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More often than not, guys tend to commit these little dating crimes that, on a first date, will render you into the "do not make that mistake again" zone with women.
So if you find yourself wanting a second date, but get ignored till you go away by the women you date, perhaps you might be doing the following. So knock it off and maybe you'll get past the first date and make it into the second one.
WHY YOU DIDNT GET A SECOND DATE
1- YOU WERE CHEAP
While it's great that you believe in equality for women, the truth is that most, if not all, women expect you to PAY ON THE FIRST DATE. And if you're going to bitch and whine about how expensive the restaurant was, then perhaps you should choose a more reasonably priced place.
The point is that women view CHEAP MEN in a very negative fashion because it not only says that you don't like to spend money - it also indicated that you may be cheap in other departments of your life.
You pay on the first date, even if she offers, say no, and pay the entire check. And if you don't want to spend too much money, then perhaps your first date should take place at a caf'e.
WHY YOU DIDNT GET A SECOND DATE
2- YOU GOT DRUNK
Oh Lord, this is the mother of all f*ck ups. What the hell were you thinking getting wasted and getting all kinds of stupid? Hell, even on a tenth date, that wouldn't be acceptable.
A man who cannot handle his liquor is a man that no woman really wants to be around. No matter how good you might think you are at maintaining a healthy demeanor when you drink, you still look like a fool to some extent.
Drink slowly, eat your food, and enjoy a good conversation. And if you just drink out of habit and not because it's alcohol, then order a bottle of water to go with.
WHY YOU DIDNT GET A SECOND DATE
3- YOU TRIED TO GET HER DRUNK
Not only is this a major turn off, it's also pretty cowardly. I've been on a couple of dates where the guy kept filling my wine glass and urging me to drink more. Why? Why does my having a buzz titillate you so much?
Not only will you make her nervous if you keep insisting that she drink more, you will likely never see her again because she'll think of you as the creepy guy who thinks she'll be a sure thing if she's wasted.
WHY YOU DIDNT GET A SECOND DATE
4- YOU WERE TOO INTERESTED
It's great that you think she's beautiful and you're ideal kind of woman, but if you say it more than twice, she'll be turned off.
Also, if you make any mention of the future, marriage or children, she will run in the other direction because #1) this is a first date, #2) that kind of freaky conversation is reserved for the crazily desperate.
Keep the conversation light and interesting, and don't delve into anything that remotely resembles a commitment beyond a second date.
WHY YOU DIDNT GET A SECOND DATE
5- YOU GOT TOO SEXUAL
Okay, so maybe she did wear a really low-cut blouse on the date and you can't help but get sucked into staring at her chest, but please, please don't start treating everything that goes on around you as though it's part of a sexual theme.
Even if you think she seems like the one-night stand type or you think this is going nowhere anyway, don't jump into sex talk with her or say anything about the way she sucks on her straw - it's just not cool.
If she starts the sex banter and you're all into it, by all means, go for it, but don't take off into sexy times first.
WHY YOU DIDNT GET A SECOND DATE
6- YOU ASKED RIDICULOUSLY PERSONAL QUESTIONS
How many men have you slept with? Do you shave, wax or laser your pubic area? Do you think I'm very good-looking or only so-so? Dude, what the hell is wrong with you? Stop it! Stop it now.
This is not the time to start delving into the deeply personal life of the woman sitting across from you. This is a time to get to know her on a superficial level, if you will. Find out what her interests are, not how many times she had sex in a car.
Gabrielle Moore - The G Spot Code.pdf
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Why Guys Dont Get Second Dates
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