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Relationships How To Approach Girls And Make Them Crazy For You

Getting a girl to like you takes a specific approach and most guys mess this up totally. If you care to get the hottest girls you have to approach from a cocky yetpoised position.

To learn how to approach girls and get them chasing after you, your going to have to put away that Mr. nice guy in you. Chicks don't get hot for guys that are too sweet to them. They don't get hot for guys that act like their friend either. These are the men that get the phone call when the real man they like blows them off and the guy friend gets to dry up the tears. Do not put yourself in that position to begin with.

Guys this is how its done. You must approach confidently like you EXPECT things to go well. Think James Bond here he always gets the girl because he expects to and he brings them into his reality versus dwelling in theirs. Be bold but not rude be confident and open a conversation so you can move this situation forward.

Always make fun of her in a sarcastic way. Bust on her a little bit. This will set you apart from most of the other dudes because they don't do this. They are too afraid to offend her so ruffle her feathers in a playful way (like 007 does) and do not back down if she gets uncomfortable. Just smirk and say "I'm only playing...relax you will live I'm only gonna do this to you the rest of the night!"

The most vital thing when learning how to approach girls is to be certain you let her know your not her puppy dog and that you are comfortable in your own skin with or without her and that you have high social value too. Don't be afraid to act disinterested at periods just to let her know that your not all ga ga over her but yet pay close attention to her at other times like she is the only one in the room. This is called Push Pull and it makes women crazy.

Establish control also. Once rapport is built test her and grab her by the hand and do a location change or just move to a different part of the room. If she goes with you without a challenge then its a pretty good sign that you are doing things right. Get her used to following your lead with small tests like this.

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I Want To Get Weighed

JESSE TOOK HIS BLIND DATE TO THE CARNIVAL. WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO FIRST, AMBER? ASKED JESSE.

"I want to get weighed," replied Amber.

They ambled over to the weight guesser. He guessed 120 pounds. She got on the scale; it read 117 and she won a prize.

Next, the couple went on the Ferris Wheel. When the ride was over, Jesse again asked Amber what she would like to do. "I want to get weighed," she said.

Back to the weight guesser they went. Since they had been there before, he guessed her correct weight, and Jesse lost his dollar.

The couple walked around the carnival and again he asked where to next. "I want to get weighed," Amber responded.

By this time, Jesse figured that she was really weird and took her home early, dropping her off with a handshake.

Her roommate, Laura, asked her about the blind date, "How did it go?"

Amber responded, "Oh, Waura. It was wousy."

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How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back

"by David DeAngelo."

So, let's start with the definition of the word WUSSY

This word is a combination of the words "Wimp" and another word that starts with P, has a next letter of U, then two of the letter S and finally a letter Y.

In other words, a Wussy (or Wuss), is a guy who tends to behave in a wimpish, submissive, needy, way.

The opposite of a Wussy is Maximus during his first arena fight scene in the movie Gladiator.

The problem with being a Wussy is that women are NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAKNESS and thus, they are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.

Never.

Ever.

Ever.

A woman might MARRY a Wussy because he's either the best she can get, has a lot of money, has courted her for so many years that she finally gives in, or whatever

But, she'll never feel ATTRACTION for him.

Women don't CHOOSE who they feel ATTRACTION for, and they don't choose the emotions that they feel either.

It just HAPPENS. Bam!

One problem that a lot of guys have to face is TURNING INTO a Wussy over time

When you start off on the right foot, then gradually turn into a Wuss over time with a woman, that emotion called ATTRACTION starts to go away inside of her.

A woman will tell her friends "I don't know what it isbut for some reason lately he's just annoying to be around." etc.

It BOTHERS and ANGERS women when a man that's interested in them acts like a WUSSY. In many women it actually triggers these emotions just like dominant behavior triggers ATTRACTION.

Of course, the worse things get, and the more annoyed a woman becomes, the more like a total WUSSBAG most guys act.

It's one of those "vicious cycles" that usually ends with the woman leaving and the guy sitting there wondering what he did wrong and him thinking that maybe, if he had just been able to tell her just how much he loved her, that she would not have left him for that other abusive jerk.

By the way, if you want to learn how to DE- WUSSIFY yourself for good, and become a man that is universally attractive to women, then you must go and read this before you read any further:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/OnBeingAMan

OK, so let's talk about your specific questions:

1. "HOW DO YOU INTERPRET HER BEHAVIOR? IS SHE STILL INTERESTED SOMEHOW OR WHAT?"

I interpret her behavior as NATURAL and VERY, VERY PREDICTABLE.

If you do it again in the future, the same thing will probably happen.

Is she still interested?

Yes, she is.

But not in anything more than being your FRIEND.

You have, with your actions and communication, KILLED the ATTRACTION that she felt for you.

This is something you're going to have to deal with and take responsibility for.

You turned into a Wuss, and now you're paying the price.

You have to come to terms with your Inner Wuss before improvement can begin.

2. "IS THERE - ACCORDING YOUR EXPERIENCE - ANY REALISTIC CHANCE TO GET HER BACK, I.E. TO TRIGGER AGAIN HER INTEREST AND ATTRACTION?"

Well, this is a sticky question.

There is a CHANCE, yes.

But here's the problem. Probably 90% of the time when I tell a guy exactly what to do in order to get a girl back, he screws it up doesn't do it exactly the way I say, etc.

And, of course, he makes things worse in the process.

THE PROBLEM

Focusing on getting her back will not only lessen the chances, but it will keep you from moving on in your life.

The best thing for you to do is MOVE ON in your life.

Ironically, the way to give yourself the best chances of getting her back is to NOT TRY instead, go date other women, and be scarce in her life.

In other words, you're never going to make her feel any ATTRACTION for you again by staying in touch, being her friend, and being "nice" and by trying to "win her over" again.

It would be nice if things worked that way, but they don't.

Now, why do guys chase women, and keep doing the WRONG things even after a woman has left?

In our dealings with women, we guys tend to think things like "That's not fair" and "I did all the right things" and to feel self-righteous because we're the good guy but miss the point and not get the RESULTS we want.

Remember though

Attraction isn't FAIR, it isn't "right", it doesn't care how "nice" you are. Attraction can be cruel and painful sometimes.

You know, the irony of your situation is that this girl was probably just as bummed-out as you were about this whole thing happening.

Women HATE it when guys turn into Wussies.

I know, I know she did things that made you turn into more and more of a Wuss. It's her fault too right?

Wrong.

Women do this stuff to TEST you.

They're not actually TRYING to turn you into a Wuss. But if you DO turn into a Wuss, she realizes that she can't trust you to be a man and she has to go.

Now, she's not doing this to hurt you, she's only doing it because she wasn't getting the feelings that she wanted with you and now she's getting them with Jerk-Boy.

THE SOLUTION

As I mentioned, your best bet in this situation is to MOVE ON. Get on with it.

Most importantly, start dating OTHER WOMEN IMMEDIATELY.

Not in a few days, and not next week. NOW.

And, stop calling your ex. Stop responding to her quickly. Stop being her WUSS-FRIEND.

It's obvious that the LAST thing you want is to wind up "just being friends" with her so STOP DOING IT.

Next time she calls, tell her you have a date over at the house, or you're leaving to meet a woman. Of course, make sure IT'S TRUE, like I said.

Stop being so AVAILABLE.

Get busy enjoying your life.

Get busy dating other women.

If you find yourself thinking about her and wanting to hear her voice, BITCH-SLAP yourself. If you're feeling weak, have a friend do it.

And when you do wind up talking to her, say the following:

"Hey, calling for more therapy? No-can-do I have to run to the gym to get in shape for my hot date on Friday"

You feel me, dog?

And remember

In this world, "I was a nice guy and did nice things for her" doesn't cut it. Attraction has a totally different set of rules and exceptions. And if you want to get and keep an attractive woman, then you'd better learn them.

It's a skill, and you're not going to get it by being "nice" and doing everything your mom taught you

If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, she'll do almost anything to stay with him. If she DOESN'T feel it, then the chances are slim that she'll stay around.

These rules are even MORE TRUE when you're dealing with an ATTRACTIVE woman who gets a lot of attention from guys.

The irony of this situation is that I think it's a lot easier to make a woman feel ATTRACTION than it is to be a Wuss who chases after her, buys her things, and annoys the hell out of her.

I spent a lot of years of my life being a Wuss.

I made all the classic mistakes.

I should probably be awarded an honorary degree in the subject really.

But, over the last several years I've not only learned how to cure myself and evict my Inner Wuss I've also learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION with my body language and communication alone.

I only wish someone would have shown me this stuff fifteen years ago

If you're reading this right now and it's time that you evicted your inner Wussy, and learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you without chasing them, buying them things, and giving all of your power away, then listen up

THE TIME IS NOW.

This stuff isn't going to fix itself.

And you know by now that more of the same is only going to get you more of the same.

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Frustrated With Pickup

If you're anything like me, you've tried so many pickup and seduction methods that it all feels like hard work. It also feels like you're putting in a ton of effort while getting a lot less progress and results than you expected. It's really quite frustrating at times.

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Commitment Phobic Man

Dating Q">I recently met a guy I think might be the one for me. The problem is, he told me that the longest relationship he ever had lasted all of 3 weeks. He's 31, so it's not like he's a spring chicken. The thing is, he's all over me when we meet up with mutual friends, but I'm afraid he just wants to play around. Should I invest my time in this or should I move on?

TALIA

Personally, I don't think you should waste your time on this guy unless you are ready to be in it for a good time and nothing more. He told you off the bat that he doesn't do long-term, so expecting that you will be the lady who changes that is na"ive.

He made himself clear, so take him at face value and either tell him you're not interested, or enjoy the casual sex that he obviously wants from you. But don't think for a second that playing hard to get and then sleeping with him is going to change his mind. It won't. He made that clear.

"ONLINE DATING FIRST DATE IDEA

I am recently single and have perusing online dating sites for a while now. I finally met someone I click with and she suggested we meet. The thing is, she's suggesting that we go for a hike together, but I think that a 2-hour commitment is not a good idea, especially if we don't click in person.

How can I tell her that I'd like to meet for a 30-minute coffee instead without insulting her?

STEVEN

Steven, the idea of going on a hike for a first date is creepy by any means. I mean, if a guy asked a girl to do that, I'm sure that all kinds of alarm bells would sound in her head.

What you can and should do is tell her the truth - that you would prefer to meet up for a quick coffee instead and save the hike for the next date. You don't have to tell her why, exactly, but if she asks, be honest about it. Don't start off a potential relationship on a lie.

There's nothing wrong with telling her that there's a possibility you may not click. Hell, she might be the one who ends up not clicking with you.

"

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How I Slept With My Salsa Teacher

by Magic, Attraction Methods.

"Let me tell you about the time I slept with my salsa teacher Natalie"

This was long before I became good with women, and even with my lack of success, I still got lucky. Real lucky!

CAUTION: Even though I slept with this woman, almost everything I did in this story was horrible. So let me be upfront and tell you not to use what I did in this story as solid techniques or tactics, but I will point out what I did right, and how you can use that right now to propel your dating life.

You probably already know that I spent years getting my life in order so that I could start attracting the women I saw around me. This wasn't always the case. Before I started honing my skills, I missing loads of fun, enjoyable (and great venues to meet women) activities in my life. Well, dancing was one of them. When I started to be proactive, I decided to take lessons.

Like many dance teachers, this woman was a beautiful. She was tall, skinny and blonde. Not only was she a dance teacher, but she just changed her profession from being a (of all things) an air-hostess! This siren had recently separated with her husband and it was at her home in wine country that she gave dance lessons in. (Her future ex-husbands estate of course!)

During our dance sessions, it would be just the two of us in this elegant, old-style home.

Every time we would dance, I would feel very uncomfortable. I had not slept with a woman in a long time and now I felt the sexuality of this beautiful woman in my arms on regular basis. I would look into her eyes, hold her close to me and touch all over her perfect body as part of our dance routine.

(If you think you are someone who is uncomfortable touching women, join a dance class. Go for group lessons instead of private sessions. This way you will get to touch a lot of women, look into their eyes and breathe close to them. Before you know it, you will feel very comfortable and relaxed when touching women. It really worked for me.)

These ongoing lessons made me immensely attracted to her. I wanted her so badly but didn't know how to make her mine.

I could tell she knew I had feelings for her. She would tease me from time to time, as women do, talking about her breasts and body hidden by dancing overtones. We would sit on her neatly decorated king-sized bed to watch dance videos. Every time she would sit almost TOO close to me for it to be not on purpose. You know how that would feel right?

Something just snapped and I could not take it anymore, so I decided to do something about it. I mustered the little courage I had, and asked her to join me for lunch. To my surprise she agreed without hesitation!

I do not know how I got that burst of courage but I held her hand and said sheepishly, "Natalie, please do not take this the wrong way but I think you are very beautiful and I want to be with you."

She blushed and her eyes opened wide. She said it was almost like the movie "Unfaithful" where the main woman is cheating on her husband with a younger man.

She said she could not be with me because it did not feel right. I tried to convince her a little but soon backed off. I did mention that I hoped this did not come between our friendship.

We finished lunch and parted ways. I thought I had ruined any chance I had with her, and did I make a mistake by taking the leap?

A couple of days later, I got a call around 6pm in the evening. It was my dance instructor crying because she just had another fight with her husband. She asked me if I had plans that night

I drove over and she asked me if I meant what I said at the restaurant. I replied saying that I meant every word of it. She lent over and started kissing me on that very bed we had watched dance videos on. Before I knew it, we were having sex.

Almost everything I did during these interactions was wrong but there was one thing I did do right: I took a chance by letting her know how I felt over lunch.

I get hundreds of emails from guys who are focused on learning dating skills. This is good. Coaching drastically increases your odds with women. However, until you can get an opportunity for live coaching don't just sit on your ass complaining.

GO OUT AND APPROACH WOMEN. PRACTICE. TAKE CHANCES!

You will feel amazing about making an effort. You will become aware of your mistakes, and you will not feel depressed and lonely like you would by sitting in your house all by yourself.

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There are lot of beautiful, single and lonely women out around on Valentines Day.

Tomorrow is your day to take a chance like I did. Who knows? You might be sleeping with women even before you come to me for workshop to take your skills even further!

Now get off your ass, get out there and send me an email when you sleep with a woman because you took that chance!

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Are You A Human Golden Retriever By David Wygant

The following is a talk I gave to a client at a weekend bootcamp. This is a great example of my direct one-on-one coaching during bootcamps.

Whenever you try too hard in life to get people to like you, you push everybody away.

When you do this, you're too over the top and you're generally not listening to people. You're actually overwhelming them.

It's like a Golden Retriever: have you ever gone over to someone's house and they have a Golden Retriever, and you've never met this dog before, but the dog will just not leave you alone? It just keeps running over to you, bringing you its ball, and all of its toys and everything?

In a dog, this is a great quality. In a human - well, you don't want to be a human Golden Retriever.

Both men and women do it. When people try too hard, it's just too much. You get in somebody's face, and they automatically want to back down. I watch when a guy will go out there and be a human Golden Retriever - and I watch the way women react. At first, they will find him attractive, because he has great energy, but then after two minutes, she'll just try to shoo him away.

She hasn't gotten to know the guy in those two minutes, because generally the human Golden Retriever is just spitting out hyperactive words the whole time instead of connecting.

By tuning yourself down a little bit, and by listening and being intriguing, you're no longer going to be a human Golden Retriever - you'll be a person. And that's all that it is about. It's about connecting with people in a genuine way.

After this weekend, some of you guys will keep in touch with some of the guys here a little bit longer than you might keep in touch with some of the other guys - that's just life. That's chemistry.

So stop trying so hard. You're such a deep and genuine soul. You're a good person all around. You don't need to try so hard to prove yourself to other people. So stop overtrying

Todays video dives even deeper into life and how to present yourself to a total stranger with confidence.

You do not want to be the human golden retriever.

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Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back

A lot of women have given some tips on how to get an ex boyfriend back. However, there are few men that have given tips on women based on their own perspective of winning a boyfriend back. As I have traveled in Europe and studied different ways to work around relationships and make them stronger, I have found out that there are some important things to do in order to increase the chance of winning a man's heart back, even though there is no certain things that will get your ex boyfriend back.

First and foremost, especially if you have realized that you have caused the fight or you have done something wrong, offer a sincere apology for anything that you have done to get your ex boyfriend back. This will be the first step of mending a stained relationship. We, guys, like to be regarded special at all times, so an apology can soften us. Make an apology from the bottom of your heart and show you ex boyfriend that you are sincere on winning his heart back. Any signs of insincerity and untruthfulness can make him forget about all the things that lie between you and him.

You must explain that you are willing to changes in yourself if you will be given a chance to continue your relationship with him. It is important for him to know how and why are you willing to sacrifice things and change yourself in order to make the relationship better. Since you are the one who is trying to bring your ex boyfriend back, you have to lay down your ideas about the changes first.

If your ex boyfriend requests for space and time, respect his decision. We guys really need it. Never try to bother or harass him, as it will be one of the worst things that can decrease your chances of winning your ex boyfriend back. However, if he wants to keep in touch with you, then that is great and continue having a healthy communication with him.

Never get jealous and ask questions about other girls. This is a very painful choice, yet an important one. Nagging your ex boyfriend about other girls when you two are not yet officially on again will make him more irritated and exasperated about you. If you really have to ask about another girl, do it in a gentle, civil and conversational manner.

Never, ever, avoid making demands or ultimatums on your ex boyfriend. This will not help you, because he will either be intimidated on you and will net help to get your ex boyfriend back, or he will get angrier and close his doors on you. No matter how angry you may be, refrain doing such thing at all cost.

The very last thing that you have to learn on winning your ex boyfriend back is acceptance. Yes, you have to accept that you are not together anymore. However, there is still a possibility for reconciliation if you will just play the right cards. Just be the person that your ex boyfriend have liked back then. Who knows, that your ex boyfriend will hit the spot and make him fall in love with you again.

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Relationships How To Approach Girls And Make Them Crazy For You

About the Author:

Author: Tracy Tyler

I Want To Get Weighed

Amber responded, "Oh, Waura. It was wousy."

How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back

OK, so let's talk about your specific questions:

THE PROBLEM

Remember though

THE SOLUTION

And remember

Frustrated With Pickup

-Chief

Commitment Phobic Man

TALIA

STEVEN

How I Slept With My Salsa Teacher

Are You A Human Golden Retriever By David Wygant

You do not want to be the human golden retriever.

Winning Your Ex Boyfriend Back

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