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Boyfriend Is Effeminate

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BOYFRIEND IS TOO EFFEMINATE

 When my boyfriend and I first met, he was wonderful - respectful, thoughtful, charismatic... now, though, it seems that things have changes and he's become more like a woman.

He cries if he feels like I'm being "cold" or "distant" and he has tantrums if I come home late from work. I find myself comforting him and trying to convince him that I love him very much on a daily basis.

What the hell is happening here? Why is my boyfriend suddenly a girlfriend? Why is he constantly seeking my approval and acting so needy?

We've been together for 6 months and he recently lost his really high-paying job. And yes, I make more money than he does, but I always have, so that can't be it. Can it?

Have I really become the man in my relationship?

TONI


It sounds to me like even if he knew you were the one making more dough, he didn't realize how it was really going to affect him. I'm sory to say it, but there's a good chance your boyfriend has lost his backbone and he's not going to find it again with you.

I don't know many women who enjoy being in a situation with a boyfriend who constantly needs reassurance, so I'm guessing you're at your wit's end by now.

By the way, I wouldn't say that he's become "more like a woman" because I don't know many women who constantly need reassurance about their man's love.

Rather, let's just say he's become more sensitive and you just can't deal. And I completely understand. So tell him it's over, and tell him why, and find yourself a guy who doesn't need so much babysitting.

AMY



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I've tried OKCupid with no luck and I've even tried PlentyOfFish to no avail. I even had dating profile experts tweak my profile to ensure that I get responses, with nothing.

So what the hell do I do? I'm 26, 6'1, successful and smart, but I just can't get a woman to check out my profile. What's up with that?

DK


First off, OKCupid and PlentyOfFish are not the be all end all of dating sites. There are other dating sites, albeit not free, for men out there.

Have you ever tried going to a pay site? Maybe you'll end up having more luck there.

Mate1.com is really popular with women so it opens up a world of options for men. Also, they have an instant chat option, so you can immediately speak with a woman you find interesting if she's online as well.

Give it a shot.

AMY



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Love Relationship Advice For Women And For Men

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 Relationship Advice For Women, and relationship advice for men: "! Secret Steps to reprogramming your subconscious to give You the You Desire Romance" is about how to break patterns of self-sabotage your relationships and you will attract and create the kinds of relationships you want!

This relationship advice will help you clear mental and emotional blockages that prevent you were able to date women or men.Are you currently afraid to meet beautiful women or dating men? Solve your social fears and fear of failure using the techniques presented in this book by author Jim Knippenberg is an expert and teaches Invaders telepathic dream telepathy, ESP skills, energy healing, hypnosis disguised, NLP tactics, and more to create and attract romance with others.

This dating advice can be used to improve virtually every area of your life, to recreate yourself at your ideal future self.For more Jim Knippenberg and psychic influence, remote influence, training telepathy, ESP skills, mind control, psychic abilities and training, and much, much more, visit Advice For www.mindcontrolresources.com

Click here to check out Relationship Advice For Women, and relationship advice for men: "! Secret Steps to reprogramming your subconscious to give you the Romance You Desire"

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Book Review How To Date Men

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 Although some might profess that men are not mysterious and are as obvious as the day is long, but ask any single woman and she'll tell you that that's simply not true. Welcome JANIS SPINDEL.

In" To Date "professional matchmaker JANIS SPINDEL helps women figure out what men are really looking for without having to interrogate men.

With well over 15 years of experience as a matchmaker and more than 900 marriages to her credit, it's obvious that JANIS SPINDEL put this book together using client quotes, real situations she has encountered and reflective questions that address the biggest issues women have when it comes to dating the man they want.

JANIS SPINDEL offers women a step-by-step plan in today's dating culture that will help them win over any man they want. Gems like:

* Learning how to ask a man for his number with confidence.
* Looking your best when heading out on a date.
* Paying your date a sincere compliment. Men love flattery just as much as, if not more than, women.

It's not rocket science, of course, but it's becoming more and more obvious that women are in need of as much help as possible when it comes to the dating game.

And if you're not sure what to talk about on a first date, when to consider having sex and when it's time to introduce your friends and family, JANIS SPINDEL comes to the rescue once again.

What makes this book a breath of fresh air is JANIS SPINDEL's practical advice and refusal to thrust women into a "game".

RATING: 4 OUT OF 5

By Janis Spindel



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David Deangelo

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Cocky and Funny, or C/F for short, is a style of pickup developed by David DeAngelo. For many years it was the core of his system, and it still plays a large role in what he teaches, although he's broadened his approach in recent years.

Nevertheless, cocky/funny is an incredibly powerful tool used to generate large amounts of attraction with women. The idea is to keep a woman off-balance while simultaneously hitting all of her attraction switches related to confidence. You stay unpredictable, fun, and challenging.

The key to cocky/funny pickup is to be both cocky and funny, simultaneously. It is not about being cocky one minute and funny the next, it is about being both, all the time. Many guys who experiment with c/f material struggle because they alternate. If you're just being funny, you're being a clown - and women may like clowns, but they don't sleep with them. If you're just being cocky, you're being a jerk.

David DeAngelo has the best guide for people looking to execute the cocky funny technique. Get it now.

Signs of effective cocky/funny material are a woman hitting you while laughing, or smiling while saying, "I can't believe you just said that!"

Good examples of cocky-funny lines are: "I realize you're probably shy because you get no attention from men whatsoever, so I decided to come over and pay attention to you." Or, if she says something clever, say, "Congratulations, that's 5 points right there - and you needed them since you were at -16 before."

But more than a series of lines, cocky/funny is an attitude - it's an attitude that says you don't take anything she says or does too seriously. It means never giving her questions a straight answer, and never giving her a moment to catch up. If she asks you what you do, you come up with the most absurd thing that you can think of, and deliver it with a straight face. Be a lion tamer. Be an astronaut. Being cocky and funny means being willing to run with whatever pops into your head.

Often a woman will challenge you after you say something cocky and funny, to see if you'll pull back, say you were just kidding, or make some other display of weakness. If she seems shocked, don't apologize, rather, just look her evenly in the eyes and say, "Yeah, I said it." And smile.

Other aspects of cocky/funny include:


The "I'm messing with you," vibe. The whole concept of teasing is connected to cocky/funny. But think about how you relate to your friends, how you might just say absurd things as if they were completely true. How absurd a story can you get her to buy?

Speaking the unspoken. This is a very powerful tool. Call direct attention to the subtext. For example, if she's hitting you, being fake-mad the way women tend to do when you've done cocky/funny material, just call her on it. "Oh, you like me. Look at you, hitting me like you're a 3rd grader." Any time she's engaging in behavior which suggests she's into you, point it out and tease her about it.

Add these tools to your toolbox, and you'll find yourself generating more and more attraction.

Double Your Dating is a great guide for men looking to use the cocky funny approach. We recommend you check it out.

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Flirting On Facebook Do You Know About It

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 Face book is a more suitable place to meet singles and is different from all those free and paid dating websites. Instead of some made up profile that may or may not be true, you can look the real personality and can also view the day to day interaction. It starts with expanding your friends circle network with a little facebook flirting. Do you remember that your friends have friends who have friends that have other single friends, brothers or sisters? The broader your group, the greater your chances are of finding romance.

You will find more opportunities in flirting with the people on facebook. In order to flirt on facebook, you need to pay more attention to the posters and commentors. Toss in your own comment by making it funny, witty and humorous just to get the attention. The more you interact with others, the bigger your playground for facebook flirting will become. You will receive more requests from others.

This process may not go along as quickly as it could on a real on line dating web portal as it will take much longer time. Long waiting will creates anticipation and the anticipation will make the stronger attraction and bond. Flirting on facebook can not bring immediate satisfaction, but it certainly raises your chances for long term satisfaction. So, If you can send a flirty text message then you can surely practice some facebook flirting.

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Men Ask The Dumbest Questions

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Guys, you have to admit: you ask some stupid questions; especially on the first date! So to help out the ladies, I have come up with a short list of some of the dumbest question that have actually been asked of women; as well as a proper response to each. These are in no particular order, I think they are equally dumb!

1. Q: "You'd be hot if you lost some weight."
A; "And you would be hot if you weren't an ass!"

2. Q: "You friend is hot. If things don't work out with us, can I get her number?"
A: "Why don't you just getit now; things aren't working out!"

3. Q: "Hey, would you have sex with my friend? He's been really depressed lately?"
A: "Oh sure. By the way, am I still having sex with your boss for his birthday?"

4. Q: "Why can't you lool like those girls in porn?"
A: "Well, pay for all of my surgeries and maybe I will!"

5. Q: "What's your favorite sex position?"
A: "The one were you are in the other room!"

6. Q: "You know I never plan on marrying you, right?"
A: "Yes, that's why I started dating (insert name)!"

7. Q: "Do you care if I ask that girl if she'd be interested in a threesome?"
A: "Sure, as long as you don't me picking the third person!"

8. Q: "Don't you think you have had enough to eat?"
A: "No, I am trying to get as big as your ego!"

9. Q: "You really just can't stop talking, can you?"
A: "I will stop talking when you say something intelligent"

10. Q: "What? Are you on your period or something?"
A: "No, I just hate you!"

If you have every asked one or more of the questions, my suggestion is to keep you mout shut and think about what you are about to say before you say it!

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Do Women Test Men How To Pass Her Tests

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 Have you ever called a woman on the phone to set up a date and she says: "Friday night? Sure. Call me on Friday and we can talk about it"?"

Or, have you ever had a woman ask you if you're "a player?"

Or, have you ever had a woman challenge you about something ridiculous?

Or, have you ever had a woman call you five minutes before a date and cancel?

Or, have you ever had a woman pout and get upset because she didn't get her way?

Or, have you ever asked a woman for her number and she says, "Why don't you give me your number and I'll call YOU?"

Well guess what you were being TESTED.

All of these are examples of common things women do to "test" men.

On some level, the woman you were dealing with was testing to see how much control she had in the relationship and how STRONG you were.

The paradox of "testing" is that if you COMPLY with what a woman SEEMS to want, you will usually FAIL the test.

Hey, I never said that women made sense lol.

I was reading a great book recently called "The Way Of The Superior Man", and inside the author points out that a woman will often ask a man for something DIRECTLY but if he DOES what she asks, she will be disappointed and ANGRY with him.

Ever been there?

So what's with this testing stuff, anyway?

Well, the answer is fascinating.

And before I tell you about why women TEST you, I want to mention that there's a LOT more going on "behind the scenes" when it comes to female psychology and behavior. I believe that if you can learn how to understand this "mating psychology," then you can learn to attract women MUCH faster

Women test men because they need to QUICKLY figure out what they're dealing with, and they can't expect a man to just be straight up and honest about his strengths and weaknesses.

I mean, let's face it we guys like to talk a big game, but when it comes to walking the talk, we often can't BACK IT UP.

Also, beautiful women have a lot of options. They have their pick of men. And beautiful women prefer STRONG men. Not physically strong (although this can be an advantage), but strong in CHARACTER and PERSONAL IDENTITY.

Women aren't attracted to WUSSIES.

So let me ask you if you were an attractive woman that was being chased around by 100 guys, how would YOU go about figuring out which one or ones were the "real deal" and which were merely FAKING strength and confidence?

Of course you'd have to TEST them.

But you couldn't test by saying, OK, I'm going to give you a test now, so get ready."

No no NO!

You'd have to use "blind" tests. Tests that would allow you to see a man's true strengths and weaknesses. And in fact, you'd want to use tests that ideally DIDN'T ALLOW HIM TO KNOW THAT YOU WERE TESTING OR WHAT YOU HAD DISCOVERED ABOUT HIM WITH THOSE TESTS. This way, if he turned out to be a Wuss Bag, you could slip away quickly and easily.

This would give you the power


Of course.

And if you did this OFTEN, you'd eventually become so accustomed to doing it, that MANY of the tests would become SUBCONSCIOUS and work their way into your NATURAL, EVERYDAY way of communicating with men.

Well, guess what?

That's what is going on with beautiful women.

Many of the tests that they use with men are actually OUTSIDE OF THEIR AWARENESS. They test us automatically!

And if you fail one of these tests, there's a good chance that you won't get another chance.

In this fast-paced world, we humans don't have the time to spend getting to know people over a few months or years to figure out whether or not they're the kind of person that would make a good friend or mate.

We need to know NOW.

So we use shortcuts.

Testing is a shortcut for women.

It lets them discover VERY RAPIDLY whether you have BALLS, or if you're just another one of the bazillion Wusses that are trying to get her attention.

I hope you feel what I'm saying.

So, the next time you're standing in front of a beautiful woman who you've just asked for her number and she says, "Why don't you just give me yours and I'll call YOU" try CHUCKLING out loud, and saying:

"Oh, come on. Don't give me that old line. Write your number down and I'll only call you 25 times a day until you wind up having to change it because I have nothing better to do with my time than call someone who doesn't want to hear from me."

Then hand her a pen, point to the paper, and look her in the eye expectantly.

Love it.

Now, obviously there's a lot more to this issue of TESTING. There's a lot more going on than meets the eye.

There are all kinds of subtle cues and body language that women read to decide just what kind of man you are and these cues also trigger ATTRACTION (or the opposite).

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Social Psychology Stop Shyness Now With These Simple Tips

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 Shyness is such a debilitating condition that can affect a person's every day existence. It can adversely affect a sufferer socially, at work, romantically, and in any situation dealing with people. For anyone that has had to deal with this condition, to be able to STOP SHYNESS for good is their top priority.

But programming and conditioning of a person's emotional state, often from a very young age, runs very deep in one's subconscious so it can be very hard to "stop shyness" without a lot of effort. Self esteem is generally very low for someone that suffers from shyness.

I am an introvert by nature, even to this day, but I was very, very shy as a child. I can't blame my parents, but I grew up believing that kids are there to be seen and not heard, and that it's bad to show off and have fun. Luckily, through personal development and working on myself, I am a lot more confident and at ease around people in social situations. I'm still not really outgoing (especially around strangers) but I do FEEL much more comfortable than I used to be.

I'm pretty sure that this is the same for most shy people, but what caused me to be "stuck" in shyness for so long, was being so self-conscious and afraid of making mistakes and looking foolish in front of other people. It was only when I started to "notice" other people had faults, and would often make a fool of themselves, and yet people around them didn't seem to care. I think the key was, that these people had confidence in themselves no matter what, and they believed in themselves... and they didn't care what other people thought of them.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF


That is the next point that I want to make... don't care so much what other people think about you. Live your life to the fullest, and have confidence in yourself. Believe in yourself and other people will respect you for it. With that respect, your improving self confidence will grow even more, and your self esteem will sky-rocket.

START OFF SMALL


Accept the fact that you will not change overnight and suddenly be an extremely outgoing person. This process will take time, so start small initially by socializing in small groups of just 2 or 3. You will find that you are far more comfortable with only a couple of people and you can open up a lot more than you could in a large group setting.

WORK ON THE WAY YOU LOOK


If you are going out in a social setting, make sure that you work on your look beforehand. If you can feel comfortable in the way you look, it only stands to reason that you will FEEL more confident and outgoing. This means wearing good clothes that fit you well, but it also means projecting yourself with the right posture and body language also.

KEEP WORKING ON YOUR INNER SELF


I couldn't have made the progress that I've made in my life without the help of self help products and personal development courses. It's very important that you work on your inner self, so read as many books on the subject as you can but also participate in some online courses. If you can boost your confidence and self esteem, the shyness will just fall away all by its self.

Click Here To Boost Your Self Esteem And Confidence In 7 Days

You don't have to put up with shyness for the rest of your life... you can and should put a stop to it, starting now. Not only are you missing out on fulfilling friendships, but other people are missing out by not getting to experience quality time with you.

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