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Online Flirting

Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for “brick and mortar” flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting. Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT. If you go too far, she will label you “slimy” If you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”. So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language? All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right?

- Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
- Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
- Listen...listen....listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
- Compliment her...and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say “thank you”. Do Not be self depreciating.
- Have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
- Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.

I. Respect. A relationship is about friendship, respect, and acceptance of one another. When there is lack of respect for the other trust and respect is replaced by suspicion and can slowly grow to hatred.

Good Signs:

- You take the time to listen and understand the other’s point opinion.
- You support and encourage each other’s individual interests and identity.
- You are aware of your partner’s faults and are able to accept some imperfections.

Warning Signs:

- You can’t forgive and/or forget each other’s mistakes.
- You are constantly struggling to live up to your partner's standards or the person you think your partner wants you to be.
- Your partner will not give you space to indulge in your interests and wants to spend every minute of the day with you.
- You criticize each other in front of others.

II. Communication. Being honest with each other in a relationship is very important and it is also important that you get to know the person properly before you commit yourself. How well do you know each other? Is the only talking you do bedroom talk?

Good Signs:

- You are open and honest with each other about your feelings.
- You can argue and come to some sort of compromise at the end of it.
- You talk openly about life issues such as finances, children, things that frighten you, and each other's ambitions in life.

Warning Signs:

- Neither of you is willing to forgive the other.
- You don’t discuss how you are feeling with each other and the frustration builds up in each of you, often causing you to resent each other.
- You only know his favorite color and what paper he reads. You are afraid to ask him in-depth questions about his life for fear of rejection or for fear of what you might find out.

III. Love. A long lasting relationship/marriage can rarely survive without love. So is it love or are you just kidding yourself?

Good Signs:

- You make sacrifices to make the other person happy.
- You are emotionally, physically, and mentally compatible.
- You are friends as well as lovers.
- You are truthful and honest and don’t keep secrets from one another.
- In a crisis you stand by each other no matter what the result.

Warning Signs:

- Your has been unfaithful on numerous occasions.
- Your partner has an eye for members of the opposite sex and has proved to be untrustworthy.
- There is little physical affection, laughter, or communication between the two of you.
- Your partner lies to you about where he/she has been and only confesses when you find out the truth.
- When the going gets tough, your partner gets going.

Don’t try to go too fast. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets
Kate Fox - Guide To Flirting

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Beleif Buster Kit

Change your beliefs and you change the very filters

with which you perceive and create your world!

“Beliefs are the determinant of what one experiences.

There are no external causes.”

- David Hawkins, I: Reality and Subjectivity

But, do you even know what your beliefs are?

Step one of your Belief Busting journey is to identify them.

So much of what you believe you are not even conscious of

and simply accept as 'the way life is'.

Yet the 'way life is' is a direct PRODUCT of these beliefs.

Most of your beliefs are formed during your childhood years,

yet they continue to impact your reality TODAY.

Beliefs don't fade with time. Quite the contrary. If you don't change them they are compounded by the very experiences they themselves generate in a detrimental catch 22.

You have a belief about EVERYTHING in your world!

And if you're experiencing limitation, struggle or hardship ANYWHERE, be that with relationships, money, your career, health, etc.,

you'll find an un-serving belief there to be cleared!

You CAN BREAK FREE!

The Belief Buster Kit shows you EXACTLY how to do this,

with over 20 exercises and techniques to identify and clear limiting beliefs

and create and install new empowering beliefs in their place.

It includes the Belief Buster Meditation

so you can implement these changes at a subconscious level.

It's time to get off the hamster wheel of your

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You see the great news is...

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Part 3 looks at how you can harness your blockages (yes, that's right, your blockages) to identify limiting beliefs and patterns and turn enemies into allies.

Part 4 shows how to create and install new empowering beliefs that are aligned to your desires (including the Belief Buster Meditation)

Part 5 offers 9 techniques for strengthening your new beliefs in everyday life including a Daily Belief Program.

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Online Dating Reality Show Casting Call

Have you been communicating with someone via an online dating site and want to meet in person? Well, there's a new reality show that is casting men and women who are interested in meeting an online love interest via their show.

Your chance to submit yourself only lasts until February 2, 2010, so if you want to meet someone you met on an online dating site, but who lives too far away, or whom you simply want to meet while the cameras are rolling, this might be the perfect opportunity for you.

So whether you're not hooking up with your online love interest due to proximity, money or "just because", now you have the opportunity to not only meet them, but you can show the whole world that it's possible to find the one you want via online dating. And perhaps get those 15 minutes everyone covets so much.

Suggested free e-books to read:

David Deangelo - Double Your Dating How To Change Yourself
Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets

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Befriend Women

Friendships and connections are a necessity in life. We need them for our health and even our survival. It's important to recognize that whatever we put out into the world, we will also receive. Furthermore, I've learned that if you know how to be a good friend, and practice that in your everyday life, you will be able to create friendships with not only other women, but other people in general.

I know quite a few women with great female friendships and I know quite a few women who have had no-so-great experiences when trying to befriend other women. And what I can say is this, the keys to establishing a great female friendship are 1) being a great friend yourself and 2) being able to spot the signs of "female friend potential." This means you need to be able to model certain qualities and look for certain qualities and attributes in your friends. Maybe you don't know what qualities to look for, maybe you're having doubts about a current friendship, or maybe you're interested in whether "you're" even being a good friend yourself.

Through experience I've learned a few valuable lessons about choosing female friends, as well as how to be a good friend myself. What are these lessons? Take a read and let me know if you agree. Here's what I've learned about choosing female friends:

1. TO AVOID GOSSIP-QUEENS

Gossip is a big issue among women. Women talk- sometimes more than we should. Men constantly joke about the gossipy nature of women. Yes, the behavior can be funny. But it can also be destructive. As "harmless" as gossiping can "appear", the harsh reality is this: habitual gossipers are insecure people who try to mask their inadequacies by fixating on the lives of others. And while many women will entertain gossip from time to time, nobody really trusts or really wants to be friends with a gossiper. I've learned that people (not just women) may "act" like they're cool with a gossiper, but they will never trust or take a friendship with a gossiper seriously. And rightfully so! I've learned to avoid women who gossip, and turn down invitations to gossip. Doing this has enabled me to recognize true friends and have more meaningful female friendships.

2. TO BEFRIEND WOMEN WHO RESPECT AND VALUE INDEPENDENCE

It's important to have friends that respect and value your independence. I've observed friendships and had former "friends" who wanted to behave like puppet-masters or put ridiculous conditions on the friendship like, "I don't like Nicole, and if you were my friend you wouldn't talk to her either." Maybe in grade school, this type of behavior would be understandable. But it has no place among grown women. A real friend values your independence and ability to make decisions on your own. And I've learned that if a woman ever makes you feel like you can't think for yourself or make your own decisions without her feeling "hurt" or "betrayed", then she's not really your friend at all.

3. TO BEFRIEND WOMEN WHO ARE THERE IN THE GOOD TIMES- AND THE BAD TIMES

I once went through a pretty bad breakup. I was an absolute emotional wreck and wanted to be alone so I could cry and sulk- but my girlfriend refused. I tried to act tough, like everything was fine, but she insisted that I crash at her place for the weekend. So for two days, I camped out at her place while she made my meals and entertained me with movies and games. At one point, the pain of my breakup resurfaced and I began to cry. What did my girlfriend do? She gave me a huge hug, some Kleenex, a pep talk, and even played therapist- which is pretty funny now considering that I'm the doctor. For two days, my friend took time out of her life to be there for me in my time of crisis. And I've never forgotten that kind gesture. My friend is a shining example of what it means to be a great friend and I'm lucky to have her in my life.

4. TO BEFRIEND WOMEN WHO HANDLE CONFLICT MATURELY

I've learned that a great friend knows how to resolve conflict in a mature manner. Furthermore, a great friend is someone who will not keep adding fuel to the fire when any type of conflict arises that may compromise the friendship. Disagreements and debate are just a normal part of friendship- but pettiness, disrespect and spitefulness are not. Watch how your friend (or potential friend) handles conflict. Are they a peacemaker or are they a fire-starter? The way they handle conflict will clue you into their level of maturity and their worth as a friend.

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR FRIEND'S BEHAVIOR IS QUESTIONABLE

I love this quote by Bob Marley because it best sums up how you should approach friendships:

"THE TRUTH IS, EVERYONE IS GOING TO HURT YOU"." YOU JUST GOT TO FIND THE ONES WORTH SUFFERING FOR."

If you want to have healthy friendships with other women, "and other people in general", you're going to have to learn to expect flaws and disappointment from time to time. I'm not saying to be a pushover and accept disrespect under any circumstance. What I am saying is to recognize that no friendship is "perfect." So if and when conflict occurs, you should take the time to LOGICALLY weigh the good against the bad. If there's more good, do your part to address any issues and maintain the friendship. If there's more bad, cut her loose and keep it moving. In the end, your goal is to have a GREAT AND LIFE-LONG FRIENDSHIP. And the best way to do this is by making SMART decisions in who you choose as friends.

DO YOU HAVE GREAT FEMALE FRIENDSHIPS? WHAT IS THE KEY TO FORMING AND MAINTAINING HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHER WOMEN?

Suggested free e-books to read:

Cr James - Friends
Dr Dennis Neder - Getting Women

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Dating Ideas To Make Your Date Special

Dating doesn't contain any hard and fast rule to get success. But after following few dating ideas, you can increase the chances of success.

Restaurant - Restaurant is the best place from where you can start your date nicely. Always make sure to take your date to nice place where he/she can feel comfortable and enjoy a lot. Delicious food can work as cherry on the cake.

Digital camera - Never forget to bring a camera on a date. A nice camera can show your seriousness towards the relationship. It always helps to save the nice moment with your soul mate.

Museum or garden - Museum or garden can be other nice dating ideas. Most of the people love to spend time alone with their soul mates, and nothing can beat a nice museum or garden.

Gift- Never forgets to take a gift for your partner. A nice gift always show how much you care can for him/her. Always present the gift at the end of the dating. It helps to save some nice memory, even after finishing the date.

Cake - If it is your first date, then nothing can beat a nice chocolate cake. A sweet cake can help to make a good start.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Chris - Dating Groundwork How To Have More Social Success
C Kellogg - Dating Tips For Men Special Report

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Dating Sites For Cat Owners

Women who own more than 3 cats are not doomed to spend their lives alone if MYCATSPACE.COM has anything to say about it. The new online dating site for cat lovers hopes that a common interest in cats will help break the ice for singles looking for love online.

DATEMYPET.COM founder ROBERT YAU recently started MYCATSPACE.COM and thinks that, while loving cats will not a perfect couple make, the common ground helps to break the ice.

But MYCATSPACE.COM is not the only online dating site for pet lovers, here are a few others dating sites or social networking sites that pet owners might enjoy:

* THERIGHTBREED.COM allows pet owners to instant message, chat, and even stream video from webcams. The service is free for 2 months and costs about $15 per month after that.
* PETPASSIONS.COM is a free online dating and social networking site that is divided up so that cat lovers can stick with their own kind.
* MUSTLOVEPETS.COM allows visitors to meet cat lovers in their vicinity and abroad for free, if they only want the basic membership. To contact other members, however, there is a one-time fee of $44.95.
* DATEMYPET.COM, as aforementioned, asks members to fill out 2 profiles, one for them, and one for their pet. Basic membership is free, or you can pay $15 a month to initiate contact with other members.

So the cat ladies all over the world have nothing to fear; now the internet can help you find a man who will love you, and won't secretly kick your cat when you're not around.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Elena Petrova - Dating Advice For The Newly Single
C Kellogg - Top Dating Tips For Weary Singles

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Dhv Stories

One of the things many aspiring PUA's need to learn about is how to talk about themselves positively, in a way that builds attraction. This has been codified as the "DHV (demonstration of higher value) story": a prepared story you tell which has embedded DHV triggers to help build attraction.

Personally, I feel the whole idea of a DHV story is somewhat overblown. Women respond more to behavioral cues than verbal ones - acting like a high value man is more important than telling stories of your exploits. Furthermore, it's important not to come off as bragging - if the DHV spikes in your story don't feel natural, you're going to do more harm than good.

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Nevertheless, most aspiring PUAs mess up by being too passive and self-effacing. You should be able to tell stories about yourself, and you should be able to embed little DHV spikes into every story you tell. And of equal importance, you need to be aware of the ways in which the stories you tell reinforce or damage your value.

For example, if you are talking about an ex, and you describe her negatively, what is that saying about you? That you somebody who lets himself get tied down to low-value women, and therefore must not be too high-value yourself. Better is to praise the women you were with.

For example, recently I was in a large set where we were all talking about the last time we had great sex. Rather than just focus on the freaky aspects of it, I talked about how powerful our connection was. (This subcomunicates that I have enough sex to not be blown away merely by the in-and-out mechanics of it).

I then talked about how we always seemed to kiss or touch each other exactly the way we wanted to be kissed or touched. (This subcommunicates that I understand women's physical experience of sex).

Lastly I praised many of her qualities outside the bedroom, describing her (truthfully) as an "ivy-league-educated former model." (This isn't even subcommunicaiton. I'm hitting preselection hard.)

By the time I finished, two of the girls in the set were giving me the doggie-dinner-bowl look, and one asked me, "What happened?" So I told her truthfully that my career demanded I be on one coast while her career demanded she be on the other, so we decided we had to let each other go. (Subcommuicating emotional maturity, and the ability to have adult relationships.)

Never in the conversation did I praise myself directly - but the story itself demonstrated a tremendous amount of value to all the women present, merely by praising a woman I was with. It also worked so well because it came up naturally in the course of the conversation. If I had forced it by saying, "let me tell you about this former model I was dating who I had great sex with" it would have felt like I was bragging, and they wouldn't have believed a word coming out of my mouth even though it was all true.

Lastly, there's a very important trap to avoid: self-deprecating humor and false modesty. A lot of guys get themselves into trouble by making jokes at their own expense, or being so afraid of bragging that they constantly put themselves down.

Don't do this. Be willing to celebrate your own accomplishments, and never shy away from talking about them if they naturally come up in conversation. And when you have the opportunity to get a laugh by putting yourself down, don't! Take that self-deprecating joke and turn it around, turn it into a self-aggrandizing joke. It may be a small change, but it will pay real results!

Good gaming!

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Suggested free e-books to read:

Tyler Durden - Ev Questions
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Book Review A Commonsense Guide To Successful Internet

I Can't Believe I'm Buying This Book: A Commonsense Guide to Successful Internet Dating

Ask anyone and they'll agree; internet dating is not easy. Dating in and of itself is not easy; throw the internet into the mix and you've got yourself a whole ball of confusion.

But EVAN MARC KATZ provides a matter-of-fact take on using the internet as a dating device and does so without being too brash and providing an entertaining read to boot.

Of course, the title is a little disconcerting; likely something you wouldn't want to read on the bus, but the book's subtitle makes up for the shock value title. EVAN MARC KATZ really did put together a commonsense guide to successful dating.

And what's funny about this book is that it can be applied to a lot more than just internet dating. Seriously, you can use this book to learn how to market a product or service, or even succeed in your job hunt.

The best part of the book? One of the most clever opening personal ad lines I've ever read:

FUNNY GUY WITH KILLER BODY AND MONEY TO BURN SEEKS WOMAN WHO DOESN'T BELIEVE EVERYTHING SHE READS

So if you're thinking about going online to find that special someone, you'll want to get your hands "A Commonsense Guide to Successful Dating. Soon enough you'll figure out a way to not only put up a successful profile; you'll learn how to respond to those that pique your interest and almost guarantee a response.

RATING: 3.5 OUT OF 5

By Evan Marc Katz

Suggested free e-books to read:

Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Attracting Women
Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Handling Women
Tom Hopkins - Official Guide To Success Summary

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Online Flirting

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Beleif Buster Kit

Online Dating Reality Show Casting Call

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Dating Ideas To Make Your Date Special

Dating Sites For Cat Owners

Dhv Stories

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