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Dating Violence

IN YOUR EXPERIENCE, HOW LONG WOULD YOU ESTIMATE IT SHOULD TAKE FOR A WOMAN TO DECIDE WHETHER OR NOT SHE LIKES A GUY ENOUGH TO SLEEP WITH HIM?

To be perfectly honest, a woman has probably decided whether to sleep with you or not from the very first moment that she met you. Guys need to remember that a lot of the things that make them attractive, and which present them as a sexual option for women, are all communicated on a non-verbal level. All of those things which a guy does when he approaches a woman and tries to seduce her just serve to lead her because she can't do it herself. Women need you to be the one who leads things because that takes the responsibility off them. It is much easier and more comfortable for women to have sex if guys take charge and lead the way than if they try to do it themselves.

I've actually had the experience of having sex in broad daylight with a girl who was a virgin just an hour after we started our date. All that it took was for me to make her comfortable, flirt with her, and lead things in a sexual direction. That last step is the one which so many guys never take, but it is a lot less work than what they think.

HOW DO YOU PROGRESS FROM FLIRTING TO ACTUAL SEX? A LOT OF GUYS ARE A BIT NERVOUS OR AFRAID OF TAKING THAT STEP. IT CAN SEEM VERY OVERWHELMING TO THEM. EVEN THOUGH THEY WANT TO DO IT QUICKER, THEY ARE JUST TOO AFRAID TO TRY. WHAT WOULD YOU TELL THEM? SHOULD THEY JUST GO FOR IT AND DON'T MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT IF THE GIRL SAYS NO? IS THERE A METHOD OR SPECIFIC TECHNIQUE WHICH THEY SHOULD USE?

I think that the most important thing which guys should learn is how to touch women the right way. Learning how to touch women in a smooth way is going to make everything so much easier. The best resource which I can recommend is the Vin DiCarlo "Escalation Ladder" which is available online. This will teach you how to approach, touch, and seduce women as part of a smooth progression without any unnecessary steps. It will give you something that you can practise and apply in the real world.

The other thing that guys don't seem to realize is that women want sex and need sex from a man. So if you can't give her sex, then you are only good for a few other things in her life, like carrying out chores. Do you really want to be that guy in high school who does the homework for all the girls who he likes? You don't want to be that guy. You want to be the guy who she wants to have sex with. But that can never happen unless you get your head right and at least try to take the lead.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Webb - Dating Exercises
Derek Vitalio - Seduction Science

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Lr First Threesome Of 2007

A2damir is a PUA with some mad skillz. Anyone of his LR's is educational reading and a standard to aspire to. Here's an LR of his first 3some of 2007

whats up guys, havent posted here for a while.. i know i owe you guys a LR:HBAss, which i wrote 90% of it but never had the chance to finish it, im very busy this time of the year..happy new years to all..

last year i posted a "LR: first 3some of 2006", well i have a new "LR:First 3some of 2007"... and it happened on January 5th...not a bad start to the year..

for those who dont know me, i suggest you read a couple of my LRs to get familiar with my style...aight,so this i what happened...

it was friday night at the club, i usually wear jeans and a tight t-shirt ( im very jacked, i get so much attention and ECs when i wear t shirt, but this night i was dressed up like a gentleman, black dress pants, peach color dress shirt, and an orange and blue stripe tie with a suade jacket...so i couldnt use my muscles as an advantage...

oh btw this goes to show it really doesnt matter what you wear ( which i always preach, dont spend alot of time on peacocking, just peacock your body and your all set)...

so about an hour later, i see 2 chicks, one brunette and the other redhead, the redhead was a 7, fuckable, but a lil chubby, the brunette was a 9, nice body, and probably the best pair of titties in the club that night...i did a quick math, 9+7= 16, divided by 2 = 8... i fuck 8s and above, so i decided to game both of them.... i was on the vip section, and the 2 chicks wanted to come up there, but the bouncer had to make sure they had a special stamp to get up there, i told him to let the chicks come up there although they werent VIP...

so the chicks came up there, they knew I had put in a word for them

me: hey you guys gotta behave up here now that i put my neck on the line for you

Brunettewith an accent) thank you, why didn't he let us come up here?

me: ( there were alot of chicks up there) oh nothing this is my harem up here, he didnt know i was adding to it tonight.

Brunette:your what?

me: my harem

Brunette:whats a harem

me: ( she ruined he whole joke) nothing it means its my party up here and you werent on the guestlist

Brunette: is it your birthday?

me: no where are you guys from you have an accent

Brunette: Quebec

me: ( to the redhead) you too?

redhead with a slightly less accent than the brunette) yeah

me: so what bring you down to my neck of the woods?

Brunette:your what?

me: ( aight fuck it, i'll treat them like im running an ESL class from now on... and i knew this was gonna ruin my game, cuz alot of shit i say is witty and these chick had a hard time understanding english) my neighborhood, my city.

Brunette: we want to visit most american cities

me: what language do you speak?

Brunette: french

me: ( to the redhead....i didnt want her to feel ignored) you speak french too

redhead: yes

me: well you guys have fun up here, if you need anything come find me, you cant miss my shirt

( both of them laughing)

Brunette: ( put her hand on my arms to touch the shirt ) i like the color

me: yeah that makes 2 of us in the club

redhead: it looks nice on you

me: thank you, let me introduce you guys to the bouncer just in case you wanna go in and out of the vip section and im not around

Brunette: oh thank you very much

(takeaway # 1... it wasn't as strategic as my others cuz I really had to go see some other friends in the club too, but you can call it a takeaway)

anyway, i introduced them and i went to mingle... i had alot of friends up there and in the club, mostly chicks too, even at one point i the vip section 2 of my friends came on the stage, both of them are just a notch down from HBGodess, but they are deffinately both HB11s or even more, almost everyone was staring at them,

they came one of them screamed and jumped and hugged me in front of everyone, they bought a round of shot for me, then they wanted to go to another club which the door was closed cuz it was packed, but i walked them in the backdoor,,, an no i havet fucked those 2 chicks yet, and probably wont...

they have " a special circumstance" which i wont get into...

btw my fucking eyes are watery and killing me right now cuz im on a plane and writing this, and this dude next to me was bascially reading everything i was writing, i would look at him and he'll steal his eyes off my laptop, so now im writing this with a fontsize 5 or 6, so fucking small i cant see shit..

anyway, i had left the club to take those 2 megahotties to the other club, and then i went back to the vip area... im rushing these part, i probably had spent 25-30 mins with those 2 chicks, talking, one of them had their ass against my body very friendly talking and shit...so when i went back on the vip section i saw the 2 initial chicks, honetsly i had totally forgot about them cuz those 2 mega hottites had elevated my blood pressure and testosterone levels...

Brunette: you have a very beautiful girlfriend

me: thank you, i'll let her boyfriend know when she finds one

Brunette: she wasnt your girlfriend?

me: oh you dont know why they threw this party for me up here tonight ? ( BS, it wasnt my party i just made that up)

Brunette:no why?

me: they are celebrating me being single

( both of them laughed)

Brunette: really?

me: sort of

redhead: what do you mean sort of?

me: it means im single but they arent celebrating that, or at least they wont tell me that to my face cuz it would make me feel like a piece of meat

( both of the laughed again)

at that point i saw a very good girlfriend of mine and i excused myself from the 2 Canadian chicks to say hi to her,

and doing yet another takeaway from the Canadians.

10 mins later i leave the vip area and go chill with another bouncer, then someone from behind basically walked through me, bumped me on the side and kept walking, and it was the Brunette... i didnt think much of it at that point, i thought she was drunk, i spilled my drink and the bouncer wanted to kick them out cuz he thought they were drunk, ut i was like fuck it let them have fun... 6-7 mins latr the same thing happened but not as hard as the first time, again it was the brunette..

now i deffinately thought she was drunk..but again i let her get away with it.

i go back up on the vip section and i see her, and as soon as she sees me she comes towards me

Brunette kinda hostile) is this your club?

me: no why?

Brunette: everyone knows you here, are you the manager

me: nope, i just have alot of friends, so you guys having fun?

Brunette: yeah its fun, what time does the club close?

me: in about 20 mins, do you guys have a hotel?

Brunette: yeah we got a room

me: where?

Brunette: on commonwealth avenue ( ray you probably know which ones she's talking about, they arent hotels, kind of like 4 story building with different units on each floor)

me: are you guys gonna go to an after party?

Brunette:no

me: why not? are you guys that boring?

Brunette: no we have to get up at 7 tomorrow and drive back to quebec.

me: so, that doesnt mean you cant party tonight

Brunette: then we cant get up early

me: i'll wake you guys up myself how is that

Brunette: we'll see

me: ( those titties were still top titties a the club that night) thats fine we can just party at your place so you can just sleep there

Brunette:what party?

me: nothing big, i'll get some alcohol and come over and have a couple drinks and chill

Brunette: are you coming alone?

me: i can bring this whole club if you want to

Brunette: my friend wants a guy too ( she fucked up, at that point i knew i was getting laid, she gave it, they were probably talking about me and as TOkyoPUA once said, they "Splitted the dick between themselves"... so i knew they were seducded... ok now there is this black bouncer, tall dude, i kept telling him about the chicks i fuck and every hot girls he saw at the club i had claimed to him that i had fucked her,

so now it was time to back my shit up for him, not that i had to prove anything, i was looking for a wing, so what the hell... oh i think in my LR: My Masterpiece, i say the N word and some dickhead started all this shit about me being racist and how it was inappropriate to use that word and blah blah blah... well you see homie, i fuck chicks with black dudes, i roll with black dudes too so get your head out of your ass and stop looking for an excuse to play the race card,,, specially on this board)

me: how about this bouncer here? he's the one that let you guys come up here

Brunette: ( said something to her friend in french)

Brunette: yeah ok ask him if he wants to come

so i asked him, and he was cool with it... i'll skip through the rest of the night ( I spent the rest of the night with them, gaming them more and maintaining their interest level), after the club was over, i asked them if they wanted a ride, but she said their apt was close by and they'll just walk, i got their phone number, their address ( which # on comm ave). their room #, and she even gave me the passcode to buzz myself in to the main entrance...

so i waited for my wing to get out of work, he was with his boy, so we go to teh front of the apt, my friend double parks and his boy just sits in the car and waits, and i parked on the st. i called her, she told me she had just got their and was walking up the steps and she'll come down and open the door for us..

anyway we go up...the redhead was horny, she went to the bathroom and i basically pushed my friend in their with her and they shut the door, i went and grabbed the Brunette from behind and she said " go sit on the bed i have things to do... she was getting most of her shit ready for the next morning, it took her 3-4 mins to get them straightened out, then she started changing into her PJs...

man she took her top off and damn, she had the nicest pair of NATURAL titties... no i take that back, second best pair of natural titties that i had ever seen in my life, i only saw it from the side..., then she wanted to take her jeans off, she told me to look away

.. that pissed me off... its aight though, she wanted to play hardball now..so she changed, and she came stood in front of me, i was sitting on the side of the bed... she called her friend, they came out, and then the bitch said " ok nothing is gonna happen tonight we have to sleep because we have to wake up early tomorrow"..

oh no no no... i didnt give up all those other lays for nothing...

me: what happened to partying?

Brunette: sorry to decieve you, but nothing is gonna happen. ( decieve? interesting choice of word)

( remember what i said about not having the muscle advantage because of my dress shirt, i loosened my tie and told her i dont wanna wrinkle my shirt and took it off... she paused for a good 5-6 seconds just looking at me... )

Brunette:you have huge arms

me: yeah i know ( cuz now i was pissed), so you guys wanna start the party?

Brunette: no i already said we have to get up early tomorrow ( she still not buying in)

me: yeah yeah that decieve thingy you talked about... ( with my shirt off i walked up to her, she was sitting on the side of the bed and i was standing, i put my hands on both side of her face, held her face and gave her a kiss on lips and said

me: have a good night sweetie and drive safe tomorrow, i'll call you at 7 and wake u guys up tomorrow ( and with my head i signaled to my friend lets get out of here... )

Brunette:no you dont have to go

me: i have alot of fetishes but watching a chick sleep isnt one of them

Brunette laughed, maybe a fake laugh I dunno) you guys can sleep over if you want, we can all fit ( they had 2 queen beds which were against eachother, so i winked at my wing meaning WERE IN BUSINESS and started seperating the 2 beds per their request) they also had another sliding /folding bed...

so anyways, it was a lil awkward, nothing like this specifically had happened to me, but one thing was for sure... i will never be alone with a chick, be in the same bed with her, and have my shirt off, and not fuck the chick, so i knew i was laying her, it was just a matter of strategy...

so she's laying on the bed, with her back against me, my dick is against her perfect ass and im getting a hard on, and i put my arm on her shoulder, she grabs my arms, brings it under her arms and put it on her chest and she is holding my hand too... try visualizing that... oh btw my eyes are really killing me now.. i see the guy next to me try to look at it but he cant see shit....fuck i cant see shit either...lol I guess his eyes must hurt worse than mine...

so i kiss her on the neck and whisper in her ear

me: your in a bad mood, you should loosen up

Brunette:no im not in a bad mood

me: yeah you are, you seem to have alot of stress, let me give you a back massage

Brunette: i have to sleep

me: i know, you can sleep while i give you the massage, you'll wake up feeling great

this is where a lot of guys fuck up, and end up not banging a 100% lay... you see whats going on here? Im the guy that had a pussy buffet at the club, and I chose her, now she wants to hold back on sex thinking I'll be begging her to have sex with her, but instead im laying down there next to her, I haven't touched her ass or titties or anything ( she put my hand close to her tits not me), and im offering to give her a massage so she would wake up feeling better... not even once do I mention sex to her...

( and i started rubbing her back and body,I massaged her for a couple of mins, but fuck her she didnt deserve a massage)

me: turn around i wanna see your face

Brunette: ( she did without hesitation)

me: ( just looked at her and kissed her, and then we started making out)... (again, I haven't SAID anything, she's just following her heart..sounds romantic eh?)

i'll rush some parts now, my boy and the redhead went to the bathroom and i think they had sex, cuz my boy was done in like 5 mins, and i was still making out but we were both naked and she was rubbing all over me...

so my boy wants to leave now, and the brunette says he cant leave and he has to stay ( they didnt wanna feel like sluts, fuck em and leave em sort of thing... u think the same Ray?), so i told them my boy had double parked and he's gonna go move his car and come back and i winked at my boy meaning he doesnt have to come back..

he leaves, and the brunette was smart, she says if he (my boy) doesnt come back i cant have sex with her cuz i'll probably do the same thing( fuck her and leave her), and i was like " ok if he doesnt come back in 5 mins i'll leave".. i knew she didnt wanna me to leave..the damage was done, poor girl couldnt do anything now but put up some last minute resistance sruggles...

at first i was gonna show her some more power, wait the 5 mins and then tell her " hey my friend didnt show up so im gonna leave", and i knew she wouldve wanted me to stay which gave me the upper hand again but i was like fuck it, i started making out with her again, a good 7-8 mins went by she didnt mention anything, although the redhead couldnt shut up, she kept talking, she went and turned the radio on, she seemed impatient,

this meant one of the 2 things im my opinion...( ray add more if you think of anything else)

1) she was horny and wanted to fuck me too, but she either wasnt that open with her friend, or maybe they had a pact and they had already "splitted the dick" as ray once said..

2) she was jealous, her hotter friend got the better guy, and now the redhead wanted to cockblock me and pussyblock ( yeah im coining this phrase) her friend...

only one solution to both those problems, join her in on the action..

me whispered in the brunette's ears) are you bisexual?

Brunette: we have kissed before but we wont do it for you

me: dont flatter yourself i didnt ask, your such a fag

Brunette: (laughed and bit my ear... ladies and gents, this is a HUGE IOI, that meant she just needed me to push her some more)

me:have you done more than kissing?

Brunette: why do you ask?

me: just wondering ( i think she got mad cuz)

Brunettewith a lil hostility) if you want her go get her ( but from the tone of her voice i think she meant that if you get her, you'll loose me)

me: i want you i thought i made that clear already ( and immediately french kissed her again( irony cuz they spoke french).. i kissed her to play with her emotions a lil)

Brunette: ( after we were done kissing, she paused for like 10 secs )i know you want her ( see...she brought it up again, did she want me to have her join us?Ray?)

me: no i want you, she is just an added bonus

Brunette: every guy wants 2 girls

me: im not every guy, 2 girls are boring for me now, do you have any other friends in this area?

Brunette laughed) boring?

me: yeah it gets boring after a while

oddly enough the friend had shut up for 3-4 mins now, so now i HAD to keep her awake just in case i talk her friend into a 3 some... anyway i wont bore you guys, i had to multi task like an intel core duo processor, keeping the redhead awake while not letting her cockblock me and at the same time showing 100% interest in the brunette chick and meanwhile try to show her that i want a 3some too... not easy brothas, not easy

at first i as unsuccessfull, so i was like fuck it, honey enough chit chatting now blow me ( i didnt say that to her in those words),

so she starts giving me head, after 4-5 mins she comes up, i tell her i want somemore, she said her mouth got tired ( btw she gave the worst head that i can remember getting... and this report is giving me the worse eye pain even), so i told her

me: maybe you should ask your friend to help you, sharing is caring

Brunette bursted out laughing)

so now the redhead wanted to know what she was laughing at, and the brunette told her

me: well...

brunette: well what

me: do you wanna share or not

Brunette: we havent done this before

me: its fun if you dont like it you can stop...

thats about it.... they both started giving me head and we fucked...

i'll discuss my exit strategy too since i havent posted here for a while i owe you guys...

ok so by the end of the night, chii chiing, jackpot i think she was in love, she did so many romantic things to me that only my previous girlsfriends had done, like romantic hugs and kisses and smooching, licking my toung and face and ears blah blah blah,

so she told me she wanted me to hold her tight from behind and sleep with her, so by now it was around 5:35 in the morning,... remember that she had to get up at 7 am right? i tried different strategies, first i told her that after the great night of sex i couldnt sleep for a couple of hours, i told her that so she might let me leave since i wont be sleeping, but she said " suprise me and wake me up in an hour and start making love to me"...damn god must've loved me tonight cuz that gave me the perfect exit route,

i told her that i dont have any more condoms and i have some more in my car ( oh at one point i had to go grab some extra condoms from my car), so i told her i have to go get some condoms from mycar which was bullshit, i had 3 more in my pocket, but i told her i have to go get some more, so once i leave i will not come back... so i slept next to her for 10-15 mins, it did feel good, she looked so cute all ucddled up and sleeping, so once her breath level reached a steady pace i figured she's asleep, i packed my shit and left....

she left 3 messages in the morning around 7:30, she sent me text messages... but it was all over, i wish i couldve left her on better terms

some thing that she said later on:

she did say she kept bumping into me on purpose to get my attention

she didnt like me talking to all the chicks, but she said at the end of the night i was in bed with her so she didnt care

my boy gave me mad respect the next day, he said that takeaway that i did was classic and got him and me a lay...

aight the pilot just said we gotta put away all electronics, so im gonna end this.. comments, criticisms all welcomed... i'll check back if you guys have any questions..

btw, this was probably one of the 6-7 lays that the chick never called me an asshole or cocky or something like that...

Credit A2damir MASF

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Simple Dating Mistakes That Even Smart Women Make

Have you just entered a new relationship or are simply trying to avoiding repeating prior mistakes? Here's our guide on being the smartest dater you can be.

* DONT BE TOO AVAILABLE. This does not mean to lead your partner on, it means simply to live your life for yourself. Indulge your passions and allow a little selfishness. Rather than constantly leave your friends to see him, tell him you're enjoying a girl's night out. It's no fun if there's absolutely no chase involved. When there is nothing to work for, it is a much less satisfying relationship so make him work a little bit and smile at the little guilty pleasure you can derive in seeing how bright his eyes light up when he does get to see you.
* SEEKING PERFECTION. We are not perfect. Humans are not perfect. Everybody has their own idiosyncrasies which determine who they are. There are some qualities we feel we must have but are they actually necessary? Movie-star looks would be nice to have, but there are so many more important qualities such as honesty and genuineness. He may be a mess when it comes to cleaning up, but don't let that stop you from loving him!
* FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF. When you're single and you see all your girlfriends in relationships, don't fall into the trap of jealousy. Don't fault your single status, embrace it. Date yourself. Consider joining ballroom dancing or visiting a sight or place you always wanted to see. Let love come to you and let it be spontaneous. Sitting at home wondering when Prince Charming is going to come is never going to happen because you have to be out there for him to find you!
* SEX TOO SOON. It is your operative whether or not to have sexual relations with a sexy stranger you just met. However, it can often be the wrong move if you are looking for a more long term love-interest. Men will often value you less when they feel they have already achieved the pearl of your love. When there is no work involved, men will become complacent and start to disregard you as always available. By not rushing into bed, it allows both of you too gage whether or not you should take things further and how quickly. Do not fool yourself into thinking he will be forever smitten; instead, take your time and enjoy the process.
* BELIEVING IN THE ONE. We have all heard the adage of finding and experiencing true love. But the world is vast and chances for love infinite. Don't let your ideas of what should be dictate your relationships. Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone has regrets they wish they didn't do. Let your love be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Rather than search for a perfect match, let yourself be open to shaping imperfection to a perfection that suits you.

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Women Cheat More Lie Better

It's about time that someone actually figured out that, yes, women do cheat more often than men and are 100 times better at lying about it.

While men always had a reputation for being the cheaters, nowadays, it only makes sense that women are the ones doing all the cheating.

According to DR. DAVID HOLMES, psdychologist at Manchester Metropolitan University, women are cheating like crazy, even though it seems that men are still winning at the game. Almost 20% of men cheat and bit over 15% of women cheat.

The big difference lies in the behavior: women can carry on an affair and live their normal lives without anyone knowing, whereas men always do something stupid like use their credit cards for hotel stays and get caught in a flash.

That's why I think that even the figures are skewed; women lie about affairs all the time so why would they ever admit they're having one to a survey?

In the days when it was almost considered normal for men to have a mistress, men worked, women stayed home and secretaries were the woman of choice for affairs. But now, many married women are working and they are surrounded by men - men who would be more than willing to have sex with them.

And let's face it; when it comes to extra-marital sex, more often than not, women have a host of options whereas men tend to have "Monica Lewinsky".

So it's only fitting that the numbers are changing and women are the ones who have been humping around.

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Tips On How To Find Love Online

Online dating has provided single men and women to be involved in a relationship and find love online. This method of dating has revolutionized how single people portray themselves in an online community. There are many benefits of using this method and countless people have already found their perfect match through a dating website. THE USE OF A DATING SITE TO FIND LOVE ONLINE The first step to participate in the online dating world is to look for the right dating site. You've probably heard of Match.com or eHarmony.com. These websites are popular for a reason. Many people rely on them to find love online. Numerous single men and women use these websites to choose their partner. Today, there are other dating websites in every region and every country. Some are fake and don't help at all while some are useful enough to find that special someone. There are also other websites built that focuses on specific groups of people. They categorize single people according to religion, race, interests, hobbies, and profession. For example, you can search for a match on JewishMingle.com if you're Jewish. POST A PICTURE Step two involves you posting a good photo. Physical appearance is the first thing that anyone will notice so make sure you pick a photo that makes you very attractive. Before looking at your profile or your interests, single people will first notice your photo. Be careful that you post the picture that best represents you. Other people will post an outdated picture of themselves hoping to look younger than they seem. Their online partner will eventually know what they really look like so there is no use pretending. WRITE A CATCHY INTRODUCTION In looking for love online, it's important to write a credible and creative introduction of yourself. It is an avenue to show who you are as a person so don't be afraid to more boastful than usual. However, don't overdo it and sound too perfect. The introduction should portray the real you and not somebody fake. Also, make sure that what you write is creative and original. Other people don't want to read something generic so make the effort to change things up a bit. For instance, don't just say that you love sports. Be more specific and state what kinds of sports do you like and who your favorite athletes are. Just be yourself and write something nice about yourself. SAY WHAT YOU LIKE In your personal webpage, you'll also be given the chance to what kind of person you are looking for. This is your chance to hope that someone will go to your page, view your photo, read your profile, hook up, and eventually find love online. It's important that you specify what you like and you don't like. This will help other people have an easier time selecting a match online. You wouldn't want to be preoccupied by single people you're not interested in, so make the effort to show others what you are really looking for in a relationship. Since this is the Internet, you'll hopefully find someone that matches your interests, hobbies, and passions. The Internet is a very good way to find a relationship and look for love online. Because it's a powerful tool, you have to be careful how to use it. If you're looking for a serious relationship, then create your page in a serious manner. The world is filled with many single and lonely people. Don't be one of them by looking for love online.

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Blind Date Tips On How To Know A Total Stranger

Blind date and love at first sight is not the same thing. Many people do get confused between these two terms. Blind date is an organized procedure where two unknown people meet at the predefined place. We have seen many successful relationships and marriages that are result of such dating technique. Are you planning to adopt this technique in future? If yes, then please consider various points as well. It is mandatory for a person to wear the correct attitude whenever he/she leaves home for blind date. Since you are meeting the person first time, then you can expect some extra consciousness, stress and mistakes.

The basic difference between blind date and regular date is the finding the date process. Usually, your friends, colleagues and cousins can help you to better to enjoy blind date. Many people find difficulties to find a date especially when they do not have good friend circle. People who have good presence of mind, sense of humor and right attitude can win the blind date easily. Please make sure that you make minimum mistakes and do not talk much about yourself. Let your partner to speak so you can know him/her better.

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David Shade Eye Contact Experiment

David Shade is the author of whats generally considered the best sex manual in the community.. called David Shade's Manual. Highly recommended.

Here's one of his earlier posts that are recommended advice for newbies (or even experienced PUAs) on eye contact.

> I've been reading the many helpful posts by all the experienced

players.

> I was wondering how the experts utilize eye contact. Do you guys when

> you first see a girl you like try to establish eye contact? What

> happens after you get eye contact? For some reason, when I make eye

> contact with a girl, I feel like I'm violting her in some sort of way.

> It's as if a girl can sense that I'm lusting after her with my eyes.

That's what you want her to sense.

I posted this once, and I will cut and paste it again...

Eye Contact Experiment

I asked one woman friend of mine "why did you go out with him?"

and she replied: "because when I looked at him he kept eye contact with

me."

When I recall the very successful people I have had the pleasure of working for in the

corporate world, I remember that they all maintained eye contact while speaking to me.

When you watch somebody successful being interviewed on TV, like Scott McNealy of

Sun, you notice that they never look away from their interviewer's eyes

and they rarely blink.

You are approaching a chick in the hall as you walk towards each other. When should

you look at her? (Her eyes, silly. If you look at anything else, it's over.) I have tried

all

combinations. If I wait until the last instant, I either find she is not looking, or, if

she is

looking, she quickly looks away. If I look at her and she looks at me and I look away,

then she never looks again. Then I tried something bold and decide I will look at her

eyes the entire time. To my amazement, she gazes like a deer into headlights. Never

breaks eye contact. So I decide to try this little experiment.

Recently I spent a week attending meetings in one of our buildings filled with educated

successful professional women in their 20's and 30's. Most are definitely doable. Some

are gorgeous. Some are married, some are not. I spent my time between meetings trying

this: I would pick a different floor and I would walk down each hall, walking just

slightly

to the right of center. When I saw a woman walking towards me, I maintained looking at

her eyes. Only the heavy ones did not keep looking. But for all the others, including the

gorgeous ones, they maintained eye contact the entire time. I never blinked. They never

blinked. They broke eye contact only when we were just about next to each other. I

broke eye contact only after she did. What really amazed me was that by the time we

passed, almost every chick had broken a smile. Some even said "Hi." I did not smile or

say Hi until they first did.

These halls were not long. Each woman was no farther than 30 feet away when I first

saw her. But what if it had been a very long hall? How far down the hall should I start

looking at her eyes? I certainly don't want to scare her. I look straight ahead, and then

when she is about 30 feet away, I start looking into her eyes.

I then went to the mall a few times to try the experiment there. Most did not look at all.

Of those who did look, most only looked for a second. Only about a third locked on. Of

those, about half broke a smile or said Hi. A couple of them where so moved that they

almost tripped.

Do you have to be walking? I tried the experiment while sitting. Almost none maintained

eye contact. Do they have to be walking? While I was walking I would look at any

chicks who were sitting. The results were the same as if we were both walking.

If I was approaching two chicks, and looked from one to the other, I lost them both. So,

if I am in such a situation, I lock onto one and I don't change my mind.

If I smiled or said Hi, while she was still looking at me, but before she smiled or said

Hi,

it would usually result in my loosing her. On rare instances did it make her smile and say

Hi with enthusiasm. So, I never smile or say Hi until she first does so, and I smile if

she

smiles and say Hi if she says Hi.

If she did not lock eye contact with me, I would go ahead and say Hi when she got close

to me. In many instances she would then enthusiastically turn to me and smile and say Hi.

I would also look at chicks who were with a man if he was not looking in my general

direction. I was surprised at the number of times that she would lock on and actually

smile.

I noticed that the better I dressed, or the sexier I dressed, the better I did. I noticed

that

the women who looked where better dressed then those who did not.

Eye contact in a bar is an entire science in itself. When done correctly, it can be

fucking lethal.

Real players never stare. They lock eye contact. There is a difference between

staring and locking eye contact. They are two totally different things.

When you look at a woman, here is what you do. Lock eye contact with her. Don't

blink. Don't look at her friend. Pick one eye and don't let go. You only get one chance

at this. Don't give up. Don't smile. Don't say anything. You are telling her that you are

interested in her and you are not intimidated by her. Then leave it up to her. You will be

amazed at the staring capability that women posses.

She is thinking "Who is this guy to be so bold as to continue looking at me while I look

at him? Now this is interesting. He is different." She knows that if she lets go now, she

will loose you. She will go one of two ways. If she wants to loose you, she will break

eye contact and look away. If she does not want to loose you, but is instead intrigued by

what you are doing, she knows that she has to eventually end the stare down and she

will have to make the move. She will have to either smile or say Hi.

If she smiles, you smile. If she says Hi, you say Hi. Don't say Hello. Then you reward

her and make your move.

Of course, you don't always have to wait for eye contact to make your move.

Credit - David Shade website

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Webb - Dating Exercises
Derek Rake - Deadly Seduction Manuscript
David Deangelo - David Shade Interview Special Report

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Apocalypse Strauss

During the first half of this decade, New York Times and Rolling Stone journalist Neil Strauss courted infamy by co-writing and ghostwriting self-destruction memoirs for Jane’s Addiction and RHCP guitarist Dave Navarro, industrial metal bogeyman Marilyn Manson, modern porn icon Jenna Jameson and the baddest of hard rock’s bad boys, Motley Crue.

While documenting their exploits, he garnered his own notoriety as Style, a master pick-up artist. The memoir of that bizarre episode in his life, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists, was a sensation. He was envied by men, pilloried by women, some not even feeling the need to read the book before passing either judgment.

Also during this time, Strauss started seeing disaster at every turn. His neuroses manifested in an obsession with survivalism. From Y2K to 9/11 all the way up to Obama’s presidential victory, this newly repentant urbanite put himself into debt learning how to handle firearms, ride motorcycles, skin animals, build shelters, pick locks, and save lives. Preparing for the shit to really hit the fan, politically, economically and socially, Strauss learnt another thing – how to find peace in the inevitability of death.

The Enthusiast sat down with Strauss to discuss Emergency, the chilling, inspiring and hugely entertaining chronicle of his experiences. And, since our waiter conspiratorially whispered to Strauss, “Oh, I didn’t know you were in town,” as if he were Tyler Durden, we couldn’t help but discuss The Game.

The Enthusiast: So, after all this, are you a pessimist or a realist?

Neil Strauss: “First of all, all pessimists say they’re realists. Here’s the distinction: a guy named Lovedrop in The Game, one of the PUAs, said, ‘There are negativity avoiders and positivity embracers’. A positivity embracer is someone who walks around seeing the positive signs, everything’s rosy and the future’s going to be great. A positivity embracer writes a book thinking about the great reviews it’s going to get, how they’re going to be critically lauded and on all the talk shows. A negativity avoider writes a book saying ‘I hope nobody gives me a shitty review’. You’re still compelled to greatness but one is to avoid criticism and the other is to gain praise. I would fall into the negativity avoiders, because of the way I was raised.”

“I was born into a home where nothing was ever good enough. When the Marilyn Manson book hit the New York Times bestseller list I was like ‘Check it out, mum,’ and she says, ‘Well, that’s good but it doesn’t count unless it’s for two weeks.’ [Laughs] And when The Game made the bestseller list and I was excited that it was a book entirely by myself, she said, ‘Well, the Manson book was on for six weeks, so you gotta beat that.’”

Well, it’s obvious that both Emergency and The Game are driven by your insecurities.

“Totally. They’re really books about fear. One is fear of social and sexual humiliation and the other is fear of dying and fear of powerlessness due to economic and political forces you can’t control. And they’re solutions to that fear. Fear is usually due to ignorance, right? So getting knowledge, understanding and experience cures that. Therefore you’re no longer intimidated by social situations and the economic and political situations.”

It’s revealing to think someone learning how to fend for themself is so exceptional. Our generation doesn’t seem to have the physical capabilities, or the confidence in our capabilities, that previous generations have.

“That’s exactly why I did it. Because on the one hand it’s about disasters and terrorism but on the other hand it was just cool and grounding to know how to do these things: to walk outside and know what plants are edible, to know how to build a shelter, to find water, to know how to milk a goat and make some fuckin’ cheese [laughs]. This is what human beings did before we ended up learning how to write HTML code at 14 years old.”

So what is it about our generation not wanting to get our hands dirty?

“For me, it goes back to being a negativity avoider. One negative I want to avoid is death. My inspiration to learn and do all this shit is because I know I’m going to die [laughs]. Before I die I want to learn as much as I can.”

I almost welcome the apocalypse, because I’m curious to see how I’d handle it. Do you look forward to it?

“I’m at peace with death because I’ve done this stuff. In other words, if someone sprayed gunfire in here and we both got it in the head, my final thoughts would be, ‘Okay, that’s fine.’”

In both these books you emerge as some sort of uber-man. In The Game you became the ultimate pick-up artist and in Emergency you become a super survivalist. While writing, did you have to make efforts to humble yourself?

“I think it’s about being as honest as possible. Anyone who says, ‘I’m the king’, who is a total egomaniac, is obviously the most insecure person in the room. Why do you have to say that you’re better than anyone else? It’s not even logically rational. You’re saying it to compensate for your insecurities. So when I write something I’m trying to be as honest as possible. I’m not trying to purposefully humble myself, because embarrassing shit happens.”

But you should hugely proud of yourself.

“Not about urinating all over myself in a tent! [Laughs] Look, there are things people fantasise about; I’ve had some crazy post-Game experiences. To say exactly what would sound too much like bragging, but some of it was beyond what I thought was possible. And for most of it, the fantasy was greater than the reality. I also think with those who reach these achievements, who get really famous, it just magnifies what’s wrong with you. My interest wasn’t to be the best.”

“Both books never began as books. It’s not like I said to my publisher, ‘Let’s do a book on survivalism and a book on pick-up artists’. I started pursuing these things to make up for something lacking in my own life.”

All right, at what point did you know there was a story in all of these experiences?

“I can tell you the exact point in each book. In The Game it was when I was taking a road trip with Mystery to all these crazy places. It was during that road trip that I thought, ‘This guy’s crazy, this shit is getting out of hand.’ And finding that community was like finding an underground rock band that you want to share with everybody and you’ll know they’ll like it. With Emergency it was when I was with all the billionaires who were trying to escape the country. I thought, ‘This thing’s bigger than just my own weird ideas.”

In each book there’s a point where you indicate that you’re out of control. Are you excusing your actions?

“It’s possible to go into something too deep and lose perspective. Like every relationship that doesn’t work out. After you’ve gone in too deep and you step back, that’s when you have 20/20 hindsight.”

Taking notes at the time and writing them up afterwards gave you that perspective?

“I don’t really understand a book until after it’s done and I start doing interviews and I have to ask myself ‘What was that about?’ and try to explain it. Like when I told you that both books were about fear, I didn’t realise that when I was writing them, I just realised that afterwards.”

In part two of our interview with pick-up artist, rock’n'roll biographer and newly-minted survivalist Neil Strauss, we discuss his obsession with The Game of Love and The Game of Life, pandering to sleazebags, how to make a credit card into a knife, and how his new book Emergency has already saved lives. (Part one of the interview is here).

The events in Emergency and The Game happen concurrently with you writing The Dirt and the other biogs. Why isn’t there any crossover in either?

“There are teeny bits of overlap. You know that quote about ‘Life with the boring parts cut out’ or whatever it is? Obviously you cut out the boring parts. No one wants to read about me working 20 hours trying to finish a book on deadline. You just isolate parts of your life to what’s relevant to the story.”

So the survivalism obsession wasn’t as all-encompassing as it seems in the book?

“Oh, it was all-encompassing. As I was in Project Hollywood in The Game I started to get the idea that I wanted to get out. I didn’t have the idea for the book yet. But I would say definitely for the last year and a half it has been fully all-encompassing. There was so much knowledge I had to learn, condensed into such a short amount of time. Same with The Game, that was all-encompassing. I even left the New York Times while I was doing The Game.”

I thought you would be distancing yourself from The Game. You got a lot of stick for it.

“Yeah.”

You still stand by it?

“Most of the stick I get is from people who haven’t read it, because they think it’s some kind of lad’s manual.”

But you did do a manual, The Rules Of The Game.

“The Game was all the knowledge of everyone I’d met. Some I agreed with and some I didn’t. The Rules Of The Game is just what I thought worked. That way women can read it too and not be offended. I’m more interested in storytelling so I added the stories. I kinda have a rule with myself now: no more sequels.”

Where’s new material going to come from then? You were involved in The Game so heavily and survivalism so heavily…

“I actually have four more books under contract and I’ll probably write two of them before the end of the summer. One’s easy, it’s an anthology of stuff I’ve written for Rolling Stone and the New York Times. The other one, I had this idea for a book through my publishing company: no promotion, plain cover, just my name and the title. No illustrations. Something I just want to do for myself to get it out. After that I have two more books under contract [laughs].”

You talked about illustrations and Emergency has those instructional comics. Alongside a few little prose gimmicks and ‘This book will save your life’ coverline, I fear that you’re dumbing yourself down for your previous audience of sleazebags and rockdogs.

“I know what you’re saying. Here are two things: that ‘This book will save your life’ stuff? Obviously that’s just marketing. The cover is marketing, it’s not the book. The illustrations are another thing. First of all, I wanted to do some of the cool How-To stuff that didn’t fit into the book, just cool knowledge like how to pick a lock with a soda can, just cool subversive stuff in an Anarchist Cookbook sort of way.”

“To be honest, I never thought in a million zillion years that a publisher would ever let me print a book that showed someone how to turn a credit card into a knife. That I got that in the book, I was just waiting for the hammer to fall the whole time. When it was at the printers and gone, I’m like, ‘I can’t believe I got that in there.’ I thought they would freak out. I was actually going to put something in there about how to make a gun out of household items but the credit card is actually cooler.”

“The other reason is, it’s not like I’m trying to pander, I just get bored of myself. Like, 500 pages of yourself droning on and on? Sometimes your brain needs a break and so I put those [comics] in there. Same with the Jenna Jameson book, that’s a long freakin’ book for a porn star. Every now and then you just need a break from someone whining about their own life.”

Actually, you’re giving secrets away in both books. I mean, if you were trying to remain under the radar like you suggested in Emergency – not getting your fingerprints recorded and the like, although I know you give in towards the end – why is your address is in here about five times?

“I had someone change the numbers and information around, because another one of my paranoias extends to identity theft. The address goes to a PO Box, and the phone number I gave up and made into a voicemail.”

Why choose to do include them at all? For authenticity’s sake?

“Originally I blacked out certain information but it felt like I was holding something back. But here’s the main reason I put all the documents in there: for every book I’ve written, people ask one question. Like for the Dave Navarro book, people ask, ‘Is he still on drugs?’ For the Marilyn Manson book, ‘What’s he really like?’ And for The Game they all asked, ‘Did this really happen?’ I don’t want to get asked that again so I thought I’d provide evidence. Yes it’s friggin’ true because here’s my ID, here’s the napkin from the White House. And now no one’s asked me that question.”

You’re very willing to engage with your readers. There’s this weird cult around The Game and you stay in touch via a blog and mailing lists and whatnot. If Emergency also inspires people to try this stuff, you’re going to have another strange group surrounding you.

“Yeah, it’s weird. I’ve got emails from guys. As cheeky as the title may be, the book has actually saved people. Guys have taken CPR and first aid courses and one guy saved his mother’s life. He did CPR on her until the medics arrived.”

You’re saving lives, where previously you were ruining them!

[Laughs] “Exactly! Depends on the person, of course. Look, it’s not hardcore. I don’t think the world’s going to end. I don’t think an apocalypse is going to wipe us out or anything. It’s definitely scary that North Korea and Pakistan have nuclear weapons and the Taliban are making inroads there. There’s definitely some scary shit out there. But it’s far more likely for you to get in a car crash, or something like that. Not texting and driving is a good way not to die in a car crash. It’s amazing how often that happens.”

But you’re not preparing for accidents in Emergency; you’re preparing for disasters.

“But it’s as much about quelling anxiety as it is about preparing for disaster. It’s peace of mind, like insurance. As Spencer said in the book, about having health insurance and fire insurance, even though those things are unlikely, this is my insurance against the economy or politics or falling on the wrong side of the law.”

Suggested free e-books to read:

Herbert Rosenauer - What Are Biological Transmutations
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