So, does this girlfriend of mine have a tendency to spot the jerks and hook them temporarily, or is it possible that she is actually the problem? Yes, yes, I know that there is no excuse for cheating and that only jerkoffs would do something so cruel, but if every single person you date ends up hurting you in the very same way every single time, isn't it time for a little reflection?
REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT
There was a time when men cheated on women simply because they had the opportunity, but times have changed and there are legitimate reasons for why he's straying.
REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT #1
YOU DONT COMMUNICATE
Instead of confronting the issues that irritate you, both of you look in the other direction and act as though everything is hunky dory, when, in fact, there's a pink elephant in the room at all times.
If he can't talk to you about something without you getting all sensitive and offended, he'll likely avoid the conversation altogether and perhaps may prefer the company of another woman in whom he can confide.
And let's face it; once that happens, it's only a matter of time before the two of them are lying naked on his desk post-orgasm, talking about how they've wanted each other for so long.
REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT #2
YOU ARENT SEXUALLY OPEN
If he does all the work in bed while you lie there, eventually it'll start to feel a bit like necrophilia to him and not many people enjoy having sex with a corpse.
I'm not suggesting that you head to the sex shop and invest in dildos and whips, but a little sexual experimentation never hurt anyone. Get on your knees every once in a while and show him how much you desire him. Seduce him, spend time appreciating his body and letting him know that you want him all over you.
REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT #3
YOURE A NAG
From the minute he walks in the door until the moment he leaves for work, all you do is nag him and treat him like he's your little child. This is emasculating and annoying for any and all men.
And if you don't change your ways ASAP, you can bet that his eyes will begin to wander and he'll eventually start a rapport with a woman who is anything but a nag and before you know it, he'll come home smelling of another woman's perfume, among other things.
REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT #4
ITS SOMETHING NEW
Variety is the spice of life, no doubt, and if he feels like he's stuck in a rut with you, he'll eventually seek some excitement, perhaps in a skirt and heels.
Of course, you can't dye your hair a different color every week and pick up a new accent on a whim, but you can definitely surprise him every now and then with a new look, some new flavors and perhaps even take him to a gentlemen's club every now and then.
The point is that he needs to feel like you bring little pieces of excitement into his life, otherwise, he may begin to seek such excitement elsewhere.
Suggested free e-books to read:
Rion Williams - Mens Guide To WomenHaldeman Julius - What Great Men Have Said About Women
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