romance comics, Mr. Forrest lies awake night after night, thinking of his former pupil.

And here you thought only

the girls cried themselves to sleep!

Time goes on (as it tends to do) and after the passing of four years, Mr. Forrest decides to give it another shot at being a graduation dance chaperone. Suddenly, a tender gloved hand reaches out and it is no other than Celia, requesting a dance once again. This time, Mr. Forrest gives in and love washes over the happy (and age-appropriate) couple.

Though the script on this story sounds very similar to stories that are narrated from female character's perspectives, I think it is still pretty interesting reading a story from a male character's point of view. What do you think? Do you like the male perspective in the romance comics or do you prefer the more traditional female narrator?

Be sure to tune in the rest of the week for more examples of the

"guy's point of view" here on Sequential Crush!

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German Women Have Bigger Breasts

First, we find out that German men are terrible in bed because they stink, and now we find out that German women have larger breasts than usual. This can't be a coincidence.

A study of women's body shapes was conducted and they found that women's breasts are one whole inch larger than last year.

The survey also discovered that German women are even getting taller, with the average woman standing at 5'5".

Experts (ah, gotta love those experts) believe that the breast augmentation is a result of a much fattier diet.

What's worse is that the study also discovered that, not only do German men stink, they're also fatter than ever before.

So for those men out there who are having a hard time getting some play, head over to Germany; the women have swollen breasts that are longing to be touched and they won't sleep with the fat, stank German guys, so the level of competition is non-existent at best.

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First Date Ideas Make A Lasting Impression

When it comes to first date, you may find many people and experts who are ready to give many first date ideas. However, it is important for you to choose the best one and make your first date a memorable day.

First date is very important for everyone especially guy. Generally, maximum girls have sixth sense or some ability to know how long a relationship will go. And unfortunately girls come to know about this thing on a first date as well.

Usually, maximum number of people goes on first date at the age of 14-21 years. It may be a good age for those people who are 18 years old or above but minors can find many troubles as well.

To resolve any such problem, you should discuss your dating and its location with your friends and cousins. These are some best people who can give you best first date ideas. First date should be fun and entertaining. You should not take any tension or stress while roaming with your partner. Just enjoy the moment as much as you can. Here, you can also try to make your partner happy because his/her happiness completely depends on the success of dating.

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Comment About Cocky And Funny

"This was taken from a recent comment. I think it really speaks to what we need to focus on to improve our game especially with negs and cocky and funny:"

90% of these comments just let me know that no matter how far we are trying to get away from cheezy pickup lines and acting like a douchebag, most guys just don't seem to get it. I feel like I'm on a high-school forum for either "who can come up with the sappiest line", or "who can make the girl see how much of a tool I really am?"

Guys, your "negs" are completely out of sync with what we have learned from Mystery, Style, DeAngelo, etc. For some strange reason, a forum devoted to PUA material has been reduced to an SNL skit about "how to be an arrogant jackass that thinks he's a stand-up-comedian". Have you learned NOTHING by studying The Game!?

Seriously, 90-99% of you have obviously never read 'The Game', watched 'The Pickup Artist', listened to any of David DeAngelo's material, or basically took the time to find out what REALLY works when approaching a set. You are all dooming yourselves to the lives of a greasy scumbag who knows nothing of the teaching from the masters.

Do yourselves a favor. Next time, instead of trying to be Andrew Dice Clay in your next encounter with a female, politely excuse yourself from the set and go to the bookstore. If you are still stubborn and think that laying on the "I'm so insecure that I have to call you a whore and portray myself as a sexual god" will get you somewhere, please buy a really good book from 1976 on pickup lines. I'm sure "What's your sign?" will be in there if you haven't thought of that one yet.

If you really care, if you REALLY want to know the tactics and maneuvers that are necessary to move your "game" up a notch, then seek out material by the people I've already mentioned. You will immediately find that what is going on in this thread has NOTHING to do with having "game". Your "game" that is on display here is the entire reason that Mystery and his fellow pick-up-artists have devised a distinct method to AVOID having to lower yourselves to cheezy one-liners.

I fully realize that a lot of you are just starting out, and you want to throw in your (what you think) is prime material. I don't fault you for that. Just PLEASE, for all of our sakes, at LEAST read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I will consider anything you decide to indulge yourself in after that just gravy.

I'm not writing this post to belittle you guys that seem to think that flat-out insulting a woman, or forcing a sexual innuendo on them is the right way to sarge. I'm trying to let you in on material that will change your life. If you are too lazy to figure it out, I have no pity on you when you fail constantly with the Asshole/Douchebag lines. Most of what I have seen here are distinctly NOT "Cocky/Funny". They are the same shitty "pickup" lines that true PUA's have been honing their craft to get away from.

Anyone that is still listening....STOP reading this post for material. The stuff that these guys are putting forth will only hurt your game. Search harder, read the proven material, download some seminars by David DeAngelo, Mystery, etc., and then come back to this thread. Only then will you see how foolish this whole thing is. "Cocky/Funny"? No, almost all of these comments are Arrogant/Douchey. Tool/Cheezy. They go against everything that we are supposed to be learning, and the entire reason we are part of this forum in the first place. Start over. It's not hard. All of the material is there if you REALLY want to find it. Good luck guys. You're gonna need it if you're still telling women that they fell out of heaven or saying that they are flat-out ugly. Negs are a happy medium. You will learn if you bother to find out. Good God.

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Impress A Woman 10 Steps To Her

If you want to impress a woman, you have come to the right place. Taking the steps to impress a woman is an important part of attraction. When a woman is impressed by a man, it sets the seeds for real attraction.

Many guys try to attract women by buying them things. Watches, Jewelry, even flowers and chocolates. While one a few occasions a small gift is expected and perhaps appreciated, buying things is never really "impressive". You cannot buy her love and respect. You have to earn it.

If you do not know how to get a woman to notice you it can be very frustrating. There is no reason that you should humiliate and embarrass yourself ever again. Let's now go on to talk about how to impress a woman.

#1 KNOW THE WOMAN YOU ARE TRYING TO IMPRESS: The first thing that you need to figure out is what kind of woman you are looking for. If you go out desperate just hoping that any woman will want you this alone is going to lower your chances of being able to impress a woman. Women don't want a guy that is desperate and will date any woman because they want to know why you like them and why you want to be with them.

What you need to do is make a list of the things that you would like to see in a woman. Do you want a woman that is a college graduate? Do you want a woman who is interested in sports? Do you want a woman with or without kids? All of these things are important. When you have these things written down you are going to be taking this thought process serious and will be less likely to settle for just anyone.

After you have decided what kind of woman you are interested in it is time that you go out and find that woman. When you go out to look for that woman you need to make sure that you are going to the right place. Not all types of women are going to be in the same place. You should look for your type of girl in a place that they would naturally enjoy.

If you want a girl that is interested in sports go to some sporting events. If you want a girl that goes to church - go to church! It is really simple to find the type of girl that you want once you figure out where she likes to hang out.

This also means making a snap judgement about what the WOMAN is looking for in a guy. You do not want to adjust our whole personality and demeanor to impress the woman, but if you know there is something she might be looking for in a guy you can make sure she gets it. This is just understanding the different types of women.

#2 LOOK HER IN THE EYE: This shows confidence. It shows you are interested in her. It is guaranteed to be a big positive "check mark" in the girls head for "things that impress her" about you. Woman may want you to notice the way they look, but they do not want to see you staring at their boobs and they certainly do not want to see you looking at other women or not paying attention. Make and hold eye contact. It is a sure way to impress a woman.

#3 BE CHIVALROUS: Open the door for her, pull out her chair, take her coat for her. All of the things guys do in the old 50s movies. It will be noticed and show that you have class. You do not need (or even want) to follow the girl around like a puppy dog, but treating every girl with class and charm will be noticed and will impress her.

#4 TURN OFF THE PHONE: To be extra impressive make sure she knows about it (with a little subtlety). Make a point of turning it off because, "what she has to say is important" and you do not want to miss it. After being with guys who will talk incessantly on their phones and ignore her, this will impress her greatly/

#5 BE WELL GROOMED: You do not have to look like you stepped off the pages of a male fashion magazine. But having a decent level of personal hygiene, and looking well groomed it important. Having a sense of style is also important. Your clothes should also represent YOU. Unless you are a guy who understands style try to get a female friend to shop for you or a female relative of the "right" age. Get clothes that are stylish, not fadish, and work for YOU.

#6 ASK HER QUESTIONS: This doesn't mean give her the third degree, but ask questions to get her talking about herself. Try to find her passions. Once you get her talking about things she is passionate about, you have gone a LONG way toward impressing her, as well as giving yourself things to talk about to keep the conversation flowing.

#7 REALLY LISTEN TO HER: Girls can tell when a guy is not really listening. You may think you are fooling her. But you are not. Try to use active listening to get her talking and keep her talking.

#8 COMPLIMENT HER: If you really want to impress a woman, compliment her. there are two important aspects of this. First off is that you need to be sincere. the second is that you should compliment her on something SHE has control over. Don's just say she is "beautiful". She was probably born that way and she knows it. Be specific and compliment her on things she controls.

Don't say, "your hair looks great" say "that style you use makes you look great"

Don't say "you look great" say "that dress really compliments your figure"

#9 ASK FOR HER OPINION/ADVICE: One way men and women are REALLY different is with advice. When a woman talks about a problem she wants sympathy. Guys want solutions. Guys will give women solutions to any problem they hear and will rarely talk with women about their problems. We simply do not want sympathy, and the subtext is, "what good advice could she give me?"

That is the reason this one is powerful.

If you directly ask for her opinion or advice on a topic you will shock her. Few guys have probably ever asked her opinion. It shows you respect her and this will greatly impress her.

#10 BE FUNNY, BUT DON'T BE CRUDE: Girls want to have a good time. They want to laugh. Keeping the mood light and fun will impress her. The one warning here is that crude jokes that may be a hit with guy friends really will not work with her. Keep her laughing but work clean.

Since you know what you want in a woman you should be confident when you go after this woman. Confidence is one of the sexiest qualities in a man. You should practice confidence until you actually become confident. It is one of those kind of fake it until you make it type deals.

When you walk into a room you shouldn't look like a scared dear. When you walk into a room you should survey the situation and then decide what you want to do and where you want to do.

One of the best things you can do to make yourself look more confident is simply improve your posture. Put your shoulders back, put your chin up and puff your chest out just a little bit. Make sure that you don't look uncomfortable though.

When you speak to a woman one of the best ways to impress a woman is to actually listen and be interested in what she is speaking about. You should allow her to speak about her passions and get more and more connected with you. This will make it easier for you to know how to impress her and have success with women.

The BEST WAY TO IMPRESS A WOMAN IS TO UNDERSTAND THOSE SUBTLE THINGS THAT SHE IS IRRESISTIBLY ATTRACTED TO. These few simple rules of attraction can get her instantly and powerfully drawn to you.

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Chris Brown Apologizes For Beating Rihanna

Chris Brown has finally come forward and apologized publicly for giving Rihanna a beat down. Everyone is freaking out that the video looks rehearsed and he's reading off some kind of prompter. Okay, yeah, so what?

For those of you who spent the last year living under a rock, on February 8, 2009, Chris Brown was arrested for beating up pop singer Rihanna in his car. A week later, rumors abound that Rihanna had reconciled with Chris Brown and her fan base began to dwindle because of the message she was sending out to her young fans.

So Rihanna opted to walk away from Chris Brown and began being seen with a host of different men. Chris Brown, meanwhile, was doing his best to stay out of the public eye, even though he was spotted just a few short days later on a jet ski, partying it up.

I'm guessing his lawyers likely told him to stop acting like a kid who got caught with his hand in cookie jar and start acting like a man who regrets what he has done.

And then this. Chris Brown puts up a video to apologize to Rihanna and the world for what he did.

Will the public forgive him? Will his career bounce back? Will Chris Brown and Rihanna reunite and do the talk show circuit? Is Oprah seeing dollar signs?

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Pickup artists in the community have been trying to master the art of getting women by learning through a vartiety of sources: ebooks, DVDs, bootcamps, phone and one-on-one consulting services.

What if you could actually live with a world famous pickup artist, that has had proven results?

Crazy thought. Well, I got an email from Gambler. He's a good friend, he lives near Leicester Square in London. He runs a pimp pad with a bunch of other pick up artists and some might call it the Secret London Lair. Gambler apparently didn't learn about the community till after alittle while through him searching for answers to his dating problems. You can read all about Gambler's interview about his journey from chump to chick magnet, and how he set up one of the worlds largest PUA Training companies. Fascinating stuff, and gives hope to a lot of guys out there.

Anyways, Gambler is now offering Residential Courses to approved candidates. I actually had a friend who took the residential course whom I met a Doctor Paul seminar in Chicago in March. He then flew to London and took the residential course. He was from Brazil, and emailed me about how much his game improved. Gambler told me he brought back two women on both nights - to confirm!

Some of the features:

-$1.5m apartment in W1, 2 minutes walk from the absolute center of London.

-Double bedroom with en-suite to bring girls back to

-Living with Gambler

-Access to VIP parties at London's top venues

-8 Trainers, wing girls, female trainers

-75 hours total.

So that's the details. I know from personal experience that its often hard to feel the vibe of getting women from just reading a book or watching a DVD. That's why boot camps are so useful in accelerating your learning curve.

Read more about it over on Gambler's website where he outlines SPECIFICALLY what you'll do, and how you'll do it.

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Dating Advice Gifts To Impress Your Girlfriend

Gifts are liked by all but a personalized gift has a different value. You can get a personalized gift for your girlfriend. Some men would be satisfied by the traditional gift item like flowers or jewelry. There are many who want some personalized gift for the special girl they love. In this article of dating advice, a lot of personalized gifts are advised that you can get for your girl friend.

Some gift stores have customized service. The customized gift item has a long lasting impression on your beloved. One can consult her friend to know what she likes the most. You can present a t-shirt to your girl friend with a photo of you and her sharing some good moments. You can even rite a personalized poem for the girl and sign on its back. You get a personalized song composed for her. They are sung by professional singers and also have the name of the person to whom the song is dedicated. You can get a set of crockery that have some love message written on it for her. These are very effective dating advices.

All these are some of the brilliant gifts that you can easily get for her. If you have some other ideas in your mind then go for it and amaze her with your gift. She'll feel on the top of the world.

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Kinky Things Men Want

If you've had sex in every position imaginable and in every location possible, and yet would still like to keep the flame burning by ensuring that your guy never knows what's coming next when it comes to sex with you, it's time you took a turn for the kinky.

Kinky sex consists of a host of things. As well, one man's kinky is another's run of the mill. So if you're with the kind of girl who's game for anything, it's time for you to bring it. Of course, I'm working under the guise that you're in a monogamous relationship and aren't really interested in third (fourth or fifth) parties.

Here now, are various kinky things men want in bed and would love to have you to do to them.

KINKY THINGS MEN WANT IN BED #1

G-SPOT STIMULATION

No, not yours, his. The male g-spot is easy to locate and once you find it, you can bring your man to heights of pleasure he has never known before. Using a light massage with your lubricated fingers, rub the outside of his anus and slowly ease your way in, ensuring that your palm is facing upwards.

Once your finger(s) is all the way in, make a "come hither" motion. At this point you will be stimulating his prostate. Bingo! Use your other hand to stroke his penis and your mouth to suck on it. The amalgamation of all these sensations will give him an earth-shattering orgasm he won't soon forget.

KINKY THINGS MEN WANT IN BED #2

ANAL SEX

Yes, most women still aren't inclined to give their man the key to the back door, and if you're not ready, then don't do it. An uncomfortable woman makes for a very messy and potentially painful anal sex session.

But if you are game, get your lube out and tell your guy that tonight is the night for some back play. He can start out by massaging your anus with his fingers so that you can get used to the sensation and then slowly make his way inside with his rock hard penis (and you know it'll be rock hard after all that play).

KINKY THINGS MEN WANT IN BED #3

S first, you take over and tie him to the bed, then slowly run a feather all over his body and seduce him at your whim. Give him oral sex and bring him to the brink, then stop and suck his nipples for a while. Or ride him until he's about to explode, then get off of him and bring your face close to his penis, allowing your tongue to barely touch it. I have to warn you though, there's a good chance he'll explode so it's up to you to decide what you want to do with his ejaculate.

Next, you can let him have his way with you. You will submit to his every whim and he can go from placing his fingers inside you until you squirt to rubbing his penis on your face and making you kiss and lick it.

Before you know it, the two of you will figure out which you enjoy being more (sub or dom) and these roles will turn your ordinary sex into something pleasurably painful.

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Rick Hanson Ph D Your Wise Brain Blog 5000 Synapses In The Width Of A Hair

Rick's most recent book is "Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom" (with Rick Mendius, M.D.; Foreword by Dan Siegel, M.D. and Preface by Jack Kornfield, Ph.D.).

5000 SYNAPSES IN THE WIDTH OF A HAIR

How much change in the brain makes a difference in the mind?

That's the issue raised by a very interesting comment regarding my previous blog, "The Brain in a Bucket."

So I've taken the liberty of posting the comment here (hoping that's OK in blog etiquette; still learning as I go), and then responding. Here it is:

"I was pondering your statement that long term meditators show a thickening in certain areas of the brain. As I understand it, the volume of the skull is fixed in adults. This would seem to require that if one part thickens, another part must be reduced. I am curious as to whether anyone has considered what the implications of a loss of volume in these other areas might be. I enjoyed your article, and look forward to more on the topic of neurology and meditation."

While the size of the skull is indeed fixed in adulthood, we can both lose gray matter volume due to the normal effects of aging and gain it through mental training of one kind or another. For instance, one study showed that the hippocampus (really hippocampi, since there is one on each side of the brain, but convention is usually to refer to neural regions in the singular), of London taxi drivers is thicker after their training, which makes sense since the hippocampus is deeply involved with spatial memory.

But the size of these changes in volume is very small, so they do not "bump up against" the skull. For example, the increased thickness in the brains of meditators - seen in one of the cooler studies in this field - amounted - to about 1/200th of an inch. This may not seem like much but is a BIG change in the density of synaptic networks when you can fit about 5000 synapses in the width of a human hair.

The point is that small changes in daily activities - meditating instead of sleeping in, driving a cab instead of working in an office - can make changes in the brain that seem small but actually create big changes in the mind. And that fact opens the door to amazing opportunities.

RICK HANSON, PH.D., is a neuropsychologist, author, and teacher. A summa cum laude graduate of UCLA, he founded the Wellspring Institute for Neuroscience and Contemplative Wisdom, and teaches at universities and meditation centers in Europe, Australia, and North America. His work has been featured on the BBC and in Consumer Reports Health, U.S. News and World Report, and other major magazines.

Rick's most recent book is "Buddha's Brain: The Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love, and Wisdom" (with Rick Mendius, M.D.; Foreword by Dan Siegel, M.D. and Preface by Jack Kornfield, Ph.D.), which has been praised by numerous scholars, therapists, and teachers, including Tara Brach, Ph.D., Roger Walsh, Ph.D., Sharon Salzberg, and Fred Luskin, Ph.D. Considered an expert on self-directed neuroplasticity, he edits the Wise Brain Bulletin, and his articles have appeared in Tricycle Magazine, Insight Journal, and Inquiring Mind; his Your Wise Brain blog is on Huffington Post, Psychology Today, and other major websites. He has a chapter - 7 Facts about the Brain That Incline the Mind to Joy - in "Measuring the Immeasurable", as well as several audio programs with Sounds True. His first book was "Mother Nurture: A Mother's Guide to Health in Body, Mind, and Intimate Relationships" (Penguin, 2002).

Rick is currently a trustee of Saybrook University. He also served on the board of Spirit Rock Meditation Center for nine years, and was President of the Board of FamilyWorks, a community agency. He began meditating in 1974, trained in several traditions, and leads a weekly meditation gathering in San Rafael, CA. He enjoys rock-climbing and taking a break from emails. He and his wife have two children. For more information, please see his full biography at www.RickHanson.net.

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Matchmaking Dating Best Choice For You

Are you looking for a better option where you can find best partner or date? If yes, then you should try your luck with matchmaking dating services. It is a place which provides opportunity to every single person to become mingle. It is when someone looks for people to date. Once you register yourself on website, these service providers offer you a pool of good number of singles who are also looking for good partner. It is a good option for those people who are single and looking for someone to date.

Matchmaking dating service welcomes every individual who are 18 years old or above. Few websites allow minors as well but it is not legal in many countries. Now days, people are suing these services to remove their frustration. It is not an easy task for everyone to find a boyfriend or girl friend in real life. When these people look around, they find number of couples. Hence, they get really tensed. This dating is all about finding new people and meets them. If you really like someone, then do not feel shy and contact him/her immediately.

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Love And Relationship Advice How To Prevent Unusual Breakups

There is very thin line between commitment, love and relationship. Generally, people prefer to go with love instead of commitment and relationship. If you are in love with someone then it is important for you to make him/her realize how good you are. Any relationship can break before love or any love relationship can break if you don't do so. Every relationship starts with love and most probably ends up with marriage.

There are many ways to keep you love and relationship healthy:

- Care for your partner doesn't matter where he/she is.

- Mostly break-ups happen due to ignorance especially when you ignore your partner in front of your friends, relatives and family. Respect and support each other in front of everyone.

- It is important for both genders to support emotionally when your partner need you most.

- Mostly girls think that they have no right to spend the money on boys. It is not good at all. If you are in true love and relationship then stop behaving like teenage girl. Respect the money of your partner and pay the bill accordingly.

After following these steps, you will find a new ray in your relationship, so enjoy your love life without nay trouble.

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