But how do you go about meeting men at the gym, let alone approach a guy you're interested in at the gym, when he's there to exercise and perhaps not socialize? The last thing you want to do is get rejected at the gym and then have to return there day in, day out, to wonder if he told everyone he knows that you made a lame attempt to ask him out (which is probably your female brain overanalyzing the situation anyway).
Nevertheless, there are ways to make your move on "Buff" without having to take up too much of his time or risk a potentially awkward situation. Here now, are some simple tips to sell you on the idea of meeting men at the gym.
MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #1
DONT WEAR HEADPHONES
If you tend to do your workouts with headphones on, you have to stop wearing them until you complete your mission (at least when you're moving around the gym or strength training).
When people wear headphones, it's sort of relays the message that they don't want to bother with talking or acknowledging others around them. You want to be noticed so put the headphones down.
MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #2
DONT DRESS UP
If you've been showing up at the gym without makeup and your hair in a ponytail, don't start putting on cat eye liner and styling your tresses. You're going to the gym; not a bar.
If you like, get a new gym outfit to update your look, but don't do anything that would indicate that you're trying too hard to get noticed.
MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #3
SMILE AT EVERYONE
While many of us go to the gym daily and never say a word to a soul while we workout quietly, your mission is to begin smiling at everyone from the staff and the janitor to men and women.
Of course, he's included in the "men" part, and you have to ensure that you smile at him as well, without making it seem like you're going out of your way to do so (that is, don't chase him around the gym and smile until he finally looks at you).
MEETING MEN AT THE GYM TIP #4
SOCIALIZE WITH EVERYONE
It's time to brush up on your "hellos" and "how you doings". When you start talking to the staff and other members, working up to who you really want to talk to won't be such a big deal.
At some point, when you run into your target, say "Hello," and if he says it back, guess what? You've got a hello for a lifetime, and that's pretty good for now.
Suggested free e-books to read:
Tyler Durden - Frame Setting Forcing Frames On HottiesDr Dennis Neder - Getting Women
Robert Anue - Forbidden Pattern The Gemini
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