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Herbal Seduction Masters Interview

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF!

I'm 25, living in Austin TX. I've been in the game for about 3 years, tovarying degrees. Right now I barely go out, but back in LA I would often times go out seven days a week and used to teach workshops with Mystery.

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I just started working for a friend who moved his tech company to Austin, and on the side I run my site, www.BetterThanYourBoyfriend.com. I'm actively working on becoming a rapper as well.

DESCRIBE THE MOMENT, WHEN YOU SUDDENLY REALIZED, "I NEED TO WORK OUT THIS PART OF MY LIFE."

I had a huge crush on this girl for three years. I took a certain amount of pride in not going after other girls - I had the AFC mentality that waiting for her to move back to Austin was a romantic thing to do.

In retrospect, of course, it was pretty creepy.

One day, after having this crush for three years, I decided that I had enough and that I needed to change. A friend had showed me ASF a year prior, but not being ready to give up my crush, I had ignored it. I searched for it again, and read it until the wee hours of the morning. That's when I was hooked.

I then got involved with the Austin Society, and got lucky and got a number my first night out. That success gave me the false confidence to press forward through a lot of rejection.

HAVE YOU HAD ANY MENTORS (PERHAPS WELL-KNOWN PICKUP ARTISTS) WITHIN THE COMMUNITY/LIFE THAT HAVE HELPED YOU IMPROVE YOUR GAME, AND WHAT DID THEY TEACH YOU?

Mystery, Style, and Tyler Durden are probably my biggest mentors. Before moving to Project Hollywood I had a nagging worry in the back of my head that I was nothing more than a tenant. What if I moved there and they wanted nothing to do with me? After all, I'd never met Mystery or Style, and had only briefly talked with TD.

However, as soon as I got there any worries I had disappeared. Mystery began teaching me the first week and we were soon going out every night together as wings. Eventually I started teaching workshops with him, which only furthered my knowledge.

I went out with Style and Tyler less, but both of them taught me more than I can thank them for. Tyler helped me understand the importance of learning the skill, and was a huge motivating factor. He was always brutally honest with his feedback, which was very helpful.

Style also gave me a lot of good advice, and his lifestyle which integrated pickup and his real personality and hobbies inspired me.

It's incredibly important to have mentors. Being around someone teaches a lot more than reading what they write.

CAN YOU DESCRIBE THE FIRST TIME YOU USED A COUNTER-INTUITIVE ROUTINE THAT YIELDED IT'S PROMISED RESULTS, AND HOW YOU FELT?

The whole game was counterintuitive. It honestly never really occurred to me that I could cultivate any sort of relationship with a stranger. I had never been in a bar or club before the game, and hadn't ever asked a girl for her number. That first number I got just blew away my reality and made me wonder what else I didn't know (the answer: a lot).

COULD YOU DESCRIBE WHAT YOU'RE LIFE WAS LIKE BEFORE YOU WERE AWARE OF THIS, AND WHAT OPTIONS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN NOW?

Life was fine before, but I never felt like I had much control. If a girl liked me, I could usually guide things in the right direction. However, the girls always picked me - I had no choice in the matter.

I don't really go out anymore. I'm not terribly interested in girls who are into the party scene. But now when I see a girl I'm interested in, I can start talking to her and know that she will be attracted to me. In fact, the process is so internalized and subconscious now that I KNOW that any girl I spend fifteen minutes around will like me.

WHAT WAS YOUR BIGGEST STICKING POINT?

My biggest sticking point was, and still is, going for the first kiss. I am awful at it. I get nervous and then usually end up finally doing it much later than I should have.

Part of the problem is that I'm much more picky than I deserve to be, and I've never "practiced" with less desirable girls. Oh well - I guess there are worse problems to have.

DO YOU HAVE A FAVORITE ROUTINE/STEP IN YOUR MODEL, CAN YOU DESCRIBE IT, AND WHAT IT ACCOMPLISHES?

"When I first met you, I didn't really like you. Now that I get to know you - you're amazing"

I don't know if I actually ever say those exact words, but I love the sentiment. It's one of Mystery's lines. It's usually also the truth, and I love the reaction it gets.

It says

"I am picky"

"I like you for more than your beauty"

"I'm not chasing you"

"I'm honest"

And "I like you"

all in one little phrase.

HAVE YOU HAD THE EXPERIENCE YET, WHERE YOU FEEL THAT YOU'VE REACHED A CERTAIN DEGREE OF MASTERY? CAN YOU EXPLAIN THE TIME, AND HOW YOU GOT THE REALIZATION?

I wouldn't consider myself a master. I'm not an AFC either, but when I see people like Mystery or Tyler Durden in the field I realize how much better it's possible to be.

There was one set I did in LA that really sticks out in my mind, though. I was at Lotus with Tyler and a bunch of other people. I chatted up the hottest girl in there, and she was head over heels. I had her feeding me sushi that some other guy bought, begging for my number while these tall modely guys begged for hers, and kissed her goodbye. Later I found out that she was a professional model and even had model trading cards that people bought and sold on ebay.

When I got home she had already left a message on my phone. We never ended up seeing each other because shortly after meeting her I got involved with Katya, but she was still calling me even after I moved back to Austin.

That set made it blatantly obvious that I COULD attract any girl. Before pickup, I would have assumed that she would have no interest in even talking to me. Now I walk around with the confidence that I can get any girl, which is a great feeling to have.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO NEWBIES STARTING OUT, IN ORDER TO GREATLY ACCELERATE THEIR LEARNING CURVE?

I could write a book here. Take a workshop, first of all. I was always too proud to take a workshop. I didn't need to spend money to get good. It's true - I didn't, but I would have gotten much better much faster if I had.

Now I'm fortunate enough to be friends with most of the seminar and workshop people, so I can sit in, but it's not the same. If I could go back and pay to have a real workshop, I'd do it. I had no idea how high quality these programs were (specifically Mystery, RSD, Pickup 101, and The Approach).

After you take your workshop, go out religiously. I taught with Mystery for a while, and the people who got good were the people who applied what they learned.

Also - dedicate your life to it. EVERYONE who has gotten very good has done this. It's equally important to take a step back later and see what's stuck with you. But in the beginning - dedicate your life to it.

I MOVED ACROSS THE COUNTRY to get involved. I had a house in Austin that I kept paying the mortgage on while I was in LA. I literally spent all of my savings on the deposit for my chunk of Project Hollywood and had no idea how I was going to pay the rent when I got there.

You're not going to get good starting out two nights a week on your own. It just won't happen. Surround yourself with people who are GREAT (not your fellow AFC friends who are also learning). Go out a lot.

Pickup is both the hardest skill you'll ever learn and the most important. Everyone I know who is any good will say it's the most important thing they've learned, because it applies to EVERYTHING, not just women. I have better relationships with friends, family, and business associates because of it. Do what it takes to get this.

WHAT'S YOUR BELIEF ON INNER GAME, AND HOW DID YOU IMPROVE IT?

Inner game is essential, especially as you get later in your game. Don't use it as an excuse, though. I see a lot of guys "working on their inner game" instead of going out. That's crap.

You improve your inner game by being in the field. What would have helped me more? 1000 affirmations saying "hot girls love me" or picking up that model and KNOWING that hot girls love me?

Learning pickup should be the process of amplifying who you are. You're not changing who you are. That's a mistake. You weed out your bad traits and amplify the good ones. Figure out what you like about yourself and what others like about yourself and make THAT be your core.

Habits that you want to kick and that are unattractive need to be minimized or eliminated.

The best way to cultivate a strong inner game is to be out in the field constantly while being hyper aware of everything you do and how it affects others. Every single thing you do or say will get a subtle reaction from everyone in the set. Take note of that.

DO YOU HAVE A PERSONAL FAVORITE FIELD REPORT (YOUR OWN) THAT YOU COULD RELAY?

It was the 2004 pickup summit that I organized (see how involved I got?), and everyone was there. More importantly, everyone was trying to show off.

Thundercat and Cristophe were talking to two girls of a three set. The last girl was facing away from the group and had the coldest body language I'd ever seen.

The One came up to me and pointed her out.

"Dude, that girl is really cold. Try talking to her."

It sounded like a challenge to me. PUAs from all over the world were watching, and I had a lot to prove since I had just moved to ProHo.

I walked up and started talking. She ignored me. I just stacked and stacked and stacked, totally unwilling to walk away as a failure. She didn't acknowledge my presence. In any other situation I would have given up long ago, but too many people were watching.

Finally I said something funny and I noticed that the corner of her mouth, the only part I could see, had broken into a slight smile.

"I caught you!" I said, "You've been sitting here being entertained this whole time while I stand here like an idiot? Forget this"

I started walking away, knowing that she would turn around.

"No wait!"

I turned and saw that she was smiling. She looked embarrassed. We started talking like normal, and she became attracted to me. Hey, who can blame her?

Thundercat, Cristophe, the three girls, and I walked to Mel's as I had gotten used to doing every night.

During dinner I tried to use a new lying game Style had taught me. Unfortunately I introduced it without really knowing how to follow up.

"Did you know that you can tell if someone's lying just by looking in their eyes?"

"Really, how? Ask me something and tell me if I'm lying or not"

Oops. That's not how this is supposed to go. I got an idea.

"Ok. Do you want to kiss me?"

"No."

"You're lying."

Really, was there anything else I could say? Kissing's always been my big sticking point, so I figured I might as well practice. She was cute.

"No I'm not."

It was a test. I could now tell that she was attracted.

"Yes you are. And now that you've lied to me, I'm NOT going to kiss you."

There was a pause.

"I'm sorry for lying! I didn't know what to say!"

I shrugged apologetically and kept eating. She apologized a couple more times, now very eager to kiss me.

On the way back up to the house I asked her why she was in a bad mood earlier. It was a guy.

Some guy had chatted her up. She didn't like him, but gave him her number in hopes that it would end the conversation.

It did, but then he called her every day until she finally answered. He badgered her into going on a date with her.

Then he badgered her into being his girlfriend.

She had broken up with him earlier that day and was calling her incessantly. That's why her phone was ringing every few minutes. I answered once and told him I was her new boyfriend and to stop calling. He was furious.

We got up to the house and laid down in the pillow pit. I made out with her, but it wasn't really appropriate. There were 20+ PUAs standing in the living room. Maybe that's why I did it.

It didn't seem to be going as well with Thundercat and Cristophe's girls (maybe they weren't interested in the girls, I dunno), so soon the girls left.

My girl and I called each other a few times, but suddenly she stopped calling back. Oh well.

More than six month later I was eating dinner with Mystery when he got a call from TD.

"Dude tell Herbal to answer his phone. Someone's going to call him."

Sure enough my phone rang. It was that girl. I let it go to voicemail for some reason and her message said :

"Hey Herbal! I'm so sorry I never called you back. I lost your number! I just met your friend Tyler and he used the same tricks on me that you used! We should hang out again! Call me!"

I was dating Katya at the time, so I never called her back. I like that set because I learned a lot. It shows how importance persistence is (both with her boyfriend and me). If I can turn around a set like THAT, I can turn around any set. I probably talked to her back for at least five minutes.

That's a long time when the other person is totally ignoring you.

WHAT IS YOUR CURRENT STICKING POINT (IF ANY)?

The biggest problem I have these days if finding girls I'm seriously interesting in pursuing.

As it's become easier to attract higher quality girls, my standards have gone up to match. How many beautiful girls do you know who are interesting and fun to be around, but don't drink or smoke?

Luckily I've got some ideas that I'll be putting into action soon for meeting women like that.

WHAT ARE YOU GOALS NOW WITHIN THE COMMUNITY, AND IN LIFE?

I don't really have any goals within the community now, other than to see my friends who are actively involved in it succeed.

In life I focus on constant improvement. I want my relationships to be better, my business to be better, and for my health to be better.

I was hanging out with JLaix in San Francisco last week and he told me that his goal was to gain proficiency in 10 new areas this year (or was it in six months?) I thought that was a great goal and I might borrow it.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Derek Rake - Deadly Seduction Manuscript
Alphahot1 - Alt Seduction Fast Posts

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Attraction Momentum By David Wygant

I have a concept, and it goes like this... There's a kind of build-up of attraction that happens when a man and a woman meet. You could say that the more attraction happens, the more attraction it creates. This process happens very differently for men than it does for women. For men, it can happen instantly, and be over instantly. For women, it tends to build up over time, and then go away over time. I call this concept: "ATTRACTION MOMENTUM."

Men are very visual and they are instantly attracted to a woman, sometimes so much so that they lose all sense of reality and their surroundings. Women are initially attracted to a man's looks, but beyond that something else is also happening. Women are also attracted to a man's energy, confidence, the tone of his voice, and the way he listens when they speak.

A woman's attraction to a man is complicated, while a man is overstimulated on the visual side like a giant Scooby Doo. To attract a man, a woman needs to be able to seduce his eyes with her sex appeal. To attract a woman, a man needs to intrigue and seduce her mind.

This is where men lose the connection. They tend to try to "wow" a woman in the same way they would go about trying to impress a fellow man.

Let me go further into this. A good woman friend once told me "The more a man speaks, the drier I get. I wish sometimes he would not say a word so I can remain turned on and attracted to him." This is the cold hard truth. Most men have no idea that in order to create attraction, they need to shut up and listen.

Men tend to try to close a woman by selling themselves to her. What happens in reality, however, is that the more they sell the less the attraction to them becomes. Men are what I call "wing flappers." They think that by trying to impress a woman with their life accomplishments, they will seduce her and attract her... which is far from the truth.

The key to attracting women and creating the "attraction momentum" is a 3 step process.

Step 1 is the initial approach. Women can see you coming from a mile away. They smell you, and if they are attracted to you they want you to approach them. But it is the way you approach that will cause the attraction momentum to either rise or fall.

Men that walk over immediately are ones who tend to be received well by women. Ask any woman what her feelings are about the way a man approaches, and she will tell you that if she hears the "Jaws" theme playing in her head she will lose any of the initial attraction that she was feeling. Most men tend to circle like sharks for hours before they approach, and by the time they finally do approach the woman is turned off by him.

What happens next, i.e., Step 2, is another attraction key that will either raise her level of interest or decrease the attraction.

Most men will talk at a woman with random thoughts. Men tend to speak in random circles... That works in the man world. Take the following example. Two men are sitting in a caf'e watching a game on TV. This is how a conversation would typically go:

MAN 1: "You hungry?"

MAN 2: "Yes."

MAN 1: "Wow! Did you see that throw?"

MAN 2: "Yes, that was great. Hey... Check her out!"

MAN 1: "Hot!"

MAN 2: "Yeah, really hot" So, how's work?"

MAN 1: "Good. Any you?"

MAN 2: "Good. What do you want to eat?"

MAN 1: "Sandwich maybe... Wow! Look at that play."

MAN 2: "Forget the play. Look at her!"

MAN 1: "Hot."

MAN 2: "Yeah, I think I want a sandwich too. Let's order."

So now that you've seen what "man talk" looks like, let's look at the conversation of two women in the same caf'e so you can understand how women react to each other and how they speak to one another.

WOMEN 1: "How was your date last night?"

WOMEN 2: "It was ok."

WOMEN 1: "Just ok? Why? What happened?"

WOMEN 2: "He was really funny, but..."

WOMEN 1: "But what?"

WOMEN 2: "He did something when the waitress came over that really made me think."

WOMEN 1: "What did he do? Was he checking her out?"

WOMEN 2: "I am not sure. I have been running it through my head, and I just can't get a reading on it."

WOMEN 1: "Details please! Let's figure this out..."

Do you see the difference? Women get deeper in one conversation, while men talk in random circles eventually getting back to the original conversation.

So now you can see how attraction momentum works. Men need to learn the trigger points in women... how they think, how they react, and how they speak. Most men will talk to a woman in "man talk" and when they do, they will cause the attraction momentum to go down instead of up.

For every woman that is sitting in a caf'e reading the newspaper, there is a man thinking that he can just walk over to her with some canned line and a few follow-up questions. Men believe that there is an approach that will work in all situations, or that there are custom approaches that will work regardless of what she says. It's that mindset that kills all attraction for women, yet men think that there is some magic approach that will work in all situations.

Men will actually spend time looking for someone who can give them that answer, that "magic approach," so they will be attractive to all women in all situations. Men will use an approach over and over, memorizing it so they can perform it in front of a woman. The truth is that women are looking to connect with a man... not to watch a one man show.

That alone will kill the attraction momentum for women. Women are present in the moment whereas men think about what they have to say.

So let's see how the attraction momentum is killed in a caf'e... and this is after a woman has smiled and checked out the man.

MAN: "Can I borrow a section of your paper?"

WOMAN: "Yes, you can."

MAN: "Are you having a good day?"

WOMAN: "Yes I am... but this story about Iraq is really disturbing."

MAN: "Do you live here?"

WOMAN: "Yes... around the corner. I love this area."

MAN: "What do you do for work?"

See, a man walks over and he has these predetermined questions that he wants to ask her already in his mind. And not once did he pick up on anything that she was saying, which in turn is causing the attraction momentum to go down as each word comes out of his mouth. Because they don't listen, men tend to kill the attraction once they open their mouths. Step 3, therefore, is to remain present in the moment and to listen to what a woman is saying.

There are also many other ways a man can kill attraction.

Another way that a man kills the attraction momentum is when he looks at a woman like a desperate, hungry wolf staring at its next meal. Or when he's out with a hungry testosterone-laden wolf pack, he will poke a friend five times before talking to a woman. Women don't communicate like hungry wolves about to eat a meal.

Women communicate in a whole different language. When they look at a man, they admire a man. They don't look at him like he's about to be put on the grill.

Women like to be looked at a certain way in order to build attraction. By looking at a woman with a very seductive, sexy, George Clooney smile, you will be able to turn her on in ways you've never imagined! In order for attraction to build in a woman, you need to do it slowly and seductively. You also need to jump into her head and start a conversation based on thoughts she's already having. So... how do yo do this?

First, you need to observe what she's doing so you can jump into her head when you talk to her. This way, the conversation is based on something she's already feeling or doing so it's natural. Most men will walk over to a woman and do the exact opposite like the example above. In a second, I am going to show you a conversation that you can have anywhere that will get you to bond with a woman and create far greater attraction than you've ever had before.

The second tip before we go through that conversation, is to keep present in the moment so that the conversation is just an extension of her thoughts. If what you say is an extension of her thoughts, she won't even realize what's happening. She won't have her defenses up, and by doing this you will be bonding with her about the things she's already thinking.

The third, and most important, thing that makes the attraction meter go up instead of down, is to listen and to react to what she is saying. In my earlier example, I talked about two women and how they have a conversation. Women start on a subject and then go deeper into it, creating a bond between them. That is the exact type of bond you need to create with a woman in order to cause the attraction to rise instead of fall.

Most guys when they approach a woman, create a whole new feeling, thought and conversation. Take, for example, a woman who might be eating a peach at a farmer's market. A typical guy will walk over and ask her a question about the weather, instead of picking the obvious thing like I'm about to show you.

Let's take the peach example. You see a woman eating a juicy peach at a farmer's market. So how do you come across as the confident male instead of the bumbling guy that has nothing to say? The first step you've already done, i.e., observed what she's doing. The second step is to walk over immediately. Walk over with authority and confidence. When you approach her, be playful and say:

MAN: "That looks great. Can I have a bite?"

WOMAN: "I don't know... I don't know if I'm in the mood to share today."

MAN: "What, you don't like to share?"

WOMAN: "I love to share, but I don't even know you."

MAN: "What do you need to know in order for me to get a bite of that peach?"

WOMAN: "Well, we could start with your name."

MAN: "So all I need to do is tell you my name, and I'll get a bite of that peach?"

WOMAN: "Maybe..."

MAN: "I'll tell you what. Take me to where you got that peach and I'll get my own.

Then we'll compare and see who got the better peach. We'll go bite for bite."

WOMAN: "You're on...I'll go bite for bite. I believe in my peach."

MAN: "What else do you believe in?"

At this point you've now segued away from the peach, and opened the door to her sharing her thoughts with you. You've also been very playful and you've challenged her. You've turned a simple approach into a fun game. Plus the game was all about something she was already doing. Most men fail to create attraction because they talk in random thoughts, which is not "woman talk." I have found in coaching thousands of women over the last 10 years that the only way to build attraction in a woman is to bond with her in the moment and jump inside her head.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Reef Styles - How To Attract Online Women In Easy Way
Sebastian Low - Attract Women Now
Adam Gilad - Interview With David Wygant

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Best Strip Songs For Women

You may be with the love of your life or with a summer fling; Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now. Either way, sometimes things can get a little boring in the bedroom. There is nothing unusual or wrong about this and no one is to blame. Unless, of course, you don't do anything about it.

Take back your sex life, ladies! Throw a little spice into the boring sexual stew. Men are often lazy and get into habits easily. It's one of the things we love about them, but it makes them less inclined to think of ways to put the spark back into something they probably don't see the problem with (*sigh* men).

Instead of trading your lackaday lover in for a more energetic model, see what can be salvaged with one of the oldest tricks in the books. And use the best strip songs to do it.

The striptease.

You don't need 5-inch heels and a push-up bra to make an alluring dance (although they do wonders for the body), and you certainly don't need to install a pole in your bedroom (explain that one to your mom).

Find below a wide variety of songs that it's really fun to take your clothes off to. All songs have been tested on a sample group of red-blooded males. All males were unable to stand, speak, or otherwise interact with anyone or anything afterwards. (As it was a test performance, there was no sex to follow. Poor boys!)

BEST STRIP SONGS #1

POUR SOME SUGAR ON ME

DEF LEPPARD

While I generally like to avoid clich'es, I could not possibly write this list without including the #1 stripper anthem of all time. Pounding beat, screaming guitar, suggestive lyrics, and best of all - the chance to toss confectionary at your lover.

Just hearing this song (anywhere) makes you want to take off your clothes and hump the floor. Okay, maybe that's just me, but listen to it. Can't you feel your knees bending, your hips gyrating, your heels smacking the floor?

SUGGESTIONS: As this is a more classical "stripper" song - go with it. Whip out the bikini top and tear-away track pants. Have your man sitting in a chair watching you. Work the sleaze. Hell, dance on a table if you've got the space for it.

BEST STRIP SONGS #2

PATRICIA THE STRIPPER

CHRIS DE BURGH

Deliciously retro with a good balance between slow, swingy piano (excellent for some hip action) and faster (still swingy) dirty lyrics. The narrative gives you an excellent chance to act a little, find your inner diva.

Tell him a story while you drop your drawers. There's a hint of burlesque in this song as well, and the de Burgh has such enthusiasm, you won't be able to resist going wild.

SUGGESTIONS: Really get into the 1920s feel with this hair tutorial. Also, the more you have to take off for this song, the better. Remember to swing those hips!

BEST STRIP SONGS #3

I TOUCH MYSELF

DIVINYLS

For the woman with a sense of humor and a whole lot of confidence in her sexuality, you can take this breezy, naughty song just about anywhere. You want big arm movements, lots of boob shaking, and of course - a little naughty touching!

Try to keep Austin Powers out of your mind because as you energetically disrobe to this little number, it won't be on your man's mind at all. Or just pretend to be a fembot.

SUGGESTIONS: Dig through your wardrobe to find your old '80s gear (admit it - you have it). Old prom dress? I think so. Leg warmers and a huge sweatshirt? Why not? It's coming off anyway.

BEST STRIP SONGS #4

NOBODY LOVES ME

PORTISHEAD

This has a mid-'80s, casino and under the table deal kind of feel to it. Think long flowing movements with your graceful body, whirling your chest and hips in slow circles, unfurling layers of scarves and skirts while swaying side to side.

You can get some props involved in this, too, peeking from behind a closet door, or over the back of a tall-backed chair.

SUGGESTIONS: Whenever the singers says "not like you do" you have a perfect opportunity to feel up your man a little, wrapping one of those scarves around his neck.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Ken Lingu - Erotic Massage For Women
Louise Andree Saulnier - The Yoni Massage For Women
Dr Dennis Neder - Getting Women

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Love Marriage How To Make It Successful

Love marriage is also a marriage where two people get married without any past family affair or knowledge. Generally, these kinds of marriages happen due to mutual love, affection, commitment, and attraction. In normal marriages, parents of groom and bride come together and set up a new relationship. In love marriage, bride and groom first meet each other then they get married. Such marriages are getting more popular day-by day.

Love marriage has its own advantages and disadvantages. However, due to maximum advantages people are getting attracted towards it. In this marriage, both girl and boy get equal opportunity to know each other. They spend sometime together. According to few people, it is a best way to search a perfect partner. Even, if you don't face any trouble like other people who got married through arrange marriage. Once get married, you can not leave your partner at any cost.

On the other hand, love marriage gives you a option to know everything about the partner before marriage. You can end the relationship in case you find something wrong in partner.

Love marriage is also a marriage where two people get married without any past family affair or knowledge. Generally, these kinds of marriages happen due to mutual love, affection, commitment, and attraction. In normal marriages, parents of groom and bride come together and set up a new relationship. In love marriage, bride and groom first meet each other then they get married. Such marriages are getting more popular day-by day.

Love marriage has its own advantages and disadvantages. However, due to maximum advantages people are getting attracted towards it. In this marriage, both girl and boy get equal opportunity to know each other. They spend sometime together. According to few people, it is a best way to search a perfect partner. Even, if you don't face any trouble like other people who got married through arrange marriage. Once get married, you can not leave your partner at any cost.

On the other hand, love marriage gives you a option to know everything about the partner before marriage. You can end the relationship in case you find something wrong in partner.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Niovi Moore - Top 5 Marriage Sex Mistakes
Angel - Life Mapping A Vision Of Success

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Google Him

Come on, you know you want to. You know your girlfriends all do it too. So, if you have yet to Google that new cutie you're dating, I'm pretty surprised. You would think I'd be embarrassed to admit this, but I am the QUEEN of searching men online. Back in my early college days, before Facebook (the ultimate stalker tool) was launched, I was finding out all I could about the guys I had crushes on with the help of search engines and my creative (ok, slightly creepy) mind. I even figured out via Mapquest just how long it would take to get to a certain football player from Ohio's hometown with the info on his college football page. Yes, I'm just that good. I'm probably embarrassing my friends for admitting this on my blog, but they are usually thankful for my skills! I've recently discovered People Finders for info on just how old that guy from the bar Thursday night really is. I may be scaring some of the men reading this, but I bet some of them do it too. Why wouldn't they want to see photos of you from a party on Facebook or learn about your philanthropy work? For safety reasons (but more because I'm nosy) I always see what I can find out about a new guy online before a first date. My mom always told me to "use my resources", so why not apply that to what's available to me on the internet? I think it would be silly not to at least do a little search...

So, how many of you Google guys you've met? xo

Suggested free e-books to read:

Michael Hall - Change History
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Dating For Free By Showing Yourself Off

You have probably heard that you need to be more confident and show off your best qualities if you want to attract more women. That's all well and good, but it begs an important question: how exactly do you do that? And how will it help you get more women and improve your overall life?

As far as I am concerned, there is no doubt that having a fulfilling lifestyle is a powerful way to be an attractive person. A lot of dating advice focuses far too much attention on how to make cold approaches. For most guys, this actually slows down their success and makes it a lot more difficult for them to date really beautiful women or have the women who they want in their lives.

You will experience so many benefits if you focus on your lifestyle instead. You will find that girls will start to enter your life naturally. Your dating life will go on auto pilot. You won't have to think about it or even exert any energy. Women will be drawn into your life because you will automatically be attractive to them.

The big benefit with all of this is that you become the prize. Most guys go through their life believing the opposite. They work on themselves because they see the girls who they like as prizes which they need to win somehow. But when you sort your lifestyle out, you become the magical carpet ride. Girls will know that you are going to take them to exciting places when they spend time with you. Life will always be an adventure when they are with you. Do you know how appealing that is to women? Why do you think there are so many girls who cheat on their partners?

Let me share a great example of the benefits of building an attractive lifestyle. I have a friend called James who is a Capoeira dancer. Capoeira is a mix between dancing and very deliberate martial art movements. When James goes out to clubs he is amazing with women. He basically has his pick, and he does not have to make a single approach. All he has to do is be himself and women will pay attention to him. Just by doing what he loves, which is Capoeira and performing, he will get women to notice him. They can see that he has something going on in his life that he is passionate about. He also has an incredible social circle, so he comes with social proof.

Picking up women is a lot of fun. Going out with like-minded people who share the same purpose can be very enjoyable. But let me tell you, when you start playing the game at the level that James is, it's a whole new kind of fun. It is deeply satisfying because every part of your life is in alignment. Your lifestyle brings more women into your life, and bringing more women into your life supports your lifestyle. Come on, guys! It's time to level up!

Suggested free e-books to read:

Alphahot1 - Seduction Trends The Myth Of Just Being Yourself
David Deangelo - Double Your Dating How To Change Yourself
Elena Petrova - Dating Advice For The Newly Single

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Build An Instant Attraction With Online Dating Tips

Today, we are going to discuss about the dating tips while dating with beautiful women. It is not a difficult task to handle women but can be tough if you will not follow these conditions:

LOOK GOOD Every boy wants to walk or talk with a beautiful girl, then how can you expect a girl would love to talk with a simple boy. It doesn't mean that you should drop the idea about dating. Always try to look good. Looking good is not all about good clothes or perfumes but it is also related with the right attitude.

DONT LIE It is a big turn off. It is advisable that you should never lie in front of your date especially when she knows you much better. A truth is always better than various lies. Girls like honest people.

SENSE OF HUMOR Nobody likes to waste his/her time with a boring person. You have no right to date with any girl if you can not make her laugh. Everybody loves to smile. You can win the half battle if you can make her laugh even if she doesn't want to.

After following these easy dating tips you can date with any girl without any problem.

Suggested free e-books to read:

Elena Petrova - The Golden Rules Of Online Dating
Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman

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Seduction Community Local Sample Of Puas

Last night i was teaching seminar on "meeting women anywhere" for Learning Annex (skill based magazine that offers seminars), i have done a number of seminars for them in the past year. Normally the crowd is unfamiliar with PUA concept, but every seminar i ask, how many of you have read pick up materials? and out of 15-20 people, maybe 2-3 will raise hand. Last night i got about 60% raised hands. And one guys actually pulled out a copy of "The Game" to show to the uninitiated ones what it is all about.

On its own it could have been just a coincidence, but still felt a bit unusual that more then half knew about pua community. At the seminar, guys were ready to learn and make changes to their approach, because they were frustrated with not knowing what to do. Range went from early 30s to early 50s.

One of my readers brought up a point recently, that guys dont stick around the community, they move on to better pastures. I find this misleading, i think guys do stick with community, might be on their own, but they will be looking for new information and hoping that some better material will come along that will help them (a bit like magic). They might not comes to lair meetings or send emails, but they are watching. There is really one and only reason for it, There are NO better pastures. They either learn to meet and date women or they don't. Its not about leaving, because there is no where to go. Guys might lay low for a while, until the next bad date or girl misbehaving, and then they will make the next foray into the pua world, to find material or coaching appropriate for them. What we have is industry that CANT go away. Period. There is a need for it, and i might agree or disagree with specific tactics or mind sets of puas, but overall i think it is like a breath of fresh air, in the dating world where nice guys are treated like shit, and worst part, those guys don't know why it happens.

The reason why i think pua community will be huge is pure and simple: Biology, you either learn to date or you don't, and sure some will give up completely. But most will want to do something about the issue of dating. Guy might get out of dating world for few years, but he will be back, because you cant fight nature. We got genes, and there are 4 things we need for survival: Food, Shelter, Health, Sex. Show me one guy who says that he doesn't need sex, and i will show you one liar. If we do get sex, then we want to get sex with better quality women.

Thats why guys don't leave community, they might get away from it from a while, but they wont leave it.

Recent example: Few month ago i got a phone call. I picked up and voice on the other line says, can i speak to Art? It turns out he was one of my clients from 3 years ago and he found happy relationship for few years, but now back on the market and he have encountered some block in meeting/dating, that he wanted the help with.

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Suggested free e-books to read:

Cr James - Seduction Formula
Maurice Alpheus Bigelow - Sex Education A Series Of Lectures
Dave Riker - Speed Seduction Technical Manual

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So, how many of you Google guys you've met? xo

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