Life has dealt you a blow - one that seems as if you might not recover from it anytime soon. Your heart is still bleeding from the break up and depending on how long you dated or were married, the harder it may be to pick up the pieces and start over. But you have to pick yourself by your bootstraps and get back to living.

We’ve all had times that have tried our souls and this is no different. When we’ve been hurt by someone else, we tend to take too much to heart the things they said and did. While some of it may have been true, much of it is simply the hurling of angry words – and even if it’s true, it’s changeable.

So with time and by getting involved with others, you can heal from the hurt. Dating can help in at least two ways. Either it will help you get your ex back if that’s what you want, or it will help you get over the pain of the break up and put you in touch with “other possibilities.”

In either case, dating new people and resisting the temptation to retreat into a corner and lick your wounds is essential. I’m going to supply some solid advice to help you to approach dating after your recent break up in order to avoid pity traps or rebound romances.

It will help you figure out what it is you’re looking for in your partner and the best ways to prepare your heart again for a fulfilling, balanced, and loving relationship.

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