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Online Dating Ideas Optimizing Your Experience

In current scenario, online dating has emerged as one of the fantastic ways to meet number of people around the world. Many online companies and websites have come in market already after recognizing the growth of dating industry. They provide plenty of ways to communicate with consumers online. Today, we will share some best online dating ideas that can help you a lot. Through internet, it has become quiet easy to share pictures and videos.

In case, you are quiet exciting about online dating then go with web cam. It is one of the advance and latest technology in the world. Here, two people chat with each other through web cam. This electronic device makes you enable to see your partner live. It works like a live soccer match. Now, many websites are providing number of gifts that can purchased online and you can send them directly to your partner.

In case, you are planning some other online dating ideas then try web cam with head phone. With the help of these two devices, you can talk with partner live without paying any extra money to internet or Telephone Company.

Suggested free e-books to read:

David Deangelo - Double Your Dating Deep Inner Game
Joseph Matthews - Meeting Dating And Seducing Women
C Kellogg - Online Dating A Simple Practical Guide To Finding Love Online

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How To Make Good Profile On Dating Sites

Dating websites are in vogue and got success to attract number of people as well. These websites are earning unlimited money and help users to find their soul mates. According to experts, online dating is very helpful to find perfect partner, but profile plays very important role because initially neither you nor your partner can see you. It is very important to focus on profile while creating it. Here are few tips to make a nice profile:

Language - Always use simple and easy language while creating profile. Never try to copy and paste difficult language from other profile to make your partner impress.

Honesty - Honesty is the best policy; you should follow this proverb wisely while creating profile. Online dating is not a cakewalk at all. You always provide mix information about yourself. You can provide authentic information about you like, gender, name, likes, dislikes, educational back ground etc. but do not provide genuine information about address, phone number, etc.

Looking for - don't get confused and make confused others. You should write clearly what are you doing and looking for on online dating websites. Clear mentality leads to good results.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Elena Petrova - The Golden Rules Of Online Dating
Scot Mckay - How To Meet Women On Twitter

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Important Facts About Married Dating

Cheating on your partner after marriage is definitely a sin, but as a matter of fact many married people follow this practice without any problem. There can be many causes behind the married dating such as lack of excitement in marriage, physical issue, personal problem, mental or emotional barrier etc. But such problems can be eliminated with the help of treatment or consultants. Every individual faces lots if problems in married life, but it don't mean to start cheating.

In day today life, we can find number of examples where both partners can't live with each other and some people go with married dating instead of getting all comforts and luxury in life. The biggest and recent example we can take here Tiger Woods. Such a fantastic player had to face one of saddest day in his life when his wife filed a divorce against him. The reason behind the divorce was married dating.

Married dating is not good at all. You should consult with experts or doctors to resolve problems instead of choosing another partner. Men and women both are equally responsible for the failures of relationships. Instead of leaving the partner easily try to force them to make comeback.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Helen Ferry - Get The Facts About Condoms
Helen Ferry - Get The Facts About Sterilization

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Social Psychology Body Language

So you are on your way to becoming an Alpha Male, and you're trying to meet a girl. You approach her, you begin to talk to her, but soon after, she says she's not interested and turns around. What went wrong? Maybe you displayed characteristics of a beta male through your body language. Some of these mistakes are:

* not being relaxed, turning your head really fast when somebody wants your attention

* holding too much eye contact when the other person speaks

* blinking a lot

* slouching

* walking only with your legs

* excessive smiling-nervous facial gestures

* folding your arms in front of you-twitching

* having closed postures-

* nervous ticks

* speaking too fast

Try to control your body language as well when you talk to someone else, because what you say doesn't matter quite as much as how you say it.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Julius Fast - Body Language
Philip Redhead - How To Read Body Language
C Kellogg - Reading Body Language

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How To Seem More Confident Than You Really Are

In Bang there's a section about the two ways to increase your confidence (starts on page XX). I don't have anything to add to that short list, but I have found a way that a girl can PERCEIVE you as more confident.

Imagine you are a girl for a second and you're in some bar drinking with your girlfriends. Guys come up to you all the time, some with decent game but some with tired "What are you drinking?" game. What is the one thing that would tell you a guy knows what he's doing, has probably had a lot of girls, and can give you both emotional and physical pleasure?

BOLDNESS.

Let me explain with a story.

I was at a bar when I started talking to a cute girl. I sat down on a bar stool to face her and sat so our legs were touching. After 10 minutes of conversation, I made it seem like I just noticed her bracelets and starting touching them. Then I noticed some drink spilled on her jeans, and started "rubbing" it out. She quickly hit my hand away.

Even though I was surprised, I pretended nothing happened and continued our conversation. Then five minutes later, I just started poking her thigh while she was talking. That's when she started giving commentary on my pickup..

"I saw you here the other night talking to girls. I have a feeling you hit on a lot of girls and you do this all the time." I just said I was "outgoing" and "friendly," with a smirk of course.

She knows that this is what I do, that I hit on girls like herself every night. But she cannot tell her brain to stop feeling attraction for a desirable man. I am a desirable male because she THINKS I do this all the time and that I'm successful at it (why else would I be bold?). And she thinks I do this all the time simply because I'm touching her early and in ways other guys are too scared to do.

I made out with her before I got her number, after a total time of 30 minutes or so of talking to her. Keep in mind this was from a girl who hit my hand away when I started touching her.

Being bold screams confidence, because it tells the girl that you are NOT AFRAID and have done this before. She will think, "Who does he think he is touching me so early in the conversation? Look how close his face is getting to mine. What makes him think he will kiss me tonight?" The answer in her head will be something like, "Because he knows what he's doing and has succeeded at it before."

And here's the beautiful part: she will have no idea what your past is, no idea how many women you really did sleep with or didn't. All it takes is one trait--boldness--to be the man she wants to sleep with right now.

This means that even if you have zero confidence, just sucking it up and trying to push the boundaries to get closer sooner than you think you can, you actually increase the chance that you will get a make-out or sex. Weird how things work.

Just a few years ago the approach itself would scream boldness and be an attractant in its own right, but we've entered the age of pick-up where any Joe Schmo who lost his virginity is peddling an ebook and robot monkeys are approaching girls with the tired "Who lies more" opener. A cute girl has been approached hundreds of times by the time you get to her, so now it's early touching and kissing will give the boldness effect.

Before I got into the game, that wouldn't make any sense to me. I'd wait very patiently for obvious green lights and only then would I proceed with caution. But the more experience I got (going on a decade now), the more impatient I became, and the sooner I started going for it. And it worked. Not only did I get more, but I got it much quicker.

Now I'm pretty spoiled. If I don't get a makeout within 30 minutes or so, I think something is wrong WITH HER. The only time I get numbers now without make-outs is when I simply ran out of time.

It wasn't always like this, and it did take me work to get here, but if you start with a solid foundation of techniques (which I teach in my book Bang), it will be just practice and commitment on your part. If you haven't already done so, check out page samples today..

Suggested free e-books to read:

Reef Styles - How To Attract Online Women In Easy Way
Real Social Dynamics - How To Get Her Chasing You
Saira Mohan - How To Seduce And Marry The Woman Of Your Dreams

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Why Women Are Attracted To Jerks

QUESTION
Hey -

I am 18 years old and just graduated high school. I used to be a MAJOR wuss and when I was younger I was always a shy kid who was picked on a lot because I was a short, skinny kid that never stood up for myself. And worst of all, I never took advantage of high school to get girls! I started getting your newsletter earlier this year and the cocky + funny attitude changed my life in more

ways than one. I hang out with guys that get the hottest high school girls you can ever imagine. Not only do they get 9s and 10s, I see these girls obsess over them. I was around them so much that I tried to model thier behavior around girls and I noticed that EVERYTHING you preach about, comes to them NATURALLY. Every tip of advice you've given to guys ACTUALLY works, and Ive seen it first hand.

I started using cocky + funny myself and even use lines that Ive seen my friends use in past cases. I saw a HOT girl in the mall and she was checking herself out in a pocket mirror so I said "don't worry, your hair doesn't look THATTT bad". She started laughing even though I just made fun of her! I asked for her email and when she said she doenst have the internet, I used your line "well do you have electricity"? AGAIN the girl laughed, and I ended up getting her phone # and I hooked up with her that weekend!

MY QUESTION - my natural personality has transformed from a wussy shy nice kid to a guy that's gonna bust your balls, but a nice guy at heart. I made a lot more girl "friends" too, but whenever they try to tell me their sad stories, I let them know Im not their boyfriend and do not care. Whenever I gain the courage to use cocky+funny, it WORKS but my problem is even though I've seen this work in action, I fear I don't know enough cocky+funny lines to keep up a conversation with a girl. Also, do you recommend hitting on random strangers you see, because my friends say they never really hit on strangers unless they have a reason to go up and talk to them. My friends also say to ALWAYS have 5 "project girls" and never focus on one girl. Is this true? please write back.

E from NYC

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

It's interesting, because I actually discovered the Cocky Funny technique by watching guys who were good with women. In fact, a guy who is now a good friend was trying to explain the concept to me a few years back and he was the first one to say "Cocky Funny". Of course, I had no idea what he was talking about at the time. It really made no sense to me.

But after I started working with it and watching other guys who were really successful with women, I learned how it worked.

It sounds like you're really getting it - congrats!

As for your questions

Don't worry about being able to "come up with enough lines to keep up a conversation". Just do what you can, and enjoy yourself. A few Cocky Funny lines used here and there are MUCH better than nothing at all.

If you feel like approaching strangers, great. If you just realize that most women are going to be nice, but some will be either unavailable or unfriendly then you'll be fine. I have personally had great success meeting "strangers", and as my good friend Rick says, "Every friend you have, started out as a stranger."

And as for the "5 project girls", you're cracking me up over here. If you like the idea of staying single and dating a lot of different women, then this is the way to do it! Just make sure they don't turn into your personal "psychological projects".

Thanks for your email.

QUESTION

Hey Dave.

I'm a premed student who has been subscribing to your newsletter for quite a while now. I've been meaning to buy your book but im not in the habit of using a credit card so ill have to open an account especially for this. Anyway, i've been going out with this girl for 9 months now. She is smart, attractive, and funny. the way i landed her was by being cocky funny. EXTREMELY cocky funny. i was always one step ahead of her. It was kind of like "Dont even TRY to challenge me, im already inside your head!". everything was cool. but to tell the truth (and no offense) i just kind of got tired of the constant effort..so i cooled it off a bit not always seizing the opportunity to remind her just who it is she's dealing with. And i think i got screwed. Now i feel like i've turned into a wuss.and i HATE IT! no.. I LOATHE IT ! When i turn on the macho act she's a pussy cat again. You see i want someone to whom i can genuinely be. just nice to, with her appreciating it and NOT taking advantage. i mean since this is a long-term relationship i want someone who will give me a smooth ride without all that continuous maintenance. I dont wanna be cocky and tough all my life with her, sometimes a guy just wants to relax. Is it possible?

F.Z, Lebanon

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

Ooooooo, good question.

I've seen a trend in the way guys, who are learning to be Cocky Funny and to stay in control, change.

As they're learning the techniques, they become more and more attractive to women. Then, they meet a really amazing woman - a woman that was previously "out of their league", and they decide to start a relationship.

As soon as they start getting closer, the guy begins to put aside the things that worked, and start being more and more submissive which, of course, drives this new woman away.

Then I get an email saying "I want to be nice and sweet and a good guy but still have all the super hot women calling me 24/7.

Here's what I say:

"BEING YOURSELF" IS A PRIVELEGE THAT YOU HAVE TO EARN, NOT A RIGHT.

And the way that you earn it is to learn what it takes to make women feel ATTRACTION, learn what it takes to NOT drive women away, then make these things part of "YOURSELF".

Are you with me here?

The problem is that "being yourself" for a lot of guys means "being the type of guy that women don't feel any ATTRACTION for".

If you can't make a woman feel the emotion of ATTRACTION, then there's really nothing I can do to help you. If you're not willing to do the work and make the changes more or less permanent, then you're going to have a long uphill battle.

And in your case, you have to realize that this woman was attracted to you for a REASON, and if you stop that REASON, then you're going to stop the ATTRACTION.

QUESTION

Whats goin on Dave?

I would love to say how great your stuff works, but I haven't had much luck with it as of yet. I have seen it put to good use though. My bro does the whole cocky/funny routine naturally and I see all its power. Most of the time I was Mr. Nice- Guy. and, of course, it didn't work as much as I would like. Which is why I'm writing this e- mail.(duh)

My problem is I'm missing the key ingredient to your 'super recipe,' funny. The way I see it, cocky is like garlic, by itself it is repulsive and disgusting. But when used as a seasoning to another main dish (funny), it can do wonders. I'm missing the main dish. Anyone can be cocky, but I lack in the funny department. So where do I start to fix this?

Thanks, P in NJ

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

Humor has a structure, and it can be learned. Some people seem to have an easier time learning how to be funny, but I've seen some not-too-funny people become VERY funny with practice.

Read some books, watch Comedy Central, and practice. Start a journal and write down funny lines you hear so you can use them later.

Get with your Bro' and watch him. Ask him for advice and ideas. Practice. You can learn how to be funny and it's important that you do if you want to attract women!

As I'm sure you know, my book has some of my very favorite "standard" lines for different situations, plus more on how to create specific humor for specific situations.

For all the details, go to:

http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/dyd

COMMENT

Dave,

I know that you put real stories in these letters because I sent one in and it appeared exactly as I had written it. I laughed till I cried over the "fat, pimply, and hairy" story.

You are "Da man" I look forward to your wit in these letters and I must admit I'm going to buy your book.

GJ

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, all of the email letters I print in my newsletters are ALL real. Every single one of them. I wish I had more time in the day, because I get hundreds of them a week

Thanks for the compliments, and enjoy.

QUESTION

Ok David, first off, I would like to say thank you for taking the years that you did to get all of this great info., and then be generous enough to spread the knowledge. Here is my situation. I knew this girl back in high school, and I haven't seen her since graduation (about 2 yrs ago). I bumped into her the other day and WOW (she is a 9.5 easy). Well, having not yet tried out any of your techniques, I thought "What the hell, let's go for it." It worked. The c/f technique was golden. Got her email AND number. Well, we eventually went out and had a great time. A couple of days later, I went over to see her new place, and well, things got a little wild. (it all started with your amazing kiss technique- thanks again) So here's the deal. She likes me a lot, and I like her a lot, but I have been playing back in order to keep the ugly head of the "wussy" out of the picture. When is a good time (or is there a good time at all) to be serious with her? Do I bust on her all the time, b/c I don't want her to think I am a jerk? Any help you can give is great.

Thanks again. ME

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, I don't exactly know what you mean by "serious".

If you mean "When can I talk about how I'm sad because my dog got run over and my inner child needs a hug", then NEVER is the answer. Well, maybe you can have one "serious" conversation like this on the 10th date, and it can last no longer than 5 minutes.

Just stay away from heavy emotional issues, problems, drama, and general WUSS topics.

If you need a friend, GET A DOG!

lol I forgot where that line is from, but I love it.

QUESTION

Mr. DeAngelo,

Well, I've got to say, after trying many, many different methods, yours have been the first ones to work. I cut and pasted your online personal add and sent it out to a few women on a college- oriented site. This is after trying (unsuccessfully) for many months to get any sort of response from the women on the site. Before reading the newsletters, I would've typically sent out about 20 e-mails, and got 1 response if I was lucky. This time, however, I sent out about 5 or 6, and got 3 replies the next day! Unbelievable! Now, for the tricky partgetting the number and the date. I've got some leads, and I want to keep my CF attitude up. I'm just normally funny, but need practice at being cocky. (I'm either too subtle, or too extreme, so I'm practicing at finding a middle ground.) But, in the meantime, what kind of CF response would you give to a University-aged woman?

G.

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

Good job.

There are all kinds of great topics you could work with.

You could make fun of the classes they're taking, bust on them for taking easy classes, accuse them of taking 10 years to get a 4 year degree the list is endless.

Since you're going to be meeting these women at some point, make sure you go and do things with them that have "built in conversation value". Go to interesting, fun parts of town with unusual and interesting shops.

This kind of thing creates all kinds of opportunity for great comments and it keeps the energy up all by itself.

Now that you're meeting women online, do yourself a big favor and practice your skills CHATTING with women.

Chatting is great because it slows the conversation down to about 1/5 the normal speed, and gives you time to plan out what you're saying.

QUESTION

Dear Dave,

I'm real sorry but I still cannot figure out how to build bridges after getting the email address. Normally the next day I send the lady an email, she replies and then I can't think what on earth else to do. My overall goal is to get with her - so can you help me man?

I.M.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Yes, I think I can help.

1. Set up a meeting for tea.

2. Have her stop by your place on the way to tea.

3. Have fun, interesting conversation.

4. Invite her back to your place after tea.

5. Use the Kiss Test.

6. Use your creativity and imagination.

Don't focus too much on "getting with her", just focus on getting to THE NEXT STEP.

In other words, when you email - don't say something like:

"Hi, it was great meeting you. I'm single and nice, and you seem like you'd make a great girlfriend for a sweet, desperate loser like

myself."

Stay off of heavy conversation. Don't talk about relationships and marriage, etc. Just talk and enjoy yourself. But keep progressing as you do.

As long as you relax and make each progressive step easy and natural, you'll be fine.

Again, just take it one step at a time.

If you don't know what the "Kiss Test" is, then download my online eBook right now, and read about it:

http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/dyd

QUESTION

Hi David:

I'm 42 and a bald, average, confident guy. After being recently divorced (Dec/01) after 24 yrs and thoroughly confused about dating and what women want. I bought [another dating book] and was even more scared to do any of what was asked to do. I bought your course and coupled with watching the players in clubs I knew CF was the answer. I used it successfully on over (9) women since Jan/02 all resulting in them wanting much, much more* than I was willing to give. They all call from time-to-time for fun!

*Here is where I have the problem and it might help others trying for this type of relationship. I am single and love my Space and I want to have fun for a while and eventually marry again I'm looking for Her and it takes a while to see if she is Her I get them hooked way too fast and not trying to do so This is how: Women are attracted to CF, They want fun and excitement; I think I know why they want funny for the fun things to do in life (too many boring guys out there) and the cocky part piques their inner flames to what could happen as far as passion. If when you are passionate with them you have to be a Leader and show them as bad a boy as they can handle. This has in all instances so far lead them to call me and pursue me: the next day and weeks ahead. They want a far deeper relationship. They want CF in their lives. These are not clingy people (7-9s) (24-44yrs) and profess to want to be friends first. Email is great as it has a way of helping them say things they wished they could say in person. Do you have any wisdom on how to do CF and not hit all of her senses?

Thanks Again for CF J.

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

lol you poor, poor dear. Sounds tough, really.

I think you're doing fine. You're on the right track, and I think that you're going to find an outstanding woman to have a longer-term relationship with.

I personally think that the problem isn't the techniques you're using, it's that you're now seeing that YOU CAN CHOOSE A WOMAN, rather than having HER CHOOSE YOU and it's making you far more SELECTIVE than you were in the past.

When you're seeing several attractive women at the same time, you begin to realize that you can have whatever you want. You no longer have to settle.

This has the effect of making you a lot pickier about what you'll tolerate and it makes you see negatives a lot more clearly in women.

Again, I think you're doing fine. Just stick with it and you'll find a great woman to marry again, if that's what you want.

QUESTION

Hi Dave. I don't think the cocky/funny technique will work for me. I'm 19 y/o, 5 3 and 117 lb. I have an average build, dark hair and blue eyes. I also have a fetish for girls with big bellies. What do you think? Be honest.

SO

Birmingham, England

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, if I can get myself to stop laughing, maybe I can answer you!

OK, let's make sure I have the facts straight here

You're five foot three, weigh 117, and LIKE WOMEN WITH BIG BELLIES?

Honestly, I think you're right I don't think that the Cocky Funny technique will work for you in fact

I DON'T THINK ANYTHING IS GOING TO WORK FOR YOU.

Make sure you don't tell any of your other guy friends about this. It might get ugly.

By the way, you may not have considered this, but women with big bellies usually got them from eating a lot and my guess is that they might be expensive dates.

Watch out.

SUCCESS STORY

Dave:

Dated someone for 4 years. Turned into a wussy boy a couple times, and both times she left me for the same guy. This guy was a selfish, conceited jerk, but he was the ONLY guy she's ever dated who she couldn't wrap around her finger. He was an impossible challenge and so her sexual attraction to him was enormous. (Hmmmis there a lesson to be learned here?) Since we broke up about a year ago, I've been reading your newsletters and your ebooks. Now I'M the challenging one. I don't flatter women with compliments, I don't buy drinks or flowers, I plit the dinner tab, I don't always call (or call back) every day, I keep my social life busy and interesting. And I never ever EVER lose my composure with a woman - no matter how much I'm attracted to them. (In truth: I caved to one woman, told her how attracted I was to her, and instantly found myself in the "just friends" pit of no return. Oops. Had to learn the hard way.) Now every time a woman tries to test my level of "wussiness" I completely annihilate them with a cocky+funny commentand they LOVE me for it. Andof courseguess who suddenly wants to date me again

Thanks D, M.S. Chicago

P.S. Took this off the end of the 1st paragraph aboveit was getting too long, but I love this perspective from a woman: While investigating this illogical phenomenon, I asked a somewhat- attractive female friend of mine "socan you shed any light onto the whole 'why women are attracted to jerks' idea?" And her answer (quote): "Because we're too leery of a nice guy. Nice guys creep me out. They seem like I can walk ll over them and I hate that. Women want a bit of a challenge."

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is truth from the mountain. Read it 100 times a day.

Print it and tape it to your computer monitor.

Put a copy in your wallet next to the money so you see it often.

Put one on your car sun visor and mirror.

And go read it again now.

QUESTION

Yes Dave, you are 100% correct. Even us older, fatter, grayer, slower wusses can learn new tricks. I went from a 4 time loser to being called biggest old stud in town! Now that was a hell of an ego boost! Especially since I'm 48 and close to 300 lbs. and yes, at the moment, I have steady dates for 3 days of the week every week and 5 others professing their love for me if only I will come take them away.

Here are what I found to work:

1) Women over 35 expect you to be extremely inventive with a cocky funny line or extremely truthful. They all claim it is because they have had so many used on them, they are totally immune to them. I tend to go the extremely truthful route. the ie. you look like the type of woman who would like a funny witty, intelligent, romantic friend. Have you found any lately? I want to shake their hand. Or something similar.

2) If you are emailing back and forth and they want your picture within the first couple of exchanges, run do not walk, that lady to the discard pile immediately. Most of those are so shallow they can not and will not see what they are doing, no matter how funny and blunt you are. I even tried the "what's in it for me?" line, only to get the reply of "me stupid, but only if I like your picture"

3) When the lady says I don't think I'm really your type, you look them straight in the eye and say "ok, plenty more where you came from" and turn and walk away. 9 out of 10 of them will be calling you in 48 hours.

4) They all know about arranging dates for the week and finding the dates on the weekend. So tell them you only have like Friday, Saturday OR Sunday open but not all. Most will tell you to rearrange your week to fit them in. The ones really really interested will call you on Saturday to see if you can go out on the spur of the moment.

5) I tell them all I am too much to handle and too much to love, so being friends is just perfect. But I have zero experience in this dating more than one woman thing at a time. Do you have any advice. Especially since I am sure to make a lot of mistakes. Yeah, they all want to arrange more time with me.

So you see, your techniques work. Even my 21 y/o daughter who reads these occasionally says, "I can't agree all the way, but damn he sure got the last 5 guys I dated nailed"

Keep up the good work Dave.

M.

>>> >>>MY COMMENTS:

Wow, more priceless wisdom.

To answer your question, the way to see more than one woman at a time is to NOT SEE ANY OF THEM TOO OFTEN.

When you see or talk to a woman more than once or twice a week, it kicks in the natural "relationship" emotions and patterns of

communication and behavior.

If you keep things to once a week, and sometimes twice, you'll tend to avoid this.

It's also good to tell the women that you're seeing, that you don't think it's a good idea to get into a relationship too quickly with someone you just met (I believe this is a very important idea, myself).

Thanks for the great ideas.

QUESTION

Hi David,

I thoroughly enjoyed reading your bookvery enlightening. I've always found myself attracting girls I'm not romantically interested in, while crashing and burning with the hotties. It was very confusing until I read your book. I realize now that I was a wuss with the hotties by being a typical "nice guy", and that the more I acted indifferent with the girls I didn't like, the more they ate it up. You gave me a new perspective on what makes attraction work, and I'm glad to see that your book pointed out that you don't have to be a jerk to be successful.

My game has improved but it still requires some refining. Lately I find I'm stalling out between the first and second date. So I'm wondering if I'm screwing up the date itself or the follow-through. Here are the steps I take after a date:

1) I call within two days to say I had a good time and basically make contact. I end the conversation first, and let her know I'll give her a shout in a couple daysjust so I don't seem like I'm rushing into a second date.

2) I let two or three days pass and call to make arrangements for a second date. At this point I usually get a vague answer like "lets set something up for next week"and then it never happens.

Where is this falling apart and what kind of follow- through do you use?

Thanks for the help,

SF London, Ontario

>>>MY COMMENTS:

I'm going to have to guess at a few things, but I'll give it a shot.

From the sounds of it, you need to:

1. Stop with the "I had a good time" type comments when you call for a follow up. You might experiment with waiting longer to call or waiting less time to call. See what works best for you. But don't be so "nice".

2. Do more things to make your date feel ATTRACTION. Use what you've learned to really turn the dial up. You might test progressing further on the first date maybe start getting physical faster.

3. Make sure you keep her laughing, and keep busting on her and treating her like a "friend" at first. Remember the idea of acting like she's your Bratty Little Sister.

It sounds like you're doing something on those first dates that's making the women resistant to seeing you again you need to figure out what it is and STOP IT.

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David,

On vacation in Mexico, a girl asked me if she was "super hot" and I said "Yeah, you're alright." Next thing you know she made it her business to prove to me how hot she was, including some freaky dancing, even flashing me, and a little lip action. Moral: Never give them what they want. I moved in to kiss a girl a little too early and she backed away. So I went back to teasing her and on the next attempt I went straight for the neck, ears, hands in hair and well you wouldn't believe it; but it worked that time. Your book has a lot of very good information, thank you for putting it together. So here's my question: This girl at my gym is of those that I've always wanted to talk to but never really had the chance. She was bartending the other night and I told her I'd seen her at the gym. She said "yeah, but I don't make it in there as much lately." I replied "Yeah, I can tell, you're really letting yourself go." Then she gives me a shot and asks me if I'd help her with her workout." She also said she remembered me from the gym and I said "So you were checking me out?" So I get her number, not bad, eh? So I'm in the bar for another hour with some friends and I was going to order a drink from her later, but it might've seemed like I wanted to talk to her again. She seemed busy and didn't look at me.

Seemingly wuss behavior or she's just busy? Who knows. That was on Saturday and I called her on Wednesday, still no reply and today is Friday. I'm thinking either calling her once more over the weekend, asking about playing hard to get and if she just randomly gives out shots, or maybe going back to her bar in a week or two with some friends. Again, thank you for all you've done and thanks in advance for any suggestions.

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I'm going to tell you something here, and leave it to you to figure out why it's important:

YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT RIGHT AFTER YOU GOT HER NUMBER.

This is SUPER ULTRA EXTRA important and I want you to consider it in your mind until you figure out why.

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Are You A Good Talker

I have found that for many of you the following is true: once you overcome MEETING someone, you still don't really know how to date the person successfully. And many of you are just settling for relationships that you're not really all that excited about.

So the first thing that I really want to discuss with you all is communication. Communication is the key to everything in a relationship - including intimacy.

Why? Because without communication, you'll never really be able to connect - to really share your desires and wishes with your partner.

Intimacy is about more than just having great sex. Intimacy is being able to look deeply into your lover's eyes and have an amazing conversation. Intimacy is also based on honesty.

If you have great communication in a relationship, you'll have honesty as well. The two qualities just work hand-in-hand.

If you feel comfortable to talk to your lover about anything in the world, you're being honest with yourself and with your partner.

Many of you are not the best communicators, and that's something we need to work on. So over the next couple of months, we will really focus in on teaching you guys to be master communicators - both in the blogs as well as some of the products.

A new product will be coming out soon called the Master Communicator Series, where we will really work to practice these skills.

It is so important to be able to communicate - anything, to anybody! Recently Rey had an experience that I'm sure many of you will find familiar.

Rey was frustrated with some things at work that weren't going well for him, and he took some things personally (which we ALL do). But instead of communicating it to me immediately, it escalated into something that it never should have.

Instant communication is important. When you're frustrated and upset with someone, you need to realize that you must process it. The quicker that you process it, the better the communication will be.

If you keep things festering inside, when you finally do talk to the person a week later, what will happen? You're going to have an emotional outburst - that will lead to confrontation - that will lead to bad feelings between you and the person that you love.

So, communication is key. How comfortable are you with your communication style? What can you improve? Be honest, and let me know in your comments. What are your strong points? Let's communicate on this blog today and really open it up!

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Book Review Threesome How To Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy

Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy by Lori Gammon

Looking at it from a woman's point of view, because, let's face it; she's the deciding factor on whether or not a threesome will ever happen, this books looks more at the idea of a female-male-female (FMF) threesome rather than a MFM threesome.

LORI GAMMON gets straight to the point without seeming seedy or vulgar about the whole idea of a threesome.

She goes on to explain what a third party (woman) would want out of the whole experience, where such a woman can be found, and how to seduce such a woman.

LORI GAMMON also goes into detail about the possible outcome of such an occurrence and aims to help couples decide if they are mature enough to handle the repercussions of adding a third party to their sex lives.

With myriad sexual statistics in regards to threesomes and even an explanation on how to convince your significant other into welcoming the idea of a threesome, this really is a great book covering men's #1 sexual fantasy.

RATING 4 OUT OF 5

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