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Doing The Laundry

A young couple got married. On their honeymoon, they were very anxious about having sex because they were both virgins. Because of their sexual inexperience, they were a bit uncomfortable discussing the subject so they came up with the term "doing the laundry" to use in place of "having sex."

This made them both more comfortable with the whole concept. Well, the first night of their honeymoon was wonderful. They "did the laundry" 5 times that first night. In the middle of the night the new husband woke up, and he was ready to do the laundry again. He gently shook his new wife and asked her, "Can we do the laundry again?" but she was very tired.

She told him that she just couldn't do it again just yet maybe in the morning. A few hours later the new wife awoke feeling very guilty. What he had asked for wasn't unreasonable, and she decided she should go ahead and "do the laundry" with him again.

She gently shook him and said, "Honey, I'm sorry I denied you. We can do the laundry again if you want"

He replied, "That's okay. It was a small load I did it by hand."

Suggested free e-books to read:

Carlos Xuma - Dating Questions And Answers
Dating Insider - Seduction In The Year 2k
Kate Ludeman - Coaching The Alpha Male

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August 4 No Megan Fox Day

All the men's sites and online magazines have banded together in an effort to create a day where MEGAN FOX is not covered by any of them for fear of overexposure.

Because all these men's sites love MEGAN FOX so much, they don't want her to become the new Paris Hilton, so they're opting to ensure her popularity among men by avoiding her on August 4, 2009.

Even if MEGAN FOX releases a sex tape in which she sleep with SHIA LEBEOUF and MEGATRON, none of the men's site like ASYLUM.COM, ASKMEN.COM, DOUBLEVIKING.COM, YOURTANGO.COM, REGRETFULMORNING.COM, among others, will feature her perfect face or mention her perfect name.

I think that a lot of people are getting sick of MEGAN FOX because she constantly talks about nonsense and has the acting skills of a 10-year-old JESSICA ALBA [read: no acting skills]. But she is pretty, so we don't want to turn her into CARMEN ELECTRA.

Unfortunately, I think that damage is done already. I'll keep you posted on whether or not anyone breaks the rule.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Mary Wood Allen - What A Young Woman Ought To Know
Cucan Pemo - What Does Your Man Really Want
Lance Mason - 6 Easy Steps To A Hot Date

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Ways Women Use Men

Have you ever been in a relationship with a woman and felt like you were being asked to do a whole lot of favors for her? Were you dumped when you started telling her that you couldn't do certain things anymore? Well, that is because you were being used.

It's a wonder how women use men all the time and yet, some guys don't even notice until it's too late. Here are some signs that you are being used.

WAYS WOMEN USE MEN #1

YOURE HER CHAUFFEUR

If she needs a lift, even if it's miles away from where you're headed, she'll ask you to take her. And you're so burnt, you do.

But even when you try to say no, she puts you on a guilt trip and starts making those sad faces, essentially making you feel like crap if you try to get out of it.

What's worse; sometimes she gets you to drive her friends around, too. You think she's seeing you as this great guy and might even fall in love with you because you are so good to her. But to be honest, she thinks you're a sucker and a bit of a loser.

Have you slept with her yet? No? Yup, definitely a loser.

WAYS WOMEN USE MEN #2

YOU HAVENT BEEN INTIMATE

With all that you do for her all the time, and the fact that you're at her beck and call, you really believe that all this work should at least get you a piece of the action. But no - no pie for you. Instead you get a sweet peck on the cheek. That's it.

Of course, when you make even the slightest attempt to go for more, she stops you coyly, and plays you with the promise of more in the future... so long as you continue to do all that you do for her.

Wow, you must masturbate furiously.

WAYS WOMEN USE MEN #3

YOURE ALWAYS SPENDING

No matter where you go, you are always the one who dishes for everything. Oh yeah, she might splurge on a soft drink for you every now and then, but more often than you likely care to admit, she has you paying for all the lunches, breakfasts and outings you have together (I didn't mention dinner because that's when she goes out on "real" dates).

You find yourself going broke, but you like this girl so much that you are certain it's going to pay off eventually. Eventually she will fall in love with you and see you for the sweet, wonderful guy you are.

I recommend you stop spending anything on her and watch how fast she loses your number.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Sebastian Low - Attract Women Now
Martin Merill - Make Women Laugh
Kevin Bates - Any Woman Anywhere

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Dating Romance How To Be Successful

Love is not all about red roses. It is also about thorns. Dating romance plays very important part in life of every person. It is a common notion in society that people can not get their first love. Age can be the basic factory why people do not get their first love. In modern world, people fall in love so early. As a result, they start a relationship, romance, dating and love in the age of 15-16. In such a young age, you can not expect the maturity either from boy or girl.

Dating is a first step of romance, love or marriage. First of all, people start dating with each other and gradually, they increase the level of relationship. In recent time, online dating is in fashion. People date with each other with help of internet. They meet with each other and know various things about themselves. Dating and romance both are different term altogether. Dating is used to know other person better. On the other hand, romance is more relates with people who are in love already.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Webb - The Dating Wizard Secrets To Success With Women
Elena Petrova - Dating Advice For The Newly Single
Chris - Dating Groundwork How To Have More Social Success

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Want A Man Show 40 Percent Skin

Want a man? Show 40% skin

In what I can only call a ridiculous attempt at figuring out how women can attract men, British scientists think they have it all figured out: an outfit that reveals 40% of a woman's flesh provides just the right amount of male attention.

To figure out the number, Leeds University psychologists sent out four female researchers to one of the city's biggest and most popular nightclubs.

Women who showed off about 40% of their skin were approached by twice as many men as the women who were more covered up. By the way, head, hands and feet are not part of the 40%. So that leaves a whole lot of T&A to be seen.

But show off more than that and the signal to men changes from "allure" to one where guys think that you are too easy and might cheat in the future.

Suitable clothing includes a sleeveless dress that goes just above the knee. Of course, it helps if you're a size 6, wear tight fitting clothes and can give most strippers a run for their money on a dance floor.

So if a woman is obese and she shows off some arm and thigh, she likely won't have the same success with the 40% rule.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Tyler Durden - Plant And Stare Opener
David Deangelo - On Being A Man Seminar Slides

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Asian Playboy Seduction Masters Interview

I have had this interview on the backburner for awhile now. AsianPlayboy started his blog about six months before me, back in May 2005. Time flies I thought his experience and interview speak for themselves. Currently, APB is in Brazil, living it up with all those hotties down there. Enjoy! -Donovan

Name: Asian Playboy (the PUA formerly known as JT47319)

Age: 28

Previous Occupation: Engineer

Current Occupation: Entrepreneur and Pick Up Coach

Time in the Game: 2 and a half+ years active. KJing and school social circles before taking my first bootcamp with Mystery.

Website: http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com

DESCRIBE THE MOMENT, WHEN YOU SUDDENLY REALIZED, "I NEED TO WORK OUT THIS PART OF MY LIFE."

I realized I needed this worked out when I moved to Los Angeles after graduating college. Previously, I had been in a serious LTR and basically every other girlfriend had been achieved via school social circles.

Enter an occupation and career path full of old people, few women, divorcees, kids, the works. It wasn't the kind of social environment teeming with women. After struggling with "normal" type social mixers (like singles parties, speed dating, internet, etc), I knew it just wasn't working out. I had decent Inner Game and I KNEW that brought something to the dating table, but women in the "real world" just weren't being magically enlightened.

Frustration grew into curiousity when I read Neil Strauss' article in a Los Angeles newspaper. Back then, bootcamps were inexpensive and because I had my health and wealth portions of my life down, I knew I needed to tackle why normal dating wasn't working for me.

Have you had any mentors within the community/life that have helped you improve your game, and what did they teach you?

Both mentors and a strong support structure. I studied Mystery, RSD, and BadBoy/Shark. I also winged and grew as a PUA with some really great guys who are themselves very successful with regards to pick up. Guys who started off as random PUAs, but grew into my friends and supporters.

From Mystery, I learned the Art of Conversation, social proof and the female mind. From RSD I learned the intricacies of club dynamics, AMOGing, and buying temperature. From BadBoy/Shark, I learned to project and convey sexuality through tonality, action, and body language.

All essential lessons that form different parts of my overall gameplan.

CAN YOU DESCRIBE THE FIRST TIME YOU USED A COUNTER-INTUITIVE ROUTINE THAT YIELDED IT'S PROMISED RESULTS, AND HOW YOU FELT?

I still remember my first ever set I cold approached. First time in my entire life that I went up to complete strangers with the intent to flirt, pick up and seduce. Terrifying to say the least.

Herbal sent me in a 5 set that had 4 hot sorority girls and one stocky, built dude. My stomach was churning, my hands were clammy, and cotton formed in my mouth. Then Herbal says, "Open with who lies more!"

And you know what?

IT WORKED!

The women opened up and the guy was paying attention. Unfortunately, I was so terrified, I simply got their opinion, said thank you, and ran away as fast as I could with my heart pounding in my chest. THAT was simply mind blowing that I could go in with a canned opener and start a social dynamic with the intent to succeed with women.

COULD YOU DESCRIBE WHAT YOU'RE LIFE WAS LIKE BEFORE YOU WERE AWARE OF THIS, AND/OR WHAT OPTIONS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN NOW?

Before this, I had predominantly dated white, blond women that I had met via school social circles. They basically had to hit me over the head and then again for good measure. Right before moving to California, I broke up with my serious college girlfriend whom I had moved in with. I simply wasn't ready to settle down and knew it would be unfair to her if I asked her to move with me or "wait" for me.

Currently, I do very little true cold pick up and don't restrict myself to dating Caucasian women (experience the rainbow!). I do cold

pick up anyways for bootcamp on weekends. Now, I hook up via social circles. Both girls I'm seeing are through social circles.

One's bisexual whom I met through a previous hookup. The other is an exotic dancer whom I also met through social circle settings. In fact, I've got my eye on another dancer whom I recently met via a female friend of mine (and whom has girlfriends I previously hooked up with). Pick Up really is no longer a separate pursuit for me.

It's a lifestyle and I enjoy being a social, fun loving guy. Moving to Dallas knowing absolutely no one, I did have to cold approach in

order to establish myself. But for the most part, I never burned bridges when it came to women whether the chemistry wasn't there, I had taken them out, made out with them, or there was absolutely nothing between us. I always tried to maintain social networks.

And it's totally paid off.

WHAT WAS YOUR HARDEST/BIGGEST STICKING POINT?

Conveying sexuality. I think that was the hardest sticking point I had

that reached up to 3 months of hard, persistent work.I overcame it by

experminting hardcore with the direct style of Game.

Whether it was something particular to myself or endemic to other

Asian men, sexuality was the hardest skill for me to acquire and one

that I commonly see in burgeoning PUAs all the time.

Do you have a favorite routine/step in your model, can you describe it, and what it accomplishes?

I try and keep it simple. I call it the ABC's.

A - Approach and Attract (you can have enough attraction within 30 seconds)

B - Buying Temperature (maintaining attraction or plowing if the Approach didn't stick)

C - Comfort and Connect (form an emotional bond with her as well making her PHYSICALLY comfortable)

D - Direct Interest (phase shift dont' be a dancing entertainment monkey make your move, but do it with panache and style)

E - Extract and Escalate (get her out of there and make something happen and ALWAYS have your logistics down)

F - You can figure this one out (and dealing with LMR)

A-B-C, in my opinion, is a totally different beast than D-E-F. You CAN get laid via only D-E-F. You'll also more than likely get buyer's

remorse, but comfort game doesn't get you laid. Sexuality (and logistics) does. A-B-C means you're good at socializing. D-E-F means you're good at SEDUCING. A perhaps subtle, but key difference, in my opinion.

HAVE YOU HAD THE EXPERIENCE YET, WHERE YOU FEEL THAT YOU'VE REACHED A CERTAIN DEGREE OF MASTERY?

I don't know if I'd label myself as a master, yet. Damn good, but master? Eh, we'll see. I "got it" before I moved to Dallas and

"officially" retired my old newbie PUA name of JT47319 and took on Asian Playboy.

I think traveling Europe was a defining moment for because it was 1.5 months of not only hardcore sarging with my best friend, OCWaterboy, but doing so in foreign places where we didn't know the dynamics, language, and so forth. And then for half a month I sarged a couple of Scandinvian countries on my own, the lone PUA in a sea of Scandinavians. Great times!

That was an awesome experience where it no longer felt "hard" doing pick up. Everything just CLICKED, women were more responsive, I was hooking up, and having a great time with my bros. I then lazed about for several months in California before moving to Texas, transferring both the Outer and Inner Game I had finally achieved through consistent, hard work.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO NEWBIES STARTING OUT, IN ORDER TO GREATLY ACCELERATE THEIR LEARNING CURVE?

Have a support structure and have fun. The sad fact is, a lot of new guys (ones not successful with women at all) don't understand that this is a long journey of self-improvement and social mastery. I use the analogy of going to "Pick Up College." It takes time, it takes lessons, and it takes doing your homework/labs (ie field work).

You also need to surround yourself with good people who are also your friends beyond simply hanging out because you do pick up. That doesn't last and is a totally superficial relationship. That won't in the long term because you do need to enjoy flirting, seducing, and women in general. The longer you last, the better you'll get. And the way to sticking in longer is through mutual minded friends and having fun in this.

I also think creating some sort of journal (blogs are the big thing now) and documenting your FRs/LRs/etc are a great tool as well. After all, you don't want to be making the same mistakes six months down the road.

WHAT'S YOUR BELIEF ON INNER GAME, AND HOW DID YOU IMPROVE IT?

I think it's ESSENTIAL.

Now, which one to work on first is like asking, the chicken or the egg? Outer Game and Inner Game are necessary for a successful PUA. Inner feeds Outer which also feeds Inner. You need both and they can be worked on in parallel. Doing field work, but also taking time to center yourself and pursue a successful lifestyle.

DO YOU HAVE A PERSONAL FAVORITE FIELD REPORT THAT YOU COULD RELAY?

I don't write too many FRs any more simply because I have been found out here in the Dallas scene as being "APB." Don't think I want to get sued or deal with any of those hassles.

Now, some really old ones that I still remember had my biggest AMOG set (something like 8 guys, 2 girls and #closing my target after

befriending/ignoring the AMOGs) as well as Geoff writing up how I held a 8 (12?) set of girls at Saddle Ranch, moved them around, dominated, cavemanned, etc. Aaaah, good times, when you feel like you accomplished something that I once considered impossible.

WHAT IS YOUR CURRENT STICKING POINT?

How do I get better?

Hmmm. haven't mastered threesome game so that's something I'm going to try and accomplish with the bisexual. I'm pretty comfortable with where I am. I never set out to be a pick up expert, I just wanted to be decently successful with women.

Now I will see where life takes me and what challenges I can overcome.

What are you goals now within the community, and in life?

Continue building up my separate entrepreneurial endeavors, one of which is being a Pick Up Coach.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Maurice Alpheus Bigelow - Sex Education A Series Of Lectures
Tranceboy - Fast Seduction 101 Player Guide
Alphahot1 - Alt Seduction Fast Posts

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Love Dating Tips To Make Your Romantic Life Successful

Today, we will share some important love dating tips. These tips are for both boys and girls. By using these tips individual can get his/her best partner easily.

PLACE - If you are going on a date then it is important to choose a right place where you can talk with your partner without any hesitation. It is strongly recommended to choose a quiet and calm place.

INFORMATION - It would help you a lot if you get success to grab some information about your partner before hitting the place of date. In such scenario, you can take the help of common friends.

SPICE - Everyone wants to enjoy the life. So, don't forget to add some spice in your talks and body language.

POSITIVE SIGN - If you like your partner and are ready to start a relationship with him/her then don't forget to show him/her positive sign.

PAST RELATIONSHIPS - Everyone has his/her own past. Never disclose anything about your past relationships in front of your partner.

FOOD - You can order food if you are aware about the favorite food of your partner. Such things can help you a lot.

These are some love dating tips which can help you a lot in love and dating relationships.

Suggested free e-books to read:

C Kellogg - Top Dating Tips For Weary Singles
Love Systems - Daytime Dating Bonus Master Yor Dating Life In One Year
Chris - Dating Groundwork How To Have More Social Success

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Dating Guide Dating Horoscope Online

Depending on how detailed your horoscope is as you can easily find out about your personal luck or your compatibility with your partner. Personal fortune looks at the kind of universal forces that you need to consider at particular time. Some days you have a higher tendency to get into conflicts, while there are some other days when everything just effortlessly falls into the place. It just reminds you to watch out more conscious sorts such as weatherman predicting rain and saying you might as well bring an umbrella.

Some of the online dating horoscopes are free. Others give a free trial and then offer some more personalized or detailed charts with small charges. It depends on what you are looking for. They will actually go so far as to tell you which days are the best for seeing the people or which days you should stay in and watch reruns or may be what kind of lucky charms you may need to bring with you. While, others give you a general advice like it's a good month for meeting with new people.

Other dating horoscopes do not focuses on making predictions, but there are some tools for self awareness and reflection. This is especially true for tarot or rune readers. Their philosophy is that your thoughts or emotions can attract many kinds of situations and when you ask for a horoscope you are taking a kind of spiritual check ups so that you can correct whatever's blocking true love.

Suggested free e-books to read:

C Kellogg - Mens Quick Start Guide To Dating Women
Scott Peck - Dating And Falling In Love

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Doing The Laundry

August 4 No Megan Fox Day

Ways Women Use Men

YOURE HER CHAUFFEUR

YOU HAVENT BEEN INTIMATE

YOURE ALWAYS SPENDING

Dating Romance How To Be Successful

Want A Man Show 40 Percent Skin

Asian Playboy Seduction Masters Interview

Love Dating Tips To Make Your Romantic Life Successful

Dating Guide Dating Horoscope Online

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