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Do You Google Your Dates

In this day and age of advanced technology, everybody and their aunt can be found on Google if you search hard enough. But what have we become when we begin to Google the guy from the 5th floor who asked us out, or that sexy girl who works at the bar down the street?

I admit that I have Googled everyone from myself to employers and even lawyers I plan on hiring, all in a bid to protect myself. But have we lost our minds with this obsession of Googling people? Is there no end to this?

It's bad enough that we're all on Facebook spilling our guts to people we spoke to once in grade 4; now we're busy trying to find the dirt on any and everyone we plan on dating.

There are some people out there who look great on paper but are complete losers in person and vice versa, so how fair is it to judge a date based on what you may have found out on Google?

So is it a good idea to Google someone before you get to know them? Isn't finding things out about someone face-to-face the best way to go? Probably not if they're psychotic. Hmm

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Impressing Guy The Most Practical Tips To Know

Every lady or girl wants to impress her dream boy. However, it is not an easy job. We have seen many women make mistake when it comes to impress a guy. Today, we will talk about the same mistakes.

IMPORTANCE Yes, it is mandatory to give importance herself but make some boundaries as well. There is a very narrow like between importance and arrogance or showoff. Generally, guys do not like girls who believe on showoff.

HUMOR If you add a little bit sense in it, it will become sense of humor. You should use this technique to impress your partner.

LAUGH - Boys like to those girls who know how to laugh properly. In other words we can say that smile is far better than loud laugh.

EYES Please make sure that you have good eye contact with your partner. You should not checkout other guys while dating with your dream man. No one wants to sit or spend time with any girl who is interested in other guys.

EMOTIONAL Every boy or man knows about the emotional nature of women. However, it does not mean that you should use this technique to impress your boy.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Phil Anderson - Creating An Attractive Identity
C Kellogg - Investing In You The Power Of Positive Thinking
Robert Cialdini - Harnessing The Science Of Persuasion

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Divorced Dating Are You Ready To Move On

Divorced dating can be a most difficult experience for anyone who recently got divorced. An individual goes through with many problems and emotions after a divorce. Sometimes, these feelings come along with long lasting effect and ruin the life of person. In order to fight with such problems, you have to be cool and calm. First of all you have to decide what you learnt from the past mistake or relationship and what mistake you are not going to commit again.

There are many online dating websites which provide a separate place and nice environment for such people. If you don't want to feel special then join the common group of people and start sending the ice-breakers. Once you logon to such dating sites, you will find that you are not alone in this world. And even you are not the last one who got the divorced. These kinds of problems come in everyone's life but you can not stop living your life.

Divorced dating is not a new tradition. It is quiet old but got the massive popularity recently. Now days, people have become quiet bold and they want to live their lives without any sorrow. But it is advisable not to share your past life with your new partner.

Suggested free e-books to read:

C Kellogg - Online Dating A Simple Practical Guide To Finding Love Online
Jon Jensen - Women Tell You How To Meet Women
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Attraction By Natural Instinct

Before you listen to today's podcast, I am about to share with all the men something to which you need to really pay attention.

Yesterday on the flight home from New York City, I was sitting next to a guy who was wearing a pair of True Religion jeans. Every time he bent over or reached down for something, the whole plane had the privilege of seeing half of his hairy ass. I am not just talking "plumber butt crack," this was plumber butt crack on steroids.

This is not something anyone needs to see... ever. Every time he moved, every person on that plane -- women, men and children -- were forced to see his ass.

SO, guys, if you can feel the wind chafing your ass when you are wearing jeans, then it means they are way too low and you need to cover up!

Now, on to another revealing topic...

This might be the most powerful podcast you will ever hear. I was recently on the phone with a guy who was thinking about taking a Bootcamp, and he asked me why he has trouble approaching women. He had already attended someone else's bootcamp at which they had instructed him to approach women using some kind of pickup line.

I told him that pickup lines will never work. Life is all about observations based on instincts. He asked me about what kind of instincts I was talking, and I told him I was talking about the kind of instincts we have as a child.

Remember when you were a kid (maybe three, four or five years old) and you'd see something you like so you'd look at it and touch it? Remember also how when you did that your mother would scold you and say, "Don't do that?"

Do you realize that the social conditioning we got from about the age of four to about the age of eleven was all about the things we should not do (and all about the things we can't do)? Don't look at strangers. Don't talk to strangers. Don't smile at that person.

Our social conditioning is the reason why so many of us out there now suffer from problems meeting the opposite sex. Our social conditioning taught us not to talk to people instead of relying on our natural instincts.

This podcast will truly blow you away. It is by far the most important podcast I've ever done. Enough writing now. It's time to open your ears and start listening!

Also, if you want to learn how to recapture your natural instincts and de-program yourself from all of you bad social conditioning, then you need to check out my Men's "What's Your Excuse?" program.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Wayne Ross - Secrets To Attracting Beautiful Women
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Ever Hear The Phrase The Game Is Played In Comfort

Ever hear the phrase, "The game is played in comfort?"

This is a staple of PUA lore, but it's unclear to most reforming AFCs. Since middle-game is poorly covered in Mystery's seminal work, new students are often left confused.

Mystery touches on it, when he talks about "bait-hook-reel-release", but it was Mehow who really broke down how this phase works. The idea is simple: you are slowly getting a woman to display greater amounts of compliance with your requests.

But what is compliance? Compliance, in practical terms, is the woman doing what you want her to be doing. When you open a girl, and she talks back to you, she's complying. When she accepts your kino she's complying. When you tell her to give you her palm for a reading, and she does, she's complying. If you squeeze her hand while you're holding it, and she squeezes back, etc, etc. There are infinite variations.

For a further understanding of compliance and tips on how to generate compliance, Becoming a Master Communicator by David Wygant is a great guide. Check it out.

The first key to generating compliance is simple: You reward good behavior and you punish bad behavior. This is one of the most important rules of pickup. When she does something good (paying attention to you, kissing you back, returning a phone call) you reward her by reciprocating. Similarly, when she does something bad, you punish her.

It is important to scale your reward or punishment to the same intensity of her good or bad behavior. That is to say, if she's looking around the bar when you want her to be talking to you, you disengage slightly and pay less attention to her, too.

That's the starting point, but there's more to it than that. You want her to be working for your approval. She demonstrates that desire for your approval by complying with your requests, but to keep her working for it, more is required. That's where the "release" in bait-hook-reel-release comes from. You bait the girl by getting her attention in some way, you hook her by getting her to comply, you reel her in by rewarding her with positive emotions, and then you release her.

You give her a playful little push away. Nothing hard - you don't want to punish her. You just make it clear that she has to continue to work for your approval. This maintains your value and keeps the attraction level high: you don't want to be the guy who starts flattering the woman constantly the moment she gives him the time of day. This comes off as needy and weak, it destroys attraction, and your target will quickly start manipulating you.

She deserves to be rewarded is she isolates with you, tells you something substantial about herself, initiates or reciprocates kino, qualifies herself, displays a strong interest in you, makes plans to spend more time with you, or jumps through your hoops.

You reward her with kino, and sort of interactive routine (magic, future projections, palm reading, etc), and compliments. But be aware that compliments only work if she has worked for you. Otherwise, you're giving her too much value and she knows she has the upper hand.

Good basic releases are breaking eye contact, focusing on her friend for a moment, going to the bathroom, rejecting her kino or teasing her for it, getting a drink or going to the bathroom. Little phrases like, "No way!" and "I can't even talk to you now!" work. "I can't believe you just said that," or, "That's it, we can't hang out any more!" are also good releases.

How do you bait her and reel her in? Well, that's up to you - it's about the connection you develop with her, the ways you have of displaying value, and the things that are interesting about you. What are your DHVs? What attraction switches are you good at hitting? Every pickup artist has their own set of DHVs - use yours!

Communication is the key when it comes to compliance. Let David Wygant show you how to Become the Master Communicator.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Andy Hodge - Never Sleep Alone Again Succeed With Women
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Relationships How To Approach Girls And Make Them Crazy For You

Getting a girl to like you takes a specific approach and most guys mess this up totally. If you care to get the hottest girls you have to approach from a cocky yetpoised position.

To learn how to approach girls and get them chasing after you, your going to have to put away that Mr. nice guy in you. Chicks don't get hot for guys that are too sweet to them. They don't get hot for guys that act like their friend either. These are the men that get the phone call when the real man they like blows them off and the guy friend gets to dry up the tears. Do not put yourself in that position to begin with.

Guys this is how its done. You must approach confidently like you EXPECT things to go well. Think James Bond here he always gets the girl because he expects to and he brings them into his reality versus dwelling in theirs. Be bold but not rude be confident and open a conversation so you can move this situation forward.

Always make fun of her in a sarcastic way. Bust on her a little bit. This will set you apart from most of the other dudes because they don't do this. They are too afraid to offend her so ruffle her feathers in a playful way (like 007 does) and do not back down if she gets uncomfortable. Just smirk and say "I'm only playing...relax you will live I'm only gonna do this to you the rest of the night!"

The most vital thing when learning how to approach girls is to be certain you let her know your not her puppy dog and that you are comfortable in your own skin with or without her and that you have high social value too. Don't be afraid to act disinterested at periods just to let her know that your not all ga ga over her but yet pay close attention to her at other times like she is the only one in the room. This is called Push Pull and it makes women crazy.

Establish control also. Once rapport is built test her and grab her by the hand and do a location change or just move to a different part of the room. If she goes with you without a challenge then its a pretty good sign that you are doing things right. Get her used to following your lead with small tests like this.

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I Want To Get Weighed

JESSE TOOK HIS BLIND DATE TO THE CARNIVAL. WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE TO DO FIRST, AMBER? ASKED JESSE.

"I want to get weighed," replied Amber.

They ambled over to the weight guesser. He guessed 120 pounds. She got on the scale; it read 117 and she won a prize.

Next, the couple went on the Ferris Wheel. When the ride was over, Jesse again asked Amber what she would like to do. "I want to get weighed," she said.

Back to the weight guesser they went. Since they had been there before, he guessed her correct weight, and Jesse lost his dollar.

The couple walked around the carnival and again he asked where to next. "I want to get weighed," Amber responded.

By this time, Jesse figured that she was really weird and took her home early, dropping her off with a handshake.

Her roommate, Laura, asked her about the blind date, "How did it go?"

Amber responded, "Oh, Waura. It was wousy."

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How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back

"by David DeAngelo."

So, let's start with the definition of the word WUSSY

This word is a combination of the words "Wimp" and another word that starts with P, has a next letter of U, then two of the letter S and finally a letter Y.

In other words, a Wussy (or Wuss), is a guy who tends to behave in a wimpish, submissive, needy, way.

The opposite of a Wussy is Maximus during his first arena fight scene in the movie Gladiator.

The problem with being a Wussy is that women are NOT ATTRACTED TO WEAKNESS and thus, they are NEVER attracted to WUSSIES.

Never.

Ever.

Ever.

A woman might MARRY a Wussy because he's either the best she can get, has a lot of money, has courted her for so many years that she finally gives in, or whatever

But, she'll never feel ATTRACTION for him.

Women don't CHOOSE who they feel ATTRACTION for, and they don't choose the emotions that they feel either.

It just HAPPENS. Bam!

One problem that a lot of guys have to face is TURNING INTO a Wussy over time

When you start off on the right foot, then gradually turn into a Wuss over time with a woman, that emotion called ATTRACTION starts to go away inside of her.

A woman will tell her friends "I don't know what it isbut for some reason lately he's just annoying to be around." etc.

It BOTHERS and ANGERS women when a man that's interested in them acts like a WUSSY. In many women it actually triggers these emotions just like dominant behavior triggers ATTRACTION.

Of course, the worse things get, and the more annoyed a woman becomes, the more like a total WUSSBAG most guys act.

It's one of those "vicious cycles" that usually ends with the woman leaving and the guy sitting there wondering what he did wrong and him thinking that maybe, if he had just been able to tell her just how much he loved her, that she would not have left him for that other abusive jerk.

By the way, if you want to learn how to DE- WUSSIFY yourself for good, and become a man that is universally attractive to women, then you must go and read this before you read any further:

http://www.DatingTechniques.com/OnBeingAMan

OK, so let's talk about your specific questions:

1. "HOW DO YOU INTERPRET HER BEHAVIOR? IS SHE STILL INTERESTED SOMEHOW OR WHAT?"

I interpret her behavior as NATURAL and VERY, VERY PREDICTABLE.

If you do it again in the future, the same thing will probably happen.

Is she still interested?

Yes, she is.

But not in anything more than being your FRIEND.

You have, with your actions and communication, KILLED the ATTRACTION that she felt for you.

This is something you're going to have to deal with and take responsibility for.

You turned into a Wuss, and now you're paying the price.

You have to come to terms with your Inner Wuss before improvement can begin.

2. "IS THERE - ACCORDING YOUR EXPERIENCE - ANY REALISTIC CHANCE TO GET HER BACK, I.E. TO TRIGGER AGAIN HER INTEREST AND ATTRACTION?"

Well, this is a sticky question.

There is a CHANCE, yes.

But here's the problem. Probably 90% of the time when I tell a guy exactly what to do in order to get a girl back, he screws it up doesn't do it exactly the way I say, etc.

And, of course, he makes things worse in the process.

THE PROBLEM

Focusing on getting her back will not only lessen the chances, but it will keep you from moving on in your life.

The best thing for you to do is MOVE ON in your life.

Ironically, the way to give yourself the best chances of getting her back is to NOT TRY instead, go date other women, and be scarce in her life.

In other words, you're never going to make her feel any ATTRACTION for you again by staying in touch, being her friend, and being "nice" and by trying to "win her over" again.

It would be nice if things worked that way, but they don't.

Now, why do guys chase women, and keep doing the WRONG things even after a woman has left?

In our dealings with women, we guys tend to think things like "That's not fair" and "I did all the right things" and to feel self-righteous because we're the good guy but miss the point and not get the RESULTS we want.

Remember though

Attraction isn't FAIR, it isn't "right", it doesn't care how "nice" you are. Attraction can be cruel and painful sometimes.

You know, the irony of your situation is that this girl was probably just as bummed-out as you were about this whole thing happening.

Women HATE it when guys turn into Wussies.

I know, I know she did things that made you turn into more and more of a Wuss. It's her fault too right?

Wrong.

Women do this stuff to TEST you.

They're not actually TRYING to turn you into a Wuss. But if you DO turn into a Wuss, she realizes that she can't trust you to be a man and she has to go.

Now, she's not doing this to hurt you, she's only doing it because she wasn't getting the feelings that she wanted with you and now she's getting them with Jerk-Boy.

THE SOLUTION

As I mentioned, your best bet in this situation is to MOVE ON. Get on with it.

Most importantly, start dating OTHER WOMEN IMMEDIATELY.

Not in a few days, and not next week. NOW.

And, stop calling your ex. Stop responding to her quickly. Stop being her WUSS-FRIEND.

It's obvious that the LAST thing you want is to wind up "just being friends" with her so STOP DOING IT.

Next time she calls, tell her you have a date over at the house, or you're leaving to meet a woman. Of course, make sure IT'S TRUE, like I said.

Stop being so AVAILABLE.

Get busy enjoying your life.

Get busy dating other women.

If you find yourself thinking about her and wanting to hear her voice, BITCH-SLAP yourself. If you're feeling weak, have a friend do it.

And when you do wind up talking to her, say the following:

"Hey, calling for more therapy? No-can-do I have to run to the gym to get in shape for my hot date on Friday"

You feel me, dog?

And remember

In this world, "I was a nice guy and did nice things for her" doesn't cut it. Attraction has a totally different set of rules and exceptions. And if you want to get and keep an attractive woman, then you'd better learn them.

It's a skill, and you're not going to get it by being "nice" and doing everything your mom taught you

If a woman feels ATTRACTION for a man, she'll do almost anything to stay with him. If she DOESN'T feel it, then the chances are slim that she'll stay around.

These rules are even MORE TRUE when you're dealing with an ATTRACTIVE woman who gets a lot of attention from guys.

The irony of this situation is that I think it's a lot easier to make a woman feel ATTRACTION than it is to be a Wuss who chases after her, buys her things, and annoys the hell out of her.

I spent a lot of years of my life being a Wuss.

I made all the classic mistakes.

I should probably be awarded an honorary degree in the subject really.

But, over the last several years I've not only learned how to cure myself and evict my Inner Wuss I've also learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION with my body language and communication alone.

I only wish someone would have shown me this stuff fifteen years ago

If you're reading this right now and it's time that you evicted your inner Wussy, and learned how to make women feel ATTRACTION for you without chasing them, buying them things, and giving all of your power away, then listen up

THE TIME IS NOW.

This stuff isn't going to fix itself.

And you know by now that more of the same is only going to get you more of the same.

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Maniac High - How To Lays Girls Guide
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Do You Google Your Dates

Impressing Guy The Most Practical Tips To Know

Divorced Dating Are You Ready To Move On

Attraction By Natural Instinct

Ever Hear The Phrase The Game Is Played In Comfort

Relationships How To Approach Girls And Make Them Crazy For You

About the Author:

Author: Tracy Tyler

I Want To Get Weighed

Amber responded, "Oh, Waura. It was wousy."

How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back

OK, so let's talk about your specific questions:

THE PROBLEM

Remember though

THE SOLUTION

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