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Stds Make Swedish Men Feel Manly

What's that itch? It's you, growing as a man. Now go get some antibiotics to clear it up and welcome to the world of STDs. According to a new study, STDs make Swedish men feel manly.

Apparently, according to University of Skovde researcher KINA HAMMARLUND, while some young people see themselves as unlucky, others undergo a process in which they learn from their mistakes and are more careful in partner selection. But there's a third group, a group that consists of only men between the ages of 16 to 30, that view their contraction of an STD as a trek into manhood.

Young men who contract sexually transmitted diseases like Chlamydia or genital warts think of them as nothing more than a "badge of honor". I'm guessing that no one told them that Chlamydia, if left untreated, can leave a man sterile. What's manlier than not being able to have children?

What's also noteworthy is that when it came to one-on-one time with KINA HAMMARLUND, the 50-year-old researcher, the women were at ease talking to her, but the men weren't. When it came time to have discussions in groups, the women became uncomfortable but the men opened up significantly.

Also, women are still embarrassed to ask men to use a condom, while men are afraid that if they pull out a condom too soon, the girl will trip out and leave. KINA HAMMARLUND admits that she is incredibly disappointed in the findings and claims that this proves that we still have not overcome gender stereotypes.

I'm still reeling over the STD as a necessary initiation into manhood. How did people get so stupid?

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Kiss Date

Date: 1. Meet girl.2. Rate her as a 7.3. Establish rapport.4. Get girl's number.5. Set up date a few days later.6. Pick her up.7. Cancel original plans to go hiking due to rain.8. Go to local indoor rock climbing venue, change mind due to excessive price.9. Contrive to have car temporarily break down.10. Decide to purchase food.11. Walk to restaurant12. Begin Kino, but tentatively. 13. Purchase food.14. Receive IOI of deliberate full body contact.15. Discuss family and religion (note need for better subject matter).16. Note her good girl status.17. Note improvement in the weather.18. Succeed in starting your car.19. Go to park.20. During journey to the park, note that she playing with gear stick.21. Wonder why she is playing with gear stick.22. Retrieve her hand from gear stick.23. Hold her hand for duration of the journey.24. Learn later (from third party) that interest in gear stick is an IOI.25. Reach park.26. Walk with your arm around her waist (note and enjoy adrenaline due to desire to kiss).27. Step off path28. State that you want to try something.29. In response to her curiosity, indicate your desire to kiss.30. Move in for kiss.31. Note her objection that she hardly knows you, respond that you do not know her either.32. Kiss her.33. Note her enjoyment.34. Continue walk.35. Find place to sit to continue kissing.36. Attempt second kiss.37. Note that she does not want to kiss again.38. Fail to push past objections, find objections amusing.39. Note that she questions your interest in getting to know her.40. Talk. 41. Lay back to look at stars.42. Cuddle.43. Note proximity (if she were any closer she would be on top of you).44. Note the novelty of cuddling.45. Enjoy novelty and proximity.46. Note the cold and your lack of insulation.47. Get up to return to parking lot.48. Joke about the difficulty of walking with your arm around her waist, due to disparity in height.49. Pick her up to go faster.50. Note the way she is looking at you.51. Put her down.52. Take advantage of the opportunity and kiss her again.53. Note her enjoyment54. Leave park.55. Attempt to return date to her home.56. Contrive to have car overheat.57. Park.58. Go on walk while car cools down.59. Hold hands.60. Note that she likes boating and other water sports.61. Mention that you own a boat.62. Contemplate possibility of future dates due to boat.63. Imagine date in a bikini.64. Enjoy mental image.65. Return to car and replenish radiator with water.66. Note need for new radiator.67. Return date to house. 68. Get final goodnight kiss.69. Be pleased with your lack of apology for the mishaps.70. Be happy.71. Text date the next day to indicate enjoyment of date and desire to repeat experience.72. Wait.73. Wait.74. Repeat step 71 two days later in voice-mail form.75. Wait.76. Wait.77. Wait.78. Realize that she is not going to call back due to buyers remorse.79. Note the need to calibrate horniness on first dates in order to achieve second date.80. Note the need to calibrate aggressiveness in pursuit of kissing.81. Be sad, but briefly.82. Accept date as learning experience.83. Note the overgrowth on the local "salix discolor".84. Soldier on.

Note: All notes are to self.

Alpha Game 2011

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Meeting Men At The Gym

The gym. It's a place where you can find guys who really care about their appearance and take very good care of their bodies. And if you're an avid gym-goer, then the man you want might easily be found at your local fitness center.

But how do you go about meeting men at the gym, let alone approach a guy you're interested in at the gym, when he's there to exercise and perhaps not socialize? The last thing you want to do is get rejected at the gym and then have to return there day in, day out, to wonder if he told everyone he knows that you made a lame attempt to ask him out (which is probably your female brain overanalyzing the situation anyway).

Nevertheless, there are ways to make your move on "Buff" without having to take up too much of his time or risk a potentially awkward situation. Here now, are some simple tips to sell you on the idea of meeting men at the gym.

MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #1

DONT WEAR HEADPHONES

If you tend to do your workouts with headphones on, you have to stop wearing them until you complete your mission (at least when you're moving around the gym or strength training).

When people wear headphones, it's sort of relays the message that they don't want to bother with talking or acknowledging others around them. You want to be noticed so put the headphones down.

MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #2

DONT DRESS UP

If you've been showing up at the gym without makeup and your hair in a ponytail, don't start putting on cat eye liner and styling your tresses. You're going to the gym; not a bar.

If you like, get a new gym outfit to update your look, but don't do anything that would indicate that you're trying too hard to get noticed.

MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #3

SMILE AT EVERYONE

While many of us go to the gym daily and never say a word to a soul while we workout quietly, your mission is to begin smiling at everyone from the staff and the janitor to men and women.

Of course, he's included in the "men" part, and you have to ensure that you smile at him as well, without making it seem like you're going out of your way to do so (that is, don't chase him around the gym and smile until he finally looks at you).

MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #4

SOCIALIZE WITH EVERYONE

It's time to brush up on your "hellos" and "how you doings". When you start talking to the staff and other members, working up to who you really want to talk to won't be such a big deal.

At some point, when you run into your target, say "Hello," and if he says it back, guess what? You've got a hello for a lifetime, and that's pretty good for now.

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Seduction Anti Gamers

Put every seduction guru in the context of his lifestyle, his target demographic, and the way he looks and everything will begin to make sense.

For example, anti-game gamers -- those that espouse developing the kind of internal charisma that acts as a magnet for women (minimizing the degree to which you will have to pander to her in your approach) -- are usually really hot. (I'm thinking of one person in the peripheral sphere whose picture I stumbled upon!) Guys that practise some degree of asshole game successfully are also usually reasonably attractive. Think of this in regards to Tucker Max.

An ugly guy approaching a girl at a bar could not get forgiven for being a full-blown dick the way a hot guy could. In the same way that hot men in general will generate more sympathy and oversight for their flaws from most women, at least initially.

A lot of newcomers to seduction make the mistake of adopting a seduction technique that is totally out of left field for their own idiosyncratic persona and then complain that game is ineffectual. Game isn't some uniformly effective homogeneous realm; it's simply a tool to optimize the results of what exactly you're working with. It's not a crutch for developing social skills or being an interesting person.

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Signs That Tell He Is Cheating

Not knowing whether or not you have a cheating boyfriend is one of the most excruciating experiences in a relationship. Why does he always go out at night? Is he really working? Does he have an affair with the office secretary? Is he really having a poker night with his buddies? Despite all these, the ultimate question is: Is he cheating?

No one wants to be blindsided by a cheating boyfriend so you have to do what it takes to tell if he is cheating on you. The following are signs that can tell if he is cheating. Remember, these are just small indicators and you have to really make sure you have a cheating boyfriend before you do anything rash.

LACK OF COMMUNICATION

You can tell if he is cheating if there is a distinct lack of communication. This involves a sudden decrease with the number of times you talk in day whether it's face to face, through text, calls, or email. You can't seem to get a hold of him and you don't what to do. You text him in the morning and he only replies to you later on that night. A cheating boyfriend is always on the move and talking to him would be near impossible.

LACK OF PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP

When you do get to see him, you can't really hold him like you used to. Every woman has her physical needs and so do you and your man is the only one that can satisfy you. However, he doesn't make the effort to touch, hold, hug, kiss, and even make love to you. When you reach out to hold his hand, he shuns away and doesn't seem interested. This can be a clear sign that he is already involved with someone else and he is cheating. A cheating boyfriend gets his sexual needs from another woman and not from his girlfriend. He doesn't want to get physical with you because he doesn't feel the need to. In other times, he might already feel guilty because he's touched another woman.

LACK OF INTEREST

At the end of the day, a cheating boyfriend can all boil down to a lack of interest. He doesn't want to make love to you or even talk to you because he's not interested anymore. Instead, he has already devoted himself to a relationship with another woman. You can tell if he is cheating when he always gets bored with whatever you are doing. On a date, you'll notice that you're the only making the effort to keep the conversations going. If not, there will be a lot of dead air between the both of you.

Fights also come from a lack of interest. You will eventually notice that you fight over the little things that don't even make sense. By now he's irritated by the mere sight of you and all he's thinking about is getting away. The truth is tough to swallow but there is a great possibility that he is cheating and you have a cheating boyfriend.

When it comes to relationships, you can never fully tell whether or not someone is cheating. Sure, there are signs but there's no clear cut way to determine a cheating boyfriend unless you catch him in the act. You can make all the assumptions but if he doesn't admit that he is cheating, the pain you're experiencing will continue. In any case, these signs tell you that it's probably time to let go and move on.

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Seducing Women In The Daytime

Most men restrict themselves to meeting women in bars and clubs on a weekend. But wouldn't it be nice if you could meet women all the time, every time you are out of your house. Adding the ability to do this will increase the number of women you can seduce massively, and the best part is, it's easier!

Day time seductions have lots of benefits and differences compared to night game:

* The girls are usually on their own (they probably won't be in the night!).

* The girls are not used to getting hit on in this situation so don't have a negative attitude towards it.

* You will be getting the real person - most people have a persona that they adopt in a club.

* Because you are both sober and being yourselves, any number you get in the day-time is a lot more solid.

* Meeting a guy in the day is a lot more romantic than "the dude in the club".

* You meet girls that don't ever go to clubs - a different type of girl. You also meet clubby girls too!

The process for a night-time pickup is very different, here's what you need to do in the day-time:

1. START THE CONVERSATION WITHOUT PUTTING TOO MUCH PRESSURE ON HER

The above is a must, if you can be funny too, then great. By pressure I mean asking her a personal question, displaying too much interest, or otherwise putting her under pressure. It needs to be very natural and relaxed. Canned lines and cheesy chat up lines are going to bomb. The best thing to do is say something situational, or to pace the conversation in her head. If she is looking at soup, talk about soup first, if she is waiting around in the cold, talk about waiting around in the cold. Examples of good opening lines would be:

Bookshop: "Do you know where the X section is? Oh you are so hired/fired as my librarian".

Supermarket: "I'm useless with wine and have someone coming for dinner who knows their stuff, can you recommend me a wine to go with".

2. KEEP ON TALKING UNTIL SHE OPENS UP

So you have said something, the tendency now is to ask a bunch of questions. Don't do that until she is comfortable talking to you. Do most of the talking, follow up your opening line with something that naturally follows. Notice things about her and comment on them. Make assumptions about what she is doing. After a while you will reach a point where her body language opens up and she starts to offer more to the interaction because she has gotten used to the (admittedly strange) situation.

3. Find Connections

Find things you share in common - interests, likes, and hobbies. You can get away with more personal questions once she has committed to the interaction. Now you are looking for a good opportunity - something you could do together.

4. GET THE NUMBER

If you find a common interest, suggest you do that together. If not, use the universal "we should hang out sometime", if she agrees, hand her your phone!

Get good at seducing women in the day-time and you'll be able to have a date every day of the week without going to crowded bars and clubs!

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Love Dating Tips Time To Get Freaky

Love and dating, these two topics are gaining lot of popularity day-by-day. In current world, every individual wants to fall in love and wants to enjoy the dating process as well. In order to cash this biggest opportunity, many online websites are providing online dating as well. Today, we are sharing some love dating tips for people.

LOOKS AND BEHAVIOR - Yes, it matters how you look. However, this thing matters only for few hours or days. Once you start dating or loving your partner, it is your behavior that counts.

SURPRISE - In order to add some spices in your relationship, please do not forget to give surprises to your partner, for example, you can make a sudden plan for a adventurous trip or present him/her a new dress etc.

RESPECT - When you are in love with someone, then you have to behave properly and respect the decisions of your partner. Same thing should be followed by your partner as well. Respect the decision and thinking of your partner.

CALL - Do not call your partner in every hour. If you do the same, then it is not a caring nature. It seems more like you do not trust him/her.

By following these love dating tips, you can enjoy your relationship more.

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Free Dating Site

The first thing online singles are going to see when looking up possible matches is your profile picture. This is why you A) have to have one and B) it has to be the best photo you can take. The free dating site, OkCupid, did an analysis of over 7,000 of their members' pictures to figure out which ones were the most effective in generating matches. The truth they discovered may help you make a killer first impression with a picture that is bound to have singles across the web knocking at your online dating doorstep. Check out the following tips for men and women based on their results:

#1: EYE CONTACT. This has always been thought to be extremely important in exuding confidence and showing your interest in someone. But as it turns out, making eye contact with the camera works in your favor as well. Here's the lowdown on eye contact for the different sexes:

* LADIES: Studies show that women who look directly at the camera while smiling or using a flirty expression tend to get more online attention than others who use such expressions without eye contact (this can give off the vibe of a bad attitude).
* GUYS: The best pose for guys' pictures is zero smile, zero eye contact. The runner up is smiling without eye contact.

#2: FACE. There's no doubt about it, people like to see faces...so show yours off. The majority of online dating services (OkCupid included) will tell you that it is best to choose a profile picture that is a clear and up close shot. However, results of OkCupid's study show that whether or not you show your face doesn't have an impact on the amount of quality singles you reel in.

#3: CAMERA ANGLE. This may come as a surprise, but the classically cheesy "My-Space" shot that is achieved by holding a camera above your head or in front of a mirror and looking ever-so coy has actually proven quite effective in luring in singles. For both men and women, these pictures are more successful than they are average. If you're a woman, this is the best pose you can make.

#4: SHOWING SKIN. You may be the more conservative type but according to OkCupid's studies, a revealing pic can greatly help your efforts in getting off the market. You don't have to undress like a Playboy model-there are ways to be sexy without showing too much. If you're comfortable with this idea then go for it!

* LADIES: A picture where you are displaying a little bit of cleavage draws 12.9 new contacts per month, 49% more than average. Numbers show that older women tend to get fewer messages than younger ones. But if you're older and choose a photo that is more on the revealing side, you might be giving the 20-somethings a run for their money.
* GUYS: If you're a guy with a nice body, it is suggested that you take off your shirt rather than leave it on. If you decide to stay clothed, however, stick to your usual style and keep it on the casual side. Guys who get dressed up for a profile pic don't fare as well as those who dress as they normally would.

#5: SMILING. Everyone likes a great smile. It shows that you are friendly, happy and fun-loving. But even if you're the type who doesn't go anywhere without a smile plastered on your face, when it comes to your online dating pic, smiling might not always be the best way to go.

* LADIES: Overall, research suggests that smiling is better than not for women. But if you choose to go with a picture showcasing your best flirty face, this will also be well-received by online admirers.
* GUYS: For the men, if you have a profile picture of yourself looking away from the camera without a smile...you are golden because the ladies love this. Another great idea? Try smiling and not looking directly at the camera.

#6: CONTEXT. Many think that when you post a picture on your dating profile it should be of you alone in a serious position. Well if you don't want to go this route, the exciting news is that you can highlight how well-traveled, active and social you are in your pic and research shows that it won't reflect negatively in your quest for a cyber-relationship.

* LADIES: The most popular contexts are as follows...1) The "MySpace" self-picture 2) A picture taken in bed 3) An action shot that shows your outdoorsy/athletic side
* GUYS: It will be your best bet to go for one of these...1) A photo with an animal 2) A pic showing off your rippling muscles 3) A picture that shows you engaging in an interesting activity

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Stds Make Swedish Men Feel Manly

Kiss Date

Note: All notes are to self.

Alpha Game 2011

Meeting Men At The Gym

DONT WEAR HEADPHONES

DONT DRESS UP

SMILE AT EVERYONE

SOCIALIZE WITH EVERYONE

Seduction Anti Gamers

Signs That Tell He Is Cheating

LACK OF COMMUNICATION

LACK OF PHYSICAL RELATIONSHIP

LACK OF INTEREST

Seducing Women In The Daytime

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Love Dating Tips Time To Get Freaky

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DONT WEAR HEADPHONES

DONT DRESS UP

SMILE AT EVERYONE

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LACK OF COMMUNICATION

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