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Michelle Obama Dating Tips

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 Who knew that First Lady MICHELLE OBAMA was an expert at dating? Gracing the cover of December's "magazine.

She admits that cute's good, but that cute should not be the basis of why you like a man. "Who are you as a person? Don't look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul." Amen to that.

MICHELLE OBAMA then goes on to say that, "When you're dating a man, you should always feel good. You shouldn't be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't make you completely happy and make you feel whole."

Of course, MICHELLE OBAMA talked about more than just dating, but that is really the only part that DateDaily.com is interested in for obvious reasons.

MICHELLE OBAMA is a smart cookie, no doubt, and I'm pretty sure she said all those things because she's going to give a copy to both her daughters to read.

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Doom And Gloom By David Wygant

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The stock market is down 300 points...

Unemployment reaches 10% in California...

Foreclosures are at an all-time high...

The housing market is down 35%...

Let me ask you something: how do you feel about all of the headlines these days? Are you using this as your newest excuse for not going out to meet people? Or not to purchase things that you really desire that will improve your life?

Do you know what I've discovered? This is something that I really believe: the economy is not really as bad as we say it is - the economy is only as bad as we think it is because most of you are buying into the hype.

It's that poverty mentality. It's all of you saying to yourselves, "Well, I may still have a job but the economy is bad right now, and I'm not going to do the things I want to do. I'm going to wait for the economy to get better. I'm going to wait for President Obama to tell me that the economy is better."

In reality, you have to start taking charge of your own economy. You are your own government.

Do you still have a job? Are you safe at your job? Does your job still pay you what it did last year? Are you managing your bills like you always have? Are you paying things on time? Are you buying things you can afford?

The economy keeps getting worse because the people who find themselves in a good financial situation (which is 90% of us!) stop spending money and push the economy into a further funk.

And this becomes your new excuse. It's unbelievable. As humans, we are always looking for excuses not to progress. We come from a fear-based society.

So let me ask all of you a question today. How is the economic downturn REALLY affecting you? And be honest - are you really just using it as an excuse?

Life is all about mindset. What you believe is what you are going to attract. And if you have a poverty mindset, you're going to be the next one fired during these poor economic times. If you truly believe that the world is coming to an end, it will.

I don't believe that the world is coming to an end. My business is fine. I love my clients. Money comes in, people buy products and come to bootcamps, and I give it my all.

But it really amazes me how many people have that poverty consciousness - they're watching every last dime thinking that it will actually be their last dime.

You attract exactly what you are. You have to understand that life is about abundance. If you live an abundant lifestyle, you'll have an abundant lifestyle. I'm not talking about going out there and spending more money than you make - I think that's ridiculous.

But the "doom and gloom" people - which a lot of you are - tend to really think that life is going to come to an end.

Do you remember Y2K? How many of you thought that the world was going to come to an end when the clock struck midnight, bringing in the year 2000? How many of you actually believed that everything would go haywire? That you wouldn't be able to get your money out of the bank? That things wouldn't work anymore?

I knew a person during that time that actually quit his job, moved to the mountains of Arizona and traded all of his money for gold because he was afraid of leaving his money in the bank. This is the same thing all over again. People buy into the "doom and gloom" because they live in a world full of fear and excuses.

What would you rather live in: a world of abundance and positive energy or a world based on fear?

For those of you who have never checked out my No Excuses and Self Love audio programs, I think it's time you do. And by the way, if you don't like it, you can return it within 90 days. I truly believe that you're going to love it - because I practice abundance all of the time!

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Getting That One Special Girl Part 1

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 Guys, this article is Part I in a little mini-series I call "GETTING THAT ONE SPECIAL GIRL".

This is where I discuss the dreaded illness of "one-itis" and what the heck to do about it once you've got it.

I want to tell you a brief story now - indulge me for a moment before I outline my steps for handling this scenario.

First, a question...

Ever been hung up on ONE girl, to the point where you possibly lost sleep, focus, perhaps made ridiculous phone calls to her, stalked her (or cyber-stalked hera new, scary phenomenon), begged her, shed tears for herand otherwise lost a huge amount of time effort and energy to the cause of getting her?

(long sentence, I knowbare with me here)

Well, I have been in this position before. This was years ago, way before I ever realized I needed help with women, dating and relationships. Aeons before I learned how to get a girlfriend, and fell in love (which is my situation todayso, I've come full circle - in case you were wondering).

I was walking home one night, and met a woman near my apartment - she was walking her dog. She asked me for directions which then flowed into a longer, "getting to know you" type of conversation.

So, we began chatting and we eventually swapped numbers. A week later we went out on a date, strolled back to her place, got a bit intimate and said good night.

We washed/rinsed/repeated that a few times, and all was good and fun. Walking home after our 3rd date, I thought to myself: "Wow, I really like this girl I can't wait to see her again"

Big point to make here is this: All my eggs were in one basketHER basket. I had no other options, and hadn't had a cute girl in my life in quite a while. I think it had been nearly a year possibly since I had even kissed a girl.

I had to leave town on a business trip for 3 weeks, and when I returned, I called her right away as I was really excited to see her.

She was glad to hear from me, and we did set-up a date for the end of the week...but, something didn't feel right to me. My gut clenched over the thought - "something has changed".

We were set up for a date, and I was all ready to go when the phone rang. It was her cancelling. A sinking feeling set-in.

"Yep, something's up."

She had said she'd call back to arrange another time, but as the days started to pass with no call from her, I grew concerned.

S-T-R-E-S-S had begun to set-in at this point and my sleep was suffering.

I decide to call her.

Seems like a good decision, right?

Here are the stories I was telling myself:
* "Aah, maybe she's busy at work and hasn't had a chance to call me" (NEVER happenswhen someone wants to call someone, they make time for it)
* "Maybe something horrible happened" (Maybe it did, but even then, if she was really interested, she would call)
* "My answering machine is broken" (But, I was getting messages from other people)
* "Maybe, just maybe, I was supposed to call HER" (She had been clear, and this was a blatant rationalization, as I was looking for anything that would help me FEEL BETTER NOW!)

So, I called her.

(Cringing yet? Don't worrythis gets worse.)

She nervously played it off as "being so busy", "things got away from me", "oh, this case is so overwhelming (she worked for the DA)"squarely in my chest, my heart was sinking even further now. But, I persisted:

"Let's get together this weekend", said I

"Uh, OKum, well, can we talk later in the week so I'll know if I'm free?", she blustered

"Sure, I'll call you on Wednesday" (it was Sunday), I replied

"OK StephenI'll talk to you then", she said and then quickly got off the phone

As soon as I hung up, a feeling of relief swept over me - I had done it! We had a date coming-up and all was well!

It was good to hear her voice, I recall thinking. Again, I had so few women in my life, that just hearing her voice made me smile.

And then, 10 minutes later, it changed. Suddenly, a feeling of suspicion began to grow inside of me. Part of me knew that something wasn't quite right here. My feeling of trust had been broken by her, as she had flaked once by now. Was she doing that again?

Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.each night worse than the previous. I would awaken with a gasp, and then stress would set-in. The stress of desperately needing to control a situation that is immensely uncontrollable.

Work each day would be difficult - I had no ability to focus - NONE. I would take breaks, I would try to eat, I would drink lots of coffee.

An annoying habit began to kick-inI began to "confide in my friends about the situation" - because, I needed advice.

Within a day, everyone was hearing about it - and everyone gave me a different opinion.

"Dude, you have to tell her how you FEEL" (guy)

"Just lay back, she'll call you - I know it" (guy)

"Haha, man Stephen, don't ask me - I'm just as clueless as you are" (guy)

"Call her, and just leave her a groovy message man, and DON'T ask her out" (guy)

"How wonderful! You're in love with someone! I just know it will work out - what is her name?" (girl)

Each person's tip would inspire me, give me hope and confidence for just as long as they would talk. I could be carried away by their emotion and optimism, but as soon as they were gone, I would sink back into even greater confusion and anxiety than before.

So, as you can probably imagine, Wednesday came and I was relieved. At around 8pm that night, I worked up the nerve to call her. I was REALLY nervous. I had decided that I would just go with the plan of firming up plans for the weekend. To do anything else would be out of the ordinary here, and perhaps I was "overreacting".

I call - no answer - into voice-mail - I hang up


Shit.

I should have left a voice mail! Damn, now if I call again, will she know that I double-rang her?

More stress sets in.

I call again - again, no answer - into voice-mail - nervous, shaky, stammering message - I hang up

Double Shit.

I try to distract myself by watching some TV, but I can only think about the LAME message I just left on her voice mail.

An hour or so passes, the phone rings.

My heart jumps - "maybe it's her!"

Nope - a call for my roommate. Some guy named Darryl, who calls everyday to talk about some "website project".

Get a life Darryl.

I go back to the TV and begin obsessing again. I pull apart my message in my mind, trying desperately to figure out how she will receive it once she does hear it.

It's now time for bed, and I try to sleep. I can't do it. When my alarm rings in the morning, I've had maybe a few hours of rest.

My eyes and body start to show a bit of fatigue at work.

"Stephen, are you OK? You seem a bit tired" (they say)

"Yeah, maybe a bit"

Being that this was before I had a cellphone, I am now checking my home voicemail VERY often. I recall that before my trip away, I had checked my voicemail from work and had received messages from her.

"Maybe that's how it works?" I think

"Maybe, God will only send me a voicemail from her when I'm not obsessing about it"

Every hour (or more) I phone home to check voicemailno messages. NONE whatsoever. I crave the sound of "Debbie, the voicemail lady" to say the following:

"You have ONE new voice message - to hear your message press ONE"

All I want is ONE Debbie. I could hear Debbie's voice in my head before I'd call. Debbie was either an Angel with a message, or the Grim Reaper with none.

The weekend passed, less sleep, more stress, less eating, more obsessing.

Monday, Tuesdayand now, Wednesday again.

Strangely, I started to feel better early in the week - as if, something was lightening up in mebut, once I decided to call again on Wednesday - it returned.

All I needed was to stare at the phone with a small ounce of desire, and the itch was back on me like the hives.

I called her again.and again, into voice mail. I left a quick message:

"Hey, it's Stephen. Hadn't heard from you so wanted to check-in and say Hi. I hope nothing is wrong, and that alls well. Give me a ring so we can hang out soon. Bye"

"check-in"

"alls well"

Catch phrases forCALL ME DAMMIT I AM DYING OVER HERE.

I felt a bit relieved by now. I had done what I could do, and now I could let this go.

I decided to go for a walk at this point to "clear my head" - something very satisfying about taking an action, and knowing that you've done what you can.

I return and notice the message light blinking. My heart leaps into my throat as I press the red "PLAY" button.

"Hey Stephen, it's Ariella. Sorry I haven't been in touch. Give me a call when you get this, so we can talk. Bye"

NICE! It's ON!

Or, so I think

I call her now. And she answers. After the usual pleasantriesshe drops the bomb:

"So, you should know that me and my ex have started hanging out againit's not too serious yet, but that's probably why I haven't been so responsive to your calls."

My face fills with blush. I'm flustered. My mouth and throat tighten. I grow dizzy.

Me: "Oh, OK, yeah, I was wondering why I hadn't heard from you"

Her: "Yeah, sorry about that, I should have told youbut, you know"

Me: "Oh sureyeahwell, OK"

Her: "So, I should go - but I'll talk to you soon, OK?"

Me: "Great, OK - Bye"

Her: "Bye"

I sit down.

What just happened? My heart was aching.my brain was cycling like never before. Where my brain heard opportunity and an opening, my heart felt closure and an "overness" like never before. They began to fight it out - the war for Stephen Supremacy was on.

My brain won.

"I'll talk to you soon" it repeated to me

She never said they were "back together" it said.

She never said "don't call me" it said.

And again, she said "I'll talk to you soon" - dude, it's ON!

I went to sleep, barely with my mind racing a mile/minute convincing me that it was ONand then, it was OVERONOVERON.OVER

UGH.

So, I began stalking her.

Now, when I say "stalking" I don't mean that I'd crouch in the bushes by her house - no. But, I would stroll past her apartment building 2-3 times per day when it was totally inconvenient for me to do so. I would go WAY out of my way to hopefully "run into her" spontaneously by frequenting her neighborhood. I would call her sporadically hoping that she would answeronly to have her voicemail pick-up and never leave a message.

One night, the worst of the worst happened.

During one of my innocent "strolls", I saw her and him going into the apartment. They didn't see me, but I saw them. Care to guess what he looked like?

A total stud


He had me by three inches in height, looked way cooler than me, probably worked out 4 times a DAY, and she was staring at him adoringly

I walked away. I walked home. And then, it happened

I began to cry.

I am dead serious.

You see, when you have a fantasy relationship with someone, and then you see them in REALITY with someone ELSEit's a heart-breaker. It's devastating. It's a crushing blow.

Now, not only did I get to stress out about her, but now I had images of her with HIM to boot.

This was not getting better.

Give my mind a free moment, and it would conjure images of her with him in bed, at swanky restaurants, shopping in SoHo, holding his hand...you name it friend. I was my own worst enemy.

I stopped sleeping. My work suffered. People began to be "concerned" for me.

One day at work, I decided to go for broke.

You see, when we're obsessed with that "one special girl", we usually have one of three options:

1) The Stalking Method (tried it, and failed at it)

2) The Call and Leave/Dont Leave Voice Messages Method (tried it, and failed at it)

3) The BEG AND PLEAD Method (my final optionand, oh yeah, I was about to USE it)

Late one night, I called 411 and found the general number for her office. I phoned it, and was able to deduce her direct dial work number.

I decided that tomorrow - I was going for broke, and I was going to end this once and for all - she was either going to see me, or it's OVER.

(of course, she had been giving me signals left and right that it was over for some time nowsignals that I was not receiving - so, for her it was over already)

I called her after lunch. Surprisingly, I ate a lot. Something in me had relaxed knowing that I was about to take ownership over this situation once and for all.

At 3pm, I headed downstairs to the basement to use a private land line. I was going for broke.

I called, she answered, and for the next 20 minutes I pulled out every trick, stop, gimmick, and sappy plead that I could muster. I even told her I loved her. I was the romantic, I was the "alpha male", I was a poet, I was funny, I was everything I had ever wanted to beand then, alas, it was finally over.

She told me she was back with "him" and that she really "liked" me, but that she had to focus on her relationship now.

"You're a great guy Stephen, but I'm looking to get married and I think he's the one for me. Can we be friends though?"

"Sure"

We said our good-bye's, and just like that - the "situation" was over.

10 weeks of hell, sweat, tears, stress and sleepless nights were overthat night, I feel right to sleep and woke up a new man the next day.

I gotta tell you, just rehashing that story fills me with both pain and pride.

Pain because I can still feel some of those memories in my body

Pride because I've come a LONG way since then - and that phenomenon doesn't happen to me anymore.

I want to tell you now how to both HANDLE this situation and how to work your social life so that this won't HAPPEN to you again.

Tune in next week for the rest of this article...(sorry, running out of space!).

Stephen Nash has put his tactics on building an attractive lifestyle and persona into How To Get A Girlfriend, now in it's 3rd edition. It contains expanded information on approaching, natural conversation skills, building social circles, and a lifestyle that attracts women to you.

Click here to download it and be studying within minutes.



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Blind Date Tips Guidelines To Keep In Mind

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Blind date is always a topic of discussion. Most of the people raise questions about its success ratio. But there are many couples living their life happily after this incident. Many successful relationships and marriages are beautiful results of blind date. Success and failure of this event completely depends on your attitude, how you react and take things under particular circumstances. Positive attitude and good behavior can give you the guarantee of success.

It is an event where you get chance to meet new people; if you do not like someone for relationship at least friendship is not a tough deal. Everybody sees dream about the life partner or soul mate, but never expect too much. You can not expect your partner would be David Becham or Angliena Jolie. Too many expectations are very bad. Date is an event which make excited to everyone either boy or girl.

Blind date is very good as long as you are in our limits. It is advisable to be confident and enjoy the time. But do not allow someone to take extra advantages of you. Always spend sometime together before starting any serious relationship.

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72 Percents Of Office Daters Go Public

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There was a time when office romances were frowned upon for obvious reasons: gossip, messy breakups, sexual harassment suits. But nowadays, it seems that 72% of office daters go public with their relationship, compared with 46% only 5 years ago.

According to the 2009 survey by CareerBuilder.com, 40% of employees say they've dated a colleague at some point in their career; 30% say they married the person they dated.

Considering that most people spend well over 9 hours a day at work, it's only fitting that they meet and fall in love with someone at their workplace.

The survey consisted of 8,000 people so it's pretty obvious that dating at work is a mainstay, despite office policy.

But there are rules when it comes to workplace dating:
AVOID A SUPERVISOR-SUPERVISEE RELATIONSHIP. This can lead to a host of issues including lawsuits in which the supervisee can claim that they felt compelled to say yes to their boss when asked out. If you can't help yourself, make sure to sign a contract first.

THINK ABOUT LOSING YOUR JOB. Breakups are tough, no doubt, but imagine breaking up and then leaving your job on top of that. Before plunging head first into a relationship, make sure that it's worth losing your job over.

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Kissing Tips Types Of Kiss

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PEPPER KISS



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BREATH KISS

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NAME KISS



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Dating After Divorce Get Your Love Life On Track

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 Dating after divorce is very sensitive topic and you can debate on this topic for many hours. However, you need to understand the situation of person before reaching on any conclusion. Life after divorce is not easy to live. A person has to face many problems in personal life. Many people just hit the dating website after the divorce to have fun but few people search for serious relationship. Before leaving your home just after divorce can be a good or bad decision. It completely depends on the situation of person.

However, you should consider various points before dating with someone just after divorce.

- You should not talk about your personal or past life with your new partner.

- In case you are in relationship with someone before divorce, then get the divorce first.

- Be confident and never loose hope. Do not take tension just because of personal problems

- Time plays very important role here. You should at least spend 1-2 weeks date alone before entering in any relationship.

- Dating while going through divorce can be dangerous. So, wait for sometime and get divorce first.

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David Deangelos Tips For Flirting

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MAILBAG QUESTION

 Hey Dave! Ok, so after all these hundreds of e-mails and testimonials you get, you KNOW this cocky+funny works, but I must say I'm happy that I FEEL I'm starting to get it. I had your ebook and cd series for a few months and I listened to the cds and read the book over and over. It was great but I guess its obvious you dont see success until you get out there and practice it and SEE how it works. At first, it simply made no sense I tried it and didnt get much response until I developed the character for it and made it apart of me. Cocky+funny isnt something you try out, its something you have to make a part of you! When you do that, c+f comes natural and makes conversations so much more fun! Not only that it creates that attraction you talk about so much! So, like I said, having the right MINDSET is whats important,not learning LINES, but here's a few I like. And I could use some of these when I feel the conversation is drying up. "Hey.quit looking at my ass! I know you want to jump my bones but slow down!" (even if she wasnt doing that) (when a woman gets quiet or there's a break in the conversation) "I know I make you nervous and all but pleasetry to control yourself!" Here's one question I like to ask: Me: So do you cookwell? Her: Yes, I do. Me: Great, since you know the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, you can cook me dinner. I want.(fill in whatever you want her to cook!) "You couldnt handle this" (that one alone works well) (if you catch her looking at youor even if you dont) "I saw thatI know you keep looking at my sexy bod and you want it so bad you're drooling, but cant we be friends first? Are you shy or something? Why havent you asked me out yet (or asked for my phone number)? I know you're afraid I'll seduce you and make you fall madly in love with me but you'll just have to learn to handle it! Tsk tsk tskyou should be ashamed of yourself." She says: "Why? For trying to seduce/pickup a guy like me! I know you want me but be patient!" (when she does something I dont like) "Well, its just not workin between us. I'm going to have to cut off the sex, the kisses, the cuddling, all of it until you be a good girl!" Most of my C+F focuses on assuming she wants you and is trying to pick up on you, even if she doesnt! (well, personally I believe all women want me for my sexy bod and usually when I use the techniques, they DO!) I think what surprised me the most is that these work with women I JUST MET! I thought I'd find it easier to learn C+F from an anglesome like to bust on women's looks, her clothes, etcbut I took the approach of accusing her of being obssessed with meit works! I also find it

effective to turn around some common things men do for womenlike I tell women to buy ME dinner, buy ME gifts, take ME out, pick ME up, etc. I love it! I have so much more fun now and there's no fear in talking to women anymore its great. I know you dont like relationship questions but I'm going to ask anyhow. Is it necessary to tone down the cocky+funny when you two become boyfriend/girlfriend? (not cut it off completely, but tone it down) And second, how do you respond when women start challenging you back? (her saying: "you couldnt handle this" for example) I know you shouldnt turn wussy but I dont have a good response to her turning it on mewhich I like the challenge of it but I'd like to know some good comebacks.

Thanks a million Dave! GT from Tennessee

DAVID DEANGELO'S COMMENTS:
Nice!

Those are some GREAT "one-liners" you shared. Some are personal favorites of mine and some WILL BE SOON. I really dig the whole "You couldn't handle this" concept. I personally love to say, "We'd fight all the time and I'D WIN". That's a big winner. Try it out I also love the idea of using gender stereotypes, turning gender stereotypes around, using them as comedy, etc

You can combine this idea with a "setup"- starting out sounding like a Wussy, then going in a completely different direction right at the end for effect. Example: You say to a really attractive, interesting woman something like, "You know, you really seem like a smart woman you're obviously more intelligent than the average girl" Then you say, "And since you probably understand men better than most women, you've probably already realized that you being a woman, and me being a challenging man, YOU WOULDN'T HANDLE THIS!" Ohhh, I love that kind of thing! The magic of a setup like that one is that she BEGINS to think that you're a Wussbag from hell, but when you get to the end of what you're saying, she realizes that you were saying something COMPLETELY DIFFERENT.

What you were REALLY saying is, "I understand that most guys act like Wussies and give you compliments, but the fact is that any compliment I give you is sarcasm, and, in fact, you really couldn't handle me because you didn't even see THAT coming!

So, what is it about this kind of approach and humor that makes it SOOOO special and wonderfully effective?

Answer: It says SO many things at the same time that are all "the right thing" In other words, instead of trying to demonstrate that you're not a Wuss, that you're funny, that you're smart, that you "get it", and that you don't NEED her you can just use a comment like this one.

Good stuff. Now let's talk about your questions You asked if one should "turn down" the Cocky Funny once you get into a long-term relationship I personally think NOT. Why would you? If you've found something that works, why would you stop doing it? In fact, I've seen SOOOO many situations in my life where a guy started out doing all the right things, then after "getting the girl", and winding up in a long-term relationship, they change what they're doing, become boring and predictable, and lose the girl because they became dull and lame. As you know, I'm kind of violating one of my rules of thumb, and talking about relationships but since I'm at it, I'll make a few more comments

Have you ever heard things like "relationships take work" and "you have to put a lot into a relationship if you want to get a lot out of it"? I'm sure you have. MOST guys interpret this to mean that after you get into a relationship you should start doing whatever your girlfriend/wife wants you to, and not argue with her. In other words, most guys think that "put a lot into a relationship" means "turn into SuperWuss and kiss as much ass as possible so you won't get into trouble".

I'm sure you can tell just by the way I'm talking that I don't think this is a particularly smart way to go about things In fact, if you want to wake up one day in the future with an unhappy, unsatisfied, complaining girlfriend or wife, then start using this particular approach. If a woman "falls for you", then that MEANS SOMETHING. It means that whatever you were doing at the time WORKED. Now, if you were being Cocky Funny, then that was working.

So keep it up.

An exception: If you were chasing a woman for ten years, buying her thousands of dollars worth of gifts, flowers, and dinners, and one day she finally "decided that you were good marriage material" and she finally "gave in" then don't listen to what I just said.

In fact, if you are in the above situation, you are probably beyond help, so delete this newsletter right now, and don't read any further. It will only depress you and mess up your "nice" relationship On to your second question (the one I like best anyway): "How do you respond when women start challenging you back?"

Why do I like this question best?

Because you're missing something If you start challenging a woman and teasing her, and she starts challenging you back, IT IS ON!

Game on, dude!

Didn't you see Top Gun? She just ENGAGED.

Most guys interpret a woman challenging them back as her saying "I don't find you interesting" or "You don't impress me". It's usually exactly the OPPOSITE. When a woman teases or challenges back it means that she's INTO IT. She's saying, "Oh yeah? Bring it on let's play!". On the "surface" she's saying "You couldn't handle this", but on a subtle level she's saying "I have received your Sexual Communication, and I am transmitting on your frequency let's rock and roll". So, how should you handle it?

Try this formula:
1) Pause.

2) Slowly wrinkle your brow and smile smugly.

3) Pause.

4) Keep looking her in the eye (don't flinch).

5) Say, "Oh, you think? What, I'd get bored that fast? You're probably right"

Are you with me here?

TURN UP THE VOLUME.

The game is now officially ON, so PLAY BALL.

The great thing about a situation like this one is that she is HELPING YOU dial up the chemistry and sexual tension. She is making it MUCH EASIER for you to make her feel ATTRACTION for you. These are the types of situations that often end with "And at the end of the night she suddenly jumped on me and ripped my clothes off". I'm not kidding. Not at all.

But if you flinch and let her know that she just disturbed your composure, you are TOAST. It's all over. This little moment of truth can take things to the next level FAST or it can end your chances with her INSTANTLY. When a woman challenges you back in a Cocky Funny way, she has just pressed the accelerator pedal to the floor. She just upped the ante. She pushed all her chips in to see if you're going to puss out and fold. She's not wasting any time she wants to know if you are MAN or BOY. If you casually chuckle to yourself inside andmentally say to yourself "what a cute little bratty girl" and then bust on her, you'll win. If you get nervous and slip, you'll lose.

Here's another insight for you: This kind of woman is the MOST FUN to be around. But she's also the biggest challenge. She'll keep testing you over and over and over again relentlessly. And just when you thought it was safe to pull back to "nice guy", she'll be off like a shot. Gone.

Read what I have written to you, grasshopper and take heed. I have lost many a hottie because I didn't "get it" when it came down to one of these situations. Learn from my mistakes. Be the guy who casually stands there with one hand behind your back blocking all the punches from your opponent and teasing him for being a Wuss at the same time Not the guy who's sweating his ass off and flailing around like a child who's getting frustrated because his older brother is beating him up

This is Jedi stuff, man.

Go watch the scene in the original "Matrix" where Neo is in the ring with Morpheus for the first time watch and listen to what happens. The more you work with this material, the more you'll begin to have a "sixth sense" about women and the sexual tension that's created when you use these techniques.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Elena Petrova - Scam Prevention Tips For Online Dating
C Kellogg - Top Dating Tips For Weary Singles
Kate Fox - Guide To Flirting

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