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Importance Of Offline Dating In Daily Life

Offline dating contains nothing extraordinary, it is a normal dating follow by young boys and girls. This method of dating is more popular in young generation as compare to online dating. Online dating allows you to see your partner but it is not 100% safe and trustworthy way. On the other hand, offline dating allows you to see partner and feel the presence of him/her. In this way, you can know him/her more nicely and get to know his/her likes and dislikes.

In offline dating, you can see your partner live in front of you. It gives an opportunity to spend some quality time with him/her. Even individual can easily determine what is going on in his/her mind about you. It is a time and money consuming process but trustworthy. Offline dating is more physical and emotional. And online dating contains only emotional elements.

Offline dating can be happened anywhere like theatre, coffee shop, restaurant, market etc. But online can be operate from internet caf'e only. In current scenario where we get to see number of internet frauds, people have become more strict as far as internet dating is concerned.

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Dating Rules Must Follow Before Its Too Late

Today, we are going to share some important dating rules than can help you a lot in day-to-day life.

You are making biggest mistake if you pretend to be someone that you are not. Now days, people like to enjoy their lives life movie star or celebrity. Hence, they copy everything of those stars including, clothes, way to talking, way of walking, etc. It is not a good idea at all if you are on date.

Goal is very important whenever you leave the home for a date. Make up your mind initially why you are going on a date. Are you going just to have fun or you are looking for a serious relationship? This type of question will help you to behave in correct direction.

Respect is all about give and take. If you respect your partner then you will find that he/she is giving you a proper respect including your decision.

It is also mandatory to listen more and speak less. It is a best technique to know more about the partner. Don't try to dominate someone just because you love it.

These are some dating rules that should be followed by everyone.

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Valentines Day 2 Chocolate Body Frosting

Today's tip will sweeten up your night literally.

After you've had your romantic dinner, have dessert in the bedroom with a jar of gourmet chocolate body frosting, complete with "quickie recipes" and a paint brush. This devilishly delicious treat brings new meaning to the words "desserts on me"!

There's another reason you may want to give chocolate body frosting a try though. Surprisingly, chocolate is an aphrodisiac. Chocolate, with it's rich and sweet flavor and smooth creaminess, contains Phenylethylamine and Seratonin, both of which simulate the feelings of love, passion, and lust. The stimulant phenylethylamine in particular is considered by some researchers to be a "love chemical" because of the euphoria it brings about.

Here's to a sweet and sexy Valentine's night!

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Men Will Sleep With Anyone

A shocking study proves that men are much more likely to sleep with a woman they don't know, even if she's ugly. (FYI, I'm being facetious.)

Butterfaces across the world can rest easy knowing that there is a man out there who has absolutely no standards and is incredibly willing and able to have sex with them, even while sober.

British researchers analyzed questionnaire responses from 860 American, German and Italian students (427 men, 433 women), in which they revealed what they what do if a member of the opposite sex - some ugly, some not-so ugly, and some hot - offered to go out, go to their place and have sex with them.

Much more men than women were willing to have sex with all 3 categories of women, while the women expressed sole interest in the hot men. Although German men seemed to be the pickiest of the male bunch; Italian men seemed to be the most willing to sleep with any type of woman.

The findings of this study aren't exactly amazing, considering we have always known this to be fact. The only thing that I find slightly surprising is that the guys in the study were sober. Completely and utterly sober.

But then, we don't know the last time each of these guys had sex, and an overload of semen should've been a factor in all this.

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Dweck Book A Must For All Teachers And Leaders

It is hard to avoid reading about CAROL DWECK'S work on the power of mindsets in learning. Business leaders and sports coaches use her ideas and so ought schools. It will be the most influential book on motivation. A book that with ideas to change the lives of students and their teachers.

I am writing this blog before I have fully absorbed the message of the book as I want to loan it to a young teacher. As a result of reading the book I have decided to start something I have been meaning to do for years. I now have the right mindset. Watch this space.

MY ADVICE - BUY THE BOOK PRONTO. My copy cost NZ 29. Not bad for a mind changing book. 'MINDSET THE NEW PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS' Published by Ballantine Books NY ISBN 978-0-345-47232-8

CAROL DWECK IS A STANFORD UNIVERSITY PSYCHOLOGIST AND IN HER BOOK MINDSET SHE SHARES THE IDEAS ABOUT LEARNING SHE HAS BEEN WORKING ON FOR DECADES. In her book SHE SHOWS THE POWER OF PEOPLE'S BELIEFS THAT STRONGLY EFFECT WHAT WE WANT AND WHETHER WE SUCCEED. BELIEFS ( 'MINDSETS') WE ARE UNAWARE OF BUT WHICH HAVE A PROFOUND EFFECTS ON OUR LIVES. AN UNDERSTANDING OF THESE BELIEFS HAVE THE POWER TO UNLEASH YOUR POTENTIAL AND THAT OF YOUR STUDENTS.

Dweck has written this book in a popular style which makes it available to anyone who picks it up.

SCHOOLS WORLDWIDE HAVE PROBLEMS WITH STUDENTS WHO FAIL TO LEARN AND THIS BOOK PROVIDES SOME REAL ANSWERS.

DWECK OUTLINES THE TWO MINDSETS.ONE SHE CALLS 'FIXED' WHERE STUDENTS BELIEVE THAT THEIR TALENT IS 'FIXED' FROM BIRTH ( natural talents) AND THE 'GROWTH MINDSET' WHICH SEES LEARNING AS A RESULT OF EFFORT AND PRACTICE. Dweck does not suggest that those with a 'growth' mindset can be anything but they do believe that a person's potential is unknown and that to develop it requires 'passion, toil and training'.

THE REAL PROBLEM IS THAT MANY PEOPLE FEEL THAT THOSE WHO SUCCEED IN ANY FIELD DO SO BECAUSE OF NATURAL TALENT. THIS IS THE 'FIXED MINDSET'. The problem is that SUCH PEOPLE DO NOT BELIEVE IN EFFORT and even see the need for it as weakness. And those who believe they cant do something SEE NO POINT IN TRYING.

MY BET IS THAT SUCH PEOPLE MAKE UP OUR SO CALLED 'ACHIEVEMENT TAIL'. HELPING STRUGGLING CHILDREN CHANGE THEIR LIMITING MINDSETS MAY BE MORE PROFITABLE THAN OBSESSIVELY FOCUSING ON LITERACY AND NUMERACY STANDARDS.

DWECK WRITES THAT THE 'FIXED' MINDSETS CAN BE CHANGED AND REPLACED WITH THE MORE POSITIVE 'GROWTH' MINDSET. Her book is full of practical ways to do just this.

'When you enter a mindset', she writes, 'you enter a new world'.

DWECK BELIEVES ALL STUDENTS ARE BORN WITH AN INTENSE DRIVE TO LEARN AND WORRIES ABOUT WHAT PUTS AN END TO THIS EXUBERANT LEARNING AND WHY SOME CHILDREN DEVELOP A LIMITING 'FIXED' MINDSET.

IT BEGINS, SHE SAYS, WHEN STUDENTS BEGIN TO EVALUATE THEMSELVES AND, AS A RESULT, SOME BECOME AFRAID OF CHALLENGES - and this is further developed by parent who want their children to succeed. SUCH CHILDREN END UP BY WANTING TO MAKE SURE THEY SUCCEED AND DON'T LIKE TAKING RISKS; don't like to expose their deficiencies. And they don't like asking for help.

'GROWTH' MINDSET CHILDREN, IN CONTRAST, SEE SUCCESS IN LEARNING AS STRETCHING THEMSELVES, about becoming smarter, and ARE HAPPY TO ASK FOR HELP.

'FIXED' MINDSET PEOPLE DO WELL WHEN THINGS ARE WITHIN THEIR GRASP. If 'fixed' mindset people think they cant do anything they don't try, avoid situations, find endless excuses, blame others, and don't ask for help. They don't want to to risk their identity. Perfectionist girls seem specially at risk in this respect.

IT MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE WHICH MINDSET DEVELOPS.

AND THE POSITIVE 'GROWTH' MINDSET CAN BE TAUGHT.

Dweck lists accomplished people who were considered to have little future potential including Charles Darwin and Elvis Presley. PEOPLE WITH A 'GROWTH' MINDSET KNOW IT TAKES TIME AND EFFORT FOR POTENTIAL TO FLOWER. She also describes people who many think had a natural talent ( 'fixed') but whose success was determined by a 'growth' mindset including - Mohammed Ali and Michael Jordan.

DWECK SUGGESTS TEACHERS DO A SIMPLE SURVEY OF THEIR STUDENTS TO SEE WHAT MINDSET THEY HOLD AND THEN TO INTRODUCE IDEAS TO CHANGE THOSE WITH THE LIMITING 'FIXED' MINDSETS. DO THEY BELIEVE THEIR INTELLIGENCE WAS A FIXED TRAIT OR OR SOMETHING THEY COULD DEVELOP?

SHE ALSO DESCRIBES A NUMBER OF RESEARCH SITUATIONS WHERE SHE DEMONSTRATES SUCH CHANGES. Students with the 'growth' mindsets allows people to love what they are doing and motivates them to try harder, practice and ask for help. Mistakes, or failures, are seen as learning opportunities not the end of the world. A 'growth' mindsets allows abilities to be cultivated.

TALENT, OR DRIVE, WITH THE RIGHT MINDSET, CAN HELP ANY LEARNER PRODUCE AMAZING THINGS. It is all about continually improving on ones personal best.

TALENTED OR FAILING 'FIXED ' MINDSET STUDENTS FAIL WHEN PLACED IN NEW LEARNING SITUATIONS - 'GROWTH' STUDENTS ENJOY THE CHALLENGE. Even prodigies with gifts feed the gift with constant endless curiosity, practice effort and challenge seeking. ALL CHILDREN, DWECK WRITES, HAVE INTERESTS THAT CAN BLOSSOM INTO ABILITIES AND THIS INCLUDES THOSE CURRENTLY SEEN AS 'LOW ABILITY' OR FAILING. No one know about negative ability labels like Maori and Pacifica group or woman when it comes to maths and science.

ALL STUDENTS NEED TEACHERS WHO PREACH AND PRACTICE THE 'GROWTH' MINDSET. Such teachers focus on the idea that all children can develop their skills. 'Growth' orientated teachers and parents PRAISE EFFORT RATHER THAN ABILITY OR TALENT. Praising talent teaches students the 'fixed' mindset. ABILITY GROUPING AND PRAISING ABILITY CAN HAVE NEGATIVE EFFECTS ON LEARNING.

WE NEED TO GIVE ALL STUDENTS THE GIFT OF THE 'GROWTH' MINDSET AND IN THE PROCESS PUT STUDENTS IN CHARGE OF THEIR OWN LEARNING.

MANY STUDENTS WILL ENJOY THE STORIES IN THE BOOK ABOUT THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN THE NATURAL AND EFFORT ORIENTATED SPORTS PEOPLE. Their stories will help students appreciate the positive growth mindset and how sports people learn to cope with setbacks. Teachers will enjoy the differences between the 'fixed' and growth orientated coaches.

SCHOOL LEADERS WILL ENJOY THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE HEROIC TALENTED LEADERS ( 'FIXED') AND THE 'GROWTH' ORIENTATED LEADERS and how they handle failure and staff development.

THE MOST IMPORTANT CHAPTERS FOCUS ON TEACHERS AND PARENTS AND WHERE DO MINDSETS COME FROM?

THESE CHAPTERS FOCUS ON THE MESSAGES WE GIVE CHILDREN - AND THAT EVERY WORD AND ACTION SENDS A MESSAGE. Students are extremely sensitive to such messages. WHAT WE PRAISE, OR GIVE FEEDBACK ABOUT, IS VITAL AND IT NEEDS TO BE FOCUSED ON EFFORT AND FUTURE STRATEGIES TO CONSIDER.

CONSIDER ALSO HOW CHILDREN DEVELOP THEIR ATTITUDES TOWARDS MATHS, OR ART, OR SPORT. Do they see it as a 'fixed' gift or something they can all do to some degree with effort and practice as they ought to? CONSIDER HOW YOU WOULD SET ABOUT TO CHANGE STUDENTS' ATTITUDE TOWARDS MATHS, OR ART, OR ANYTHING THAY HAVE CLOSED THEIR MIND TO.

'DONT JUDGE. TEACH.IT'S A LEARNING PROCESS', DWECK WRITES.

ALL THE STORIES DWECK SHARES ARE ABOUT HOW PARENTS AND TEACHERS WANT THE BEST FOR THEIR CHILDREN IN THE RIGHT WAY - BY FOSTERING THEIR INTERESTS, GROWTH AND LEARNING.

IF TEACHERS MAKE EXPLICIT THE IMPORTANCE OF A 'GROWTH ' MINDSET AND ENCOURAGE IT IN THEIR STUDENTS ALL STUDENTS WILL SUCCEED. THE TEACHER'S STANCE IS ALL IMPORTANT. 'Growth' mindset teacher tell the truth and set about to help their students close the gap. Dweck's research shows it can be done even with students who at first don't seem to care.

MOST INTERESTING FOR TEACHERS ARE THE MINDSET LECTURES SHE GIVES HER GRADUATE STUDENTS AND THE BRAIN, OR MINDSET WORKSHOPS SHE GIVES YOUNGER STUDENTS WHERE STUDENTS LEARN ABOUT POSITIVE MINDSETS AND HOW TO USE THEM.

IN JUST EIGHT ONE HOUR SESSIONS CHILDREN'S' MINDS, SHE SHOWS, CAN BE CHANGED.

AND SHE MAKES THE POINT THAT CHANGE IS NOT EASY. It is hard to give up a 'fixed' mindset. Concrete plans are required not just good intentions. 'Will power', Dweck writes, 'is not just a thing you have or don't have. Will power needs help.'

IT IS ALL ABOUT SEEING THINGS IN NEW WAY.

EVERY DAY PRESENTS YOU WITH CHANCE TO GROW AND TO HELP THE PEOPLE YOU CARE ABOUT GROW. Learners who take on board a 'growth' mindset become more alive, courageous and open.

BUY THE BOOK TO REALLY GET DWECK'S POWERFUL MESSAGE. The ideas in the book will resonate with the many creative teachers who really value developing in their students a positive learning identity. Students who are able to 'seek, use and create their own knowledge'. Students who will become 'confident life long learners'.

GET IT NOW AND SHARE HER IDEAS.

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Approach A Man How To Be Happy Again

You may get food plate easily but you have to use your hand to eat the food. You are just wasting your time and food plate as well if you expect someone to eat you. It is a simple example for all the girls who are looking for a perfect partner. It is not an easy task for girls to approach a man. Generally, girls do not feel comfortable while approaching a man. Today, we have brought some important tips to help you become more approachable to men.

DRESS Yes, you should look different and good but it doesn't mean that you have to look out of this world. Many women make the same mistake and men do not notice them. Generally, men don't feel comfortable to approach a most beautiful girl or highly dress woman.

PLACE Generally, men love to approach a girl in party. So, you are not allowed to miss even a single party if you searching a better partner. Please keep in mind that you should not feel bad if someone doesn't approach you.

ENJOY Think positive and enjoy yourself. Share positive attitude and vibes with other but don't let them know about your intentions.

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Grungey10 Seduction Masters Interview

I go by the alias of Grungey10. I'm 21, born and raised in the Philippines until I was 17, migrated to California a couple of years back, and recently just moved to Arizona, arguably the hottest state in America.

I remember having the biggest crush on this undiscovered beauty back when I was 12. She was playing soccer in the park. I was watching her for a couple of minutes then the perfect opportunity came. The ball flew over to my direction. I got the ball but there was no way I was kicking it back, she had to get it from me. See, I was a very mischievous kid. I would always play pranks on everyone and girls didn't scare me that much as needles did, so yeah. I succeeded in becoming her friend and everyone in my School hated me for it (in a good way of course). Later on I found out that her younger sister had a crush on me too, I ended up losing both of them due to my indecisiveness. I couldn't choose between them and it killed my chances. Oh what a heart break that was back then. I remember this incident very well because it was the first and last time (in my high school life) where I liked a girl and she actually liked me back.

1. Describe the moment, when you suddenly realized, "I need to work out this part of my life."

I could never forget that moment.

I had nothing when I first moved to the United Stated.

It all started three and a half years ago when I had to make a very important decision that would eventually change the rest of my life.

Should I migrate to the United States with my whole family and start a new life? Or should I stay with the one I love, my friends, my band, and the country I grew up in?

Fortunately, I was raised well by my parents. There's one thing that my mom would emphasize over and over again, as I grew up, and it's the saying that "blood is thicker than water on any given day". I took that saying to heart. I ended up moving to Los Angeles with no friends, no job, and unable to sign up for a community college (I was still waiting for my papers).

If I wasn't at home playing the guitar or surfing the internet I would be at the gym. That's what my life revolved around for awhile. I was bored, depressed, and celibate for a couple of months. Then I met this girl over the internet. Well, she kind of asked me out. Here's how it went.

We chatted for a week, she felt like we had a connection so she asked me out to coffee. I was actually surprised because it was the first time I'd been out on a date for years back then.

It turned out to be a double date. We were going to be with her roommate and this one other guy. We finally meet. She was cuter than the online picture, so I can't complain about that. She offered to buy me coffee with her Starbucks card but I refused (What the hell was I thinking?!).

We ended up staying there for 2 hours. In those 2 hours, I didn't say more than 30 words.

So what happened?

The whole time, the other guy took control of the situation. He would tell stories about his life, make jokes, and do fun things. He was doing a good job. He wasn't trying to make me look bad, as a matter of fact he tried to get me to open up several times, I just couldn't. I didn't have the skills.

Then it suddenly hit me. I lost most of my social skill due to the fact that my life revolved around 1 girl for 3 years. I was lost. The only reason why I was able to attract her is because I was communicating with her over the internet. I had time to think about the perfect things to say. I wasn't shy to be myself at all because I couldn't see who I was communicating with. That was the problem. I couldn't be me.

I knew I was a cool and interesting guy. I just didn't know how to convey my good qualities.

After the date she hurried home. I didn't hear from her ever since.

That's when I realized that something had to change. I looked for resources online until I stumbled on David D. That's what started my quest for self improvement. I knew something had to change. I knew I needed to improve myself. I wasn't going to stop until I was satisfied with my results.

2. HAVE YOU HAD ANY MENTORS WITHIN THE COMMUNITY/LIFE THAT HAVE HELPED YOU IMPROVE YOUR GAME, AND WHAT DID THEY TEACH YOU?

Unfortunately, I didn't get the chance to have any mentors to guide me through my journey. I couldn't afford it back then. It would have been cool though. It definitely would have accelerated my learning curve. I learned through books, DVD's, experiences, failures, and modeling friends that were successful with women.

It took me awhile to implement the things I learned. If there was one thing I hated the most It had to be failure. I just couldn't stand it. That hatred motivated me to work really hard on improving myself. I knew there wasn't a quick fix. There was no magic pill that would make me successful with women overnight. I had to work on myself on a daily basis. I needed to turn my life around.

That's when I started to put the theories into practice. It wasn't easy though. It was probably the most challenging thing I've ever done in my entire life.

I had to practice everything I learned. Soon I turned myself into a social butterfly. I would talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere. After getting learning how to be social with everyone I started to specialize in the girls that were attractive to me.

So the quest began.

Every time

I saw a girl on the street APPROACH

I saw a girl in the gym APPROACH

I saw a girl in the mall APPROACH

I saw a girl going in her car APPROACH

I saw a girl in the library APPROACH

I saw a girl on the beach APPROACH

I saw a girl with her boyfriend APPROACH

I saw a girl behind the counter APPROACH

I became unstoppable during the day. It was pretty scary. It became something I'd look forward every time I went out of the house. It became a habit. There were a lot of bumps along the road. A lot of sticking points but giving up wasn't an option. I hated failure so much that every time I screwed up, it was back to the drawing board. It was back to learning how to handle the new obstacle and this continued until I got consistent results with women of great quality.

I didn't let it rule my life though. I wasn't there to drop everything in my life and become someone else. I was there to improve myself and develop the skills to convey my personality in an attractive way. I started pursuing the things I was passionate about. I started living a more interesting life. I started to become a renaissance man.

I studied everything and anything that piqued my curiosity. After all, if I wanted to get good at this might as well learn everything inside and out. I didn't want to be that guy that depended on "The Script" the whole time. I wanted to be that guy that's naturally just irresistible and interesting to women.

I went out several times during the week. I tried meeting women in all places during the day time. I went to malls, beaches, college campuses, parks, bookstores, streets, coffee shops, libraries, you name it I've done it. I talked to everyone regardless of their age, gender, or occupation. After all, I believe that success in picking up women can be attributed to the manner of communication used in the conversation. That's all it is.

I repeat.

In my experience, success in picking up girls, building relationships, and getting what you want out of life depends on your communication skills. This includes the verbal and non verbal aspects of communication.

3. CAN YOU DESCRIBE THE FIRST TIME YOU USED A COUNTER-INTUITIVE ROUTINE THAT YIELDED IT'S PROMISED RESULTS, AND HOW YOU FELT?

First of all, I'd like to give you guys a brief background on how I came across a powerful counter intuitive routine that yielded great results for me. Well, actually it isn't a routine. It's more of a mindset.

I remember having this one friend who was just simply phenomenal with women. He was a natural. He always had women starting conversations with him and they all ended up chasing him afterwards. He's this fairly good looking, tall, curly haired, guy that kind of resembled Brandon Boyd (the singer of Incubus).

I learned a lot from this guy.

There were things that I witnessed first hand that blew my entire reality away. It got even crazier when I started incorporating the things I learned from him in my game. Before I get to that, I'd like to mention a couple of things I noticed about this guy.

HE HAD A TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT ATTITUDE WHEN IT CAME TO MEETING WOMEN

This is the most important thing I learned from him. It's so counter intuitive. I learned that the more you demonstrate that you're willing to walk away from a woman, the more she'd want you to stay with her.

This was probably one of the biggest things this guy had going for him. It was his belief. It was the way he viewed life. He never felt like he had to impress anyone. He never placed girls on a pedestal. Don't get me wrong, every time we'd see a hot girl he'd be like "Damn, she's fucking hot" but that wouldn't be apparent when she started talking to him. As a matter of fact he taught me four things when it came to meeting women in exchange for guitar lessons.

First Lesson: Always act disinterested in her. Never ever show that you're head over heels for her at the beginning. Once you let her know she has you. It's over.

Second Lesson: Never be afraid to spark tension in any relationship. Always call a woman on her shit early on and don't be afraid to lose her.

Quick story, there's this one time where I saw this theory in action. It was after this group date we had. She was with her friends and I was with him. We were supposed to head out to the mall after dinner. He wanted her to ride with us instead of her friends. Here's what happened:

My friend: Come ride with us

Hbfriend's Date: Uhm, hold on let me ask my friends real quick

My friend: Cool, hurry up. (he then turns to me and says) "Watch this, I'm going to give her the ultimatum"

Hbfriend's Date: Well, I don't think I can ride with you guys. My friend's aren't comfortable with that because I just met you. I'm sorry.

My friend: First of all Hbfriend's Date, I'm the one you're going to a date with not your friends. We're trying to get to know each other. Second you're 19 not 8, I'm sure you can make your own decisions without your friends by your side. If you're friend's will end up making a decision for you all the time then I don't think this is going to work out between us.

Hbfriend's Date: No, no, I didn't mean it to come across that way. I really want to ride with you it's just that they're concern about my safety. I'll let them know that it's alright ok? I'll talk to them.

(She comes after 5 minutes and rides with us)

Third Lesson: Always let her know indirectly or directly that you have other options. It's going to be her loss if she didn't get to date you.

Fourth Lesson: Always act confident in everything that you do. If you're going to go for the kiss just do it. Even if you're uncomfortable just do it. If you're nervous then you should learn how to hide it. Never show any signs of indecisiveness.

I experienced a lot of positive results ever since I started to be indifferent towards the outcome. Every time a girl would mention something she didn't like about me I'd say "You can take it or leave it, it's up to you, either way I'll be happy". I took that mindset to heart and my whole world change since then.

There were dozens of other things I picked up from this guy. I'll share them with you another time.

4. COULD YOU DESCRIBE WHAT YOU'RE LIFE WAS LIKE BEFORE YOU WERE AWARE OF THIS, AND/OR WHAT OPTIONS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN NOW?

My transition to being attractive to women

I'd usually end up getting with a girl after a few months of knowing her. It would always start out with me befriending her, then I would take her out, then she ended up liking me. I could only talk to a girl if she was introduced to me. Picking up a girl that I didn't know was completely foreign to me. I doubted it was possible.

Even though I've had some success back then, it still sucked for me big time. I always had to settle for something less. I never really got the kind of girl that I wanted.

But now, I have no problems with talking to anyone, anywhere, anytime. Finding a girl was hard for me because I'm really picky. I have this whole checklist of qualities that I look for in a girl. The shallow ones are: She had to be older than me, taller than me, and blonde. After a few years in the game it finally paid off. I met my match. The best part about it is that I never used a single routine to get her. I was able to drop the training wheels and still get similar results. Ever since then, I've been teaching guys how to duplicate my results through my step by step, easy to use, system of picking up women during the daytime.

5. What was your hardest/biggest sticking point?

This is easy. My biggest sticking point was my limiting belief that it was impossible for me to date someone that was older than me, taller than me, and blonde (occasionally brunettes). It took some time before I actually got over it.

Everything was different back where I was from. Everyone there placed blonde people on a pedestal. It's crazy but it's true. I remember instances, when I was growing up, where I'd see a blonde girl walk through the mall and all the heads would instantly turn towards her direction. People would be walking out of her way and a lot would be mesmerized just by her mere presence. It was ridiculous but that's the society I lived in.

When I first moved here it was one of my biggest sticking points. I've identified it as a problem but it wouldn't go away. That's when I decided to challenge myself. I wanted to prove myself wrong. I wanted to prove everyone wrong. Since then I decided to only date girls that are older than me, taller than me, or blonde. It was a self fulfilling prophecy. I realized that it was a stupid limiting belief. It was just all in my head. The reason why I wouldn't be successful in the past was because I expected failure. It was all negative thinking which wasn't productive at all.

Ever since then I've converted a lot of guys from skeptics to believers. Believers that it can be done. Believers that it is possible to get a girl through personality and communication. Being a minority isn't a problem at all. Being Asian will only work against you if you believe that it does.

6. DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE ROUTINE/STEP IN YOUR MODEL, CAN YOU DESCRIBE IT, AND WHAT IT ACCOMPLISHES?

It's actually a phase not a routine. It's what I call emotional connection. Emotional connection is what I call The Heart of Day Game.

A lot of guys out there focus too much on attracting girls and making them laugh. But there's more to attracting a girl then just making her laugh.

How often do you think a girl laughs in a day?

- Someone tells a joke, she laughs

- Her friend makes a funny sound, she laughs

- Something embarrassing happens, she laughs

- Someone tells a story, she laughs

- She spends time with her family, she laughs

A girl laughs several times in a day. It's something common. If you can make a girl laugh then you definitely got an advantage, and a couple more minutes to talk to her but it shouldn't stop there. You should be able to build an emotional connection with her too.

I have a theory on the power of emotional connection. Let's step into a girl's shoes for awhile.

Growing up, she probably watched her share of Disney or romantic movies where there's this prince charming that's different from everybody else. She's been dreaming of this guy ever since she was a kid. This guy who would just sweep her of her feet, connects with her on a deep level, and gives her the experience of a lifetime.

High school comes and this prince charming never arrives. Well, a couple of chumps might come along the way but never the one she's been dreaming about. Then she probably tells herself: "You know what, I'll just settle for what's available. After all you can only find guys like those in movies". After that realization, she'll go for the guys that everyone else desires. She'll probably settle for guys that can satisfy her logically, physically, but never emotionally. Years pass by and she's forgotten about her dreams.

Then you come along.

How often does a stranger walk up to a girl in a confident manner, and instantly make her comfortable? Makes her laugh a little bit and then connects with her logically, emotionally, and physically. They end up opening there souls to one another on the very first day that they meet. He taps into a certain side of her that's been unavailable to most guys all these years. He relates to her on all levels and thus an emotional connection is born. He ends up creating an emotional connection that is so strong that she ends up remembering him all her life.

This is very powerful.

This can't be faked.

It's an acquired skill that I help my students develop

7. Have you had the experience yet, where you feel that you've reached a certain degree of mastery? Can you explain the time, and how you got the realization?

My biggest realization is that you can break all the rules and still get the girl. You don't have to have the best opener in order for the girl to talk to you. Sometimes "Hey, What's going on?" or "I like you shirt, you have awesome style" would work wonders for you.

It's not a crime to ask boring rapport questions like "So, where you from?" or "What do you do for a living?" if you know where you're leading the conversation.

A lot of people get sucked in into thinking that there's a certain way that things should be done and anything else other than that is just plain wrong. It took me years to realize that anything will work if you do it right. A girl's attraction towards you is caused by the way you carry yourself and the things you communicate by your body language, voice tonality, facial expressions, mannerisms, and emotional projection. I know it's been said a lot but the words you say aren't nearly as important as to how you say it. I believe that being comfortable with expressing oneself and beliefs combined with the right frame of thinking and execution will produce amazing results when done right.

Being able to just act cool and natural and still generate attraction consistently with women is a level that I'm glad I've reached.

8. WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO NEWBIES STARTING OUT, IN ORDER TO GREATLY ACCELERATE THEIR LEARNING CURVE?

There's a process that you will go through in learning everything you need to know in order to be successful with women. This is an ongoing and repetitive process. This will go on until you get to the point where you're satisfied with your skill level.

Discover: You have to gather as much information as you can on the subject matter. It is very important to have access to the right information. There's a lot of stuff out there that will actually work against you. You have to be smart with your choices. Remember that information is not power but potential power.

Plan: You have to come up with a SOLID GAME PLAN. A plan that will get you to where you ultimately want to go. It's going to be broken down to years, months, weeks, and days.

Act: Gathering information and creating a plan alone won't get you anywhere. You need to be able to carry out the plan and religiously stick to it until you see results. This is the stage where a lot of people just give up. They give up because there's no one out there helping them out. There's no one out there to point them to the right direction. There's no one out there critiquing them on their strong and weak points.

9. WHAT'S YOUR BELIEF ON INNER GAME, AND HOW DID YOU IMPROVE IT?

Working on both inner and outer game, at the same time, helped me in my overall progress. It's important to have a balance between the two. Working your inner game first will eventually get you the results you want but it's going to take time. Working on your outer game first would build your confidence and increase your inner game but you'll still need to work out some inner game issues in the end. Working on both simultaneously creates magic.

10. DO YOU HAVE A PERSONAL FAVORITE FIELD REPORT (YOUR OWN) THAT YOU COULD RELAY?

There was this one incident in my workplace. She was this tall, attractive girl who worked in the cosmetic section (later on I found out she was a stripper). In the past I would always try to just talk to her and push it as far as I could. This time everything was different.

It was break time. She was sitting down in the eating area. I was getting a drink from the vending machine. Here's how it went:

Grungey10: (gets drink)

Hbstrippercoworker: Why are you drinking diet coke? (in a sarcastic tone)

Grungey10: Ohhhh baby... Ohh baby... I have to keep this sexy little body so I can impress you, remember? Or else you won't find me hot anymore (smirks and ignores her for a bit)

Hbstrippercoworker: Omg, you're so cocky... rolls her eyes, giggles, and continues reading her magazine.

Grungey10: (I Pull a chair in front of her, Put my feet up on a chair, eat her chips then I say) what you reading?

Hbstrippercoworker: (looks at me, pushes the magazine towards me and says) Well I think you should read it. You probably need it. *It was an article titled "How to please a woman every time"*

Grungey10: Oh that's cute. You're moving a little fast for me though. I don't put out that easy, I'm a high maintenance slut. You'd have to wine me and dine me before I put out. Nice try, you're too cute for me though. If you were a few inches taller, I'd consider it. Oh well, that's life... so sad... Sucks, but yeah

Hbstrippercoworker: Omg you're such a jerk... lol... so how old are you?

Grungey10: the question is, how old are you?

Hbstrippercoworker: Uhm just turned 18

Grungey10: ooohhhh barely legal. Well, you're too young for me. I like older girls.

Hbstrippercoworker: No really, how old are you?

Grungey10: old enough (I stand up and start walking away)

Hbstrippercoworker: (starts chasing me down the hallway) no really. How old are you? Come on don't tease me.

Grungey10: Whoa... Slow down there kiddo, first you flirt with me and now you're chasing me down the hallway. You've been watching way too much romantic movies haven't you?

Hbstrippercoworker: You're funny, I like you. You can avoid the age thing all you want but we definitely have to hang out one of these days.

Grungey10: We'll see

(Later on during that day she walks up to me while I was in the middle of a sales transaction. She grabs my hand non chalantly, writes her number down, and walks away)

Grungey10: (Then I look at my customer and say) Girls nowadays, aiy ya yay...

(fast forward to 10 pm when the store closes. I get into my car and just before I could back up she shows up. Goes near my window, smiles, then flicks me off)

Grungey10: (I get out of my car she turns around, I get in her face) Hey, if you wanted to kiss me you didn't have to flick me off you know? You could have just said so and I would have gladly denied you of your request.

Hbstrippercoworker: You're too much for me too handle... come here (she kisses me)

I'll stop this field report here. If we ever meet you can ask me what happened afterwards =p

11. What is your current sticking point (if any)?

I'm working on building a huge social circle out here in Arizona. It's definitely been fun lately specially when all the hard work finally pays off and meeting people is as easy as crossing the street. My current sticking point has to do with toning down game for the college environment. I have to remind myself from time to time to tone it down. The main skills you should focus on, when gaming in college, are vibing, wide and deep rapport skills, story telling, frame control, and that's sums it up. Anything else is overkill in my experience.

12. WHAT ARE YOU GOALS NOW WITHIN THE COMMUNITY, AND IN LIFE?

I enjoy teaching guys how to communicate better with women. Like everything else in life; it's a skill. It's not something you're born with but something you develop later on. The guys that are phenomenal with women weren't always like that. They had to learn it early on. They had to fail before they succeeded. They probably had good role models to look up to.

It's not hard at all to learn how to meet women during the day.

I've broken the process down to a simple, effective, and easy to use step by step system that goes from meeting a girl all the way to getting a number, kiss, instant date, and bringing her home the very same day.

If you want to be successful in meeting women during the day then

1. You must have drive, motivation, patience, and persistence.

2. You at least have to be passionate about getting good at this.

3. You must be willing to fail in order to succeed.

4. You will practice everything you learn in the seminar and integrate it into your life.

All of these will help you out in the long run.

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While scientists might think that there is an actual formula men must use in order to get somewhere with women at a bar [read: sex], one man thinks he knows exactly what is needed. Alcohol. And lots of it.

Through his educational videos, Jason teaches us that the more a woman drinks, the friendlier she becomes. She becomes so friendly, in fact, that she is willing to bypass the fact that she has a boyfriend altogether.

So while most women head to bars to hang out with the girls and dance up a storm, guys head to bars to have sex. Well, to find someone to have sex with anyway.

So when a guy approaches a sober woman, her defenses are up because she knows that he just wants to tap that. But after a couple of drinks, or 8, according to Jason, her defenses come down and she's ready to take off her clothes and get to know a man better.

So yeah, it's all simple math; the more a woman drinks, the more likely a chance a guy has of scoring. Everybody wins.

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Dating Rules You Must Follow

Rules in dating? It seems abnormal but its not. There are few rules in dating, if followed by nicely you date will become the unforgettable date for you.

DOS

* do try to look best and be punctual.
* do enjoy your date
* do share compliment with each other
* do date only people you are interested in.
* do talk nicely and about the likes of each other
* do surround with positive energy

DONTS

* don't date a person who have hurt you in past.
* don't be late on date
* don't lie to your date about any thing of your life
* don't be too available
* don't check out other people on date
* don't give your personal information on date
* never date a married person

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Janka Method Covers Every Stage Of The Attraction Process

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Table of Contents/ List of Topics Covered:- Learn to approach any woman- Learn how to get her phone number in under 2 minutes- Learn how to eliminate all nervousness and awkwardness when talking to women- Lean to meet girls everywhere you go, without any hesitation or fear of approach- Learn to create instant sexual chemistry- Learn to start interesting conversations with women that lead to dates and sex- Learn to make a great first impression on any women- How to develop the skills necessary to meet women in a variety of day to day situations- Learn exactly what to say to make a great impression and get her phone number.

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Falling Into Love

The chill in the air, the crisp leaves falling in the breeze, and it's the perfect time for romance. In honor of the first day of fall, we've compiled a list of 20 ideas to help you "fall" in love - for the first time or again!

* Take a drive through the country to view the wondrous colors of fall. Bring along a picnic lunch and stop amongst the fall beauty. Check out the Foliage Network before you go for updates on fall's splendor.

* Give her a beautiful potted harvest mum -- or several pots, all different colors.

* Surprise him with a sexy Halloween costume in the bedroom -- even if it's not Halloween night.

* Give her a bouquet of colorful fallen leaves wrapped in tissue paper with a note that says "I 'fall' in love with you more each day."

* Visit a pumpkin patch -- bundle up, sip cider, take a hay ride, and pick the perfect pumpkin.

* After you've picked your pumpkin, spend an afternoon roasting pumpkin seeds and baking a homemade pumpkin pie -- which you can then feed to one another by candle light.

* Don't like pumpkin pie? Try a pumpkin cheesecake! Harry David's sells a pumpkin chocolate cheesecake (remember, chocolate is an aphrodisiac) that you can savor together.

* Visit an apple orchard -- pick apples together, then spend an afternoon in the kitchen baking a sweet apple pie together.

* Order a beautiful fall bouquet full of sunset roses or peruvian lillies.

* Fall = Football. Surprise him during his big game with these delicious, hand-dipped, chocolate covered strawberries!

* Men - there's no gift more romantic than a hand-crafted one. Try your hand at creating this small fall foilage bouquet for her. Add a black sharpie to your supplies list and write (gently!) a short love message on the backs of the leaves.

* If you're feeling especially crafty, create an entire bouquet of roses made completely from gorgeous maple leaves! These hand made roses are simply incredible (and free at that)!

* You've no doubt heard that food is the way to a man's heart. Find a maple or oak leaf cookie cutter and bake a batch of sugar cookies, then add a layer of icing tinted to various shades of reds, yellows, oranges, greens, and browns.

* Frolic like kids through the falling leaves.

* Look through Google's image search for the perfect autumn leaves picture and change his/her computer desktop to reflect the season.

* Skip out of work early and spend the afternoon all warm and cozy in bed together.

* Spend a saturday afternoon at a Harvest festival.

* Pick up some fresh harvest foods at the above festival, then feast on them by candle light together.

* If you want to get away, spend the weekend at a BB in the northeast, complete with fireplace. Check out BedAndBreakfast.com to find your perfect weekend getaway.

* Head to a national park or forest and spend the day hiking, taking in the scenery and all of autumn's true beauty.

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Do You Believe In Love At First Sight

Love at first sight, it is some obsessions which several of us do not believe in until and unless the tragedy happens to us. Many of us must have undergone with an experience like walking into a club, a friend's house or wherever, it tends that we catch eyes with someone who become so wonderful and perfect for us that we do not wants to look somewhere away. We certainly covered our self with full of excitement, eagerness and stimulation with the eye contact constantly that we finally think of conversing.

And when actually communicate; you just appear to get connected. Your likes, dislikes or some of the habits seems to be similar and you got surety that it is what love at first sight means. Love at first sight is as real as it seems to appear. Our reaction towards the new relationship will not always be ordinary, because as you get to know each other more perfectly good things may seem not so perfect. Once you move out from the awesome sensations of getting knowledge someone new then you might understand that it is not a love at first site, but it's a lust of first sight, which is not always a bad thing.

As there is a duration when extreme lust can also twist to love, so clear out all your assumption that you must just give up as you realize that ii is not a real love. Love at first sight is generally believed by many people as because they have felt it. Some of them are little bit exhausted because that they admitted the thought that love at first sight occurs anything but just a dream. Either, it is a strongest familiarity to indulge and get easily connected to another that you find it as a love.

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Ashley Youmans Aka Governor Spitzer Hooker What Would You Do

Everyone here in the US has heard about the resignation of New York state Governor Splitzer. We'll you usually have a fat intern at the other end of a scandal.

Give props to Spitzer for at least choosing a beautiful call girl. I've always wondered what the hell Hugh Grant was thinking. Apparently this girl Ashley Youmans currently lives in a posh New York City apartment and is trying to get her music career off the ground.

BTW, if you went to high school with Ashley Youmans then you should check out the new Facebook group. I love the internet. It's like shame virus central, equally as satisfying is her online dating profile (which could be a fake) that says "I do very bad things, and I do them very well.". Awesome. Shout out to Bobby Rio - this girls dirty and from New Jersey!

HERE ARE SOME ASHLEY YOUMAN PICS:

She certainly grew into herself:

This girl is a knockout. Easy 8.5. It appears like she's got more going on than just being a high class call girl.

THE QUESTION I POSE TO YOU GENTLEMEN IS THIS:

How would you pick up a girl like this without using Spitzer money? Obviously she sees men as a prostitute, something which you would not be aware of. She would probably have money and might even associate a negative feeling with men with power, money and probably wouldn't get overly jealous if you ever used jealous plot lines or social value tactics.

On the flip side, perhaps she is sexually drawn to that. Hence, killing to birds with one stone. Maybe she craves the feeling of security that comes from being a call girl for men with money and power. THOSE ARE JUST SOME OF MY THOUGHTS, BUT I'D LOVE TO HEAR YOUR THOUGHTS IN THE COMMENTS BELOW ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD SEDUCE A WOMAN THAT SEDUCES MEN.

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How To Choose An Online Dating Services

Thousand of companies are present in market to provide dating services. This topic has been popular for so long and popular in all age group. Websites are earning millions through online dating services. New user always faces difficulties while using such websites, as they are not user friendly for first time user. It takes time to be familiar with functionality.

There are few important aspects keep in mind while choosing the online dating services:

Always choose the correct relationship options you are looking for. If you are looking for soul mate, multi relationship, men, women etc. choose accordingly. There is not shortage of choice on websites. Do check the members you are looking for. Always choose the correct one, the kind of person you want to meet. These websites do provide the match making features as well. Use the search tool and find the best soul mate as per your choice.

Once you decided to go for dating services, check each and everything properly. Always select the best and reputed website for dating, as it's not an easy task to choose the dating site. Most good websites provide the free sign up option, so never pay anything, if any website asks you to pay online.

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DOS

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Ashley Youmans Aka Governor Spitzer Hooker What Would You Do

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