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How To Compliment Correctly By Kezia

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Why does the average man give a woman he has just met, a compliment?

In his head when giving the compliment, he's thinking. Woman like compliments, it makes them feel good. If I make them feel good. They will like me. If they like me, they might sleep with me. In theory it works, but the reality is sometimes a little different.

Woman like alcohol too; so they buy her a drink, if I buy her drink she will be happy if she is happy.......you can see where this is going.

Lets now skip over to whats going on in the woman's head at this same moment of time

Man says, "You have beautiful eyes

Woman's head is saying a few things, such as;

"How un-original"

Or


"He probably has used this line on 5 other girls tonight"

Maybe


"Why is he still looking at me? Please don't tell me he wants a compliment back? Maybe he wants a medal? I think I'll just give him a little weak "thanks" instead."

Perhaps


"Has he not even noticed my eyes are bloodshot today"

Maybe


"Funny, I never knew my eyes were on the top of my breasts"

Or


"Should I put the poor thing out of his misery?'"

Or even


"Maybe not yet, I think I can get a free drink out of this guy before moving on"

Who ever said girls were made of sugar and spice and all things nice?

Now how can guys improve on their complimenting skills to avoid scenarios like this one?

Firstly the main objective of his compliment has to take a 180 degree turn. His objective must be to get a result, which will give him more value and, consequently, her, less value. The compliment must

a. Make you stand out from the crowd

b. Make impact

c. Make her lower value than you

d. Make her want to please

e. Make her feel like an individual

f. Make you an individual

HOW DO YOU ACCOMPLISH THIS?

DOUBLE SIDED COMPLIMENTS
All this can be achieved by simply delivering a double-sided compliment; with strong eye contact, and showing no apparent care or interest for her response or reaction.

(Remember give someone the role (write in)

HERE ARE SOME EXAMPLES OF EFFECTIVE DOUBLE-SIDED COMPLIMENTS

"You look great.... but you would look stunning a blonde"

"You have beautiful lips.... pity you don't wear red lipstick, it would be so much more sexy"

"Have you ever tried wearing red nail polish?... You have lovely hands, and that would be more elegant"

"I like your shoes, I'm really fussy about women's shoes, and those are really sensible and practical, which shows you have your head screwed on... but killer heels would make heads turn in this room"

"Mmmm, what perfume is that?.... Its ok, but when a woman wears (name of perfume) its speaks sexiness, and makes such impact"

With these examples what your basically saying is


"You look great.... but I've seen better/there's room for improvement."

The objective you want to create is to put yourself in high status/value while simultaneously allowing her to know your compliment was genuine and tailor made to her, and not to every girl in the room.

A double-sided compliment speaks volumes; it says; your confident enough to give her a sincere compliment but your also strong enough to risk losing your chances with her because of your honesty (principles and integrity)

NOTE:
"Honesty= confidence in a woman's eyes, an alpha man will not spin lies to keep someone happy, he will say what he wants when he wants because he needs no ones approval."

When you have delivered the second part of the double-sided compliment, the part where you have caught her off guard - as she was expecting the compliment to end after the first part. She did not expect the "there's always room for improvement" to come along.

Within seconds you would have gone from another time waster who thinks pleasing woman this way will get him laid, to someone who has high value in taste and wishes to be pleased rather than please.

She will be attracted to the honesty, even if it could in theory jeopardize your chances with her, this in reality only adds to the risk factor and will turn her on more.

NOTE:
"Woman love to please (I said this in my last article, and will keep on repeating myself as this is a vital characteristic men don't assume about woman)"

IF YOU SAY WE ARE BEAUTIFUL WHY DO WE NEED TO CARRY ON PLEASING YOU, WHY DO WE NEED TO MAKE THE EFFORT? The challenge is gone.

You will find that using a double-sided compliment, will not only keep her on her toes and let her know that you are not intimidated by beauty like other guys (she will presume all your girlfriends are hot) but when it comes to escalation stage, you will be able to use a full straight out compliment with even sexual connotations (no double side) she will be turned on by this, as it will appear to be genuine (remember she has categorized you as honest by now) and it will be a reward, it will be saying, now your goods enough for this compliment with out any neg after it.

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Relationship Advice How To Make It Last Forever

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Good relationships come to those people who have good intentions and this statement is absolutely true. There are many consultancies and experts available and all of them provide relationship advice. However, everyone suggests you few basic things when it comes to relationship. You have to open your heart and mind if you are in relationship. It is not mandatory that you should take advice only from professionals. Individual can get the suggestions from family members and friends who have successful relationship already. There are many books and websites that provide you important information about your love life.

Relationship is a very special bond in life of every person. Everybody expect to have a perfect partner who will make his/her life more beautiful. To make a relationship beautiful, it is important for both partners to get good relationship advice. The most important aspect of advice is trust. You should not loose your trust in any situation. It has been noticed that small things create very big problem especially in the life of those people who are in relationship. Don't forget to give a proper space to your partner and keep your trust on him/her.

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Aint No Fixer Upper

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One day, a wife asks her husband to change a light bulb, and he responds with "I ain't no electrician."

Later that day, she asks him to fix a squeaky door and he says, "I ain't no carpenter."

That evening, she wanted to go the store but the car needed oil, so she asked her husband to put some oil in the car, and he says, "I ain't no mechanic," and went to work.

After he left, a man was walking by and asked her what was wrong, so she told him what her husband had done.

He says, "Well, I can fix all of that, but you have to do something for me."

"And what would that be?" she asks.

"You can have sex with me or bake me a pie."

After he left, her husband returned home and noticed that everything had been fixed. He asked his wife how she did it and she told him the story.

"So which did you do?" he asked.

"Well," she replied, "I ain't no Betty Crocker."

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Connect The Dates

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Attracting Opposites and Feeling Connected

Dear Aaron and Amy,

I have been casually dating for a while now but I never really connect deeply with anyone I meet. I am careful to choose people with similar interests and I try to avoid dating a "type." But still, I have no luck. I am thinking, maybe opposites really do attract. But how do I date someone who is my opposite? Where would I meet him? How do we begin to share a relationship if we have nothing in common?

CURIOUS


Dear Curious,

Opposites attract the same way everyone else does: they want to have sex. A relationship with someone like minded or otherwise in which you do not want to have sex is called a friendship. Meeting people is gigantically easy these days; really it's so easy it almost feels like cheating. I can't imagine what neanderthal, pre-internet people did to meet each other, but it certainly wasn't as easy for them as it is for you. Chat rooms, dating websites, facebook or even chatroulette (if you're a pervert, psychopath or pedophile) all exist to provide you access to millions of other similarly hopeless and lonely individuals that populate every nook and cranny of wherever you live, unless it's the moon.

If you're not an internet type, which you are even if you don't think you are because this is an internet site, then what you need to do is not be afraid to meet people and be rejected. Bars exist and contain people who want relationships, (or "relationships") all over the place, but is a bit of a craps shoot. Speed dating takes place virtually everywhere and is both brilliant and pathetic, so be prepared to wade through some of the lower ranks of society if you take that route. Remember though, gold nuggets were sifted from muddy streams before technology came along and gave us Wal*mart and took our souls.

Yours,

AARON


Dear Curious,

Aaron has many very deep and emotional relationships I agree with him though that opposites totally attract. They attract for sex, they attract because it is fun to interact with someone who is different, they attract because it is great to attract and be attractive. Your problem though, is that you want a deep relationship. I'm guessing you are just not being patient enough. Connections take time and experiences to develop.

If I may quote Tom Robbins, a writer who spends significant amounts of time loving, thinking about loving, and then writing about loving:

"We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love."

In a world of such diversity, who knows what is the perfect match for you. Probably the person with whom you spend the most time making a connection.Good Luck,

AMY



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How To Handle A Bigger Social Life

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 This was an interesting article by Carlos Xuma about getting control with your social circle.

QUESTION


I've noticed recently that my cocky and funny and confidence from reading your stuff has given me a good amount of popularity among people in my college. Not just with girls, but male friends as well.

Within the past few months I have got A LOT of new friends added to my phone and people often rely on me to plan and organize social events and little group gatherings.

The problem is, there are so many people who want to hang out with me its hard for me to find time for them or plan things with any of the few groups I hang out with.

I know this question doesn't have a lot to do with dating. But more towards the social life of an Alpha man.

How do I keep track of all these people? Its starting to get confusing for me

CARLOS XUMA ANSWERS


It feels GOOD, doesn't it?

A sudden increase in your social network?

Being in demand for once instead of IGNORED


And no matter what we may think about popularity, and how we turn our noses at it, it sure does feel GOOD, doesn't it?

I used to be a real loner. I remember this time in high school when I got a school jacket with our school colors and everything.

Now, I was a poor kid, and I couldn't afford to buy one, but apparently they accidentally gave it to me thinking that I'd ordered it. The jacket fit really nice, too.

I wore that jacket around and felt proud. I felt like I finally BELONGED. For once I wasn't awkward or weird or different than the others around me. I lost my teenage maladjustment for just a week or so. I got along with people better and I felt more social.

And then they found me out. The teachers realized I didn't buy the jacket, so I had to give it back because I couldn't afford it.

After I got over my initial disappointment, I thought that I had just been ACTING confident and feeling socially valuable that whole time I had the jacket.

And now I was going back to my old self again.

But the reality was that my old self was the ACT.

And the other part of my new reality was that nothing changed about ME, just my thoughts.

The jacket didn't give me anything. I just acted on a BELIEF.

It was my own insecurities and beliefs about my place in the school pecking order.

For two weeks I was part of the "in crowd" and confident all because of a stupid high school jacket.

Funny, huh?

Now, it took me years to get over those feelings of inferiority and insecurity, but I did. And when I did, and I discovered that I could have as many friends as I wanted, I started to respond to this sudden social wealth in my life by wanting to be a part of it all. I did my best to make sure no one slipped through the cracks.

Some did, but the ones who lasted were the ones I counted as friends.

Now, you gotta admit - this is a pretty good problem to have, isn't it?

Tons of friends and an active social life. (A lot of stuff you learned from me, but most of it was already inside YOU, my Jedi pupil)

Well, guess what? You don't have to keep track of everyone and everything and keep it all organized. You can just go along for the ride.

Most guys WISH they had this problem in their lives, so I'm sure I'll get emails about how all the readers want to start a charity in your name.

Uh, yeah, sure.

Anyway


Here's an idea or two for your social logistic problem - get an iPhone, or some other kind of PDA. Keep all your contacts and numbers in there. Or just a good cell phone that can keep all the information straight.

Then create an email group with all their emails in it. Then you just send out a blast to them every so often with ideas on where to meet that weekend for a "flash-mob."

You can even setup a text message group on your phone that you can blast on a moment's notice.

"Over at Harry's Pub Come over for pitchers and darts"

Create a regular place to meet up on certain days so that everyone gets that feeling of camaraderie and community. Like the bar in "Cheers."

Then put together a few parties and events and make sure EVERYONE is invited. Enjoy your newfound social network.

Here's a little marketing tip that will blow your social network up as large as you want it:

Take a lot of fun pictures at your events, and put them up on a myspace or facebook page. Make sure everyone is having fun, and then you'll become a social legend that everyone will want to meet.

And you'll get a lot more new friends from the friends that your current friends bring along. I have some friends that hold these kinds of bring-a-friend or "date my friend" parties regularly.

Just be sure to delegate some of the organization to your more reliable and trusted friends. You don't want to have to do all the work.

And you can even have a party where everyone has to bring a single friend of the opposite sex.

You'll create a wider social circle


You'll have more women in your life (Which is the usual side-effect of a healthier social life)

And then all your free time gets used up because you're now socially VALUABLE. This is what we call a "high-quality problem."

Don't bitch about it Ride the wave!

Because this is an Alpha Man's strongest skill: POWER Social Skills.

He knows that it's not the anti-social jerk that gets to have all the fun (and the women) in life, but the guy who's calm and confident in his own skin, and can still be liked by others.

Improve your dating and social life. Make the changes you need to make to get the McLovin, the bedroom action, and relationships that you want and DESERVE to have.

You need to learn these Power Social Skills, and what it means to be a complete man today.

I've been interviewing women in this field lately - the smart ones who really DO know what women want - and every one of them is absolutely aligned on this fact:

WOMEN WANT A MAN WHO IS NOT FOCUSED ONLY ON WOMEN.

He has to have his complete game together, and that means having the one ability that most guys don't take the time to develop

And they don't develop it simply because they never had anyone teach it to them.

Well that's going to change


Go have a look at the new social revolution that I'm starting with guys right now.

So that you can have the kind of life that YOU choose to lead, with the success that most guys thought you had to inherit or get through luck

I'll be back again soon to teach you more about Power Social Skills

Your Friend,

Carlos Xuma



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Hmm

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I don't ususally post horoscopes ("although I will confess to reading mine daily (I have it e-mailed to me--oh, be quiet) because it's usually so out there it gives me a giggle"), but I rather loved the top half of todays predictions ("yes", "very much so"), so I thought I'd share.

May 4th 2006


Some unexpected but welcome communications could come your way, [..."my name deleted to protect the innocent..."], through fax, email, cell phone, or other tools of recent technology - probably from either a lover or a close friend. Planning for a pleasant and exciting journey by air is indicated. Today, you relate well to others; friendships grow closer, romantic relationships more intimate. Someone close to you could even move into your neighborhood. Tonight: Plan a small gathering. You'll enjoy it!

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Book Review How To Be A Super Hot Woman

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By Mandy Simons the advice given also makes one shake their head in wonderment. I'm guessing this book was self-published because no self-respecting publishing company would ever give this book that go-ahead.

The ladies provide gems that suggest that women buy fake name brand purses off the net, and to walk to the middle of a room at a party and wait for someone to come and take your coat. I think these ladies may have been guzzling whisky and watching old movies when they threw this thing they call a dating advice book together.

The contents of the book range from complete logic (you have to be clean and take showers if you want to meet men) to the downright insane (land yourself a role on a soap opera and make yourself famous and he'll regret that he ever walked out of your life).

And if all this isn't enough to convince you that you probably don't want to read this book, the entire thing is written in size 16 font. That's really big. And that gets kind of annoying after a while.

If you're looking for dating advice that is designed to help you become a better person and, in essence, meet a better man, this is not the book you want to invest in.

RATING: 1 OUT OF 5



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Chris Brown Beat Rihanna Often

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Well it's done. CHRIS BROWN has been sentenced to 5 years of probation and 6 months community labor (that means he has to pick up garbage in the streets and stuff) for beating up RIHANNA. He must also attend 1 year of domestic violence counseling.

None of this is shocking news - we all knew he wasn't going to do time, especially considering RIHANNA did not want to press any charges.

What also isn't surprising is that CHRIS BROWN was involved in violent incidents before this episode that got him arrested. Apparently, Rihanna slapped him once and he shoved her into a wall in Europe. I'm curious: Is what she did a "violent incident" as well?

The second time, CHRIS BROWN and RIHANNA were vacationing in Barbados when they began arguing in a Range Rover. CHRIS BROWN got out of the car and smashed in 2 windows.

And these are just the incidents we know about now. It's obvious that CHRIS BROWN has some anger issues. I mean, he came from a home of domestic abuse, so it's not surprising that he is the way he is.

I'm sure RIHANNA wasn't a mousy little thing in all of this, but did CHRIS BROWN get off too easy?

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