How Do I Get Abs By Brad

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"A FEW GUYS HAVE ASKED ME WHY I HAVE A ARTICLES SPECIFICALLY FOR FITNESS AND EXERCISE. HERE'S MY REASON: YOUR FITNESS LEVELS DIRECTLY EFFECT YOUR CONFIDENCE, MENTAL HEALTH AND PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. THEY ALL IMPACT PICKUP IMMENSELY! HERE'S BRAD:"

Today, I actually sent Brad Pilon (one of the co-founders of Strength Works the developers of the Adonis Effect) an email that a subscriber sent me about abs and ab work how much is too much, etc.

Here's what he sent back:


One of the most popular topics that I routinely get questions about is ab training: ie "How do I train my abs", or "how do I get abs".

The answer I give people is so simple that I think they don't believe me. I think they actually want a more complicated answer than I am giving them.

So here goes one more time.

1. If you don't need to train your abs for a specific reason like rehab, or an upcoming ab crunch competition then I find little reason to workout your abs directly.

2. Excessive crunches do little for training the whole core and might actually increase your risk of spine and low back problems

3. Scientific research doesn't even know exactly how all the ab muscles work yet so its hard to give one perfect answer to ab training

4. In order to see your abs all you need to do is lose fat. You don't actually have to ever train your abs to see your abs

These are my simple answers to all the questions I get about abs. Working out on your abs can only do two things to them:

a. Make them bigger

b. Give them more endurance

Your abs are just like every other muscle, so why would they act any differently than other muscles. If you want to make your arms bigger you would just train them more often with increasingly heavier weights. So if you want to make your abs bigger you would just do the same thing.

If you want to build endurance in a muscle group like legs then you would train them for longer periods of time with lighter weights. The same thing applies to your abs.

There is no magic to ab training, they are just muscles like every other muscle. They just happen to be covered in a thick layer of fat on most people. So the true answer to 'getting abs' is just removing the fat that is hiding them.

Every exercise you do works your abs, they are constantly active from the minute you get out of bed until you go lie back down at the end of the day. The abs are designed to hold you upright and stabilize your body and spine. They are not designed to lift massively heavy weights and crunch down hundreds of times per day.

Try doing a good sprint workout tomorrow and you'll see how sore your abs get without ever doing a crunch or sit up.

Being physically active and doing a variety of different exercises is all the work your abs will ever need. Losing the fat around your belly is how you can show them off. Even If you've never worked out a day in your life or have ever done a 'core workout' I guarantee there is a six pack of abs underneath whatever fat you have around your midsection. As soon as your body fat gets low enough you will be sporting a shiny new "washboard stomach".

Don't stress over how to train your abs, if you go to the gym on a regular basis no matter what your training goals are I guarantee your abs are getting enough work. Spend some time focusing on fat loss and you'll see that you've had abs all along.

Go get the Adonis Effect, it rocks your body to the core.



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David Deangelo Latest Product

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I'm excited to fill you in on David DeAngelo's latest DVD set called Man Transformation.

Here are a few QA's to catch you up on the overall gist of the program, in case you've been neglecting the community lately =)

QUESTION: "Is this program just another version of everything you've taught in the past - summarized?"

No, it's not. In fact, you shouldn't even buy this program unless you've first read his book "Double Your Dating" or watched his Advanced Dating Techniques program FIRST.

This is NEW material - and it's ADVANCED. There are tons of new concepts and techniques that he guarantees you've never heard before - ANYWHERE.

Sure, you'll learn a lot, even if you're new but don't expect David D to teach stuff from the past in this one - it's not a "rehash" of old stuff.

QUESTION: "How long is this program?"

The program is about 25 hours long, on 20 DVDS. Yes, the longest, most intense program he's ever done.

Get ready for a powerful education.

QUESTION: "Who are the guest speakers?"

Everyone from Neil Strauss and David Wygant to Lance Mason, Hypnotica, Steve P., Vin DiCarlo Sean Stephensen and MANY others (including a couple of cameo guest appearances by some AWESOME female dating and relationship experts David DeAngelo has featured before).

They'll blow your mind - a new level of amazing.

QUESTION: "How much is the DVD program?"

The main question is "How Much?" of course.

The price is (an incredibly reasonable) $485. And yes, he's offering a payment plan - 5 easy monthly payments of only $97. You can't beat it.

And YES, this program comes with a 100% "no hassle" guarantee. Try it for a MONTH - and if you don't dig it - just send it back to him. But don't plan on sending it back - because you won't!

That's 20 DVDs of Man Transformation and 3 killer "Ultimate Live" training DVDs. All for the crazy bargain of $485 (or $97 per month).

Unbeatable, period.

Check out the what other guys are saying about it at the Man Transformation website at the link below:

David Deangelo's Man Transformation DVD set



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Dating Tips Online Tips To Increase Your Chances

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Here are some important dating tips that can help people in day-to-day life.

Eliminate your worries and don't expect anything - Dating is all about enjoyment and entertainment. It is strongly recommended that you should not take any type of tension or stress. Success of dating is important but it is not the end of the world. Be positive and enjoy your dating like anything.

TIME Time plays important role especially when you are on date with your partner. You can spend n number of hours with your partner if you are in relationship for last few months or years. However, you should spend only 2-3 hours if it is your first date.

CONTROL THE ENTIRE SITUATION Few people compare the world control with dominate. No, it is not correct. Dominate and control both is two different words and contains different meaning altogether. Please keep in mind that no body likes to be dominated.

TEASE Yes, you can tease your partner with small things but don't bother him/her more. Try to attract his/her attention with the help of small pranks. They will definitely help you in long run.

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How To Make Women Think About You

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If you've seen the classic cult movie "Swingers", then you probably remember the part where the guys are discussing how long a guy should wait to call a woman after he's gotten her phone number.

The scene really hits home for a lot of guys because it gets down to a real-world situation that we all confront and ponder.

I get a lot of emails from guys asking me what to do in this very situation.

The more I've thought about it, the more I realize that this particular question (and the answer to it) are part of a bigger, more important CONCEPT about how to deal with women.

Let me explain.

When a guy asks me "How long should I wait to call her?" this immediately tells me a few things:

1) The guy doesn't feel like he's in control of the situation. If he felt like he was in control, then it he wouldn't ask, because it wouldn't matter.

2) The guy doesn't really "get" how male/female attraction works. If he did get it, then he'd be thinking in those terms rather than trying to figure out the exact best amount of time to wait before calling.

To put it differently, the "when do I call her back?" problem is part of a bigger concept, and once you understand that bigger concept better, then you'll have an automatic feel for when to call a woman back.

Most guys don't "get" one simple point:


If you want a woman to feel ATTRACTION for you, then you must behave differently than if you want her to feel that "just friends" feeling.

In the world of ATTRACTION, things are completely different.

For instance, our moms taught all of us guys to "be nice" to women. This usually includes being sweet and complimentary when first meeting them, answering all of their questions directly, and giving them what they want when they want it.

But if you want a woman to feel that INSTANT GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION right from the beginning, then you're going to have to put aside this kind of thinking, and start learning some NEW ideas.

For instance:


1) A challenge is generally attractive to women.

2) Teasing and being evasive is generally attractive to women.

3) Making fun of a woman's appearance in a flirty way, as counter-intuitive as it might sound, can lead to ATTRACTION.

I'm trying to communicate the idea that when you're dealing with ATTRACTION, you have to put aside old "normal" ways of thinking and behaving.

I would like to mention one more point before getting into the specifics here

These days, people are becoming very sensitive to having "techniques" used on them.

If a salesman uses a sales technique on us, we immediately get defensive and resistant.

If a panhandler asks for money in a way that smells of "tricks or "techniques" we pass them by without pity.

If a business treats us like a "thing" or a number instead of an individual person, we avoid them or buy elsewhere.

We humans don't like having manipulation techniques used on us, and when we detect that someone or something is using one to get the better of us, we resist.

So let's get back to the "how long to wait before calling her back" issue.

If you think about it, every situation is slightly different. One time you might meet a woman in the morning at coffee, and another time you might meet a woman at a club at 1 in the morning.

If you wait too long to call her back, I think you run the risk of seeming like you're just using a technique on her and you come across as a player who's trying to do your thing on her.

When deciding how long to wait before you call or email, I think it's important to ask yourself this question:

"WHAT WILL LIKELY INCREASE THE ATTRACTION IN THIS SITUATION?"

Here are a couple of ideas I have used with great success:

1) Email instead of calling first. I personally email the next day. I'll start with a charming email to get the conversation started and then tell her that I'm going to call in a day or two. This has the effect of making contact with her relatively quickly, but still creating anticipation because you haven't actually talked.

2) Call the next day, and make a joke about the situation. I might call and say, "Yeah, I was watching Swingers and they said to wait three days to call, but I was kind of in more of a one day mood"

If you didn't get her email address and you MUST use the phone, just do your best to avoid being AVERAGE.

I personally believe that our attention spans as humans are getting shorter and shorter. We have more and more information coming in from television, newspapers and other sources - and we're getting cultural A.D.D. I think that if you wait too long, you're risking either being seen as using a technique, or risking being forgotten altogether.

But if you make the opposite mistake and call too soon (for instance a few hours later), you run the risk of being seen as a needy Wuss who has no life.

In past newsletters, I have written about why it's important to leave immediately after getting a woman's email and/or number.

How long you should wait to call her back is a natural extension of this.

As a matter of fact, if you get a woman's email/number and then you keep coming over to talk to her, it can almost be seen as waiting 5 minutes to call her.

There's no anticipation, and it says all the wrong things.

A couple of other quick pointers for when you're making that first call:

1) Be busy. If you're going to ask her to join you for tea or something similar, make sure you mention two times that you're busy for every one time that you're available.

2) Don't linger on the phone. Make that first call short and to the point. If you stay on the phone for more than a few minutes, you're running the risk of getting into a normal "What do you do?", "Where do you live?", "Where did you go to school?" conversation. Avoid this.

To summarize, when in doubt wait a day or so to contact her again.

But more importantly, think about the situation in terms of anticipation and ATTRACTION, so when you do make contact it creates the correct context.

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Dont Compare Yourself To Others By David Wygant

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So someone asked me a really good question, and he said, "man, I've been involved in the pick-up world, I've been doing all of this stuff trying to pick up women, and I've been at it a full year now, and there are some guys who are just better than me!"

What is funny about that is that, for one, life is a marathon - not a sprint. You can't compare yourself to other people and their accomplishments. Everybody learns at a different pace. Everyone learns things in different ways.

Not only that, but there are so many different ways to understand how to meet women - there are so many different methods. My method is more based on natural conversational styles and real inner confidence, which happens to take a little bit longer to learn and to manifest.

There are other guys out there that teach "handy-dandy pick-up lines" that you can use in an instant - and that works for some guys. But you have to realize that everybody's learning curve is different. Everybody has to learn at their own speed.

What a lot of guys fail to do is to embrace their small wins. They are always looking for the complete victory - it's almost like it's baseball preseason and you're already thinking about being in the World Series - you don't even want to play the full season, you're just trying to get to the Series.

But you've got to get up to the plate everyday and take your swings, and you also have to be okay with fucking up! It's really okay just to fuck up.

So you've walked over to a woman, you've approached her, and what you said didn't resonate with her. It doesn't mean that what you said to her was wrong; it means that you just didn't resonate with her. There just wasn't any chemistry.

You can't manipulate every single situation to work in your favor. You have to be okay with screwing up. You have to say to yourself everyday, "okay I'm going to go out, and talk to ten women today, and some of them are just not going to like me" - but what are you trying to do? What are you trying to accomplish?

What you are trying to do is to find one or two women to have an amazing conversation with. If you really think about it, you can't have chemistry with every person that you talk to. You just can't. You really need to grasp your mind around that and understand that it's okay to go out there and screw up.

If you go out there and screw up, it means that you are trying. If you are trying, then you are going to get it right, because if you practice, then you will start getting it right all the time.

You will start understanding situations better - you'll start trusting your gut instinct. Most guys don't trust their gut instinct when they first start out - they compare themselves to other people who are "better" than them - they just want to be that "better" person.

They never really think about what that "better" person went through - personally, I know what I went through, and it was YEARS of torture trying to figure this stuff out! In my 20s, I had days that were amazing, and I had days where I couldn't even spit out the word "hello" to a woman. And I couldn't figure out how I could be so good one day and so bad the next.

I used to take things personally. I would go and talk to a woman, and she just wouldn't be interested, and I would think it was something that I did. But then I realized it wasn't me, there just wasn't any chemistry between us - she wasn't vibing me, I wasn't vibing her.

You've got to realize that whatever pace you are going at is the pace that's right for you. As long as you are out there, every single day, trying - going out there, opening women up, flirting with women, talking with dudes (because you want to talk to guys too, so your conversation skills improve), listening - then you are doing well.

If you're doing the three key elements: observing (opening somebody up with an observation you made about them), having a conversation (and a conversation means listening and not just talking at that person), and leaving that person with the feeling that you had a positive interaction together, then you are going to be doing things that are right.

But you have to give yourself that permission to go out there and screw up. Most guys don't want to give themselves that permission. They think that if they don't get this one girl, it's all over - or they compare themselves to somebody else and they feel insecure. They say, "god, I've been doing this for a year!"

Think about this: how long does it take to become a good major league pitcher? Years, right? How long does it take to become Barry Bonds? Years and some good steroids, right?

How long does it take to put on a good campaign for President of the United States? Years! You are branding yourselves right now, and what you first have to realize is who you are, what you're all about, what you stand for, and what type of people you attract.

It's not about trying to win, and it's not about being better than other people. You want to be the best that YOU can possibly be.

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Texting A Girl Who Speaks A Different Language

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from our forum at www.thesocialforums.com

Hey Malvin, thanks for the kind words dude! And also for sharing some of your thoughts. Let's see how we can address your two concerns, 1). Being Compelling to pick up women and 2). Not being able to take alcohol. We'll consider your second issue first.

Not drinking: Ok, I have some asian friends who definitely get the asian flush, and I know that it really inhibits them. That's fine the whole point of social drinking is not drinking for the sake of drinking, but moreso, to lower your inhibitions when you're out and to make it easier to attract women. It puts you in a different social and emotional state. But if you don't enjoy it, then hey, it will affect your state negatively, and that is exactly the opposite of why people (should) drink in the first place. So don't worry about it just have fun in your own way and be comfortable with who you are. There are going to be some girls you're not going to connect with because a.) they'll enjoy being drunk with other people who are drunk or b.) they'll think it's weird that you don't. Whatever too much work and probably too much drama. Just be who you are and have fun as you do and you'll find girls who secretly admit to you that they wish they drank less, or that they don't drink much either, and you guys can have a secret "non-drinkers" handshake or something and you will get women.

See? It's just about making it enjoyable for you and some girls, no matter what the circumstances.

As for the "being compelling" when trying to get women and the texting, probably two separate issues. But for both, I'd suggest that you not be worried about what comes of them, and just start being playful. It takes a bit of time to develop a playful attitude but once you do it really comes across in all your convos. Here's a recent text convo I had with a girl around 3:45 AM:

Me: Buenas nochas senorita catch u after the wknd!

Her: Haha I'm about to start teaching you Russian

Me: Please do what's lesson 1?

Her: Umm (russian expression)

Me: I think u just made my head explode what's that mean?

Her: Go find a translater =P

Me: Not cool (name) u realize my cognitive prowress right now = poor! Just enough brains to figure out my taxi tip!

Her: Ugggh I hate figuring out tip ESP when your paying with a credit card PS its (name)

Me: Haha ok well if you get the spelling on my name right it's a million points and at this hour, remembering it is 1K

Her: Lmaaooo I sucj at spelling and im an immigrant I'll teach you Russian & about shoes and you teach me spelling! Deal!

Anyway, it went on like this for awhile. Point being it is fairly nonsensical and just playful. Bad grammer and spelling. It doesn't matter because texting, to me, is for a.) flirting and b.) logistics. Work on pushing it a little bit in your texts in order to pick up women.

Now, finally, being compelling to get women and doing it with your approaches. Broadly, you just need to have interesting things to talk about, and want to share them with people. Pickups can be about a lot of things - if you're going for rapport, then definitely just talk about stuff that interests you and try to relate it back to her. The attraction-based stuff is something else entirely, we'll discuss that another time!



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Online Dating Made Simple

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Online dating is an interesting conglomeration of supply and demand. The demand in this case is love and unfortunately there is an overabundance of supply - simply put there's too many girls selling the same qualities. "I enjoy long walks on the beach, movies, traveling and music." I mean seriously, who doesn't? Online dating, contrary to what you might believe, is not painless and is not easy. It can be cutthroat and so you must advertise yourself in a way that will allow yourself to stand out from your peers.

One of the most important preparatory steps you should take is to do your research. Many people omit this crucial step, but think about the implications. There are many online dating websites, each cultured to a certain niche of people. You want to be attracting people of a similar demographic to yourself and so if you go about putting immense effort into a certain website, but it turns out they are of a totally different age group, you just wasted a good amount of time that you could have spent doing something much more productive.

When you fashion your profile, realize that when he contacts you, eventually he will meet you in person. So do not pretend to be somebody you're not! Because eventually if things do get serious, he will realize it's not true. If you don't enjoy watching basketball, don't write "I love sports" simply because most guys do. You want to show them a real version of you. Put your best qualities forward. Are you always fun and cheerful? Instead of writing, "I'm a fun person to be around", you could write, "You will love me in your life." Not only does it convey confidence, it's almost challenging potential daters to date you. Couple this with a cute profile picture of you and a friend, they will be thinking, "Wow, what a cute and fun girl."

However, there are the pitfalls of being lured in by a predator. Online dating allows a precise vulnerability - anonymity. This anonymity can anyone to create a false persona in an image of their choosing. If you find yourself seemingly divulging extremely personal information, be on your guard. People are often not who they say they are. Is he trying to meet you in shady locations? Is he very guarded in the amount of information he gives to you? Consider crossing him off your list. The world is vast beyond belief. It is of epic proportions and as such, the amount of good men out there is equally large. Don't get discouraged by not getting results in the short run because probability's money says you will find him sooner or later. It is always better to be safe than sorry. Of course it is always very difficult to rein yourself in when you think you've met the perfect guy, but that's the thing. Nobody's perfect.

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Field Report Fake Number

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It happens to every PUA, right? You meet some girl at a bar, have a conversation and number close thinking you'll talk to her again in a couple of days. Then you try calling or texting and you find out you've been duped. Even though several female friends have admitted giving guys fake numbers to spare their feelings, I never thought it would happen to me. Of all the numbers closes I've made, I've never had a fake number. Well, it finally happened to me and I've been trying to figure out what led to her giving me a fake number. I understand why I woman would give a guy a fake number, to save them from rejection, but I'd rather have a woman be honest with me. You be the judge. Check out my field report and tell me what you think.

On my first night out of 2011 I went to a local karaoke bar. I wasn't expecting any approachable sets to be there but I went anyways to meet some friends. My assumption was dead on because the bar was filled with middle aged people. After a couple of drinks an old friend shows up with his girlfriend and two of her cousins, one of which was a solid HB8. She was about 5'3", slender, with shoulder length hair and a nice smile. The four of them went across the bar to a table. Later in the night a friend tells me the HB8 wants to meet me and that I should go over and introduce myself.

I had a warm approach on my hands, as opposed to a cold approach. A warm approach is when you meet someone from within your social circle. In this case, the HB8 was related to a friend's girlfriend. I approach the set to wish my friend a happy birthday then opened the HB8. I opened her by asking what she was going to sing. She mentions her disappointment for the bar's lack of Doors songs which led to a drawn out discussion on music. After that we talked about trips she's taken, her background and other meaningless subjects.

Even though the conversation was mediocre, she kept giving me indicators of interest (IOIs). She would reengage me in conversation when I'd chat with my friend. She asked me to sit down and she asked me several of the common getting-to-know-you questions. At one point of the music thread, she asked for my address to send me a compilation CD of her favorite Doors songs. I told her to write it down on her cell phone and she responded by saying she didn't own a cell phone. That should have set off a warning sign but I continued the boring conversation anyways.

After awhile of meaningless chit-chat, I ended the conversation and returned to my friends across the bar. At the end of the night, on her way out she came over to say goodbye and I number closed. A few days later I texted her and never received a response. I called but it just rang without going to a voicemail.

ASSESSMENT:


There are two things that I think contributed to the fake number. First, I didn't set a time constraint. I lingered for far too long after the conversation lost any of its interest. Second, I reverted back to my old ways of boring conversation topics. One of my sticking points is forgetting everything I've learned whenever I meet an attractive woman. This was definitely one of those moments.

What do you think? Could I have done anything different?



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