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Psychology Of Sexual Monogamy

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 Many couples in a relationship go through some sort of conflict at some time or other in their married life. However, it is how that conflict is handled that is the key to a successful relationship. If you have come to a cross roads in your relationship and don' t know which way to turn, then I can empathize with you. A couple of years back I was desperately looking for good relationship advice to save my marriage. The trouble was there was so much conflicting information out there I didn't know what to believe.

Two years on and my marriage is now stronger than ever, Here are just some of the processes that I found that worked to fix my bad relationship.

UNDERSTANDING PROBLEMS


When problems do arise it is sometimes because of a deeper meaning. For example, your partner might be really annoyed that you want to stay up and watch late night television, instead of going to bed when they do. However, it is probably not about the fact that your partner doesn't want you to watch TV, but it might be down to the fact that your partner thinks that you don't want to spend as much time with them as you used to. If you are able to recognise these deeper routed problems before they escalate, might help to avoid conflict further down the line.

CHANGING DYNAMICS


Conflict can be caused through a changing dynamic. So as you go through married life, your circumstances change. The arrival of children into a relationship is a big dynamic change, as is changing your career, or increased workload. These changing circumstances happen in marriage or long term relationship, and are inevitable. However, it is how you deal with that change that will make or break your relationship. You need to acknowledge that a big change has taken place within your relationship and you need to work together, adapt and make that change work for you both.

COMMUNICATION


Communication is not just about talking! It' s knowing when to talk and when to listen. Many marriages or relationships breakdown when one partner won't listen to the other partner, or vice versa. Set aside time each day to ask your partner how their day has been. If maybe they have had a bad day at work, then let them tell you about it! Act as a sounding board, as your partner might not want you to solve their work problems, but letting them talk to you and getting it off their chest will make them feel a whole lot better, and you will feel happier knowing that your partner feels more at ease.

Understanding conflict within the marriage and how to deal with it, is all part and parcel of married life. However, if you learn to apply these tips to your everyday relationship, then chances are, you will be able to deal with conflict in a much more rational way, perhaps even preventing it before it happens.

If you are in a situation where your marriage is gone further than this, and you are desperate to try to get it back on track, then these are just a few of the tips I used as RELATIONSHIP ADVICE TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE. If you are really serious about saving your marriage quickly then you need to visit WWW.MARRIAGEFIXER.INFO for further relationship advice that you can't afford to miss!

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Zan Powerful Technique

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Zan's one of the best naturals around. Really nice "I love women' vibe that he projects in his interactions.

He has his own site here


This is a golden technique for when you see your relationship start to go down the drain and gives you a safety valve to set her up as a fuck buddy.. or as one of your MLTRs.. this shit should be illegal.. :-)

I don't know if this has been suggested before. I have read most of TFM and lots of the archive and don't remember seeing anything like it, so I'm sorry if this is not new.

(Subconscious interjection: Move through life without apology, Zan!)

Wait a minute! I take that apology back.

I haven't heard anyone mention something like this but IME, it is a very powerful technique. Here is the essence of it: Profess your undying affection and devotion to the girl - and then NEXT her.

When to use this? When you have seen her several times, you have had great rapport, but now it feels like she is starting to flake. If your thing with a girl was hot at one time (she tongued you down, lots of EV and talking, etc), but now you sense the whole thing is starting to drift towards LJBF land, and you have nothing else to lose, try this. It just might help to resurrect a moribund relationship with a girl.

Or if you really like a girl but you have done some stupid AFC moves (and who among us haven't?) and she is starting to lose interest, try this.

I have used this before to devastating effect. It sounds very AFC at first blush, but hear me out. Notice the difference between these two paragraphs (which I just made up and are cheesy, but it's just to illustrate what I mean):

AFC: I think about you day and night. You are so beautiful and I adore you. I can't wait to see you again.

PUA: I think about you day and night. You are so beautiful and I adore you. But now I must go. You have touched me on a very deep level and it is more than I can bear. I am helpless before other women and I will only hurt you and myself. I can't see you anymore.

Say the first phrase to a girl and she thinks "Ha ha, I have a yappy new lapdog. Buy me dinner!" Zero challenge; she has already won.

Say the second phrase and it throws her into a whirlwind of emotions. Her whole world becomes the cover of a romance novel. Her nurturing instinct kicks into high gear (after all, you are a victim of your desires and she must save you). She knows she is about to lose you. And she senses that you are about to run to the arms of ten other women for comfort.

It is very powerful. But the key is that she has to know that you really mean it. It has to be believable. You are *really* not going to see her anymore. And you should believe it too. After all, it was going cold already anyway and she was probably going to LJBF you.

And this is important - say it and then split. Get the hell out of Dodge. What I have found is that in a lot of cases, she will become obsessed with you. You will be bombarded with emails and phone calls from her. It is almost impossible for her to resist this challenge.

She almost certainly will try to coax you back. But only if you do this move while your rapport is still fairly strong and things are still going reasonably well between you two when you ditch her.

And when she contacts you, you must remain congruent and never let her feel she has you. From this point on. And the beauty is that you *can* go back to seeing her, but now you are the one with value. You are the prize. And you are the one that appears ready to leave at any moment. She WILL work to keep you.

And you have established the fact that you see other women and you can't help it. And she can't complain about this because you told her the way you are and that she might get hurt. But she still wants you anyway.

I pulled this on a girl recently. We were making out and I was kissing her neck and stuff and we were both feeling really good.

Using a poem from the manual (and slightly altering it), I said something like:

ME: (kissing her neck and talking very slowly) You know what I am, HB? I am your teardrop... I was conceived in your heart... I was born in your eyes... I live on your cheeks... and I will die on your lips.

Then while lightly kissing her lips, I said some variation of the adoration / Nexting phrase I mentioned earlier. And then I got up and took off.

This girl was almost certainly going to flake out on me, but now she calls me every night, wants to see me, understands that she is not exclusive, wants to save me, etc.

In fact, I have used this as a way to establish almost every one of my MLTRs.

Try it...

Zan

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Book Review The Game

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The Game By Neil Strauss

With a book that looks like it's easy to see why NEIL STRAUSS'" GAME" become the successful dating book it is known as today is not only a book about meet and dating women without fear; it's about building a man's self-confidence so he can become stronger and happier in all facets of his life. Once he establishes a foundation of confidence, he is then able to move onward with women and step up the game.

What makes even more interesting is that Neil Strauss was, at one point in his life, this insecure man who thought that he could never land himself a beautiful and smart woman. Even to look at him, one would think that NEIL STRAUSS isn't exactly the epitome of what women consider great-looking.

But after having followed around some of New York's finest pickup artists, NEIL STRAUSS began to build his own self-confidence and realized that it wasn't incredibly hard to get the woman he wants. All NEIL STRAUSS had to do was work on his inner game and then his outer game would follow.

And NEIL STRAUSS isn't just a pickup artist; before he wrote he wrote for the" York "so it's no wonder that" GAME" full of practical advice and a touch of witty humor.

If you're a guy who wants to develop his game or you know of a guy who does, then here is some of what" GAME" you (or he) need(s):

* If you want a specific woman, you need to be prepared to lose her. If you think you have nothing to lose, you won't reek of desperation.
* Always win over her friends
* Emit confidence at all times.
* Always go back and forth from being interested to being not interested. Keep her guessing.
* If you approach a group of women, do your best to ignore the woman you want.
* When you do finally speak to the girl you want, treat any undesirable behavior by withdrawing or seeming uninterested.

There are plenty more, but these are the basic tents of And according to any and every man who has read it, it works. Every single time.

RATING: 4 OUT OF 5



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How To Succeed With Women Online

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In all my years of coaching men how to succeed in online dating the one thing that always amazes me is the amount of men who still cut and paste a canned opener and send it to a woman.

Guys, women know when you cut and paste and send something, it shows that you did not read their profile and the first thing they think about is that you're lazy and not very clever.

The correct online opener is no different than the perfect bar, party or supermarket opener. Don't just send off 100 emails to women and expect to get a response back. Most men who use the shotgun approach tend to never ever receive responses.

"So what is a guy to do to succeed in the competitive world of online dating?"

1. KEEP IN MIND THAT THE WOMEN HAVE ALL THE POWER.

What works offline is going to work online. You need to be different and clever just like you do when you approach a woman in a bar or market. It really is all about having fun. To make your profile rock, instead of saying: "I love to travel", share a story about one of the places that you have traveled to. For example: "I love the Italian coast and when I was in Positano I had the best Lemon cello in the world. When we speak, ask me about the view."

Why is this better? Because it will make them picture what that was like and it will peek their interest and it will be something that they can ask you when they are responding to your profile. You need to create an emotional response so they feel compelled to write to you or write you back.

2. SO NOW THAT YOU HAVE SPRUCED UP YOUR PROFILE, how do you get their attention and distinguish yourself from all the other guys online?

This is the easy part but it will take some work. Instead of burning through 100 profiles and sending out a shotgun mass email that does not work, you need to pick 10 to 15 women at the beginning of the week that you want to get to know. The reason is that each week their emotions and dating moods change. Plus, if you do it right, you will get a good response rate and have a few dates that week. Now comes the work. You need to read through their profiles and find the fun tidbits. For example, if the both of you have a dog, you can send this email:

SUBJECT: IF NOT FOR USOUR DOGS WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO MEET?

"Body of email:"

My dog is really visual and when she saw a picture of yours her stubby tail could not stop thumping! We need to hook them up, plus I have to get her off Dogdate.com; she is becoming addicted!

Lets talk about this,

Your Name


There are few reasons why this will work besides the fact that it is original and funny. What you are doing is making fun of yourself here. Men are visual and you are telling her that your dog is visual which will get a laugh from her immediately. You want to make her laugh. She is getting all these horrible emails from all of cut and paste men and yours comes in with some originality and creativity. It shows that you tried to get to know who she is by reading her profile.

Now lets say that you or she does not have a dog. This is also easy you need to read her profile and pick out a fun tidbit. If she says that she is spontaneous and adventurous what I like to do is challenge them on that. Women like their minds to be challenged.

SUBJECT: SO YOU SAY

Body of email:
...that you are adventurous and spontaneous. What was the last adventurous thing you did? And if you are really spontaneous why don't you send me your number so we can talk. 5 minutes on the phone and we will know if we have chemistry.

Lets talk today.

I dare you.

Women like a man that is bold and one that challenges her mind. You are also getting to the point and creating intrigue. She will wonder what you are all about. Now why do I use the... on the subject line? I use it so they feel compelled and intrigued to open it. It is all about what may come after the... that makes them curious. You need to realize that most women get tons of emails from guys so you need to get that email opened.

3. STAY ON A SITE.

This is by far the best advice. Stop jumping from site to site every 2 weeks and think that you are going to get different results. You need to realize that women will check you out and read your profiles and it may take a few emails to get them to respond. They may be dating someone else the first time you contacted them and they may have been intrigued but they were too busy with other things or you got them on a bad day. I always tell my clients that it is ok to lob another email in a few weeks later. Now don't send the same one find something new to connect with her about.

It is all about being persistent and I have found in all my years of advising people on the internet that the ones who stay on a site and are persistent will be the ones that get all the great dates. You need to be patient some weeks you will have a lot of responses other weeks we may not get much of anything but if you use some of the pointers above you will increase your odds every day.

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Love Dating Advice How To Make Someone Fall In Love

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Do you love dating? Are you looking for best love dating advice? Are you confused about love and date? Do you want to know more about relationships? Don't worry, here you will get the answers of all questions either it is related with love, dating or relationship. First of all it is important to spend time together. If you want someone be your partner, if you want to make your relationship stronger, or if you love one someone then nothing can beat the dating procedure. You need to take some care while dating

- Your date can be perfect or worse. It completely depends on your behaviour and attitude. We always advice our valuable readers to be confident and behave like friends rather than lover.

- You are not a celebrity. Yes, keep in mind and behave normally. Don't try to act smart in front of him/her. Natural attitude is the best weapon to win the heart of people.

- Instead of trying to win the heart of your lover, try to enjoy your date.

- Don't talk without any break. Try to discuss rather than listening or talking.

- Give him/her an equal opportunity to share his/her feelings, thoughts etc.

These love dating advices can help you a lot if you are all set to go to make a new relation.

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Slapper Juggs Wow

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You meet the nicest people on Twitter - imagine my delight when I stumbled across SlapperJuggs 38DD. "Yippeee" I thought and asked if I could feature her on my blog. Not only did the gorgeous Ms Juggs say 'Yes', she also sent a bit of info to boot....

I AM 37 YEARS OLD AND STARTED DOING NUDE AMATEUR PHOTOGRAPHY OF MYSELF IN APRIL, 2010 AS A WAY TO HELP EXPRESS AND SHARE MY SEXUAL SIDE WITH OTHER LIKE-MINDED PEOPLE. AS A BISEXUAL WOMAN, I AM MOSTLY ATTRACTED TO BREASTS OF ALL SIZES, AND WOMEN OF ALL SHAPES. MY 38DD BREASTS ARE PROBABLY ONE OF MY BEST ASSETS (AS WELL AS MY GREEN EYES), SO THAT'S THE PART OF ME I ENJOY SHARING WITH OTHER BREAST LOVERS! I HOPE TO ONE DAY WORK WITH A PROFESSIONAL PHOTOGRAPHER TO CREATE SOME REALLY AMAZING PHOTOGRAPHS, AND POSSIBLY HAVE MY OWN WEBSITE. I LIKE MUSIC, DRUMMING, ART, DRINKING RED WINE, RAINY DAYS AND ROLLER SKATING, AND DISLIKE CELEBRITY GOSSIP AND THINGS THAT I AM ALLERGIC TO - MILK AND SHELL-FISH. YOU CAN FIND ME ON TWITTER: @SLAPPERJUGS (HTTP://TWITTER.COM/SLAPPERJUGS) AND ON TUMBLR: HTTP://SLAPPERJUGS.TUMBLR.COM/

What are you waiting for? Go and say hi and follow her on Twitter. It's a real shame that she's not in the UK otherwise I'd have her in front of the Kinky lens quicker than you could say 'SlapperJuggs 38DD'....I mean, look at those nipples - yum!

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Naked Blonde Scares Builders

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 I've always believed that construction workers are full of crap and if a woman called them on their classy advances, they'd run and hide like little bitches. And now, a thick and naked blonde woman proved just that.

In the Austrian capital Vienna, a naked blonde rushed at a bunch of construction workers on site and was shouting, "Who wants me? Who wants me?"

The construction workers got scared and ran for cover to avoid being hit by her massive breasts.

"We like to chat up girls as they walk past - it's a tradition. But this woman was too much to handle and we just ran and hid until the police got here. No one liked to think what would happen if she caught one of us."

Is this guy kidding? I'm pretty sure she had sex on the brain, not murder. Or maybe she actually wanted to hurt one of them, but considering she was naked, her arsenal of weaponry was minimal at best.

A police spokesman later told the press, "It turned out no one wanted her."

Poor lady. All naked and no one to have sex with.



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Over 55s Are Most Active Daters

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A survey commissioned by Stella magazine in the UK has discovered that people over 55 are the most active daters, among other things.

After interviewing almost 2,000 men and women, Stella discovered that:

62% of men and women over 55 have joined a dating site

Of them, men and women over 55 met up with the most people they met online (over 8).

Of them, men and women over 55 had more sexual partners they met online than any other age group - 2.4 (except the incredibly horny 45 to 54 age group, who had 2.6)

This really breaks many of the stereotypes that were flying around in my head. I thought that most people over 55 just didn't care for computers much, let alone used them to get laid.

I also had no idea that people over 55 were so much more ballsy than the rest of us when it comes to online dating. But then, I've seen a few college orgies in my day and think that the 18-24 don't have to go far for sex.

The study will be published in its entirety in Stella magazine this coming Sunday.

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