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Askmencom Releases Male Survey Results

AskMen.com released the results of their survey today, and the answers that over 50,000 men gave have thrown us for a loop. Here are some numbers for you to crunch.

According to AskMen.com's audience, 68% OF MEN BELIEVE THAT THEY HAVE A SOUL-MATE AND ARE EITHER SEARCHING FOR HER OR BELIEVE THEY HAVE FOUND HER.

Almost 50% OF MEN WOULD NOT BREAK UP WITH A GIRL IF THEY REALIZED THAT SHE SIMPLY WAS NOT WIFE MATERIAL. Instead they would drag the relationship on and keep the free sex until she decides that waiting 7 years for a ring is enough. Then she'll be 43 with no husband and no kids and will be become bitter and angry. But I digress.

Over 70% OF MEN BELIEVE IN THE INSTITUTION OF MARRIAGE and plan on getting married in the near future. 15% believe in it, but never plan on getting married.

Only 10% OF MEN THINK ITS INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT FOR THEIR FUTURE WIVES TO SIGN A PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT. And yet, over 80% AGREE THAT MEN GET COMPLETELY SCREWED OVER BY THE COURTS DURING DIVORCE PROCEEDINGS. Suckers.

A whopping 70% OF MEN STATED THAT THEY WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON THEIR WOMEN, even if there was no chance of ever getting caught. Now that is good news for women everywhere. Of course, the men were sober when filling out the survey.

Among the things that men would love to change about their women:

24% moodiness

24% sexual appetite

17% nothing

The rest of the numbers are too small to mention.

The results were split on whether men would dump their girlfriends if they became fat. But then, over 50% OF MEN CLAIM THEIR PREFERRED BREAST SIZE IS A C CUP. Unfortunately, most C cups come with"'"hips. But when all was said and done, over 65% of men wouldn't change their girl's breast size.

Chivalry is not dead; over 70% OF MEN BELIEVE THAT THEY SHOULD PAY FOR MOST, IF NOT ALL, DATES while dating.

Over 80% OF MEN HAVE NO PROBLEM DATING A WOMAN WHO MAKES A WHOLE LOT MORE MONEY than they do. Bull.

Over 50% OF RESPONDENTS ADMITTED THAT THEIR PARTNERS KNOW NOTHING ABOUT THEIR SEXUAL FANTASIES. That's so sad. But then, over 40% of them have fantasized about their women's friends. Maybe that has a little something to do with it.

60% OF MEN WOULD TAKE THE MALE PILL if it were available. Yay!

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Flow By Brad

I WAS JUST READING SINNS SWAGGER ARTICLE WHEN I JUST GOT A THOUGHT.

You see, I've never really told anyone my overall philosophy on attracting women. Likewise, I realize that I'm probably not the best in the world at "the game"... nor do I want to be.

I'm an 80/20 guy. (think 4 hour work week)

Here's what I mean.

According to Pareto's Principle, roughly 20% of your actions are going to make up 80% of your results in almost any situation... from work, to sports... and yes... even in your

Interactions with "the ladies"...

Likewise, roughly 20% of your results are going to be directly attributed to the other 80% of stuff.

If you want to be above average, finding the 20% that produces 80% of your results is all you need...

... and it takes less time.

If you want to be GREAT... (think the Michael Jordan of game), then you need to not only get your above average stuff in check... but you spend a lot MORE time on the other stuff... a LOT MORE.

Personally, being above average is fine for me. I just like interacting and finding good chemistry with women.

I don't care about trying to fuck every hot girl I lay my eyes on... but some people do. It's just too much work for something that just isn't that important to me.

GET YOUR FLOW IN CHECK

I call the 20% that gets you 80% your "Flow"

"Flow" is just like it sounds... which is why its such a great metaphor.

It's unattached to a result... it's flexible to any outcome.

It's adaptable

It's strong and torrent when it needs to be... yet, calm and relaxing as well.

In other words, someone with good "flow" is:

Confident and Secure - they don't need to dominate every interaction to "prove" their worth, yet they can take control of a situation in a moment's notice

Adaptable and Unattached - they have fun and mingle well with people, yet are unassuming with any particular outcome.

Good "Flow" is a manifestation of all of this.

Charisma is a form of good "flow"... but not all of it.

Just think of how water "flow" through cracks... around rocks... through tunnels.

It goes where it needs to go to get where its going. It has no defined path.

Throw a rock in the river... it goes around it.

Here's the kicker, women love to "ride" good "flow"... and I swear I'm not trying any sexual innuendo.

I may not be explaining my "flow" phenomenon in the best of terms... but if you sit back and think on it... you can see where I'm going with this.

BOTTOM LINE: First things first - Find your 20% that gets you 80%. Then decide how "good" you want to be. You may find that being GREAT with women, just isn't worth it... like I did.

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The Romance In Dating Men

"Let us go then, you and I, when the evening is spread out against the sky, like a patient etherized upon a table; Let us go, through certain half-deserted streets..." That is Thomas Stearns Eliot or better known as TS Eliot who spoke these lines during the Romantic Era. Yes, I am fascinated by romance especially here in the most romantic place on earth - Europe. Romance for me is not just about the physical attraction but being able to relate to a person's emotional level. That is, when you are able to share your feelings with a person and being vulnerable and opens to that person. The emotional connection is like communication, there are sender and receiver. For dating, it should also have this connection especially when you already know your date well.Dating and men can be both exciting as it is so hold on and let me share with you tips for dating I have learned from observing couples in Europe and from my own experiences as well.

BE PREPARED TO DATING

If you want to succeed in dating and men hunting, commit to it. Just like any endeavor, it won't work if you are half-hearted. For dating to be successful, you put extra effort in it. Research and find out what you want out of dating, prepare yourself for rejection and commit that you'll not give up. You can also research about your date - his interests, friends and favorite hang out place.

PUT EFFORT TO LOOK BEST

Start doing things for you to look at your best. You can read health magazines to learn, join in a gym and start a diet and getting fit. Have a good hair style that goes with your face. This may not find you a date but for dating to be a good one, it is helpful if you do things that will make you feel confident. Dating and men both requires you to look attractive for them to find you irresistible.

CONSIDER YOUR PLANS WHEN DATING

Reflect on the things you want to gain from dating and your time frame. Do you want to get married two to three years from now? Then approach to dating appropriately. If you do not yet consider marriage, then ask yourself the reasons why you engage in such activities. For dating to be effective, make sure you are honest with your reasons with your date. Dating and men you go out with need to be coordinated with your goals as well.

BE WITH ENCOURAGING AND SUPPORTIVE PEOPLE

Be with people who will support you in your aims in dating. For dating to be fair, don't go around with people who feel negatively about relationships,dating and men. You may also start attending social gatherings where singles go.

ENJOY DATES AND HAVE FUN

Dating and men- meeting should be fun and stimulating. It is spending time with people who may be your partner or friend. For dating to be efficient, offer interesting things about you and get interested also to your date's stories.

For dating to be real, do not just focus on the physical attraction. Pay attention to the emotional attraction- if you can keep up with the person, if he can accept you and if he can stay with you. To achieve this, talk about your past lessons, your personality and the things you live by. This way, you can know each other better. In dating and men, be honest and open.

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The Art Of Story Telling

Have you ever been around someone, or even seen someone on TV who can hold your attention completely and draw you in? Would you like to have these same skills and apply them to your interactions with women, people in general, and even for public speaking? Here's what you do:

NO "ERRRS, UMMMS, ANDS"

Remove these things from your speech, ummm, because, errr, they are redundant and make people lose interest. Analyse your speech and you will either errr, ummm, or use the elongated "and" to fill space between thoughts. What do you need to do instead?

USE PAUSES

A pause draws people in, it is a tool of politicians and skilled public speakers. By pausing at key points people start to hang on your every word. Try it out, coupled with the above, you are already better than 99% of people.

BE EMOTIVE WHEN SPEAKING

Or at least seem to be doing so. Speak with passion. If you do not seem enthusiastic or passionate about something, it doesn't matter how interesting the thing is that you are talking about, people will lose interest.

If you do this right, women will get caught up in your story and start to feel emotions too. Tony Robbins is an excellent example of someone who seems to always speak with passion and emotion.

EYE CONTACT

Make eye contact with the woman or with each member of the group. Never look down, and don't look away. When you make eye contact with someone, they pay more attention. If you are looking away, their attention can wonder and they will lose interest. With a group, pay attention to each member of the group so that you keep them all interested.

GESTURES

Use of gestures is something that is most important with larger groups. Movement catches the eye's attention more than anything else, so if the group is too big to hold eye contact with, use of gestures will help to keep them focused on you.

FACIAL ANIMATION

Being expressive in your face draws people in. Try to hold a poker face when speaking about something really fun and see the negative effect. Emotion expressed generates an emotional response in the woman.

TONALITY

A sure-fire way to hold attention is to vary the voice tone. This takes practice, and shouldn't be taken too far, but a bit of voice tone variation adds a lot. Try reading the most interesting thing in the world in a monotone and you'll see what I mean.

If you follow all these tips, you will be better socially, more successful with women and could be a great public speaker or salesman!

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Check Your Ego At The Door

Let's talk a little about relationships today...

Anyone who has read me knows that there is something I say over and over again (because it is so important!): To be able to truly love yourself and to truly be able to love someone else, you must drop the ego. This is absolutely essential to finding an amazing relationship, but it's equally critical to maintaining and continually improving a relationship once you're already in it.

Nothing will kill a relationship (even the best of relationships) more quickly than ego. Here are 6 ways your ego can kill your relationship, and how to avoid having your ego ruin your relationship.

1.RESIST THE TEMPTATION TO DEFEND YOURSELF: Think about the number of times you've fought with a significant other, and whenever things get a little heated you start to defend yourself. All you hear is you being attacked, and you immediately go into "defending yourself" mode. Do you know that when you defend yourself in a fight, what's really happening is your ego is defending itself.

It also means that you've stopped listening to the other person. If someone tells you that they don't like the way you've been acting lately, why not hear them out instead of defending yourself? It will almost always create a MUCH better outcome.

2.TO LOVE YOURSELF AND SOMEONE ELSE COMPLETELY YOU MUST SEPARATE THE EGO: In order to truly love someone, you must separate your ego from yourself. This is also true if you want to be able to totally love yourself. Now, I know that in a perfect world, we would never be ego-driven. This is not a perfect world of course, so let's get real. We are all ego-driven to some extent or another, so let's acknowledge it and embrace that we need to separate the ego to cultivate and maintain a truly amazing relationship with someone.

3.YOUR EGO CAN RUIN ANY CONVERSATION: The truth is that no matter how much you prepare, plan and hope for a good conversation with your significant other, your ego is the one thing that will consistently ruin any conversation you're about to have if you let it.

Let's say your significant other is frustrated with you in one way or another and really needs to express something about that to you. How do you respond? If you let your ego get involved and you defend yourself, it means that you're not listening to them.

In order to really listen to somebody, it's uncomfortable. Sometimes your significant other has things that are really bothering them about which they want to talk to you, but which you would rather not hear. To maintain a great relationship, however, you can't let your ego keep you from really listening.

4.YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO DROP THE EGO AND LEARN TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP: If you want to really be able to get deep with someone and take your relationship to a deep level, then you need to be able to take your ego out of the equation. You will always attract somebody who is just like yourself, because you really attract who you are as a person. Also, your significant other is going to do things that you don't recognize. It may be voices, patterns, communication styles or other things with which you aren't familiar.

You need to be open and able to learn these things about your significant other, and your ego will keep you from doing this every time. All of us need to learn things about our significant other every single day. We need to learn our significant other's communication style, because many times your communication styles will be very different.

5.DROPPING THE EGO DOESNT MEAN YOU NEED TO CHANGE WHO YOU ARE: It can take a lot for you to drop the ego, really listen to your significant other and realize that they need you say something in a different way or understand how the way you communicate may make them feel a certain way. A lot of people misunderstand these kind of requests as being their significant other's attempt to change them. It's not.

They're not trying to change you, they are trying to improve the way you communicate with each other. They are trying to get the two of you to be able to communicate better than you ever have in the past. Don't let your ego get in the way. Embrace this!

6. EGO CAUSES THOSE LOW BLOWERS WHICH ARE THE BIGGEST RELATIONSHIP KILLERS: Do you get frustrated when you're having an argument with a significant other? Of course, we all do. When that happens, though, sometimes the ego will cause you to hurl what I call "low blowers" at the other person.

You're feeling hurt, so you lash out and say something you know will make the other person hurt too. It was not only hurtful, but inevitably something stupid. By listening to your significant other, instead of lashing out from your ego, you can get through an argument without these low blows and they will be much more constructive (and not destructive to your relationship).

So the next time you see your ego getting involved in your relationship, get rid of it! If you find yourself defending yourself or not allowing you to really listen, then you need to take a step back. Listen carefully to what's really being said, and use it to create the most amazing relationship.

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Chinese Soccer Girls Unusual Sports Activities

The biggest collection of CHINESE SOCCER GIRLS is unusual, according to Sports activities that the shortage of reserve talent is the key cause for its very deep level and the peaple has already realized the problem and started to focus on youth development of CHINESE SOCCER GIRLS for promoting the international youth soccer tournament is a way to give local youngsters opportunities that they perform to communicate and practice with worldwide teams so they can improve their practice and the social skills as well and also we have seen in BEIJING, as a very dynastic city, which has become a favored place to host popular worldwide sports events, particularly after the season in year 2008 the Beijing city OLYMPIC GAMES which is a youth SOCCER CONTEST has never been hosted there before which is inspired by the success and the huge impact of the youth SOCCER GIRLS tournaments in European countries and such as the Gothia Cup and also the Norway Cup, the Great Wall cup is trying to attract the Chinese boys and girls from all over the planet who love this amazing CHINESE SOCCER GIRLS SPORT, offering them the chance to spend a week to enjoy the contest and knowledge something unique techniques and with the good figures as well to mention.

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Secrets Of Lasting Relationships The Girlfriends Part

At the beginning of relationships, people are in love. There's no doubt about it. However, keeping the love in relationships alive is easier said than done. As a girlfriend, it takes true love, trust, respect, and determination to make it last long in order to make your boyfriend love you and feel loved at the same time. Making your partner happy is the other half of the main thing to do when it comes to relationships, so here are some pointers that I could share to make your love for him and his love for you grow stronger than ever.

You have to know the signs of true love. Most people will show their love on their partner in the way they feel it and the way they can express it. If you notice that your boyfriend gives you gifts almost every other day at the early stage of your relationship as a couple, you can assume that he wants to be treated the same way that he treats you. Lasting relationships are all about give and take. What you give is what you earn.

Pick out the appropriate words for the appropriate moments. A boyfriend needs constant reassurance and encouragement from her girlfriend that they are and will still be loved. If the words "I love you" tends to get overused, or you are not the type of girl to say it often, try telling him that in your own way that you are deeply in love with him. Men will reciprocate the way you treat him, so it is a win-win situation where both of you will feel being loved at the same time.

Remember that actions speak louder than words. As a woman, you should know that you tend to show your love through actions. Taking care of your boyfriend and doing everything you can to make him happy are sure-win means to make your love for him known and felt. It is true that a lot of men are not showy with their love based on actions, so you have to make the first move if the situation calls it. Do not wait like Princess Aurora or Rapunzel; you are not in a fairy tale, waiting for Prince Charming to come and kiss you. This is reality.

Self-assurance is a key to make relationships last long. Your boyfriend will never love you if you do not respect yourself. Remember that men love someone who respects herself at all. Being confident in who you are heightens the emotions of your boyfriend and make him proud of you as his girlfriend. This is very important in building strong relationships. Once self-respect crumbles to pieces, the relationship gives way and collapses. Confidence comes with wisdom and maturity on all things that govern handling relationships. So, you have to work hard on strengthening the very foundations of your relationship. Remember that all relationships are built up with love, trust, respect and openness. Do not let them to deteriorate over time.

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How To Have An Interesting Conversation By David Wygant

Here's a video in which I go into depth about making your conversations dynamic with women.

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Having an interesting conversation with another person involves a couple of things. Let's say, for instance, you're in H M, like we were just in H M hanging out.

We walked into H M, and we attracted people. How did we attract people in H M? We walked over, we grabbed the funny 6lb straw hat - which by the way, I think I'm going to buy, because they are really cool - and then what did we do?

Immediately I looked at you, Pete, and I said, "put the hat on, go over and ask this woman what she thinks of you in this hat." So you went over there and you talked to her.

What happens is that women will start seeing this - we're smiling, we're being goofy, we're trying stuff on - and then what did I do next? I started talking to the guy next to me. I said, "man, what do you think about this hat on me?" What we are doing is putting on a show.

So then the guy responded, "yeah, that hat looks good on you, let me see," and we talked for a minute. Then all of a sudden these two women started walking towards us and they were looking and whispering to each other before they even got here - did you notice that?

What were they whispering? "Wow, I want to meet these guys, let's slow down a little bit," and they slowed their walk down. So then I started talking to them, they decided which hat they liked best on me, they flirted, and if you noticed, the one girl shook her little ass as she walked out - did you see that?

She was basically being this horny little naughty girl, saying, "come and get me." She shook it, but she knew she was shaking it, you could see she was shaking it. All because of these types of simple little conversations and just having fun.

Now the security guard came over, because we were drinking water during all that, and he knew we were fun. He was watching the other people watch us. It's contagious! He was watching other people talk to us, and he saw everybody smiling, and thought, those guys are nice.

So he came over and said, "so listen, man, you can't drink that in here. My boss is going to kill me." So I put it in my pocket, and he said, "oh come on, man, I'm going to lose my job - my wife, my five kids..." So I said, "five kids? I thought you had six kids!"

So then he just said, "alright, man, just hide it, or put your thumb over it." That was how - it was just from being fun. I was already in a fun mood because we were in there for five minutes.

It's a stage. Whenever you walk in to a room - I don't care if it's a coffee shop, a toy store, or a restaurant - it's a game. It's your stage. This is why that all transitioned in that way.

Now, you have to realize that if you do this all day long, what you're NOT looking to do is to get 50 phone numbers all day, and then be a telemarketer on Sunday night calling each of them up - "hey, Debbie, this is David. David, the tall guy? 6'2"? No, no, no, I had the brown hair..."

No! You want to connect with people. You want to do this everywhere - and you'll see tomorrow, we'll do this everywhere we go - everywhere. Even though the exchange rate is 1.6, we're still going to go everywhere!

And what we're going to do is have a party. Everywhere we go. And by creating this party, you will eventually (over the course of the day) connect with somebody and get into a deeper conversation. It just happens naturally.

So don't try to 'escalate' every person you talk to. Be playful, and be okay with 30-second and 60-second conversations. And then when you find the one that you really like, then you'll walk directly over to her, because you're feeling so confident - people have been loving and digging you all day - and you're feeling so confident, it's incredible. You just walk into a room and you just ooze sex appeal in every way.

If you ooze sex appeal, what will happen is that women will start to notice you. And then the woman that you really want is going to start talking to you, and the conversation will just flow. You know when you get into a great conversation with somebody, it just flows, right?

But in order to get that to happen every day, you have to go out and talk to a lot of people, and warm up. That's how you get it. You're looking for that one, unbelievable connection every day. That connection is better than any drug, any alcohol, anything you can ever do.

That's how you get it done. Go download my Date To Win ebook, it'll get you started on the right track.

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Askmencom Releases Male Survey Results

Flow By Brad

GET YOUR FLOW IN CHECK

It's adaptable

In other words, someone with good "flow" is:

The Romance In Dating Men

BE PREPARED TO DATING

PUT EFFORT TO LOOK BEST

CONSIDER YOUR PLANS WHEN DATING

BE WITH ENCOURAGING AND SUPPORTIVE PEOPLE

ENJOY DATES AND HAVE FUN

The Art Of Story Telling

USE PAUSES

BE EMOTIVE WHEN SPEAKING

EYE CONTACT

GESTURES

FACIAL ANIMATION

TONALITY

Check Your Ego At The Door

READ MORE FROM DAVID WYGANT AT HIS WEBSITE.

Chinese Soccer Girls Unusual Sports Activities

Secrets Of Lasting Relationships The Girlfriends Part

How To Have An Interesting Conversation By David Wygant

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