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In honor of Valentine's Day - my favorite holiday for being single - I will be hosting a very special webinar for a select few members of my following. I have already emailed this invitation to the hundreds of people on my list, but unfortunately GoToWebinar only allows a small amount of people on my webinars. Please make sure to sign up immediately before all the spaces fill up - I will NOT be recording this.

I will be covering some of my newest and most powerful strategies. I will cover such topics as -

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4. I will be teaching about my new Society and it's going to blow your mind

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Onlinedatingactivities

All types of everyday activities are growing in popularity online these days like sharing photos and greeting cards. In fact, both of these even go hand in hand with online dating opportunities, one of the most popular online activities for singles today.

Before actually meeting in person, many dates get acquainted online first. Here’s how.

Greeting Cards- Regardless of where the person lives, you can mail a greeting card. If privacy and security is an issue, check into renting an inexpensive P.O. Box (check the Yellow Pages). You do not have to be an artist to make something homemade and special for the new friend in your life. Even making a special, personalized greeting card would be appreciated and show your date that you care enough to take the time needed to make something by hand. Search your favorite search engine for online greeting cards to send, too. They range from free to low cost and can be sent in a click.

Photos - As a wonderful keepsake of your budding romance, create an online photo album for your new cyber-mate. Include digital photos of favorite outdoor scenes, pets, flowers, cars, silly moments, your computer corner or laptop, etc. Then you’ll even have more to discuss during online dates via emails and chat rooms. Search for “photo albums” to find places that store your photos.

Very few online daters have mastered this skill. I took the easy way out for decades (just kidding—I haven’t been online dating for decades….it only feels that way sometimes), responding to his request at the end of the night for future dates with an overly-friendly and ultimately misleading, “Yeah, email me, we should definitely hang out again!” This served as an immediate means to avoid the uncomfortable “I’m just not that into you” conversation, but it also deceived a perfectly nice person into thinking I was interested, and likely left him wondering why I neglected to respond to future voicemail and email messages.

Additionally, I found myself unprepared for the karmic retribution that awaited me. While I live in a fairly big city, I found myself bumping into these former dates all around town; in restaurants, coffee shops, the gym, and even other singles events. I’d be subjected to narrowed unfriendly eyes, behind which probably lay the thought, “There’s that girl who acted interested and then never returned my calls.”

So get online and get active! No need to risk meeting in person until you get more familiar with each other online first. So take the online plunge!

I finally conquered my fear of the uncomfortable conversation a few months back, when I decided to boldly go where no online dater has gone before and give good old-fashioned honesty a shot. While I assured him I’d had a wonderful time and thoroughly enjoyed spending the evening with such an engaging person (okay, 90% honesty, 10% little white lie), I also acknowledged I wasn’t attracted to him romantically and didn’t want to waste his time or mine. And true to karma, I’ve since run into him twice, and am happy to report that due to finally having given the situation the delicate consideration it deserved, our exchanges have been pleasant and minimally awkward.

So today’s online dating tip is to dare to be real with your date, even if your message may disappoint. Good luck!

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David Deangelo - Double Your Dating Bridges
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The Fashion Ten Commandments

The Fashion Ten Commandments:
1. THOU SHALT NOT BE UNGROOMED. Hair, sideburns, beard, goatee, stache, whatever. Got hair on your body, keep it under control. Don't get lazy and let the fur grow caveman-style. Cavemen don't get hotties.

2. THOU SHALT NOT WEAR CLOTHES THAT DON'T FIT. There's a reason clothes come in many sizes, guys. It's so you can buy the ones that actually fit you. Women notice an M wearing XL, and they ain't going home with him.

3. THOU SHALT NOT WEAR CRAPPY SHOES. Shoes tell women everything they need to know about you. Smelly sneakers, sandals with socks, and gore-tex hiking boots do not get into the hottie's sheets.

4. THOU SHALT NOT PULL PANTS UP TO YOUR NIPPLES. Your grandpa needs to keep his pants that high. You, my friend, have a waist. Find it and use it.

5. THOU SHALT NOT DRESS IN THE DARK. Before you leave the house, look in a frickin' mirror. If you see a dork standing there, make him go change into something presentable.

6. THOU SHALT NOT WEAR CLOTHES THAT WERE COOL WHEN "LIVIN' LA VIDA LOCA" WAS A HIT. Just because your "Thriller" jacket got you looks in '85, that's no reason to rock it now.

7. THOU SHALT NOT BATHE IN COLOGNE. We know you love your Old Spice, but less is more, cowboy.

8. THOU SHALT NOT WEAR GLASSES THAT MAKE YOU LOOK LIKE A CHEMISTRY TEACHER. Even if you are a chemistry teacher, you can get frames that actually look good on you. They do make them, you know. Just ask.

9. THOU SHALT NOT FOLLOW TRENDS BLINDLY. See everyone in the bar wearing striped shirts? Do something different. Get the gear that goes with you. You have to stand out, not blend in.

10. THOU SHALT NOT WEAR FLEECE. You are a man, not a sheep. So stop wearing big billowing soft stuff that makes you look like you should be chased by a border collie. If it's cold, get a real coat.

That's it. Anything sound familiar?

If you've been breaking any of these Commandments, it's time to repent and change your sinful ways. But how? Well, you could hook up with your own fashion guru. Unfortunately, this one is already taken.

But there's a better way.

PickUp 101 will find your style for you. Dressed for Success is a 3 DVD set with transcripts of real-life makeovers that show you how a regular dude can go from zero to hero just by adding a little style to his life.

And by not breaking any more Commandments.

Now go ahead and make some girls smile!

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Can You Say No

CAN YOU SAY.

By

ROSA ZAGNONI MARINONI

RTICLES, books and dramas have been written in an attempt to analyze the modern trend of youth, the attitude of parents and the "what is the matter with us?" question. Yet this problematic situation can be summed up in -these few words: "We are forgetting to say NO." This is an age of gratification, of blindly following the impetus of elemental emotions. Youth does not wish to say "no." Parents are forgetting to say "no," or shirking in their duty to say "no." We Catholic parents, who have before us the great examples of men and women who knew how to say "no" to material pleasures, to worldly urge and to themselves, should take time to ponder over the importance of this little word,. which gave to the glory of our Church and edifica tion of humanity, such men as St. Paul, St. Francis, St. Anthony and many others

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CAN YOU SAY "NO"? whose greatness stood upon the solid base of the word "no." Had St. Francis failed to say "no" to the worldly influences of his father's house, had he fallen slave to the material instinct in him, one of the greatest inspirational lights of the world would have failed us, and just another "rich man's son" would have passed as a grain of sand down the slim neck of time. Had St. Anthony not denied temptation, he would have been merely another rounder, another human failure. Had St. Paul not turned from his over-yielding mode of living and said "no" to himself, the imposing figure of one of our greatest Saints would have been lost. Even Jesus, in His superior righteousness, was confronted with the necessity of uttering a "no" when Satan tempted Him with visions of the ephemeral glories of the world. All of us are called upon to say "no" to ourselves and to those we love. "No" seems to be a destructive word, but in reality is a creative word since it contradicts that which would destroy our spiritual, moral or physical self. When I look about me and see the youth of today going forth seemingly bent not only on gratification, but on finding new desires to gratify, I look up to those great figures of our Church and wonder: "Has their example been given in vain?"

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CAN YOU SAY "NO"?
PLAIN ' FACTS

Do you fathers and mothers fully realize the importance of the word "no"? Or do you say to yourselves and those about you: "Boys will be boysMary can take care of herself-they are young but once-" Please consider that the greatest proof of love you can give to your children is in using the word "no"! Look back into your hearts. Do you not find that this word has saved you from many wrong steps... and that word "yes" has oftentimes led to regrettable situations? If things have worked out that way for you, so will they for your children. Nowadays the younger generation is not prone to do much thinking, and you just naturally have to do the thinking for them. Of course, each of us is likely to believe our sons and daughters are different from modern youth, as we have lately come to regard it. Perhaps a few of them are-many of them in fact-for I do hope that the Catholic atmosphere of our homes has kept the wolf of modern sophistication away from many of our doors. However, parents-even we Catholic parents-must sleep like the proverbial cats, with one eye open, and the catnip ball of "no" right under our noses, lest we be suddenly called upon to offer it to our children and find we have misplaced it. The word is one of the easiest to pronounce, easier in fact than Mama and Papa. Yet it is -5-

CAN YOU SAY "NO"? one of the hardest words to utter, especially to those we love. The over indulgent parent who often says "yes" to his children just as often lifts the barriers of discipline. How many times could a "no" have prevented tragedies and the first step that led down the hUl of self gratification?
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How often do we hear our daughter say in a pleading tone in answer to our remonstrations as to scant body attire: "But everybody is wearing this!" or "Nobody is wearing th;:tt!" Who is "everybody"? If we say, "Well, I'm somebody... and I'm not wearing this or not wearing that," the young belligerent shrugs her slim shoulders. and mumbles: "Oh, but you're different!" For the benefit of those parents, and especially mothers, who might have heard this statement from their daughters' lips, let me cite an individual case to illustrate the message I am attempting to place before them. I had a friend. I shall call her Nora. She had a daughter. I shall call her Tilda. The mother was young, but thirty-two, Tilda sixteen. Nora was a rather retiring sort of mother. A pretty kind of woman who "just couldn't say no!" Daughters of women who cannot say "no," generally -6-

CAN YOU SAY "NO"? are flames burning upon the altars of modern youthand Tilda was a flame. Rouge, cigarettes, parties, dancing, bare legs, cocktails, joy rides, loud language-were all part of Tilda's self gratifications. When her mother tried to remonstrate, Tilda would expostulate glibly: "You're different... you do not.understand... times have changed since you were a girl!" One day I went to Nora's house and found her flushed and perspiring, dancing alone to a jazz tune bawling out of her radio. Quite confusedly she told me ' she had been learning new steps so.a s not to be "different" when Tilda entertained her friends at home. From that day on Nora changed. Knee-length ' skirts, cosmetics, bobbed hair, cigarettes. I suddenly became an old woman compared to her. Tilda seemed in the Seventh Heaven. The boys she brought home danced with her mother and declared her "a Queen!" In fact, they lionized Nora far more than Tilda. Months passed. One day, as I went to Nora's house to bring her some silver she had asked me to loan her for a party, I found myself standing on the threshold of the dining 'room looking on as Nora danced, smoked and even drank from a hip flask a young man was offering her. Tilda was standing in a corner, staring at her mother, her face blanching under her rouge. On see- 7 --

CAN YOU SAY "NO"? ing me she ran past me into the kitchen, sank into a chair and began to cry. I put my arms about her and the child clung to me, sobbing out: "Oh, I am so ashamed of Mother! So ashamed!" It was no time for me to say: "Well, Mother is not different now!" Later, I tried to talk to Nora... but she would not listen to me. The poor woman had gone jazz mad, just as Tilda had before her. Nora became cross, ill-humored, and began to explode to me on the least provocation on how unreasonable Tilda was getting to be. I noticed then that Tilda, since her mother's change, was seeing things from another point of view. To Tilda's horror, she saw in her mother what had awakened the first reproach of her mother toward her. Tilda withdrew from what she called "her crowd." That was the Spring that I went on a visit East, and upon my return I learned Nora had left her home, divorced her husband and married a young chap who had soon left her after squandering what money she had. Tilda was living a lonely, retired life with her father in a little apartment in the outskirts of the town. This is but one of the family tragedies that came to my notice. In spite of "what they say," youth wants to look up to its elders. So, mothers, when your child tells you "YOU'RE DIFFERENT," take it as a compliment, for your own child wants you to be different!

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CAN YOU SAY "NO"?

CHEAP TRIUMPH

The first "no's" are the hardest, for one weak "no" will create the possibilities of thousands of other little "no's." The man who "just can't say no" to his friends who offer him a swallow from their hip flasks, is as the girl who "just can't say no" to the first man who asks her for a kiss. Young folks fear the word "no." They are afraid it will hurt their popularity. But popularity based on the word "yes" is never desirable. Good young men, clean young men, fear the word "no," for at times it brings about cutting remarks, teasing and laughter from "their crowd," until they are led to believe their "no" is a sign of weakness. It is the escutcheon of strength, for that little word stands for strength of character, of convictions, of principles. Let us not be ashamed of this word. Let us not fear to be called "prudes, sissies, unreasonable, narrow-minded" and all that caravan of words which go to mask the real meaning: "He or She is striving to be the decent sort!" What if a girl should lose the company of that certain young man simply because she said "no"? Chances are, if he placed her in the necessity of saying "no" he would not be a worthy companion anyway. In youth we find it very hard when the spirited horse of our emotions tugs at the reins of our reason. But in youth is the time to learn how to 'say -9-

CAN YOU SAY "NO"? "no"... a firm "no"... not a "please don't" which generally means "coax me again." find that a man senses the meaning of "no" with acute accuracy. "You mustn't do that!" said with a tilt of the head and a pucker of lips means, "Please do!" and the young man knows it. The first "no" is what builds the foundation for others. If a girl stands by her first NO she will not be called upon to chant a litany of "no's"... "Please don't's" and "You mustn't do that's," all end with the usual result-yielding, and tend to make the next "no" all the more ineffective. What if Bill should lose prestige with "his crowd" on account of a sharp "no" when a suggestion is made to take a hand in a poker game, to go to a certain road h(juse, or take a "swig" from a hip flask? Even the very young men who tease and jibe at the "lack of nerve" of the chap who says "no" feel, in spite of themselves, a subtle jealous admiration for him. To follow the crowd, to be one of them, is a cheap triumph. Not long ago, 1 was called upon to go bail for a young girl who had been caught in a raid at a certain wayside inn where intoxicating drinks.were served" When 1 asked her how she came to be there, she, the. daughter of a prominent family, sobbed: "I had to go. They were all going-I didn't want them to think 1 was.afraid!" Afraid? She was afraid-TO SAY NO!
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CAN YOU SAY "NO"?

DIVORCE AND SUICIDE

Some say that the "wild time" girl will eventually make the best wife for, having had "her fling," she will settle down only too gladly after marriage. This is erroneous. Youth is the foundation of life. When that foundation has been built upon marshy ground, chances are that the structure of matrimony will crumble. The increasingly high percentage of divorces is to some extent due to the slack discipline of youth., the shirking of responsibilities by the parents and the regarding in a superficial light the deep shadows and values of life with its serious problems. For financial gain, books and productions tending to destroy respect for authority are periodically flaunted before the eyes of. youth. In these the mother or father is painted with obvious dark colors, as obstinate and unreasonable, in order to establish the moral that "children know best." To these sugarcoated pills children lend an. attentive and willing ear. But if a scenario or book exemplifies the reverse message, namely: "Parents know what is for the best welfare of their children," the.book or production would be labeled as "inspirational blah" which young folks would not crave to read or see. For here again comes into play our instinct of contrariness which makes young people crave to see and hear that which is less constructive to their moral character. Let a picture be advertised as ~n inspirational or educational production and an audience must be inveigled -11-

CAN YOU SAY "NO"?
by some clever device, or the production will show to an empty house. If, however, the news spreads that the book has been banned, or the picture is objectionable, people will stand in line for hours before the ticket office. This is only a proof of how people react to the instinct or contrariness. Going even deeper into the tragedies of life which a "no" could have prevented, let us take the matter of suicide among young people. I have,s canned statistics and had the misfortune of coming into rather close contact with more than one individual case, and I find that what brought about the consummation of the drastic action was the hectic quandary in which the young victim had been afraid to say "no." The greatest fallacy, which is oftentimes traded from lip to lip after,a case of suicide, is this remark: "What nerve he had!" No, it does not take nerve to commit suicide-it takes cowardice. For all suicides prove in the act of taking their lives, that being afraid of the conditions which face them, they choose taking their lives as the less frightful of the two. In choosing what in the moment seems to them the course of least resistance, they prove themselves cowards, for had they had the courage to face the condition confronting them, they would not have resorted to the revolver, poison, or the river. Again another quandary in which the party could not say a forceful "no" to the cQwardice in him. It takes courage to say "no" even to fear. -12-

CAN YOU SAY "NO"?

COMBATING CONTRARY INSTINCTS

If we take into oonsideration the Ten Command-

ments, placed before us, not only for our ultimate spiritual and moral good, but also for our materia~ benefit, we can see that they are ten "no's." They. cannot be classed as affirmative, for they have been placed before us to contradict evil and destructive impulses rather than to second natural leanings. Human nature has an uncanny instinct to bedrawn to contrary moves. That is when our inner self must say "no." Were we drawn to constructive and beneficial tendencies, then "yes" would be the word which should stand paramount before us. Unfortunately this is not the case. From the very bud-ding of our elemental emotions we find that our instincts are to act contrary to constructive ends. We seldom find a child reaching up into the pantry shelves for the milk bottle. but rather for rich pastry. This contrary instinct is puzzling and alarming. Not even a sense of preservation halts the hand 0[, the child as it reaches for bright objects such as: pins, pieces of glass and the like. and place~ them into his mouth; or sends him splattering with his feet in the puddle of water and smear his face with mud. Were it not for this contrary instinct in us and were, we subject only to a reasonable amount of 'ilatural logic and observation of what has gone on before us, -13-

CAN YOU SAY "NO"? we could live sanely and wisely, taking only into consideration what befell Biblical characters thousands of years ago. Knowing that certain actions bring about certain consequences, we would, through a sense of at least self-preservation, automatically abstain from wha't another has proven is not for our ultimate good. In other words, a dozen men having lived, sinned, reaped and recorded their experiences, -would be suffiJCient example.s for us to look back upon. But this is not the case. In spite of the fact that we know certain laws cannot be broken without detriment to 'Our physical and spiritual selves, each life has to live its own experiences. The example of what happened to others seems to matter litHe, and bad examples are more readily followed than good examples. We seem to derive an uncanny satisfaction in proving to ourselves that we too can,s lide down the sandy hill, skid here and there and laugh, as we dive to the bottom, on finding 'Our-, selves yet alive. The crosses along the way matter not, but add to our thrill. If we happen to meet with an accident, we often slide breathlessly down that hill again, thrilling once more in attempting to escape the very dangers to which we fell victims but yesterday. The development of our will power is the most important factor, not only in,the success of our ma- ' terial life, but alslo for our eternal salvation. Will power speaks through us with the word"no," a negative word which makes for a positive balance. -14-

CAN YOU SAY "NO"? "No" is an antidote. An antidote at times can be poison in i,t self. But when taken to counteract another poison, it annuls itself a.s well as the poison. If we were endowed with a natural leaning toward goodness, "yes" would be the word contradicting evil influences. But as things are, "no" becomes the big, important word, springing from our will power-the big, constructive word, the corner stone of right living, of fairness toward ourselves and our fellowman, the solid conductive rungs leading up the ladder to eternal salvation. CAN YOU

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Types Of Women Men Avoid

When all is said and done, everybody needs somebody sometimes, as Jewel would say. And most, if not all, of us, want to be in a good relationship that makes us feel happy and fulfilled.

Of course, finding that special someone isn't always that easy; if it were, I wouldn't be writing this article, right?

Sometimes, it's all about your personality; at some point, if you're unable to find a man who enjoys your company consistently, then perhaps it's time to take a good look at yourself and face the facts.

If you find your character traits listed under one of these types of women, then you might want to think about making some changes.

TYPES OF WOMEN MEN AVOID #1

THE COMPLAINER

This is the woman who manages to find something wrong with any and everything, and is never happy with the way things are. She can't appreciate anything because she's so busy looking for what's wrong all the time.

She is not necessarily a miserable person; she simply makes an art of finding what's wrong with everything. Needless to say, men tire quickly of this type of woman and begin to avoid her at any and all costs.

TYPES OF WOMEN MEN AVOID #2

THE MAN-HATER

When will women learn that they should stop judging every man based on what a few have done? It seems that all men are being forced to pay the price for what a few rotten apples have done.

The Man-hater has nothing good to say about her father, brother, uncle, exes, or any other man she has come into contact with over her lifetime and thus opts to come up with creative ways to blast men simply for existing.

Men find it incredibly insulting having to sit through a conversation in which a woman decides that she should give them a rundown of why they are such terrible human beings.

TYPES OF WOMEN MEN AVOID #3

THE WHORE

If you've slept with an entire football team before the age of 22, it's probably best not to offer up that information to guys. Even if he says it doesn't bother him at all, no man wants to go down on a girl who's a hot dog stand.

I'm not suggesting you lie, but don't brag about it, either. For many men, it's a matter of self-respect and there's a good chance that if you've gotten down on your knees for 100s of men, you don't have any (self-respect, that is, not knees).

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Dating After Divorce A Big Secret To Success

Presently, it is not easy to being single. One never planned on being back in this place of starting over from square one. This is not a life that you signed up for but it is the one that you got. So, what needs to do while getting ready for dating after divorce? If you start working on these things then you can save you from heartbreak and lead you to biggest success

It seems quite difficult for lots of people and it also may be hard for you. You just need to feel that you were so lonely while you were in your marriage and finding a relationship that can meet some of your requirements. Or you need to talk with a counselor and spend some time with him. If your marriage might not have worked out the way in which you wanted to, then doesn't mean that you have to stop yourself from learning, growing and getting ready for rest of your life.

One needs to take extreme care of him or herself at this critical time. One can start living in a good way by taking some professional advice. If you can't afford counseling, then simply visit your place of worship. Being divorced is your time to recover yourself, relive your lost dreams again. Build yourself from the inside or meet some other healthy people.

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Chris - Dating Groundwork How To Have More Social Success
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Successful Online Dating

"Your Profile Is The Window To Your Soul PART 1"

That's right I said it - MAY SOUND CLECHE' but neverthless it's true. Your profile is the window, and how you write your online dating member profile will determine how much of the curtains or blinds are pulled. You can decide to stay distant and cold, but WHAT'S THE POINT of being a member of a dating site at that point? On the other hand, if you are too direct, and you decide to share your ideals, principles, lessons, cultural impressions, political views, sense of humor, intellect, sarcasm, and and overall view of the entire universe. You will likely make everyone believe you are TOO GOOD FOR ANYONE. There has to be balance, period.

There is no bigger challenge on a dating member site, than staring at your keyboard, while trying to think about HOW TO DESCRIBE YOURSELF to the entire world. You are literally trying to explain why you are worthy of an eyebrow to raise, a smile to form, and emails to be written to you. At the same time, you are attempting to explain what TYPE OF PERSON YOU DESIRE. I'm going to offer some tips on this for you.

Imagine yourself, MEETING SOMEONE for the first time. Make the setting in your mind, somewhere comfortable for you. Now think about what you would say, to HELP THAT NEW PERSON, understand what kind of person you are right now in your life. This is the only way to write your online dating member profile.

Make sure it doesn't sound like a checklist, resume, or business merger proposal. It needs to COME FROM YOUR HEART first and your mind second. Keep the tone "matter-of-fact" but don't get boring and snooty.

You don't want to lose most of your potential dates, while they are reading your profile. It's much like the old DEPARTMENT STORE WINDOW advertisements. If they don't grab attention and make people want to open the door and walk-in. Then, it means they have LOOKED AWAY and plan to walk on down the street, to look in another window.

This will take some work. You will need some editing, it's not going to be easy. However, just remember HUMOR IS THE KEY to standing out. It's an opportunity for you to flirt, sound relaxed, and tell the world where you are coming from.

TO BE CONTINUED - More on this article, later today

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Dating Violence

IN YOUR EXPERIENCE, HOW LONG WOULD YOU ESTIMATE IT SHOULD TAKE FOR A WOMAN TO DECIDE WHETHER OR NOT SHE LIKES A GUY ENOUGH TO SLEEP WITH HIM?

To be perfectly honest, a woman has probably decided whether to sleep with you or not from the very first moment that she met you. Guys need to remember that a lot of the things that make them attractive, and which present them as a sexual option for women, are all communicated on a non-verbal level. All of those things which a guy does when he approaches a woman and tries to seduce her just serve to lead her because she can't do it herself. Women need you to be the one who leads things because that takes the responsibility off them. It is much easier and more comfortable for women to have sex if guys take charge and lead the way than if they try to do it themselves.

I've actually had the experience of having sex in broad daylight with a girl who was a virgin just an hour after we started our date. All that it took was for me to make her comfortable, flirt with her, and lead things in a sexual direction. That last step is the one which so many guys never take, but it is a lot less work than what they think.

HOW DO YOU PROGRESS FROM FLIRTING TO ACTUAL SEX? A LOT OF GUYS ARE A BIT NERVOUS OR AFRAID OF TAKING THAT STEP. IT CAN SEEM VERY OVERWHELMING TO THEM. EVEN THOUGH THEY WANT TO DO IT QUICKER, THEY ARE JUST TOO AFRAID TO TRY. WHAT WOULD YOU TELL THEM? SHOULD THEY JUST GO FOR IT AND DON'T MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT IF THE GIRL SAYS NO? IS THERE A METHOD OR SPECIFIC TECHNIQUE WHICH THEY SHOULD USE?

I think that the most important thing which guys should learn is how to touch women the right way. Learning how to touch women in a smooth way is going to make everything so much easier. The best resource which I can recommend is the Vin DiCarlo "Escalation Ladder" which is available online. This will teach you how to approach, touch, and seduce women as part of a smooth progression without any unnecessary steps. It will give you something that you can practise and apply in the real world.

The other thing that guys don't seem to realize is that women want sex and need sex from a man. So if you can't give her sex, then you are only good for a few other things in her life, like carrying out chores. Do you really want to be that guy in high school who does the homework for all the girls who he likes? You don't want to be that guy. You want to be the guy who she wants to have sex with. But that can never happen unless you get your head right and at least try to take the lead.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Webb - Dating Exercises
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