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Relationship Advice For Women Spice Up Your Relationship

Relationship is one of the most beautiful bonds in the world especially when we talk about love, married couple, romance, dating etc. It can be too easy to find someone and start a relationship. However, it is not an easy task to live the life with new relation or person suddenly. Therefore, we are discussing important relation advice for women. Women are very emotional and they think more from heart than mind. It can be a good thing for men but it can be bad especially when there is some fight going on between you and your girl.

First of all, we would like to tell all girls that do not make your world revolved around your man. Yes, it is good to be in relationship but you can not ignore your friends, cousins and family just because of one new person. You can not depend on one person for happiness. It is important to share quality time with everyone with whom you are.

Love yourself more than anything else. No, we are not asking you to stop loving your man or boy-friend. However, we are saying that love and give too much importance to yourself rather than revolving around your man.

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How To Reattract A Woman

The reason why you don't hear me talking about this particular topic is because it's a tough one. The problem is usually that when a woman gets to the point where she doesn't want to be with a particular man, there may be a lot of factors involved.

1. She has made a mental decision that this isn't what she wants anymore.

2. She has a gut-level emotional feeling associated with the man and the situation, and she just doesn't "feel it" anymore for the man.

3. There are usually patterns of communication, thought, and feeling in these situations that act as further nails in the proverbial coffin.

And to make matters even worse, most guys make the huge mistake of doing EXACTLY THE WRONG THINGS when a woman does leave to the point where they make it virtually impossible that she's going to change her mind.

All in all, it's typically a lot easier to just get on with your life and start dating other woman than it is to try to get a woman back. With that said, I'll share some ideas that might help you get to the next level, whether you decide that getting her back is what that level is, I'll leave to you. So what are the mistakes men make that seal the deal and make it almost impossible to get a woman back?

Here are a few:

1. Acting like a NEEDY WUSS. This is a big one. Here's the situation: Woman leaves, man feels strong emotions of depression, strong physical cravings for her, and creates strong psychological rationalizations for trying to get her back. This leads to calling, visiting, confessing love, crying, and other similar behaviors. Unfortunately, most guys don't think for even a SECOND about what the WOMAN is seeing. And in most cases, the woman is already disgusted with the situation. This kind of wuss display only makes things 10 times worse.

2. Letting it destroy their lives. It sucks when you lose someone you love. I believe that humans naturally feel depressed and upset when they lose someone they love But the problems start when you stop living, and you let the emotions take over. Instead of staying involved with life, some guys let depression and feelings of sadness control them, and wind up spiraling into even worse states of mind and body than they were in when the breakup happened originally. This, of course, can be pretty bad.

3. Pining away over the woman for weeks, months, or even years after the fact. Too many guys (and women) will just sit around hoping that their relationship "fixes itself". This creates all kinds of negative emotional states, unrealistic expectations, and strange vibes when you do communicate with the ex.

So what's the answer?

Well, in general, when a relationship comes to an end, you need to GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE. Stay busy, get things going. Don't allow negative emotions to create a permanent belief that you'll never feel better again. The strange truth is that if you want to cause someone who you've had a relationship with to feel ATTRACTION again for you, you're going to have to do basically the same things that you'd do with someone NEW that you meet.

I get emails every week from guys who have read my book or been exposed to what I teach that write in to say that they've been "practicing on their ex" and that the ex is responding by flirting, calling more often, and feeling more attraction for them. And never forget the power of jealousy. If your ex learns that you're getting on with your life and seeing other people, she's FAR more likely to take a renewed interest in you. In other words, if you sit around and sulk you're not going to become more attractive. If you call all the time and beg for forgiveness, or talk about how much you miss her, or whine and cry, this will probably only drive her further away from you.

Just like when you meet an attractive woman who's used to getting a lot of attention from men you must GIVE HER THE SPACE TO MISS YOU. You need to get on with your life, don't call often, play "hard to get", tease her and have fun, and let her know that you're dating other people and moving forward to enjoy your life. THIS IS THE KIND OF THING THAT CREATES THAT MAGICAL GUT-LEVEL ATTRACTION that I'm always talking about. By the way, I honestly believe that women can tell ALMOST INSTANTLY if you're the kind of man that she's going to feel ATTRACTION for.

How?

By the way you look at her, the way you hold yourself, the way you speak to her, and kinds of things you say. When you download my eBook "Double Your Dating", one of the THREE free bonus booklets that's included is called "The 8 Personality Types Of Men Who NATURALLY Attract Women". This is a description of the traits I've found to be common among men who ARE successful with women, and men who AREN'T successful with women. If you've downloaded the book, I recommend that you re-read that booklet to refresh your mind with the concepts. If you haven't downloaded it yet, then go here.

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50th Wedding Anniversary

Sam and Becky are celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary. Sam asks Becky, "Becky, I was wondering - have you ever cheated on me?"

Becky replies, "Oh Sam, why would you ask such a question now? You don't want to ask that question"

"Yes, Becky, I really want to know. Please"

"Well, all right. Yes, three times"

"Three? Well, when were they?" he asked.

"Well, Sam, remember when you were 35 years old and you really wanted to start the business on your own and no bank would give you a loan? Remember one day the bank president himself came over to the house and signed the loan papers, no questions asked?"

"Oh, Becky, you did that for me! I respect you even more than ever, to do such a thing for me. So, when was number two?"

"Well, Sam, remember when you had that last heart attack and you needed that very tricky operation, and no surgeon would touch you? Then remember how Dr. DeBakey came all the way up here, to do the surgery himself, and then you were in good shape again?"

"I can't believe it! Becky, you should do such a thing for me, to save my life. I couldn't have a more wonderful wife. To do such a thing, you must really love me darling. I couldn't be more moved. So, all right then, when was number three?'

"Well, Sam, remember a few years ago, when you really wanted to be president of the golf club and you were 17 votes short?"

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Online Love Tips Make Your Romantic Life Successful

Now days, people have started searching for true love and relationship online. It has become very much popular all over the world because it is simple, effective, easy and economic. You can easily find perfect life partner if you already have a computer and internet connection. However, it is advisable to follow some online love tips before accessing new technology.

If you are first time user then always make an account with someone who already knows about dating world. It is also important to make a separate email address for dating and never use your regular email address.

Use webcam and microphone only when you are confident about your partner. Never share your pictures or video with any unknown person. This advice should be followed by everyone; either you are male or female.

Choose a renowned and popular dating website rather than anyone. It will help you to interact with nice people. Good website simply means better crowd.

If you are first time user then don't go with paid dating websites initially. Spend some time on free websites and get experience from there. After 10-15 days, you can logon to paid websites.

By following these online love tips, you can easily survive in dating world.

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Igniting The Spark Again With Online Married Dating

Married dating is becoming quiet popular day by day not only in one country but also all over the world. The word adventure has emerged as one of the most multi meaning English word in current scenario. People are using it according to their life style and usage for example married couple are searching for married dating websites. According to them they want adventure in life that's why they are signing up on those websites. Their search force many companies to launch different dating websites according to their needs and demands.

Generally, single married men or women love to join married dating. These web portals have emerged as basic necessity especially for those people who are married but don't or can not live their partner due to many reasons. These websites provide a nice platform where married people can share their feeling and emotions without disclosing their authentic or personal identity. You can chat or talk with any men or women without any tension or problem.

Married dating has got massive popularity in last couple of years. According to experts, life style and work pressure is the basic reason behind these kinds of services. In order to get the emotional and mental satisfaction, people like to join these web portals.

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British In Australia Spread Stds

It seems that about 700,000 British backpackers head to Australia every year, and along with their beer guzzling, they also offer Ozzies plenty of STDs as well.

A survey of more than 1,000 British backpackers in Sydney, Australia, found that they had three times the sex partners they'd usually have at home, even if they're not single.

Almost 40% had multiple partners in Australia.

41% didn't use condoms consistently.

24% always had unprotected sex with multiple partners.

10% have had more than one sex partner while on vacation in Australia.

Given that some of the British backpackers spend upwards of a year in Australia, it's no surprise that they have multiple partners, but there's really no excuse for not putting a hat on jimmy.

So why aren't they using condoms and how come Australians are so willing to engage in sex with these Britons? Well, my theory is that they'd rather spend their money on beer and hallucinatives instead of condoms, and the Ozzies are tired of their own and want to try a new flavor.

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Engage With The Reversal By Stephen Nash

THIS WEEKLY COLUMN HAS BEEN GETTING LOADS OF GREAT FEEDBACK! THANKS FOR ALL YOUR EMAILS AND COMMENTS. KEEP THEM COMING. I'M HERE EVERY MONDAY.

I had an interesting conversation the other night that I wanted to share.

Is it just me, or do the best inspirations always come when you least expect them?

Anyway, I am a pretty driven guy - and usually find myself out too late working on projects that interest me. I've been getting interested again in the arts recently, and this guy is a painter friend of mine, who is about to open a gallery show. He's a really cool guy, but a bit clueless when it comes to women.

He's got a cool place to live where he also works, so whenever we meet up we always go to his place so I can see what he's up to.

As usual, anytime I am hanging with a friend, they always 'download' their recent girl dramas. And this time was no different. My friends all get a kick out of my work, and they also know that I LOVE hearing stories from "the field".

He had recently hit up this bar downtown, and wanted to try out some approaches. He's not a PUA per se, but he does like to engage women in conversation. Here's what he told me:

HIM: "Stephen, I know you guys used to script these things to a tee...and I understand that and all, but I discovered that the BEST way to open up a convo is to REVERSE their expectations from the get-go"

ME: "Hmmm...I have this image of you approaching them and pretending to be gay and completely disinterested...true? Please say no..."

HIM: "No way. Not at all. But take the most common scenario, a guy rolls up and says 'Can I buy you a drink?' - right? Isn't that the most common scenario?"

Me: (ugh, he's building a 'yes' tree here...he's a great salesman) YES

HIM: "So, what if you - INSTEAD - said to her: "Hey girls - listen, I've got a little challenge - you up for it? (they always say 'yes'). If you can guess my favorite drink, I will buy you a drink. In fact, I'll give you three shots at it"

ME: Hmmmm...that's interesting...tell me more (aka, YES)

HIM: "Well, it immediately puts a fun frame around the interaction, and separates you from the pack. Isn't that what you're always saying Stephen? AND, I got three numbers last Friday night using JUST this method."

He was and IS right. I was so glad he brought this up, because it is so SIMPLE and useful to guys who dislike routines, but who also want some sort of structure to use when beginning the conversation.

It reminded me of a conversation Style and I had years back at Project Hollywood. We were rehashing an old Ross Jeffries routine that I used to use when I was very new. It goes like this:

"Excuse me. Are you confident enough to accept a sincere compliment from a complete stranger?"

I've always liked this script, and used it for a long time. I even experienced results with it, unlike most who use RJ's stuff.

Style and I however conceived of a new way of wording it - by adding the below to the end.

(after she says 'yes')

"Hey, so am I! You go first"

What you do is completely reverse the expectation and cause her to have to think on her feet. This obviously separates you from 'the pack' while also causing intrigue. She HAS to engage you, as she can't rely on her own bag of tricks.

So, engage her in conversation by using her expectations FOR you. The only difference it - REVERSE this so that you get the advantage.

Take an obvious source of conversation, and simply reverse it on its head so that you are challenging her. Here are some examples (all said with a smile btw...otherwise you'll come off as an ass):

"If I give you guys some cash, do you mind bringing drinks to me and my friends throughout the night? We're really tired and would love to just kick back without running back and forth to the bar"

or

"Nice bag. Could I borrow it for say five minutes? I want to impress someone"

or

(if someone is having a cellphone conversation nearby)

(roll your eyes) "Let's pretend to be the other person on the line. We'll take turns. I'll go first: "aah, but I love you Jim, I think about you always..." (turn it into a soap opera)

Be challenging and engaging.

Be DIFFERENT.

Use something happening and turn it on its head. Instead of asking a lame question about it - turn it into something USEFUL.

If you're looking for even more ways to engage women in any/all situations, then you've really got to check out my ebook. If you haven't yet downloaded it, it's pretty important that you get up to speed soon. Click the link below and get started ASAP.

See ya next week,

Stephen Nash has put his tactics on building an attractive lifestyle and persona into How To Get A Girlfriend, now in it's 3rd edition. It contains expanded information on approaching, natural conversation skills, building social circles, and a lifestyle that attracts women to you.

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Are Gorgeous Men Faithful

R DON STEELE IS THE FAMED AUTHOR OF" TO DATE YOUNG WOMEN: FOR MEN OVER 35, BODY LANGUAGE "AND" MANS GUIDE TO "AND HAS PROVIDED HIS DATING EXPERTISE IN OVER 400 RADIO INTERVIEWS. WITH A NO-NONSENSE APPROACH TO THE DATING WORLD, R DON STEELE TELLS IT LIKE IT IS AND HELPS MEN FIND THE WOMEN THEY WANT EVERY TIME.

Reader question:

I am currently dating a guy who is ridiculously gorgeous. We've been together for a couple of months and, although I'm pretty sure he likes me a lot, I get the feeling he's leading me on. Why? Well, he always flirts with my friends and always jokes about having an "open" relationship.

When we're alone, though, he makes me feel so special. Am I kidding myself that this guy is faithful or will remain faithful? Should I just leave him and find someone new? Is there something I can do to hook him so that he only wants me? Please help!

"R Don Steele's answer:

"Well, he always flirts with my friends..."

Good looking men flirt, period. Why? Because they can and women like it and that feels good and reassuring to both the man and the woman! If you want this to stop, you must tell him something like "Jim when you flirt with my friends it hurts my feelings. I'd appreciate it if you didn't."

This must be said when the 2 of you are relaxed and nobody is around. It must be a gentle request not an order or an ultimatum. If he replies with "Oh for God's sake I'm not serious", or some other way of not listening with respect, I want you to say something like, "I know, honey, and it does bother me a lot. I'd really like it if you didn't".

His response to that will let you know. I don't mean just his words; I mean if he does not stop, you are not important to him. I suggest one more try, however, this time with a tinge of anger in your voice. about it should go something like this: "Jim, it really hurts me when you flirt with my friends. Please stop." You know what to do if it does not stop.

"... and always jokes about having an "open" relationship."

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Again, you must share with him that it hurts your feelings and say what you want. Be sure to add, "I only want to be with you. I love you and adore you." Just like with the flirting, if he comes back with, "I'm just kidding, can't you lighten up?" You come back by simply repeating the request. And if it doesn't stop, you know what to do.

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Relationship Advice For Women Spice Up Your Relationship

How To Reattract A Woman

Here are a few:

50th Wedding Anniversary

Online Love Tips Make Your Romantic Life Successful

Igniting The Spark Again With Online Married Dating

British In Australia Spread Stds

Engage With The Reversal By Stephen Nash

Click here to download it and be studying within minutes.

Are Gorgeous Men Faithful

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