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How To Find The Best Dating Advice

Online dating has emerged as one of the most popular tool for internet users. Websites and companies are earning huge amount of money due the online services. Men and women both join the dating group to find suitable partners but there is a big difference in the speed, thinking, personality, mind set of men and women. Here are few online dating advice for men to get the best partner.

Don't get jealous or frustrate in any situation. Women like the partner who accept them in every situation and don't expect further changes in her. If you don't like anything about your partner, then wait for the right time. Do join social get-together, women expect their partner should be famous in social circle. Never discuss anything regarding the past, always talk about present and future plans. Try to bring more humour in talk, women loves the person who has calibre to make them laugh and happy.

There are many websites in internet arena who provide the dating services, but always choose the reputed websites to go with. It is recommended to do a proper research before signing up for a website. Don't make fake profile about yourself; if you expect truth from others be honest first.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Gordon Ray Parker - Fox Hunting The Art Of Dating And Seduction
Fj Shark - How To Be The Jerk Women Love
Wings Of Success - How To Date The Hottest Women Online And Offline

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Book Review I Dont Care About Your Band

Julie Klausner is a comedienne who has had enough heartache and disaster in her dating life to be able to write about it in a comical manner and not seem too jaded about the whole thing.

The fact that Julie Klausner discusses her sex life so openly coupled with the very real realization that she's a comedienne make for a hysterical read with way too many unbelievable stories.

If you're in your 30s and dated a host of douchebags in your 20s, you'll feel like Julie Klausner was living your life and wrote about it because it's just that good.

The only unfortunate part of this book is that Julie insists on analyzing every little detail of her escapades, which sort of took away from the enjoyable read and also creates delusions of what may have really been going on at the time.

And although she sounds bitter at times, Julie Klausner does a great job at relating to all the women out there who are dealing with dating disasters on a weekly basis.

You are not alone and Julie Klausner just proves it. And of course, she had the balls to write about it.

RATING: 4 OUT OF 5

By Julie Klausner

Suggested free e-books to read:

John Alanis - How To Get Newspapers And Mags To Write About You
Christian Godefroy - How To Change Your Shyness
Chad Manning - Honest Truth About Woman

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Confidence Interval

With success comes more confidence in the concepts of game. Before I had any success I was somewhat embarrassed to discuss what I had read; I felt somewhat pathetic. Now, I can discuss and defend what I know with a degree of confidence that I am not familiar with. Perhaps the confidence comes from an increase in testosterone, or because I have seen game in action and know that it works, most likely both. Regardless, I have had some valuable discussions with various people since then.

The first was with my younger brother. In a strange quirk of genetics I have four brothers, three who could reasonably be described as lesser ALPHAs (one was recently offered a threesome by two very hot girls). So I was surprised and somewhat pleased when one of them (not Mr. Threesome) opened up to me regarding his long-term relationship with his girlfriend.

He confided that he has problems with feeling treated like a little boy in the relationship; that she frequently acts like his mother. He also confided that ever since he cheated on her the relationship has been even worse. I explained the theory behind shit-tests and how it applied to his relationship. I told him that she was acting the way she was because he was not acting in a way that made her feel safe and stable. Cheating only made it worse because it made her feel even more unstable. I gave him some examples, and told him that if he could begin passing her tests the relationship would improve. It took a number of restatements before it really sunk in, but it was not hard to tell when it happened. When it finally clicked he let loose with a long string of swear words, most directed at himself for being so stupid. Later that evening I introduced him to some of the better posts about shit-tests and asked him to let me know the results. I am still waiting but I expect a good report next time I see him. I have hope for his relationship.

I had another conversation about the same subject with one of my roommates. I few weeks previous I introduced him to some of the same posts on shit-testing. His response was not nearly so positive. After my date the subject came up again and he said that he disagreed with the idea. I asked him to be more specific. He said that he felt that acting the way the posts recommended was demeaning. I proceeded to defend and clarify the concept. I argued that it could be used that way and that some people did use it that way, but how it was used did not change the fact that the theory was accurate. I realized that his resistance to the idea came from the fact that he felt that it was wrong because of the way it was portrayed. With some discussion I was able to convince him that the theory was correct and at that point he began to apply it to his own relationships describing his previous girlfriend and their problems. This was a rather surreal experience for me as he is also an ALPHA. He has never had problems attracting women, and I was pleased that he took my point of view seriously once I presented it in a palatable manner.

The turning point in the discussion was when I explained that moral standards are not in themselves attractive, but, when an ALPHA has them they can become attractive. In the hands of an ALPHA they can become a set of standards that can apply to the women he chooses. Since he is already attractive, having those standards and more importantly ruthlessly applying them can become a turn on for the woman. If he has the moral strength to apply those standards in the face of temptation he is displaying that he is strong enough to control himself. The woman finds that the value of her currency in the relationship, sex appeal, is reduced, and his currency in the relationship, stability, is increased and his moral standards become a DHV. When he made the connection he went quiet (a major achievement, he is a very loud person), and the discussion was over. He seemed affected by the realization and I hope that the ideas I presented will help him, but that remains to be seen.

My goal in learning game was to attract women, but I appears that it has a far broader effect than I expected. My small successes have given me a great deal of confidence in many areas, not just approaching women. I suspect that what I am doing will completely change my life, the only mistake now would be to stop.Alpha Game 2011

Suggested free e-books to read:

Thundercat - In10se Interview
Steve Scott - Supreme Confidence With Women

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David Deangelo Launches His Marketing Home Study Program

We all know HOW David DeAngelo sells his dating advice, and we all know that it WORKS.

I've always been interested in business, marketing, and entrepreneurship. In my mind, David Deangelo (Real name: Eben Pagan) is definitely the guy to learn from if you're interested in this type of thing.

I know many of you are interested in this as well, and that's why I'm informing you as it is NOT RELATED AT ALL to this blog specifically.

Having said that, David DeAngelo is such a big name in the community that I would be doing an injustice if I didn't mention that he's just launched a home version of his Get Altitude Entrepreneur Training. See below:

This is the same training that was held two months ago in Los Angeles for $10,000 per attendee. WOW!

ONLY 36 HOURS REMAINING

Eben stops selling this 15 (?) DVD home-study program TOMORROW or when supplies run out. (From an email I received an hour ago he has around 200 out of 1000 left). I've bought my set, and eagerly await it's arrival in the mail. (The video clips on the website convinced me - truly amazing marketing insights) I think it's reasonably priced for what he's offering, considering the Mind of Mystery was $2500

Eben has a few video clips up over at the website, so if you're even just a bit curious you owe it to yourself to check them out here.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Nancy Friday - Forbidden Flowers More Women Fantasies
Sri Swami Sivananda - Practical Lessons In Yoga
Chris Jackson - How To Get Her To Make The First Move

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How Not To Be Friend Material By Kezia

YOURE TALKING AWAY; MAKING HER LAUGH, AND ALSO MAKING SOME GREAT CONNECTIONS WITH HER TOO! More than once, she has grabbed your arm; she's even pushed her body close to yours a number of times. The I.O.Is here are major. It's a no brainer, she's yours for the taking.

" Or is she?"

When it comes to number close, she may be more than happy to give you her number, but when you arrange a date; I wonder if she will turn up in a sexy plunge neck dress or a casual loose fitting t-shirt. I wonder if she even bothers to wear make up for you. So in this case, the date you thought you were going on is probably not, in her eyes, a date at all. Why?

Because you became the dreaded.... (Dramatic drum roll please)

MALE FRIEND

We will look at the following:

HOW DID THIS HAPPEN?

What are those tell tale signs that show you she sees you only as friend potential.

How to prevent this from happening!

HOW ON EARTH DID YOU GET IN TO THIS MESS?

Simple. Lets break this down; on one hand you have a been a brilliant conversationalist, you have made some deep connections with her, and so she feels you really understand her, not just as a woman but as a human being as well. You're also unbelievably funny, and have had her laughing hard countless times through out the interaction.

As a result of all these great accomplishments she feels she can relax, let down her guard and really be herself in front of you. Here is where a key problem lies. It obviously beneficial for you to make sure she's relaxed, however it is not beneficial to her so relaxed that she feels she can show you all her flaws, whats happened here is she is now so totally in her comfort zone that she feels no need to make any effort to impress you.

Next, what is missing here is a vital ingredient. You have not initiated any sexual tension in to the conversation. This would be a lot easier to do if you had made sure you were in higher status than her. But unfortunately what has happened in this situation is that you have made levels of status equal (better than your status level being lower of course) but this can lead to friendship, as friendships are usually based on equality of the relationship.

SIGNS THAT SHE IS SEEING YOU AS POTENTIAL FRIEND MATERIAL

* She talks about her ex-boyfriend
* She talks too much about other men
* She is not caring how she is coming across general
* She tells you too many of her private problems such as;

* Medical
* Ex boyfriends
* Problems at work
* Problems with her friends
* Periods

(Remember you're not an agony aunt!)

She's not asking you too many questions about your self

She's shows barely any, or no, reaction to your touches

She keeps describing you as "so sweet" or "adorable" or says things such as "oh how cute" when you say something. Any puppy dog terminology is usually not a good thing.

She is not bothered if you show any interest in other woman.

She is happy to leave you with her friends as she goes off temporarily to attend to other matters.

If you give her any criticism she will laugh.

She's happy to tell you her opinions on everything whether you like it or not.

HOW YOU CAN PREVENT ALL THIS.

If you regularly have this problem then my suggestion to you is to nip it in the bud!

From as early as the first second to the first 10 minutes introduce at least a hint of sexual element in to the interaction.

There is no problem in letting a girl know you think she's hot, as long as you execute it with a serious and matter of fact expression. Don't make a big deal about saying "wow, you look hot" and don't wait for her reaction. Instead hold her gaze and then move on casually to the next subject as if you are totally in control and fully aware of your alpha like comment.

Remember, she has to start earning any more compliments.

This will also destroy completely the chance of you becoming her friend; she will subconsciously cross out that avenue. So now its whether she likes you in that way or not. (2 option rather than 3)

WHAT YOU DO IF SHE BEGINS TO SHOW ANY OF THE ABOVE SIGNS

Lets take, for example, her bringing up the ex-boyfriend. Make it clear to her that although it's an interesting subject and one you can see she feels deeply about, perhaps it's best if she discussed it with her girlfriends and not you.

If she begins to show little or no care on how she is coming across, for instance getting to much in her comfort zone. Keep giving her small tasks and let her know that your standards are very high on how a lady should behave. For instance if vulgarities something you find unattractive (and is usually, by the way, a sign the woman is seeing you as a fellow party pal) then let her know how she's let you down, by pointing out the fact they you thought she was different from the woman in here and that it was her elegance that made you talk to her in the first place.

Watch how she straightens her back and tucks her bra strap back in to position faster than you can imagine.

If she leaves you with her friends and wanders off, this is a bad sign, it means she couldn't care less if they make a move on you or you make a move on them.

Counteract this by firstly introducing your friends to her friends, which will make her feel left out. And on her return, punish her by making a phone call as soon as she sits down, go off with your phone call and leave her friends talking with your friends as she sits there bored and feeling left out, she will begin to miss you and might value your company a little more.

NOTE:

Please remember women love to please men. We enjoy looking good for you guys; in fact it's a bit of obsession.

Look in any woman's magazines and see what percentage of the articles is dedicated to pleasing men, whether it is through; makeup, dieting, fashion or cooking. Once we feel there's no need to please you, it's as if the fun is over, for girls as well as guys the chase is can be better than the catch.

Remember; take control of the situation, if you become "friendship material" then you have yourself to blame, you can manipulate the conversation whenever you choose, you can inject sexual tension whenever you decide. The only reason you became friend material would have been because you allowed her to feel so relaxed that she had little or no work to do at all.

By all means make sure she is relaxed, but take advantage when someone is in a relaxed state of mind. Remember the power of suggestion will be come much more powerful when in that state. Do this rather than allow her to feel you are simply another shoulder to cry on, or part time doctor she can reveal gross medical problems to, or a psychiatrist where she can discuss her ex-boyfriends commitment problems he might have had.

You have plenty of friends, you don need another right? Unless of course you see her as friend material in that case go right ahead and discuss her periods and ex-boyfriends with her!

HAVE YOU READ THE MANUAL THAT KEZIA TEACHES FROM? CHECK OUT OUR DETAILED REVIEW OF PUATRAINING'S NATURAL GAME HOME STUDY SYSTEM.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Tyler Durden - Girls Who Want To Be Forced
Michael Lee - How To Be A Red Hot Persuasion Wizard
Lou Paget - How To Be A Great Lover

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Abnormal Psychology

Abnormal Psychology is a highly complex and fascinating field of study. The modern psychological community has made tremendous strides in better understanding, diagnosing and treating abnormal disorders of the mind compared to centuries and even decades ago. While there is still much stigma attached to this branch of mental illness, it is less so than in the past. This course will introduce you to the many faces of abnormal psychology. It will discuss old and new ideas surrounding this branch of psychology and will offer general information about how abnormal psychologists and psychiatrists identify and treat these types of mental illnesses. There are fifteen comprehensive lessons written in an easy to follow, informative manner. The end of each lesson will provide you with multiple summary review questions as well as an assignment so that you may effectively test your new found knowledge. We encourage you to use these self-test questions to determine whether you are ready to move on to the next lesson or if you should review portions of the preceding lesson before taking the next step. Do not rush yourself. Take the time to read all portions of the lessons and complete the exercises and self-tests. There is a comprehensive bibliography at the end of the course which lists all texts and Web sites used as reference materials in the creation of this course. It is a valuable resource in finding more in-depth information on specific topics that are beyond the scope of this course. Whether you are considering an education or a career in abnormal psychology or if you are simply interested in learning more about this fascinating field of study, this course will introduce you to a better understanding of the intricacies of the human mind and the ever evolving study of Abnormal Psychology.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Keanu Jagger - Situational Opener Technology
Joseph Matthews - Charm School

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The Most Important Things To Pick Up Women

There are a few things that are non-negotiable must-haves to_ PICK UP WOMEN_.

Funny story to illustrate this point. I remember one time when I was out with some friends - we were discussing the blackberry messenger application. If you haven't used it, it's like Instant Messaging for blackberry users. Critically, it tells you when someone has read your message, so you can't get away with the plausible deniability of "I didn't see your message come through" if you have BBM.

I saw some women who were all on their berries (I swear, in NYC its either all iPhone or blackberry) and approached them. I rarely use "opinion openers" but in this case I was genuinely curious, so I asked them how long they know a guy before they feel comfortable adding him on BBM.

For some reason, they all looked at me funny and kind of shut me out. I did it to a second group, same response. This was nonsense; I've had this convo with other girlfriends and I know they like to talk about it.

Then I realized that with these two groups I'd just approached, I had my head buried in my blackberry looking at BBM while I was talking to them. Duh. Very little eye contact, not commanding body language, none of it so I tried it again on a third group of girls, while looking them in the eye and you know, actually _engaging_ them, and we were off to the races.

Lessons learned? Do the following stuff every time:

EYE CONTACT

- you should be making eye contact 70% of the time you're talking to someone
- you should only break eye contact to the side, not downwards
- you should be making direct eye contact anytime you give a compliment

BODY LANGUAGE

- you should be comfortable touching her within 10 seconds of saying hello. not too much... just a slight touch
- you should be rocking in and out on your back foot - generally, you should come in at a 45 degree angle
- you should be smiling

DELIVERY

- your first few sentences should be no more than 10-15 seconds long
- you shouldn't give explanations or apologies
- you should be speaking to the whole group if it is not a direct compliment

So these are some of the very basic, very important things to do within the first minute of an interaction in order to attract women. They're subtle, but getting them wrong is going to betray a lack of confidence and deservedness and will hinder your chances to get women.

Funny thing is, when I'm not "warmed up," I sometimes mess these up too. So when I'm out with clients and if I haven't done any "cold approaches" in awhile, my first conversation of the evening has become what I call a "systems check" conversation.

Geeky? Sure. But its just a reminder. Here's how:

Find a very, very attractive girl, and give her a direct compliment. Your goal is not to pick her up, but to force yourself to focus on all these little things so that they're kind of locked into your head for the evening.

I'd say that 80% of the time you get a bad reaction from a girl, its from messing up these fundamentals, so getting them right at the start gets your night off to a good start.

If you're going out tonight, do a little system check of your own and see how it works for you.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Attracting Women
Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Handling Women
Jackson Almor - How To Pick Up Women 2000

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Do You Chase The Weekend

"What are you doing tonight?"

"I don't know. Not much. I think I'm just going to stay home, watch a movie, maybe grab some dinner. Nothing special. What are you doing tonight?"

"I'm going to go dancing with all my friends. We're going to go out partying and have a good time."

How does it make you feel when you are the one staying home in a conversation like this? Granted, you decided to stay home.

That was your choice. You were really looking forward to grabbing some great take-out from that little Mexican place on the corner and watching that movie.

The minute you spoke to your friend who was ready to head out for a night of dancing and partying, though, you almost felt like they were having a more exciting evening than you were. In reality, your night might actually more exciting and here's why.

Picture this. When you're in a relationship, do you really want to be out dancing with a woman (or a man) seven nights a week -- or would you rather be home watching movies and enjoying great food? Which scenario more resembles the person who you are?

Do you know what I did every Friday night when I was single? I would finish working around 7:30 pm, and then I'd go to my neighborhood Whole Foods or neighborhood Thai restaurant and I would get some dinner. I would sit down at the community tables at Whole Foods or go to my friend Barry's clothing store, and I would hang out and talk to people.

I would get home by around 10:00 pm, because I am usually tired from the week. After that, I would maybe get online and answer a few emails or I would watch a little bit of television. Then I would go to bed.

I would wake up Saturday morning and go for a hike -- sometimes by myself and other times with friends -- and I would always meet people and talk to people when I was hiking.

Do you know what? I had an amazing social life.

My friends who were going out dancing and bar-hopping? Good for them that they were dancing and standing around in a bar. I'm glad that they were doing things that they love. I don't enjoy that, and I'm never going to be able to attract people in that situation.

Did I meet great people the two years that I was single? Absolutely. Did I have a great dating life? Absolutely.

Did I meet other people at that take-out Thai place? Did I meet other people at Whole Foods on a Friday night who were just like me? Absolutely.

I sometimes would go to a bookstore on a Saturday night just to check out some of the new books. Did I meet people who were just like me? Of course I did.

I don't want to meet somebody who wants to go dancing every Friday or Saturday night because you know what? That type of life is not exciting to me.

So if your friends are out dancing, partying and (supposedly) having so much fun, it is perfectly fine that you are having fun staying home. Just make sure that when you are out getting dinner on a Friday night, that you eat dinner out where you're getting the meal -- like at Whole Foods or at a great local restaurant -- and aren't just bringing it home to eat in the house.

On Saturday, do the exact same exact thing. Go out. If you were planning to have dinner at home on a Saturday night because you want to catch up on some work, go out and have dinner or at least go to a place from which you can take out so you can actually converse with other people who are staying home like you are.

You need to live with your lifestyle choices and be proud of them. So the next time someone asks you what you did this weekend, say "Man I had an amazing weekend! Friday night I went to Whole Foods to grab some dinner and ended up meeting some really cool people. We talked for a couple hours. It was fun. We ended up closing the place. Then I went home and watched a movie. Saturday, I woke up, had some coffee and read the paper.

On Saturday night, I ended up getting some Thai food, then I went to see a movie I've been wanting to see. I sat next to this great group of people, and I ended up having coffee with them afterwards and talking about the movie. I had a great weekend!"

You did have a great weekend, because that's who you are. Does that sound boring to you? Because to me that all sounds amazing.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Jon Jensen - Women Tell You How To Meet Women
Sean Stephenson - How Youth Can Succeed

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How To Find The Best Dating Advice

Book Review I Dont Care About Your Band

RATING: 4 OUT OF 5

By Julie Klausner

Confidence Interval

David Deangelo Launches His Marketing Home Study Program

ONLY 36 HOURS REMAINING

How Not To Be Friend Material By Kezia

MALE FRIEND

We will look at the following:

SIGNS THAT SHE IS SEEING YOU AS POTENTIAL FRIEND MATERIAL

She's not asking you too many questions about your self

WHAT YOU DO IF SHE BEGINS TO SHOW ANY OF THE ABOVE SIGNS

NOTE:

Abnormal Psychology

The Most Important Things To Pick Up Women

Lessons learned? Do the following stuff every time:

EYE CONTACT

BODY LANGUAGE

DELIVERY

Geeky? Sure. But its just a reminder. Here's how:

Do You Chase The Weekend

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RATING: 4 OUT OF 5 By Julie Klausner

ONLY 36 HOURS REMAINING

MALE FRIEND We will look at the following:

SIGNS THAT SHE IS SEEING YOU AS POTENTIAL FRIEND MATERIAL

She's not asking you too many questions about your self

WHAT YOU DO IF SHE BEGINS TO SHOW ANY OF THE ABOVE SIGNS

NOTE:

Lessons learned? Do the following stuff every time:

EYE CONTACT

BODY LANGUAGE

DELIVERY

Geeky? Sure. But its just a reminder. Here's how:

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Archives

RATING: 4 OUT OF 5

By Julie Klausner

MALE FRIEND

We will look at the following: