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Dating Tips Romance Of First Date

First date decides the future of your relationship. There are cases when the second date never comes. So what you should do to avoid it? Don't worry; we are here to tell you what to do and what not! First, the date should be at place that is quite and calm. During the first date both the partners judge the other one on basis of certain factors.

Let us consider the girls first. A girl wants her partner to look good and decent. She will always want him to be humorous, entertaining and sensible as well. Being humorous is not all about cracking jokes, a humorous person is one who makes others laugh but not at others. So be careful! When a girl goes out on date with someone for the first time, she wants all the attention of that person. This was a brief introduction of what a girl wants on her fist date.

Now comes the boys. They also want the girl to look good and elegant in general. She should be frank but not talkative because then only the date will be enjoyed by both of them. There should be friendly atmosphere between them so that there isn't any problem while communicating to each other. Both should try to know each other despite knowing that you can't know a person completely in a single day.

If both of them are honest, the date can be successful. So, keep the basics in mind and enjoy your first date. May be certain other dates start following it.

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Seduction Negs

Negs are one of the most over-used, and most misunderstood, parts of game. They're also, unfortunately, why the seduction community has a reputation for being full of douchebags: guys going around insulting women hoping it'll get them to drop their panties.

But this conception relies on a misunderstanding of what a neg is. A neg isn't an insult. A neg, rather, is merely the kind of comment that someone who was interested in her wouldn't make.

For example, take the classic, "Nice nails, are they real?" A typical AFC guy would never do this. He would be so afraid of offending her (and thus losing his chance to sleep with her) that he would only offer the vague compliment. Same with, "Those are great boots! You're the third girl I've seen wearing them tonight!"

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Guys screw up by delivering those classic negs as zingers, but a neg doesn't work if it feels like you're trying to get one over on her. Instead, "are they real?" is delivered as if you genuinely like her nails, and the boot compliment is delivered in the vein of appreciating how fashionable the target is.

Negs don't even have to be "negative" - what they're really doing is negating your own interest. For example, another classic: "You and I would not get along, we're too alike!" You're not saying anything bad about her - merely that you're not interested in dating her.

Another possibility along these lines is, "I wish you were brunette. I'm taking a break from blondes for a while." There is no conceivable way in which this is an insult, but it does the job of demonstrating your lack of interest. These are "disqualifiers" sure, but they are also negs.

The purpose of your neg is to break the frame of you being just another guy who's hitting on her, to get around her bitch shield. You are demonstrating that you have not put her on a pedestal just because she's an attractive woman.

This is very important: Even negs like these need to be reserved from "9s and 10s" - highly attractive women. Model-looking women are constantly besieged with unwanted attention from men, and thus have strong bitch shields.

The reality is that most other women - even most other very attractive women - are constantly being made to feel inadequate about their appearance. Not only, therefore, are these women not standing on pedestals which they need to be knocked off of before you can talk to them, but in fact most of the time they'll respond much more positively towards the flattery inherent in your attention. It's nice to be the subject of attention from an attractive member of the opposite sex - don't make things more complicated than they need to be.

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Love Poems Tips To Write Them

When you are in love and desire to put across your thoughts to your partner, the best way that has been used even in the previous era was love poems. Just review the feelings in your mind, each and every moment that you spent with your spouse and the places you been together. All these will create a sort of magic in your mind, and when you put these feelings on a portion of paper, it turns to a powerful love poem.

Love poems reflect the emotions that's comes out from the core of your heart. Love poems are really poignant because they tell how passionate your feelings are; it can be about any thing like- the first feeling of infatuation or about the steady relation or even the sadness. Love poems are something which you can't compel yourself to write, it comes on its own, only you have to put your feelings in an appropriate arrangement.

If you have an experience about the true love, you might have wrote something about your partner. It is not always romantic, it can be sad as well. If your partner has ditched you or you got separated due to some reason then also you can write a love poem.

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Forget Your New Years Resolutions

We have finally made it. We're in the 10s! Wow, the 10s.

Does that mean that this year everyone will be dating a 10? Well, you will be because you are now dating in the 10s and "10s" will be your mantra. Perhaps your New Year's resolution will be "I'm going to date a 10 in 10."

Anyway, and all kidding aside, I bet all of you are curious about what I have to say about 2010 and your New Year's resolutions. If you've been reading my recent blogs, you know that I think New Year's resolutions are bullshit.

So in today's podcast, I've got a kick in the ass for you. What you will hear in this podcast will grip you, will move you and will really wake you up in the RIGHT way as you start out this new year.

I've got a couple of special guests with me on this podcast who will help you get 2010 started off with a bang. Hopefully, it will be a bang with someone else, and not just a self-induced bang.

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Good Post On Direct Game Jack Bauers Rules

Here's a post by Jack Bauer off MASF on gaame
Haven't posted much in a while, so I figured I'd post the list of rules that I use to refresh my memory and remind me of the way that I like to run super-effective game.

Most of what's in here is Inner Game stuff; mindsets, attitudes, and beliefs that bring out the best in me. Game isn't about becoming someone else. It's about letting out the best parts of what's already there in you.

I hate indirect game because it pre-supposes that she has higher value than you and would react negatively if you hit on her. This is a limiting belief and it's bullshit. I hate routines because it pre-supposes you have to act like a fucking monkey to MAKE HER want to sleep with you. Again, bullshit...she's biologically programmed to fuck the Alpha male...you ARE the Alpha male, so what the fuck do you need routines for? Just show your status and let nature take it's course. Everything that follows is based around this philosophy.

Everything outside the brackets is the actual text that I use and review for myself. Reading it over I realized that a lot of it requires elaboration, so that's in the brackets. This is the best of the best stuff I've compiled from 3.5 years on mASF, and all of it is massively, massively field-tested. Hopefully, some of you will find it useful. Credit for these ideas is all over the place; lots goes to Franco, Kwag, OE, GP, and Neo-Rio.

You guys all kick ass.

1. See how TRON is LIVIN! [This is an anchor designed to put me into a pumped, hilarious, manic state. Use something that works for you; something that makes you laugh every time and fills you with that crazy energy. For me, all I have to do is say these words, and I'm in that "zone". For those of you who don't know this one, see the Real World episode of Chappelle's Show, season One. ]

2. Absolute faith and joy; life kicks ass. [You must be as sure of achieving your goals as you are that your house will still be there when you get home. This takes work; definite, daily work. Know what you want, spend time every day visualizing it, and doing whatever you need to do on a daily basis so that you RESPECT yourself and walk around in a state of total FAITH and CONFIDENCE. All those shit-tests that women throw at you, THIS is what they're testing for; your own certainty and confidence that you make things happen in the world.]

3. YOU are the chooser. YOU are the prize. Every woman is aching for an Alpha like you to come into her life. Know it. The Alpha gets to fuck whoever he wants.

4. Everyone gets a chance. Everyone gets a sexual fantasy. Everyone gets included. Make people feel amazing; discover what is wonderful about them, whether you're into them or not. You can always be pleasantly surprised. [A HUGE part of my Inner Game is to gaze into a woman's left eye and sexually fantasize about her, and I do this with every woman I meet, even if she looks like Ichabod Crane. Everyone gets a fantasy...everyone gets a chance to show their stuff, to show what makes them special. I think this is very close to what Ijjjji talks about in his posts on Appreciation. See guys, all the stuff about negs and breaking women down is designed to equalize the value; it assumes that HER value is higher than yours, and then knocks her down a few pegs so that the two of you are on equal footing. If this works for you, then great. But I have SO COMPLETELY internalized the idea that I am the Prize and I am the Leader that to start negging people right off the bat is just RUDE. I work with a LOT of movie stars in my career and I can tell you that they go around making EVERYONE feel amazing, and they can do so because their value is off-the-charts high. THAT is why they"i? 1/2 re stars.]

5. Think sex. She just wants to be bent over. Keep it sexual. The "Super Good Girl" only exists in fairy tales; every woman wants sex more than you do. They need it, and an Alpha male should think that's a BEAUTIFUL thing. Female sexuality is amazing, so encourage women to express it, explore it...see how deep the rabbit hole goes. [Whoever you're talking to, whoever your girlfriend is, she's nastier and hornier than you, and thinks about sex WAAAYYY more often. Trust me. You don't see men spending thousands of dollars on make-up and breast implants.]

6. Know you are always the Leader. Empower people, bring them together, and include everyone. [This is really important. You can't just game your target; you must game the whole group. You must include her friends. You must LOVINGLY, CHARMINGLY take leadership over everyone.] Facilitate everyone's good time by having impeccable manners. Look out for people. [Know everyone's name and what they're about. Find out what you have in common. Be a gentleman; giving a girl your coat because you're trying to fuck her is lame. Doing it because you're the Alpha male and you look out for your tribe is fucking SEXY. Understand the difference.] Have a plan that creates fun, amazing opportunities. [You must have a plan. You must have a fun, cool outcome in mind and gently guide everyone into it. In every group, someone is the Leader; you're either leading or you're being lead. Don't be uptight about this! It's enough to have a plan and know you're the leader; if you're strong in that reality, everyone else will get sucked in.] Keep your Rank. [This is KEY. It's very, very rare that someone overtly challenges my leadership of the group, but when they do, you must keep your Rank. Do not do ANYTHING that will lower it. Challenges to your leadership should be FUNNY to you, like when a 4-year-old girl tells her Daddy what to do. Daddy doesn't get mad, he just laughs and hugs her cause it's so cute, and then does what he wants. This is how you handle it.] If anyone fucks with one of your people, CRUSH THEM. [This is more about an attitude than anything else. I'm an expert martial artist even though I never get in fights, and I believe that if you have enough game to get girls then you should be verbally skilled enough to defuse just about any situation. HOWEVER, if someone fucks with one of your people, you must be mentally prepared to KNOCK THEM OFF THE FUCKING PLANET. The entire purpose of the Alpha male, the reason for his existence, is to lead the group and guard their safety, so if you don't have the balls to bear your fangs and put someone's head through the wall, you have no business claiming leadership over the group. You're a paper tiger. You're Jimmy fucking Carter. Instead, be Julius Caesar ready to burn cities to the ground to protect your people.]

7. Put a price to your leadership by always putting people to do things for you. [Don't forget this. Compliance, compliance, compliance. Expect people to pull their weight, the way a General would.]

8. Treat women like gold from a dominant frame. They already belong to you. Make them feel great. Never treat a woman like a man; it's a huge insult. [It feels really shitty when a woman you're attracted to looks at you like her dickless girlfriend, so don't do that to women! I don't care if she's been your best friend since you were six; she is a woman, and you are a man, and anything can happen. You must relate to her as a sexual being, even if you're not interested. You must validate her as a woman, even if you're not interested. You must fantasize about fucking her while you're talking to her, even if you're not interested. Maintain the sexual context.] Always keep it sexual, and MAKE A MOVE. You must go for it, that means making it really obvious you want her, once she qualifies. Isolate, escalate, penetrate...again and again.

9. Zero in on a target and isolate as quickly as possible. [Once you've got the whole group, you pick someone and isolate, fast.] Then Rapport. Slow. Way. Down. Sexual fantasy. Eye contact. She is your whole world. [As killswitch would say, make her your entire AR.] Focus on PROCESS; make her rich describe the states you want her to be in. This is how resistance is overcome. "What's it like when..." [Quick example; I'm talking to a girl who's like a fucking brick wall. She just won't open up to me. I only get a few perfunctory details about how she's in an acting class. I ask: "What kind of exercises do you do in there?" She then mentions some bullshit exercise they do designed to free you up and release your impulses on stage. Bingo. I ask: "Really? That sounds interesting...so what does it feel like when you're doing that?" As she describes the state of performing that exercise, she experiences the same feeling of being "free" and "open" that the exercise creates...and then she GOES INTO that state. BAM! She opens up after that. This is much more effective than saying some bullshit like, "Wow...you're not that open of a person, are you?" Why do that when you can have her describe something that creates the state that you want? Then you deepen it by Rich Describing (credit: Franco) the whole thing back to her in stronger terms: "Wow...that must feel so amazing, to be up on that stage, filled with all that excitement and nervous energy just tingling up your spine...etc."]

10. Elicit Values; get that life story, and know what it means. Know the kind of woman you're dealing with, and whether you want her for FB, LTR, mLTR, etc. You don't go to Kinko's to buy a fucking piano, and you don't go to a strip club to find your future wife. [You must find out what's important to her in a relationship, and then validate those things as a reward for opening up to you. DAFS if you don't get this. You must find out her relationship with her mother, her father, and a little about her relationship history. This will give you the ROAD MAP to seducing her, and is ABSOLUTELY necessary for screening. Watch out for EFA's at this point (again, DAFS for Franco's legendary post on EFA's for more on this.)]

11. SOI! When she does something sexy, you look right into her eyes and tell her so. [Just like that; "Oh my God...when you crinkle your nose like that, it's so fucking sexy! Oh, there it is again!"]

12. ESCALATE: Establish physical comfort by touching right away and then always pushing the envelope. It is your job as a man. The coolest way to escalate is to do it while talking about something totally mundane, i.e. "Who do you think you're going to vote for?" (hand up the skirt).

13. REWARDS AND PUNISHMENTS: REWARD her for opening up to you; give her validation and relate to what she's saying. Show more interest when someone gives you what you want, and PUNISH by putting your interest elsewhere when she doesn't. [Read that sentence again, guys. When she's giving you what you want, she gets MORE interest, more interaction. When she's not, your interest goes someplace else...this is the logic behind everything from backturns to not calling for two weeks. AFC's CLING TIGHTER when they don't get what they want. Alphas move on to someone else; you're the Leader...people are either contributing, or they're out in the fucking cold.]

14. Don't care what she's thinking or about the content of what she's saying. Her state is what matters to you. Use pre-suppositions. [Totally ignore the logical content of everything she's saying. Its meaningless bullshit. I believe that you need a lot of field experience to really understand how true this is.]

15. Its her job as a woman to test your Frame. Every Test is an IOI; she wants to control you and she's horny cause she can't. [(credit: Kwag)] It's not just enough to blow it off, you have to blow it off and escalate. Laugh about it, ignore it, put her fucking hand on your cock, make her suck it, and then put her to do something for you.

16. Control that 101...make her feel great, but never let her feel she has you completely. The moment she stops wondering just how much you like her, it's all over. The tension comes from believing she might lose you, so make her believe it. Every woman is a 6 (Franco). Never let her ask, "How much do I want him?" because she's always wondering "How much does he want me?" (Ijjjji).

17. PPP: Playful Push/Pull. Bust them on the things they're totally confident of, and build them up on the things they're insecure about. [i.e., Give models a chance to show you that they're brilliant and outgoing, and then validate that...but then tell them their hair is too short, or a mess, or their perfume is too strong, or that you don't date models anymore because they're boring. This creates challenge because the things she's 100% confident about (i.e. her looks) aren't going to work on you, so she needs to use her brain (which she's insecure about). But it's MUCH more rewarding for her when you finally DO validate her mind precisely BECUASE she's way insecure about it.] Again, and again, and again. The whip and the rose...but playful! Just relax, and have fun with it. [The playful part is key. You're teasing, having fun, making her laugh...you're not tearing her down, here. As Franco says, a good PUA has a whip in one hand and a rose in the other, and constantly switches back and forth between the two. It's a great image.]

18. Be balls out real. Impudence. Rules are for other people. [Another quintessential quality of movie stars is that when they decide they want something, they will go balls to the wall to get it. They are a fucking FORCE OF NATURE. Develop this quality in yourself by SMASHING THROUGH your inhibitions.]

19. Keep your Frame tight; don't do Boyfriend-type activities with an FB. It's just rude. [My idiot friend just cooked dinner for his FB's Mom, and now she's freaking out because he doesn't want a relationship. His totally incongruent behavior has fucked the whole thing.]

20. Never give a fuck. Nothing is a big deal. Never care what she's thinking. What kind of man gets all bent out of shape over some work-trash ho? (credit: Player Supreme, obviously...who the fuck else would say that?) The Alpha male can fuck whoever he wants to. Just go grab someone new.

21. Re-game her again and again; never stop giving great emotions, great push/pull, great fun, and GREAT fucking. Remember, the moment she knows she has you, without any problems or challenges, her interest starts to wane. [You have to sing for your supper, guys. You have to re-game her again and again. Regardless of what kind of "arrangement" you guys have, if you don't make her horny, you ain't getting any.]

Hope some of you find this useful, I review it every day and it's cracked things wide open for me. Love to hear feedback.

Jack

Credit - Jack Bauer MASF

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Online Dating Service

Synergies in the dating market. Past 10 years has seen an explosion of online dating, match makers, speed dating, and now new entrant dating coach. Online industry has tried to implement online dating coaching, but up to this moment it has had small and negligible effect. What if online dating industry takes PUA model of hosting seminars in different cities, and bring in dating coaches to those seminars. Not only they will tap a bigger amount and more local people, they can also do so face to face. In away putting a face on their online operation.

Speed Dating, i just wrote an article for speed dating comany in chicago, and you can find that article Here, on right side of the scree, currently ranked #2, was #1 for a while but Valentine article during Valentines day kicked its ass ;)

There is match making element. Another very new industry that seems to be developing, i am meeting a match maker tomorrow about potential partnership. You might ask why? Well he has a lot of single clients who are no longer clients, and our guys have a lot of expertise in dating coaching world. I am also meeting with a female dating consultant today, whom i am thinking to bring on board t coach women.

So there is a lot of partnerships to be created, there is a lot of creative things that can be done between players. How does it affect pua? More services, more personal learning, i am expecting to see more 1on1 coaching so look in your city, there might be already personal dating coach, just make sure he is good.

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Presenting The Seduction Masters Interview Series

I'll be producing a series of interviews with the dating experts of the world presented here at the Seduction Chronicles.

The interviews will be fairly in depth, helping the reader to gain insight into how these masters got to where they are today. Tips, techniques and other thoughts they have on the subject of seduction and pickup will be relayed in a question and answer format.

These will be kick ass. We should be able to learn valuable lessons to shorten our personal learning curves.

The first of the interviews will be the infamous 'Thundercat' who was mentioned in "The Game", has written his own seduction book. I've also just completed an interview with Neil Strauss, along with other instructors in the various disciplines.

The Seduction Masters Interviews So Far

* Introducing the Seduction Masters Interviews
* Thundercat
* Stephen Nash (Playboy)
* Herbal
* Neil Strauss
* Grungey10
* Sean

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Dating Book Review The 10 Commandments Of Dating

The 10 Commandments of Dating by Ben Young, Dr Samuel Adams

Yeah, I, too, did not know that there were 10 whole commandments on dating. I mean, what a coincidence... there are 10 commandments in and, wouldn't you know it? There are 10 commandments for dating.

Ben Young and Dr. Samuel Adams (no, not the beer guy) decided that a book called" 10 Commandments of "on the topic would be fitting. And you know what? They're right. Here, now, are the 10 commandments that Young and Adams list off:

1- GET A LIFE.

Apparently, you can't engage in a relationship with someone until your own life is in order.

2- USE YOUR BRAIN.

Don't let hormones and emotional attachment take over your common sense.

3- HAVE COMMON GROUND.

You and your partner need to have physical, spiritual, and social commonalities if ou expect your relationship to work.

4- TAKE IT SLOW.

If you marry the wrong person, you'll feel like crap, so spend some time getting to know your partner first.

5- SET CLEAR BOUNDARIES.

If you don't, you'll be sorry.

6- SAVE SEX FOR LATER.

Probably the hardest of all the commandments to follow, but it is believed that if you jump into immediate gratification, you may miss what's really there... or not there.

7- DO NOT PLAY HOUSE.

Living together means enjoying the benefits of marriage without having any of the responsibilities that go along with it.

8- FIGHT FAIR.

Handling disagreements without trying to kill each other will likely lead to a successful relationship.

9- DONT IGNORE WARNING SIGNS.

If you notice that your significant other is about to dump you, don't try to get pregnant.

10- CHOOSE YOUR PARTNER WISELY.

Pretty self-explanatory.

Overall, this book is great and simply reiterates what your mom has been telling you for ages. So if you buy the book, don't just read it; heed the advice that is given to you. Most dating books tend to remark that they have the secret to successful dating, but" 10 Commandments of Dating" to dole out useful advice that we can all use in our lives.

Stop making the same mistakes in every relationship and figure out exactly what you need out of a partner before you dive head first into a relationship. And use" 10 Commandments of "to help you on your ride.

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Seduction Negs

Love Poems Tips To Write Them

Forget Your New Years Resolutions

Good Post On Direct Game Jack Bauers Rules

Here's a post by Jack Bauer off MASF on gaame

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