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Are You A Good Talker

I have found that for many of you the following is true: once you overcome MEETING someone, you still don't really know how to date the person successfully. And many of you are just settling for relationships that you're not really all that excited about.

So the first thing that I really want to discuss with you all is communication. Communication is the key to everything in a relationship - including intimacy.

Why? Because without communication, you'll never really be able to connect - to really share your desires and wishes with your partner.

Intimacy is about more than just having great sex. Intimacy is being able to look deeply into your lover's eyes and have an amazing conversation. Intimacy is also based on honesty.

If you have great communication in a relationship, you'll have honesty as well. The two qualities just work hand-in-hand.

If you feel comfortable to talk to your lover about anything in the world, you're being honest with yourself and with your partner.

Many of you are not the best communicators, and that's something we need to work on. So over the next couple of months, we will really focus in on teaching you guys to be master communicators - both in the blogs as well as some of the products.

A new product will be coming out soon called the Master Communicator Series, where we will really work to practice these skills.

It is so important to be able to communicate - anything, to anybody! Recently Rey had an experience that I'm sure many of you will find familiar.

Rey was frustrated with some things at work that weren't going well for him, and he took some things personally (which we ALL do). But instead of communicating it to me immediately, it escalated into something that it never should have.

Instant communication is important. When you're frustrated and upset with someone, you need to realize that you must process it. The quicker that you process it, the better the communication will be.

If you keep things festering inside, when you finally do talk to the person a week later, what will happen? You're going to have an emotional outburst - that will lead to confrontation - that will lead to bad feelings between you and the person that you love.

So, communication is key. How comfortable are you with your communication style? What can you improve? Be honest, and let me know in your comments. What are your strong points? Let's communicate on this blog today and really open it up!

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Book Review Threesome How To Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy

Threesome: How to Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy by Lori Gammon

Looking at it from a woman's point of view, because, let's face it; she's the deciding factor on whether or not a threesome will ever happen, this books looks more at the idea of a female-male-female (FMF) threesome rather than a MFM threesome.

LORI GAMMON gets straight to the point without seeming seedy or vulgar about the whole idea of a threesome.

She goes on to explain what a third party (woman) would want out of the whole experience, where such a woman can be found, and how to seduce such a woman.

LORI GAMMON also goes into detail about the possible outcome of such an occurrence and aims to help couples decide if they are mature enough to handle the repercussions of adding a third party to their sex lives.

With myriad sexual statistics in regards to threesomes and even an explanation on how to convince your significant other into welcoming the idea of a threesome, this really is a great book covering men's #1 sexual fantasy.

RATING 4 OUT OF 5

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Best Friend Girl

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BEST FRIENDS GIRL

I've been in love with my best friend's girlfriend since they began dating 6 years ago. Well, they recently broke up and she has expressed interest in me. Should I just go for it and let my friendship fall by the wayside? How can I do it so that no one gets hurt?

J.

I hate to say it J., but there's this unwritten rule that states that you can never, ever date your best friend's girlfriend. The fact that you've been in love with her since day one indicates that maybe your friend has a feeling about it. I think he might already know but is confident you wouldn't act on it.

The fact that his ex is all into it sort of worries me. What it all comes down to is this: Date her and risk destroying your friendship for good. Or don't date her and wonder what could've been for the rest of your life. It's your decision to make, but at the end of the day, someone is going to get hurt.

"MY FAT HUSBAND

Before we were married, my husband would take great care of himself - he even had a six-pack. Well, 5 years and 1 kid later, he's packed on 40 pounds and eats like a hog. Whenever I make mention of it, he gets defensive and really angry. I love my husband and I want to make this marriage work, but I am quickly losing my desire for him. Help me, please.

And for the record, I take care of myself - I go to the gym, I eat well and I dress nice.

CARA

Well, Cara, I hate to say it, but you're not alone. It's not shocking for husbands (and wives) to start letting themselves go because, well, there's no more chasing to do. He has his wife and kid, and he's comfortable.

Try to get him to workout with you and your kid, and don't buy and junk food for the house. Cut up some fruits and vegetables place them on the table in front of him; you be surprised the mindless eating we do in front of the TV. He'll gobble them up without even realizing it.

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Internet Dating New Form Of Virtual Dating

Internet dating has got massive popularity all over the world in very short period. It is a platform where singles, couples, and groups make contact and communicate with each other over the internet without any social, political, regional or geographic boundary. Basic motive behind such services is to develop personal and romantic relationships. Here, lot of people meet with each other and get to know about them. Even, many people have got married with the help of these services.

Before using internet dating, you need to provide some basic information to website, like name, email address, date of birth etc. Generally, dating websites ask these details to make your profile better. You can attract number of people only when your profile will look different and interesting. There are many companies and websites available in market for the same service. It is up to you whether you want to go with paid or free service.

Free internet dating is best for those people who are new for this world. Don't go with paid services if you don't know the rule and regulation of internet dating.

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Book Review 8 Essential Traits Of Couples Who Thrive

Formerly titled" That I'm Married, Why Isn't Everything Perfect? , Susan Page offers up a useful guide for couples who want to make sure that their relationships remain as great as they did in the honeymoon phase.

With over 20 years of counseling experience, it's no wonder Susan Page is able to spot the 8 Essential Traits of Couple who Thrive. So what are these mysterious 8 traits that lead to a thriving relationship and, in essence, marriage?

1. Desire, belief, and commitment

2. Goodwill

3. Clear values

4. Boundaries

5. Perspective

6. Relationship-enhancing communication

7. Intimacy

8. Pleasure

It's no secret that most of us walk into a relationship with expectations that are impossible to meet. This undoubtedly leads to misery and, in turn, many couples end up going their separate ways. But with the 8 Essential Traits of Couples who Thrive, Susan Page helps couples understand which attitudes, techniques and little pleasures will lead to a happy, lasting relationship.

Susan Page believes that "love is the beginning of the cure for the world's ills..." and teaches couples to love the good in their partners rather than focus on the things that irritate them.

Of the many concepts Susan Page offers to help couples achieve happiness in their relationships, one of the best is that if one person isn't ready to discuss an issue the other has, they should set a time and place to discuss said issue. That way, when it comes time to talking about it, they're both calm and have thought their points through.

Great book indeed.

RATING: 4 OUT OF 5

By Susan Page

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What Do Girls Find Attractive In Guys And How To Put Your Best Foot Forward

Guys might be confused about what a girl finds attractive, or they might not have any idea, being new to this whole thing. "I'm just a guy, what the hell is she going to like in me? I'm just a guy, I'm not that interesting." A lot of these guys are really analytical, thinking about things a lot, so we are only thinking, "What do I have to offer this girl?"

All these questions that you are asking are about self esteem, self confidence, self assurance, or self image. Really a good idea for a guy is work on his self image. A good way to go about this is to get a friend to give you some feedback.

Go to one of your guy friends or your female friends and say, "What is my self image to you? What perception comes across when you interact with me? When you think about me, what kind of guy am I? How would you sum me up in a few words?"

Ask yourself what your self image is and write down what comes to mind and then think about what self image you want to portray. Are you at this moment the kind of shy guy? Are you maybe a gamer or a nerd? You might be outgoing or intelligent; you might be academic; you might be a boy next door; you might be the athletic type. There are so many different types of self image that you can present to the world. Working on your self image is really going to be good for your confidence and really good for your identity.

So come up with that identity you want to portray. There's a common archetype that girls go for - there's the bad boy type; or the provider type; or the punk guy; or the alternative guy. Maybe even a gangster type. All these different archetypes, you can find out what they are, there's a lot more. So do a study of those.

Then you can pick one or pick a couple and mold them together and devise your little plan of how you're going to make your self image one that appeals to the women you want. So I could tell what type of women you're after, because certain types of women want to go for one type of guy, just because of how he looks. So that's one thing to keep in mind also.

With the self image, keep in mind both the exterior and interior of how you see yourself. Then there is the exterior of how the world per sees you, so getting a makeover is a really good idea. Get someone to come in and look in your closet and throw out the clothes, get a professional in that does this for a living. Throw out clothes that don't do you any good. Fill your wardrobes with clothes that really make you feel good and feel confident.

You'll find the difference when you walk out of the house; it's going to be tenfold. You're going to feel good; you are going to have women looking in your direction, and it's going to give you really good confidence when you do leave the house, which will result in you being comfortable going out into the world and meeting girls.

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Do You Use Bad Jokes To Pickup Women

You know that sound, that "bo-bump-bump" drum sound you hear at a bad comedy show? You know what "bo-bump-bump" is? That's not just reserved for late-night talk shows, it's also you when you become Punch-Line Guy.

Are you the guy that read somewhere on the Internet that women are really attracted to the funny guy? So now, in every conversation you have, you always want to make sure that you can show you're funny, that you get the punch line out as quickly as possible? Basically you are punch line guy. You're that guy who, within a minute of a conversation, whatever the topic, you have to end the conversation with this funny joke (well, at least that you think it's funny).

HERE'S THE DEAL GUYS: That really takes both you and her out of a moment that could have been special. Punch-line guys tend to kill conversations because there's not much to go on after you spew your cheesy punch-line. Especially if the punch line wasn't that funny, maybe she'll chuckle a little bit and then she'll just realize the conversation is ending.

What most punch-line guys do is they just end the conversation with that mediocre punch line, they don't keep it rolling. They take a perfectly good conversation and they feel like they have to spit the joke out somewhere to show her that they're funny.

The reality is that you have plenty of chances to show her that you're funny-at the right moments. But your problem is that you can't risk waiting to be naturally funny, waiting to be funny at all the right moments. You have to do it now, you have to try to create the punch line moment because this is the ONLY moment to show her you're worth getting to know.

I KNOW WHAT THIS IS LIKE BECAUSE I USED TO BE PUNCH LINE GUY. I was the class clown, I used to sit back and wait for my punch line in class. When I was first learning to talk to women, I'd always anticipate and wait for the punch line. I'd throw it out there and expect a big laugh but I never realized, when I was younger, that actually killed a lot of good conversations because I was killing the momentum.

All the punch line does is show that you're not really listening and adding the conversation, it just shows that you want to be the center of attention, because that's what punch line guy really is. He wants to be validated, he wants people to think he's funny, and he wants to be the center of attention. So the next time you have your punch line guy moment, think to yourself, Is this really a proper moment for the punch line? Think about that. Will it keep the conversation flowing, or will it end the conversation like it has in the past?

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Are You A Good Talker

Book Review Threesome How To Fulfill Your Favorite Fantasy

RATING 4 OUT OF 5

Best Friend Girl

In love with your best friends girlfriend

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RATING: 4 OUT OF 5

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Do You Use Bad Jokes To Pickup Women

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