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Why Women Fall For Serial Killers

It seems that there's a bizarre phenomenon that is being ignored by many. Why do seemingly normal women fall hopelessly in love with serial killers and murderers?

One infamous serial killer who has a bevy of groupies is serial killer and rapist RICHARD RAMIREZ, a.k.a. the Night Stalker. Even SCOTT PETERSON, a.k.a. the jerk off (that's my own cute little nickname for him), the man who killed and disposed of the body of his 8 months pregnant wife gets fan mail from infatuated women.

What's up with that? Why are all these women falling hard for men who would slit their throats and then pop open a bag of Doritos and watch them slowly die?

And it seems that it's the men with high notoriety that get the most fan mail. It's like they're quasi-celebrities, it seems.

My theory is that these women fall for these serial killers and murderers for 4 reasons:

1- They love the sense of danger

2- They love the celebrity of it and know they'll never get a response if they wrote to, say, George Clooney

3- They think they can "fix" him if given the opportunity

4- They are crazy

When all is said and done, these guys are on death row and the women who love them know that the end is near, so it must give them some sense of martyrdom that they befriend these guys, or worse yet, marry them.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Various Authors - Mental Defectives And Sexual Offenders
Dylan Morgan - Hypnosis For Beginners
David Deangelo - What Women Hate Most About Single Guys

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Are All Women The Same

Here is something that I want every guy in the world to remember, and it's something really important. Once you get this, it is something that will help you to grow immensely.

AND HERE IS WHAT I WANT YOU TO REMEMBER: E"very woman is wired the exact same way. I don't care if she is tall, short, fat, skinny, yellow, green, purple, orange or blue. It doesn't make a difference. Every woman is wired the exact same way."

It is how you look at their mask that determines how most guys talk to them. When you walk up to a woman to whom you are not attracted, she is not thinking "This is guy is talking to me because he is not attracted to me." What she is thinking is, "I'm a cool girl. This guy is talking to me because I'm a hot and sexy."

Ask any single woman to set you up with one of her friends, and do you know what she'll say to you? She will say something like, "I'm going to hook you up with my friend Mary. She's so cute, it's unbelievable." Then you go and pick Mary up for the date, and Mary is not cute at all. When you tell the woman who set you up that you didn't think Mary was cute at all, she will disagree and say that she is very cute.

Every woman thinks that all of her friends are beautiful. That is because every woman is beautiful.

For every woman out there that you don't find attractive, there are a ton of guys who will think she's very attractive. There are a ton of guys out there who will think that woman is hot.

So many guys can walk up to a woman they find unattractive and talk to them with no problem. If those same guys walk up to a woman they find attractive, though, they talk to her like she's an alien.

Those two women are wired the exact same way. If you can talk to a woman to whom you are not attracted, then you can talk to a woman you think is hot.

Attractive women and unattractive women are are all attractive women to someone. You might look at my girlfriend and not think she is pretty at all. I don't really care, because I know what I think about her.

So when you approach a woman, you need to remember that if you can talk to any woman then you can talk to all women. I tell guys all the time to go out and flirt with 80 year old women.

Find the ones who are wearing makeup, because they are the ones who still see themselves as the beautiful 20 year old girl they once were. If you can talk to them and be charming, they will smile and laugh with you.

They are no different than the 25 year old woman you want to approach. They're all the same. That is something that took me a long time to realize. Women are all exactly the same. So if you can talk to one, you can to them all.

If I put masks on every woman out there so that all you could see was long hair, you would never "choke" when you tried to talk to any of them. You'd be able to talk to each and every one of them.

It is only when I took off their masks that you would realize to which ones you are attracted and you would start freaking out. Think about in that hypothetical how silly it is that you freak out when you see a woman you find attractive. You can talk to any woman right now, so go out there and do it!

Suggested free e-books to read:

Sebastian Low - Attract Women Now
Martin Merill - Make Women Laugh

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Masf Relationship Doctrine Codified

MASF is the premier forum online for PU. The guys on there really do know their shit. Here's a post by one of the guru's Kwagmyre trying to codify current relationship doctrine. Kwag's had some pretty down times, where his wife who he had oneitis for cheated on him. He recovered from a severe betaisation (will post his two betaisation solved posts later), however wasnt able to save his marriage. He's picked up from it remarkably well and is MLTRing like theres no tomorrow. He now feels that if he wanted he could get his wife back, but like any self respecting PUA with better options is continuing to play the game on his terms.

Here's his post:

Chicks love drama, and need regular injections of it into their lives. If you do not provide them with it, they will create it.

Likewise, chicks are emotion junkies (this is why they love drama, it feeds the emotional needs machine). To a chick, feeling ANY emotions, even bad ones, is better than feeling no emotions at all. This is exactly why a woman will leave a man who loves and cares for her, but is supplicative and does not excite her, for one who is cruel to her either emotionally, or physically, and beats her. In a chick's mind, some emotion is better than none at all.

Women are incapable of understanding logic (within the context of romance and seduction, not in day-to-day type stuff). If a woman has learned to view you as a lover, then everything you say and do gets processed through her emotional filter. And this is a good thing! However, if you then attempt to subsequently communicate with her through logic, then she will literally not understand you. A woman who is attracted to you will not understand why, something she had previously attached emotions, is now speaking in logic. To put this another way: If you wind up in a logical convo with a chick you are in a relationship with, ABOUT the relationship, it means you fucked up. Get the conversation off the logical track as soon as you realize this.

Further, because chicks are creatures of emotion, and not logic, they have no "integrity to action". They base decisions upon how they FEEL about something, rather than about how that thing truly is. This is the basis for "chick logic", and it goes something like this: If a chick makes a promise to you, to do something, because she "felt" good about it at the time, and then later reneges on that promise, because she no longer "feels" good about it, then she will not keep her promise. Chicks simply do not see this behavior as dishonorable or incongruent - they simply changed their mind, as they believe they have every right to do. Contrast this with a man, a creature of logic, who will keep a promise to do a thing, even if he does NOT want to do it. This is because men base their decision in logic, and thus see things in an A+B=C kind of a frame. So, if a man promises to do a thing, then he will do it, simply because he promised - to a man, doing a thing he promised, even if he does not want to, will cause him less internal conflict, than it will with a woman, due to his decision-making paradigm. It is interesting to note that, in a sense, both sexes make their decisions the same way - they choose the path of least resistance, the one the minimizes their internal conflicts. They simply have different mechanisms for regulating those internal conflicts.

Shit tests are constant, and are NOT A BAD THING! They are a GOOD thing. Women only shit-test men they are attracted to, and who they perceive as a potential lover. They do not shit-test men who are not prospects, since that would defeat the purpose of the shit test (to see if he is man enough to be her lover). Conversely, a complete lack of shit-tests, generally means a loss of attraction, and is a bad sign. So, rather it is best to interpret shit tests, as IOI's, because THAT IS WHAT THEY ARE, since women, by definition, do not "test" men they are not "interested" in.

You must pass shit tests. No one passes all of them, but if you fail a series, and/or, simply acquiesce to them in order to "keep the peace", then you will head down the road to the process known as "betaisation".

Betaisation could simply be defined as what happens when the man loses the position of leader in the relationship. To be clear, this is always bad. This is never attractive to women. And this will always lead to problems within the relationship, since women are not capable of being attracted to men who will surrender the position of emotional leadership to a woman. And to be clear: No woman "wants" a betaised man. A woman wants a man who can pass her shit tests, and NOT become betaised, and therefore continue to prove his dominant status to her. This makes her feel secure, and safe with him - which is, and will always be, a woman's #1 need.

Once betaisation has occurred within a relationship, the only way you can salvage it, is by being willing to destroy it.

Women will viciously resist "de-betaisation" attempts. This is also a good thing! What this means is that, the woman is testing, to see if your attempts at regaining control are genuine, or merely a facade. To a woman, the literal survival of herself and her offspring is at stake here, on an unconscious level (even if she doesn't have offspring yet). So, behaviorally, for her, the stakes could not be higher. She may even threaten to end the relationship, which is why you must be willing to destroy it, in order to save it (as above). If she senses any weakness or hesitancy during this phase, she will blow you out, and the only way to maintain this frame, is both to mean it, and to own it. No matter what.

Women have no sense of fairness, equity, or reciprocity. A woman, is a creature that is designed to procreate and produce and protect offspring. Therefore, the only concern a woman has is for her own welfare (as it relates to the care of her offspring), and for the offspring themselves (even if they are unborn yet). The only thing a woman will sacrifice her welfare for (and will do so every time), is her offspring. A woman will NOT sacrifice her welfare for a man, unless she can somehow relate it back to the welfare of her offspring as well. IOW, a woman will take care of herself, and her children. The only person who will take care of a man, is himself. If this sounds harsh, consider this; the very moment a man relies on a woman to provide for, and take care of his needs (including his sexual needs), is the very moment her attraction for him will begin to wane. This is exactly why women find neediness in men so unattractive. To display neediness, in any form, is to invite failure and/or betaisation.

The Alligator eats the Chihuahua. Why? Because it's an Alligator, and that's what it does. It doesn't eat the Chihuahua out of a sense of malice, or malevolence. It is simply following its own evolutionary program that has been bred into it as a survival instinct over millions of years. Likewise with women. Women don't shit test, break their word, betaise men, cheat on men, or anything else, out of a sense of malevolence. They simply do it, because, that's what they do. Therefore, there is no room for misogyny in the doctrine. It is a waste of useful energy. Such attitudes as "all chicks should be treated like ho's, because they cheat on you the moment you turn your back", are coming from a needs-based frame, wherein the poster is wishing about how things could be, rather than as they really are.

The techniques and attitudes espoused in the current doctrine are designed to minimize what we socially perceive to be the negative consquenses, and maximize what we perceive to be the positive actions, by doing things designed to influence>> them on a subconscious level. At the core, ALL humans "manipulate" one another to their own ends in relationships - children manipulate their parents, bosses manipulate subordinates, wives manipulate husbands, PUA's manipulate targets. To rail against the idea of manipulation in human relationships is to rail against the very survival and evolution of the human race.

As women respond better to techniques designed to influence>> them on a subconscious level, rather than a conscious level, so likewise do they respond better to SUBcommunication, rather than direct communication. It is nearly always better, in matters of realationships, to lead a woman to a conclusion, or even better yet, DEMONSTRATE a conclusion, rather than state it. Examples:

STATING a conclusion (bad):

"I am a high-value man, and I can go find other women to fuck if you do not please me sexually."

LEADING a conclusion (better):

Guy: "The cashier was making fun of my purchase at the grocery store - Beer, Bacon, and Cookies. She said 'this is an interesting combination'".

hB: "Oh really, was she hitting on you?"

guy: "Hmm, I hadn't thought of that, I thought she was just being friendly and making conversation.. But she WAS playful... hmmm, maybe you have a point."

DEMONSTRATING a conclusion (best):

Guy: (Goes with wife to her cousin's wedding, ignores wife, dances with the hotties)

Wife: (next day): "Well, you were certainly having fun with everyone last night but me!"

(all the above are real-life examples)

The game never ends. There is no such thing as entering into a relationship to "retire" from the game. It just takes on a different form, one that is not signifigantly different from regular PU/sarging. But the game itself never ends, anymore than you stop being a man, or your woman stops being a woman. If you are a man, and a woman, who are in a relationship, where you are having sex with one another, then "the game" is in play, by definition.

(credit: Kwagmyre - MASF forum)

Suggested free e-books to read:

Cucan Pemo - You Can Save Your Relationship And Marriage
Elena Petrova - Scam Prevention Tips For Online Dating
Susan Gillpatrick - Common Relationship Mistakes And How To Fix Them

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Who The Most Eligible Bachelor In New York

Matchmaking company SAMANTHAS TABLE is reaching out to all the eligible bachelors in New York in time for Valentine's Day and would like to unveil these gorgeous available men on the famous day of love.

The requirements are that the men must live or work in the New York area, be single (duh!), be between 30 and 59, and be financially independent (read: rich).

The objective is to celebrate all the wonderful single men that reside and work in New York, and to prove to all the single ladies in New York that yes, "there are some good, single men left in New York".

Once the list is finalized, it will be publicized on _THE HUFFINGTON POST_ and will be followed by a high profile event where all the bachelors will be displayed in all their glory. That's right, I said "displayed".

Friends and colleagues who had the good sense to nominate the bachelors will also be invited to the event, and who knows, they may even meet someone at the shindig themselves.

Just remember; the eligible bachelors will be chosen for more than just being well to do; they will be men who do philanthropic work, travel to unusual places and will also be guys who are nominated by many people.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Wings Of Success - How To Date The Hottest Women Online And Offline
Leil Lowndes - How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You

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Do Dj Get Girls

Before I started spinning decks, I asked the same question - _DO DJ'S GET GIRLS?_?

and more importantly, how can you do the same to pick up women without learning how to spin dem rekkids?

A few years ago, I got into DJ'ing as a hobby. As someone who used to love playing video games, and who loves music even more, it was like a perfect marriage. Something about composing fun mixes of music on a device that's basically a Fisher Price toy for grown up boys many nights were spent figuring out how to pump out the jams on my VCI-300.

For most nascent DJ's, the first few months are solitary. There were nights when I'd be up until 3 or 4 AM, learning the songs, the points to come in and out, which songs worked well with which songs. Like the mad scientist who made the accidental discovery that sulfur is the missing ingredient to make rubber pliable, I'd never have guessed that "Take On Me" and "In Da Club" blend together perfectly, until I was playing around with 92 bpm songs late one winter night.

The first few performances are nerve-wracking, and going from bedroom DJ, to performer it's all about being able to pay attention to the crowd and having the sense to know if you need to loop the chorus one more time because they're loving it so much, or if it's time to totally change things up.

And when you start to get really good when you drop 5, 10, 20 songs in a row, and EVERY one of them hits because you're just that tuned into the crowd, and they're just that tuned into you, well the girls want to be a part of the magic you're creating.

Once she's behind the booth, there are a ton of little tricks you can do, games you can play, easy ways to "teach her" how to DJ (and sneak in a kiss along the way). But it all starts with those lonely 3AM practice sessions.

At an abstract level, digital DJ'ing isn't too different than playing video games. You practice hitting a bunch of buttons in succession, and moving some analog controllers, in order to get something on your computer screen to do something you want it to do.

But there are three significant differences.

1.) DJ'ing is creative. Perhaps not as much of an art form as songwriting, but it's YOUR expression, good or bad. Video games aren't about creating, they're about consuming; in this case, consuming the problems sets and reaction tests that the developers have created for you.

2.) Once you step beyond the bedroom, DJ'ing is a social hobby. You're out performing in front of people, engaged with people, and showing them a good time. Video Games are generally anti-social, and while the Wii, Xbox Live and Farmville have gone a long ways to making them more social activities, they're generally things you do with no more than a few other people while you're sitting on a couch.

3.) DJ'ing is so active that it's inter-active. High energy levels, people dancing it's very different from the more relaxed nature of gaming. And yes, I know that Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2 can be hair-raising if you're playing it, but if you're just watching two of your friends try the air cover mission again and again, it's only a few points more exciting than Friends reruns.

Now listen, I don't want to hate on video games. Plants Vs. Zombies led to two of the most enjoyable wasted days of my life.

But I do want to point out how two activities with similar "mechanics" can have profoundly different effects on your attractiveness.

Whether you're a DJ, an avid gamer, or neither, this stuff falls under a term we call "passive value." It's who you are "on paper", or how a woman would describe you to her friends.

Like it or not, there are some elements of passive value that are more attractive than others. In general

- someone who creates is more attractive someone who consumers

- someone who is social is more attractive than someone who is solitary

And the guys who are "9s and 10s" - the guys every woman wants - they tend to score highly in the passive value category. Even a dirt-poor man can score major points and pick up women if his photography is a thing of beauty.

One way of thinking about all of this might be to call it "lifestyle," but the way that the term is often used in the dating advice community, it has a rather narrow definition. This isn't merely about whether you have a lot of friends or not. Passive Value is a lot broader and a lot more reflective of who YOU are as a person.

And it's merely one of the elements of attractiveness that you're going to grow dramatically in Unbreakable.

If you've not yet picked up a copy, Unbreakable is basically a blueprint on how to become a 9 or a 10 so that your confidence is natural and instinctive so that you won't just "get" attraction from her, but that she'll *be attracted* to you.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Tony Horton - P90 Power Diet Guide
Anthony Berger - How To Get Into Threesomes
Woody Wilcox - Guy Gets Girl

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Book Review Man Magnet

Romy Millers Man Magnet. Although the title of this book is a little fromage for my liking" Magnet" had some pretty solid advice in it. Of course, all of the advice is exactly the same as what your om used to tell you, but for some reason, when it's binded up, given a title and is written by a complete stranger, the advice is easier to swallow.

If you have been mistakingly chasing after guys, talking about ex-boyfriends like they were rock stars, or having sex on the first date, Romy Miller is here to show you the error of your ways.

Of course, Miller also offers the fluff advice like "wear a nice outfit," which should go without saying. I have yet to meet a man who thinks a woman with greasy hair, snot on her face and 4-day-old sweats is hot. But by "wear a nice outfit", what Miller actually means is put on a pair of stiletto heels and show some breast. I'm not sure I agree.

So yeah, you can use your breasts to lure them, but you really gotta use your mind to keep them around. And that is essentially the gist of Miller's advice.

RATING: 3 OUT OF 5

Suggested free e-books to read:

Tyler Durden - The New Aged Male Gayness
Adam Gilad - Interview With Lance Mason

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Love At First Sight Make Someone Fall In Love On First Date

People have different opinions about the love at first sight. Few people believe on it and few do not. However, there is no scientific evidence available which can provide whether it exists or not. There are many couples around the world who met once and got married later. Was it an example of love at first sight? Actually, it is all about how comfortable you are while talking with unknown people. Many girls who just ignore the unknown people without noticing them can not expect love at first in their life.

To fall in such situation, you have to checkout the various people. No, we are not asking you to meet with each and every person, and discuss about the love or personal life. Many times it happens in our life when we meet with some interesting people while traveling or going to particular place. After returning home, we keep thinking about the same person. It can be a example of love at first sight. However, it is quiet difficult to understand the definition of love. Living in relationship or love is not easy because it comes along with huge responsibility.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates
Don Diebel - How To Talk To Single Women When On A Date
Leil Lowndes - How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You

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How To Approach And Attract A Woman

How to approach a woman is a questioned that is encountered by everyone. When approaching a woman there are no perfect pick up line but the whole thing is that you need to be confident. Here are some tips that will help you while approaching a woman:

FORGET THE ONE LINER: One liner never seem to work. The woman gets the impression that the guy is trying to flirt her. Therefore the trick here is to be unpredictable.

GO STRAIGHT UP TO THEM: This is probably the best way to approach a woman. The best way is to be confident and go up to her with out any hesitation. If you see that she tries to avoid you than move on and do not even look back. This would make her feel somewhat neglected and she would be left thinking about you.

KEEP TRYING: Even being neglected once you should keep trying. It might take time but you will get results when your confidence builds up and you start building up skills.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Dr Barbara Keesling - How To Make Love All Night And Drive A Woman Wild
Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman

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Why Women Fall For Serial Killers

1- They love the sense of danger

4- They are crazy

Are All Women The Same

Masf Relationship Doctrine Codified

Here's his post:

STATING a conclusion (bad):

LEADING a conclusion (better):

DEMONSTRATING a conclusion (best):

(credit: Kwagmyre - MASF forum)

Who The Most Eligible Bachelor In New York

Do Dj Get Girls

Book Review Man Magnet

RATING: 3 OUT OF 5

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