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Book Review Why Mr Right Cant Find You

Why Mr. Right Can't Find You By J.M. Kearns

Although it has been labeled a "self-help" book, it's quite obvious from the first few pages that J.M. KEARNS'" Mr. Right Can't Find "is much more than that. And even though the title pretty much sums up what the book's focus is, I was surprised to discover that couples can also benefit from it.

Why? Well, because" Mr. Right Can't Find "tackles the topics that most couples forget about when they're in that honeymoon phase. By addressing these hard-hitting topics from the get-go, you can figure out if your relationship is going to make it into the long-term or if you should hit the skids and look elsewhere for love.

J.M. KEARNS also encourages women to be more proactive in their search for love. I can't tell you often my friends sit around waiting for the guy to come to them, as though it's written in the books that Mr. Right is going to be at the right place at the right time, will spot her from across the moon and she'll get that happy ending she thinks she so richly deserves.

No. J.M. KEARNS makes it clear that if you want Mr. Right, you're going to have to look for him. Don't be afraid to go out alone, he says, and don't be afraid of online dating sites, they can be one of your greatest allies.

All in all, I think J.M. KEARNS debunks the typical myths that most, if not all, women believe. So if you want to figure out where the best places to meet men are, the best way to show yourself off, and the best way to make your online dating profile shine, you need to read Why Mr. Right Can't Find You. It's an investment. It's an investment.

RATING: 3.5 OUT OF 5

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Online Love Tips For Beginners Looking For Love

There are many experts and online web portals available to provide best online love tips. However, only few provide you correct direction. In love, it is important to think from heart rather than mind. Hence, we have brought some important love tips for you.

MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP MORE INTERESTING - It has been seen that people start ignoring each other as the time passes. Hence, it is important to add some flavor and spice in dish of love every time you meet with your partner.

GIFTS - Either it is a new relationship or old one, it is important to share with gift each other. These gifts make two people closer as well as make your bonding stronger.

CARE - Forget about movies. In real world, you have to show your love and care to your partner. It is not possible for other person to recognize it automatically especially when you are not showing it. Whenever you get opportunity just show it.

EAT TOGETHER - It is must for both partners to eat food together most of the time. In case, you both are extremely busy then don't forget to have dinner or lunch together once in month.

Hope, these online love tips would help you a lot in real world.

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Olga Lebekova - Top 5 Tips For Meeting Russian Women Online
Dylan Morgan - Hypnosis For Beginners
C Kellogg - Top Dating Tips For Weary Singles

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Dating Book Review How One Of You Can Bring The Two Of You

How One Of You Can Bring The Two of You Together By Susan Page

Relationships aren't easy and marriages are even harder, so if you find yourself in a situation where you feel like it's just about over, this book might possibly help you see things in a different light.

Too often, when relationships begin to break down, hostility escalates and then we start to search for things that the other person is doing wrong. But SUSAN PAGE believes that it is possible that the reader can become the better person in the relationship and that the positive energy will become contagious.

If you're unhappy with the current state of your relationship, trying some of the experiments listed in the book may prove just how easy it can be to get things started on the right note again.

If you don't want to lose the person you're with but feel like the two of you are drifting apart, then perhaps reading up on what you yourself can change will make all the difference.

In the book, SUSAN PAGE recommends that you overcome your resentment for your partner and stop blaming them when the sky is gray outside. Rather, she wants you to recapture the lost intimacy between the two of you and help you get back to the place that had you saying "I do" in the first place.

RATING: 4 OUT OF 5

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Allan Pease - Body Language How To Read Others Thoughts By Their Gestures
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Man Scams Online Daters On Matchcom

Man scams online dating out of $150k

SOLOMON NASSER was arraigned on Thursday January 28, 2010 on charges of larceny, fraud and tax crimes. Nasser went after professional and well-to-do women on the dating site Match.com and scammed them out of ore than $150,000 by the time he got caught.

Nasser lied about being wealthy and an important man in society and managed to convince the women to send him some cash because he claimed his cash was "frozen by court disputes" and was in a nasty custody battle with his ex wife.

One woman gave him nearly $115,000 in cash and credit card purchases, so she is, by far, the biggest sucker this side of lollipops.

The 57-year-old Nasser was sent to jail after his arraignment and parole has not been set.

I've said this before and I'll say it again - any time anyone online asks you for cash, alarm bells should sound and you should either report them or ignore them.

When someone claims to be rich and then asks you for cash, you should cut them off because it is always, ALWAYS, a scam.

Suggested free e-books to read:

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My First Club Nite Ons

Here's a post from a while back of my first ONS.

Was still in the early stages and didn't know too much about inner game, the importance of qualifying, leading the interaction. Learnt a lot since, but have a long way to go. The game never ends.

Starting the afc way.. apologies for a long post..

Ive been out clubbing the past few months.. have gotten from

being unable to dance with a woman to getting pretty consistent day 2's and some F-closes..

Here's a LR of my first ONS..

Went out clubbing last weekend. Id done the usual ritual before leaving.. peackocking items, lil bottle of armani black code(women love it) in my back pocket, breath fresheners, lip balm, mints and fresh condoms.

I listened to a lil house to get me in the mood before i went out and drank a half bottle of wine for the lil happy buzz.

I used to go out smoking a spliff or two or drinking pint after pint of beer, but though that used to get me results.. nothing really like going in with just the slightest buzz.

Also I find that wine doesnt cloud your senses like most other alcohol does.

Went to an underground house place.. like house for the music.. tho i do prefer RnB places for pulling women.. RnB has this sensual music that makes it a lot easier to make out to. While i feel most women in clubs that play house go there just to dance.

I walked in.. the floor was kinda empty with just 7-8 girls on the floor. I went to the bar got myself a JD n coke, placed it on a table and walked up to one of the girls HB8 and started dancing with her. She asked me what my name was. I told her. In the background I was thinking jeez.. i shouldve met this girl later in the night.. this is too early on.. esp as the club closes at 0430. we danced for 2 songs and I got a little kino going. How do you all know each other? i pointed to her and her friends. She told me.

Thats one of the three sentences i always use on the dance floor..

You having a good night, I think youre cute and How do you all know each other. Id like to think it establishes a little false sense of familiarity and is a non aggressive, casual way of getting conversation started early on. She said she was going to the bar for a drink and asked me if i wanted one. guess I shouldve said yes and asked her to buy me one. But i didnt. She asked me to wait there, but when she didnt return 3-4 minutes later i started dancing with another two-set.

This seemed to be going pretty smoothly too.. when the HB8

returned and gave me eye contact. I didnt go dance with her or pawn the two set i had. Mistake. (My SP is that i cant run two-sets on the dance floor.. one, three and four sets are so much easier when it comes to isolating.

Maybe i should get a wing, but I have a wing who i used to think was good before, when i was just starting out a few months ago.. but now just spoils my sets whenever he enters them.. he does all the flash dance moves, doesnt maintain eye contact with the women, doesnt calibrate them, doesnt initiate kino, and mostly dances with me when we're in a two set.. he is brilliant at approaching sets and opening them however (which is good for me as I can game them).. but good at little else.. Ive told him about asf but he doesnt seem too intersted.. well his loss.. and mine too in a way.:-)

I was getting bored with the two set so I moved to a different set..

On the way there i danced with a set of guys who seemed to be having a good time. Thought Id recruit a wing on the dance floor which is what I often do. But i usually end up with guys who seem confident out of set but freeze when it comes to dancing with women.

I asked two guys to help me out and said lets dance with those three women there.. They smiled seemed enthusiastic and said lead the way.. When i did however, they just stood a few steps away and danced. I felt like a bit of an idiot trying to introduce these two guys, who were dancing 3-4 feet away facing us, who i didnt know from Adam to two women id met thirty seconds ago.

They smiled at them and continued dancing with me. Closing off their bodies to these two guys.

The attitude i try to portray when im on the dance floor is that Im a fun guy out to have a good time. I smile and laugh a lot, enjoy the music (no matter how bad i think it is) and dancing.

I make friends with the guys on the floor who look like theyre having a good time.

Often people come up to me and say 'Youre a player, man'. Music to my ears.. I say thank you and say 'lets dance with some women' but they often chicken out when it comes to dancing with the women. or even if they do they have poor BL, no kino, no eye contact, no smile etc etc..

Sometimes I go up to guys who seem to be doing well with the

women and tell them theyre players.. this seems to work wonders and they introduce me to new sets. Which i crash and burn with usually.. mmm, must think about why?

I approached another two set now.. and they ask me if I have

some pills.. I say no.. they say youre smiling and have a lot of energy.. we thought youd have some.. what about a spliff instead..

I truthfully tell them i dont have anything.. but if i find some, ill keep you in mind i say.. I have no intention of finding any.. im doing tonite drug free.. calibration is key.. they look at two afro carribean guys shaking booty and smile at each other.. i say you wanna dance with these two guys.. I dont wait for an answer and start dancing with the two afrocarib guys and introduce the two girls to them..

but these two guys dont handle it too well.. they didnt do too badly either.. i moved set again..

As i did another dance floor recon.. I stopped myself..

I find myself getting sucked up into the power of being able to dance with all the hottest women in the club.. and instead of doing what im out there for i.e. gaming women.. i shift from set to set.. sometimes it works well for me.. as i can often get back to sets ive danced with before when other sets dont go too smoothly.. also sets up social proof.. but it doesnt really help me gamewise.. because you cant get anywhere with a woman if you dont spend time with her in the first place.. at least 15 minutes usually..

I found that now i started getting anxious and losing state.. id approached a few sets and hadnt gotten anywhere really.. But i notice it.. wouldnt have if I had drunk a bit more or smoked a spliff..

chill out i reassured myself. STICK IN SET i tell myself.

Most important lesson ive learnt while clubbing.. apart from

escalating and advancing kino and look like youre having a good time.. is to STICK IN SET, something like Gunwitch's golden golden golden Persistence to Isolation rule.

I went back to the hb8 I saw initially, but she had seen me dance with other women.. and she moved away immediately..

I didnt let it bother me.. Ive had this happen so many times.. and will happen many more times.. I tell myself i shouldve pawned the two set i was dancing with before when she gave me eye contact..

I walk up to a chill looking guy who's dancing on his own and ask him to stay on adjacent sides of an imaginary rectangle/square as we dance L-formation.. I tell him 'watch the women come to us'.. (haha.. i know what some of you are thinking.. but dancing in a L-shape with a bit of space in front of you on a crowded dance floor usually has women come to dance.. or even if I dance with a lil 4x2ft space in front of me on floor the women come n dance in that space... and i approach them asap..

I usually approach women within a second or two of eye contact on the floor.. any longer and its crash n burn time..)

We're dancing L-formation, but this time the women dont come

to us.. well, didnt say it always worked, did I?

I look across however and make eye contact with a HB8, she's dancing with another guy.. but she keeps looking at me dancing.. I dont like approaching sets where a guy is already dancing with a girl.. theres more than enough sets on the floor for everybody (who knows how to make use of them, that is)..

I move to her and start dancing with her.. I dance for a minute.. I really like the way she dances.. she has a nice energy to her.. But im feeling like im intruding on them.. she continues to maintain eye contact with me though.. another guy comes and dances.. it looks like he knows the other guy.. and now its three of us dancing with one girl.. I get ready to shift set.. but i remember the talk i gave myself a few seconds earlier.. STICK IN SET.. so I decide to.. i smile at the guys and tap them on the shoulder.. and

shake their hands.. HB8 in the meantime continues to make eye contact with me.. the two guys move away.. I move in..

I smile and we dance together.. I start kinoing her..

simple touched on shoulder, hand.. then i slide my hands down her arms.. i keep eye contact and smile at her.. i start pacing my dancing to hers.. I ask her her name.. what she does.. fluff talk as i get my kino going..(yeah i know.. dont ask her her name.. if she asks you yours.. then thats an IOI.. but usually if i get kino going.. i just assume IOI's are happening.. or rather i assume IOI's as soon as they smile)..

I continue kino.. i run my hands down her arm and grab her

hands and squeeze.. she squeezes back..

Im In..

I move closer.. and run my hands down her back..

Whenever i start kinoing a woman on the dance floor, I act like im her boyfriend and do whatever he wouldve done.. women usually associate good feelings with comfortable sensual kino and when theyve been with their boyfriends on the floor.

She says she's off to get a drink and says she'll be back.. I wait for around 3-4 minutes.. then I think if I wait any longer Ill lose value.. so I re-approach a two set i had approached earlier..

L-formation guy is next to them.. I introduce him as my friend to them.. and continue dancing with them.. I find that HB8 has come to this part of the floor.. i see her, smile and pawn the two set and start dancing with her again..

I move in close and dance with her.. kinoing her back.. I touch foreheads, nose together.. and hey... Im not supposed to be doing this this early..

thats my kiss close technique.. never failed.. touch foreheads together, noses together, and them lips.. kiss close.. easy as that..

so i get my mind giving me second thoughts.. as i move in for the kiss..

thats because another promise ive made to myself is not to kiss women until after dancing with them for at least 15-20 minutes so I dont activate slut-defense.

So as im doing the forehead, nose.. I get my mind telling me This is too early on.. Ive mistakenly stumbled on my kiss close tech while im caught up escalating kino.. so as i touch foreheads, and nose i move away to her cheek.. and kiss her cheek.. then i get another thought that says.. Ill look like a dick if i kiss a woman on the cheek.. so now i find myself transitioning to her lips and kiss her (sounds pretty funny as i read it now).. she returns the

kiss..

we continue dancing.. I continue kino..

im describing the kino as I go along, since its a FR.. and maybe some of you guys can give me more kino steps/tips..

I sniff her shoulders and neck.. kino her shoulders for a bit.. turn her around and slide my hands down her thighs and push my crotch against her butt.. and grind.. i turn her around again.. and we kiss again.. she seems to be initiating all the kisses.. i dont have a problem with that.. push-pull.. cat string.. im the prize.. you know the drill.. ;-)

I tell her Im sorry, but I have this thing about hugging.. and I hug her..

I learnt the hug after having had some xtc a while ago.. if theres one drug id recommend people try at least once its xtc.. more often than a month or two months tho' i seriously believe it fucks with you serotonin or happy receptors..

anyways.. heres the perfect hug IMHO.. from the xtc days..

Hug tightly for at least 4-5 seconds.. maintain a constant pressure..

hold your breath.. and break away suddenly.. feel the energy in the hug while youre doing it.. and as you break away.. eye contact and smile as you break away..

eye contact and appreciative positive reinforcement kino and a smile after a kiss is also ahem, mandatory..

I kiss her on her nose.. she has a really cute nose.. she says its a huge nose.. i dont agree.. she pulls away when i try to kiss it again..

all through the night i sneak kisses on her nose and smile.. i do this whole play acting thing of trying to kiss her nose as she pulls away.. holding her head as i kiss her nose.. sometimes jumping towards her and surprising her by kissing it.. works like a neg... and has an endearing feel to it too..

she introduces me to two girlfriends.. i smile at them.. theyre dancing with each other.. I ask her how they know each other..

I tell her my third standard club line.. I think youre cute.. I find that thats a neutral compliment.. its an IOI and you can use it on the drop dead gorgeous ones..( who'd probably construe it as a neg..) and the not so attractive one's either.. it an IOI.. establishes frame.. cute means lil girl cute and im the man..

i continue the kino.. a few more hugs.. she really likes them.. few more kisses.. i do the pull hair back firmly.. evolutionary position of surrender and softly bite her on the shoulders..

After a while she tells me her friends have left.. I offer to drop her off.. Persistence to Isolation.. I tell myself..

The club begins to close and we make our way out.. we're holding hands, hugging, laughing.. as I begin to walk her out..

she stays nearby, she tells me.. so we begin to walk.. I start talk-gaming her..

I do the cube, tell her im a mind reader and do my mind reader routine (see TnT post).. she laughs.. i maintain the C&F frame.. continue to neg her about her nose.. when she tries to neg back I spank her playfully.. i ask her what her place is like, fluff talk about interior decor so i can tell her she must show me sometime..

I dont tell her that tho'.. i.e. you must show me sometime.. i leave that for when i get her number and call her..

we reach her place.. we stand outside.. its time for me to ask for her number.. but Persistence to Isolation sticks in my head..

I ask her the five magic words to get me inside her place.. 'May I use the bathroom'.. she says ok.. c'mon in.. the place is a mess though..

I enter.. its spotlessly clean.. i dont enter the bathroom.. I start kissing her, smelling her skin, smiling, tell her she's cute.. I fumble with her bra strap.. she tries to help me out.. i say.. no.. and me try again.. no luck until she does it herself.. we're both laughing through all this.. I take her pants off.. i read somewhere that if a woman takes her pants off she feels like a slut, while if you take her pants off she feels desirable.. we're soon naked and making out.. we've moved from her setee to her bedroom.. it was really cold in the living room.. cant wait for summer..

No LMR whatsoever.. i use push-pull, cat string.. tease her.. and we fade to black...

Got her number and called her yesterday.. C&F again.. ended the call while it was on a high note..we're meeting again tonite..

Im still learning.. feedback is valuable and appreciated..

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Are Canadian Men Wusses

An international student living in Canada has noticed a glaring difference between the men from her native Bahamas and men in Canada.

Seems the men in Canada are much more laid back when it comes to women and dating, and are more than willing to LET THE WOMEN MAKE THE MOVES.

The dating scene in the Bahamas, as well as in Europe, Africa, Australia, and South America, has the man doing the pursuing and the woman waiting to hear what he has to say. But in Canada, the men will sit back and stare at a woman all night but never make the move to ask her out.

This is very nerve wracking for women who are used to being pursued by testosterone-fueled men. Coming to a country where the men don't do the asking and where they're happy to let the women make the moves is a little unsettling, I bet.

Of course, not all Canadian men are this way, but I'm guessing it happens often enough that someone thought they should write about it.

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Dont Fail Her First Test

"by David Wygant, author of Date To Win."

Here is a question that gets asked a lot, but one I don't think we've ever covered in the blog.

Say you're on a date with a woman and she says, "Don't worry, we can split the bill." What do you do in that situation?

I can tell you what I've done the majority of my life. Unless I was broke and poor, and just plain couldn't afford it, I've responded to that by saying "No, I'll take care of it. You can get me another time."

I hate to say this, but a lot of women at that moment are testing you. They really are.

A woman at that moment wants to see if you will "man up" and pay for the date. It doesn't matter if it's a cup of coffee, drinks or dinner. She wants to see if you will be a man and pay for the first date.

A lot woman will take you out on date three, four or five. They really will. They still want you to pay for the first date though.

So guess what happens to the guy who says "Okay" or "Great!" to the woman who says you can split the bill on the first date? She probably won't ever return your phone call or go out with you again.

Here's another note about this. Don't take women out on dates you can't afford. Pick dates that are within your budget.

Don't to take a woman out to a 5-star restaurant if you can only afford a 1-star restaurant. Don't take a woman out for a bottle of wine when you can only afford a glass of wine.

Always pick up the bill on that first date, because women will test you with this. They don't know you yet, and they will test you. You don't want to fail her first test.

LEARN MORE FROM DAVID WYGANT AT HIS OFFICIAL WEBSITE THAT CONTAINS LOADS OF DATING TIPS AND PRACTICAL ADVICE - CLICK HERE TO VISIT.

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Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates
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Book Review Why Mr Right Cant Find You

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Online Love Tips For Beginners Looking For Love

Dating Book Review How One Of You Can Bring The Two Of You

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Man Scams Online Daters On Matchcom

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