Your objective, especially if you feel like you're "clicking" with the gentleman sitting across from you is to ensure that A SECOND DATE is not too far behind.
Too many women end up committing too many first date no-nos and the worst part is that they have no idea they're doing them. But you are, and he notices, and that's why there's only dial tone on your phone for the next couple of weeks.
So if you want to ensure that you get a cal-back, here are some first date no-nos that you must absolutely avoid.
FIRST DATE NO-NOS FOR WOMEN
1- YOU ORDERED THE MOST EXPENSIVE DISHES
He decided to take you to a nice restaurant for your first date, but that doesn't mean you have to order the $500 caviar starter and the filet mignon with scampis. This is a date; not the free meal express.
Go easy on the guy's wallet, and even if you think you're paying, don't go bananas on the menu; he doesn't know that you expect to pay your way.
FIRST DATE NO-NOS FOR WOMEN
2- YOU INSISTED ON PAYING
More often than not, guys expect to pay for the first date. If he's the kind of guy who asked the waitress for two checks, so you can each pay your own way, then perhaps not. But most guys do.
So when the check comes, don't claw at it and insist on paying. Offer to pay, and if he insists on taking care of it, then offer to treat on the next date. Acting like a 12-year-old who pouts when she doesn't get her way will certainly turn him off.
FIRST DATE NO-NOS FOR WOMEN
3- YOU HAD SEX WITH HIM
While there is no guarantee that FIRST-DATE SEX is a relationship killer, there's a good chance that he won't take you seriously if you sleep with him on the first date.
First off, he'll think that this is what you do on most dates. And especially if you say, "I've never done this before."
Second, when what's between your legs is so easy for him to get, it and you tend to hold less value than before you gave it to him.
So try to keep your legs closed on that first date.
FIRST DATE NO-NOS FOR WOMEN
4- YOU ATE LIKE A PIG
While guys like it when women order real food and don't just sit there picking at lettuce leaves, no guy wants to watch you down a rack of ribs that leaves you with food between your teeth and sauce all over your hands and face.
Order something that requires the use of a fork and knife or a spoon, and take bites small enough that your cheek doesn't have to swell up while you chew.
Suggested free e-books to read:
Jennifer Smith - Why I Love Men Dating Playbook For WomenSteve Scott - How To Flirt And Create Hypnotic Conversations With Women
Louise Andree Saulnier - The Yoni Massage For Women
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