Commitment Phobic Man

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Dating Q">I recently met a guy I think might be the one for me. The problem is, he told me that the longest relationship he ever had lasted all of 3 weeks. He's 31, so it's not like he's a spring chicken. The thing is, he's all over me when we meet up with mutual friends, but I'm afraid he just wants to play around. Should I invest my time in this or should I move on?


Personally, I don't think you should waste your time on this guy unless you are ready to be in it for a good time and nothing more. He told you off the bat that he doesn't do long-term, so expecting that you will be the lady who changes that is na"ive.

He made himself clear, so take him at face value and either tell him you're not interested, or enjoy the casual sex that he obviously wants from you. But don't think for a second that playing hard to get and then sleeping with him is going to change his mind. It won't. He made that clear.


I am recently single and have perusing online dating sites for a while now. I finally met someone I click with and she suggested we meet. The thing is, she's suggesting that we go for a hike together, but I think that a 2-hour commitment is not a good idea, especially if we don't click in person.

How can I tell her that I'd like to meet for a 30-minute coffee instead without insulting her?


Steven, the idea of going on a hike for a first date is creepy by any means. I mean, if a guy asked a girl to do that, I'm sure that all kinds of alarm bells would sound in her head.

What you can and should do is tell her the truth - that you would prefer to meet up for a quick coffee instead and save the hike for the next date. You don't have to tell her why, exactly, but if she asks, be honest about it. Don't start off a potential relationship on a lie.

There's nothing wrong with telling her that there's a possibility you may not click. Hell, she might be the one who ends up not clicking with you.


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