Act Like A Lady Get What You Want

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"We want a lady in the street, but a freak in the bed."

LUDACRIS, from the USHER song "Yeah!"

It is a man's mission to be with a woman, and it is your mission, in turn, to end up with a good man. But the problem with most women nowadays is that they feel the need to mask their femininity as though it's some kind of psoriasis. But believe me when I tell you that the key to attracting men, is to act like a lady.

The sooner you learn to embrace the fact that you should not only embrace the woman you are, but act like a lady, the sooner you will begin to attract the gentleman of your dreams.

It seems that women have forgotten what has gotten them this far in their journey to be the "It" gender. What you need to do is go back to your roots and remember what it was like in the days of Jackie Onassis... it's time you went back to behaving like real ladies.

And here's how you can act like a lady.

ACT LIKE A LADY TIP #1

FLATTER HIM


Flattering a man in an original way that is based on his intelligence or strength will always make him putty in your hands. Flattery works when you want to change a subject, get your way or even ask for a favor. Learn how to make him feel like gold with your compliments and he will, in turn, buy you some.

ACT LIKE A LADY TIP #2

LAUGH AT HIS JOKES


Even if he thinks knock-knock jokes are hilarious and continues to use them throughout the evening, make sure to act like a lady by laughing at his jokes and feel free to throw in a mild touch of his shoulder, accompanied by an "Oh, you're so funny!"

Remember that women place "sense of humor" at the top of their list of "What I look for in a man." He knows because he reads all these dumb studies and believes them.

ACT LIKE A LADY TIP #3

DRESS IN A PROVOCATIVELY CONSERVATIVE SORT OF WAY


Is this a contradiction in terms, you wonder? Well, not really. We all know that showing off an abundance of skin is never the right way to go if you want to give off the right impression with a man.

Always wear heels and skirts on dates, and unbutton only the fist two buttons of your button-down shirt. If you want to act like a lady, a bare torso and everything-but-the-nipple are unacceptable.

ACT LIKE A LADY TIP #4

ASK HIM TO DO THINGS FOR YOU


Although he might grumble about it, men love it when you ask them to perform certain small tasks. It can be something as simple as getting you a cup of coffee. When you ask a man to do you a favor, his mind tricks him into believing that you're worthy and he ends up liking you more.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Debra Benton - How To Act Like A Ceo
Kurt Mortensen - Persuasion Iq The 10 Skills You Need To Get Exactly What You Want
Steve Harvey - Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man

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Attention To Detail By Kezia

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When asking a handful of men to describe a particular man after he has left the room, most men would probably say

"Blonde guy in a black a jacket and jeans"

Where as a woman would describe him as


"Good looking in a metro sexual kind of way"

"Wearing a wine colored polo neck"

"He had a nicely cut jacket perhaps made of tweed and has buttoned down pockets"

"Fairly loose fitted dark denim jeans"

"Has dark blonde hair"

"Pointed shoes"

"He was around 24"

"Could be Scandinavian but if not is probably from New York"

"Probably has a girl friend, might be gay"

Get the picture? What I'm trying to say is this

Woman observe detail, men prefer to see the big picture. (Unless it's cars where men usually win hands down)

Men prefer to be factual; things are often black and white, good and bad, rich and poor.

Where as the average woman tends to see the individual stitches in life's rich tapestry,

For example if I ask a man about his friend, he will tend to say things such as "he's an outgoing guy", or he is "funny" or he's "confident". Where as woman, when asked about her girlfriends will usually give you her friends list of good points, her bad points, her relationship details and that's all before she has even started on the topic of discussing her friends sense of fashion.

Why is it like this? Who knows? But it is.So lets get on with the more important issue of how this piece of information can help you guys when it comes to..

ASSUMPTIONS


First of all assumptions are one of the 9 hook leads I teach in conversation skills, it is one of my favourites and its power should never be underestimated. But there is as with most the hook leads I teach a right way to do it and wrong way,

When guys make assumptions to woman they are usually a little vague, and might be seen as a fairly sweeping statement, where as a detailed assumption will produce better results (even if wrong!) This is the beauty of assumptions; the "wrong one" can be very playful if detailed!

EXAMPLE 1


A badly done assumption

"Where do you live?"

"Chelsea" (this is a very upmarket part of London where girls who live here tend to have a lot of money and a lot of time on their hands!)

"So you must like shopping"

Ok, lets break this down. He has made a vague assumption and to be honest, which girl does not like shopping? In her head she's thinking a few things.

"Yeah and..I like shopping bravo, you must be a psychic NOT!"

Also she thinking he has made little or not effort to get to know who she really is and that he probably says this to other girls all the time.

EXAMPLE 2


"Where do you live?"

"Chelsea"

"So you like shopping, but I bet although you like shopping you would never dream of going to those summer sales! All those people fighting over a Gucci bag is just not your style"

Or


"So you like shopping, but I reckon you're a careful shopper who knows they can shop at Tiffany's if they wanted but prefers to haggle in the markets, searching for a priceless bargain"

Now I have given these exact lines to students who really had impressive results, both assumptions are the complete opposite one happened to be fairly accurate with one girl and the other was totally wrong. But the girls both laughed, and responded well by explaing themselves and how they were "exactly" like that or how they were "not like that all"(giving valuable information to the guy about who they were, whilst he's just absorbing all these wonderful hooks they are giving him to work from"

You see, he tailor made the assumption for them, he spoke to them with detail and in doing this he made them feel like an individual, and in turn they will see him as an individual rather than just another guy making vague conversation in the hope that the conversation might turn interesting,

Another point I wish to make with detail in assumption or if you haven't noticed yet "detailed cold readings" is that guys also come across more confident and alpha, as they show they are not afraid to do this detailed cold reading and also do not mind having quite a lot of attention on them so early on in the interaction.

Attention to detail can be used also in other hook leads such as anecdotes and compliments.

Here are some other detailed assumptions:


"Whats your favourite film?"

"Dirty dancing"

"I bet your favourite scene is not the one most girl like, where he's dancing at the end with her I reckon, hmmm your favourite scene I the bit where etc etc"

"Where did you go on holiday"?

"Spain"

"I would say, judging by your tan you probably initially wanted to see the museums and shops but when you got there you thought, nah, I'll just lie on the beach all day and make my friends jealous when they see my tan

So remember, attention to detail will make her feel you see her as an individual and in turn make her see you as an individual.

See it through a woman's eyes next time round.



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How To Get A Beautiful Girlfriend

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Getting a girlfriend is not a big deal. However, it is a big deal for those who do not have one. There are many people who spend hours on internet to know the basic qualities of men that can help to get girlfriend. First of all, we would like to break your one biggest notion. Do you think that girls like only handsome men? If yes, then you are absolutely wrong. In day-to-day life, we can see many couples where girls got the boyfriends who are not handsome at all.

Getting a girlfriend depends on various factors, like your personality, attitude, approach, thinking, life, etc. If you got anything wrong out of these things, then try to work on it. A wrong approach or way of talking can decrease your chance to have a girlfriend. Before choosing a boyfriend, girls always make sure that you deserve her and she will be safe with you financially, emotionally and physically. In order to win her confidence, you have to show your overall personality to her. So, be a man and jump in the arena of world where all beautiful women are waiting for you.

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Ways To Understand Men Ways To Make A Relationship Last

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Men are a mystery. Oftentimes, women are left to wonder and confused about how men act and behave. The differences between the two sexes are pole apart making it hard for the females to know what men want from men.

What men want from women? Sometimes this question has no answer and that would be even harder to understand men and how their mind work. However, you do not need to be all that disappointed if you do not know what men want from women. Oftentimes, it's the littlest thing that has been staring women at the eye, and they just haven't figured it out yet. To help you better understand men, here are some of the things to aid you in knowing what men want from women.

BACK TO BASICS


If you want to know what men want from women, it is that they want to feel and know that they are the man. All men have their own ego they have to feed, and you have to help him feed it; by making him feel that he is in charge. Do not underrate him; let him have his way once in a while, that's his alpha male speaking.

Understand men have this feeling that they want to be the one to provide and secure his family. He wanted people to know that and be looked up for being able to provide. Never treat him like how you would treat your girl friends or it will mean war. Let him make you happy, by doing so, he will be happy.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T


Understand men have a thing for respect. Everyone does so respect his boundaries and what he stands for and he will respect yours. If you constantly nag him about his imperfections, then you are not just hurting his ego, you are disrespecting him. Do not just look at the things that he does not do well, be proud of him and make sure that he knows that.

SUPPORT HIM EMOTIONALLY


What men want from woman is someone who shows emotional support. Do it by telling him encouraging words whenever you feel that he needs it. A simple gesture also shows that to him, a soft touch that will tell him that you know that he can do it will work. Understand men need to know that you are loyal to him and will never leave him.

BE SECURED AND MAKE HIM FEEL SECURED


Insecurity is rust to a relationship. It will eat you whole and before you know it, the relationship has already ended. Have your own life and get your own set of friends and activities that will keep you busy. Likewise, understand men need to feel secure that he is the only one in your life. Let them know what is happening to you and do not hide things from him that will let him think otherwise.

There are many other things to understand men, but basically, what men want from women is a woman who is headstrong but loving; let him have his way at the same time supports him and appreciates his whole being, weakness, strengths and everything in between.

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C Kellogg - Healthy Dating And Relationship Tips
Steve Carter - How To Get Girls Understand What They Are Thinking
Chris Jackson - 101 Ways To Build Happy Lasting Relationships

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Beyond Words Subtext 101 By Cajun

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Alright gather around everyone, its time for acting 101: Subtext!

What is subtext? For acting, subtext is the underlying meaning behind spoken words as interpreted by an actor. What does that mean? Basically you're adding additional meaning to your spoken words by the way you say them. I'll give you an example:

Lets say I have the following (cheesy) script for a scene I'm about to act in:

JOHN and MARY are alone in the bedroom. Mary is upset and John is comforting her.

"John: Mary, everything is going to be ok, I just want you to know that I love you."

Now if I'm going to play JOHN in this scene there is a lot of information I'm going to need in order to apply the proper subtext to my dialogue. Things like:

What is the relationship between John and Mary?

If they are siblings then the line would be spoken much differently than if they were lovers.

What happened just before?

What if this scene took place right after they had sex?

How would you reflect that in the above line of dialogue?

This is all information that can be implied with the proper subtext.

So.what does this have to do with game? EVERYTHING!

I tell students all the time "It doesn't matter WHAT you say, it's HOW you say it" Women are MASTERS at subtext, they know that there is loads of information hidden in the way something is said. That's why women can get so bitchy over seemingly trivial things that guys say; they know what were thinking!

So how do you use subtext effectively? Well I'll give you an example of something I do.

So let's say you're in a venue gaming and you see a great set. Now in any given set at the venue, realistically, the subtext of the dialogue you exchange with them is going to be "I'm trying to win you over and make you like me." A lot of guys subconsciously use this subtext when they open and are often blown out. Why? Because the women read into your subtext and knew exactly what you were doing, this is why you will hear "Is that a line?" often, even if she hadn't heard it before.

A better way to approach is to use the subtext of your opener. This is how most successful puas operate. For instance, my opener involves me asking girls if I look like a drug dealer, so the subtext is simply that its bothering me that I look like a drug dealer and I need their opinion. When I say the opener I put myself in the mind frame that it JUST happened to me so that my subtext is believable. This is what I did for a long time and its how I got good at opening but its boring and doesn't really create attraction.there is a better way.

Before I continue, a disclaimer: I am an actor and use my acting abilities whenever I can if it benefits me, so you can bet your ass that I act when I'm in set. If you have a problem with that or think that it's unethical theatrics and trickery best left for the gypsies then just stop reading now before you get upset.

The best way to approach, in my experience, is to look at the venue as a stage (stop laughing) and look at each set as a scene you can enter into. Instead of using the above mind frames when opening I'm going to use the subtext of a completely made up scenario that makes me exude attractiveness. So I'm going to enter into the set under the subtext of "I just slept with all of these girls" and I will communicate that to them by the way I speak, not by the words I'm saying. All of my dialogue will remain the same as it normally was.

So what happens? Remember how I said women are MASTERS of subtext? Well in this case, you're going to be glad they are. If you're good at subtext (Take acting and improv lessons!) they are going to catch on very quickly and you will create attraction almost instantaneously. Women LOVE guys that they cant quite figure out, so if you go in acting like you just slept with them then you are basically a social enigma, which is like crack to them.

When students ask me things like "I don't understand, you were talking to them about robots for 3 mins and then all of a sudden they were making out with you, how the hell did that happen?" Using subtext is how it happened. You don't always have to use the subtext of "I just slept with these girls" you can use whatever you want, but this one works very well and I've had a lot of success with it.

Subtext is one of those things that's pretty hard to grasp through reading. That's one of the reasons why I created the DVD set "Beyond Words" so you can visually see it. You can see me teach in more depth other non-verbal techniques to attract women using your body language.

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Men Who Clean Get Laid

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According to an Oxford economist, if a man wants to get laid for a long time to come, he'd better start cleaning the house and helping with the kids.

An Oxford study suggests that men who live in Great Britain, the Scandinavian countries or the United States are more likely to get married or live with a woman because they are more likely to help around the house.

Australian men, not so much. Those lazy bastards.

The study discovered that women who lived in less egalitarian countries were about 20% to 50% less likely to be living with or married to someone. It's no surprise. Considering women work and raise kids, it would be almost impossible to do it all without any help.

What woman wants to get married only to have kids and have to raise them on her own, clean the house daily, buy all the household items, and work, and let the guy "do his thing"? That's insane.

So if the men of the world want to live with someone or get married at any point in their lives, they better be willing to help around the house and be very present in their children's lives.

Pick up a broom; it might get you laid.



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Dating Tips Does He Love Me

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Because your man fails or doesn't express himself all the time to you, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. If he tells you about his love towards you once in a week or in a month, don't doubt or surprise. In spite of surprise or doubt enjoy it thoroughly. He may not say "Love You" often, but his action, nature; attitude will speak for him a lot.

When a man loves, he will support his beloved and always give 100% in relationship. He will ask you about your objectives or problems if you have any, will try to achieve your target and help you to overcome the problem.

Love might be intense, complicated, tough, confusing. The most important thing to remember is good communication, speak openly and ask as many questions you can, if something hurt you, do speak up, but listen as well and try to understand the situation.

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Men Get Stupid Talking To Hot Women

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New research shows that men who spend even just a few minutes talking to an attractive woman don't perform very well on tests designed to measure brain function than those who are in the company of a woman they don't find attractive.

Researchers who carried out the study, which was published in the" of Experimental and Social "think that it's because men are busy trying hard to impress the attractive women so they have little brain resources left to do anything else.

These findings are likely going to make it near impossible for a hot woman to get a job now. The last thing an employer needs is a bunch of brain dead men with hard ons trying to impress the hot chick making copies.

In a shocking twist of events (not really), women were not affected by chatting up good-looking men.

The idea for this study came about when one psychologist at Radboud University in the Netherlands couldn't remember his address when an attractive woman he had never met before asked him where he lived.

40 male heterosexual students were used in the test, and time and time again, they scored lower and lower on a test after chatting up a woman they found to be attractive.

Now that's quite the weapon to have in your arsenal. If you're a salesman and want to rip off clients, take a hot chick with you to close your sales.

But psychologist DR. GEORGE FIELDMAN, said that the findings only reflect men's animal instincts. "When a man meets a pretty woman, he is what we call 'reproductively focused'."

For women, they want more than just good looks - wealth, youth and kindness are part of the package, that's why our brain function isn't affected when we meet a McDreamy.

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